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Dan Senor
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Rachel Goldberg Polin
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The majority of the Jews who have a foot in both worlds, they have Hellenized, they have modernized and they have Shabbat dinner and they keep a kosher home and they send their kids to Hebrew school. They need to finally take a stand because the people, people persecuting them, the Seleucids aren't saying you could do both. You actually have to decide. Do you take a toga and a scoop of spanakopita or do you take a Torah and a scoop of schmaltz? You need to decide who you are.
Dan Senor
It's 4:30pm on Sunday, December 7th here in New York City. It's 11:30pm On Sunday, December 7th in Israel, where Israelis are winding down their day. Today, Sunday, German Chancellor Mears landed in Israel, marking his first official visit to Israel. As Chancellor Mears met with Prime Minister Netanyahu in Jerusalem, after which the two leaders gave a joint press conference. Speaking beside the chancellor, Netanyahu told the press that he expects phase two of the Gaza ceasefire to begin soon and adding that he would discuss the matter with President Trump when they meet at the White House later this month. Meanwhile, there now remains one fallen hostage in Gaza. That is 24 year old Master Sergeant Ron Vili, who fought terrorists on October 7th at Kibbutz Al Umim and was killed in battle. The hostage Family Forum is demanding that the government not transition to phase two of the Gaza ceasefire before we see Iran's return to Israel. In the same press conference, Netanyahu also told reporters that he is not willing to retire from politics in exchange for a pardon, which he has requested from President Herzog. In other news, in a much anticipated decision on Friday, the European Broadcasting Union voted to allow Israel to compete in Eurovision 2026. However, following the announcement, Spain, Ireland and the Netherlands withdrew from the competition in protest of Israel's participation. And this coming week, the head of the Mossad and a senior official from Qatar will be meeting with U.S. officials. This will be a meeting convened by Steve Witkoff in New York City. It is part of the new trilateral mechanism that was set up following Israel's strike at Hamas in Doha this past September. Now onto today's episode. On Monday, we will be exactly one week from the beginning of Hanukkah. In keeping with the call me back tradition around many Jewish holidays, we turn to Jewish educator and longtime friend Rachel Goldberg Polin. Rachel and I in this conversation discuss the timeless meaning of the Hanukkah story and how its lessons apply to the uncertainty the promise and the peril of Jewish life today. Rachel Goldberg, Poland on Toga or Torah. But before our conversation with Rachel, a word from our sponsor. Across generations, Jews are searching for more ways to live Jewish lives. To celebrate, connect and belong, UJA Federation of New York is helping to meet that moment, investing in the next chapter of Jewish life. Through its new day school tuition Fund, UGA is helping make Jewish education more affordable for New York families, an issue I'm especially passionate about. It's strengthening Jewish spaces from JCCs and synagogues to college campuses so everyone has a place to learn, gather and speak proudly as Jews. When others try to silence Jewish voices, UJA helps them grow stronger with pride, visibility and connection. Because UJA Federation of New York believes Jewish life is strongest when we live it together, your support can make a real difference. Please visit uja.org or follow the link in the show Notes to stand with UJA and I'm pleased to welcome back to the podcast My Short Term Nemesis, Rachel Goldberg, Poland the reason listeners may be wondering why I'm calling Rachel my short term nemesis. It's not because we're in a fight. Why did you suggest earlier that I call you my short term nemesis only.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Because we joke with each other? That I unfortunately had joked with you the very first time that we met, that every time I would listen to one of your podcasts you always were introducing people as your longtime friend. And I thought, my gosh, this guy only has longtime friends. Which is actually a real blessing that that's the case.
Dan Senor
But you also thought I was cheapening the term.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
I thought it diluted it, but I was sort of joking. You took it seriously. And then every time we started we had banter about that. So today I said to you, why don't you introduce me as your short time nemesis instead of your longtime friend?
Dan Senor
So Rachel, let's jump into it. We are doing today's episode and having this conversation in the merit of Ron.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Ben Tali Vaytsik, Ron Gvili, whose body we are anxiously praying for constantly and.
Dan Senor
Just for our listeners who haven't heard one of our conversations before, yours and mine, when we do holidays, around the hagim, around the holidays, the origin of having conversations in the merit of living hostages, deceased hostages is what?
Rachel Goldberg Polin
In a nutshell, there's a tradition in Judaism that sometimes we do different acts in the hope and prayer that it will manifest, the goodness from it will manifest in something that we state very clearly. And so you and I going over a year ago already have learned together in the Merit of the hostages returning. And when we started, it was in the merit of the live hostages and the dead hostages returning. And we have seen the manifestation of that happening. We saw the final remaining live hostages returned in October. And now we've had 26 deceased beast hostages returned. I know what it is like to get your child back in a bag. And it is critically important.
Dan Senor
And as you often reminded me, that history or miracles or salvation can happen.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
In the blink of an eye.
Dan Senor
In the blink of an eye. John often made that point, too. That just could be like that. We could be recording this episode and something by the time we're done recording something incredible.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
And people thought we were crazy.
Dan Senor
Right.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
And then that morning when those 20 came out, we had thousands of people write to us. Holy cow. In a blink of an eye.
Dan Senor
Right?
Rachel Goldberg Polin
So, yes, it should be in a blink of an eye. Terrifying.
