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Ashley Nicole
What's up? What's up?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
What's up, what's up? What's up. What's up? Another episode of the Humble Bag Podcast. I'm your girl, Ashley Nicole and I.
Ashley Nicole
Am Alexis Welch Stoudemire and we are the Humble Baddies.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Baddies.
Ashley Nicole
Happy Wednesday, Ash.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Happy Wednesday, Lex. What's going on?
Ashley Nicole
Day? Hump day. Just taking care of business. I had a me date, a solo date yesterday.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Okay.
Ashley Nicole
Went to took care of all kinds of stuff first and then went and just went to the beach, got service on the beach and just had wine and lunch and then, yeah, ended with the spa. Like a good 90 minute massage. Oh, it was just wonderful. It was something I needed for myself. And I feel so rejuvenated and better. And I do this from time to time, but my body was saying, lex, you need to take a time out and relax. Um, I feel like from chefing it up on the weekends and standing those long hours, it's turned into my, you know, I'm starting to have back issues. And so, like, I'm learning how to.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
I'm having back issues.
Ashley Nicole
But it's from standing.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
It's.
Ashley Nicole
It's knife work. It's just moving around, it's constant movement. So my body's adjusting to the new change, and so I'm fine with this. So now I know how to adjust myself, my posture, and take care of my body, drinking water, as well as getting these massages. I need them. So.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
So you doing this internship, this is no joke. Like, you really in there chopping it up, like, chefing it up.
Ashley Nicole
Like, y' all gotta come see me this weekend.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
I'm gonna come. I'm gonna come. I'm out of town. I was out of town last weekend. I'm out of town this weekend, I'm out of town next weekend, but I'm coming, I'm coming. I just gotta figure out when I'm coming. But I definitely want to come support you. I already, I've already had your food, so, you know.
Ashley Nicole
Well, the good thing is this is technically my food, but not really my food, you know what I'm saying? Because it's the restaurants, but I get it.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah, yeah, yeah. But it's good things to come out and support you up here. And I can't wait, like, just to see you in your element, see you doing your thing. I mean, I know you've been working so hard. I will run into you at Soho House working on your homework and your test, and I will call you and I will see you, you know, in the kitchen doing your assignments. So I know how hard you've worked on this. And you're almost at the end, so at the end, I can't wait. I can't wait to come.
Ashley Nicole
I'm excited. I'm excited. Thank you so much. And we missed you on Monday.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah, girl, you know, it's hard out here. The summertime, you know, can trick you with traveling. But this weekend wasn't about me. It was all about my husband. They have an alumni program for the Raiders. He played for the Raiders, actually, only for one year out of his career. He played for 10 years, but he played for the Raiders for one year. And what I love about the Raiders organization is they really take care of their alumni. And I can't say that for any other organization. And, you know, he played on four teams, so I know that's. I can't account for all the organizations, but I haven't heard of any other team taking care of their. Not just their players, their current players, but their alumni the way that the Raiders organization does. So they fly the alumni. If you play for one game, child, you once a writer, always writer. They fly you and your caregiver. So if that's your wife, if that's your mom, your bestie, your cousin, them, whoever, they. They bring you out and they have a whole wellness weekend, and they check you from the root of. To the tutor. If you need a mental health therapist, they set you up with somebody. I had a ultrasound on my heart.
Ashley Nicole
Oh, wow.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
They're doing mammograms. They're doing hearing tests. They're doing that. You need to make sure that, you know, you're being checked out, because, you know, some of these guys, they don't want to go to the doctor, even though they have all these benefits and stuff, you know, provided for them. Men can be, you know, stubborn and not make the appointment. So I just love that they bring all of that to the facility and, you know, they offer everything they need right then and there to get it done. And then it's just nice to. For the alumni to feel wanted because, you know, the NFL's like, it stands for not for long. So show time is done and the lights is off. Those lights are off. So it's just a beautiful thing to see how we look here for the alumni. And I mean, when I say there are legends there, there are players who played in the 70s, you know, it's all age groups. And just to see them supported and loved on and educated because they bring. They have an expo. They bring people to teach them about, you know, not just their bodies, but how to deal with things. You know, it's just. It's just a beautiful weekend to come together and to support them in that way. So shout out to the Raiders organization.
Ashley Nicole
The Raiders. For real. I like that. That's actually dope. Is this an annual thing they do?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
It's an annual thing they do. And then they also have an alumni weekend. So in August, they bring everybody back out. And it's more of just like a fun weekend where they, you know, set up different events and the guys can Just hang out and, you know, you can bring your loved one with you. And I do want to say the ladies have a presence there. They do have apps for the women ladies playbook. I know you. You met Atoya Bronson. She was there. The off the field NFL lives was there. So our presence is there. We have a place there. We're supported. We're there to give support. So it's just, all in all, a beautiful, beautiful thing that they have going on, and I hope the other teams pick up on it because all the players need it.
Ashley Nicole
That's amazing. You call it a caretaker that was able to reap the benefits, too, because that is so necessary. Whatever your spouse or someone like mother, whoever needs this, this, this, that weekend or, you know, those few days, that's crucial, too. So I think that's great that they're involving, you know, whomever that person chooses to be there with him and get some. Some treatment as well, because it does take a village and, you know, yeah.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
You take care of, you know, your Raiders. So I think it's important and it's beautiful. You know, what they have going on, like, to really think about every little thing like that is amazing. They really do a great job. Great job with that. So that's what I was doing this weekend. It was all about the Raiders and the alumni. And I love it. Like, I had a great time. I can't wait to go back in August where they're alum. We go to a game and we just get to hang out and have a lot of fun. But it's in Vegas. The Raiders are in Vegas now. When we were there, when we played for the Raiders, we were in Oakland. Mm. Big difference.
