Nightcap - Hour 1: Twitter debate, Ocho wingman, Brady's Miami mansion

Summary

Club Shay Shay: Nightcap - Hour 1

Release Date: February 1, 2025

In the latest episode of Club Shay Shay, NFL legend Shannon Sharpe partners with host Bobby Bones and former NFL star Chad "Ocho" Ochocinco to delve into dynamic discussions surrounding modern relationships, societal expectations, and the opulent lifestyles of top athletes. Titled "Nightcap - Hour 1: Twitter Debate, Ocho Wingman, Brady's Miami Mansion," this episode provides listeners with a blend of insightful commentary, humorous exchanges, and candid opinions that capture the complexities of today's social landscape.

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1. Twitter Debate: Relationships and Self-Worth

The episode kicks off with a heated debate on Twitter about the evolving dynamics between men and women in relationships. Chad Ochocinco initiates the conversation by addressing a shift in men's focus from actively pursuing women to prioritizing personal growth, career, and family.

Chad Ochocinco (04:29): “Men are a little bit more now focused on just themselves. You know, focus on work, getting into the bag and allowing the woman to be the last choice of importance as opposed to how it was before.”

Bobby Bones counters by questioning the concept of self-worth as presented by women on social media, emphasizing that worth should be determined by mutual appreciation rather than self-declared value.

Bobby Bones (05:57): “Value is only something that is only valuable if somebody will purchase it. I want $600,000 for this tube of lip therapy. It's worth $7.”

The dialogue underscores the tension between self-perception and societal validation, highlighting the challenges men face when navigating modern relationship expectations.

2. Ocho as the Wingman: Setting Relationship Boundaries

Transitioning into personal anecdotes, Ochocinco shares his experiences and strategies as a wingman, emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries and communicating effectively in dating scenarios.

Chad Ochocinco (24:55): “Sometimes you have to sacrifice if you want something. You can't always have a set of rules if you have something you're actually interested in.”

Bobby Bones humorously illustrates the pitfalls of rigid relationship rules through a mock scenario involving Shannon Sharpe’s strict household regulations.

Bobby Bones (25:21): “Shannon Sharp has a lot of rules. When you use the bathroom, you have to go downstairs.”

Their banter not only entertains but also sheds light on the necessity of flexibility and understanding in fostering meaningful connections.

3. Tom Brady's Miami Mansion: A Glimpse into Luxury Living

Shifting gears, the conversation turns to the extravagant lifestyles of elite athletes, focusing on Tom Brady's Miami mansion. Ochocinco expresses curiosity and amusement over the high bidding wars surrounding such properties.

Bobby Bones (32:54): “Tom Brady is looking to sell his Florida mansion. It happened to be down the street from that big one in Miami, that $35 million, the one he got all them big cranes.”

Ochocinco remarks on the impracticality of owning multiple luxury properties, especially when they are used seasonally.

Chad Ochocinco (34:30): “How you got a $38 million, $50 million dollar house that you only come for two months out the year?”

The discussion expands to include comparisons between owning mega yachts, private jets, and exotic cars, highlighting the diverse ways wealth is showcased and utilized by top-tier athletes.

Chad Ochocinco (38:26): “They ain't no car. They don't do nothing with the car. Cars don't move them. Yachts, planes move them like $100 million, $200 million.”

The hosts explore the balance between enjoying luxury and maintaining financial responsibility, offering listeners a peek into the lavish yet complex worlds of their favorite sports figures.

4. Humor and Camaraderie: The Dynamic Between Hosts

Throughout the episode, Bobby Bones and Chad Ochocinco engage in playful teasing and light-hearted moments that add a relatable and entertaining layer to the discussions.

Bobby Bones (42:36): “Chat, I see you, boy.”

Chad Ochocinco (42:31): “I'm gonna give you credit, man. I might be bigger than you right now.”

These interactions not only enhance the listening experience but also reinforce the strong camaraderie between the hosts, making complex topics more approachable and enjoyable.

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Notable Quotes:

• Chad Ochocinco (05:57): “Value is only something that is only valuable if somebody will purchase it.”
• Bobby Bones (09:11): “What can you do for me that I can't have somebody do everything that you do?”
• Chad Ochocinco (14:44): “Valentine's is coming up. Send me a message on Twitter. I guarantee you I have men and some gifts and dinner before Valentine's Day.”
• Bobby Bones (32:21): “That's what I'm saying. So now I'm gonna say. I say, I just got one facet.”