Dan Senor
All right, Rachel, you said to me when we spoke the other day that Hanukkah is the luckiest holiday. I associate Hanukkah with many words, but luck is not one of them. Why is Hanukkah the luckiest holiday?
Rachel Goldberg Polin
I mean, I think simply it is popular by association. Both Jews and non Jews know about Hanukkah because it is sort of like that very cool boy who everyone knows, the boy who sits next to him. So because of Christmas being such a central holiday, certainly in North America and most parts of the world, and then you have Hanukkah that the date changes on the Gregorian calendar each year, but it's always right around Christ, and therefore it is lucky by association. It is a holiday that otherwise might not be known. And there are plenty of other Jewish holidays that are just as, if not more central to Judaism that people have never heard of.
Dan Senor
So I know that most Jews, certainly in the Diaspora and definitely in Israel, fast on Yom Kippur. They do a Seder on Pesach, and they light Hanukkah Menorah candles on Hanukkah. And that may be a layer or two deeper, what they know about Hanukkah, which is the lighting of the candles. And also in the Diaspora, the giving of gifts, you know, maybe a bit more, but not much. So I want actually today, everyone to come out of this conversation understanding where this holiday sits in Jewish history, like where this story happened and why. And then I want to get into what it's become over time. Set us up.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Okay. Well, I think that you're absolutely right that the most essential and relevant lessons from this holiday get lost. If we don't understand the context in history of what was going on. So the first thing that you and I have to do is to get into my time machine and, you know, let me adjust the knobs so that we go back and meet my longtime friend, Alexander the Great.
Dan Senor
I thought only I had longtime friends. Okay.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Oh, my gosh, I have so many. So the thing about Alexander the Great is we're going back to the year 332 BCE before the common era. Alexander the Great was a Greek king of Macedonia who was widely considered to be history's greatest, most successful military commander. He was actually undefeated in battle. In his entire career, he never lost a battle. And in the year 332Bce, he's making his way across the Persian Empire, conquering everything in his way. And he's getting closer and closer, going eastward toward what is, you know, modern day Israel. And as he's getting closer to Jerusalem, the head of the Jewish community is hearing, oh, my gosh, this guy who can't lose is coming and he's destroying everything in his way. And that person who was the head of the Jewish community, who was the high priest of the temple at the time in Jerusalem, was Shimon Hatzadi, Simon the Righteous, who was the high priest the Cohen Gadol. And he was also a member of the great assembly of, you know, they had this Anche, Knesset, hagdola, that was 120 rabbinic, spiritual, halachic, legal sages. And he wants to avert a kerfuffle. He does not want another destruction of the temple. Remember, in 586 BCE, you know, about 200 years earlier, we had the Babylonian Babylonians come into Jerusalem, destroyed the temple with Nebuchadnezzar who was in charge, and exile most of the Jewish community to Babylonia. We have now a new second temple. We have leaders and a whole community and a sovereign nation state happening here. And we don't want this destroyed. So Shimon Hatzadik, Simon the Righteous goes out in his beautiful garb of the high priest in this white turban. And I'll tell you, I know this because there is actually a passage in the Gemara in the Talmud that describes what happens. Simon the Righteous goes out with a few other elderly sages, and they go out and they stop the forces that are coming forward, led by Alexander the Great and Alexander the Great, this is recanted in the Talmud, gets down off of his gorgeous chariot. He takes one look at Simon the Righteous and he bows to him. He bows to him. Alexander the Great and His generals say to him, what are you doing? And he says, every single time that I have had a conquest, I have had a moment before the conquest, before I win with a vision of this man. And so Simon the Righteous and Alexander the Great end up having a conversation. Everything gets calmed down. They have this dmc, deep, meaningful conversation. And out of deference and gratitude to Simon the Righteous, Alexander the Great agrees that he is not going to conquer Jerusalem in a military way. He's not gonna destroy the temple. And as a sign of thank you, Simon the Righteous says, you know what I'm gonna do for you? For the next year, every single Jewish baby boy who is born will have the name Alexander. And Alexander says, I like it. Thank you. From that Moment on in 332 BCE, the name Alexander becomes a Jewish boy's name.
Dan Senor
But there's nothing Jewish about it. I mean, it's not a biblical name. He's not a biblical character. And we hear the name Alex, it's very common to assume it's Jewish and it's the origin of it, which I did not know.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
And that's important because if you're on Jeopardy, and that's one of the categories, you might actually be able to do a daily double. Now, Alex, what's interesting was not conquering, just the sake of conquering, which I guess, like, I'm not a conqueror personally, but that's a thing. Sometimes people are conquering just for the sake of conquering. Alexander the Great was an intellectual. He was actually a student of Aristotle's. And he felt this mission, that he was bringing the superior, civilized, savvy ways of Greece to the supposed backward Levant. Okay? And he is incredibly successful in this entire region. And we see this over the next 150 years that this entire Fertile Crescent area takes on the Greek language, architecture, philosophy, art, math, science, dress, poetry.