Ashley Nicole
Night and day. Now you have Vegas, you get.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
You get Vegas, you get Vegas. So, you know, a little Vegas weekend every now and then. Cool. You know what I'm saying? I have a little Vegas here and there.
Ashley Nicole
But, you know. And it was just you two, no kids, right?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
No kids, girl.
Ashley Nicole
Oh. So y' all had a nice little weekend way. Yes. I love that.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Hey, good little. We went to all good restaurants and.
Ashley Nicole
Wellness on another.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Was nice. And, you know, I was born in Vegas, so it's like I don't feel attached to it in any way. You know, my dad was in the military, so I was born there because he was stationed at Nellis Air Force Base. But I just, every time I'm in, like, oh, my God, I can't believe I was born here. Like, it's just so weird. Like, I don't feel any Kind of like, connection. I'm very much an Atlanta girl. That's where I claim. Yeah. Blue crystal form while we were there at our hotel. So that was really cool, that little piece of Atlanta there. Yes. So it was a great weekend, girl. It was a great.
Ashley Nicole
I love that. I love that. Well, I'm glad you all were able to get away. I'm glad that y' all got your health checked out and your mind right. And here we are back again.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
So I love that for y' all. So speaking of Luda, the BET Awards, was this past. What was that last or the night before?
Ashley Nicole
Last night, I believe.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
That's crazy. I feel like my days are just happening. But, yeah, I saw little Chris was there and he did the Usher. They did a tribute and it was. I mean, I thought the awards this year were very reminiscent. Is that the word? No, like, that's not the word. Then.
Ashley Nicole
What you think that's the word.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
That you say where it reminds you. Oh, nostalgic. Okay. That's what I'm having to say. Nostalgic. It just like, reminded me of, like, award shows back in the day because they did, like, the art tribute. You know, they had little ballot perform the actual six apart. Yeah, yeah, I like that.
Ashley Nicole
It was nostalgic. That is the word. And it was very reminiscent of going back in time period when we were there and we were at the videos. Because now our children are looking at videos, you know, on. No, no, it's not the same anymore. They're watching streamers, they're watching video games, they're watching other people play video games. It's just, you know, this is what they do.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
So different now.
Ashley Nicole
I remember when you said 2010.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yes. I couldn't wait to turn the TV on. I watched 106 in park and watch that same down. The numbers ain't changed. It's so long. It didn't matter because I needed to watch it all the way down to number one.
Ashley Nicole
And that's how we learned how to dance. Too low key. You know, we wanted to know what. Who was wearing the best sneakers, what the best jewelry was they were into. Remember the jerseys, the oversized clothes and the fashion and, you know, the newest trends like those. That's how we got our trends. Was literally tuning in to. And so I like shout out to the BET Awards, though, because it does bring back, like that essence of who we are. And we're so much, you know, we are R and B, we're soul, we're rock, we're hip hop, we are gospel. You Know all these. In country, all of these territories, pop, you know, rock, everything you can imagine. Jazz and all of that. So we. I just love to see it because it is nostalgic how it does take us back. Because I love that they brought like, Kirk Franklin, you know, I feel like I was watching it with Assata, the parts that I did get to see. And she's like, who's this? I'm like, oh, this is the education level, you know, because now our kids are going back and singing these songs that have been remixed and like. Yeah, I know. My parents are like, we've heard that before. Like, you know, maybe somebody remixed the Marvin Gaye vibe or something.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
But, like, the difference. I feel like when our generation sample songs, we knew the original too. Like, we heard our parents, you know.
Ashley Nicole
Mostly from our parents though, too.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
These kids these days, they think they know everything and that this is something new that just came out. Like, baby, no, this done been remixed two or three times. Yeah, yeah, Honey bun.
Ashley Nicole
It's like, so. But it's like, at the other end of it, it's giving artists streaming. You know, again, there's songs that were older, too. Like, I was looking at my daughter's TikTok the other day, and she had reposted, like, this song. Right now it's Jeezy and Akon, Soul Survivor. And now it's like trending on TikTok, so it's like taking off. She's like, mom, this is a dope song. I'm like, what? We've been there, done that already. But it's back, so here we are. You know, it's new to them and they're the ones streaming, so it's like low key. It's just like, it's helpful on so many levels.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Hey, it's the new way.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah, but the BET Awards were dope. The parts I did see, they did a tribute to Jamie Foxx, who is well deserved after the year he's had. And just. I forgot, like, about his hits. He's a comedian. He. His. His songs as well as, you know, he acts so. I mean, he's just. I was just like, dang. You know, he is so talented and has Oscars. So, like, this guy is top level.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
And not to mention, he just came back from that whole health scare, so. Absolutely.
Ashley Nicole
I'm glad he was able to, you.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Know, receive his flowers while he's still here.
