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Azar Faraday
Like because a woman loves when a man is smacking ass when you walk by, because it's like, okay, grab a little ass. Especially if you have ass. Like how you not grab my ass and you know I have ass.
Paul Anthony
Yeah, right. All of that. Yeah. In the kitchen, cooking.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, exactly. How you not grabbing my ass knowing I have ass is blowing.
Paul Anthony
Let me ask you something. Do girls with FL flat cheeks like they asked grab?
Azar Faraday
I don't have flat cheeks.
Paul Anthony
No, I'm just saying.
Azar Faraday
Do you think probably, yeah. Grab a little slat cheek like glass. Grab a titty. Grab something, baby.
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Azar Faraday
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Paul Anthony
I am your boy, Paul Anthony. The Truth Pierce. Hey, man, it's been a great year. We coming back for the new year even bigger and better. Make sure y' all continue to support us. We appreciate y'. All. We're almost at one year now from the way we started. When did we start the podcast?
Azar Faraday
In February of last year, 2025.
Paul Anthony
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Azar Faraday
Yeah. So, yeah, it's been an amazing year. Well, it was an amazing year. What is one word that that you would use to describe last year? 2025.
Paul Anthony
One word. Damn. You asking about, how can anybody give one word a whole year? Jeez.
Azar Faraday
If to sum it up, what would you do?
Paul Anthony
Because you go through ups and downs.
Azar Faraday
You do. But what would one word be?
Paul Anthony
What would one word be for me?
Azar Faraday
Yes.
Paul Anthony
I guess it would be like, damn. I don't know no big words, so don't be looking for a big word.
Azar Faraday
We ain't looking for no big word. Just a word.
Paul Anthony
So I would say damn. Cause I had some ups and downs. Stressed, happy. You know, I went through all the emotions. I laughed, I cried, and I don't hardly ever cry. Damn. One word. You give me your one word first. What's your one word to describe last year? Interest.
Azar Faraday
Unexpected.
Paul Anthony
Unexpected.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Just had an unexpected 2025.
Azar Faraday
Yeah. Because I feel like a lot of things that you plan or you thought was gonna happen or you decided like, oh, I'm gonna do this, or I'm gonna be this, or I'm gonna be here. Like, it just was like, whoa, whoa. Oh, okay. Like, all these different, unexpected things happened. We started Truth After Dark. I didn't expect that. And it's cracking. I've had other things happen where I'm like, oh, shit. Like, okay. You know what I mean? And just for me, it's like an unexpected year. I won't expose everything, but like, yeah, it's just unexpected.
Paul Anthony
Was it a good year? Did you.
Azar Faraday
I think overall it was good. Obviously, there was ups and downs as well. I've cried, I laughed, all the same thing.
Paul Anthony
But I can't just take my answers every second.
Azar Faraday
I'm not taking your answers. I'm just relating to you, my friend. And so I feel like, for me, I had a cool year, though, overall, like, I made it. I'm here in 2026. I have to step into gratitude. You know what I mean? So.
Paul Anthony
Okay, that's. That's good. I know my word now.
Azar Faraday
Okay.
Paul Anthony
I'mma just continue to say I. I'm blessed.
Azar Faraday
Okay.
Paul Anthony
Blessed. Last year, I was blessed.
Azar Faraday
I love that.
Paul Anthony
You know, whenever you can go through another year, make it standing on your feet. Family, healthy kids doing cool, building new businesses, building new relationships. Yeah, I'm blessed with the people I've been able to meet. You know, it's been a blessing. You know, I don't really like to dwell on the negative stuff because we all go through stuff.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
And we're gonna continue to go through stuff, but it's always how you fight through the storm and have an understanding. Like the sun is gonna come back no matter what kind of storms you come, you go through. And so I truly will say it's been a blessing. I think I've enjoyed my life a little bit more last year than I have in the past. I was a little more, like, jaded and grounded and, like, a lot of things that I was using just with. With relationships and pouting and doing that, these. These things. And I just think the year before last, so, like, this past year, I just was, like, more positive, more open and thankful, and I feel blessed.
Azar Faraday
I love that. That's amazing. Okay, come on. Bless. Now, what would you like 2026? What would you like that to look like for you? Like, if you had anything that you would say, like, you really want to happen or what is a word that you feel like, okay, I want 2026 to be this.
Paul Anthony
I want 2026.
Azar Faraday
And don't say blessed.
Paul Anthony
Yeah. What do I want in 2020? I just want to continue to grow.
Azar Faraday
Okay.
Paul Anthony
You know, so, like, if anything, my word for 2076 is just growing growth. I love that growth. And what I mean by that is just spiritually continue to grow, financially continue to grow. You know what's been the biggest challenge in retirement for me? It's like, you know, basketball was easy. You know, I trained my whole life. But you never trained for, like, life after basketball. And this is what I've been the most proud of myself of life after basketball, how I've turned into something different that are, like, I'm successful now in not sports. You know, not, like, because, you know, you always looked at as a sports player. But now I'm doing, you know, I'm thankful I'm on, like, I have three podcasts. I have businesses that I'm thriving in.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Like, you know, because a lot of people look at us as dumb athletes, and we can't do nothing else but sit up and dribble. No, no. We could do other things, too, and be successful in other things outside of sports. So that's what I've been most proud of, being successful outside of sports and continue to thrive and be an example for an inspiration for kids and adults and for players after basketball or after their sport. Because a lot of guys in my position, they try to still try to figure it out, and they go into depression and they spend all their money and they still looking for something to do, and they, you know, it's tough. Life after sports is tough. It's tough on you mentally. It's tough on you. Just. Just the adjustment to, like, Family to now. What do you do? You trying to figure it out. Because you think about it, when you retire, you're young. You have the rest of your life. And, like, for me, hopefully, I can be an inspiration to kids and as adults to, like, man, the world is yours. You just got to pour into it. You got to get off the. Get off your ass and stay positive and get to work. Like, because, like, I don't have to work. Like, I just. I enjoy getting up every day. I enjoy going to the gym. I enjoy business ventures. Like, I love being busy. And so hopefully in 2026, it'll be more of that, and hopefully I can continue to inspire.
Azar Faraday
I love that. And I will say this. You have been blessed with an incredible personality. So you're funny and charismatic and entertaining. So a lot of people don't have that. And people enjoy watching you and seeing you. So, you know, you got really blessed because you just have that vibe people have. You have that Genesee Qua. That aura, that energy, quiet.
Paul Anthony
They go. Another word. You come up with a word every week. School me.
Azar Faraday
Genesee Quad is, like, just basically saying, like, you have that swag. Like, that or energy. Like, you know, you walk into a room, people, like, want to. And not just because you're famous. Like, I believe if you weren't famous, like, people will be drawn to you. Because people are drawn to me as well. And I feel like you have that energy to where you're just, like, funny. Like, and anybody is lucky to have you on their podcast or on their platform because you're you. You make it. You make it interesting, you make it entertaining, you make it funny, and you have. You have a vibe about you, period, point blank.
Paul Anthony
You do, too. You have an energy, and, like, you have a voice. Because I've been around you, and I've seen people just gravitate towards you, you know, and just like. And I'm talking about, like, women.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Like, you know, I know you got the men that gravitate toward you, but, like, when women do it and they, like, oh, my God, they want to be your friend and do all this stuff, it's like, it's a great energy that you. That's dope. That's.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, I think you have that, too, again, and not just because you're famous. So I'm lucky to share this platform with you, and I feel like you just are inspiring, and you're a great vibe, and you just are funny, too.
Paul Anthony
I don't try to try to be.
Azar Faraday
You don't try.
Paul Anthony
And I Think you hella funny. I think the top five funniest, most, you, Kevin Hart, Dave Chappelle. Like you up there with them.
Azar Faraday
I'm crying. Okay, so anyway, let's get this.
Paul Anthony
I know you.
