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Want to work with Charisma on Command? (Writing position) https://bit.ly/30KNvvV Check out our new podcast! https://bit.ly/2JDS2Lz If you’ve been watching this channel for a while you might have realized that the most interesting and useful psychological tricks that we talk about are not taught in school. Good news is, that’s where we come in! In this video, we’re going to cover 5 psychological tricks that can get you more of what you want from life, more easily. These are very useful in scenarios where you’re trying to persuade someone. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:20 - Trick #1: The word “but”. 1:28 - Trick #2: A double bind. 2:52 - Trick #3: Visualization. 4:53 - Trick #4: Framing. 6:28 - Trick #5: Scarcity. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #CharismaOnCommand #5 Psychological Tricks -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thank you Simple Habit for sponsoring this video! Download the app and try a variety of meditations: http://simplehabit.com/charlie Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Very few people can control a conversation better than a comedian. They have arsenals of jokes that put rude people in their place and redirect the flow of conversation. Even when there isn’t a conflict, when a joke lands and everybody laughs - there is a period of space where you can redirect the conversation wherever you like. In this video we are going to look at 3 specific types of jokes that Russell Brand uses to masterfully control a confrontation on MSNBC. We’re also going to see how you can use these same jokes to confidently steer conversation in your own life. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:41 - Joke #1: Unpointed wit. 2:38 - Joke #2: Purposeful misinterpretation. 4:20 - Joke #3: Sarcasm. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #RussellBrand #CharismaOnCommand #Comedy -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/2XcFYEf Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Like it or not we have all been awkward at different points in our lives. Sometimes that awkwardness gets in the way of connecting with other people or even feeling confident in ourselves. Awkwardness doesn’t need to be the end of the line. In fact, if you handle yourself well you can turn awkwardness (whether it’s just a moment or a way of being) into confidence. Which is what we are covering in this video featuring Tom Holland. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:27 - Point #1: Adjust your body language. 4:05 - Point #2: Handle friendly teasing. 6:39 - Point #3: Tell your own embarrassing stories. 9:37 - Point #4: Let go of managing people’s opinion of you. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #TomHolland #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Click Here To Donate: https://www.charitywater.org/charisma Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Keanu Reeves has become the internet’s crush, whether he knows it or not. Normally on the channel, we cover extroverted celebrities, who charm in larger, obvious ways. What’s amazing about Keanu (aside from the fact that he’s 54 and looks 34) is that he is massively popular in spite of his reclusive and more introverted nature. So in this video, we are going to explore why Keanu is so popular, and what you can learn to exude incredible charisma as an introvert. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:31 - Reason #1: He directs praise towards others. 2:05 - Reason #2: He exudes zen-like presence. 3:15 - Reason #3: He uses enthusiastic hand gestures. 5:12 - Reason #4: He embraces his type. 7:03 - Reason #5: He lives generously. -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #KeanuReeves #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Thanks to Audible for sponsoring this video! Get your first audiobook and 2 Audible Originals free when you try Audible for 30 days. Visit http://www.audible.com/charisma or text charisma to 500500 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe After watching an interview on Jimmy Fallon where Sophie Turner comes across as very charismatic, I started looking into doing a breakdown on her. I was surprised to find that she actually says she struggles in social situations. On the second watch through, I noticed that hints of nervousness were present in that first Jimmy Fallon interview. So in this video, we’re going to learn what it seems Sophie has learned: how to turn anxiety, shyness, and nervousness into charisma. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 4:34 - Strategy #1: Active listening 4:50 - Strategy #2: Mirroring 6:00 - Strategy #3: Elaborate on someone else’s idea 6:31 - Strategy #4: Make fun of your own shyness -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SophieTurner #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/2W5G000 Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe A recent Ben Shapiro interview has gotten a lot of attention. In case you haven’t seen it, Ben Shapiro got into a heated argument with BBC’s Andrew Neil, and eventually walked out of the interview. Now, Ben is no stranger to these kinds of arguments, so it was surprising to see how many people thought that he lost, or was even quote unquote “destroyed.” So in this video, we’re going to break down what went wrong for Ben and talk about four things you can do to avoid any embarrassment in an argument. