Podcast Summary: Call Her Creator with Katelyn Rhoades
Episode: How to Rewrite Your Story: Healing, Forgiveness, and Reinvention with Riana Malia
Date: October 8, 2025
Host: Katelyn Rhoades
Guest: Riana Malia, Speaker, Author, and Reinvention Strategist

Episode Overview

In this heartfelt and transformative episode, Katelyn sits down with Riana Malia to explore how high-achieving women can heal from deep pain and emotional patterns, moving from confusion and burnout to brilliance and authentic creation. Riana shares her personal story of adversity, betrayal, and ultimate renewal, and introduces her frameworks—the Clear to Create method and the Quantum Pattern Protocol—for true subconscious healing and life reinvention. Together, they discuss why traditional approaches often fall short, the power of alchemical forgiveness (forgiving without condoning), and the actionable steps women can take to rewrite their story and reclaim their lives.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Riana’s Founder Story – Overcoming Betrayal & Redefining Worth

• (01:44 – 18:45)
  • Raised by a single mother, Riana’s father was absent; her grandparents were her anchors.
  • College hardships: Riana’s father promised financial support, but defaulted, leading her to become self-reliant early on.
  • Early marriage out of fear of being unlovable: “You don’t know who you are at 23. My baby girl…is a baby—you don’t get married!” (04:35)
  • A “miracle child” and a painful divorce left emotional wounds. Therapy and self-help books helped but didn’t heal underlying pain.
  • A move to California, enticed by her father’s promises, led to devastating betrayal—a federal investigation and family fallout.
  • Years of shame, anger, and survival followed until Riana discovered transformative modalities that finally enabled healing and forgiveness.

Notable Quote:
“If you want a different story, you have to stop telling the old one.”
— Riana Malia (13:50)

2. The Clear to Create Method & Quantum Pattern Protocol

• (13:51 – 22:10)

  • Riana’s frameworks are built for high-achieving, heart-led women seeking clarity, confidence, and genuine relationships.

  • Her Quantum Pattern Protocol is a 3-part process:

    • Clear: Identify and detach from limiting beliefs, pain, and patterns.
    • Create: Replace old patterns with new, aligned neurology and ways of being.
    • Claim: Integrate and embody new self-trust, boundaries, and joy.

  • Key Insight:

    • “We have to clear the cycles to create the confidence… We have to clear the patterns to create the partnerships.” (13:54)
    • True clarity is essential: “You get what you order, not what you want. That’s why clarity is so important.” (16:33)

3. The Role of Forgiveness in Healing

• (19:29 – 21:49)
  • Riana introduces the concept of “alchemical forgiveness”—forgiving not for the other’s sake, but for your own freedom.
  • The process doesn’t require confronting the person who hurt you: “He doesn’t get a seat at the table. He doesn’t get access to us.” (11:50)
  • The work is focused on subconscious healing, not repeatedly retelling painful stories.
  • “There’s a difference of standing in your story and on it. I can talk about this today with no tears and no pain, because I’m standing on it now.” (21:41)

4. How Trauma Affects Success & Relationships

• (22:09 – 26:54)
  • The unconscious mind stores trauma and pain on a cellular level.
  • “Quantum Time Release” is Riana’s preferred tool to clear and transmute emotional baggage—quickly, deeply, and painlessly.
  • Once the “clutter” is cleared, new goals, relationships, wealth, and self-love can materialize.
  • “If you blow out all the old stuff, you have to replace it. That’s why it’s the missing piece.” (24:41)

5. Signs You’re Ready for Healing & Reinvention

• (26:54 – 27:50)
  • Repeating life, relationship, or work patterns.
  • Deep, restless sense that you’re meant for more.
  • “If you could have figured it out on your own, you would have done it already. This isn’t about fixing you—it’s about clearing what isn’t yours anymore.” (27:41)

6. How to Work with Riana Malia

• (27:50 – End)
  • Riana offers a free consult for listeners and introduces the Extraordinary Love Index (ELI), a 40-question diagnostic for self-reflection and growth.
    • “It’s not just about romantic love. It’s self-love. It’s all of it.” (28:35)
  • All resources and contact: rihannamalia.com and @rihannamalia on Instagram and Facebook.

Notable Quotes

• On Becoming Who You’re Meant to Be:
  “Whether we’ve been besties for 50 years or we met at Starbucks yesterday, I want you to live your version of your very best life.” (12:25)

• On Subconscious Healing:
  “Everything we experience is stored in the body…Quantum Time Release lets you let go of all that, so you can actually bring in what’s meant for you.” (23:15)

• On The Power of Clarity:
  “The difference between getting a Caesar salad and an arugula salad with goat cheese and figs is about clarity—name what you want.” (16:33)

• On Legacy:
  “When you claim it, you own it, you integrate it, and you embody it—this is where you fully fall in love with yourself again. That’s the legacy.” (26:41)

Timestamps for Important Segments

| Segment | Topic / Highlight | |---------------------------------------- |--------------------------------------------------------------------------| | 01:44 – 08:08 | Riana’s childhood, college struggle, early marriage/divorce | | 08:08 – 11:01 | Cross-country move, betrayal, and family trauma | | 11:01 – 13:51 | The turning point: true healing begins, introduction to modalities | | 13:51 – 16:33 | The Clear to Create Method and importance of clarity | | 16:33 – 18:45 | Creating new relationships, second chance at love | | 19:29 – 21:49 | Forgiveness: clearing, not condoning | | 22:09 – 26:54 | How trauma lives in the body, clearing techniques, replacing neurology | | 26:54 – 27:50 | Signs you need to clear old stories | | 27:50 – 29:23 | Resources, Extraordinary Love Index, invitations to work with Riana |

Memorable Moments

• Katelyn tears up as Riana describes healing (“You had tears in my eyes at one point in all of this.” (18:56)) and shares parallels in her own story with an estranged father.
• Riana’s metaphor for clarity using restaurant orders: “You get what you order, not what you want.” (16:33)
• Rapid, paradigm-shifting results: “The great thing is, this doesn’t take years. It takes weeks.” (30:22)
• Riana’s generosity: Free diagnostic interview and love letter series for listeners.

Final Takeaways

• True healing and reinvention require clearing (not clinging to) old stories, not just analyzing them.
• Alchemical forgiveness means releasing another’s hold on your emotions, reclaiming personal agency, without needing outside validation or reconciliation.
• High-achieving women often repeat patterns because subconscious beliefs are left unchallenged—Riana’s methods provide a path beyond.
• Clarity is both a process and an outcome: know deeply what you want to call it in.
• Riana’s Extraordinary Love Index is available as a powerful next step for listeners.

Connect with Riana Malia:

• Website & Diagnostic: rihannamalia.com
• Instagram: @rihannamalia
• Facebook, LinkedIn, YouTube: @rihannamalia

Host: @thekatelynrhoades

For further resources, or to access the diagnostic and book a call with Riana, visit the episode show notes.