Bussin' With The Boys – We Received Our First Hate Mail & The Boys Prepare for Snowmageddon | For The Dads

Release Date: January 21, 2026

Hosts: Willie One Shelf (Will Compton) & Sherman Young
(Context: This is the “For The Dads” spinoff—an honest, comedic podcast about fatherhood from two NFL dads. Aimed at building a community for dads to share real wins, failures, tips, and general dad energy.)

Overview

This episode, the Boys dive deep into the emotional highs and lows of fatherhood, tackling heavy feelings around watching kids grow up, managing expectations, and learning from everyday dad mistakes. They run through hilarious dad “misses,” feature shout-outs from listeners, address their very first piece of hate mail, and prepare for the Nashville snowmageddon with classic dad tactics and advice. The episode blends heartfelt storytelling, real dad struggles, community engagement, and signature self-deprecating humor.

Key Discussion Points & Timestamps

1. Corrections from Last Week & Dad Storytelling Woes

[04:10–07:49]

• Will reflects on an erroneous detail from his previous episode (his daughter Rue’s age during a medical scare). His wife quickly corrected him, illustrating the all-too-relatable dynamic of dad storytelling and “dad brain.”
• Quote (Will): “All dads know they do their best on telling stories... then their wife comes into the room: ‘He said this? That’s not what happened at all!’” [06:46]
• The hosts joke about routinely getting kids’ ages and milestone dates wrong.

2. Building a Dad Community & Show Growth

[03:12–04:11; 11:32–12:35]

• The podcast community is growing across platforms (Instagram, Facebook), and the show encourages dads and even moms (“Milk Team 6”) to get involved by calling in or writing with stories, tips, and shout-outs.
• Listeners featured on the show get free merch—a signature way to reward participation.
• Notable Moment: Active engagement from both dads and moms; wives write in to shout out their spouses, and competition over missed birthday shout-outs gets a tongue-in-cheek apology.

3. The Hardest Part of Parenthood

[17:03–32:07]

• Will and Sherman read listener messages answering “what’s the hardest part of being a parent?”
  • Caleb Gross: The bittersweet pain and joy of watching kids grow up.
  • Donny Maz: The insecurity of not knowing if you’re “doing it right.”
  • Alex Briscolino: The heartbreak and pride in watching milestones pass.
• The hosts share intimate moments about parenting—being sad as their daughters hit milestones, re: Will with Rue’s birthday discussion.
• Quote (Will): “It’s the best thing and the hardest thing at the same time. You want them to stay little forever but you are setting them up and teaching them to be their own little person.” [17:14]
• Sherman notes even tiny changes (like his daughter’s hair growing) evoke a mix of pride and sadness.

4. Music, Country Songs, and Dad Tears

[24:40–27:32]

• They discuss how “don’t grow up” country songs now hit different (“Father and Sons” by Luke Combs, Post Malone’s song for his daughter).
• Both admit to crying more as dads than ever before.
• Quote (Sherm): “I feel like I cry at least once a week, if you add up the average throughout a year.” [26:33]

5. Community Q&A & Real-life Dad Hacks

[38:13–41:41]; [86:47–101:49]

• Listeners share both struggles (coping with a childhood diagnosis, parenting through loss, adjusting to a new baby).
• Dad hacks from the community: emergency date night funds, snack baskets for pumping moms, swaddling tips from YouTube, always being prepared with a diaper bag and ointments.
• Emerging dad themes: constant doubt, need for self-care, and the emotional benefit of connecting with other parents.

6. Voicemails & Hotline Gems

[89:39–93:39; 94:23–100:53]

• Voicemails welcomed—with Andy from Texas (or possibly Arkansas/Oklahoma) giving his pro tip: When you don’t know the right questions for daycare/nanny interviews, just google “questions to ask as a parent.”

• Quote (Andy, Voicemail): “Before you go in, give it a quick Google—you look like a hero to your wife.” [91:05]

• Another Voicemail (V): “What’s the stuff that really threw you for a curveball?”—leading to a rapid-fire list of new dad skills: preparing diaper bags, cleaning pump parts, supporting postpartum moms, swaddling, and rocking baby.

7. Snowmageddon Prep – Dad Level 10

[62:48–70:41]

• With a massive Nashville snowstorm forecast, the Boys give a full “dad survival kit” rundown:

  • Sled types, making snowmen (remember the carrot nose!), stocking chili ingredients, gathering firewood, winterizing pipes, and preparing to be snowed in.
  • Quote (Will): “You want to be a thermostat, not a thermometer... We can’t control the weather. We control how we respond.” [63:25]

• Sled debate: plastic saucers vs. classic wooden sleds—Sherman pushes for the “old-school” for max thrills (with safety cautions).