Ashley Nicole
And that's what I feel they do because we definitely get overlooked. You know what I mean?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah. But, yeah, that's good to See everybody tribute. That was a good pick. Sometimes with the tribute, I feel like they're a little, like, overdue or like they fit this. But you know what? That was a good pick for this tribute, for this award. You know, what about the fashion? The fashions are always a hot topic at the BET Awards. There were a lot of risky outfits. Some look like fashion nova. Some look like, you know, I don't know. They didn't take enough time. They didn't pay the stylist they coined this year. Some of the people had a lot to say. Somebody said that. What's her name? Young Miami. They said she was given. Oh, no. The comment was, I guess she don't got them diddy coins no more because her dress wasn't. You know.
Ashley Nicole
I didn't see Young Miami's dress, but that was rude in that night.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
But it wasn't given. Her dress was not. Mm.
Ashley Nicole
I didn't see it.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah, I know who.
Ashley Nicole
I can tell you who did look good, though. I thought Keke Palmer looked phenomenal.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Okay.
Ashley Nicole
From hair to toe. I also thought Latoya Luckett looked really good.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Those are the two.
Ashley Nicole
I love that dress on her and her hair. Just everything. So I like. I look at the full thing from. I look at the full image from hair all the way down to the toes. You know what I mean? You gotta see the full look. Yeah, I thought they were pretty dope.
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Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Tisha Campbell. They didn't like her look either. They said she looked like that fish from that one kids movie. But they were also talking about how she recently got a mommy makeover and they were saying that she kind of maybe threw her friends under the bus because she was like, yeah, I told my friends to go get a mommy makeover and they didn't. She named them. I think it was the. I can't remember who she said, but people are just like, why would you tell other people's business like that? Like, okay, you got a mommy makeover, you don't need to tell everybody else business. And also they were on her. They were like, you didn't just have babies. So is it a mommy makeover or did you just go get a bbl? Which one is it?
Ashley Nicole
She looked good. You know, I feel like everyone, especially in Hollywood has some nip tuck maintenance something, right? But the beautiful blessing is about it is you. You do what you want to do to your body on your time at the end of the day. So whether it is a bbl, a snatched Waist, some breast implants, some, you know, facial. Whatever you want to do for yourself, do it. I mean, it is what it is. You gonna have people who are gonna compliment you, and you're gonna have people who gonna hate on you. It just is what it is. But it's about you at the end of the day. What? Your confidence. Confidence exuding. And it's about them coins, too. You know what I mean? Like, she probably is seeing herself on television. She is a public figure. And I feel like, again, people are going to be like, ooh, she looking rough. She need to go get nip and tuck. Okay. Maybe she wasn't ready for it at the time and just mad because she.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Was putting her friend's business out. Like, oh, I'm the same. And also, they were just like, girl, that's not a mommy makeover. Your kids are grown.
Ashley Nicole
Mom. But I guess the secret mom.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah. No, it's just you went and got your body there, and you got a BBL or lipo. Just say that it's okay. Like, say that.
Ashley Nicole
My man told us, like, low key recently. Like, for example, Kylie Jenner has been more open about her plastic surgery.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Exactly. Flashing hair. And I'm like, does that really make a difference to y' all? Like, are y' all really gonna run out and say, oh, I've worked the 440cc just like Kylie Jenner? Like, yeah, they will. That's crazy to me. They will.
Ashley Nicole
And their. Their doctor is gonna be like, she has a different body. She has a different everything. And no, you can't have it. We gonna give you what we can give you.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
That's so interesting, the amount of weight that, you know, anything that these celebrities say have on their fans. You know, it's scary because what if she was like, you know what? I'm on crack now. Like, I do crack on the weekends. So y' all gonna go be crackheads now. You know what I'm saying?
Ashley Nicole
It's just like, whatever they say goes. And if you're not teaching, you know, that's why you gotta monitor these, you know, these handhelds at times, because it's harder out here for anyone in general now, like, people are telling you, like, you know, I look up and people are getting news off of the gram now of social media, and it's far from true. People have this papa, this propaganda, like, all that stuff going. Propaganda going on. I'm sorry, Everything. So politics is now being involved, and then this is how you're spending money. It's influencers. It's Lifestyle. It's cooking techniques and, and this health scare and this way of accessing this. And now you can click and shop and it comes right to you. So everything on this handheld device is becoming a source of everything. It's a therapist, it's the moon tracker. It's a, it's a grocery counter. It's everything you can imagine. So it's making people spend money and you spending the most money when you see advertisements. And at the end of the day, social media is an advertisement.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah.
Ashley Nicole
Pick what you want to buy.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
I just recently bought me some Kylie Jenner lip.
Ashley Nicole
See what I'm saying? It could be, it could be her lip. Like that's. Why do you think she was. Became a billionaire, was off of the influence of her followers and posts and also being in these places and then having like her lip kit, you know, became very popular that she had her lip kit, you know what I mean? And then we're like, wait, but we've been, we've seen your lips pre and now. You know what I'm saying? Post. So we know that's not from these lip kits, but most people didn't know that. You know what I mean? So it works.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
She had that selling lip gloss and selling dreams.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah, yeah. But yeah, you know, shout out to Tisha though, like, do whatever makes you happy. She look good and I'm sure she seems happy and you know, it's probably fuel from a lot of things too because she's also recently divorced from her husband of however many days, decades and life partners. So like this is a rejuvenation time. This is when you get your snap back in your mind.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Right.
