Humble Baddies - Part 2: Relle Does Nicki Minaj Challenge + Best Childhood Memories

Published on July 29, 2025 by iHeartPodcasts and Shay Shay Media

Introduction

In the second part of the "Humble Baddies" series, hosts Shirel Rosado and Alexis Stonemeyer delve into the intriguing world of social media trends, childhood nostalgia, and evolving parenting styles. This episode blends humor, heartfelt memories, and practical advice, providing listeners with an engaging and relatable experience.

Relle Takes on the Nicki Minaj Challenge

Timestamp: 02:52 - 11:13

The episode kicks off with a discussion about the viral Nicki Minaj challenge sweeping TikTok. Shirel shares her experience attempting the challenge, humorously titled "I was too late or just late," highlighting the playful spirit behind participating in such trends.

Shirel Rosado [03:07]: “I saw you real bravo, by the way. It actually went viral a little viral.”

Alexis addresses the common critiques regarding age and social media trends, emphasizing that abilities and courage, rather than age, should determine participation.

Alexis Stonemeyer [03:07]: “If you can do it, it's an able thing. So forget age.”

They discuss the potential physical risks associated with these challenges, underscoring the importance of safety over viral fame.

Alexis Stonemeyer [03:22]: “Some are falling, hurting themselves... They’re going to the ER for the gram. Like, that doesn't add up to me.”

Shirel reflects on societal perceptions of age in relation to modern trends, asserting that self-expression should not be confined by age stereotypes.

Shirel Rosado [07:35]: “Is age just a number when it comes to self-expression or should certain trends be left to the younger crowd?”

Age, Authenticity, and Self-Expression

Timestamp: 11:13 - 25:22

Alexis passionately argues against age-based limitations, sharing personal anecdotes about embracing her appearance and lifestyle choices regardless of societal expectations.

Alexis Stonemeyer [05:21]: “I don’t think it’s the age thing for me. I’m just not gonna put the age on anything.”

The conversation shifts to the evolving dynamics of parental influence and the pressure of traditional milestones, such as retirement at 40.

Alexis Stonemeyer [06:27]: “Back in the day, our parents had a lot of pressure on them to do this by this date or by this age.”

Shirel and Alexis then explore the importance of supporting younger generations in their pursuits, highlighting the reciprocal benefits of such support.

Shirel Rosado [09:00]: “If they want their mama to come in and do a TikTok with them, I'm gonna do a TikTok with them.”

Alexis underscores the need for authenticity and personal inspiration over conforming to external expectations, sharing her confidence in expressing her true self through unique styles and personal choices.

Alexis Stonemeyer [08:11]: “Being yourself, you're gonna love who you're gonna love on. Be safe... People are very creative.”

Cherished Childhood Memories

Timestamp: 16:03 - 23:44

The hosts transition into a nostalgic exploration of their childhoods, reminiscing about simpler times filled with outdoor play, community interactions, and family traditions.

Alexis Stonemeyer [16:03]: “Going outside and playing, being outside in the element... we used to have that grit.”

Shirel shares her fond memories of summer visits to her great grandparents' house, highlighting the strong sense of community and familial bonds.

Shirel Rosado [18:21]: “My favorite thing as a child was going to our great grandparents' house... everybody knew who we were.”

Alexis reflects on the physical activities and neighborhood interactions that shaped her resilience and social skills.

Alexis Stonemeyer [17:27]: “We would make dandelion bracelets and run the grass. It’s now harder because it’s not safe.”

The discussion emphasizes how these formative experiences fostered a sense of belonging and discipline, contrasting them with the more isolated and technology-driven upbringing of today.

Evolving Parenting Styles and Traditions

Timestamp: 25:22 - 32:34

Shirel and Alexis delve into modern parenting, comparing it to their own upbringing. They discuss the balance between maintaining cherished traditions and adapting to contemporary lifestyles.

Shirel Rosado [30:10]: “What happened at Chappaquiddick?”

Alexis shares childhood rituals such as morning prayers and family gatherings, expressing how these practices have influenced their approach to parenting.

Alexis Stonemeyer [22:53]: “We go to church together... I instill God.”

They critique the "helicopter parenting" trend, advocating for fostering independence and resilience in children.

Alexis Stonemeyer [30:52]: “We would fall and we have to brush it off and get back up and figure that out.”

Shirel reflects on the negative impact of authoritarian parenting styles, emphasizing the importance of open communication and emotional support.

Shirel Rosado [31:17]: “I let them communicate, I let them talk. I let them express themselves.”

Humble Baddies Mail: Business Advice

Timestamp: 32:34 - 35:04

In the segment "Humble Baddies Mail," the hosts address a listener's struggles with maintaining consistency in a new business. Alexis and Shirel provide practical advice on overcoming challenges and sustaining motivation.

Shirel Rosado [33:26]: “Everything is not going to be perfect... Learn how to navigate through when you go through those trials and tribulations.”

They emphasize the importance of taking risks, investing in oneself, and setting realistic goals.

Alexis Stonemeyer [34:08]: “Set goals... break it down into quarters, seasons... be patient and don't give up.”

The hosts also highlight the value of community support and leveraging personal networks to enhance business growth.

Shirel Rosado [34:33]: “Use friends, use consultants... be open to it.”

Conclusion

Shirel and Alexis wrap up the episode by encouraging listeners to embrace both their past and present, leveraging their experiences to foster personal growth and community connection. They invite audiences to subscribe and engage with the "Humble Baddies" community on social media, ensuring that the conversation continues beyond the episode.

Shirel Rosado [38:05]: “Until next time, make sure you guys subscribe to Humble Baddies podcast. Tell everyone around you...”

Key Takeaways:

1. Age Should Not Limit Self-Expression: Both hosts advocate for authenticity and participation in trends regardless of age, emphasizing that ability and courage are more important than age.

2. Nostalgia for Simpler Times: Reflecting on their childhoods, the hosts highlight the importance of community, outdoor play, and family traditions in shaping their resilience and social skills.

3. Evolving Parenting Styles: Shirel and Alexis discuss the balance between maintaining traditional values and adapting to modern parenting approaches, stressing the need for open communication and emotional support.

4. Practical Business Advice: In addressing listener questions, the hosts offer actionable strategies for overcoming business challenges, including risk-taking, goal setting, and utilizing personal networks.

5. Community and Support: The episode underscores the value of community engagement and mutual support in both personal and professional realms.

Notable Quotes:

• Shirel Rosado [07:35]: “Is age just a number when it comes to self-expression or should certain trends be left to the younger crowd?”

• Alexis Stonemeyer [05:21]: “I don’t think it’s the age thing for me. I’m just not gonna put the age on anything.”

• Alexis Stonemeyer [16:03]: “Going outside and playing, being outside in the element... we used to have that grit.”

• Shirel Rosado [31:17]: “I let them communicate, I let them talk. I let them express themselves.”

• Shirel Rosado [33:26]: “Everything is not going to be perfect... Learn how to navigate through when you go through those trials and tribulations.”

Stay Connected:

• Shirel Rosado: [Instagram: ShirelRosado_]
• Alexis Stonemeyer: [Instagram: Alexis_Stonemeyer]
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