Kristy & Desmond Scott’s Viral Breakup, Taking Breaks In Relationships, & Paul’s Biggest Crush

Summary

Club Shay Shay – Kristy & Desmond Scott’s Viral Breakup, Taking Breaks In Relationships, & Paul’s Biggest Crush

Podcast: Club Shay Shay (Truth After Dark Segment)
Date: January 26, 2026
Host: Shannon Sharpe (Shay Shay Media/iHeartPodcasts)
Co-hosts (featured): Azar Faraday, Paul Pierce

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Episode Overview

This episode of Club Shay Shay, airing as a “Truth After Dark” segment, dives into trending relationship topics with NBA veteran Paul Pierce and co-host Azar Faraday. The duo tackles the viral breakup of internet couple Kristy and Desmond Scott, the complications of taking breaks or “space” in relationships, gender roles in breakups and infidelity, public perceptions, celebrity crushes, and cultural commentary. Lively debates, personal anecdotes, pop culture references, and candid views on modern relationships make the episode both honest and entertaining.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Kristy & Desmond Scott’s Breakup: Internet Reactions & Infidelity

• [06:55] Azar summarizes the viral drama: Kristy Scott filed for divorce from Desmond Scott (Instagram-famous couple together since 14) citing “irreconcilable differences” and alleged infidelity. Speculation and backlash swirl on social media, with fans and trolls dissecting their split and taking sides.
  • “She filed for divorce and basically said it was… irreconcilable differences… she said that it was because of infidelity – alleged, right? ...Desmond came on the Internet and he did a statement... he made some bad choices and basically cheated.” — Azar Faraday [07:00]
• Public seems split, often blaming Kristy.
  • “The Internet is basically blaming her. Everyone is dogging her, basically saying you were so annoying.” — Azar [08:20]

Does greater female success drive male infidelity?

• Azar asks if women being more successful or in the limelight makes men likely to stray.
• Paul: Being with someone since adolescence isn’t a recipe for longevity; people’s needs evolve.
  • “When you 14, you don’t know what you want. What I wanted at 14 and what I need at 21 is two different things… that 14-year-old version and the 30-year-old are two different people. People start having a better understanding of themselves.” — Paul Pierce [10:18]
• Both reflect on how internet fame and attention complicate relationships.

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2. Taking Space or Breaks: Does it Ever Work?

• Debate on what “taking space” means in long-term relationships or marriage.
  • “I don’t believe in breaks or space… If I’m asking my man to move out, I’m pretty much done.” — Azar [13:44]
  • “If you’re saying that you need space, you’re pretty much about to break up.” — Paul Pierce [15:14]
• Women are generally “checked out” by the time they request space. Men might come back after being unhappy for a year, but it’s about perspective and emotional closure.
  • “If you’re going to take the work to tell a man to move out, you’re done – because you’re going backwards.” — Azar [16:10]

Relationship Assessment & Ending

• Azar: Cheating, disrespect, or verbal abuse chips away at trust and connection.
• Paul: Lasting relationships are like the economy—good years and bad years. Weathering storms is part of the journey, but too much “damage” can be irreparable.
  • “All long-term relationships… like the economy. You have good years and bad years. It’s not always sunny days.” — Paul [21:45]
  • “When women get cheated on, disrespected, lied to – they start to lose respect, and it chips away at them.” — Azar [22:20]

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3. Forgiveness, Cheating & Trust Issues

• Azar’s personal stories about discovering infidelity through phones. The gut-punch of realizing a partner’s betrayal.

  • “My stomach was in my ass… I was sick to my stomach.” — Azar [26:34]
  • “I’ve seen all type of stuff in the text message… a video of him getting head…” — Azar [28:10]

• Texting/venting about relationships to outsiders is another major line crossed.

  • “What I don’t like is a man that’s complaining about your relationship with me… You have to talk about me to get some action. That’s so disrespectful.” — Azar [28:25]

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4. More/Less Segment (Light-Hearted Q&A)

[31:37]

• What do women need to do more for men to take them seriously?
  • “Hold accountability. Duh.” — Paul [31:47]
• What makes men feel chosen and not just wanted for material things?
  • Paul, jaded: “Nothing.” — [33:18]
• What can men do to make women feel secure?
  • Paul jokes: “Stay home every day and don’t do nothing with their boys.” [33:45]
  • Azar: Trust isn’t about surveillance—real trust is built in absence.
    • “Trust is built when I don’t see you. You can’t micromanage your partner.” — Azar [35:40]

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5. Celebrity Crushes & “It” Girls/Guys

[38:21]

• Azar: Claims she doesn’t have celebrity crushes, as “if I’m interested, I’m dating you.”
• Paul: Laments there are fewer clear “it” girls/guys now versus the past (e.g., Halle Berry, Beyoncé, Morris Chestnut), with social media influencers diluting old-school celebrity culture.
  • “Who’s the new Morris Chestnut, who’s like… the ‘it’ girls today?” — Paul [40:22]
• Discussion of OnlyFans models, rappers, and modern standards of beauty.

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6. Parental Boundaries: Blueface & His Mother

[52:42]

• Azar recounts Blueface’s public issues with his mother, who makes uncomfortable and explicit comments comparing Blueface’s anatomy to her boyfriend’s.
  • “As a mom, that's crazy as hell… why are you talking about your son's size and comparing it to your man's?” — Azar [52:24]
• Paul: Some mothers are just protective/attached; Azar pushes back, highlighting emotional boundaries and role confusion.
  • “You’re putting the weight on your son to show up like a man. That’s uncomfortable for the son.” — Azar [53:36]

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7. “Pick Me” Women & Integrity in Dating

[56:48]

• On public figures like Selena Powell, known for exposing high-profile men:

  • “Any woman who messes with a married man… has low self-esteem and low self-respect. You have no moral compass, you’ll do anything.” — Azar [57:07]

• Paul (to Azar): “You represent a voice for women that have standards… you’re original.” [59:13]

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8. Interracial Relationships & Cultural Responsibility

[62:21]

• Viral influencer Sadia Khan’s comments on why black men date outside their race—and Azar’s personal perspective as a biracial woman.
  • “A lot of women will date black men that are not black, have kids… but they won’t really accept their culture or teach their kids how to be black.” — Azar [63:29]
  • Emphasizes that parents should learn from and honor their child’s cultural identity.
    • “If you’re gonna lay up with a Black man and have a Black child, you need to understand you have a Black child.” — Azar [64:51]

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9. Single Mothers & “Accepting Defeat” — Challenging Kevin Samuels

• Reflecting on Kevin Samuels’ controversial advice that women over 40 with kids should “accept defeat” in dating.
  • “You women need to accept defeat. If you’re 40 with multiple kids and you don’t have a boyfriend… it’s okay to accept defeat.” — Paul [66:39]
• Azar: Powerfully refutes this, saying mindset is everything—children don’t preclude new relationships.
  • “If you want a man, you can have a man. A man is not the hardest thing to get!” — Azar [68:30]
  • “The mind is the strongest muscle you have.” — Paul [69:32]

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• On breaks in relationships:
  “If you’re saying you need space, you’re about to break up.” — Paul Pierce [15:14]

• On relationship evolution:
  “That 14-year-old version and the 30-year-old are different people… people start having a better understanding of themselves.” — Paul Pierce [10:18]

• On public perceptions of cheating:
  “You don’t know how she is with him, and you don’t know how he is with her… they just might not be compatible in the long run.” — Azar [11:43]

• On emotional closure:
  “Women, if you’re going to do the work to move a man out—you’re done. That’s it.” — Azar [16:10]

• On cheating discovery:
  “My stomach was in my ass… I was sick to my stomach.” — Azar [26:34]

• On self-respect:
  “Any woman who knowingly does that [dates a married man] does not have a moral compass.” — Azar [57:07]

• On mindsets:
  “The mind is the strongest muscle that you have.” — Paul Pierce [69:32]

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Timestamps for Key Segments

• [06:55] – Kristy & Desmond Scott breakup details
• [10:18] – Why childhood relationships rarely last
• [13:44] – Taking breaks “space” in relationships
• [22:00] – Endurance in long-term relationships
• [31:37] – More/Less Q&A segment
• [38:21] – Celebrity crushes and “it” girls/guys debate
• [52:42] – Blueface’s mother and parental boundaries
• [56:48] – Selena Powell & morals in dating
• [62:21] – Interracial relationships & responsibilities
• [66:39] – Single moms and “accepting defeat”
• [69:32] – Final thoughts on mindset and positivity

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Tone and Style

The episode is lively, unfiltered, and direct—true to the personalities of Paul Pierce and Azar Faraday. There’s a blend of humor, cultural references, and real-life vulnerability. Both hosts aren’t afraid to call out hypocrisy or societal double standards, fiercely defend their stances, swap stories, and debate from personal and gendered perspectives, generating both entertainment and food for thought.

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Useful For:

• Anyone navigating modern relationships, breakups, or considering the impact of social media on romance.
• Listeners interested in candid male-female dialogue on love, cheating, standards, and gender dynamics.
• Fans of unscripted, real talk podcasts blending pop culture and lived experience.

