Club Shay Shay - Bobby Brown Part 2
Release Date: April 16, 2025
Host: Shannon Sharpe
Guest: Bobby Brown
Introduction
In the second part of his engaging conversation on Club Shay Shay, NFL legend Shannon Sharpe delves deep into the life and career of R&B icon Bobby Brown. From the highs of musical success to the lows of personal struggles, Brown opens up about his journey, offering listeners an intimate glimpse into his experiences and the lessons he's learned along the way.
Early Career and Group Dynamics
Bobby Brown reminisces about his time with New Edition, highlighting the group's unique bond and enduring success.
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Group Unity:
“We pray together. You know, we love each other enough to put up with each other's, you know, and put it to the side when it's time to put it to the side when it's time to work.”
(01:55) -
Leadership Roles:
Brown emphasizes Ralph Tresvant’s role as the lead singer, acknowledging the strong camaraderie within the group.
“Our lead singer Ralph Tresvant. He's smooth. He's somebody that... has practiced that whole week. He will have all the dance steps down...”
(07:08 - 08:48) -
Challenges Faced:
Discussing his departure from New Edition, Brown admits to being "too wild" and missing rehearsals and shows.
“I was too wild. I was too wild.”
(09:21)
Financial Decisions and Lessons Learned
Brown candidly reflects on his financial missteps and the wisdom gained from them.
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Excessive Spending:
“I wouldn't have spent so much money so quick. I mean, I would, I would not have done that in my right state of mind.”
(02:38 - 04:10) -
Regret and Change:
He expresses regret over unnecessary purchases, such as cars and a mansion in Atlanta, emphasizing the importance of self-care and responsible financial management.
“I would put my family on allowances... take care of myself a little bit better.”
(17:33 - 18:14) -
Generosity with Caution:
While Brown acknowledges his past generosity towards family and friends, he now advocates for financial boundaries.
“I don't regret it... my daughter didn't have to go the way she went.”
(16:59 - 19:08)
Personal Incidents and Survival
A harrowing moment in Brown's life—being shot while in a car—underscores his survival and faith.
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Shooting Incident:
Brown recounts being targeted and surviving 178 bullets without a scratch.
“Not one bullet. That's how I know I got somebody watching over me.”
(25:00 - 26:12) -
Faith and Protection:
He attributes his survival to divine protection and emphasizes the dangers of returning to his hometown.
“Prayer has always been a part of my life where God has always been like right there, protecting me...”
(26:12 - 26:25)
Acting Career and Reality TV
Transitioning from music, Brown shares his experiences in acting and reality television.
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Acting Roles:
Brown discusses his roles in films like "Thin Line Between Love and Hate," highlighting his creative contributions on set.
“There was one scene where Martin wasn't there, and it was basically me directing the scene.”
(30:12 - 30:37) -
Reality TV Experiences:
He talks about participating in reality shows with both his ex-wife and current wife, emphasizing the authenticity and challenges of being on camera constantly.
“They basically gave me that opportunity to fall in love with, you know, being truthful to myself.”
(35:14 - 35:53)
Personal Life and Family
Brown opens up about his family life, parenting, and the influence of his upbringing.
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Parenting Philosophy:
“Family is everything. Laughter is a big part of growth and just, you know, love how to love, how to love somebody.”
(48:28 - 48:44) -
Challenges and Loss:
He shares the tragic loss of his daughter at age 22 and the subsequent establishment of a charity to support victims of domestic violence.
“The charity is called Bobbi Kristina Serenity House... My daughter didn't have to go the way she went.”
(50:07 - 51:38) -
Lessons from Upbringing:
Reflecting on his childhood in the Boston projects, Brown discusses the impact of witnessing violence and nearly being molested, highlighting the role of prayer and family support in overcoming trauma.
“Makes you not trust a lot. But prayer has always been a part of my life...”
(47:34 - 48:24)
Charity Work and Lessons on Life
Bobby Brown emphasizes the importance of giving back and the lessons life has taught him.
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Establishing a Charity:
“I don't want to see any other families have to go through what I've went through or have to bury a loved one ever again.”
(50:10 - 50:26) -
Life Lessons:
Brown shares his philosophy on life, focusing on positivity, hard work, and the fulfillment that comes from staying true to oneself.
“Life is a long road. But if you stay positive and work hard, life can be so fulfilling.”
(51:38 - 51:53) -
Advice to the Youth:
He offers a poignant message to his younger self, urging against drug use.
“Don't do drugs. Don't ever do drugs.”
(52:02 - 52:12)
Reflections and Advice
In the concluding segments, Brown reflects on his achievements and offers advice to aspiring artists.
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Solo Career Insights:
“No downside to being a solo artist. Once I took control of my career, it was all upsides.”
(10:21 - 10:57) -
Overcoming Challenges:
He discusses the pressures of fame and the importance of continuously honing one's craft to stay relevant and successful.
“Work on your craft, always practice on your craft.”
(14:22 - 15:19) -
Enduring Brotherhood:
Despite his solo success, Brown expresses unwavering loyalty to New Edition, cherishing the brotherhood and the group's unique accomplishments.
“No One has done what they have, what we have accomplished.”
(13:29 - 13:37) -
Health and Wellness:
Emphasizing the importance of maintaining good health, Brown talks about his fitness regimen and the desire to stay healthy for his family.
“I just want to be in better health, better shape. I want to be around for a long time.”
(44:52 - 45:24)
Notable Quotes
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On Group Unity:
“We pray together. You know, we love each other enough to put up with each other's...”
(01:55) -
On Financial Mistakes:
“I wouldn't have spent so much money so quick... I would not have done that in my right state of mind.”
(02:38 - 04:10) -
On Survival and Faith:
“Not one bullet. That's how I know I got somebody watching over me.”
(25:00) -
On Life Lessons:
“Life is a long road. But if you stay positive and work hard, life can be so fulfilling.”
(51:38 - 51:53) -
Advice to Younger Self:
“Don't do drugs. Don't ever do drugs.”
(52:02 - 52:12)
Conclusion
Shannon Sharpe's conversation with Bobby Brown on Club Shay Shay offers a profound exploration of the artist's multifaceted life. From navigating the complexities of fame and personal struggles to his unwavering commitment to family and philanthropy, Brown's story is one of resilience, redemption, and continuous growth. Listeners are left with valuable insights into the importance of self-awareness, the power of faith, and the significance of maintaining strong personal relationships.
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