Dan Senor
I want to be clear. Basically a region that's in the eastern Mediterranean that includes what we now think is Lebanon, Syria, Jordan, Israel, the Palestinian areas, parts of, like, the Levant, is this much broader area.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Yes. And what's unfortunate or interesting, depending on where you're looking at it from, Alexander the Great actually dies at a young age. 32. He's sick for a few days. And I think suddenly he realizes, holy cow, I'm not actually sick. I'm actually dying. And so he calls together his top generals and he starts to divide up his empire that he has conquered up to this point. And that is how we end up north of modern day Israel in Syria. You end up with the Seleucid Kingdom from his general Seleucid. And in the south, in Egypt, you end up with the Ptolemaic Kingdom. And in the middle, both geographically and politically, is, you know, the land of Judea, Jerusalem, modern day Israel. And what's interesting is for those following 150 or so years, the Jews really don't care who they're paying their taxes to, right? Sometimes it's the Seleucids, sometimes it's the Ptolemaic Kingdom, that dynasty. We don't really care who we're writing our IRS checks to. We just want autonomy. And the majority of the Jews during this chunk of 150 years end up feeling that this Greekification, which is known as Hellenization, is a positive, progressive, modernizing influence, welcomed it. In that sense, the majority did. This is where it's interesting because we know that the Greek culture does start taking a toll on Jewish life internally. And there are rifts in the community because there's a slow corrosion of Jewish traditions. Because I think of it as you have three different buckets of who falls. And there were more, but I'm gonna say three that you have, first of all, the Jews who choose to assimilate and to really take on a Greek Hellenized way of life. And then you have sort of the Jews who recommit ardently to religious practices and sort of completely reject that and say, we are going to be extremely rigorous and intense and dedicated to our Judaism and we're not letting any outside influences make their way into our lifestyle. And then you have the third bucket, which are Jews who have a foot in both worlds. And this should sound extremely familiar today.
Dan Senor
Welcome to my world.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
There is nothing new under the sun.
Dan Senor
I just want to underline the point when you say it's very familiar to Jews today, especially Jews in the Diaspora. It's this constant balancing act every single day. Am I living a Jewish life or an assimilated life and assimilated in the West? Life. That is the tension.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
So what ends up happening is we've had about 150 years pass and suddenly enter crazy, erratic Antiochus IV, who is from the Seleucid dynasty in Syria. He has some ego issues to the point where he even adds to his name, the name Epiphanes. So he's Antiochus Epiphanes, which means God manifest. And he demands that people address him as such. He feels that Zeus is somewhat manifest in him. He attacks Jerusalem in the year 167 BCE. Remember, this is 150something years after Alexander the Great. But that Hellenistic Greekification has really taken seed and taken hold in this area. And Antiochus enters. He puts a altar to Zeus in the temple, the temple that Simon the Righteous had fought so hard to make sure that it didn't get destroyed, that it didn't get defiled in any way. He brings in this altar, he has sacrifices of pigs take place, which is obviously very symbolically, very painful. It's ouch and it's oink. Okay? He outlaws Jewish observance. There's no Brit Mila. You can't have circumcisions. You can't have Torah study. You can't have Shabbat observance. You can't have adherence to the Jewish calendar. You can't have kashrut be observed. And he demands that Jews pay homage to Olympian gods. And he's having, not just in Jerusalem in the temple, but Antiochus sends his troops around to all the small hamlets in Judea, and he has those temples defiled as well. And by the way, this is the first time in Jewish history that we end up with religious persecution.
Dan Senor
Okay? You said this to me the other.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Day, and you didn't believe me.
Dan Senor
I didn't believe you because I sit here and I think so many Jewish holidays are about religious persecution.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Example.
Dan Senor
Religious persecution is part of the story in some way.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Okay?
Dan Senor
And you said, yes, but this was the first time. So explain that.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Well, we obviously had had territorial wars and conflict before, but this was unusual in that the person doing the persecution or the entity doing the persecution was saying, look, if you do what we're asking you to do, sacrifice this pig on the altar and everything's hunky dory, okay?
Dan Senor
They weren't sending us to concentration camps. No, they weren't trying to kill us. They were saying, just stop being Jewish.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
They were saying, be hellenized, be modernized.
Dan Senor
That's my point, right?
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Be enlightened.