Azar Faraday
I know you lying. Let's get into the show. So anyways, this story is super crazy. So a woman finally said yes to her man after he proposed 43 times over the course of seven years. People in the comments are clowning him, saying that he's tripping for staying that long. What are your thoughts? Should he get props for being patient, or is this just a bad decision?
Paul Anthony
This is the worst decision he's making in his life.
Azar Faraday
Now, let me ask you this. If a woman. You propose to a woman right now and she's like, no, are you leaving her?
Paul Anthony
I'm leaving her. Like, what else is there? I decided to take the next step. We're together, right?
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
You want to be with me. Obviously we're together. You're telling me you don't see a future with us? So, like, why are you wasting my time? If I'm ready as a man and I'm stepping up as a man to be with you, and that's crazy. 43 times. I would, man, you know what I would do? I would, like, plan the wedding. Let's do it.
Azar Faraday
It's petty ass, man.
Paul Anthony
We gonna walk down that aisle and I'm out of there.
Azar Faraday
Who would pay all that money just to be petty?
Paul Anthony
Yeah, because you was petty 43 goddamn times. I'm gonna be petty once now.
Azar Faraday
So is that equivalent to a woman being pregnant and a man saying, I'm not ready. What's the difference? Should she leave that man, too?
Paul Anthony
Wait, say that again.
Azar Faraday
So, like, if you're saying, oh, a man proposed and she said no, so you out of there. Because I'm ready. We supposed to be together. What's the problem? So if a man. If a woman gets pregnant by her man and he's like, I'm not ready to have that kid, she should leave him, because what's the difference?
Paul Anthony
That is not equivalent to that.
Azar Faraday
How is it not? Because people think that having marriage is a bigger commitment than having a child, but I don't agree with that.
Paul Anthony
She should leave him if he say, I'm not ready to have the kids.
Azar Faraday
What's the difference of saying, I'm not ready to have a kid to saying, I'm not ready right now to be married?
Paul Anthony
Cause we plan. We can plan the wedding. Did you plan the kid?
Azar Faraday
No. But the point is, is you can plan an engagement. And I can say I'm not ready to be engaged right now. You pop the question just like I popped out pregnant. I'm not ready for this engagement right now because I feel like we still need to do X, Y and Z before.
Paul Anthony
That's why on both cases it should be a breakup.
Azar Faraday
So you think it should be a breakup for the kid too if he.
Paul Anthony
Wants it and she doesn't?
Azar Faraday
Or if she wants it and he's like, no, I'm not.
Paul Anthony
No, I think it's the other way around. If he gets her pregnant and she doesn't want it, like. And he's like, what? That's.
Azar Faraday
Why wouldn't it matter?
Paul Anthony
That's equivalent to what you're talking about.
Azar Faraday
Wait, so why doesn't it matter if the woman wants it and the man doesn't?
Paul Anthony
Because most of the time the woman wants it, it 99%.
Azar Faraday
Okay, that's not true.
Paul Anthony
That is true.
Azar Faraday
I don't think that's true.
Paul Anthony
Like if the woman says I like. Cuz that's like, damn, I'm not having your baby. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, like, damn, like what? Like if she says I'm not. No, like that's equivalent to that. You. If the woman says no. Yes it is. It makes more sense that way if. If. Because that's like slapping the face to the man.
Azar Faraday
And you don't think it's a slap in the face to a woman when a man says no, he doesn't want to have your baby. You don't think that that kills a woman down?
Paul Anthony
Yeah, I'm telling you, that's what that. The equivalent of what you're saying is that.
Azar Faraday
Okay, it makes a whole bunch of nonsense.
Paul Anthony
She's saying no on the, on the engagement. It's like her saying, I'm not having your kid right now. So that's equivalent to that.
Azar Faraday
So DDG's sister proposed to her man.
Paul Anthony
She proposed?
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
As she should. That's what I think it should be.
Azar Faraday
I am blown away by any woman proposing to. Please, baby, keep, you know, keep your dignity as a woman.
Paul Anthony
Dignity?
Azar Faraday
Yeah. I'm never getting on a knee to propose to a man. That is. You ain't gotta get on a knee.
Paul Anthony
You ain't gotta get on her.
Azar Faraday
She got on her knee.
Paul Anthony
Who made that up anyway? Who made up.
Azar Faraday
But listen to what I'm saying.
Paul Anthony
You could be sitting on the.
Azar Faraday
As a woman, I don't think you should propose to a man. And I wouldn't want like my daughter's proposing to no man. I think that that is so just.
Paul Anthony
I think, I don't know, I don't.
Azar Faraday
Even think it even. It's an imbalance in the relationship and I think that it's just like as a woman you should. I don't want a man who says I'm a leader, I should lead, follow me and then I'm getting on my knee or not getting on my knee and making a big life decision to propose.
Paul Anthony
What about all masculine women should propose?
Azar Faraday
Fine, do that. I don't care. Because I'm not going to be masculine in my relationship. So I'm not proposing to a man. I think that that is out of pocket and out of control. I don't.
Paul Anthony
Out of pocket because of like what society?
Azar Faraday
No, it's not about society. It's about the imbalance of a relationship and I forgot who it was. But a man was talking about this and you know, he's like a sports person and he's like be on podcast. I'm so sorry, I don't know his name. The point is he was talking about the Bible and he was talking about how it does create an imbalance in a relationship when a woman is on her masculine and is trying to wear the pants in the relationship. No matter what, it's going to create an imbalance in relationship. And I believe that. So if you're telling me I'm getting on needs to make a huge life decision that I feel like my man should make, like, you tell me when you think this is the time to do this. You tell me that. I'm not telling you that. We about to make a whole big life decision. I'm not doing that. You tell me about that. You tell me when to do that. Like that's it.
Paul Anthony
Men are the first to get on the knee, but then women are the first to give you them papers.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, I could agree with that.
Paul Anthony
So what's wrong with a woman getting on that knee? Cause she gonna eventually give you the papers too. So do both.
Azar Faraday
I'm not getting on that knee.
Paul Anthony
You might as well. You might as well do both then.
Azar Faraday
I'm not getting on that knee ever. My dad will be disgraced.
Paul Anthony
Oh, you can stand up and give it to me.
Azar Faraday
I'm not proposing.
Paul Anthony
What about standing up?
Azar Faraday
I'm not standing up at dinner. I'm not proposing to a man. I'm not nothing and I. My dad would be disgraced with me as a 77 year old man. He will, it will blow him. I'm never doing that. I don't Care if you want to do it.
Paul Anthony
What if you was with a man for like three or four years and he was like, baby, if you ask me to marry you, I'll marry you.
Azar Faraday
That's blowing me. Why are we together for four years anyways? And we didn't even have that conversation. No, I'm cool.
Paul Anthony
Cool, cool.
Azar Faraday
I'm cool. I'm not.
Paul Anthony
I'm saying like, I'm asked you a question. If he said, hey, if you ever asked me to marry you, like, I don't believe in marriage. But like, if you ask me to marry you, I'll marry you.
Azar Faraday
Well, first of all, would you propose? No. If you don't believe in marriage, we shouldn't even be together. Because that's the goal.
Paul Anthony
What if he believed it and they said, I don't believe in it no more in the relationship, we shouldn't be together. Then things change.
Azar Faraday
Then we shouldn't be together. Then that's okay.
Paul Anthony
If we all together, like, I want to marry you. And then it's like, let's be together for some time. And then he comes like after three years, I really don't care.
Azar Faraday
Believe in marriage.
Paul Anthony
I love you. I love the way we are. But if you ask me to marry, I'll marry you.
Azar Faraday
Okay, well, we're not getting married then. And I'm not going to be.
Paul Anthony
So your ego is going to allow you.
Azar Faraday
It's not my ego. It's the fact that what kind of man. If you ask me to marry me, I'm going to. Like, that's.
Paul Anthony
You're saying a voice. Don't make that feminine voice. Don't make that feminine voice.
Azar Faraday
It's such a feminine thing.
Paul Anthony
If you ask me.