Transcript

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[Azar Faraday]

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[Azar Faraday]

He got the toes out. Y' all better not be talking about his toes or I'm coming for you.

[Paul Pierce]

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[Azar Faraday]

I seen a woman with lipstick write his name on her titties like this. Sending it was a video. Yeah, I seen videos.

[Paul Pierce]

That's not cheating. Excuse me, who's your crush?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't have crushes. I mean dead ass serious. I don't have a crush. People have asked this. We already know who your crush is. Ruby Rose. That's your it. That's your only fans models is your crushes crazy. That's what you be on.

[Paul Pierce]

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[Paul Pierce]

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[Azar Faraday]

What's cracking? How you feeling? You got the toes out?

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, I got the fresh petty.

[Azar Faraday]

The fresh petty?

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, I'm good.

[Azar Faraday]

He got the toes out. Y' all better not be talking those about his toes or I'm coming for you.

[Paul Pierce]

The petty.

[Azar Faraday]

He got the fresh petty. Okay. They be talking about them toes. They'd be so sick of them toes.

[Paul Pierce]

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[Azar Faraday]

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[Paul Pierce]

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[Azar Faraday]

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[Paul Pierce]

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[Azar Faraday]

Straight to it. First and foremost, the buzz on the Internet is simply about Christy, Sarah and Desmond Scott Breaking right. She filed divorce papers. If you don't know, they're a couple on Instagram. They're very popular. They both, like have millions of followers, right. And they basically have been together since they've been 14 years old. Right. And I usually don't enjoy a lot of couple content, but the. Their couple content was always really funny to me and I liked it a lot. I was personally a fan of both of them, but I know not to idolize people or couples, especially on the Internet. But long story short, she filed for divorce and it basically said that it was ir. How do you say that word? Not recon. Irreconcilable differences and like, no way to fix it. You know, like, she said that in the papers, like, there's no way that will, like, no chance of getting back together, basically. And she said that it was because of infidelity alleged, right? So then TMZ got a hold of that, whatever the case may be. Desmond came on the Internet and he did a statement. And his statement basically said, in so many words, I wanted to separate. In December, I talked to her about a separation that didn't happen. And in that time, I made some bad choices and basically cheated. And now she has said a few things. She's. Her posts have been very like, lunch, oh, me body. And then she just posted that in her new house because they had just built this beautiful house together. She posted in her new house today and put same address and had a whole photo shoot. Right. So it's crazy because the Internet is basically blaming her. Right. And they're like, he's probably like even with the same address post, they're in the comments talking about like oh well girl, he probably like it not dealing with your annoying ass and your drama. It's women, it's men. Everyone is like dogging her and basically saying like he don't care about that house cuz that house wasn't bringing him peace. He probably licking whipped cream off the next girl's butt and all type of stuff. They're saying crazy stuff about her and basically saying like you were so annoying.

[Paul Pierce]

And.

[Azar Faraday]

And then some people are saying like how as a man could you cheat on a woman that's so beautiful? Like she's beautiful, she's funny, she's cool. Like the woman is really gorge. She's funny, she has a cool character. I don't really know her, so I don't know who she is as a person. You know what I mean? But that's kind of what the Internet is on. Mainly siding with him.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah.

[Azar Faraday]

Some people are saying he's gay, he cheated with a man and some people are just saying like he is over her, whatever. What do you think? Do you think that women becoming more successful and being in the limelight like that can drive a man to want to cheat on her?

[Paul Pierce]

I think when I look at her I see she got millions of followers.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah.

[Paul Pierce]

Very beautiful girl.

[Azar Faraday]

She is.

[Paul Pierce]

That's not the recipe for longevity.

[Azar Faraday]

They've been together since they were 14.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, when you 14, you don't know what you want. That's, that's the deal. Like when you be with somebody at 14 and you with them and then you started getting a level of success or you start to grow up, like your knees change as you get older. What I wanted at 14 and what I need at 21 is two different things.

[Azar Faraday]

Right. And they're in their 30s.

[Paul Pierce]

That's what I'm saying. So like over time you can imagine that some people stayed together just because they was together before the success. But like when you start becoming a man and you start having needs and you start becoming a woman, you have different needs. Now she divorced him based on him being, having infidelity. Like he probably didn't want her for a long time. But it worked because they had success, they had notoriety, they was probably making, they was making money. So it worked. But like that 14 year old version of her and the 30 year is two different people and a man. That's a boy, that's a man. You start having a better understanding of yourself and what you need to be a man and what you need to kind of like, as fulfillment from your woman. And maybe she didn't meet those needs and they stuck it out because of the success they had together. You know what I'm saying? And that can truly happen.

[Azar Faraday]

And, you know, that's a real assessment. That's real. And I feel like even with him, he didn't have an Instagram. He created an Instagram, like, last year.

[Paul Pierce]

He.

[Azar Faraday]

He has millions of followers, too. And he. In his comments, because he's a very. They're both extremely attractive. He's a very attractive man, too. And all of his comments are like, women, like, ooh, I'm waiting for him to be like. So I'm sure he probably had so many women throwing himself, themselves at him, and that was probably like, wow. I don't know. But I just feel like for me, when you look at it on the outside and people can say whatever they want to say, and I feel like people chalk things up to, like, can man never be satisfied or happy? Because she's beautiful, she's funny, she's this. But you don't really know how she is with him, and you don't know how he is with her. They just might not be compatible in the long run. You know what I mean? But they have two kids. You know, they built this house together that's, like, beautiful. And, you know, she's extremely successful in her career, and he kind of is doing his own thing, too. And, you know, obviously men don't usually leave women. So the fact that he's the one who said he wanted to separate her last year.

[Paul Pierce]

He didn't file for divorce.

[Azar Faraday]

She didn't file. But he said he wanted to separate. Like, he was cool.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, because if you really wanted to, you're fouling. He didn't want to leave her. He probably wanted a little bit of separation or some time to himself, but he didn't. Women, she. She. She put her foot down because you cheated.

[Azar Faraday]

If you didn't want to really leave me, you could have separated and not cheated. You cheated on me and you started messing with other women. And that's my fault. Like, yeah, I'm going to divorce you at that point because you disrespected our marriage. If you needed space, you can take space we never talked about.

[Paul Pierce]

So let me ask you this. So what does taking space mean?

[Azar Faraday]

Maybe we just need Space from each other for a second.

[Paul Pierce]

What does that mean?

[Azar Faraday]

Focus on yourself.

[Paul Pierce]

What does that mean? We live together, we have two kids. What does I need space mean? Moving out the house.

[Azar Faraday]

I don't know what that looked like for him. He's the one who was asking to separate.

[Paul Pierce]

What is, what would your definition or what would you do if you needed space for a man you live with and have two kids? Would you, what would you just imagine to be?

[Azar Faraday]

Well, I don't know, saying I need space. I feel like I, I, I'm not saying that because I feel like space for me is once we like, I don't believe in breaks in space.

[Paul Pierce]

Answer. I'm asking.

[Azar Faraday]

You're asking me and I'm telling you that like, I don't know what else.

[Paul Pierce]

You don't know what that's going to look like.

[Azar Faraday]

Space. Cuz I don't believe in breaks or like I feel like space for me looks like I'm going to take a.

[Paul Pierce]

You have to be married to say we want space. I think marriage used to ask for space. In a marriage, like boyfriend and girlfriend, you just break up.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I think if marriage you want space, then I would probably say like, I would just take some time to like, do me, like go out for the day, be gone for a week, maybe take a little vacation. Like I'm gonna take some time to think, like I'll be back. But I don't think that it's just like moving out and this and that.

[Paul Pierce]

But does that put a chink in the, in the relationship, the space?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't know.

[Paul Pierce]

So say this. If I say, hey babe, I need some space. And I'm like, but I just, I need to, I'm gonna get an Airbnb for like a couple weeks.

[Azar Faraday]

That's gonna blow me.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, but I'm saying because at that.

[Azar Faraday]

Point, do you just want to break up? That's my problem. I'm gonna go to like, okay, so you just don't want to be with me at this point. Like, that's what I'm gonna look at it because it's like, what you what? Like I can understand like a day or two. I can understand a weekend. I can understand that. But God damn, you need a. Where we be for three. You might be reevaluating this whole relationship and I need to know what's up right now so I can get my mind prepared.

[Paul Pierce]

If you're saying that you need space, you're pretty much about to break up.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, that's what I can feel for sure.

[Paul Pierce]

Because I remember, you know, in my marriage, she said, you know, maybe we should live apart. See what that looks like.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, that looks like we're not together, honey.

[Paul Pierce]

See what that looks like? And that was an indicator of, like, yeah, it's probably over or gonna be over. And women try to put it to where it's like, let's see if, you know, our time apart grows us back stronger.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah.

[Paul Pierce]

You know, it could go one or either way, though, you know?

