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Coach Lee
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Coach Lee is a world-renown relationship coach who helps people get an ex back after a breakup, save a marriage, and become more attractive.
Lee has coached people in relationships since 2000. His website is https://MyExBackCoach.com and includes hundreds of articles and videos.
Lee has lectured at Pepperdine University and others, is a TED educator on the science of breakups, and has been interviewed by major media including The New York Times, USA Today, The Today Show, New York Post, Men’s Health, L.A. Business Journal, Cosmopolitan, Daily Mail, Metro UK, Bravo TV, Yahoo Lifestyle, Glamor, and MSN among others.
Lee uses real-life experience with breakups along with his work for 20 years providing relationship-recovery coaching. He has a Master Diploma in marriage and family counseling along with multiple certifications for relationship coaching & consulting.
Get information on his Emergency Breakup Kit & Emergency Marriage Kit at MyExBackCoach.com.
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The Biggest Mistake People Make Trying to Save Their Marriage
2w ago00:12:00Tap to summarizeWhen a marriage feels like it’s slipping away, fear can cause people to make the very mistakes that push their spouse even further away. In this episode, Coach Lee explains the biggest mistake people make trying to save their marriage and how pressure, constant relationship talks, emotional reactions, and demands for reassurance can damage reconnection. Learn what actually helps rebuild closeness when your spouse is pulling away emotionally or talking about separation or divorce. Get my free mini-course on saving a marriage and learn practical strategies to stop pushing your spouse away and start rebuilding connection.
Transcribe →Why Coldness Doesn’t Always Mean It’s Over
4w ago00:07:16Tap to summarizeWhy do exes often become colder after a breakup, especially right before they start missing you? In this episode, Coach Lee explains the emotional stages many dumpers go through after a breakup, why relief often comes before longing, and why cold behavior does not always mean the relationship is permanently over. You’ll learn: • Why emotional relief can make an ex seem detached • Why some exes pull away after reconnecting moments • Why missing you usually happens later, not immediately • How no contact changes emotional dynamics • And why reacting emotionally to coldness often pushes them further away If your ex has suddenly become distant, emotionally cold, or confusing after the breakup, this episode may help you understand what’s really happening beneath the surface. Book A Coaching Session With Coach Lee: https://myexbackcoach.com Emergency Breakup Kit: https://myexbackcoach.com/emergency-breakup-kit/
Transcribe →Why Your Ex Is Watching You But Not Reaching Out
Apr 2900:05:32Tap to summarizeWatch the video of this podcast at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CivEbZen8bI Your ex is still watching you… but they won’t reach out. That’s not random and it’s not harmless. In this episode, you’ll learn exactly why they do it, what it means, and how it can actually work in your favor. Your ex is still watching your stories, checking your profile, or keeping tabs on you but they’re not reaching out. That situation is incredibly common after a breakup, and it leaves a lot of people confused, frustrated, and stuck. In this episode, I break down exactly why an ex watches you without making contact. You’ll understand the psychology behind their behavior, what they’re feeling (even if they don’t show it), and why they often stay silent even when they’re thinking about you. More importantly, I’ll explain how you should respond. Most people handle this situation in a way that actually pushes their ex further away. I’ll show you what actually works if you want your ex to come back, and what mistakes to avoid. This episode covers: Why your ex watches you but avoids reaching out The emotional conflict they’re dealing with What their silence really means How no contact plays into this dynamic What to do next if you want to turn things around If you’ve been wondering whether your ex still cares or if there’s still a chance, this will give you clarity and a plan. Get Coach Lee's Reunion Blueprint for just $7 at https://ReunionBlueprint.com
Transcribe →Why Your Ex Acts Like They Don’t Care (And What It Really Means)
Apr 2400:06:24Tap to summarizeWatch on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3SxxzC7JDvU After a breakup, one of the most confusing things you can experience is watching your ex act like none of it mattered. They seem fine. Unbothered. Maybe even happier. And it makes you question everything. In this episode, I’m going to explain why your ex may act like they don’t care, even when that’s not the full story. We’ll talk about emotional suppression, ego protection, and how people often deal with breakups very differently, especially in the early stages. I’ll also show you what their behavior actually means for your situation and whether it’s a sign that they’re truly over you… or just trying to convince themselves they are. If you’re struggling to understand their silence, their distance, or how quickly they seem to have moved on, this episode will give you clarity and help you respond in a way that actually works in your favor. If you want step-by-step guidance on how to handle this situation and increase your chances of getting your ex back, you can get my Emergency Breakup Kit at MyExBackCoach.com/ebk.
