Chief Change Officer Episode #249: "When the Story Guy Becomes the Story — Part Three"

Host: Vince Chan
Guest: Chris Hare
Release Date: March 23, 2025

In the final installment of the three-part series with storytelling expert Chris Hare, Chief Change Officer delves deeper into the art and science of crafting personal and professional narratives. This episode, titled "When the Story Guy Becomes the Story — Part Three," offers listeners actionable tools to develop and refine their own stories, emphasizing the profound impact of authentic storytelling on personal growth and leadership.

1. Introduction to Story Crafting Tools

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Vince Chan introduces Chris Hare, a strategic narrative advisor renowned for his "Atomic Storytelling" method, which dissects complex stories into their most resonant elements. Over the previous episodes, listeners explored Chris's expertise in corporate storytelling and personal transformation. In this concluding part, the focus shifts to practical tools that individuals can employ to shape their narratives effectively.

2. The Movie Theater Visualization Exercise

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Chris Hare presents his first tool, the Movie Theater Visualization. This exercise invites individuals to imagine sitting alone in a movie theater, watching the film of their life unfold. Instead of visualizing their first day of retirement or the final week of life, Chris encourages a more immediate reflection:

“I have people think about that movie that plays is actually not the blockbuster, it's actually your life playing and your career, not just your career, but your entire life, one scene after the next play.”

This visualization helps individuals identify recurring themes, recognize both positive and negative patterns, and assess the trajectory of their lives. By naming the "movie," participants can gain clarity on what story they are telling themselves and what changes they might desire for the future.

Notable Quote:

Chris Hare [06:32]: “And so what that does is help you see the trajectory that you're on, what you want that future to look like, but also what does your past look like and bringing up those scenes.”

3. The 360 Feedback Storytelling Approach

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The second tool introduced is the 360s Feedback Exercise, designed to uncover "atomic stories" that individuals might not be aware of. Unlike traditional corporate 360 reviews, this method focuses on gathering authentic, supportive feedback from three to five trusted individuals who know the person well across different contexts.

Chris outlines the process:

1. Select Participants: Choose three to five people who care about your success and see you in various roles.
2. Conduct Interviews: Ask questions centered around your core values and request stories that exemplify these values.
3. Analyze Patterns: Look for recurring themes and insights that emerge from these stories to refine your personal narrative.

Notable Quote:

Chris Hare [06:32]: “If you want to find, uncover atomic stories that you didn't know were there, is doing the 360s.”

4. Practical Application: Vince Chan's Experience

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Vince shares his personal experience applying the 360 Feedback Exercise with a diverse group of 50 friends spanning 30 years of relationships. He specifically asked them about his "superpower," receiving consistent feedback highlighting his deep thinking, logical approach, analytical skills, and persistence.

“Most of them mentioned that I am a deep thinker. Words like logical, analytical and persistent came up frequently.”

Vince emphasizes the importance of selecting a diverse and well-chosen group to obtain a well-rounded understanding of one’s strengths. This exercise not only validated his self-perception but also introduced new perspectives he hadn’t considered before.

Notable Quote:

Vince Chen [15:21]: “I took notes on everything, gathered the data points and even created a spreadsheet to track common themes. My Chicago training pushed me to analyze these patterns, and it was fascinating to see the traits that surfaced across the board.”

5. Scaling the 360 Feedback with AI and Its Limitations

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Chris discusses the potential to scale the 360 Feedback Exercise through technology. Collaborating with Dr. Tammy Wang and her leadership development platform, they aim to integrate Chris's storytelling frameworks into an AI-driven tool, allowing for broader application without losing the exercise's depth.

However, Chris also cautions against over-reliance on AI for such nuanced tasks:

“That's why AI cannot replace the human touch. AI has incredible data capacity and can assist in generating a vast amount of content, but it lacks the nuanced understanding that comes from genuine human connection.”

6. The Irreplaceable Human Element in Storytelling

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The conversation shifts to the intrinsic value of human interaction in storytelling. Both Vince and Chris agree that while AI can process vast amounts of data, it cannot replicate the emotional intelligence and authentic connections essential for meaningful narrative development.

Notable Quote:

Vince Chen [25:36]: “That's where the human element remains irreplaceable.”

7. Key Takeaways and Conclusions

• Visualization as a Tool for Clarity: The Movie Theater exercise serves as a powerful method for individuals to visualize their life’s narrative, identify patterns, and set intentions for future growth.

• Authentic Feedback for Personal Growth: The 360 Feedback Exercise provides deep insights into one’s core values and strengths, fostering personal and professional development through trusted relationships.

• Balancing Technology with Human Insight: While AI offers scalable solutions, the depth and authenticity of human-generated narratives remain unparalleled, highlighting the importance of genuine connections in storytelling.

• Diverse Perspectives Enhance Self-Understanding: Engaging with a varied group for feedback ensures a comprehensive view of one’s strengths and areas for improvement, leading to a more refined and authentic personal narrative.

Final Thoughts

In this episode, Vince Chan and Chris Hare underscore the transformative power of storytelling in personal and professional contexts. By employing practical tools like visualization and authentic feedback, individuals can craft narratives that not only resonate with who they are but also propel them toward their envisioned futures. The human element, rich with emotion and genuine connection, remains at the heart of effective storytelling, a realm where AI still has significant limitations.

For listeners eager to harness the power of their own stories, this episode offers both inspiration and practical strategies to outgrow themselves and achieve unprecedented personal and professional transformation.

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