Azar Faraday
If you ask me to roll over, I'll do whatever you want. Ew, no, that's nasty. I don't like a man. That's like, if you tell me what to do, I'll do it. That's giving.
Paul Anthony
That's not giving sound.
Azar Faraday
I don't care. That's what it will sound like me to be in my mind. Like, oh, if you ask me to marry you, I'll do it. No, I'm not asking you. And I don't care what anyone says about me.
Paul Anthony
If you get on me right now, I'll marry you.
Azar Faraday
Bye then.
Paul Anthony
You saying bye?
Azar Faraday
Yeah. You're blowing.
Paul Anthony
You're breaking up. You're breaking.
Azar Faraday
You're blowing me. I will be a disgrace. I can't even take you home to my family. You want me to get on what needed.
Paul Anthony
So then when you Go to your family and you tell them that. Like, and they say, like, let's go down the basic list of things that you like and didn't like. And you liked nine out of the 10 things. But now because of that, that's a deal breaker.
Azar Faraday
I'm not going to say that I would break up, but it would make me feel.
Paul Anthony
You just said it.
Azar Faraday
I'm saying what you're saying with the 9 out of 10 things. I'm not necessarily saying like, I'm going to break up with you. I don't know, because I'm not in the position. But I will not ask you to marry me. I will not ask a man to marry me, period. Point. Like, I'm just not doing that. Like, I believe in traditional values in a relationship. I believe that the man.
Paul Anthony
What's traditional?
Azar Faraday
Well, like, the man is the head of the household. To me, the man runs the decisions. I will ask my man, like, is it okay if I go? Is it okay if I do this? Like, I'm cool with that. I believe in that. I like traditional values.
Paul Anthony
Making daddy a sandwich?
Azar Faraday
Yeah, absolutely.
Paul Anthony
Okay.
Azar Faraday
100%. Like, I believe that I should clean up. I believe that I should cook. I believe that I. If my man is like, comes on three, one, let's have sex, we could do it. You want a sandwich? I'll get up. Like, I'm not doing none of that. I think that's weird. That's how I was raised. That's how my sisters are with their husband. That's how my dad is with my mom. Like, I don't like that. And I don't want it to be to where I'm making big decisions for our relationship. I want my man to make those decisions and I want to follow his lead. And yes, as a woman, we always have our little things we're going to say, but for the overall big picture, I don't want that. I don't. I want my man to be the head of this entire household. I want him to make the big decisions when we're raising children. I want him to tell me, okay, cool. Like, I don't want that. I just don't want that. Like, that's weird to me. And whoever wants to do that, that's cool. I feel like the newer generation is with some whole freaky stuff. They be on some different little items.
Paul Anthony
Cool.
Azar Faraday
Get into that vibe. I am just old school. Values like that. I don't want that.
Paul Anthony
Yeah, old school. Yeah. Older. You older.
Azar Faraday
I'm an older woman.
Paul Anthony
So for me, you've been raised a certain way, and that's nothing. But you got to stand on that. That.
Azar Faraday
Then I'm standing on it.
Paul Anthony
That's what's up.
Azar Faraday
10 toes down.
Paul Anthony
No, that's what's up.
Azar Faraday
We like that.
Paul Anthony
We like the old school values, though. Life's cracking.
Azar Faraday
I like a old school value. I don't care.
Paul Anthony
We got to teach these young that, man.
Azar Faraday
That's the thing. And that's why, like, women be like, it's control. You're controlling. But for me, personally, I like a little bit of control. I like a person to be like, I'm making decisions. I'm telling you what to do. All right, cool. I'm cool with that. I've always been cool with that. I don't have a problem with any of that. I don't even have a problem if a man's like, I don't change that outfit. It's to this. Like, I have been in the. I'm like, all right, co. Cool. I promise. Like, 10 toes down. I'm on that. I don't. I don't care about that. So, anyways, this is the daily Fantasy segment brought to you by Price Picks, where you can win real cash by playing Daily Fantasy, use code TAD and get $50 instantly in lineups when you play your first $5. So the question of the day is, there's a clip online of a news station talking about men and women having black backup plans within their relationships. My question for you is, do you think there's more women or more men with backup options?
Paul Anthony
Ooh, I think it's more women with backup options.
Azar Faraday
You think so?
Paul Anthony
Yeah, because to. I don't know, dog. That's a good one. I. I didn't. I never had no backup options, Okay? I never Backup options in a relationship. I think that's a woman thing. They gonna keep a man in the back pocket. Cause a man don't. With women and other men, the women don't gotta talk to the man as much as the man gotta talk to a woman.
Azar Faraday
I can see, you know what I'm.
Paul Anthony
Saying, to keep it cool.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, I can see. You know what I'm saying?
Paul Anthony
Cause, like, if you dealing with somebody else, you gotta text them, call them every other day or every couple days where a woman, she might not talk to him for a week or two or, you know, y' all got a schedule or it's something crazy. You telling them, meet me at the trash can in this alley. Like, y'.
Azar Faraday
All.
Paul Anthony
Y'. All. A man will be there too. Yeah, just for the five minute conversation. Whereas.
Azar Faraday
Or women a lot, I feel like they are more inclined to, like, have a man that they'll talk to just emotionally and it won't be about anything. Like, you don't have to see the man. You just call them, oh, this is how I'm feeling. Like. And just, like, emotionally dump on him. Because I feel like there's a lot of men who are so enamored by, like, a woman's beauty or her vibe, and they just don't care. They'll just be in her life or whatever. Like, as long as you could just call me, I'll always answer. I'll be available.
Paul Anthony
There are men like that, but the men are natural. Like hunters.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
So, like, if a man feel like he can take another man's prey, he don't care how long it takes. He gonna sit back in the weeds and the bushes and be waiting on that.
Azar Faraday
Yeah. I mean, I operate men for sure. Like, I think that there's men that will check on a woman periodically to see, like, you still in your relationship. Or check your Instagram to see. Because there's a big viral meme that. What's his name? Speedy, I think his name is. He's a famous interviewer. He has a thing where he's like, when I see she took her man's pictures off the page, I'm like, whoa. And it has like a million likes. And men are like, yeah, as soon as that man is that page, I'm in the dms. Like, or if that man is not on that page, I'm in the ds. Like, if she visibly don't have no man, cool. Because I feel like men are more respectful. You would be surprised of women in relationships. I've noticed that. Like, man, if you tell them, like, I'm in a relationship, they will literally be like, oh, for sure. Like, but they see that relationship falling apart. They on that ass.
Paul Anthony
See this? I feel. How do you feel about be in a relationship and posting your partner, though? Like, I feel that just give them. I give the Internet more ammo. I feel.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, I could see that.
Paul Anthony
Just. Just like, oh, you know, yeah, damn, I'm gonna be on her. He what? Like, when y' all posting live. But unless you ain't. Unless you posting them thirst trap pictures and he ain't on there. Like, if you ain't doing all that and you ain't posting your man. But then when you post your man, it's going to be, are you post your girl? It's going to be more eyes on her now.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
More eyes on him now.
Azar Faraday
Wow.
Paul Anthony
I'm so torn with that. Especially, like, for me. Like, I've never been a big poster of my relationships.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Like, never. And I like it that way because it just. It just is annoying because my brothers just say anything. Yeah.
Azar Faraday
They want to drag you. I posted. I'll be honest. Like, I've posted my relationships on Instagram before. Like, my ex, you know, like, he had me on his page. I had him on his page. Like, people knew we were together. I'm not a big poster in general. Like, I'll be all over the world and barely post anything. Like, that's the thing about me as a content creator. I should do better. But I don't post a lot. And I remember my last ex would be like, post this of us. Like, what? I don't like that I'm not being pressed to post nothing. Like, no. Why aren't you posting us? Like you're thirsty. I don't want to have to post if I don't want to or whatever. But it's not like I'm sitting here posting the dinners and everything, but I don't post the man. Like, I don't post nothing half the time. And that's the thing about me. But, yeah, I have done that before. And you know what I hate is, like, the idea of taking that down. Like, I've done that and had to sit there and be like, let me take these pictures down now. Cause we not together. And then going to his page and he took them pictures down. And then it's like, everywhere. Everyone knows, like, oh, y' all are not together anymore. And then as soon as that happened, every man is like, what's up? What's up? Yeah, like, thirst, right? Because we're not together anymore.
