Change Church Podcast
Episode Title: When Stubbornness Has You Stuck
Host: Pastor Dharius Daniels
Release Date: May 26, 2025
Introduction
In the episode "When Stubbornness Has You Stuck," Pastor Dharius Daniels delves deep into the biblical narrative of the two thieves crucified alongside Jesus, drawing lessons on stubbornness and self-sabotage. As the concluding sermon of the "Goaded All Year" series, this episode focuses on overcoming personal resistance to fully embrace God's intentions.
Biblical Foundation: Luke 23:39-43
Pastor Daniels begins by reading from Luke 23:39-43, highlighting the interaction between Jesus and the two criminals crucified beside Him:
"Don't you fear God since you're under the same sentence? We are punished justly, for we're getting what our deeds deserve. But this man has done nothing wrong." (00:03:51)
"Jesus answered him, truly, I say to you today you will be with me in paradise." (00:04:11)
He emphasizes the often-overlooked response of the second thief, using it to explore the theme of stubbornness that can hinder one's spiritual progress.
Stubbornness vs. Sinfulness
A key principle Pastor Daniels introduces is:
"Some of our self-sabotage is not always a result of our sinfulness. Sometimes it's a consequence of our stubbornness." (00:03:51)
He argues that obstacles in fulfilling God's purpose are not solely due to sin but often stem from a "stiff neck," an Old Testament term describing resistance and unwillingness to change.
Scriptural Insights on Stubbornness
Pastor Daniels references Exodus 32:9, where God describes the Israelites as a "stiff-necked people," emphasizing their resistance despite witnessing God's miracles. This metaphor underscores the recurring biblical theme that stubbornness impedes divine intentions.
Modern Application: Overcoming Resistance
The discussion transitions to contemporary life, urging listeners to identify areas where stubbornness holds them back. Pastor Daniels posits that:
"The obstacle to God accomplishing His intention in your life isn't always sin. Sometimes it's stubbornness disguised as independence." (00:04:24)
He challenges believers to shift their mindset from self-reliance to surrendering control, allowing God to guide necessary adjustments for growth.
The Cross as a Symbol of Struggle and Purpose
Pastor Daniels elaborates on the crucifixion context, noting that Jesus was crucified alongside two other men. He uses this trio to illustrate different responses to suffering and divine purpose:
"Three men on three crosses. Jesus is in the middle." (00:07:55)
By comparing the two thieves' reactions, he highlights how stubbornness can lead to self-sabotage, while surrender opens the door to redemption.
Shame and Redemption
Addressing the weaponization of shame, Pastor Daniels warns:
"Shame is a weapon of warfare. It is insane." (00:13:06)
He encourages believers to embrace God's redemptive nature, which transforms embarrassment and shame into tools for liberation from societal opinions and personal insecurities.
Purpose in Suffering
A significant portion of the sermon focuses on finding purpose in personal suffering. Pastor Daniels suggests that:
"Maybe the cross is actually a symbol of inconvenience." (00:20:38)
He posits that suffering positions individuals to minister to others in similar pain, fostering a sense of community and mutual support rooted in shared experiences.
Five Practical Takeaways
Towards the end of the episode, Pastor Daniels outlines five actionable points to combat stubbornness and prevent self-sabotage:
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Stubbornness Contributes to Self-Sabotage:
Refusal to adapt or change strategies leads to missed opportunities."Some people's open mouths are what keep closing doors." (00:24:25)
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Recognize Personal Faults:
Ownership of one's actions is crucial for personal growth and avoiding stagnation."Because there's no ownership, there can be no adjustment." (00:25:51)
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Rethink Your Strategy:
Aligning methods with missions ensures flexibility and effectiveness."Stubbornness won't let you rethink your strategy." (00:27:02)
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Release Grudges:
Unforgiveness stems from stubbornness and blocks entry into paradise."Paradise is a grudge you refuse to bury." (00:25:51)
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Repurpose Suffering:
Transforming suffering into purposeful action prevents stagnation."Stubbornness self-sabotages because it won't let us repurpose our suffering." (00:30:06)
Personal Testimony and Legacy
In a heartfelt conclusion, Pastor Daniels shares his personal journey, emphasizing the importance of legacy over inheritance. He recounts the values instilled by his father, highlighting dedication, excellence, and prioritizing family. This testimony serves as a testament to overcoming personal crosses through faith and surrender.
Closing Prayer and Call to Action
The episode concludes with a fervent prayer, urging listeners to embrace God's plan over personal desires. Pastor Daniels encourages everyone to:
"My answer is yes. Before you ask the question. My answer is yes." (00:35:25)
He calls for a collective commitment to prioritize divine calling over convenience, fostering a community dedicated to growth and mutual support.
Key Quotes
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Pastor Daniels:
"Some of our self-sabotage is not always a result of our sinfulness. Sometimes it's a consequence of our stubbornness." (00:03:51)
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Pastor Daniels:
"Shame is a weapon of warfare. It is insane." (00:13:06)
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Pastor Daniels:
"Stubbornness won't let you rethink your strategy." (00:27:02)
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Pastor Daniels:
"My answer is yes. Before you ask the question. My answer is yes." (00:35:25)
Conclusion
In "When Stubbornness Has You Stuck," Pastor Dharius Daniels offers a profound exploration of how resistance and stubbornness can impede spiritual and personal growth. By examining biblical narratives and applying them to modern life, he provides listeners with actionable insights to overcome self-sabotage and fully embrace God's intended path. This episode serves as both a spiritual guide and a motivational call to surrender personal control, fostering a deeper connection with divine purpose.
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