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:39 - #1: Body language & speech patterns 3:03 - #2: The way that you answer questions 7:32 - #3: Your mindset going into it 11:06 - #4: What matters is who acts like they are winning -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BenShapiro #CharismaOnCommand -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Watch more: Stand Up For Yourself Without Being A Jerk https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LyBIT0Q7fOc 5 Common Habits That Make People Instantly Dislike You https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KBCcDrG2NjM 7 Reasons Ben Shapiro Is So Dominant In Debates https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JY5t6iUzajk Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast channel: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we are making a tier list of Game of Thrones characters ranked by their charisma. Keep in mind that we are not judging charisma in modern day times, like who you would sit down and get a beer with. It's Game of Thrones charisma, which means: Are you persuasive? Do your plans work out? This might make you a wrong person, but you can still be highly charismatic. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:29 - F Tier 3:09 - D Tier 5:48 - C Tier 7:44 - B Tier 10:48 - A Tier 15:15 - S Tier -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #GameofThrones #CharismaOnCommand #TierList -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe Today we are talking about self-doubt. The particular self-doubt that gets in your head, maybe when you’ve gotten a promotion, or you just started dating someone that is a bit out of your league. It says: “You don’t deserve this, you shouldn't be here”. This is called imposter syndrome, and unfortunately, it can make you self sabotage the thing that you just got so you fall back to where you feel comfortable, even though you were deserving of what you had. Which is why in this video, I will talk about three behavioral changes to CRUSH imposter syndrome. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 1:55 - Change #1: You will not overstate what you can do going forwards 3:32 - Change #2: Take honest stock of your past, then see if you can help 4:50 - Change #3: Focus on creating results for the people around you -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SelfDevelopment #CharismaOnCommand #ImposterSyndrome -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman

Subscribe to our podcast: https://bit.ly/2HkV85n How To Make An Amazing First Impression: https://bit.ly/2VPE2po Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe We all handle relationships in different ways. One powerful way to understand these differences is through the lens of Attachment Theory. According to psychologists, there are four main “attachment styles” which have a profound effect on our relationships. In this video, we’ll break down these different styles using some iconic characters, and show how you can use this knowledge to improve your relationships with everyone around you. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:20 - Style #1: Avoidant 3:01 - Style #2: Anxious 6:03 - Style #3: Fearful 9:27 - Style #4: Secure -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #SelfDevelopment #CharismaOnCommand #AttachmentTheory -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman Music: www.bensound.com

Check Out Charisma University: https://bit.ly/2VdwLiT Subscribe to Charisma On Command’s YouTube Account: http://bit.ly/COC-Subscribe A few recent Brie Larson interviews have caught the attention of Marvel fans. People have asked if the cast doesn’t get along with Brie, and even as an audience member it’s hard to sit through some of these interviews without cringing. Today I will talk about what you can learn from these situations, and how to prevent yourself from doing specific behaviour patterns, that can make people dislike you without you even intending or even realizing it. ⏰TIMESTAMPS⏰ 0:41 - Issue #1: Reading negative intent in an ambiguous situation. 1:15 - Issue #2: Sarcasm requires a “tell” 4:33 - Issue #3: Don’t jump on every opportunity to call praise or attention to yourself. 7:15 - Issue #4: You should not try to win each moment of banter. 9:53 - Issue #5: Handling a compliment improperly -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- #BrieLarson #CharismaOnCommand #MCU -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Connect With Us Further: Website: http://www.charismaoncommand.com Facebook: http://facebook.com/charismaoncommand Instagram: @CharismaOnCommand Or if you want to see our personal stuff (regular life + playing music): Instagram: @CharlieHoupert Instagram: @IamBenAltman