8. Listener & Wifey Shout-Outs

[53:51–56:43; 108:09–113:43]

• Multiple heartwarming shout-outs to new dads, dads overcoming adversity, and wives submitting loving testimonials (notably, the birthday shoutout for Tyler Wright from Nebraska).
• Contestation over missed shout-outs is handled with humility and humor.

9. Hate Mail & Show Self-awareness

[41:16–45:25]

• The first-ever piece of hate mail calls the podcast: “One Star Podcast. Go back to the drawing board, guys. It’s like dumb Call of Duty sport betting bro talk goes ‘well, I’m a dad now.’”
• The hosts take it in stride, laughing and agreeing their show is self-aware dad “bro talk”—making fun of themselves while noting the community isn’t for everyone.
• Quote (Sherm): “He kind of nailed his summary of our podcast... If we nailed what he thinks we are, why isn’t that a five-star podcast?” [41:59–44:12]

10. Merch Drops, Valentine’s Advice, and Dad Survival Kits

[09:41–12:35]; [85:01–85:40]

• New dad/Valentine’s-themed merch announced (“You’re My Forever Rodeo”), pushing for dads to think ahead for Valentine’s Day.
• Ollipop sponsored segment, including tips for getting reimbursed for purchasing their non-alcoholic sodas—becoming a humorous recurring “dad juice.”
• Survival dad gear tips (KT tape for Will’s back ahead of moving).

11. Calls for Self-care & Maintaining Identity

[102:35–106:20]

• Max from Wisconsin calls in, hitting on the importance of regular “parent happy hours” and not losing your adult identity.
• Quote (Max): “Sometimes as parents, we forget about the outside world... but having friends that relate brings you back to Earth.”

12. Closing Lessons & Quotes

[114:28–116:19]

• Dan Gable Quote (Will):
  "Gold medals aren’t really made of gold. They’re made of sweat, determination, and a hard-to-find alloy called guts."*
• Sherman’s Lesson: Use commute time to connect with old friends and family—staying in touch with loved ones is grounding as a new parent.

Notable Quotes & Moments (with Timestamps)

• Will, on Dad Storytelling:
  “I wasn’t trying to exaggerate the story... but all dads know they do their best on telling stories. Then their wife comes in: ‘That’s not what happened at all.’” [06:46]
• On Growing Up:
  “It’s the best thing and the hardest thing at the same time. You want them to stay little forever, but you are setting them up and teaching them to be their own little person.” [17:14]
• On Self-care:
  (Max) “Happy hour might not look the same as it used to... but I think as a parent we appreciate the time with other parents and it’s worth it.” [103:03]
• Taking Hate Mail in Stride:
  “He kind of nailed his summary... if we nailed what he thinks we are, why isn’t that a five-star podcast?” [42:00/44:12]
• Key Dad Hack:
  (Andy) “Before you go in [on daycare tours], give it a quick Google. You look like a hero to your wife.” [91:05]
• On Controlling the Chaos:
  “You want to be a thermostat, not a thermometer... We can’t control the weather. We control how we respond.” [63:25]

Episode Flow & Tone

• The episode is heavily conversational, blending depth and humor throughout.
• Both hosts demonstrate vulnerability, sharing very real anxieties and admitting their non-expertise, while balancing dad jokes, practical advice, and occasional “bro” detours (video games, sports).
• Listener engagement is at the heart, with genuine gratitude for emails, voicemails, and a community-driven atmosphere; even hate mail becomes a running gag.

Additional Dad Tips & Hacks Offered

• Start date-night/emergency funds for relationship survival.
• Master five basics for newborns: swaddling, feeding, sleeping, diaper changes, and snot-sucking (get the right gear!).
• Get gear for snow days: classic sleds, snowman supplies, chili/firewood, winterize your home.
• Stay grounded: call friends/family during mindless tasks or commutes.
• Snack baskets for pumping moms, flowers for hard-working wives, plan ahead for Valentine’s.
• Let kids learn the hard way with outdoor clothes (“go outside and see how cold that dress is!”).

Closing Call

• Final shoutouts, apologies for missed birthdays, and a “Dan Gable Quote of the Week.”
• Community poll drama over peach vs. beach emoji in the comments becomes an ongoing inside joke.

For Listeners Who Haven’t Tuned In:

If you’re a dad (or mom) looking for a heartfelt, often hilarious, always honest take on real parenthood—complete with practical tips, listener camaraderie, and humility—this episode is gold. Whether you’re coping with the emotional changes of watching your kids grow up or just want solidarity in your dad fails, For The Dads brings community, laughter, and a whole lot of guts.

Engage with the Show:

• Leave voicemails: 601-THE-DADS
• Write in with your stories/tips for a shot at free merch and on-air shout-outs.
• “Be a thermostat, not a thermometer.”

“Gold medals aren't really made of gold. They're made of sweat, determination, and a hard-to-find alloy called guts.” – Dan Gable [115:10]