Podcast
Conversations Beyond Borders
Hosted by Laura Weyl & Susan Poulter · EN
Welcome to "A Conversation Beyond Borders" - a podcast hosted by two women who have raised their children and are now navigating their way through midlife. Join us as we explore life, family, and self-help-related topics through lively discussions and book reviews.
We believe that midlife is a time for reflection, growth, and learning. We also know it can be a challenging time, full of transitions and changes. That’s why we created this podcast – to share our experiences, insights, and wisdom with others who are also going through this phase of life.
Each episode, we tackle a different topic – from relationships to career to health and wellness – and share our own experiences and perspectives. We’ll also discuss books that have inspired us or helped us in some way, offering our thoughts and insights on the ideas they present.
Our goal is to create a supportive, informative, and engaging space for those in midlife to connect with each other and explore new ideas. We hope our discussions and book reviews will inspire you to try new things, challenge your assumptions, and deepen your understanding of yourself and the world around you.
So whether you’re a fellow empty nester, in midlife, or simply someone who loves a good book discussion, we invite you to join us on "A Conversation Beyond Borders" and share in our journey of discovery and growth.
Connect with us on all the socials @ConversationsBeyondBorders, and visit our website at www.ConversationsBeyondBorders.com. We’d love to hear from you and have you be part of the conversation!
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Season 2 Trailer
Apr 2600:11:01Tap to summarizeSeason 2 of Conversations Beyond Borders is coming—and this time, we’re showing up differently. In this trailer, Laura and Susan share what they learned from Season 1 and why this next chapter will feel more honest, more relaxed, and a lot more real. Expect less fixing, less pressure, and fewer “five steps to becoming your best self” conversations. Instead, we’re creating space for the kind of talks women actually need in midlife: honest conversations about menopause, changing bodies, shifting identities, exhaustion, expectations, laughter, vulnerability, and everything in between. This season, we’re asking bigger questions about the roles women have been handed, the pressure to always improve, and what it means to simply be enough as you are. Some episodes will be thoughtful, some messy, some funny—but all of them will be real. If you’ve ever felt alone in this stage of life, overwhelmed by change, or tired of pretending you have it all together, this season is for you. Subscribe now so you’ll be notified the moment Season 2 drops. Because this is just one of those conversations… and we’re glad you’re here for it. Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
Transcribe →Mini Episode #6 - Staying Steady When The Chaos Arrives
Dec 1600:07:48Tap to summarizeDecember has a way of turning up the volume — on the house, the schedule, the opinions, and the emotions. In this warm, grounded episode of Conversations Beyond Borders, Susan and Laura speak directly to midlife women who love the season… and also feel completely overstimulated by it.With gentle humor, compassion, and deeply practical tools, this conversation explores why holiday chaos hits midlife nervous systems differently — and how to stay centered without shutting down, snapping, or taking on everyone else’s emotional load.You’ll hear:Why holiday chaos isn’t personal — it’s seasonalHow sensory overload shows up in midlife (and why nothing is “wrong” with you)Simple grounding tools you can use in the middle of real-life noise and interruptionsKind, doable ways to handle other people’s tension without absorbing itPermission to stop fixing the chaos — and simply be present inside itThis episode is a steady hand on your back during crowded gatherings, noisy kitchens, unpredictable relatives, and emotionally charged moments. It’s not about controlling the room — it’s about staying connected to yourself while life swirls around you.If December feels loud, this episode is your quiet place to land.Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
Transcribe →Mini Episode #5 You Don’t Have to Do Everything Just Because You Can
Dec 1000:08:20Tap to summarizeIn this validating and gently humorous December mini-series episode, Susan and Laura explore a familiar truth for midlife women: being incredibly capable can quietly turn into being responsible for… well, everything. Together, they unpack the “competence trap,” the habit of doing things simply because it’s faster, and the hidden emotional cost of carrying so much during an already full season.With relatable stories, soft laughter, and zero judgment, they offer practical ways to step back, simplify, and let others help — even if the help is imperfect. From micro-delegation to “good enough” holiday standards, Susan and Laura share kind scripts and gentle strategies that bring more ease, connection, and joy back into the season.If you’ve ever been the woman who anticipates everyone’s needs while quietly juggling eight things at once, this episode is your reminder: you don’t have to do everything just because you can. Breathe, soften your shoulders, and give yourself permission to enjoy the holidays, not just manage them.Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