[Azar Faraday]

But it usually doesn't, though. I'm gonna keep it real, because even me, I've done that. I haven't been married, but I lived with somebody, and I literally was like, I think we should live apart and just see what that looks like. And that looks like us breaking up. That looked like. He moved. It was very hard for him to want to move. He didn't move on at all. He moved, and he was trying to get it, and I was just like, I'm not feeling it. And as soon as he moved, like, I was sad and everything, but I just felt like I needed you gone. Like. And then now that you're gone, I feel refreshed. I'm sad, but I'm now, like, as a woman, if you're gonna move from a man, you're done. There's nothing else. Like, if you're gonna take the work to be like, you have to move, and we're gonna move, you're done because you're going backwards. Women, their ultimate goal is to live with somebody, have a family, be married, be united. If I'm saying move out, we're taking steps backwards. Where we go from there. I'm confused. Like, you just moved out. You got your own space. You're not about to just break a lease and do all this. You're gonna have your own space now, are we not?

[Paul Pierce]

This is what I'm saying. Because then, you see, I think it could go one or two ways. Like, you said, like, you break the space, but then maybe breaking the space helps you see the value that that person brought.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, but I think that happens for men more than women. I think if women do that, they're checked out. Women are not gonna do that.

[Paul Pierce]

Women do that. But, like. Like, women don't understand the man's value and vice versa. You know, men don't understand a woman's value sometimes, because when you get used to each other being around, you take it for granted.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I agree.

[Paul Pierce]

So now the space creates. Like, damn, I miss at night, laying with her. I miss waking up, having some breakfast. I miss When I came home, it was. It was watching our shows and it was just like, you start seeing like. Like it can turn into that to where you can say, oh, damn, you know what? It's best that we be together. Because I'm sad right now.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I get that. You know, but that's moving out of sadness. Like, I. When I. My ex moved out, I missed him. I missed Friday night, our routine of hitting it, vibing, cooking, eating. What are we gonna eat? Going here, watching movies, watching our shows, cuddling. I missed all of that. But it wasn't strong enough for me to be like, we're gonna get back together. Because it doesn't make sense. I would never want you to move out if I wanted to get back together with you. Like, at that point, a woman has made up mind. I'm done. And now I have to get the strength to move on. So when I miss you, I'mma call my homegirl. When I miss you, I'mma cry. I'mma watch a movie. I'm going to talk on the phone to my homegirl all night. I'mma go somewhere. Like, that's what we're doing at that point. We're like, trying to figure out on how to move on.

[Paul Pierce]

Did you break up with all your boyfriends?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I did.

[Paul Pierce]

Oh.

[Azar Faraday]

But it's just cuz men, like, they'll cheat and they'll do all type of just to get you to break up with them.

[Paul Pierce]

So, like, how many relationships would you say you've been in?

[Azar Faraday]

I've been in three serious relationships.

[Paul Pierce]

And all of them cheated?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I think. Well, I'm not gonna say all of them. One of them. I don't know if he cheated or not.

[Paul Pierce]

So why did y' all break up?

[Azar Faraday]

Because we just couldn't get it right. Like, it was just too much arguments and this and that. Like, it was basically like, I never caught him cheating for real. I don't know if he cheated or not, but it was just like negative energy. Like, it was just not right. Like, you know, he was doing weird. I don't know.

[Paul Pierce]

Well, how did y' all break up?

[Azar Faraday]

I broke up with him.

[Paul Pierce]

You just said, I don't want to be with you because.

[Azar Faraday]

No. Like, I have been. I'm. No, I'm not easy to give up on somebody. Like, I'll fight and be like, okay, we need to do this. Maybe we get therapy. Maybe we could figure it out. And we fought like, and it was just like, not working. It was like, I'm tired, I'm tired.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, I Don't want to drain you.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I'm just drained. I can't just be with someone who's like. It's like, other things other than cheating. Like, for instance, like, bringing me down, dimming my light, saying, little slick, being a hater. Like, you don't want me to be cracking because you're in. Like, you feel intimidated. You feel this, like, all of this stuff, and it's like, I don't like that. Like, I don't feel like you want to see me win and like, you don't want to see me at my best. You want to see me, like, sad and down and like, you want to bring me down. You want to say slick about me. I don't like that.

[Paul Pierce]

So it was verbal abuse?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, it was, like, verbal stuff. And it was like, just really mean behaviors and, like, very, like, just. I don't know, I didn't like all of it, and I just felt like it was just always something. And I'm like, I don't. I don't like to fight like that. Like, I don't like to just be fighting every day. Like, I'm drained off of that. Like, I'm not gonna live like that, period. You know what I mean? So if I'm. If we're not. Like, I look at things like this. If you're in a relationship just like a business or anything else, you should assess it and be like, am I better because of this, or is this making me worse? Like, am I down bad, feeling bad about myself, not doing this, not doing that because of this relations, or is it, like, making me flourish? We're. We're vibing. We're winning together. Like, what is it giving? You know what I mean? And I just think that when it's not given that, and I think sometimes men, they don't want to let go too. And so, like, sometimes as a woman, you have to force that hand and be like, look, this is not good for neither of us. Low key. Like, you're not happy either. You just don't want to, like, do it. You know what I mean? You're not happy. A lot of times when a woman is done, a man is really not happy. He's just not, like. And you feel that and you're, like, not gonna do it as a man. So I'm gonna do it. And it's gonna hurt for both of us, but it's gonna be better for us in the long run.

[Paul Pierce]

But. All right, so this is what I say. Yes, the man. Usually when a woman breaks up the man's not happy either. Yeah, but the man could deal with not being happy for a year and come back.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, but a woman like this is.

[Paul Pierce]

The deal about relationships. And what we have to understand that all long term relationships, it's just like the economy. You have good years and bad years.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I agree with that.

[Paul Pierce]

You know, everything ain't gonna be always good.

[Azar Faraday]

I agree with that.

[Paul Pierce]

The people who together, 20, 25 years, you think it was all smooth sailing.

[Azar Faraday]

No, I agree.

[Paul Pierce]

No, you gonna like. It's just like riding in the ocean in your boat, like you gonna. You. It ain't gonna be calm water all the time. It ain't gonna be sunny days every day. You're gonna go through rainstorm, waves, boat. Damn.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah.

[Paul Pierce]

Can we get this thing back afloat?

[Azar Faraday]

But sometimes there's too much damage that's been done and it's just too far gone. You can't come back from that. And as a woman. See, what men don't understand is when women get cheated on, disrespected, lied to, they start to lose respect for that person and it chips away at them and they can't get that back. I can't lose.

[Paul Pierce]

I'm happy for right now.

[Azar Faraday]

Yes.

[Paul Pierce]

And I was just in the gym with him. I'm happy for Matt Barnes.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, congrats.

[Paul Pierce]

And I told him congratulations on reconciling and getting married. You know, they have a couple beautiful kids. And I thought that was a beautiful thing, you know, And I could see the change in him, you know, and I'm so happy for him. So I want to say congratulations to Matt. Had a chance to talk to him. Cause we was working out the other day, and I think that's a beautiful thing. And you know, he's been through some things, and so love is strong. You know, obviously, you know, they had their issues. It was all in the public, but they was able to work it out and get married. So you can figure stuff out, you know?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, you can get married, you could do that, figure out.

[Paul Pierce]

But you just have to figure things out.

[Azar Faraday]

You have to see, because as women, we can figure stuff out because we want certain things, but then we can't let go of that shit for real. And it's gonna chip away. You have to if you're gonna stay with a man. But they don't. Women don't do that.

[Paul Pierce]

Don't.

[Azar Faraday]

Listen, I'm letting you know right now, you could be like, okay, you want to marry me? I'm gonna get married. I'm not speaking to their situation. I'm just saying as a woman, okay, you cheated on me this many times, okay, now you want to work it out. I'm sad. I miss you. I want to feel that feeling again. So, okay, I'll be with you. But every time you go out, I'm stressed the out.

[Paul Pierce]

You think all men cheat.

[Azar Faraday]

I think a lot of men cheat. I can't say all men know because I don't know if this is true or not. But my mom and dad swear that my dad never cheated on my mom and my mom is crazy as hell and she will find out and she be on. So he must be a cold.

[Paul Pierce]

Oh, that's old love.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah. So I don't know, like my dad was that example. For how long? They've been married for 50 years.

[Paul Pierce]

Damn. So your dad only has sex with one lady for 50 years?

[Azar Faraday]

Supposedly. I don't know.

[Paul Pierce]

Do you believe that?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't know because I believe it only because.

[Paul Pierce]

No, but that's true love though. If it's like that.

[Azar Faraday]

Nah, I just think also. No, I'm just saying I will say that my mom, she's crazy. She'll say anything and she'll tell me like your dad is like, she's crazy. So if he was cheating, like she's not the type of mom that will hide it and cover it up.

[Paul Pierce]

I watch the movies that audio. So did you see that one movie, I forgot the name of that movie where dude was trying to explain to his daughters about him and his wife divorcing and they was like, you know, girls, let me ask you something. If I got you like a Barbie or a card and I said, here, this is yours. You only can have this one Barbie.

[Azar Faraday]

That's crazy.

[Paul Pierce]

You only get. And you can't play with no other Barbie. That's wild. Do I for the rest of your life? Would you want to do that?