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Conclusion:

In "Nightcap - Hour 1: Twitter Debate, Ocho Wingman, Brady's Miami Mansion," Club Shay Shay masterfully blends serious discussions with entertaining exchanges, offering listeners a comprehensive look at modern relationship dynamics and the lavish lifestyles of the sporting elite. Shannon Sharpe, alongside Bobby Bones and Chad Ochocinco, provides a platform where candid opinions meet insightful analysis, making this episode a must-listen for fans eager to understand the intersections of fame, fortune, and personal relationships.

For those who haven't tuned in, this episode serves as an engaging entry point into the multifaceted world of Club Shay Shay, promising more in-depth conversations and entertaining segments in future episodes.

Transcript

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[Chad Ochocinco]

Men are a little bit more now focused on just themselves. You know, focus on work, getting to get into the bag and allowing the woman to be the last choice of importance as opposed to how it was before. You know, chasing the woman, chasing, chasing, applying pressure, doing all that. And most of the time what you have to understand too is, is women put up such a front with the chase and applying pressure as if there's there's something that's so different about them as opposed to anyone else that you could deal with. But then when you actually get a hold and you get to learn that individual and. And you're allowed access. You come to find out, well, God damn, I've been doing all this chasing for this, but you ain't no different than nobody else. It's all the same. You know, at the end of the day, I think men's focal point has changed from chasing women. The more focusing on themselves, work, family, if that comes into play. And it's just different now. It's just different now. Especially in today's era where we have a lot more women that are in. I hate using the word alpha positions, but they are the men now. Does that make sense? Women. Women. Women are the men, you know?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. I think the thing is, Ocho, a lot of women. Yeah, but see, when you keep saying, I don't need a man, I don't need a man, do you convince yourself and then you want to be masculine because you think you can talk to. At the end of the day, that's still a man. And I'm not saying look, right. I'm old and know how my grandmother and how I saw everybody raised. See, these women today, they talk about, oh, I want to be treated like my mom and my great grandma got to treat. But y'all don't behave like that. Y'all ain't cooking. Y'all ain't cooking no meal every day. Yeah, when my grandfather got home at lunch, meal on the table, he got home at dinner, meal on the table, he ate first. It wasn't no arguing back and forth. When my grandfather said they can, they did. When he said they couldn't, they couldn't. But y'all. Oh, I'm gonna do me. Okay, well, do you. I don't have to be a part of it. And so I think the thing is that they've convinced themselves they don't need a man until they need a man. And then you 25, now you 45, now you 50.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You know, I don't think.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't think now your options are limited.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I don't think women understand that the options are limited. Especially today, Especially what they want. When you look at their expectations and what they. What they expect and what they're looking for, it's very hard. It's very. It's very hard to get.

[Bobby Bones]

No, Ocho, it's not hard. But here's the thing. What you want, gotta want. You see, that's the problem. Okay? You want a guy, oh, he need to be over six foot tall. Oh, he needs to make six figures. Oh, he need to do this. Yeah. Well, every time. Every time you throw out something that he needs to be you. A percentage, 15, 20%. Who, who, who? So now you down to 5%. That 5% of the man that you want, that's over 6 foot tall, that has a nice body, that makes 6 figure. That's well to do. Does he want you?

[Chad Ochocinco]

And most of the type of men that they want, you know, it's part of the 1%. Huh?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, it's hard. It's hard for something to add value, to increase in value.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Yeah. Say it again. Say it again.

[Bobby Bones]

That constantly gets used. Listen to what I said, Ocho. Name something that increase in value that's constantly get used. You told me about my Ferrari. You say buy that Ferrari, but put it up a bottle of wine.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Right, right.

[Bobby Bones]

1942, Philippe Rothschild, Protruse Caymus.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Wait a minute. I don't even think the chat heard you. Do me a favor. Say, I'm just saying pen and paper, because that man. Hold on. You're gonna have to bring that to me again. Hold on.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm not gonna.

[Chad Ochocinco]

How many is that at Sunday service? Boy? Boy, you just dropped the gym right there. And I don't even think the chat was paying attention. Come on.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, because everything, you know, with Ocho, I want somebody at least six foot tall. I want somebody at least 200 pounds. I want somebody to make at least six figures. I want somebody that, that, that, that, that go to church. I want somebody that like to travel. So you name six things that you like. Okay, you find that guy. But he's only probably in the 1%. So that 1% of the man. Men that you're looking for, is he looking for the 15 to 20% of the women that's looking for him? So now if he's not. So now, right, You. Oh, I'm valuable. Oh, I'm this.