Paul Anthony
Yeah.
Azar Faraday
You know what I mean? Like, I'm not against posting my partner, but I feel like posting your partner to me. I'll never post a man until me and this man is engaged, married. Like, my best friend, she was like, I'm never posting a man ever again in my life until I'm engaged. And her. She got engaged, and she posted him when they got engaged. Like, that's all I'm posting when we get engaged. Cool. Other than that, I'm not looking stupid no more in this life. Like, I don't want to be showing all of that. And like, da, da, da, da, da. But as a woman, I will say there's a reason that you do post your man, though, to be honest with you. Because it does stop all the DMs going crazy because, like, every day, are you single? What's up? What's good? This person following this person, this celebrity. Like, it's so a lot that you just want to sometimes be like, like, publicly, I'm not available. Don't hit me up. Like, sometimes you do want to do that as a woman because it's overwhelming. It's a lot. Like, you will be surprised. And it's just like, I want less of that and more of leave me alone. Like, please.
Paul Anthony
It's good to get that. Just to know you still got it, though, and not cooked.
Azar Faraday
I don't need to know that. I told you. I already know that. I got it pure point blank, baby.
Paul Anthony
It ain't nothing like women need. Like, you look at the comments. You like to be feeling like, nah.
Azar Faraday
I don't think that that does anything for me. I think it's like how you're famous and when you go out, people are like, paul, Paul, can I get a picture? After a while, you're like, it's cool. Someone else will think, I bet you he loves that. It's boosting his ego. After a while, you don't give a damn. That's how I feel about the man I've had every man try to talk to. Why do I care anymore? It's not doing nothing. At this point. Leave me alone. Like, at this point, you're talking to yourself in the DM 30 times. I'd rather just have more. And for me, I'm focused on, like, more women followers, more women on my stuff. Like, I don't want to post something that's all men. Like, oh, what's up? Are you single? Are you this? Are you that? Are you that? Every day I get that from every type of man you can imagine. Like, leave me alone.
Paul Anthony
Right.
Azar Faraday
You know what I'm saying? But whatever.
Paul Anthony
It's like a beautiful woman is like the same thing as being a celebrity. What's the difference? Difference?
Azar Faraday
Like, a lot of things.
Paul Anthony
No, it's like you got people coming at you.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, you do. Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Like, what's the difference? Like, you. A beautiful woman is the same as celebrity. You got everybody hitting you up every time you go to the thing, everybody trying to talk to you, all this. Like, for real. It's like, no different.
Azar Faraday
And that's why the only thing is.
Paul Anthony
Everybody don't want to take a picture, but they always on you.
Azar Faraday
Yeah. And that's why it's hard even when, like, you want to post a picture as a woman sometimes, like, I Don't post like extra doubts for like thirst traps but like a face picture a little thing where you're vibing. You want to post that but I know like as soon as I post that is going crazy. Like you're getting so many hit ups of like damn you're so beautiful. What's up? Follows falls falls like I don't know if they sending it to each other what's up but it's like it goes crazy. So sometimes I get why women be like I'm in a relationship.
Paul Anthony
You should one day on Truth After Dark Posted Vince Carter.
Azar Faraday
No, I'm not doing that. I already know what you mean but I don't even know who that is.
Paul Anthony
You don't know?
Azar Faraday
No, I don't but I know exactly what you're saying because you've said it before.
Paul Anthony
Dark defense Carter.
Azar Faraday
No, I'm not posting nothing about my body. Like and, and and yeah, we'll talk about it on the episode because there's actually something that a man said recently.
Paul Anthony
360.
Azar Faraday
No, I'm not doing nothing about the dark. No. And they say that in the comments on the YouTube all the time. Turn around. Do three. Like someone said let us end our year right? And give us the 360.
Paul Anthony
Give us the 360 for the end of the year. Yeah.
Azar Faraday
No.
Paul Anthony
Why not? I'm not doing that's gonna boost the followers. Don't solicit my body soliciting is getting paid for something.
Azar Faraday
Yeah. You talking about this gonna be paying.
Paul Anthony
You to do that.
Azar Faraday
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Paul Anthony
Shall cut that off. That was the end of the segment. That was the end of the segment.
Azar Faraday
We not doing that. That's good.
Paul Anthony
End of the segment right there. Huh?
Azar Faraday
End of the segment. Moving on.
Paul Anthony
Moving on.
Azar Faraday
What to you are the signs that a relationship is over? Like for example Cardi B. She said that her past relationship was over when she would walk past her man and he wouldn't smack her ass.
Paul Anthony
Damn.
Azar Faraday
That was given like you don't even care no more. You not even smacking this ass.
Paul Anthony
You always doing that.
Azar Faraday
Like. Cause a woman loves when a man is smacking ass. When you walk by. Cause it's like okay, grab a little ass smack. Especially if you have ass. Like how you not grab my ass and you know I have ass.
Paul Anthony
Yeah, right. All of that. Yeah, yeah. In the kitchen cooking yeah, exactly.
Azar Faraday
How you not grabbing my ass, knowing I have ass is blowing.
Paul Anthony
Let me ask you something. Do girls with flu, flat cheeks, like they asked, grab.
Azar Faraday
I don't have flat cheeks.
Paul Anthony
No, I'm just saying.
Azar Faraday
Do you think probably, yeah. Grab a little slat cheek like glass. Grab a titty.
Paul Anthony
Grab something.
Azar Faraday
Grab something, baby. A stomach, a titty, a ass. What? What? You got a. A leg?
Paul Anthony
You might knock her over, though.
Azar Faraday
She just. Cause you have. This is. I don't know. But I do know a woman wants to feel that, like, you're walking by me. Smack a little ass, do a little grab, get a little cracking, like, you.
Paul Anthony
Know what I'm saying?
Azar Faraday
Because it's like, you like that. So what do you feel like, you know, like, is there any signs when, you know, like, a relationship is over? A lot of women say they know when a man is done with you, when he starts being really mean to you and, like, always super annoyed by you, it's like, oh, he must have another woman. That's, like, cool. But it's like, also, it's hard to tell because sometimes there's men that are just moody men. So it's like. Like, you give the advice of, like, if he's annoyed by you, then he doesn't want you. But then what if you're with someone who's just moody?
Paul Anthony
Yeah. I think when it's starting to disrespect start kicking in.
Azar Faraday
Okay, and what does that look like?
Paul Anthony
Well, just like, I ain't doing that. Like what? Like, dang. Can you make me a play, baby? No, I'm good. Like, damn. Like, for real.
Azar Faraday
That's crazy.
Paul Anthony
Damn. It's just a certain tone in their voice that you start hearing that you ain't really heard before, and it gets, like, disrespectful.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, I can see that.
Paul Anthony
It's just like a certain. You can hear the tone in their voice. Like, then start the road. The rolling of the eyes is more common and that start kicking in. This is just my experience.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Just disrespectful little comments and, you know, it's just little stuff that you. It ain't little, it's big. It's just like, you know, I ain't. I ain't rolling. You know what? I ain't rolling with this. No, I can't do this.
Azar Faraday
Yeah. When a woman starts to disrespect a man or lose respect, the relationship is pretty much over. I'll be honest. I feel like, for me, I've had that experience where it's just like, the cheating and the lies and the weird stuff is just like, I can't respect you.
Paul Anthony
I remember instant. I don't know why this would never leave my head. It was like in my relationship. We was getting in the car, going somewhere, me, her, and her friend. And so I was in the house. So the friend is. She driving. So I come out, the friend is in the front seat. So I come in, I open up the front seat. Like. Like, I shouldn't even have to say nothing, right?