[Azar Faraday]

This is, this is what I'm saying. Would I believe that if I'm with a man, let's say I get with a man and we get married and we're together for the rest of our lives. Do I genuinely believe that that man would never do nothing for the rest of our lives? No, I do not believe that. I hope that he wouldn't. I pray that he wouldn't. I especially hope that he wouldn't if I was pregnant or feeling crazy about myself like that will me up. And I hope that if he ever did, he did it in a respectful way to where I never found out nothing. It was a one time situation. It just happened. It Was a slip up, whatever, damn near pay somebody, whatever, like. But never talk to this again. But I will pray that that's how it was done or it wasn't done at all. And you know, I just, I don't want to deal with that because as a woman, it's like all that cheating and stressing out. Like I'm too. I'm. I'm older now. I don't want to deal with none of that shit. Like if you're sloppy enough to where I'm finding out. Because I'm not going to go looking for not nothing. If you're sloppy enough till the things.

[Paul Pierce]

Are coming to your man phone.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I have and I'll never do it again.

[Paul Pierce]

How you gonna say I'm never.

[Azar Faraday]

Because I did that when I was young and I will never do that again. I learned my lesson. My stomach was in my. And I was sick to my stomach, like so much that I did.

[Paul Pierce]

What did you see? Tell us. What's the name one thing you saw?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't care. I seen all type of.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, I seen you looked at him like the constant angel and then you got the phone.

[Azar Faraday]

The guy that I was with too at the time, oh my God, I had him on a pedestal. I thought he would net literally. I don't think that man will never cheat. But no, they fell off. They fell off the type of man that he was. I really thought like, wow.

[Paul Pierce]

What did you see on the phone?

[Azar Faraday]

I seen a woman with lipstick write his name on her titties like this. Sending.

[Paul Pierce]

It was a video.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I seen videos.

[Paul Pierce]

That's not cheating. Excuse me? That's cheating.

[Azar Faraday]

A woman wrote his name in the text message and he replied.

[Paul Pierce]

And what did he say?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, some honey. Like, what you mean? He was replying and he's saying, what did he say?

[Paul Pierce]

Because if a girl sends a guy a flick, is that cheating?

[Azar Faraday]

No, but it just depends on what your response is. Like if it's an old random bra that's just sending.

[Paul Pierce]

What did you see that you was like your stomach went to your ass like, you said that wasn't it? Not that. That ain't it. You must have saw like a whole situation.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I saw a lot. I saw a lot. I saw him cheating.

[Paul Pierce]

You saw him like pulling up, having sex?

[Azar Faraday]

Pulling up, running it up?

[Paul Pierce]

No, having sex with another girl.

[Azar Faraday]

I seen that. Yeah, a video was on the video. A video of him getting head.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, that's cheating.

[Azar Faraday]

What are you talking about? Is that cheating?

[Paul Pierce]

Like, no, I'm playing with you.

[Azar Faraday]

Like you're blowing me right now.

[Paul Pierce]

That's definitely cheating.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I've seen all type of stuff in the text message. And I also seen what I don't like is a man that's complaining about your relationship with me. Like, because we were together for a minute and so you're in the text like, your game was to vent to another woman about my relationship. Like, this is so disrespectful. Like, I don't like shit like that. Like, that's, that's where I draw the line. Like, you're so corny and weird that you have to talk to me about me, to these women and they're thirsty to want to know my business. And you're over here telling them my business so you can get some, some action. Some action. Like, this is crazy to me. And once I see that, I'm cool.

[Paul Pierce]

So you see the phone, you find out. Did you tell them that night? Yeah, you went right to.

[Azar Faraday]

Or you didn't hold it.

[Paul Pierce]

You reacted right to it.

[Azar Faraday]

I react immediately if you see one thing about me is. You see what you get. I'm not going to hold it. Now I will. Now I do, but hold it. Oh, now I hold.

[Paul Pierce]

Why would you hold it?

[Azar Faraday]

Because I will hold it. Because I just. I have to think about it like, oh, this is crazy. Am I going to leave him? Okay. Like, I have to prepare my thing. Like, I will prepare my, my, my exit route. Like, oh, I'm cool. Let me see. If I'm going leave him, if I'm going to stay with him, then I.

[Paul Pierce]

I need him cheating. And you hold it like, and he wants to have sex that night. That's gonna be difficult, right?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, it's gonna be difficult. See, I'm hard. The thing is, is, like, I am super reactive in general. And like, my sister always tells me, like, you gotta. Cause, like, I'll find something out. And I'm like, this is crazy. And I'm losing it. Like, yo, what? Like, are you kidding me? Like, you're like, I'll lose it. But now it's like, I've got it better at just being like, I'm gonna peep it. I' ma peep it cool. And if I'm not, like, I'll peep it. Like, I'll peep it. I really peep stuff now.

[Paul Pierce]

And I got some information on this girl I like.

[Azar Faraday]

What information do you have?

[Paul Pierce]

I just got some information. I'm holding it right now.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, see, and that's what I don't like either. So I get, I get that to where it's crazy to hold it because I don't feel like it's fair for the other person. But I also feel like at the same time, if it's not something that you. You're gonna leave the person to. Four, you have to approach it in a different way. Like, I don't feel like. Because, like, me, if I'm reactive and I react, like, I might really react and just be like, I'm cool, like, and just do some shit like, where it's like, I'm done, I'm cool on you, and be so angry and upset and hurt that I'll lose it on somebody. So I rather just. If I'm not gonna leave you for that, I'm gonna hold it and I'm just gonna peep it, like. Cause it's like, if I'm not gonna leave somebody, then why am I holding on to that? I mean, why am I. Why am I bringing it up in a rash, crazy way? Like, I need to hold it and then be like, yo, so what's up with this situation? Like, why. This is the more or less segment brought to you by Price Picks, where you can win real cash by picking just more or less on your favorite players. Use code TAD and get $50 in lineups when you play your first $5. So today for our segment, I'm gonna ask you a few questions and you're gonna let me know. Okay?

[Paul Pierce]

Okay.

[Azar Faraday]

Are you ready?

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah.

[Azar Faraday]

What do men need to do more of? I mean, excuse me. What do women need to do more of for men to take them seriously?

[Paul Pierce]

What do hold accountability? Duh.

[Azar Faraday]

That's duh.

[Paul Pierce]

Duh. That's a duh to me.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay. Hold accountability.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah. Like, men don't always. Why are we always wrong? Wrong? Why can't we ever win an argument? Okay, why can't like, like, everything is like, we bow down to everything.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay.

[Paul Pierce]

I swear, like, women never like to admit when it's they fault or when they're wrong.

[Azar Faraday]

You've never seen a woman take accountability before.

[Paul Pierce]

I'm just saying, in general, for the most part, women don't. And then it's just bad attitude, Quiet, don't want to say nothing, and then won't even apologize when they really find out they wrong. Just try to let it go by. That's the worst.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay.

[Paul Pierce]

So it'll make things so much easier if women just held accountability or more accountability and like, apologize a little more when they wrong.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay. What makes you feel like you're being chosen and not just wanted? Like, I'M actually choosing this person. I just don't want them for all the stuff that they have.

[Paul Pierce]

You talking about me like men? You, man, anyone, but actually say that a question again.

[Azar Faraday]

What do you think makes men feel like they're actually being chosen and not just, like, wanted for their material items?

[Paul Pierce]

If you broke.

[Azar Faraday]

No, but what if you're not?

[Paul Pierce]

You know, it's nothing.

[Azar Faraday]

It's nothing that a woman can do to make you feel like, wow, she actually wants me and not for the things that I have.

[Paul Pierce]

Nothing.

[Azar Faraday]

Wow, that's crazy to me. That's blowing me.

[Paul Pierce]

There is nothing.

[Azar Faraday]

What do men need to do more for women to feel secure?

[Paul Pierce]

What do men need to do more of to make women feel secure?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah.

[Paul Pierce]

Stay home every day and don't do nothing with their boys.

[Azar Faraday]

That's so petty and just.

[Paul Pierce]

A man could go out with his girl 20 times the one time he go out with his boys. Where y' all going? Who you with? What time you come? Yeah, so we don't do none of that. That's the only way y' all gonna feel secure.

[Azar Faraday]

That's totally not true. And that's sad that that's your assessment of that, because I've been in relationships.

[Paul Pierce]

I know a lot of men, we talk about this.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah. But I've been in relationships where my man.

[Paul Pierce]

We're not talking about that.

[Azar Faraday]

I know what I'm saying. You're saying that. That women are like this, but it's like, there's a lot of women.

[Paul Pierce]

You asked about men, didn't you?

[Azar Faraday]

I asked about what men need to do more.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah. So how can you. So you're doing me about what men need to do more.

[Azar Faraday]

Just like you told me what women need to do more right now about being accountable. I'm doing the same thing that you just did one minute ago.

[Paul Pierce]

So what do men need to do more?

[Azar Faraday]

Am I a woman? How I would know what a man needs to do to make me? What does it make sure as a.

[Paul Pierce]

Woman, like, all right, so what do you do?

[Azar Faraday]

Just like you told me what women need to do to make a man feel.

[Paul Pierce]

Because it's about me.

[Azar Faraday]

Accountability. No, we just flipped it.