[Chad Ochocinco]

They know they worth. They know they worth.

[Bobby Bones]

Tom Brady wants nigga, worth is what someone is willing to pay for something.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Come on.

[Bobby Bones]

Now, Tom Brady can list his house for 150 million, but after, I guarantee you, after six months, over a year, that house ain't sold. I guarantee he dropped the price. So now if somebody comes in and says, Tom, he want 150 million, I give you 100 million cash. Okay, I take it that's what the house is worth. See, you don't get to determine your worth if somebody's not paying for it.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Boy.

[Bobby Bones]

That'S what women got to understand. You keep saying, are you buying yourself? Are you purchasing yourself? So where's the value Value is only something is only valuable if somebody will purchase it. I want $600,000 for this tube of lip therapy. It's worth $7. They gotta stop this notion talking about, I know my worth. I know my worth. Your worth is what someone is willing to pay for it. That's what worth is. Look up the dictionary. Look up worth in the dictionary. Hold on, I'm gonna Google it.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Wait, you pre. You preach what? You know, I, I, you know. You know what also when I think about is, is in general, women, they put themselves in unwinnable positions at times. You know, they play hard to get. They're very difficult. They create this perception that all the work the man is going to put in, in the end, you know, it's, they're just, they're just getting this, oh, my goodness, this is so much different than everybody else. When, when in hindsight, once you are gained access to it, it's no different than anybody else. That's why they play the difficult game in the beginning. That's why they make you jump through hoops and make you jump through obstacles, because there's really nothing at the end of that light or at the end of that tunnel, you know? And it's not, it's not a bad thing. We're all human. What do you do that's so special to the next person?

[Bobby Bones]

Ocho.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Cook.

[Bobby Bones]

Can you cook? Hey, can you cook some oxtails? I need to know, can you cook oxtails? What am I saying? Can you cook breakfast? Grits, eggs, sausage, bacon, French toast, pancakes. Okay. Okay. What about eggs Benedict? Make hollandaise sauce. Okay, okay. You can't do that. Okay. What can you do? What's the, this value that you speak of? What is it? Because I just want you to know a little something. Everything that you do, I can pay somebody to do it. Cook, clean, get my dry cleaning. Hey, I don't pay them to sleep with me. I pay them to leave. So I'm just trying to say, so where's the value? What can you do for me that I can't have somebody do everything that you do? So if I'm with you, I really want to be with you.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You pay him, you sleep with, you.

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[Chad Ochocinco]

You're not paying them to stay. Hold on, hold on. Let me write that down. Let me write that down.

[Bobby Bones]

I ain't paying for the sex. I'm paying you to get out.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Right?

[Bobby Bones]

So I just, I just want to know if I'm with you. I ain't playing no games with you. Do you Understand that. I'm not. I jump on a plane to come see you.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You jumped to somebody before.

[Bobby Bones]

You mean something, man. So all this, all this, all this stuff. Oh, this. I'm just telling. I keep inspired with y'all. So all this going back and forth, I don't care nothing about that. Because all I know is you keep saying you, you. You worth this, you worth that. That property ain't been. That property been purchased in a long time. Been, huh?

[Chad Ochocinco]

But they have to wait for a buyer to come along.

[Bobby Bones]

Look like you gonna have to drop the price on it.

[Chad Ochocinco]

That's life. That's the way it works. I understand. And you know what? Something about our beautiful women. Something about our beautiful women in this world, we can't live without them. We can't live without them. There's always somebody for everybody. And just at what point is your person gonna come along that's willing. That's willing to buy, that's willing to buy or pay, whatever you feel that worth?

[Bobby Bones]

Maybe?

[Chad Ochocinco]

Nah.

[Bobby Bones]

And my thing is, Ocho, I don't even feel like I'm the prize. I don't tell no woman I'm the prize. But you better. I don't know who. I don't know who told you that. You think you the prize.

[Chad Ochocinco]

That's a great topic. Women. Women feeling like they are the prize and understanding what they bring to the table. I think some of them might be. Despite us being the providers, I think with some women, some might be the prize. You don't think so?

[Bobby Bones]

What? No. We both apprised. I want to be with you.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Hopefully.

[Bobby Bones]

You want to be with me? I think you're special. I wouldn't be. I wouldn't be with you if I didn't think you were special.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Because you can't get that back, huh? You can't get that time.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm not going to waste your time. More importantly than that, I'm not wasting mine. Oh, I like.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I like.