Ashley Nicole
And really get your. Get your mind, get yourself together because she now back out there. So be your best self back out there in them streets.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah. I would say for the most part, I think the men looked the best on the BET red carpet this year. I think the men really, they came with it and there were a lot of African designers as well. And I just wanted to put that out there. I love to see that. Yeah, I loved seeing K.J. smith. She accidentally gave out her. The, the gender of her baby. You know kj, she plays on that show Sisters.
Ashley Nicole
Oh, yes, yes, I did see that. I did, I did see that.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
And told everybody she's having a baby girl. So congrats to her. I mean it was a whole bunch of like little things that I just love to see that make the BET award seem just a little bit more like in touch, more personable, more. I don't Know what we love as you know, why we tune into bet, I feel like it's getting back to its roots, you know, it's making everybody feel more human again, you know, I like that.
Ashley Nicole
I like that a lot especially. It's just, it's just a resurgence of how popular it's becoming. And I love it for us, you know, I love that I could sit with my daughter and explain to her who Ashanti is, you know what I mean? Like, I'm like, you know, all these people, like, who is this mommy? But then there was a few, obviously, like your Drakes and Kendricks and Party Next Door.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Brad Henry got her first BET award at this show.
Ashley Nicole
Isn't that something?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah. Overdue and love it.
Ashley Nicole
Very much overdue.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah.
Ashley Nicole
So like, here we are. Because you know, to me, that's what really matters the most. Yeah, we talk about the Oscars, we talk about Tonys, we talk about the Emmys, we talk about Billboard awards, all these other ones. But to get it from your people on Black Entertainment Television, you know, ran by for us, you know, all of these things. You know, at the end of the day, we gonna take care of our people and we gonna always support us, you know, and it's time that we, we keep giving those accolades out and really putting us in the forefront because we definitely get forgotten about. So we have our own platform. You know, they like if, if you don't have it, build it. So here we are having our own platform where you can excel and have awards and be recognized. I think it's awesome.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
I think it's beautiful. This is a good, good show. Oh, Kevin Hart. Kevin Hart hosted. Yes. He's always hilarious. Always. I love him. I think I've seen every single one of his stand ups when he's come into town.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah, he's a good one.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
He's funny to me.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah, he is funny. I love that. See? And bring in the bridging of the generations too. They had Drew Ski and Kaiser not there. So like Assata perked up when she saw that. She was like, okay, you know, I love it. They have both.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Oh, I saw a clip where Kasanad ran into Wale like in the hallway or something and he didn't know who he was. And then Wale went up to him and was like, yo, the people are like tripping, like, because you didn't know who I was. And Kasanat was just sitting there like, okay, but that's like one, like if somebody doesn't recognize me, I play that off. Like I'm going to act like, you know what I mean? Like I don't want to make it a more of an issue to me.
Ashley Nicole
That'S making me more awkward or anything.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
That's so awkward. And he was mic'd up. So like in streaming when he said this so you can hear, it's just, that was just embarrassing to me. But that's just another, you know, situation of where the two generations are crossing and. But I like the, the older guys. We gotta stay relevant, you know what I'm saying? So if Kassandra don't know who you are, it's a problem. Okay, well, by Kassernite, he don't know me words. He might need to step up your cookies a little bit. That's all I'm saying. I would never address it though. I just would not. I would have walked off like that didn't happen. You know what I'm saying? I would have played it off. But yeah, I don't know, I thought it was a. It was a great, great show from the flip side. So I didn't get to see the whole thing. Okay, so moving on, let's talk about Elon Musk and Donald Trump and their little billionaire beef they've been having. So just thought tech bros were too rich to be messy. Elon Musk and Donald Trump decided to square up on social media. The drama started with jabs about intelligence, turned into a full on Twitter war, and ended with Elon tweeting regret like a man who finally read his screen time report. So what started this beef and how did it spiral into a billionaire pettiness?
Ashley Nicole
Well, we have two men that are in a power of position because of not just popularity, but also wealth and access. And now when you have two egos and these narcissistic behaviors now joining forces, it's bound to be some conflict at some point because now the diva comes out, the power of authority comes out as well as being bigger. Yeah, pretty much. And so with all of that being said, very predictable that this was going to happen to the extent that it's going. You know, it's like, I thought it was interesting how Elon became a part of the Oval Office meetings and just there. Anyway, so this is not a surprise to me, just because everything in this presidency, especially with this president and when he was before last, he's always done things that have been going against our democracy and also laws and rules and regulations that have been put in place before time. So he's just inventing this a lot as he goes along. So with that being said, the disrespect that came with this, it's like, was done in the dark, comes to the light. So this was bound to happen because not only did the President give power to this entrepreneur and scientist billionaire, let alone gave him that confidence of, you can sit next to me in the Oval Office. And now I'm catching phone calls with the head of Germany and the head of this, you know, China, and this and this and this. And, you know, it's business involved. You know, it's, you know, an exchange of funds and some. Some contracts going on. So with that being said, you know, the fact that he was throwing out them jabs, Elon was on X talking about, you know, you know, he's in them files. I'd love to see it. Because, you know, President Trump was 100% saying, believe the White House. Believe the White House. Whenever we put out these statements, okay, we gonna believe this, all right? Because you were the one that vouchs for this man. You were the one that had him up there when you were getting inaugurated. You were the one that has also put your name and stamp on some contracts with this man, and you put him out there in the forefront and introduced us to him on this level. So, you know what? We gonna believe everything we see. All right? And not only that, I'm just, again, I'm not surprised. It's very predictable. This is just how everything has been. And I feel some kind of way, like the fact that I'm just like, I knew this was gonna. Just, this is gonna happen, you know, I just feel like, let me just sit this one out, you know what I mean? Like, and just observe. We just come observe this because, you know.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah.