[Paul Pierce]

What do a woman need to do to make a man feel. What do a man need to do to make a. A woman feel good and comfortable?

[Azar Faraday]

I think for. It's just like, open communication. It's like reassurance, you know, I think those things about, though, just, like, communicating, like, I feel like with men, it's like letting a woman know, like, hey, like, just like a Man wants to know, like, what his girl is on, like.

[Paul Pierce]

Like you said, what he own. But if he don't go nowhere, he don't do nothing. And you own every day. What's the ass?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't think that that's sustainable, and I don't think that that's realistic. I would. I don't personally want to be with a man who doesn't do nothing. Like, you should be able to go out with your homeboys. Just like, I'm gonna go out with my home girls sometime. I'm gonna go out with my own homegirls. I'm gonna kick it. I think that having a balance within the relationship where it's. It's you just being y'.

[Paul Pierce]

All.

[Azar Faraday]

Listen, trust is built in moments where you don't see your partner. You can't always have. If I'm showing you everything and doing everything. That's not real trust. That's not real trust. That's controlling. That's micromanaging. Trust is built when I don't see you when you're out with your homeboys and you come home at whatever time, and I know and trust that you were just doing what you were doing. Trust is that. Trust is when you're out with your homeboys and the person is not blowing you up because they actually trust you and you come home and it's cool. Like, you can't. Micromanaging someone isn't real trust. Trying to make sure your man is never around women and this. And that is not real trust. That's false. That's just doing weird stuff. Like, at the end of the day, real trust is built when you stand.

[Paul Pierce]

In the house every day.

[Azar Faraday]

That's just ridiculous. I don't know what you're talking about. Like, to me, that sounds crazy. Anyways. I think that real trust is. So you think that you can have a relationship and never go anywhere. You're never going to go out with any of your homeboys and do nothing ever again.

[Paul Pierce]

You talking about me?

[Azar Faraday]

Just. Yeah.

[Paul Pierce]

Anyone?

[Azar Faraday]

Is that sustainable for you as a man?

[Paul Pierce]

What was the question? What's the original question?

[Azar Faraday]

The original question is, what do men need to do more of for women to feel secure?

[Paul Pierce]

All right, that was my answer.

[Azar Faraday]

So I'm asking.

[Paul Pierce]

But men ain't gonna do that. But I'm just saying.

[Azar Faraday]

So give a realistic answer.

[Paul Pierce]

So what do men need to do more of to have your girl or your husband or wife feel secure? Secure?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, in the relationship, probably.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, give her some money.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay. You just being extra secure.

[Paul Pierce]

That's for real.

[Azar Faraday]

That doesn't create like, I done seen the situation.

[Paul Pierce]

I don't feel secure. He gave her two meal. She felt secure. She felt secure. I mean, I mean, it's the truth. I mean, damn. We know that.

[Azar Faraday]

Well, thank you to our women feel.

[Paul Pierce]

Secure on what men can do for them. And that's just it. And men feel secure based on, like, you just being there. That's it. Through bullshit.

[Azar Faraday]

So you know both the answers on how women feel secure and men feel secure.

[Paul Pierce]

I got all the answers.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay. Anyways, thank you to our good friends at Price Picks, America's number one sports pick app. Use code TAD and get $50 in lineups when you play your first $5.

[Paul Pierce]

If you can go out on one date with anyone in the world, who would it be? Like, who's your crush?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't have crushes. I mean, dead ass, serious. I don't have a crush. People have asked this. I don't have a crush. I do not have a crush because I feel like if I have a crush, I'm dealing with you. I'm seeing what's up. I don't have a crush.

[Paul Pierce]

I feel there's a lack of crushes, crushes in the world today. Back in the day, it was easy.

[Azar Faraday]

It was easy to have a crush. Who was my crush?

[Paul Pierce]

No, no, no. But the thing is, it was so many, like, top tier, like, celebrities. Like, who was the top tier celebrities? It was easy back in the day because you was like, all right, Jada Jackson, Beyonce, JLo. Now it's like, who was the top tier? It's influencers. Like, who is it? Like, who is that top tier it girl? Because in all the eras, like, remember, it was Holly Berry. It was. What's the girl that was with Mike Tyson. Damn, I forgot her name. What's her name? You know, Vivica Fox was the it girl. You know, it was a lot of it girls. But, like, who's the it girl?

[Azar Faraday]

Well, we already know who your crush is. Ruby Rose. That's your it. That's your only fans, models is your crushes. That's what you be on. I personally feel like I said, did I say that? Yeah, you did. You said that on. You said you tweeted it to her. My thing is, is I feel like thirsty.

[Paul Pierce]

So me that was thirsty. Thirsty.

[Azar Faraday]

I personally, like, can't really say. Like, I wouldn't even want to say that I have a crush because that.

[Paul Pierce]

Would be crazy girl and guy today because remember, the guys was like Morris Chestnut and yeah. Denzel and like who's the it guys? And the it girls today, like, who is Rose?

[Azar Faraday]

Cardi B.

[Paul Pierce]

So is it Cardi B Lotto? It's the rapper girls now.

[Azar Faraday]

I guess so.

[Paul Pierce]

Like Sexy Red and Bagging the Stallion and all them. Yeah, I guess because before it was.

[Azar Faraday]

The actresses and with the man, I wouldn't even know who the man was.

[Paul Pierce]

Who the man is. Who's the new Morris Chestnut, who's like.

[Azar Faraday]

I know, like Kofi. Kofi, what's his last name?

[Paul Pierce]

The dude from Tiger. From.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. I don't know if he's from. No, his name is like Kofi something. He's a dark skinned actor. And the women beyond him, like Idris.

[Paul Pierce]

Elba, like, who is that now? The young.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, Kofi, he's one.

[Paul Pierce]

He's one for show there.

[Azar Faraday]

He's that big. Strong, even strong. He's just very handsome. He's one for sure. He's one. And then like, I don't know who else. Honestly, I can't think of nobody else besides him. I know they. Oh, Aaron Pierre, which is Tiana Taylor's ex. People think he's so handsome. Michael B. Jordan. Because Michael B, I don't find them attractive. That's not my type. But Michael B. Jordan, Aaron Pierre, they're too light skinned for me. And you know who else who's another actor. Damn, it was one more guy. I can't think of them, but those are the ones.

[Paul Pierce]

What about the ladies, though?

[Azar Faraday]

That's the Lion King one.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah, yeah, that's what I'm saying. I know, but who's the ladies? So it's the rapper. It ain't no actresses. That's like the it girl.

[Azar Faraday]

Maybe, Maybe the girl from Sinners Halloween. Haley Steinfeld. Is that her name?

[Paul Pierce]

Nah, nobody from Sinners is the it girl.

[Azar Faraday]

Well, she's pretty.

[Paul Pierce]

Like I'm talking about the level of Halle Berry, Beyonce. Like when people was talking about that's the. That's who, you know, who was singing. Janet Jackson, you know what I'm saying? That level.

[Azar Faraday]

I know what you're saying, but I can't think of anyone who's really fine.

[Paul Pierce]

Like that, who's bad like that in the movies, music like that. Everybody like, damn, that's not, you know, in their 40s now or 50s.

[Azar Faraday]

Who's a young hot girl. Someone is someone.

[Paul Pierce]

We missing that right now?

[Azar Faraday]

No, it's women.

[Paul Pierce]

I just can't think of some influencer only fans girl, now that's what you're into.

[Azar Faraday]

But I'm thinking of like the Actors.

[Paul Pierce]

I don't have an Only fans. I've never seen one Only fans video.

[Azar Faraday]

No, but we're saying, like you were saying Ruby Rose is your crush. So I'm thinking.

[Paul Pierce]

I was just going off her Instagram.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, that's what you like. That's cool. You know what I'm saying? That's what you like. I'm trying to think of, like, who is the actors? Actresses. And I can't think of the actresses right now.

[Paul Pierce]

I can't know Badass actresses right now. Damn.

[Azar Faraday]

No, there is. We just can't think of them, man.

[Paul Pierce]

I need y' all to name some of them actresses.

[Azar Faraday]

So there's definitely actresses. I just can't think of them right now. Anyways, we went so far left right now.

[Paul Pierce]

Is Aldana.

[Azar Faraday]

No, she's in her 40s as well.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah. She older, huh?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, she's not.

[Paul Pierce]

So it was like Jada.

[Azar Faraday]

Oh, Zendaya. Zendaya. She's super young, though. She's in her 20s, but Zendaya is one for sure. Damn. I can't think of anybody else, but there are them. They are out there. We just are not thinking of it right now. They're out there. There's a beautiful women out there.

[Paul Pierce]

So many we talking about we live in the baddest era of mankind of where it's the most beautiful women ever right now. Why there's no.

[Azar Faraday]

Who says that, though?

[Paul Pierce]

Everybody says that. I mean, everything gets better over time. Doesn't matter. Yeah, it's true. Better athletes, better looking. Everything overall is better. So who is the lady right now that's on the level when we. When I talk about this?

[Azar Faraday]

Well, I'm gonna be honest. I don't think that that's true. Because I think the 90s, when them women was naturally beautiful and glowing and this and Regina hall and Nia Long and all them women that were just.