[Bobby Bones]

I can't buy it back. Yes. So that's. That's. I. I just think the thing is, sometimes, like, man, let's just be real here. I'm gonna treat you. I'm gonna treat you with the ultimate respect. If you got a kid, I'll treat that kid as if it was mine. I'll never be disrespectful to you. I'll never call you out of your name. I'll never do anything. But this, man, these women, I mean, they. They. They. They quit.

[Chad Ochocinco]

They quit. They be.

[Bobby Bones]

I know my worth, you know?

[Chad Ochocinco]

And you know you know, wor. I know. It's so many. You know what I don't like uncle. How to put in the words. Why do women always feel. Because they look good. Because we base everything off of looks. Because obviously, men, we are visual. We're. We're visual creatures. Why the first thing. The first thing people say is, oh, he visual creatures.

[Bobby Bones]

Yes. Fumble, right? No, actually, no, no, no, no. Fumble is a situation where I'm running and somebody knocks it out of my head.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I wanted you everything.

[Bobby Bones]

It wasn't a fumble. Yeah, Boo, right? Yeah. I realized like Ocho. I realized I couldn't get any more yards. Let somebody, hey, let the next guy catch it. Hopefully he fair called it.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I don't know, man.

[Bobby Bones]

He might have let it go over his.

[Chad Ochocinco]

We can't live without them. They can't live without us. It's all about finding your person. It's all about finding your person. And if you have sisters, if you. If sisters, if you're watching, ladies, if you have a standard, whatever that standard may be, whatever that value or worth you may think you have, you stick to it. You stick to it until your money, until your guy comes along. I don't care how long it takes, you know, I'm gonna make sure you go. You're gonna win. Matter of fact, ladies, if you in the chat, you don't have a man right now. The holiday is coming up. Valentine's is coming up. Send me a message on Twitter. I guarantee you I have man and some gifts and dinner before Valentine's Day. I'm playing matchmaker because I know your value. I know you're worth. I'm gonna make sure you get your man.

[Bobby Bones]

There you go. Yeah. I hope. Hey. I hope everybody. Hey. Like you said, there's somebody for everybody. I hope they find that person. But I'm just. I'm just tired of hearing every time I be, oh, I know my value. I'm this and that. Look here, I guarantee you go scroll. Go scroll on ig, they got on ysl, they got on Tom Ford, they got a Gucci bag, they got a Louis bag, they got a Chanel bag, they got a Birkin bag, they got a G wagon or they got a Range Rover or they got this. So I'm telling. What's the differentiating factor? Whether you got fillers, whether you got a bbl, whether you got boo. I. I don't. And I'm not judging. I don't care. That's your body, that's your money. I just ain't paying for it. I'm just saying, hey, you want lip fillers, you want Botox, you want bbl, you want lipo? Get it? That's your body. I don't tell nobody what? I've never told a woman what to do with her body. I just want you to know I'm not paying for it.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I remember that one because I'm not.

[Bobby Bones]

Fighting a frog for another snake to eat. So I'm just saying take off if y'all want whatever you want, whatever that you think is gonna. And I go to the gym because I want to feel. I want to. It makes me feel good. But if y'all want to go, hey, if y'all want to do whatever y'all want to do, I'm all for you ladies. I'm never going to. Oh, I can't believe you did that. Is your body, right? That is. That is. That is your temple. You do whatever as you see fit. That's just not me. We leave it on now. It's time for our last segment of the evening. It's time for us.

[Chad Ochocinco]

When that thing was getting good, you were preaching the night.

[Bobby Bones]

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[Matt Castle]

Hey, it's Bobby Bones. Join me and former NFL quarterback Matt Castle every Wednesday for our new podcast, Lots to say with Bobby Bones and Matt Castle. Between us, we have over 17,500 passing yards, multiple New York Times bestsellers, and one mirror ball trophy from Dancing with the Star. So where else you can find a show with that much athleticism and football insight? Based in Nashville, we're more than just your basic NFL show. We talk sports, but we talk pop culture and music and a little bit of everything because we got lots to say. I. I texted you and you texted me back. Now, I don't know if you have the update, but, like, all the little thumbs up and heart and stuff, like, it's all colored. They changed it and the heart's a little pink. It felt like I told you I loved you. I'm gonna be honest. It was a little pink.

[Bobby Bones]

There was something sentimental when you. When you send it. It was like, do I send the heart now?