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
And then she was like, just get in the back. I was like, what? What? I felt like, that was so disrespectful. Like, we going somewhere? Me, you, and your friend, and you tell them me getting the back. Like, are you serious right now? That's not even a question. Like, come on.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, that's crazy. I have a question for you, though.
Paul Anthony
Crazy to me.
Azar Faraday
Do you think, like, let's say a man has a sister, right? And, like, his sister's in town or something, and, like, she's around, y'.
Paul Anthony
All.
Azar Faraday
She might be the older.
Paul Anthony
A man has a sister.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Yeah.
Azar Faraday
All right. Do you feel like the sister should sit in the front seat and the woman should get in the back?
Paul Anthony
No, my lady is in the front seat. Every time. That's not even a question. My girl, you not even here. Get in the. My mom get in the back. Yeah.
Azar Faraday
See, I'm accustomed to, like, if it was someone's mom, the mom is sitting in the front. I feel crazy.
Paul Anthony
She say, no. Know she's gonna have to say, I'm.
Azar Faraday
Saying, no, the mom's getting it.
Paul Anthony
No, no, no, no, no. But you're. You're gonna have to say here. No, Mrs. Get in the front. Yeah, my wife and my girl is in the front.
Azar Faraday
See, I'm accustomed to, like, my dad is old, so, like, for me, it'd be like, get in the back. If it's someone older than you, if it's your elder, period, point blank. Like, I feel like, okay, if it's.
Paul Anthony
Your girl, she in the back. But if it's your wife, she in the front.
Azar Faraday
Okay. I still see.
Paul Anthony
So wife is in the front, moms is in the back. Girlfriend is in the back, Mom's is in the front. Yeah, that's how it should go. Yep. I think that's how it should go.
Azar Faraday
Okay.
Paul Anthony
Wife is in the front. Cause she's making decisions. You with her every day. You gotta live with her. Your mom is visiting.
Azar Faraday
But what if the girl's the same thing? You live with the girl. Y' all been together for this.
Paul Anthony
Most of the good girls like, it's okay, mom, get in the front. But most of them is gonna give that to em. And that's what we want as men for y' all to do that. But we gonna validate you on the front.
Azar Faraday
Okay, I can see that.
Paul Anthony
You know what I'm saying? I think that's how it should go. But if she a good girl, she gonna be like, go ahead, mom, get in the front.
Azar Faraday
I could never just let the mom sit in the back. That's gonna blow me.
Paul Anthony
But me as the husband, I'm never sitting in the backseat.
Azar Faraday
No, because you're a man.
Paul Anthony
You're a big man. I done bought this goddamn car.
Azar Faraday
What if. What if. What if it's her dad?
Paul Anthony
Get your ass in the back.
Azar Faraday
He's like 78.
Paul Anthony
Get in the back.
Azar Faraday
And he's tall as hell.
Paul Anthony
And get in the trunk then you need some leg space.
Azar Faraday
So you're letting the dad get in the back for sure.
Paul Anthony
I'm never getting in the back. Okay, man, Lay down then.
Azar Faraday
That's so crazy. An old man that's like 80.
Paul Anthony
Yeah, get in the back, old man. You'd had your front seat days.
Azar Faraday
That's blowing me.
Paul Anthony
That's not blowing you. I'm the husband. I should never.
Azar Faraday
Okay, so. But as a boyfriend, you get in.
Paul Anthony
The back, I get in the back. As a boyfriend, I'm just the boyfriend. Yes, your daddy. Okay. Okay. Cause as a husband, I take care of you and I took care of this car.
Azar Faraday
But what if you feel like as a boyfriend, you did that too? You're like, oh, I've been your man for this amount. I done bought you this car, all of this. You still get in the back.
Paul Anthony
Let's talk about it. Like, what, do we live together?
Azar Faraday
You live together or you. Yeah, you live together.
Paul Anthony
We have kids. No, no kids.
Azar Faraday
You bought the car, though, and you take care of the person.
Paul Anthony
I bought the car, Took care of the person. Yeah. I'm in the front. Yeah.
Azar Faraday
This is about me. So anyways, okay, so you in the front seat.
Paul Anthony
I'm in the front seat. So me. Me as a boyfriend. As a. I'm in the front seat.
Azar Faraday
But the woman has a girlfriend. She's in the back.
Paul Anthony
Yeah.
Azar Faraday
So men don't really respect girlfriends. If you're your wife, you get respected on another level. But if you a girlfriend, it's kind of like you just a girlfriend, because.
Paul Anthony
You could be gone tomorrow. My mama's still my mama.
Azar Faraday
Right, But a wife can divorce you as well.
Paul Anthony
Okay. But you my wife right now.
Azar Faraday
Okay, so a girlfriend. So do you feel as if. Because this is what. When we had poor minds on the episode, they said if you're not married, you're single. Technically. Do you feel that?
Paul Anthony
Do you have a girlfriend that, like. Like what, you.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, like, I'm saying you have a relationship. Girlfriend and boyfriend, but if you're not married, you're technically single. Do you believe that?
Paul Anthony
What the technically single mean? That mean you could talk to other people?
Azar Faraday
I don't know what that means, but she said that, and I guess it means, like, you are single and someone.
Paul Anthony
Better than that when you write on that application, married or single?
Azar Faraday
Yeah, that's what she was saying. So you single?
Paul Anthony
Yeah.
Azar Faraday
So what does that mean? So do you believe that? To where it's like, okay, you can talk to other people?
Paul Anthony
No, it's like, you like the thing about relationships when you're not married, you have a girlfriend, you have a boyfriend, you're going steady, you have a. An agreement with each other. Like, hey, I'm exclusive with you.
Azar Faraday
Right?
Paul Anthony
You know, let's see if this turns into not single.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Paul Anthony
You know, and that's what relationships are. And, you know, we do a lot of different relationships because that's a life decision you make when you marry somebody.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, for sure.
Paul Anthony
You got to figure like, hey, if I decide to marry you, my idea, my mind is like, I'm going to be the rest of my life with you. And so that's not a quick decision, for sure. You know, so dating and girlfriends and boyfriends, that's. I got to give me some time to make that decision. But, like, that don't give me the. We're exclusive right now, and I made you exclusive because I want to see if this is heading toward that direction. Now, if it don't work out, we just break up, and I'll see what the next girl talking about.
Azar Faraday
I'm crying. And that's for women, too, you know?
Paul Anthony
Yeah, that's for women.
Azar Faraday
Like, all right, cool. If this doesn't work out. And I think that that goes back into women having backup plans, because they're like, okay, if you're not marrying, then we're technically single. That means technically, you have these people in place that are like, oh, like, I will marry you. I want to be with you. I want to do these things with you, but they're not your first option.
Paul Anthony
If you live together for three years and you not have no marriage plans, it should be okay to have a backup plan.
Azar Faraday
Okay, well, I think if the.
Paul Anthony
Listen to what I say. If you live together, I hear what you say, two to three years, I think you should have a backup plan.
Azar Faraday
Well, when we were on Port Mines, you said, if you're over 33 and you live together for more than one year, then it's not giving that marriage shit.
Paul Anthony
Yeah, over 33 is different, though, for a woman, because. Because y' all are, like, at that borderline to where it's like, you're still thinking kids and marriages are like. Cause, like, you can't waste three years like that. You know what I'm saying? So that's different. You know what I'm saying? You ain't got three years to be this motherfucker. Be like, damn, I wasted three goddamn years. And this is a critical age to where, you know, where you're still looking to do the whole family, you know? You know? So that's. That's different.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, that's true. I think that women have men that really, like, are good guys, but they just don't want to be with them, and they're willing to, like, marry them and have a kid and do all of this, and they're like, okay, I could be with that person. You know what I mean? Because there are those men. But I feel like women are not attracted to those men a lot of the time, even if they're attractive.
Paul Anthony
It's just like, you're not my vibe, really, but you gotta.