[Paul Pierce]

Black girl on the planet right now?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't know.

[Paul Pierce]

Who would you guess?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't know.

[Paul Pierce]

Is it Meg the Stallion?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't think so. No.

[Paul Pierce]

She's up there. Sushi for the baddest black. You're a pure black girl in the planet.

[Azar Faraday]

Pure black. Okay.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah. Who's that girl right now, man? Who is it?

[Azar Faraday]

Okay, we gotta move on because we're.

[Paul Pierce]

Not gonna just way off the cards, huh?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah. Okay, so back to. We were talking about life.

[Paul Pierce]

All right, in the comments. Who y' all think is the baddest black girl? Let me see what y' all think. We gonna see who.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay, so Charlamagne, the God was on Angie Martinez. Is that her name?

[Paul Pierce]

Angie Martinez? She's still on the radio.

[Azar Faraday]

She has a podcast.

[Paul Pierce]

Martinez was popping back in the day.

[Azar Faraday]

She's still popping.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah.

[Azar Faraday]

So anyways, I like the Angie.

[Paul Pierce]

She. I used to listen to her.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay.

[Paul Pierce]

Okay, go ahead. I'll run her. I'll run her.

[Azar Faraday]

Charlemagne, the God says that once he started doing right by the woman he loves, his life leveled up. That he. And he also rejects the idea of. He's like, I hate when men be like, I keep real my homies, but I lied to my woman. He was like, that's so fake to me, and I don't mess with that. And he was like, you know, when I started deciding to do right by my woman and my girl, he was like, my life changed drastically. Like, actually being a good man, which is something that I. He said he never really did. Like, where he was, like, really solid, not cheating, pouring in this and that. He said his life. Life became so much better. Have you. Do you agree with that or do you even know how that goes?

[Paul Pierce]

I can see where he going. Because if you just cause this. Cause I think when you allow yourself to lock into your woman, you lock into everything else.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah.

[Paul Pierce]

You know, your work, your goals. Cause then you off all the other bullshit distractions, hanging with the homies, going to the club, doing bullshit. I'm locked in with her, and now I'm gonna just lock in here and I'm gonna lock in on my career or what, you know, something that's driving me, and it's gonna allow me to focus on that. But when I'm not locked in with her and I'm over here and I'm going in too many directions. It's a clear path when you lock in with somebody. I truly believe, you know, all great men have great women with him. You know what I'm saying? And I believe that, you know, so.

[Azar Faraday]

What about the idea of keeping it real with your homies but lying to your girl? He said, that's corny and that's fake to him. Like, oh, I keep it real with my boys, but I go home and lie to my. My girl. He said he don't rock with that, and he thinks that's fake.

[Paul Pierce]

Well, what do you got a lot of your homies about?

[Azar Faraday]

What do you have to lie to your woman about? If you're doing right, what are the things you need to lie about? Like, this is crazy. I don't want to be with anyone.

[Paul Pierce]

That feels like, no, no, no, I'll tell you why. Like, I got friends that are married that they. Girl don't like them smoking weed. So he'll go smoke some weed. Boom, boom, boom. And she'd be like, what you doing? I was just, you know.

[Azar Faraday]

What's another example?

[Paul Pierce]

That's an example.

[Azar Faraday]

What's another example? What's another example? You said a lot of things. So give me another thing.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, so he has to lie just to keep the peace. He don't want to argue because he go through so much stress. He had to, you know, smoke a joint.

[Azar Faraday]

I'm talking about. What's another thing? Give me another example.

[Paul Pierce]

So a lot of things is like, why is he late? I was late because my dog or some, you know, y' all like us to be on times, you know, oh, baby, I was late, my car flat. Flat.

[Azar Faraday]

So you lie about a whole flat tire. You can't just say, I was running behind.

[Paul Pierce]

I mean, it's a lot of. It's little things, but you do it just so you can keep the peace. And it's like, you know, damn. You know, you messed up with being late. You know, you messed up by maybe, you know, and it's not about always cheating and being with another girl or talking to females. It's like little stuff that men will lie about. So he don't have the little ass argument that don't really mean nothing. Yeah, like, you know what I'm saying? It's like, I'm trying to save both of us time. Pretty much. That's why I lied. Like, I'm really saving us time.

[Azar Faraday]

I don't love it, but.

[Paul Pierce]

You don't love it, but it's like, damn, the homies was over here longer than I expected. Babe, I'm. I'm late. Like, he don't want to. Oh, so the homies. So when you know that she don't like certain homies, he'll tell you I was with what's the name instead of what's his name, you know what I'm saying? So that's like little.

[Azar Faraday]

And then someone sends you out with what's the name? And then it was a whole lie, and then now you're fighting over other people.

[Paul Pierce]

I don't want to come home and argue with it. And it was not a. It's not a big deal, but.

[Azar Faraday]

So you rather ask. Ask for forgiveness instead of permission because.

[Paul Pierce]

Permission allows argument at the time. You know it does.

[Azar Faraday]

So you're okay with your girl? Like, you don't like someone.

[Paul Pierce]

I'll argue after, not before.

[Azar Faraday]

So, yeah. So okay. Forgiveness and not Permission. So you're okay.

[Paul Pierce]

Arguments is just like, gonna ruin my night.

[Azar Faraday]

So you're okay with the girl being like, yeah, I went out with this person, but was really out with another person. That's cool. Like, you respect that. Cause you know she's just trying to avoid a lie.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah. Cause if I tell you I don't like you fucking with her and you go out and you say you with another girl, it's gonna be an argument like, why you messing with?

[Azar Faraday]

Or, I went out with my homeboy, but I said I was with my homegirl. That's cool.

[Paul Pierce]

You know what I'm talking about.

[Azar Faraday]

No, there's liars.

[Paul Pierce]

A liar. Do I know the homie?

[Azar Faraday]

I don't know.

[Paul Pierce]

Well, that's cheating.

[Azar Faraday]

That's not cheating.

[Rob Gronkowski]

It's lying.

[Paul Pierce]

It's lying and cheating.

[Azar Faraday]

No, it's a homeboy friend.

[Paul Pierce]

No, that's lying. And now you're lying and cheating.

[Azar Faraday]

Now what if I'm just lying Has a homeboy and he.

[Paul Pierce]

How can she have a homeboy? I'm her homeboy.

[Azar Faraday]

Exactly. Like, are you cool if you're home? Your homegirl. Your girl has a homeboy and they're like, oh, babe, I'm going to dinner with my homeboy. Just me and him. Drinks, dinner, clubs. No.

[Paul Pierce]

Why are you going to dinner with him?

[Azar Faraday]

That's blowing me as well. Like, no one in a relationship. Like, I'm not going to.

[Paul Pierce]

Girls be having they gay boy boyfriends.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah. And yeah, I have a gay friend.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah. That they like to hang out with. I'm cool with that. You can go hang out, you know.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah. Gay is different. We're not talking about gay. Gay means he don't want you. Honey, we're not talking about gay.

[Paul Pierce]

That's like the homegirl. Yeah, yeah, I'm cool with that.

[Azar Faraday]

Anyways. Okay. So that's.

[Paul Pierce]

We did.

[Azar Faraday]

That's not what we're asking. We know you're cool with the gay guy.

[Paul Pierce]

Go ahead, girl, blow me.

[Azar Faraday]

So this is something that I want to talk about. So Blue Face, which is Jesus a lot.

[Paul Pierce]

We need to get Blueface on the show. Hey, Blueface. Hey, tell Whack to line it up. Hey, Whack, we need Blue Face on here. We need the Holla Dog.

[Azar Faraday]

So let me tell you what he recently said. So Blueface was on Shannon Sharp. And he said that basically his mother, which I've seen his mother, like every time he has a girl, he said, no matter what, it could be his girl. It could be just a chick coming around. Whoever it is, his mom will be like, you're not going to be around for longer. Like, he's. She sabotaged it. He don't even want you. For real. He don't want you. And she says that it reminds him of a woman that likes him. And he tweeted. He was like. Tweeted one time. He was like, mom, you want some weird stuff? Like you acting like you want me or something? And so she went on Live and was like, and y' all stop saying I want my son. I have a man, and his is way bigger than my son's. She said that on Live. She was like, yeah, and his is way bigger than my son's, way bigger than Blueface as a mom, that's crazy as hell. Like, why would you talk about your son's size of his situation and then compare it to your man's? And that's the reason you don't want him. Not because it's your son, not because anything. Because this man has a bigger thing than your son. So that's why I don't want him. I already have a man, and it's way bigger than my son. And Blueface has said it's weird. He's like, I don't know. It's weird. Like, she reminds me of a woman who be wanting me. Like. Like, that's how women act when they want you. They put down other women and they say all of this and that.

[Paul Pierce]

I just look at it as like a mom who's protective of her son.

[Azar Faraday]

So you talk about your son's.