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[Bobby Bones]

It's extremely pink.

[Matt Castle]

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[Justin Pennik]

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[Julie Stewart-Banks]

It's Julie Stewart Banks. I'm doing a new podcast from iHeart Podcasts and the National Hockey League, and I'm paired up with one of my favorite players, the always quotable Nate Thompson.

[Bobby Bones]

I wore nine NHL sweaters and I have story after story to share. And believe it or not, I have plenty to say, and not just about hockey.

[Julie Stewart-Banks]

Believe me, he does Energy Line with Nate, and JSB is the name of the podcast, and it's going to be quite the ride. We're officially line mates, Nate. We're the Energy line.

[Bobby Bones]

We'll have plenty of folks join us. Current players, some of my former teammates, hall of famers, and wait to see some of the connections that Julie has. She has quite the Rolodex.

[Julie Stewart-Banks]

Okay, we'll lean into Nate's playing experience and tap into our interests away from hockey and try to do what energy lines are supposed to do. Provide an emotional boost. How do you feel about all that, Nate?

[Bobby Bones]

I'm vibing Julie. I'm ready to roll.

[Julie Stewart-Banks]

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[Bobby Bones]

Oh, check this out. We about to do a toss to to rail show on Netflix. Let's take a chat. Take a look at this.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I got somebody I h up with. God damn. She just got here.

[Bobby Bones]

I've been sitting here like the fifth wheel for 30 minutes.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You ain't saying that to me all night. I got somebody I hook you up with.

[Bobby Bones]

Good dude.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Good dude. I have to find something to do while I'm here. Not something to do or someone to do something.

[Bobby Bones]

He.

[Chad Ochocinco]

He's not here. He's busy. But it'd be perfect cuz he ain't going to be all your space. What's his name? Shannon. Shannon Sharp. Come on, you know who Shannon Sharp is? No. Shannon Sharp. He's a well known, retired espn. He got a lot of rules, you know. Tell me one rule. Let me see if I'm. I'm about this life. One rule. When you use the bathroom, you have to go downstairs. Yeah, okay. Hey, I plugged you in like a. Like a Dyson vacuum.

[Bobby Bones]

You ain't plugged in. Why you had to bring that up? You could have brought that up a little later. The part about. Oh, he got a lot of rules. You ain't have to mention no rules.

[Chad Ochocinco]

No. See, you don't want to lie to him at the beginning. That's.

[Bobby Bones]

That's.

[Chad Ochocinco]

That's the one thing you want.

[Bobby Bones]

That's exactly what I want to do in the beginning.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You want to set a precedent early so you don't waste your time.

[Bobby Bones]

No, hey, hey, hey. You know, hey, I was gonna break. Let me break. Let me spring that on him after we, you know, we had we at the T. So what are some. What are some of your biggest pet things? I don't like someone being late, burping or passing gas. That's how you break that in the Ocho. Damn, you don't ruin.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I ain't ruined the mood. I only told her. She's still interested. Did she call you?

[Bobby Bones]

No, no.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Well, I Probably gave her the wrong number. You changed the number?

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. Cause what happened was you done gave her the rules. Hey, she probably drank milk, eat cheese, eat all them vegetables, just be blowing it up.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Sometimes you got to sacrifice if you want something. You know that? Huh?

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, no.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Sometimes you have to compromise if it's something that you really want. You can't always. If you have a set of rules. And obviously, sometimes it's something that you like. You know, it's in the Bible. Sometimes you have to sacrifice and compromise if it's something that you're actually interested in.

[Bobby Bones]

I can't. I can't do that. I can't do that. Don't you.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You don't. You don't like it like that.

[Bobby Bones]

I. Hey, hey, there's one. Hey, hey, hey. But that's always been. That's always been my thing. So it's not. Not something new. It's not. I mean, it's for the first time that, you know, probably people that have. That. I've said it publicly. But if you've been around me, all my teammates, bro. Nah. Hell no. But hey, it is what it is. Hey, I appreciate you looking out for me.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I'mma always do that. I'm always make sure you're good. Because at that time when we were filming, I didn't like the kind. I didn't like the space you were in. You know, I didn't like not really having someone, obviously. This was before the Michelle debacle and you know that. When I was trying to plug and find people that you can date and they could feel that void in that space and then. And I think I failed to this point because I haven't. I haven't. You know, I don't really get in your.