Azar Faraday
You're not my vibe, but you gotta. But you're cool. But see, me, I can't do that. I have to vibe out with you, or I just don't love it. Like, I've had that to where it was, like, the perfect man. Handsome, rich, every. I couldn't even think about something without him having it for me. Like, I'll think about something one time. It's there. Like, whoa. And it was just everything and everybody. Everyone was like, he's perfect. He's the best man. But I couldn't get into the vibe. And so I had to let it go. Like, I can't do this, and I can't waste your time.
Paul Anthony
So what was the breakup like? You was like, I ain't vibing with you. We gotta. We can't do this. You broke up with him or he broke up with you?
Azar Faraday
I broke up with him. And I just was like, what was the reason, though? The reason was, like, crazy. Cause it was just like, I couldn't even. I felt so bad. You know what I'm saying? But it was like, I just was like, unfortunately, I just am not in the space to want to have a relationship because he was pressing on some. Like, are we together already? And I could be like, we're not together. We're not in a relationship. Like, I'm telling you that right now.
Paul Anthony
Wait. No, I'm saying you were in a relationship with him.
Azar Faraday
Like, it felt like I was deboed into a relationship, though, because I kept being like, I don't want to be in a relationship. And then it was like, we're together. We're together. And then it was just like, oh, God, we're together. And I just felt so crazy because I'm like, I'm still. And I will be transparent. Like, I just don't know right now. I'm figuring this out. I don't know. I don't know. And he was just like, what? Like. But mind you, perfect on paper. Very handsome, tall, like, women want him. I just felt like it was on me. Like, successful career, like, music, all that. And I just felt like I couldn't get into the vibe. So I finally just was like, was.
Paul Anthony
Y' all having sex?
Azar Faraday
Yeah, we had sex, like, twice or three times.
Paul Anthony
And y' all were together?
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
For how long did the relationship last?
Azar Faraday
The relationship was, like.
Paul Anthony
Three weeks.
Azar Faraday
No, like, it was like. It was like. It was a minute. It was a minute. No, I swear to God, the relationship was a minute.
Paul Anthony
Not somebody left more than three weeks and only have, like, six. Three times. That's crazy.
Azar Faraday
Nah, it was. And it was.
Paul Anthony
It was with it for, like, a year.
Azar Faraday
It wasn't a year, but it was like, it was longer than it should have been. But also, too. Remember this? This. We weren't together. We were talking for this period of time, and a lot of the chunk of it, for six months of it, I was like, no, I don't want to be in a relationship.
Paul Anthony
Why was you hanging out with him?
Azar Faraday
Because I actually enjoyed him. He was cool, but I just was.
Paul Anthony
Like, I enjoy him. That's a vibe.
Azar Faraday
Not like that, though. It was too. It was too many.
Paul Anthony
Opportunistic.
Azar Faraday
Was it what?
Paul Anthony
Opportunistic?
Azar Faraday
No, it wasn't opportunistic at all. Because it was just like, I really wanted to be with him as far as. Like, I wish I could be with you. I want to try to make this work so bad because you would not cheat on me. You're like a good person.
Paul Anthony
So what was.
Azar Faraday
Was just not. I couldn't click. It just didn't click. I just couldn't. I was like, damn. And everyone knew. And then when people around me saw me with the next person I was with, they were like. Like, oh, my God, it's so different. You're vibing. You're loving this man. Like, it was so different to be with this person. And then that person and even my best friend and her, like, fiance was like, this is crazy. Like, you were not feeling this bad. And they. And they even had a conversation with me. Like, it feels forced on your end, and it feels like sometimes men pressure you into things, and you're like, yo. Like, I'm not feeling it. And to me, I felt like he knew I wasn't feeling it. Like, he knew it. But you're still pressuring it. Pressuring it, pressuring it. And it got to the point where I just was like, yo, you're smuth. Like, I feel smothered. Yeah, it's too much. I need space. I need a minute. Like, you're pressuring me into, like, having a kid, wanting to be married, having this lifestyle. No, it wasn't. No, I wasn't big at all. I was just not big. And so I was looking good. I was looking good, and he was looking good. Like, he's hitting. Like, he's hitting cool. Like, cool. Like women want him. Like, he's a hot commodity, and it just wasn't me. Like, honestly, like, women. He was cracking right.
Paul Anthony
Where he at now? Is he around? You seen him before?
Azar Faraday
No, I haven't seen him since we broke. No, I don't follow him on Instagram or nothing.
Paul Anthony
We don't follow him on Instagram.
Azar Faraday
If I looked him up. Yeah, but I'm not looking him up on Instagram. No, I'm not doing that. I feel bad. I feel genuinely bad, and I just really hope we should get him on.
Paul Anthony
Pierced by love stuff.
Azar Faraday
No, I think he probably. He probably has another. Like, he's cool. Like, people want to be with him. Like, even his ex was still on his bumper. Like, you know what I'm saying? Like, you ain't no buster, but you just wasn't for me.
Paul Anthony
Sound like it was a bus.
Azar Faraday
No, he was not. He was not a buster. He's a man. It just didn't connect with me. Have you ever dated a woman who had a lot of traits and attributes? Like how Tyrese was saying they checked the list, but it just is not clicking for you. Like, it's not clicking for me.
Paul Anthony
I just don't have a girlfriend or.
Azar Faraday
Like, a girl that you was dealing with, and you're like, I wish this was cool because you Are dope, but you're just not vibing with me. You never had a way that's just like, you're dope, but I just can't get into it.
Paul Anthony
And what type of way you mean, like, with them?
Azar Faraday
I just don't.
Paul Anthony
I never had a girl that I wasn't vibing. Like, that don't even make sense to me.
Azar Faraday
See, I think it's a woman thing because women feel like. Like, the man that I'm vibing with is just like, I don't want to vibe with that type of man. Sometimes women say they have to change their type to be with a man who's for real. Like, marry kids, actually have family. You're actually gonna do. So sometimes you have to change the type of man you're into. You know what I mean? And it's like, women go through that phase where you either decide to do that and be like, cool, I'm gonna marry this man because I could have married this man, had a kid with this man, everything, and. And it would have had, like, a house, a thing, everything, like, would have been chilling, full blown, taken care of, everything for a fact. Never would have left me. You can decide to do that as a woman, or you can be like, I'm not doing that. And I'm not going for that. Because I can't live a life with someone that I'm truly unhappy with. I just. I'm not going for that. I don't care what you can offer me. But a lot of women take that. They take that bait because it's like, it's cool.
Paul Anthony
Yeah.
Azar Faraday
You're taking care of your good period. I'm not taking the bait, though. And I. I don't want.
Paul Anthony
You don't need to take the bank.
Azar Faraday
Exactly. So anyways, there's a viral meme that says no woman is getting a bbl and staying faithful to a man. The entire point of that procedure is to be a hoe.
Paul Anthony
Damn.
Azar Faraday
A woman said this too.
Paul Anthony
Yeah.
Azar Faraday
What are your thoughts on that?
Paul Anthony
Damn. I thought the procedure was to just get a. To keep up with the Joneses. Cause, like, oh, that's. A woman said that.
Azar Faraday
Yeah. She said, no woman is getting a BBL to stay faithful to a man. The entire point of that procedure is to be a hoe.
Paul Anthony
It look like it depends on what you look like before that. I gotta see your before and after. You know what I'm saying?
Azar Faraday
I don't. Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Like, if you getting that. You trying to. You want that attention. It depends on which one you get too you get level A. You know what I'm saying? You get level C. Okay. Just so you can just, you know, for your damn. I wonder this, though. Like, if a woman is in a relationship, do she consult her man on that? And what if he say no and you do it anyway? Should he be pissed? I'll be pissed. I don't like that.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, I think you should for sure consult your man.
Paul Anthony
I don't like that. That happened to me, and I wasn't. I wasn't feeling it.
Azar Faraday
You gotta for sure consult your man about that 100.