[Paul Pierce]

No, it's just like, dog, we live in the world. And when you look at Blueface's dynamic with the reality with the podcast, and, you know, his whole situation is built on drama. It's built on. You know what I'm saying? So, you know, we tune in, and he's entertaining, and, you know, he's been through a lot, and he's documented it all. So, you know, his life is well documented. Well, everybody's out documenting their life like that, so what does it have to.

[Azar Faraday]

Do with your mom?

[Paul Pierce]

But, like, yeah, it's gonna be some things that said that's giving shock value. And, you know, Blueface is. Is about shock value, and that's why we tune in.

[Azar Faraday]

I don't tune into that.

[Paul Pierce]

I mean, you. You. I didn't hear that. You did.

[Azar Faraday]

Because I have to research. I'm a whole producer. I have to research topics. I don't tune into him. At the end of the day, what I will say is, like, I think that there are Some mothers that they don't have a man and they make their son like their second man or whatever. And I feel like that's super.

[Paul Pierce]

Well, not like that. It's just that, like, oh, my king.

[Azar Faraday]

Oh, my king. My. This. Like, like, that's weird to me. I don't care what no one says. Like, you're doing too much and you're putting the responsibility and the weight on your son to show up like a man. And I have people, I know people who do that. And I am close to people where their sons have said, like, my mom be doing too much. Like, you're. That's not your king. He's not like, like, that's not like, that's weird to me. And you are replacing, like, you want that man figure and you want your son to show up in that way because you don't have a man. And I just think that that's super uncomfortable for the son. I think it's weird. And I think a lot of women do that.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, a woman will love her son more than any other man.

[Azar Faraday]

Right. I understand that.

[Paul Pierce]

What you gotta understand, because now she had a man before, and. But her son is something different. Because I lived it. I lived it. I see how my mom was with me.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah.

[Paul Pierce]

You know, like, my mom, like, I was the world, you know, having a boy, like, having your boy after you go through it with another man, it's like having a boy that can do no wrong.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah.

[Paul Pierce]

Is something like. Like, you have a man that does wrong, but then you have another man that can do no wrong in your eyes.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah. But you, you gotta understand too. Like, and I'm not saying this is your experience, but I'm saying, like, women, you enable your son at that point. Like, a lot of these young boys are getting raised in a way where they lack masculinity. They don't know how to do little small. And at the end of the day, they're very like, I watch this. Like, they're very, like, coddled. Like, because you want to just keep them under your thing the whole time. And it's like, you gotta let a man have men figures in their lives. Men need men figures and they need to be able to, like, grow and flourish. And I think that that concept, it just weighs too heavy on a son. You know what I mean? And I think that that's just weird to me and anyone, any, like, you shouldn't be talking about your son's situation. That's. That's out of pocket, period, point blank. Anyways, so moving on. Selena Powell. I don't even know why men mess with her at this point. Because you know she's gonna blast you. It's like Koran Stiffen Stefans. Like she's known to blast people and tell your whole business. So why are you up with her? It must be just hidden or something. Cuz the way that they still keep messing with this girl knowing she's going to videotape you blast your whole situation.

[Paul Pierce]

She must got some fire.

[Azar Faraday]

That's what I'm thinking. It has to be.

[Paul Pierce]

She must got some fire.

[Azar Faraday]

It has to be. Because why cats keep going.

[Paul Pierce]

Like keep falling for it.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, you keep falling. So I don't know, it must be busing or something because it's like, why are you still like you robbed G herbo and he. She's talked about it, he's talked about it like it's a known thing. You done blast Snoop Dogg.

[Paul Pierce]

You done recorded Snoop.

[Azar Faraday]

You blasted everybody's shit and people are still messing with her.

[Paul Pierce]

What is it that's given.

[Azar Faraday]

I think that it's just giving like a convenient chick that's ready to go and ready to do all the nasty, crazy things that you ever wanted to do. I don't know.

[Paul Pierce]

You can just. That's not. That's. She's not the only one in that category.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, she's not. So it must just be something because why do you keep going back to that, knowing she's going to videotape you and blast you on every podcast she goes. The only reason why she's on podcast is to talk about all her sex capades and every man she dealt with that was married or had a girl.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah.

[Azar Faraday]

And this is what I will say. And I don't care about nothing. Any woman. And I really stand on this. Who messes with a man who's married or knowingly in a public or known relationship is. Has low self esteem and low self respect. And I personally do not respect you as a person. Like, I just really mean that from the bottom of my heart. And it's not even because of like my situations or anything. Like, I believe the man is responsible for being loyal to you, but I believe that a woman who knowingly does that doesn't have a moral compass and doesn't have standards or believes in what's right or wrong, you'll do anything. You have bad character and you're super raggedy to me. And I know women like that. And I know women who will smile on your face and want to be friends with you just so they can get up on the person that you with. And honestly, women like that are so low budget, raggedy and burnt out to me. Like, I, I know the game. You. I'm cut from a different cloth. You can never fool me, baby. I'm not the one or the two. And a woman who doesn't feel the need to be a prioritized or not.

[Paul Pierce]

One or the two.

[Azar Faraday]

I'm not the. I'm not the one. I mean, I'm not the two. I'm never the. I'm not. You know what I'm saying?

[Paul Pierce]

I know what you said, but I don't want you to give you a chance to correct.

[Azar Faraday]

But at the end of the day.

[Paul Pierce]

You'Re not the one or the two.

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, I'm not the one.

[Paul Pierce]

You're the three.

[Azar Faraday]

I'm not the one or the two to play with. Yeah, don't play with me. Yeah, I'm not the one or the two to play with. Don't play with me or play in my face because I'm never the one one like, period. But anyways, I say that to say, like, I just wish women, if women had higher standards and self respect. Like, I just, I don't respect women who do that. I just don't. And if I find out you do that, I just look at you like bottom of the barrel. Like, you're just like, ugh, bottom of the barrel to me. Don't come around because I have sisters, five sisters that are married. My parents are married. Like, anyone who's willing to do that is just so, just like burnt out to me. And you don't have a moral compass. Like, you don't believe in nothing at that point. Point, period.

[Paul Pierce]

What I love about you, that you stand on business, you represent, like, I really, truly believe that you've represent a voice for women that have standards. You represent. Thank you.

[Azar Faraday]

So nice.

[Paul Pierce]

For women that don't need all this extra to get by. Like, you're natural and you love yourself.

[Azar Faraday]

Thank you.

[Paul Pierce]

Like, you, you represent a dynamic of women that's original.

[Azar Faraday]

Thank you.

[Paul Pierce]

I love that. Like, you didn't. Like, I know people don't. If they go to your page, you know, it's very, like, it's, it's, it's very classy. Like, you'll show prettiness and womanness, but you don't go overboard.

[Azar Faraday]

Thank you. I appreciate.

[Paul Pierce]

And I love the fact that you do that. Like, you know. How tall are you?

[Azar Faraday]

I'm five, six.

[Paul Pierce]

Let me see. Stand up real quick.

[Azar Faraday]

No, don't. Do not play with Me.

[Paul Pierce]

Damn. I almost got it. I tried to sort of.

[Azar Faraday]

You know what's so funny? I am done with you.

[Paul Pierce]

I don't tried the same huster up. No.

[Azar Faraday]

You're so trifling. Why would you try to pick me up?

[Paul Pierce]

How are you?

[Azar Faraday]

I'm like five, six and a half.

[Paul Pierce]

Stand up though.

[Azar Faraday]

No, I'm not standing up. And you know what's funny? So people been posting on Instagram. It's like this viral thing where like people will post on Instagram, right? Like, it was like a stud girl and someone posted on Instagram, like, how many likes do we have to get? And who has to comment for you to dress up as a woman? Like woman, woman. And she was like, tyra Banks has to comment and it has to be a hundred thousand likes. And then Tyra Banks commented and it's 100 and like it's viral. So like another mom was like, how many likes I have to get for you to do this? And she's like, marvel has to comment. And then so everyone in the comments like, y' all need to do.

[Paul Pierce]

Y' all need to do this. How many likes you need to get to get a 360 Vince Carter dunk?

[Azar Faraday]

I need to get 150,000 likes. Okay, and who has to comment? Damn, that's a hard one. I don't know. Someone impossible. It has to be someone like impossible.

[Paul Pierce]

Don't do that.

[Azar Faraday]

No, because that's what they're doing. They're making it impossible. Like Marvel. And Marvel commented, it was like, yeah, the girl was like with a mom and she was like, if we get this likes, we'll get a dog.

[Paul Pierce]

We get 150,000 likes and 50 to comment.

[Azar Faraday]

And 50 cent to comment. That's impossible. Okay, I'm cool with that.

[Paul Pierce]

And you'll give us the Vince card?

[Azar Faraday]

I'll give us the Vince card.

[Paul Pierce]

Five zero.

[Azar Faraday]

150,000 likes and 50 to comment. Then yes, I will give the 360 Mince Carter period.

[Paul Pierce]

Oh my God.

[Azar Faraday]

That's not happening, honey. Okay, so one, we'll get into one last thing before we wrap up. You know the girl, Sadia Khan.

[Paul Pierce]

So I don't know who Sadia.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay, so you do know who she is. She's like an Armenian looking girl, but she was like, she always talks about like women being motivational and like, like being good women and not cheating and not lying. And then she got caught up cheating with the married man. And they were black. The one lady I was telling you.