Ashley Nicole
Be careful what you ask for. That's it.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah. I think they're both, you know, they've always been who they are, you know, so we can't be surprised that now they're beefing and having little petty. But it's still so embarrassing. I feel like every day it's just. Trump does something like, it's just so embarrassing that this is the President of the United States.
Ashley Nicole
It's been embarrassing the last 160 days. What you talking about? Ever since that inauguration when he didn't put his hand on the Bible, it's.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Been embarrassing to the days of people in power. We didn't hear from them like, that it was their people, their pr, their whoever. This is the President of the United States of America. One act with Twitter fingers, like, what is.
Ashley Nicole
Are we surprised he's been Twitter fingers. He's been saying, you're fired, and had these shows and his name everywhere on buildings. And how did we get here to pop culture President.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
It's our president. Before he was a reality TV star and whatever.
Ashley Nicole
This is America.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
And he has Twitter figures. Like, I can't take him serious. How do y' all take him serious? How or how did we get here? You know, Elon, like, don't y' all have something else to do? Like, ain't y' all business busy, you know, with some business? Don't you gotta.
Ashley Nicole
Business is the most powerful country in the world. The free world of the United States of America.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
That.
Ashley Nicole
That is.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Elon, stop. Went down so bad. I know people who went out and bought Teslas because why not? It's cheap now, you know what I'm saying? Like, I mean, I don't know. It's just. It's all a joke. It's all funny. I can't take anything serious anymore with this president.
Ashley Nicole
I saw a meme that said somebody had their passport and then a little sticky on it. As soon as, like, you open it, it says, I apologize in advance, but I don't condone what's going on in our country. Let me in. Something like that.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
It was crazy. It's embarrassing. They're protesting in LA and other cities.
Ashley Nicole
Protesting and being put to the side and sprayed and rubber br. Bullied.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yes. Horrible. And y' all are. Y' all got Twitter fingers. Y' all are really beefing right now. When. Okay, that. I. I just can't. I can't.
Ashley Nicole
Predictable and deflecting. Yeah, but again, you gotta believe people when they tell you they gonna do something for sure.
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All right, let's move on to Humble Baddie fan mail. Yeah, okay, the wedding read that. What is this thing? Was cute, but so was I.
Ashley Nicole
Want me to read?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Oh, you can read it.
Ashley Nicole
You have one right now. Sorry, I know you were. I thought you all right. The what? Okay, Humble Baddies mail. About that time. Dear Humble Baddies, I showed up to my cousin's wedding looking fine. B face, body on display, energy unmatched. Halfway through the reception, the bride told me I was stealing attention and said I should have dressed more respectfully. Girl, it's giving hater in heels. Now the aunties are calling me petty. Was I wrong for looking too good or was she just mad I was glowing harder than her highlight. Signed the cousin that whispered about but can't sit next to okay, so was the bride insecure or does CIS low key cross the line? What you think?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Okay, so I do think There is an etiquette for a wedding, okay? So I don't think you should outdo the bride. You know, I think you should not wear white. I think you should, you know, follow whatever dress code that they put in the invitation. So I do think there is, you know, a dress code that you should abide by. You should make sure that the bride is the attention, you know, grabber of the event, okay? Period. But if you sign, you fine. So it don't matter if I show up, you know what I'm saying? I'll be cute wherever I'm at and whatever I'm in and however I show up. So if, you know, if I followed all the rules and the bride feels some kind of way, I think. And if they say something, it might be an insecurity thing, because I know if I'm getting married, my attention is not on anybody else and what they got on and whatever, beyond me saying, hello, how you doing? Thank you for coming, girl. That's all the energy I really have for you. I'm not into, like, checking out and see if somebody else looked better than me at my wedding. So if it got to the point where they were addressing other people, the family is addressing people for how they showed up looking great at their wedding, then I think that might be more of an internal problem. You know, I think y' all are putting too much energy into the wrong things. You need to take a better look at, you know, the situation, what's going on, what's important, you know what I mean? Now, I did see the other day this video going viral. It was two girls riding in a car, and it was the girl driving. It was her birthday, and she was crying and she was upset because her friend in the passenger seat, she was like, girl, you look so much better. It's my birthday. Why would you wear that? You know, you got more body than me. You can't be wearing stuff like that. And it's my birthday, and I'm not gonna have fun. And da, da, da. Like, she was really upset and cr. Hysterically because her friend had showed up looking real good on her birthday. And, you know, my friend sent it to me, and we just kind of had a conversation about it. And I was just like, you know, first of all, friend was wrong for posting that. You know, recording her and posting her friend in that very distraught, vulnerable moment. But at the same time, for me, that would have been the end of our friendship. You know what I mean? So I guess, you know, posting her being hysterical, it don't even matter, because at this point, we're not going to be friends no more because, huh, like, how are you going to be mad because I showed up in the body that God gave me or I bought whatever, you know, like, I can't change my body. I'm going to wear what I wear. You know what I mean? And it's your birthday. You shouldn't be upset with me because of how I look. I don't.