Paul Anthony
Yeah, but then you just come home one day like, yeah, look, now that's crazy. That's one.
Azar Faraday
You gotta for sure consult your partner about any surgical procedures that change your look or change your Anything, right? I'm consulting my man about a haircut, a bob. Like, you should be consulting your man or your partner in general, like, hey, I'm doing this now. What you think? Can I do this? Like, I believe in that 100. But, like, I'm not gonna say, because I have friends who's had bbls and I would not consider them a hoe in any way, shape, or form. I don't necessarily think that that is what. It makes you a hoe automatically. Like, some people have genetically a really messed up shape. And it's just like, you have no butt. You have a bigger upper body. You're so disproportioned that you need to run that BBL procedure. I don't know, because I never had this issue, and I don't want to sit here and be like, oh, you shouldn't get a bbl because it's not fair coming from someone who naturally has had a big butt hurt.
Paul Anthony
You know what that's like? I'm gonna tell you what the BBL is like. Like, it's like that one nigga that gets in the league and he just started having girls. He didn't have girls before, so now he popping. It's like, that girl, she didn't get that attention. She get that bbl.
Azar Faraday
It's a different type of attention with a man.
Paul Anthony
And now you like, oh, damn, I'm popping. And you don't know what to do with this attention. So I could kind of see what she's saying, like, oh, you getting that BBL now. You became a hoe because before you couldn't. Because it wasn't given that that I'm telling you.
Azar Faraday
But it's like this, this, this, though people assume like, oh, I lost weight and now I look how I look. And I'm. I'm a hoe. And that's not true. But plus, I was never looking like that my whole life, though, so maybe it's different because I always looked good and then I gained weight for a little bit, and then I looked good again.
Paul Anthony
Something else is opening up the doors for some of these.
Azar Faraday
Well, because clearly you said men don't care about a face, so you just.
Paul Anthony
I didn't say that. You. You gave me how to. You know, how you see, how to disrupt the word. I didn't say men don't care about the face, but you gave me an ultimatum.
Azar Faraday
Butt over a face.
Paul Anthony
You gave me the ultimatum, do I take olive oil with a pretty face or ugly face with the. With the body?
Azar Faraday
And I chose ugly face with the body. So when men say stuff like that, it influences women to get a body. I could be ugly, but I could have a booty and a body. And I'm cracking. Women are removing ribs. This is how real it's getting to have an hourglass shake.
Paul Anthony
Yeah. When you got more men saying that, that's why women are putting so much emphasis on their looks and spending that money. And if you want to spend that money on them, they gonna do it.
Azar Faraday
They say that bbls are a sign of you being an auntie because it's a certain era generation of women that have them, and they're saying that it's an auntie look.
Paul Anthony
Now.
Azar Faraday
That's like all the Internet say, like, BBL is giving auntie. Okay. And that's what they're saying.
Paul Anthony
Because all the girls now getting old.
Azar Faraday
All the girls have. Yeah, they looking crazy. And they have.
Paul Anthony
You telling me the new generation ain't getting bbls.
Azar Faraday
They probably are, but I think they're. The procedures have gotten better and they're looking more natural. So it doesn't. You can't tell as much. They're getting a little bit. Here, here, here. No, y'.
Paul Anthony
All this. I'm gonna tell y' all this and I'm gonna look in the camera and say this. Hey, we could tell you got that bvl. When them legs. When you order that ass and the legs don't come with it and they don't match, man. That. That I need to come out with a procedure where I'm giving out matching legs.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Is that a thing? Because when the legs. Make sure you do it where it matches the legs. Ladies that'd be looking crazy when the legs don't match. You over here looking all crazy. When them skinny old legs and you got this big old butt. That look crazy, y'. All. I don't know what y' all see, y'. All. Y' all stop looking, thinking. But that looked when them legs don't match. That look crazy.
Azar Faraday
They look like a little ants.
Paul Anthony
No, it's looking like spongebob. You know how spongebob body sponge.
Azar Faraday
I don't have no ass.
Paul Anthony
I'm just saying his body go with them legs. They don't match. His body don't match his legs. And that's what I'm saying. Y' all here looking like spongebob. That's. I don't know if the girls can see it too, because they just roll with it.
Azar Faraday
I don't know what's going on. I don't know if people don't see what's going on with. They look, man.
Paul Anthony
They don't see it. They don't see the overs. Lips. They think the oversized. Yeah, your face look like a. A Big Mac or something. It look crazy. Oh, my God. That'd be looking crazy, man. I'm good, man. I'm good.
Azar Faraday
I feel like, damn. So. So this guy went online and he said, and I've seen this a few times now. He said, females be naked so much online, I'd be like, damn, I bet she look good in the sweater. He said, I'm so tired. He said, at this point, I could see butt titties every time I scroll. He said, it don't even phase me no more. I just scroll past it like, whatever. What happened to mystery? What happened to secrecy? What happened to envisioning a woman naked? He's like, you can't even do that no more because all these women are half naked or naked on the Instagrams.
Paul Anthony
Yeah, because they trying to get followers. They trying to use that to monetize they look. I mean, ain't nobody working no more. Everybody trying to monetize they look, they influence. And if they can give some. If your body is influential, what does that mean?
Azar Faraday
Your body is influential?
Paul Anthony
That your body is influent. Your body and your face is influential because you got so many flower followers and so many likes because of your body and face. It ain't nothing you doing out here. But. But. And if you can monetize that, that's the world we live in. Because you look at the examples of all these girls who are just showing they ass and face and selling clothes and driving traffic. They making money. So that inspires other people, say, hey, I can do that. Why can't I make some money with my Influential body and face. And so that's just the world we live in. And they're getting paid for it. So why not give it a little look? Why not give it a try? I'm not even mad at those, those girls who are doing that. If somebody say, you want to give me some millions or some free stuff or advertisement or, you know, whatever it is for me to take these ex. These exotic pics that don't cross the line, but it's, it's sexy and I look that way to where people want to look at my page and follow me, then good for you.
Azar Faraday
Yeah. I'm gonna be like on some shit where it's like not judgmental, but it is gonna come judgmental. I don't like it because I feel like we're just overexposed as a society. And I feel like it makes the value as a woman go down. Where like back in the day it was so amazing to see a naked woman. It was like, whoa, this is cracking now I feel like everything is all over the Internet. And I do believe that mystery should still live on. And I believe that women should still value the fact that, that we have something that's powerful. Power of the P U S S Y oh gosh. You feel what I'm saying? And I feel like it. No, because it's true. And I feel like I'm.
Paul Anthony
We're just talking about naked.
Azar Faraday
Yeah.
Paul Anthony
Photos. It's just, you know.
Azar Faraday
But you think it stops at that. If you're willing to do that, you're willing to do more because you're selling your soul, in my opinion, for followers. Yeah. But it's not an excuse abuse, in.
Paul Anthony
My opinion, for money.
Azar Faraday
Yeah. And that's crazy. That's like really like the devil's work.
Paul Anthony
Right there other skill in life. And you don't have nothing else going for you. And they're saying, hey, you can make money this way. People are going to do it.
Azar Faraday
I understand that and I understand that people walk in the stroll for a long time. It's not nothing new, but I just wish that, you know, people value themselves more to understand that there's more to life than that. And it's like a dark lifestyle living like that. And I hate the fact that everything is naked. I don't even like it. It's like, I don't want to half naked every day either. Like, let me see some, Let me see you put some on.
Paul Anthony
Right.
Azar Faraday
Period. Like put some on and look fly in something. But whatever. It's modern day prostitution and that's all right.
Paul Anthony
Playboy. I call it Playboy because that's what Playboy was. It was like the clothes on, but it gave you a little this and that.
Azar Faraday
It's not a little. It's a lot going on.
Paul Anthony
Yeah, a little more than usual. And now it's been going on since the beginning though.
Azar Faraday
Right? And that's what I'm saying. But no, no, it's overexposed. Any.
Paul Anthony
Anybody can be in Playboy now. That's.