[Paul Pierce]

About, that was then she was on recorded that she was?

[Azar Faraday]

Yeah, she was recorded begging, doing weird stuff.

[Paul Pierce]

What about her?

[Azar Faraday]

So she was on Nick Cannon's show recently.

[Paul Pierce]

She was?

[Azar Faraday]

Yes. And she explained why she feels like black men dates outside of the race. And she says that. That she feels like black men date outside of the race because they're the only man that's sought after by every race. Like, black men are the most desirable men. So every race wants them. So they have the option of every race. And she's like, asians don't have the option of every race wanting them. This other race, like, you know, the other cultures, white men are not like, ooh, everybody wants white men. Like, I personally would not date a white man. You know what I'm saying? So it's like, people, they're saying that, like, black men, most women want them.

[Paul Pierce]

Them.

[Azar Faraday]

But I'm going to say this one thing because my home girl just told me this today. My homegirl was like, her best friend is white, right? And she was like, it's so crazy because my best friend is white and she'll have sex with black men all the time. And she'll tell me, she said. One time, she literally said, I mean, I would never take a black man serious. I don't. Would never date a black man. I just have sex with them.

[Paul Pierce]

That's what black men feel. Some black men feel about white girls.

[Azar Faraday]

That's what I'm saying. So that's what white. A lot of people do that. And then what ends up happening is you end up caught up with a. The reason I'm so passionate about this, because I'm mixed, right? And I come from a mixed culture background. And I've. A lot of women will date black men that are not black. I mean, they're not black. They'll date black men. They'll have kids with black men, but they won't really accept their culture. They won't accept their child. They won't learn how to do their hair. They won't learn how to teach your child about her blackness. They won't learn about the culture. And that's very damaging for a lot of mixed kids. They have a lot of identity crisis issues because they're like, I don't know how to be a black girl. I don't know how to be this like. And a lot of women are like that. They'll date black men, but they are racist. They don't even like black people. They don't like the family. They don't get along with none of his sisters, none of his family, none of the people in there, they barely like their own kids. They don't want to work, like, figure out how to do their hair. Nothing like. And that's a big issue with a lot of mixed people. Period, point blank. And I think that if you're going to lay up with a black man and have a black child, you need to learn and be responsible enough to understand that you have a black child, especially if your mother is the one that's not black. Because as a young black girl, even though I'm mixed, you need to learn certain stuff about being black. Period, point blank.

[Paul Pierce]

I don't know about that.

[Azar Faraday]

I'm sick of you. This man says, I don't know about that.

[Paul Pierce]

No, but I'm saying, do I gotta learn how it is in other cultures? If I get into other cultures? If we not living out there, we in America. As long as you understand what American culture is about, that's automatic.

[Azar Faraday]

So you don't believe that black is a different experience for people. You don't believe that black is.

[Paul Pierce]

So I'm asking, like, if I got a white lady and we have a kid, kid, and our kid need to get their hair braided, I expect her to learn how to braid her hair.

[Azar Faraday]

You don't have to learn how to braid her hair. No, that's not what I'm saying. You have to understand. Yeah, you don't have to learn how to braid your hair, but you can understand where to figure out. Get information on where you can get her hair braided. Learn about her hair texture, learn about her body type. Learn. I grew up with a big old booty and I was in white people jeans with the ass cracks showing because I didn't understand that my butt was huge and my stomach was small. It didn't make sense to me. I didn't even get it. Like, there's a lot of things that you have to learn. Good night. I'm done with the show. No, no, no, no. This is crazy. At the end of the day, you want to take everything serious. If we get. We said what we said. We said what we said. If we get those likes and we go there, who else?

[Paul Pierce]

We got to have a plan B.

[Azar Faraday]

No, it's no plan B. It's 50 Cent. Who. What's your.

[Paul Pierce]

Or Snoop? Snoop.

[Azar Faraday]

No, no, we never said Snoop was gonna do that.

[Paul Pierce]

Snoop.

[Azar Faraday]

Whatever. Last thing that I'm gonna talk about is there's a woman who said Kevin Samuels taught her to accept being a single mother means the dating pool shrinks. She'll probably be alone for the rest.

[Paul Pierce]

Of her life, she's accepted defeat.

[Azar Faraday]

That's crazy.

[Paul Pierce]

I know that's what she said. She's accepted defeat.

[Azar Faraday]

I know women who are seen who have kids.

[Paul Pierce]

You women need after 30. Let me see. Let me tell you when you women need to accept Defeat, if you're 40 with multiple kids and you don't have a boyfriend on the horizon, it's okay to accept defeat. I don't believe it's okay to accept unless you're gonna wait another 20 something years until all the kids move out. And then when you turn six, why.

[Azar Faraday]

Don'T you get another man with kids.

[Paul Pierce]

Kids. Because his kids plus your kids. If I'm going, do the math. Damn. So I not only got to take care of my kids, I got to take care of her kids, too. Now that's double. That's going to cost too much.

[Azar Faraday]

This is my point. I feel like if I see there's people who have, like, baby moms and stuff, right? That are still single and like, a man would hate for me to be his baby mom. Because one thing about me, I moved on, honey, I promise. And I bet you if I ever had a baby by a man, I will have another man taking care of that kid, marrying me and hitting it just like my best friend has that I will be that person.

[Paul Pierce]

How old is your kid?

[Azar Faraday]

Her. Her kid. Her kid is like four.

[Paul Pierce]

Oh, got him. All right. So when they got together, how old?

[Azar Faraday]

Probably like three. They.

[Paul Pierce]

I mean, I wouldn't be mad at. I'm not mad at that.

[Azar Faraday]

No. But I'm saying, like, there's a lot of women like, like, who don't get in relationships. But I know me, like, son or not, daughter or not, kid or not, like, I'm going to be moved on. Like, I don't hold on to people. Once I'm done with someone, I'm cool. It's a lot of people who, like, hold on hope and this, like, me. Bye. If I break up with you, I'm never on you ever again in my life. So I don't care if I have a baby daddy. Like, I'm not tripping because I don't want that for myself. But I know that, like, you can't tell me that a kid will stop you from having a man.

[Paul Pierce]

Man.

[Azar Faraday]

It will not. 100. It will not. Like, a kid will not stop me from having a man. I don't have a kid. But if it did, baby, I will have a new man, honey. Like, and I hate that the woman think that you do not have to feel like you don't. You can't get a man. And I feel like it's all about your mindset. Period, point blank. Everything you think is what your reality is. You got to stop thinking negativity upon your life. If you want a man, you can have it. A man is not the hardest thing to get, honey. Okay, so you want to allow other people and negative information to dictate your life. That's not how we supposed to be living out here. Like, you gotta think positive. If you want a man, you can have a man. If you want this, you can have this. I'm a believer in that in all aspects of your life. So you gotta stop thinking so negatively and speaking so negatively upon yourself. You don't have to accept defeat for nothing. I don't give a damn if you want to be 40 years old and run a damn marathon. Hit it. You could do it, I guarantee it. Because it's all about your mind. The mind is the strongest muscle that you have.

[Paul Pierce]

There we go. Anyways, the mind is the strongest muscle.

[Azar Faraday]

I think that the mind is extremely strong. Yeah, I think that the mind is what dictates everything. For real. Like everything that I think is what I am. And the moment I stop thinking about something, I don't. I give it. I don't give it power.

[Paul Pierce]

Yeah.

[Azar Faraday]

Anymore. You don't have power. If I'm not thinking about it, you don't even exist.

[Paul Pierce]

There we go. Period.

[Azar Faraday]

Anyways, would you like to leave anybody on a last note, Man?

[Paul Pierce]

Hey, make sure you, like, subscribe the Truth After Dark. It really helps go a long way. Make sure you tune in week in and week out. Who would you like us to have on the Truth out of the Dark? Put it in the comments, DM us and we'll work on that. Who would you like for us to have right here in this studio?

[Azar Faraday]

They, you know, they could always say Corey Holcomb. Who would you like to have as a guest? If you can have anyone as a guest.

[Paul Pierce]

Damn, if I got anyone as a guest.

[Azar Faraday]

I'll say mine. I would like to have Vince Staples, Vic Mensa, those two I really would love. And Kid Cudi.

[Paul Pierce]

I can't think off the top like that. I'm not a freestylist. I have to think about this one because this has to be calculated with me.

[Azar Faraday]

Okay?

[Paul Pierce]

It has to make sense.

[Azar Faraday]

Well, thank you guys so much again for joining us at the Truth After Dark. We are so, so, so grateful for all of our supporters, everyone who likes, shares or interacts with any of our content. We really love y' all down and around. Okay, keep, keep watching. We have more amazing things coming for you. And like, if you guys have any comments that you want us to discuss or topics, any of those things, please let us know.

[Paul Pierce]

Your ending is too long. People already fell asleep.

[Azar Faraday]

You're so rude. You're one of the rudest people I've ever met. No, seriously.

[Paul Pierce]

All right, y', all, good night. This is the taking over the game. All right, everybody, welcome to Truth After Dark.

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