Ashley Nicole
I don't know.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
That's weird to me. And her friend was, like, really upset. Like, she did it to hurt her. So I feel like, you know, situations like this, it's more there. There's some internal work that needs to be done. If you feel that pressed and insecure to say it, because we all have our insecurities. Like, you know, I'm a human. I've definitely been out with my homegirls and looked at my outfit and been like, ugh, girl, you was me. This ain't it. You not cute tonight. You know what I mean? Like, we all have our insecurities. We all have our moments where, you know, we want to look better or whatever. We all have that. But when you, like, start acting on it and speaking on it and making it an issue to me, that's where it's a problem. And I think that that's something internally that you have to work on. But like I said, there are dress codes, there are etiquette. There are things that we as worlds need to do, like girl code. You know what I'm saying?
Ashley Nicole
I agree with you as far as the point of, you know, as a bride. Well, my first wedding, I. There was a dress code, and I feel like the whole point is to have a dress code and to have it respected.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
1.
Ashley Nicole
My dress code was very much unconventional. It was wear black or white and. Or the combination of both. It is what it is.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
That's a normal dress code. Like, to tell people, like, okay, not at a wedding.
Ashley Nicole
Black usually. Okay, depends if that's the attire. But you don't usually see black, right? And then you don't see white because the bride has to be in white. But I already had. I had four children already out, so it just. It was not giving white for me. But y' all be great, you know what I'm saying? So at the end of the day, like, I had a dress code, but at the same time, I was so confident in myself and what my dress was being, you know, what I had going on and my changes and things like that, where I was focused on me. I Know who I invited to this wedding. And the whole point was, I also know that I have some dope friends, you know what I mean? I want y' all to show up and show out because it's giving. It's a festival, it's a party, it's a celebration. I want to make sure everyone's having good. A good time, they're having good food, there's great entertainment I'm not worried about. The only thing I was worried about is if you didn't come in. The dress code, meaning, you know, black or white color, and we low key. I'm going to be real with you. I had some backups in the back just in case. We had extra suit jackets and we also had dresses, like tube dresses that were either. They were in black, so just in case of things in different sizes. So just in case some things were popping off. Because respectfully, you gotta adhere to the, to the bride and groom's request. Now, I'm not stopping a wedding. I'm not confronting anybody at my wedding unless they did something very foul to me or was not invited something, right? But I'm gonna have people handle that. You know, Second of all, I'm not letting that interrupt and really just kind of change my energy either about this person. You know, your girl is fly. You know, your girl got body. You know, how she dressed, like it is what it is. You know what I mean? Like, you gotta expect that. You gotta expect her, you know, to be herself and show up now, you know, so, you know, it's really is about the, you know, the bride and the groom in this moment. People do want to take away from that. But, you know, I'm not letting it. I'm not letting it kind of change up my mental or really my energy at all. Because she didn't deserve. She doesn't deserve to have that moment now, you know, spotlighted even more on this young lady. You know what I mean? The guest. You know, I just think it was just kind of petty.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
But yeah, because first of all, you know, they be expensive sometimes. You gotta go out, you gotta buy your outfit, you gotta show up. If you sit there, you might have to go out of town. Yeah, I won't say that again any kind of way other than like, grateful that they're there. You know, as long as, like you said they respected like the dress code, you know, and even if they didn't, I still, I just feel like it's tacky to, you know, meet a guest at your own wedding with any kind of negative energy. Because that takes them off on your day. Absolutely want to bring attention to something that really don't even matter anyway. It's about planning about you and your new husband and. Yeah, yeah. To the humble baddie writer, cherry out. No. It's a no. You can't be doing that to your guests. You know, I would say that anybody else who's worried about something like this, you need to be confident in yourself. Always dress in a way that makes you feel confident. Don't try to dress like other people, because when you do that, it shows you're not as confident. You gotta find your own style. You gotta find something that complements yourself, that makes you feel good, that makes you feel comfortable. No matter what anybody else got on or whoever else is in the room with you, you just gotta worry about yourself, okay? Don't worry about nobody else. Sometimes somebody else is gonna be. Look better than you. And that's okay. That is okay. And that's when you supposed to be.
Ashley Nicole
Like, damn, girl, you look good.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
And then she gonna be like, girl, here too. And then that's it. And then, boom, that's it. That's the end of it.
Ashley Nicole
Well, let me ask you this then. Have you been. Have Ash. Have you ever been an accidental main character at somebody else's event?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Mm, yeah.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah. Well, it's awkward, it's strange.
Ashley Nicole
But also, you know.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
You can't help it if you're. If you. If that's the energy you get when you walk in the door. You know what I mean? You can't help that. But also, I think it's a way of going about it once you realize, like, okay, it's a different way to be. To handle that situation. I feel like. Like when you realize, like, okay, everybody's excited that this energy is here, you know, I feel like there's a certain way to handle it. You know what I mean? You have to be a humble baddie about the situation. You know what I'm saying? And it shows. You have to be. Just be a warm, welcoming person. And I feel like then it radiates and it rubs off onto everybody else else in the room, and then everybody else feels comfortable, Everybody else feels better.