Dan Senor
And that is the purest form, I think, is the point you're making of religious persecution, is to say, we're not trying to eliminate you as people.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
No, just religion. We want to get rid of your religion. You can live. Just don't do those things you're doing that make you you. And so we also, as a result, we get the first religious martyrdom. We have Jews who say, when these troops come, and they say, wait a minute, did you give your child a Jewish circumcision, a Brit Mila? And the answer is yes. And they kill you for doing that. That is religious martyrdom. And we have examples of Jews who choose death over defying Jewish law. And we have the opposite. We have Jews who defy Jewish law instead of dying. And of course, we have. In the halacha, in Jewish law, we have. Certain things are permitted to transgress in order to live. And there are some things that you're supposed to say no that, you know, I do draw the line. But what I think is really important for our purposes of this discussion is that what happens at that time is that those Jews in that third bucket, the Jews who are the majority of the Jews who have a foot in both worlds, they have Hellenized, they have modernized, and they have Shabbat dinner and they keep a kosher home, and they send their kids to Hebrew school. They need to finally take a stand because the people persecuting them, the Seleucids, aren't saying you could do both. You actually have to decide, do you take a toga and a scoop of spanakopita, or do you take a Torah and a scoop of schmaltz? You need to decide who you are. And at one point, while all this is unfolding, a unit of the Seleucid army goes to this small town in Modi' in, which, you know, Dan, when you visit here, is between Jerusalem and Tel Aviv. And they meet the elderly priest Matityahu, who is from the priestly family known as the Hashmonaim, the Hasmonean family. He and his five sons, who become known as the Maccabees. They make it very clear to these outsiders who are coming from Antiochus army, and they take a stand and they say, no way, you are not going into our temple. You are not defying our temple. We are not making sacrifices to Zeus. We are not dissolving our Jewish practice. We are not becoming like you. It's not happening. And. And they take to the hills and they make attacks on the Greek Syrian troops. And the long story short is that this small amount of people who band together, and at its heyday, the Maccabees were either 6,000 troops or maybe, maybe, maybe 20,000 troops, but the Seleucids were at least 50,000 troops. So they were wildly outnumbered. And somehow this tiny amount wins over the large amount and they go to the temple and they go to rededicate the temple and repurify the temple. And the big miracle that happens is they take the candelabra that used to always be lit, which was called a menorah, and they want to light the menorah. Now that menorah, you should know is not the menorah that most of us think of when we're outside of Israel. The menorah that was in the temple was a seven branched menorah, three branches on each side and one branch in the middle. And it was lit with specially purified olive oil that was prepared by the priests, by the Kohanim. So they're searching around the Maccabees, who are now, you know, it happened on the 25th of the Jewish month of Kislev. And they're searching around and they find one tiny little. It can't even be called a jar, it's so small. It's a little cruise of oil with the seal on top. You know how it says if the seal is open, this is not okay to eat? So if the seal is opened, it's not okay to use. And the only teeny tiny cruise of oil that was still sealed with the proper seal of the priests was enough to last for one day of lighting. But they said, you know what, let's light it. And it takes eight days to purify and create new oil. And lo and behold, that one little cruise kept lit for the next eight.
Dan Senor
Days or for the next seven days, meaning the seven days after the first day.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Correct. So the whole thing was an eight day, you know, oh my gosh, that we won and we found this and it's lasting. So that is the backdrop behind the.
Dan Senor
Hanukkah story, and that is why we light each night for eight nights.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Correct.
Dan Senor
So that's the story. That's the significance of the symbol and the ritual that I think most Jews are familiar with around this holiday. And then, you know, it's like in Hollywood, they say that, you know, when someone's pitching a movie, that's the story. And then let me tell you the real story. So what's the real story?
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Okay, what's the duck? That's what they say in marketing.
Dan Senor
There you go.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
So first of all, I think that the easiest way to find out what is it that we're celebrating. So let's look at the two sources that talk about it. Which one is, we can look back in the liturgy. We can look at our prayer book. We can see because during the eight days of Hanukkah, there's a paragraph that we insert into the daily prayers and into the grace after meals that we say when we eat. And by the way, we also read Torah every single day of the eight days of Hanukkah. And we also say Hallel, which is a collection of praise filled psalms. But the paragraph about Hanukkah is really talking about God helping us win the tiny against the many, the weak against the mighty. And it's really nodding to that dynamic where it doesn't really mention this crazy thing that happened with the oil. But if you look in the Talmud, in the oral law that was written down in the Mishnah, which became the Talmud, the Talmud has a passing mention of the military feat and really dominant emphasis on the fact that, that this oil lasted for so long and that the temple was rededicated. And so taken together, we see that we're celebrating two different facets of miracle. We're celebrating this military feat and we're celebrating this miraculous endurance of the light continuing for those eight days.
Dan Senor
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In terms of what Hanukkah has become over time, has it evolved or devolved in terms of how we think about the holiday or what the holiday has become in terms of its symbolism? This is separate from it being the quote, unquote, Jewish Christmas. But is the way we think about Hanukkah today different than 15 years ago, 50 years ago, hundreds of years ago?
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Well, I think something really important that I love about. Let's go back a thousand years ago. Let's go back to Maimonides, right? Rabbi Moses Ben Maimon, the Rambam. The Rambam who talks about, you know, and he's one of our most prolific commentators who was born in Spain and moved philosopher, scholar.
Dan Senor
Just for listeners who don't understand, this.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Is like doctor, Right.
Dan Senor
He was a physician.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
The guy was like a total renaissance man, right?
Dan Senor
11, like it's 1200. Like, this is a long time ago.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
And he explains that the purpose of Hanukkah is pursume nisa, which means advertising the miracle. So even going back a thousand years, we understand that the point of this holiday and what's the only ritual, really, the really only ritual is we have to light these lights. And we have a very methodical instruction of where those lights should be lit and what time they should be lit. And people can look this up. You know, this is not supposed to be prescriptive. I'm just being descriptive. The whole entire point, according to the Rambam, is we are trying to do what I like to think of as a PDA about our Jewishness. We are trying to do a public display of affection. And therefore, the Rambam explains, you light them in the evening. Because if I light a candle right now, you're not really going to see it. We notice that lights are lit when there's darkness around them. And so Rambam said, make sure that you light it, you know, shortly after nightfall, and that it should be lit either in a window or in a, you know, in a doorway. In Israel, I'm sure you've seen a lot we have these things that look like fish tanks that are outside of our buildings, outside of our homes, that we light outside, because we're trying to have people see that we are saying, we're here, we're Jews. Get used to it. That's what I think this holiday is about.