[Bobby Bones]

You know. She don't. If I went on that balloon, where they parked the balloon, she'd have popped the balloon. Wow.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Hey, hold on. I'm glad you just mentioned that.

[Bobby Bones]

You.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I should do a 20 versus one, huh? What you think you know where they pop?

[Bobby Bones]

No, no, no.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You don't think so, man.

[Bobby Bones]

Real or pop your skull bad. Hey, look at. Don't play with real. Like. Real ain't what to play with like that. Ocho, you could joke about a lot of things. Look, you know real better than me, but the way I've been around. Rail. Rail don't play like that. Don't play like that. See, rail got rail like old rail. More like values kind of like me. She old school. She from Alabama. She ain't from new. She ain't from New York. She ain't from Cali and stuff like that. Rail got Southern rules. Southern. Southern upbringing and some stuff ain't gonna jive with her.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Real head right now. She's seen and viewed as. As the mean girl. She's viewed and seen as the villain. And I told. I told her name you one person. History. One person that made history, you know.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, right. Everybody can. Everybody else. Everybody, Everybody. Everybody can't be this the hero.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You can't. Sometimes. Sometimes. What I always say about embracing being the villain in what you do. Always, you know, I can name. I'm gonna give you some examples. I'm gonna give you. I'm gonna give you one example.

[Bobby Bones]

What's that?

[Chad Ochocinco]

Housewives of Atlanta. Even if you don't watch the show.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. Cause I know most of it.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I don't. I don't watch the show. I could tell you who the villain is, and I can tell you who make the most money from the show. Ms. Nene.

[Bobby Bones]

Huh?

[Chad Ochocinco]

Come on, now. People are tuning in for. Oh, they ain't tuning in for Kumbaya. Kumbaya moments by y'all. Moments to get you fired. You won't have no goddamn show.

[Bobby Bones]

Exactly.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Listen, I. You know what? I'm. Leave it at that.

[Bobby Bones]

Y'all make sure y'all go check it out. Let me know what y'all think. I want you guys to watch it and come back and let me know if they portrayed real in the right light. Make sure you go watch Wags to Riches on Netflix. It's out now. Wags to Riches. But Ocho, you all. You ain't do your boy no favorite.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I did you. I did you a great favor, Chad.

[Bobby Bones]

Do y'all think Ocho did me a favor, bro?

[Chad Ochocinco]

The fact. Hold on.

[Bobby Bones]

You gotta go.

[Chad Ochocinco]

The fact that. How you talking about I didn't do you a favor? The fact that I even mentioned you, period, is a favor.

[Bobby Bones]

Ocho, if you're gonna mention me. If you're gonna mention me and say, hey, he got all these rules.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I said the only issue that you might have is that he has rules. Now, everyone has a set of rules. Everyone has boundaries. Everyone has things that are. They're non negotiables. I think I thought it was important for me to let her know about just one rule, and she was okay with that. So that means your foot is in the door already. Your foot is in the door already. See, she's gonna compromise. She don't have it to us. When you say. When you say Shannon Sharp. Certain things go out the window. Certain Boundaries go out the window. Certain things that you wouldn't tolerate from somebody else, they'll tolerate from you.

[Bobby Bones]

Let me tell you how I would do it. I say, hey, and I got this, partner. I said, man. I say, you know, he played in the NFL, had a great career.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Hey, wait, you gotta say, I'm Scott.

[Bobby Bones]

He about six foot tall. He still work out, hard working. I said, funny. Great sense of humor. Now, if you want to laugh, he's the guy. He's the guy. I mean, he got great personality. He loves to do. He fly off the cuff. Whatever you like to do. You want to go bungee jumping, he right there. You want to go. Go karting, he right there. You want to go horseback riding. There is nothing that you could possibly want to do that he'll say no to. He's that kind of outgoing, fun loving guy. He's the guy that whatever your adventures are, he right, See, that's what I'm gonna do. I say, now, hey, you want something that. Now, the thing I know about it, he love hard. Yeah. I say, he loves hard. There is nothing that he wouldn't do for you. Once he once. Once y'all get to that point where he like, okay, we gonna do this. He all leave.

[Chad Ochocinco]

If you want the sun, I go get that.

[Bobby Bones]

That's what I'm saying. So now I'm gonna say. I say, I just got one facet. Look, that's my boy. I say, we ain't brothers. I said, but we close. The only difference is we ain't got the same son. All I ask is this. All I'm gonna ask you is this. If my boy fall, will you catch it? See what I did for you? That's what I did.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Hey, that deserve an Emmy right there, right? Yes. I appreciate.