Azar Faraday
Yeah, it's overexposed now. And a lot of y' all need to hang it up. So before we wrap it up, we're gonna say. We're gonna just. I'm gonna ask you some questions and you have to answer.
Paul Anthony
I have to, man.
Azar Faraday
Yes. Have you ever stayed with someone knowing it wouldn't last? Yes or no? It's rapid fire questions. You gotta answer it. It's not. No. Nothing. Yes or no? This is a rapid fire question. Yes. Okay. Have you ever ignored a red flag because you were attracted?
Paul Anthony
Yes.
Azar Faraday
Is. I'm busy. Usually a lie.
Paul Anthony
No.
Azar Faraday
Have you ever ghosted someone who didn't deserve it?
Paul Anthony
No.
Azar Faraday
Is silence a form of manipulation?
Paul Anthony
No.
Azar Faraday
Yes, it is. Who cheats more when unhappy, men or woman?
Paul Anthony
Women.
Azar Faraday
Who is more forgiving? Man or woman?
Paul Anthony
Men.
Azar Faraday
That's true. Who loves harder, man or woman?
Paul Anthony
Men.
Azar Faraday
That's a lie.
Paul Anthony
Women. Men love you forgive me, we already talk about this. Women love. Who loves harder. That's what. That's.
Azar Faraday
Who loves harder, Men or women?
Paul Anthony
No, men love for real. Women love on conditions.
Azar Faraday
Okay. Why is it getting into it really quick? What do you mean? Whose leaves mentally first? First.
Paul Anthony
Women.
Azar Faraday
Does good sex make people stay longer than they should?
Paul Anthony
Yes.
Azar Faraday
Is body count relevant or just insecurity?
Paul Anthony
Insecurity.
Azar Faraday
Would you stay in a relationship with bad sex?
Paul Anthony
Yes.
Azar Faraday
Is sexual compatibility.
Paul Anthony
Cause you could get sex from someone else.
Azar Faraday
So you're just gonna cheat. This is crazy. Is sexual compatibility more important than emotional compatibility?
Paul Anthony
No. Emotional compatibility.
Azar Faraday
Okay. Well, thank you guys so much. I hope you guys have an incredible year.
Paul Anthony
There he is. 2026. We kicking it off.
Azar Faraday
We're kicking it off.
Paul Anthony
Hey, we love y'. All. We appreciate y' all support. Continue to support us this year. It's gonna be an amazing year. Tune into our live shows coming up, we gonna have some dope ass guests. So continue to support. We appreciate y'. All.
Azar Faraday
Thank you guys. I wish you a glorious 2026. I hope that everything that you want comes to you tenfold peace.
Paul Anthony
This is the taking over the game. All right, everybody. Welcome to Truth After Dark.
Azar Faraday
Do you think that men or women are more toxic.
Ryan Seacrest / Janice Torres / Austin Hankwitz
Live, CBS Sunday. Hollywood's biggest party is now bigger than ever.
Azar Faraday
Perfect. Perfect. No, no.
Ryan Seacrest / Janice Torres / Austin Hankwitz
The Golden Globes. With more stars, more glamour, more chaos and more host Nikki Glaser.
Azar Faraday
We're gonna laugh at the celebrities that can take it and completely ignore the ones who can't. I'm just kidding. They're not safe either.
Ryan Seacrest / Janice Torres / Austin Hankwitz
The Golden Globes, live CBS Sunday, 8 Eastern, 5 Pacific, and streaming on Paramount.
Paul Anthony
Plus.
Ryan Seacrest / Janice Torres / Austin Hankwitz
Janice Torres here, and I'm Austin Hankwitz. We host the podcast Mind the Business, Small Business Success Stories, produced by Ruby in partnership with Intuit QuickBooks.
Azar Faraday
We're back for season four to talk to some incredible small business owners.
Ryan Seacrest / Janice Torres / Austin Hankwitz
The big thing about working at tech is that it's ever evolving, ever changing.
Paul Anthony
Everyone's a rookie.
Azar Faraday
That's how fast the industry is changing.
Paul Anthony
So what I'm really excited about is.
Azar Faraday
To be part of that change.
Ryan Seacrest / Janice Torres / Austin Hankwitz
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Azar Faraday
Guaranteed Human.
Date: January 5, 2026
Hosts: Paul Anthony (“The Truth” Pierce) & Azar Faraday
This episode of Truth After Dark, a spinoff under the Club Shay Shay umbrella, sees hosts Paul Anthony and Azar Faraday kick off the new year with an unfiltered conversation on relationships, gender roles, modern dating norms, and internet culture. They discuss viral moments (like a man proposing 43 times), deep dive into traditional vs. contemporary values, relationships with social media, cosmetic surgery, women’s loyalty, and rapid-fire questions about love and sex — all with witty banter and strong opinions.
[05:34–11:59]
Notable Quote:
“You got to get off your ass and stay positive and get to work. Like, I don’t have to work... I enjoy business ventures. Like, I love being busy.”
— Paul Anthony [10:34]
[13:50–18:28]
Notable Quote:
“If I’m ready as a man and I’m stepping up... that’s crazy. 43 times. Man, I would... plan the wedding, walk down that aisle, and I’m out of there.”
— Paul Anthony [14:13]
[17:26–23:30]
Notable Quote:
“As a woman, I don’t think you should propose to a man... That is so just... I don’t want a man who says, ‘I’m a leader, follow me’ and then I’m making a big life decision.”
— Azar Faraday [18:00]
[22:24–23:57]
Notable Quote:
“I like traditional values. Making daddy a sandwich? Yeah, absolutely... If my man comes home 3:00, want sex, we could do it.”
— Azar Faraday [22:36]
[24:55–32:31]
Notable Exchange:
“A beautiful woman is the same as being a celebrity... Everybody trying to talk to you, all this... it’s no different.”
— Paul Anthony [31:41]
[51:09–56:56]
Notable Quotes:
“You gotta for sure consult your man about that... I’m consulting my man about a haircut, a bob…”
— Azar Faraday [52:42]
“Hey, we could tell you got that BBL when them legs don’t match... I need to come out with a procedure where I’m giving out matching legs.”
— Paul Anthony [56:05]
[34:02–41:10]
[41:12–43:16]
[43:16–51:09]
[57:12–60:53]
Notable Quotes:
“Your body and your face is influential because you got so many followers and so many likes... They making money. So that inspires other people.”
— Paul Anthony [58:06]
“Now, I feel like everything is all over the internet... When you value yourself, you not all over the internet like that.”
— Azar Faraday [60:08]
[61:23–63:02]
| Time | Segment | |-----------|-----------------------------------------------------------------------| | 05:34–11:59 | Year in review, personal growth & post-sports challenges | | 13:50–18:28 | Viral 43 proposals, patience vs. foolishness, commitment debates | | 17:26–23:30 | Women proposing—gender roles, balance, tradition | | 22:24–23:57 | Traditional vs. modern values—submission, decision-making | | 24:55–32:31 | Backup plans, social media's impact on relationships | | 34:02–41:10 | Red flags, “butt smack test,” signs of relationship breakdown | | 41:12–43:16 | Are you single until marriage? | | 43:16–51:09 | Settling, perfect-on-paper vs. “vibe,” women’s choices | | 51:09–56:56 | BBLs, loyalty, body culture, cosmetic surgery logic | | 57:12–60:53 | Overexposure, “mystery” in dating, monetizing looks | | 61:23–63:02 | Rapid-fire relationship Q&A |
The episode is direct, humorous, conversational, and candid. Azar brings assertive, traditional perspectives with a modern edge, while Paul injects locker-room humor, street wisdom, and a laid-back attitude. Both frequently tease, challenge, and support one another, maintaining high energy and relatability.
This episode is a perfect snapshot of Truth After Dark’s blend of viral culture, old-school values, and unfiltered opinion. Listeners are left with much to ponder about love, dating, gender dynamics, and what it means to stand on your values in a rapidly shifting society.