Dan Senor
You described it to me as Jewish Pride Day or Jewish Pride Week.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Yes, I think so. And I'm not making that up myself. I mean, I think that that's what everyone is extrapolating from what we are learning over the years from our sages, you know, at different times in history. And I worry and wonder if now we are adjacent or very close to one of those times now. But Jews have been forced to hide. We've been forced to hide our practices, our lifestyle, or we have practiced them, but we felt a little bit uncomfortable, or we've had to do things secretly. Other times we could practice, but only behind closed doors. And part of the traditional way of lighting this chanukiya, we call it in Israel, a hanukkiah, this candelabra that is specifically for Hanukkah, which when I was growing up, we always called it the menorah. It's really, again, the menorah was the candelabra that had seven branches. Hanukkiah, Hanukkah has nine. Cause you have the eight arms and then you have the center one. That's called the shamash, the one that you use to light the other ones. Because we're actually not supposed to be using these lights for anything except. Except to reveal and show that they're beautiful. Something amazing happened to us and we want to acknowledge it.
Dan Senor
It's interesting because in that sense, it is different from every Jewish holiday, because most Jewish holidays are. It's honoring the holiday. I don't want to say quietly and separately. Cause in many cases, not quietly, but definitely separately. We're in synagogue, we're having meals just with Jewish family, friends, people from in the community. We're separating ourselves from our daily routine. We're not at work, we're not at school. Hanukkah is none of those things. Hanukkah is saying, no, no, no, live your life. Don't spend Hanukkah in synagogue. Live your life, go to work. You know, deal with the secularized modern world. But be prideful, be in the civic square. We're telling the world we're here.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Yes. And in fact, I remember teaching our non Jewish neighbors about this holiday when we were living in Virginia. And I was saying to them, you actually get to participate in us fulfilling our mitzvah of doing this holiday because we would light our Hanukkiah in the front window and our non Jewish neighbors who lived across the street. I said, by you seeing them, we are performing our obligation of pursuing nisa, of publicizing this miracle that happened to us. And I remember a rabbi teaching me once that he said, you know, if you live at a dead end street and you get home very late at night and you live alone, you should light the Hanukkiah, the Hanukkah menorah in your window, say the blessings, and then walk outside and you look at your Hanukkiah so that you can fulfill the mitzvah of having seen the advertisement of this amazing thing that happened thousands of years ago. And by the way, another very interesting tidbit, I think again, especially if you're gonna be on Jeopardy, is how traditionally were we supposed to light these candles? How did this come about? And so you should know that in the Talmud, it explains the original, like the OG way of lighting. The most basic way to light Hanukkah candles is it said for every household there should be one candle lit each night. And then we have the next level and of fancy. Okay. And the next level of fancy is you light one candle per person in the household. So, for example, for you and Campbell and your two boys, you're a home of four. So on the first night, you light four, on the second night, you light four, on the third night, you light four, and so on. But then we got to this super duper deluxe way of lighting, and that's when we said, we're going to light in collaboration with whatever night it is. And, of course, because we're Jews, we had a debate over, what does that mean? Then? Do you start with eight and work your way down saying, on the first day, wow, we had eight. And then the next day there were seven days left, and the next day there were six? So each day you're lighting fewer and fewer candles, or do you light one on the first day and then two on the next day and three on the third day and four on the fourth day? And this was a debate between the schools of thought of Rabbi Hillel and Rabbi Shammai, who were, you know, the big wigs in 100 BCE.
Dan Senor
And we just got for our listeners in the Talmud, which is basically a series of. Of debates over interpretations of Jewish law. These two figures loom large, Hillel and Shammai. And these two guys are hashing it out.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Yes. And I think it also shows very much how each of them philosophically approached the world. It's interesting, by the way, especially in this time of, like, terrible challenges in civil discourse, that Hillel and Shammai almost never, ever, ever agreed. And yet there was a real banter between them that was respectful.
Dan Senor
And I think one of them, Hillel, would always present Shammai's argument before presenting his own.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Yes. And he would present it so convincingly that his students often would say, this must be what we're gonna do.
Dan Senor
It's so persuasive. Right.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Because think about it. Nowadays, when we disagree with the people, whoever's on our other side, we try to take them down by making their argument sound stupid or little or weak. If someone's really confident in what they believe, they can actually make the opposing side sound completely compelling and then explain with respect why they disagree. So what ended up happening is Hillel very much saw the miraculous in each day and that each day was building on the day before. If day one, oh, my gosh, the candles, candle was lit, for it lasted one day. So on day two, it's even more miraculous because it should be going less, it shouldn't be being stronger. And we actually rule by that opinion. And so we light each day on the first day one, on the second day Two on the third day, three and so on. By the way, you should know that there are some houses that everyone in the house lights their own Hanukkah, menorah, they light their own Hanukkiah. So when I was in high school, I remember going home that had six children, two parents. So you had eight of these candelabras being lit every single night. So I'm thinking by night eight, where you have nine candles. So it's nine times six. I mean, you had. It was gorgeous. And I was always like nervously looking at the exits as you're speaking.