Ashley Nicole
Every.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
It's just really how you. That. That's really what main character energy is. It's when you can walk in a room and make everybody else feel better, you know? Yeah, that's what I love.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah, I love that too.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
So, yeah, that. That could happen. But it's all in how you receive that and how you reciprocate. It at the end of the day, reciprocate that main. That main character energy. That main. That humble batting energy. Okay. Reciprocated. Because they can rub off onto the room, like, good energy, bad energy. All of that rubs off. So reciprocated. Yeah.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah, I like that.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah. Okay, so is that it? Did we answer the question? Yeah.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Let's see. I mean, was the bride insecure or did sis low key, cross the line? Both. Yeah.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Is there a limit to how fine you should look at somebody else's big day?
Ashley Nicole
You can't. You can't mute your. Your energy, your aura, or your fineness. Please don't. Let's not. Let's not. And I feel some kind of way if anybody who's a host said, you know what, Lex? Can you tone it down and be like, you know what? I'll tone it off. I'm not coming. That's weird.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Oh, my God.
Ashley Nicole
I think we're older, too. I feel like we're older, sis. And, like, I only expect, like, ash, I only expect you to come, like, ready. Like, I expect you to be t. Like, I'm like, that's my girl. She gonna be dressing dope. And you expect me to be on part two? Cause matter of fact, if you come in any other kind of way, something's wrong. You know, I'm gonna be like, are you okay?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
I want them to be like, damn, that's crew.
Ashley Nicole
That crew. Yeah. Who the single one or what's going on? I mean, that's what we want.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
You can tell those girls who only hang out with, like, one girl is a ten, and the rest are, like four and a half. We can. We know. We can see that. We read through that. That is the insecure girl right there. Cause there was no way that you can be hair done, makeup done, outfit like, and your friends ain't put together. Because I told my friend, now I'm gonna be like, girl, take that off and wear this. You know, I'm gonna give you my heels, my clothes, whatever, so we can, you know, match my energy.
Ashley Nicole
You know what I'm saying?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Like.
Ashley Nicole
Cause I know if we friends, nine.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Times out of 10, you like what I'm wearing.
Ashley Nicole
You know what I'm saying? So I already knew your style. We know who you are.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
I'm at least, you know, so if you see a girl and she's hanging out with her friends and she like, the baddest one by a long, like, child, like, then to me that screams like, you're a pick me. You Want to be seen. You want the attention and all of that. Yeah, we can see that. And we don't like that. That's not being a humble daddy. Letting your girl go out with her hair messed up or makeup ain't right, her lashes crooked or something. Then you are not a good friend. No. Period. So don't be that girl, and that's that. Yeah. Okay. Do people expect you to dim your light so they can feel bright?
Ashley Nicole
I say it's. It's the wrong people. It's never. It's never the. Yeah. It's never your. Your. Your inter. Circle. If it's the circle and they. They want you to dim it, you know, going back to what we said, then they not. That's not the proof for you. I'd rather you tell me I'm slacking.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Yeah.
Ashley Nicole
Like, you know, tell me I'm slacking. Like, are you off today, Lex? Like, what's going on? You know what I mean? Like, how you feeling? Like, put me to the side. That's more the energy I need, I think. But we're also older, too. Like, you know what I mean? We don't have time for that. We just happy to see each other and have a break or, you know, ready to, you know, have a good time, a good meal and whatever.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
No, that's crazy. You need to get new friends. If that's.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah, that's a weird thing.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
That's weird.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
All right, so to close up Humble Baddies episode tonight. Who needs to be humble this week? Let's wrap this show in a humble baddie's way by handing out this week's humble pie. Who showed their ass online this week? And who needs a reality check?
Ashley Nicole
I say it's bittersweet. To me, it was. It's Elon. He should have humble pie, but actually, I'm okay that he exposing some things. Okay, so that's the bittersweet humble pie. I'm here for it.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Humble pie.
Ashley Nicole
Yeah.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Oh, that's my mama calling me. Let me ask her. Hey, Ma. Hey. No, but I'm doing a podcast. I got a question for you. I got a question. Who needs some humble pie this week? Yeah. Who's been showing their ass this week and need some humble pie?
Ashley Nicole
It's. See, I'm with Mama, the OG Baddie. Yes.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Always try saying the same thing on his ass.
Ashley Nicole
Right?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Who else?
Ashley Nicole
Stephen.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
What's the sports?
Ashley Nicole
Man?
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
I can't stand. Oh, what he do? Okay, so Donald Trump and Stephen A. Smith, y' all need some humble high from Elon Musk. And Elon Musk. Yeah, I thought this because he mad that's my toys. I'm take all my toys and go home. Petty, petty, childish. Childish. All right. Damn. Okay, bye.
Ashley Nicole
Well, thank you all for joining us and mama making an appearance.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
I appreciate that, Mama. Dr. Roberts, humble baddest today. Yes, thank you so much for tuning in. As usual, make sure y' all like and subscribe and comment and follow. I'm Ashley Nicole on everything except for Snap. I think I'm ash3 Nicole. You can write to us at. Contact humblebaddies.com and where can they follow.
Ashley Nicole
You on Instagram at alexissademyer.
Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Awesome. All right, y' all, we'll see you next time. Thank you so much.
Ashley Nicole
Have a good night everybody.
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Podcast Summary: Club Shay Shay Episode – "BET Awards Reaction! + Musk & Trump Breakup, Clarissa Shields-Angel Reese Beef | Humble Baddies"
Release Date: June 12, 2025
Host/Authors: Ashley Nicole & Alexis Welch Stoudemire
Podcast: Humble Baddies
Ashley Nicole and Alexis Welch Stoudemire kick off the episode by welcoming listeners to another edition of the Humble Baddies podcast. They introduce themselves and set the stage for an engaging discussion filled with personal anecdotes, celebrity insights, and current events.