Transcribe →Signs Your Breakup Is Temporary (And Why It’s Not Over Yet)
Apr 800:11:58Tap to summarizeWatch the video version of this podcast at https://youtu.be/Ee3eb4D-AAo Not every breakup is as final as it seems. In this episode, I walk you through the key signs that a breakup may actually be temporary and what’s really going on beneath the surface when your ex pulls away. Many breakups happen in emotional moments, not from a clear, lasting decision. And when that’s the case, time and space can change everything. You’ll learn how to recognize when your ex didn’t expect your response, why emotional breakups often reverse, what it means if they move on too quickly, and the behaviors that show they’re not truly done with you. If you’re wondering whether your situation is over or just in a phase, this episode will help you see it more clearly and avoid the mistakes that can turn a temporary breakup into a permanent one. For a step-by-step plan, you can get my Reunion Blueprint for $7 at ReunionBlueprint.com. And if you want personal help, visit MyExBackCoach.com to book a coaching session.
Transcribe →What Your Ex Isn’t Telling You After the Breakup
Apr 200:11:25Tap to summarizeVideo at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n0EYUWmw9Jg Most people think they understand what their ex is feeling after a breakup. They don’t. There are things your ex is thinking, questioning, and even struggling with that they will never say out loud—especially to you. And if you don’t understand what’s really going on beneath the surface, you can easily misread the situation and hurt your chances of getting them back. In this episode, I break down what your ex isn’t telling you, why they keep it hidden, and how their silence can actually work in your favor if you handle it the right way. If you want your ex back, you need to understand what’s really happening—not just what they’re showing you. Book a coaching session with me: https://MyExBackCoach.com Start with The Reunion Blueprint: https://ReunionBlueprint.com
Transcribe →Why Is My Ex Ignoring Me? What It Really Means
Mar 2800:07:07Tap to summarizeIf your ex is ignoring you, it can feel confusing and painful. In this episode, Coach Lee explains why this happens, what it really means about their feelings, and how your response can either make the silence last longer or begin to shift the situation. 👉 Book a coaching session with Coach Lee at https://myexbackcoach.com/book-with-coach-lee/ 👉 If you want a step-by-step plan for what to do after a breakup, you can learn more here: https://ReunionBlueprint.com 👉 Watch the video of this podcast at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=abRKICoaPHY
Transcribe →Why Your Ex Acts Like You Don’t Exist
Mar 2100:06:02Tap to summarizeMost people assume their ex is ignoring them because they don’t care anymore. That’s not usually what’s happening. When your ex acts like you don’t exist, there’s a reason behind it, and in many cases, it’s intentional. In this episode, I break down what’s really going on in their mind, why they behave this way after a breakup, and what it actually means for your situation. Because this kind of silence isn’t random. It’s emotional, psychological, and often tied to how they’re processing the breakup. When you understand what’s really happening, you stop reacting out of fear and start responding in a way that actually gives you the best chance of turning things around. If you want a step-by-step plan to get your ex back, start here: https://myexbackcoach.com/ebk Coaching with Coach Lee: https://myexbackcoach.com/coaching In this episode, you’ll learn: • Why your ex is acting like you don’t exist • Whether they’re truly over you or not • The psychology behind their silence • What this means for your chances • What you should (and shouldn’t) do next If this helped you, be sure to follow the podcast so you don’t miss future episodes on breakups, relationships, and how to get your ex back.
Transcribe →Why They Don’t Feel the Breakup Right Away
Mar 100:05:14Tap to summarizeWatch the video version at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ySLW3EE1k_4 After a breakup, it can feel like one person is devastated while the other seems completely fine. That difference can be confusing and deeply painful. But breakups rarely hit both people at the same time. In this episode, we talk about why there is often a delay in emotional impact, what is really happening during that period when life is still in motion, and why the reality of the loss tends to show up later once everything settles. If you have ever wondered how someone could walk away so calmly, or why their reaction seemed so different from yours, this conversation offers perspective on the timing of heartbreak and how people process change in very different ways. If you are going through a breakup and want help understanding your situation and what to do next, you can learn more about coaching sessions at MyExBackCoach.com/coaching. I work with people every day who are navigating this exact phase, and sometimes a little clarity can make all the difference.
Transcribe →When Your Ex Finally Feels Your Absence (And Why It Takes Time)
Feb 2700:11:48Tap to summarizeAfter a breakup, many people expect their ex to immediately feel the loss. But that is rarely how it unfolds. In this episode, Coach Lee explains why your absence often does not register right away, what is happening psychologically during that early stage, and why the impact tends to show up later rather than sooner. The end of a relationship can bring relief, certainty, or emotional distance at first, which can be confusing if you are hoping for reconciliation. Over time, however, familiar patterns begin to change, expectations shift, and the space you once occupied becomes more noticeable. Understanding this process can help you avoid reacting too quickly, misreading the situation, or undermining the very outcome you hope for. This discussion is about timing, behavior, and emotional dynamics, not pressure or pursuit. When you understand why the shift takes time, you are far more likely to handle it in a way that gives the relationship its best chance to recover. If you would like a structured guide to navigating this period, you can learn more at MyExBackCoach.com. Watch the video version on YouTube at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLiDBDI1Vuc
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