Dan Senor
I'm thinking, so my mother, who lives near you in Jerusalem, is a survivor of the Holocaust, of the Shoah, and she was a hidden child. Her and her family were hidden out. Her father was killed in Auschwitz, but she and her mother were on the run and several of her siblings and they had to move around a lot. But at one point they were hidden by non Jews who were happy to hide them so long as they weren't Jewish, meaning they thought they were just non Jewish Christian war refugees. And the Christian war refugees, they were ready to hide. And so my mother and her mother, grandmother trained my mother on how to pretend you're a Christian, which is a very interesting thing to teach a six year old girl. I'm not only going to teach you about Judaism, but now I'm going to teach you how to fake about being a Christian. And then Hanukkah came and my mother, to this day she's written about it, to this day she has this vivid, vivid memory of Hanukkah coming. And her mother insisted on creating some semblance of a Hanukkiah, of a menorah. And then they hid under a sheet, sheet and they lit it. So on the one hand, my grandmother was so committed to not letting go of this ritual of this hag. On the other hand, as you're talking, I'm thinking, I can't think of the manner in which they did it as being more out of the spirit of the holiday. Which is to have to light the candles for this holiday and hide it and not let anyone see is the exact opposite of what you're supposed to do.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
You know, you tell me that and what I just hear is that it's the most beautiful thing I've ever heard. And it's a mother who was so desperate to give her daughter that pursume Nisa. And I actually think she completely fulfilled that obligation because if anything, she was giving it to your mother. Right? And this is what I was talking about that we've had different times in Jewish history where we were not allowed to do this, this. And we know that from hostages who have come home that they were trying to light Hanukkah candles when they were in Gaza during this war. I mean, there certainly were no windows to put anything in to advertise that miracle that they were trying to observe. But I feel that this is the big question now. Why was I insisting on talking about the history lesson? Why is that so important to me? Because I think that this extremely powerful message about hanukkah for the 21st century Jew, whether it's the Jew in Israel or in the Diaspora, in my mind. And again, it's just my opinion is I actually do not think about Hanukkah thinking, oh, is this about the military feat? I don't think. Is this about the oil lasting for eight days or rededicating the temple? What I get caught up in is what led up to Hanukkah, what led up to it. It was the catalyst, was the Maccabees saying, listen, we are Jews and we are proud, and we are not you. And I think the reality today in Hanukkah, in a lot of places, it's morphed into something else. I mean, I was never friends with Judah Maccabee, but I kind of feel like he'd be not so happy with sometimes how we are celebrating this holiday. Because the whole point of what happened was when Antiochus first came and came into the Jewish temple and came into the smaller temples that were all over Judea, were these groups of Jews who held fast to their Jewishness and held fast to these rich traditions and said, we don't want this outside influence. And I think I sound a little ominous, and I don't mean to, because I think what we have to remember, truly, is that most of us are not extreme Maccabees, and most of us are not completely assimilated Hellenists. I think most of us, as you were mentioning before, are struggling in the middle. And when we say the word struggle, everyone freaks out because it sounds very negative. But actually struggling means you're grappling, you're thinking, you're digesting, you're being alive.
Dan Senor
Yeah. You're engaged. You're engaged in the debates, in the contents, in the dilemmas, you know, trying.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
To not go to either extreme. But how do we do it to get it right?
Dan Senor
You're struggling with how to get it right.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
And so we have to each say to ourselves, I think the message of Hanukkah is each of us saying ourselves, where do we draw the line? And for everyone, it's gonna be different, right? For each of us, it'll be different. And the truth is, for each of us, in different situations, it's going to be different. But what Hanukkah comes to remind us is we have to draw a line. We have to say to ourselves, who am I? What do I stand for? And figure it out. Figure it out. If we're not sure who we are and what we stand for, figure it out now. Do it. Don't say it. Do it.
Dan Senor
Okay, I want to stay on this for a moment because you said to me the other day, this question is even more present and urgent today than it has been for a long time. And you and I both agreed this is especially the case in the Diaspora. Why do you think that?
Rachel Goldberg Polin
I think in the last two years, a lot of Jewish people around the world have had similar feelings to what happened in 167 BCE, when suddenly Jews realized, you know, we have to decide who we are. And John and I go all over the world still doing hostage advocacy and trying to explain Israel in a lot of places. And we hear from the Jewish communities all over the world how they don't recognize the places that they've grown up in and been in for 50, 60 years. John talks a lot about. He has a lot of friends who he went to university with who just so happen to have Jewish sounding last names, but they're not Jewishly observant. And yet in the last two years, they've been held to account for what is happening in a country that they have never visited. A lot of them have never been to Israel. And they are being asked whether they're doctors or lawyers or, you know, any in the tech world, what is your country doing? And they're thinking, my country is America. My country is Canada. My country is France. You know, I live in London. What are you talking about? And yet we're realizing that the world is very much melding what's happening in Israel with what's happening with Jews around the world. And so we kind of have to figure out, what does that mean? And we owe it to ourselves to figure out, who do I think I am? Who does the world think I am? And decide where do I draw the line? Who am I? It's a real question of, you know, someone's holding up a mirror and you have to say, am I okay with what I'm seeing?
Dan Senor
I would say, though, that the difference between the Jewish Israeli experience and the Jewish Diaspora experience. Is that what Israeli Jews experience over this last two years is, no, no, no, no, they want to kill us. It's not that they care whether or not we're Jews or not. They just. They want us dead and they want us gone. It is war. They want us out of here. That's what October 7th was. That's what Iran building a nuclear program was about. That's what Hezbollah was about. For Jews in the Diaspora, it's different. I don't think they want us dead. They're fine for us to be around. They just don't want us being Jews. The way we think of Jews being part of Jewish peoplehood, living back to the spirit of the holiday, being prideful, very public. Jews being Jews who have a deep connection to Israel. As long as we bring all that, they're like, no, no, no, that we don't want. But otherwise you can hang around.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Maybe it's Alexander the Great brand.