[Bobby Bones]

See, that's all you had to do.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You got me hyped right there. I couldn't do the presentation like that. I couldn't do it in that manner, obviously, because we, you know, we on camera. They filming it.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I was supposed to stick to a certain, you know what? And I went. I went off. I went off, you know, the script and what we were supposed to be talking about just to plug you in.

[Bobby Bones]

I appreciate that. I appreciate that. Tom Brady is looking to sell his Florida mansion. It happened to be down the street from that big one in Miami, that 35 million, the one he got all them big cranes. Like there's a high, like it's a downtown highway. How much you want?

[Chad Ochocinco]

How much he want?

[Bobby Bones]

I mean, he bought what is like 35 million. I think it's in billionaire. It's in billionaire bunker billionaire row, isn't it? Where is it? Yeah, he's received bids over 150 million. Damn.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I was gonna try to get that bids too, man.

[Bobby Bones]

Get with what, huh? You ain't gonna even pay the light bill at that point.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Who pay, man? Well, with this good credit.

[Bobby Bones]

150Bill I got good with this credit I got.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

Man, you need Bezos credit to get that one.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Matter of fact, you know what? It don't matter how many bids he got. If I hit. If I call, may I call Tom right now? You think the answer. If I call Tom and say, Tom.

[Bobby Bones]

Hang up, Hang up on you. Ocho, man, look here. Me personally, ojo, I wanna. Look, I think I. I might, I might. I might be willing to go to T for a crib. A hundred million.

[Chad Ochocinco]

That's for. That's a. That's for a different type of person. That's bringing in a different type of revenue. It's different now. There are people. If you. You ever been. You ever been to Salt Island? I still don't understand.

[Bobby Bones]

Yes.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I don't understand.

[Bobby Bones]

Yes.

[Chad Ochocinco]

The people don't even live in Miami. They don't come here until the goddamn summer for the winter. How you got a 38 million, 50 million dollar house that you only come for two months out the year?

[Bobby Bones]

What do you do normally? No, they come down there during the winter.

[Chad Ochocinco]

That's what I mean. They come. They come in the winter because where they live, it's cold. How you got a summer house for 50 million? And here I am.

[Bobby Bones]

Nah, bro, I'm catching balls.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Getting my head get a pause. Pause.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, yeah. Getting hit.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Wow.

[Bobby Bones]

Wow. With your. Why? Hey, hey, chat. I'm gonna step back. I'll let him handle that one. Y'all go your head on your.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I'm just saying.

[Bobby Bones]

I'm gonna sit down.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I mean, when I. When I played football, I was catching the pig skin getting hit, getting knocked over, scoring touchdowns. You know, I think when I played, I think the totality of my contract at that time was what, maybe 35 million? And you got a house, a house that you only come see for two months, for 50. I mean, that's neither here nor there. I'm happy with everything that I made. And I'm still blessed beyond measures, and I'm thankful for that. But what do you do? Sometimes I go around and look at the houses on Star island, you know, like, what do you do?

[Bobby Bones]

Hey, I've been to a house that was like 80 million. I couldn't. I can't even imagine.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Oh, let's stop there.

[Bobby Bones]

But you know what? Hey, I might heat him up. Cause I got the number. I might heat him up and ask him to let me hold that thing.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. We could do the show. We could do a live show from there.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh, no, I'm done with the live shows. But anyway, you know what I'm saying? Oh, yo, I got something else in mind. I gotta show. Okay, I see what you mean, man. Hey, you hit a button, Ocho, and the whole wall disappear. About, about 3, 000 square feet of wall just go into the floor.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Hey, that's a different kind of money.

[Bobby Bones]

And you. Oh, oh, and it got, got a, it got a fireplace that just wrap around probably like the fireplace probably like 30, 40ft. And they got those, got those outdoor couches on, big old couches. If you ever want to impress one if she ain't impressed with that.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Listen, they walking through the whole. They walking through the door of an 80 million dollar house. Matter of fact, your clothes just fall off when you walk in.

[Bobby Bones]

Oh yeah, yeah.

[Chad Ochocinco]

When you walk in. That's a different, that's a different level of. It's different. And you listen, you thought you talk about an 80 million dollar house or a 50, 35 million dollar house. You ever been to the boat show? You want to be angry and you want to be angry and understand a mega. You've seen the price of a mega yacht, I see.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah. And this is like all the owners. That's the new thing now, Ocha. The owners are getting them. Mr. Blade got one, Jerry has one. There's several owners that have purchased them, obviously Larry Ellison and Jeff Bezos and Bill Gates. All Those guys got 300. This Russian got what, like a litho that's longer than a football field.