Solo Date and Self-Care: Ashley shares her recent solo date experience, highlighting a day filled with beach time, wine, lunch, and a 90-minute massage. She emphasizes the importance of self-care, mentioning her back issues from long hours of work in the kitchen.
"I feel rejuvenated and better. My body was saying, Lex, you need to take a time out and relax." (03:52)
Raiders Alumni Weekend: Alexis discusses her weekend attending a Raiders alumni event, praising the organization for its exceptional support of former players. She details the comprehensive wellness programs provided, including medical check-ups and mental health support, and expresses admiration for the Raiders' commitment to their alumni.
"It's a beautiful weekend to come together and support them in that way. So shout out to the Raiders organization." (05:11)
Vegas Weekend: The hosts recount their experiences in Las Vegas, contrasting it with their previous time in Oakland. Alexis shares a nostalgic moment about her birth in Vegas due to her father's military service while reaffirming her strong connection to Atlanta.
"I was born there because he was stationed at Nellis Air Force Base, but I just don't feel any attachment to it." (10:21)
Nostalgia and Performances: Ashley and Alexis reminisce about the recent BET Awards, describing it as a nostalgic event reminiscent of past award shows. They appreciate the tributes, particularly highlighting Jamie Foxx's heartfelt recognition.
"I felt like I was watching it with Assata; the parts that I did get to see... it was a good pick for this tribute." (15:50)
Fashion Highlights: The duo discusses the bold and diverse fashion statements made at the awards. They commend Keke Palmer and Latoya Luckett for their standout looks, contrasting them with criticisms aimed at Young Miami's outfit.
"I thought Keke Palmer looked phenomenal from hair to toe." (17:10)
Generational Bridge and Recognition: They appreciate how the BET Awards bridge different generations, mentioning notable moments like KJ Smith revealing her baby’s gender and Brad Henry receiving his first BET award. Alexis praises the platform for celebrating Black excellence and providing deserved recognition.
"It's time that we keep giving those accolades out and really putting us in the forefront because we definitely get forgotten about." (27:18)
Host Commentary: The hosts commend Kevin Hart's humorous hosting, noting his ability to engage multiple generations and maintain the show's relevance.
"Kevin Hart is always hilarious. Always funny to me." (28:09)
Origins of the Beef: Ashley and Alexis delve into the escalating feud between Elon Musk and Donald Trump on social media. They trace the conflict to mutual disrespect and competitive egos, highlighting how their powerful positions exacerbate their confrontations.
Impact of Public Personas: They discuss the broader implications of such high-profile disputes, noting how Musk’s involvement in Oval Office meetings and Trump's unorthodox presidency set the stage for personal clashes.
"With two egos and these narcissistic behaviors, it's bound to be some conflict." (30:57)
Social Media Dynamics: The conversation touches on how social media acts as a battleground for these titans, with Alexis expressing embarrassment over the display of immature behavior from public figures.
"It's so embarrassing that this is the President of the United States." (34:28)
Conclusion on the Feud: Both hosts express a desire to observe rather than engage, emphasizing the need for such influential individuals to exhibit humility.
"Be careful what you ask for. That's it." (34:04)
Fan Mail Segment: The hosts introduce a fan mail segment focusing on a recent incident at a cousin's wedding where a guest received backlash for stealing the spotlight. The discussion explores whether the bride's reaction was due to insecurity or if the guest crossed boundaries.
"Was the bride insecure or does she kinda cross the line?" (39:32)
Etiquette and Confidence: Ashley and Alexis debate the importance of adhering to wedding dress codes versus maintaining personal confidence. Alexis emphasizes the need to balance respect for the event with self-expression.
"You gotta worry about yourself. Sometimes somebody else is gonna look better than you. And that's okay." (49:17)
Handling Insecure Behavior: They address scenarios where friends or guests exhibit insecurity, advocating for supportive responses and setting boundaries to maintain positive energy.
"If you have face issues, you need to work on it internally. Don't make it an issue to me." (43:35)
Humble Baddies: The segment concludes with the hosts encouraging listeners to embody "humble baddie" energy—confident yet considerate. They highlight the importance of uplifting others and maintaining grace in social settings.
"Be a warm, welcoming person. Let that radiate and rub off onto everybody else." (50:43)
Humble Pie Segment: Ashley and Alexis introduce a light-hearted "humble pie" segment, playfully assigning responsibility for recent public antics to figures like Elon Musk, Donald Trump, and Stephen A. Smith. They jest about the need for these personalities to practice humility.
"Donald Trump and Stephen A. Smith, y'all need some humble pie from Elon Musk." (56:22)
Final Thoughts: The hosts wrap up the episode by inviting listeners to engage with their content on social media and their website. They express gratitude for the audience's support and tease upcoming episodes filled with more engaging discussions.
In this episode of Club Shay Shay’s "Humble Baddies," Ashley Nicole and Alexis Welch Stoudemire deliver a multifaceted discussion that blends personal wellness, sports community insights, celebrity event reactions, and commentary on high-profile public feuds. Their authentic dialogue, enriched with relatable experiences and thoughtful analysis, provides listeners with both entertainment and valuable perspectives on contemporary issues.
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