Dan Senor
Yeah.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Of just saying, you know, we have a different, modern, enlightened way, and we're happy for you to join us.
Dan Senor
Right. And so in that sense, I think so much of the last two years, my friend, Rabbi David Ingber, I quote him all the time, soon after October 7th, he said, well, what Israelis learned after October 7th was that they were at war. He says, but what we learned on October 8th is we were under attack, for sure. Not that we're under attack the way Israelis were at war. We're basically being told, shut it down. Shut down this whole Jewish thing you're doing. And then you're fine. You can join our encampments, you can join our political movements. You can join our. Whatever, our college campus crusades. In that sense, I. The Israeli experience and the diasporic experience part ways.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
It's very different. It is different. And I often say, I don't know. What you're going through is extremely challenging. And it's not what I'm familiar with. And what we're going through here, I think is very hard for the Diaspora to understand. And yet what's happened in these past two years is that the 15 million of us, which kind of sounds big. And then you realize, oh, wait, there are 8 billion people in the world. 15 million is less than 1% of the population. And it's a tiny. It's a 0.2% of the world population. This is tricky.
Dan Senor
I want to ask you two other questions. One, the theme of polarization within the Jewish world, Jews being divided. Can you just reference or explain why that is Also relevant to this holiday?
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Well, I mean, that was going back to. There was a lot of contentious backdrop to before Antiochus entered the land of Israel. I had mentioned that there was already tension, there was friction. There were people who felt that Judaism should be observed a certain way. And there were people who said, we're choosing to integrate, you know, these other new enlightened ideas. And there wasn't a respectful discourse or dialogue between them. And. And again, tragically, we like to think that what's happening right now is different and strange and unique, and it isn't. It is very much repetitive of behavior that we've seen in the past. And we don't do ourselves any favors by screaming and disregarding and disrespecting each other. And yet it's something we're very good at. We're not unique. I mean, I think that all people, we have this challenge. We have this amazing intellect and insight and wisdom at our fingertips, and we often choose to not elevate ourselves and use those capabilities in the most glorious, holy and hallowed ways.
Dan Senor
Second last question. You're wearing the tape on your shirt, which you still wear. It says day 789. So 789 days since October 7th, you've been counting days, I take it the idea is you'll take it off when the last hostages are returned. The role of counting in Judaism. You and I have talked a lot about that over the last year and a half. We intended to talk about it on one of our episodes. I think we were going to talk about counting the Omer, but we never actually did get into it. But I want to therefore bring it up now because. Because this holiday is also about counting. The significance of the. Look at how much. Now, we just talked about the number of days and the miracle. You know, we had enough oil for one day, and then the real miracle was the seven days. And then you went through all the ways to light each candle. And some people, the debates and how to do it, and the debates between Hillel and Shammai. It's all around counting and numbers, which is a big part of Judaism.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Why I think it. Even in English, it comes down to the root of the word accountability, because there's something about counting that makes it so. You cannot be blind. You cannot be blind to what is going on if you're counting. And that is why we started counting when you're asking about the number. And I'll tell you that there is a mother who had spoken to me just a few weeks ago, and she had Said to me, please don't stop counting with us until we have him back. And she now has her son back. But not everyone has their son back. And I really believe. And when we started counting, we said, not until everyone's home. And, you know, there's a way to count. You know, sometimes you can count like this. One of my daughters, by the way, she is in framework where she is not able to wear the number, and so she wears it inside. And it reminds me of this famous story about A.J. must, who was an educator during the Vietnam War. He lived in Washington, D.C. and he used to go in front of the White House with a sign that would say, end this war. And the eighth or ninth year into Vietnam, a journalist actually came to him because people knew him by that point. I mean, he's been holding the sign for so long. And the journalist said to him, do you really think that you holding that sign is gonna change the world? And he said, oh, no, I'm holding the sign, so the world doesn't change me. And I think that it's so incredibly impactful, the messaging there, because I'm wearing this. And there are still, thankfully, people have to do what they're comfortable with. Some people still wear a ribbon. Some people wear a necklace necklace. Some people aren't wearing anything. Some people are still praying about it. You know, I am very close to families for whom it was a humongous deal that we continue to count, and I will continue to count. But I think it also reminds me who I am and that the world's not going to change, that I believe that it matters that there are people who are still there and that it matters in this whole region that there are people who are still suffering. And I think that Judaism really is interesting in its obsession with counting, as you mentioned, you know, and even when we count the days of the week, we don't have names of the days of the week in Hebrew. In Hebrew, we just count the days. From Shabbat, we say today is the first day since Shabbat. Today is the second day. Sin Shabbat. Today is the third in Hebrew.
Dan Senor
I mean, literally, for our listeners who don't speak Hebrew. Right. It literally is the day. The number is. It doesn't have another word other than the number other than Shabbat.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Correct.
Dan Senor
It's now day four. It's now day four.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Correct. And I think that there's real power in that because it says whatever it is you're counting from is really the center of your world.