[Chad Ochocinco]

The funny thing about it is these mega yachts for them, that's their toys, our toy. Our toys, you know, Ferrari, Cullinan, BMW. Old school exotic cars.

[Bobby Bones]

They ain't no car. They don't do nothing with the car. Cars don't move them. Yachts, planes move them like 100 million, 200 million.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Or private jets in mega yachts.

[Bobby Bones]

Yes.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Like we took. It's a different dog. It's a different level.

[Bobby Bones]

I don't fly enough. Would I love to have shares. I'd like to get like a hundred hours or 150 hours in the jet, but to own it?

[Chad Ochocinco]

No, oh, no.

[Bobby Bones]

In a yacht and a boat. Boat. B O A t bust out Another year round. You paying the crew, even though it's docked. You paying for. You got to keep that salt water up off it. So you paying for maintenance even though it's doc now, you have to have.

[Chad Ochocinco]

A different type of. You have to have multiple streams of high revenue when you're doing that playing.

[Bobby Bones]

Yeah, I don't want to own one. I like the access. I like the access to be able to go, hey, hey, we gonna leave it this time. Oh, hey, I want X, Y, and Z on the plane. You know, we had. You know, I had a little thing, you know, Ash was kicked back on the plane. Oh, you gonna ask? Can we go on the plane? What? Oh, so now you don't want to fly? You don't want to fly? You know, Delta, you. You above Delta now. Delta is beneath you. Yes, you. But. Yeah, that's. That's Tom. Like, nah, you know what? I want to see the kids, but I'm gonna move to a different side of the island.

[Chad Ochocinco]

That's crazy, man. Hey, hey, Brady, Brady, if you. I know you're gonna see this. You know, the fact our relationship goes beyond anybody goes beyond anybody that's put a bid in for your house. If you want to sell it to somebody, come holl at your boy. Come holl at your boy.

[Bobby Bones]

No, don't holler.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Yeah.

[Bobby Bones]

And no, you know what? That way I can. You know, if I had my. Only. If I had my plane, you know, I go to the bathroom on the plane in. Nah, I only want to do one thing. I want to do one thing on the airplane. And they got. Here in Vegas, they got a little run for 825. Ocho, you can become a member of the Mile high club. They got a pilot. They got. You saw it. I saw it every time. Don't be surprised.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Heard about that.

[Bobby Bones]

Don't be surprised. O, you look up in the sky and you see legs. That's your boy. That's what I'm saying. Ocho.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Now, that'd be great content right there now. Yeah, that'd be great con. That'd be great content, matter of fact, because I.

[Bobby Bones]

Hey, I'm trying to figure out who fit in them. Who fit in an airplane laboratory. I mean, every time I'm knocking paper towels off the wall. I mean, so water run. I'm like, ain't no right, right, right. But, hey, it all depends how bad you want to make it work.

[Chad Ochocinco]

That's all it comes down to right there now. Hey, one. Hey, One of my. One of my. One of my favorite things you know. Oh, when you say listen, you can't. It take two people to tango, huh? You know, I don't want to spar. I don't want to spar by myself. I don't want to shadow box. I want to spot with you. You hear me?

[Bobby Bones]

I mean, you could fit in there.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Most definitely. Most definitely.

[Bobby Bones]

I mean, look at you, Ocho. Any man that can look through a keyhole with both eyes, come on, man. I know you feel like you got.

[Chad Ochocinco]

You gotta understand. You gotta. You don't understand how big I got. I'm not small no more, man. I'm rocked up right now, right? Hey, look at the size of my arms right now, man. Hey, Chad, y'all see how big? I done got my camera down some so the chat can see.

[Bobby Bones]

Titus, what's up over here? I'm glad they didn't hear him in the thing. He was in the room barking. He said, man, look.

[Chad Ochocinco]

Hey, Chat. Look at the size of my arm.

[Bobby Bones]

Chat. I see you, boy. I see you.

[Chad Ochocinco]

I'm gonna give you credit, man. I might be. I'm. I might be bigger than you right now, right? This thing look good? Will we get flagged if I take my shirt off the volume?

[Bobby Bones]

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[Matt Castle]

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[Lexi Brown]

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[Julie Stewart-Banks]

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