Dan Senor
Just coming back to what we talked about at the beginning about this being the luckiest holiday because it's close to Christmas and there's so much love and Kavod and celebrity that comes from being next to Christmas on the one hand. On the other hand, everything we talked about just now, I would venture to say most of our listeners did not know. I'm grateful that we're talking about it because you and I both think it's important for Jews to know some of the things we talked about today. But what's sad is that the holiday, while on the one hand it's the luckiest Jewish holiday, it's also probably the most watered down Jewish holiday because it's absorbed by Christmas. You know, it's the little brother to Christmas because it doesn't stand on its own. At least in the Diaspora, it doesn't have its own identity. Unlike Rosh Hashanah or Pesach, which has. These are holidays that have their own identities. This is like, oh, yeah, it's like the Jewish Christmas. I don't mean to end on a negative note, and I'll figure out how to end on an upbeat note, but isn't that tragic in a way, because I can't think of anything that's contrary to the spirit of the holiday than here we are, we give gifts like they do on Christmas. You walk into any hotel lobby or any office building lobby in New York City and you see the Christmas tree and you see the menorah. Isn't that violate a lot of what we're talking about?
Rachel Goldberg Polin
You know, I'm always sort of torn about it because when I lived in San Francisco, we both worked in San San Francisco, and we had that where we had this beautiful Christmas tree. And because there were two Jewish people in the company, they had this electric Hanukkah menorah that we would plug in every morning. And I, I actually thought it was really nice. I thought it was a really kind gesture. And I did, of course, try to explain to everybody about, you know, wow, it's pursume nisa. And trying to explain, you know, it's advertising the miracle that happened to us. But I hear what you're saying, and I do think that the originators, as we sort of talked about that Matityyahu, who was extremely rigorous in saying, I don't want any part of this outside culture or influence having any sort of effect on Jewish tradition. I think that they would look at my office in San Francisco and be very irritated. But I think the reality is what we were talking about, that we do stay in the middle and struggle. Part of staying in the middle and struggling is saying look, they've brought in a cute menorah Hanukkah. Menorah Hanukkiah for also to acknowledge that we have Jews here and not everybody keeps Christmas. And I try not to be too judgmental in a negative way about it because I think that the origin is from a good place from our non Jewish neighbors trying to help us feel more a part of what is clearly a not Jewish majority country.
Dan Senor
I want to end on an upbeat note. So can you give us something to be upbeat or hopeful about as we go into this holiday? As we wrap here, what I would.
Rachel Goldberg Polin
Love to like leave you with when we're finishing this conversation is also to remember that that the essential power of the tiny because that's a real message. Tiny people, tiny light, tiny cruise of oil that lasted. The Hasidic masters always talk about this majestic idea of how a tiny light, a tiny group, one tiny soul, one tiny person even can actually affect the entire world. And we have seen it it and we know it. And now go be it. So I'm wishing you a happy Hanukkah Dan.
Dan Senor
Happy Chanukah, Rachel. Thank you for doing this as always. I'll be seeing you soon. And thank you and Chag Sameuk ha same.
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Podcast: Call Me Back – with Dan Senor
Guest: Rachel Goldberg-Polin
Date: December 8, 2025
Theme: Exploring Hanukkah’s historical and modern meaning, the dilemmas facing Jewish identity today, and what the holiday’s lessons mean for Israelis and Diaspora Jews.
In this rich and timely conversation, Dan Senor and Jewish educator Rachel Goldberg-Polin dive into the Hanukkah story and draw parallels to contemporary Jewish identity, community dilemmas, and the urgent challenges facing Jews in Israel and the Diaspora. With Hanukkah approaching, they chart the festival’s deep historical roots, its evolving meaning, Jewish pride, and the complex balancing act of maintaining Jewish distinctiveness amid outside pressure—both in antiquity and today.
[24:37–26:53] Hanukkah is twofold:
Liturgy emphasizes different miracles: Prayer books focus on the military salvation, while Talmudic sources highlight the endurance of the menorah's light.
Hanukkah as "Jewish Pride Week":
Contrast with Other Jewish Holidays:
[00:09] – “You actually have to decide. Do you take a toga and a scoop of spanakopita or do you take a Torah and a scoop of schmaltz? You need to decide who you are.”
– Rachel Goldberg-Polin (Reframing assimilation vs. tradition)
[20:08] – “We're not trying to eliminate you as people. No, just religion. We want to get rid of your religion. You can live. Just don't do those things you're doing that make you you.”
– Rachel Goldberg-Polin (Defining ancient religious persecution)
[29:15] – “We're saying, we're here, we're Jews. Get used to it. That's what I think this holiday is about.”
– Rachel Goldberg-Polin (On Hanukkah’s public nature)
[41:07] – “Struggling means you're grappling, you're thinking, you're digesting, you're being alive.”
– Rachel Goldberg-Polin (On grappling with Jewish identity)
[44:49] – “For Jews in the Diaspora... they just don't want us being Jews... As long as we bring all that, they're like, no, no, no, that we don't want. But otherwise you can hang around.”
– Dan Senor (On assimilationist pressure today)
[49:21] – “I’m wearing this [tape with a day number]...it reminds me who I am and that the world’s not going to change...Judaism really is interesting in its obsession with counting.”
– Rachel Goldberg-Polin (Accounting for the missing, the miracles, and Jewish continuity)
Happy Hanukkah!
Chag Sameach from Dan, Rachel, and the Call Me Back podcast team.