Transcribe →Mini Episode #4 Last on the List: The Holiday They Don’t Know You’re Holding”
Dec 900:07:17Tap to summarizeIn this episode of our December mini-series, Laura and Susan explore the invisible emotional and logistical load midlife women carry during the holidays — often without acknowledgment, and often at the expense of their own wellbeing.From the unspoken mental work of making the season feel special, to the emotional weight of budgeting, caregiving, and constant noticing, this conversation gently names what so many women experience but rarely articulate.Together, they walk through:The invisible holiday workload that exhausts even the strongest among usA compassionate approach to budgeting that honors your relationships and your energyHow caregiving intensifies in December, and small shifts that make it easier to carrySubtle signs you’ve slipped to the bottom of your own listA simple December reset to put yourself back into the season you’re working so hard to createWith warmth, honesty, and a touch of humor, Laura and Susan remind you that you are not the fixer of the holiday — you are part of it. You deserve pockets of rest, joy, and ease right alongside everyone you care for.Next up: “Staying Steady When the Chaos Arrives” — tools for overstimulation, family dynamics, and emotional overload during holiday gatherings.Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
Transcribe →Mini Episode #3: Calm Before the Chaos — Small Shifts that Change the Season
Nov 700:11:39Tap to summarizeBefore the holidays sweep you into their familiar rhythm of rushing, this conversation invites you to pause.In this episode, Susan and Laura explore the quiet moments before the season officially begins—the subtle signs of stress that creep in long before the festivities start. Together, they share how midlife women can reclaim peace and presence by making small, intentional shifts right now.From redefining traditions and releasing perfection to learning how to delegate and rest without guilt, Calm Before the Chaos is your reminder that the holidays don’t have to be something you survive. They can be something you savor.💬 Topics we cover:How to catch the early signs of seasonal stressWhy “doing less” often creates more meaningSimple mindset shifts to protect your energyThe art of delegation and micro-recoveryBuilding new traditions that actually fit your life✨ Because calm isn’t found after the holidays—it’s created in the way you move through them.🔗 Explore the Holiday Stress Management System mentioned in this episode and start your season from a place of calm at ConversationsBeyondBorders.comEditing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
Transcribe →Mini Episode Intro: Holiday Stress Management System — Sanity, Sparkle, and a Little Bit of Sass
Nov 100:09:11Tap to summarizeTired of white-knuckling your way through the holidays? This episode is your permission slip to reclaim your peace, protect your joy, and bring back the magic—without losing your mind in the process.We’re back for a brand-new season of Conversations Beyond Borders, and we’re kicking things off with a fresh, realistic approach to surviving (and actually enjoying) the holiday season. Midlife women know all too well that this time of year isn’t just peppermint mochas and twinkle lights—it’s also family drama, caregiving chaos, endless to-do lists, and pressure to make everything magical for everyone but ourselves.In “Holiday Stress Management System: Sanity, Sparkle, and a Little Bit of Sass,” Susan and Laura introduce a fun, no-nonsense framework to help you stress less and laugh more through the busiest months of the year. You’ll learn how to anticipate challenges, plan with ease, set boundaries, and make room for joy—all while showing up as the glue that holds it all together without burning out.✨ What’s inside this episode:Why “just do less” advice doesn’t work—and what doesThe 4 key parts of our Holiday Stress Management SystemHow to balance caregiving and commitments without losing yourselfSimple ways to protect your peace and put your joy back on the list🎁 Bonus: Get free checklists, planning tools, and access to our community when you join the Holiday Stress Management System at conversationsbeyondborders.com.Because stress doesn’t get to run the show this year—you do.Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
Transcribe →Mini Episode 2: Halloween Without the Chaos — Costumes, Candy, Safety & Sensory
Oct 2100:08:54Tap to summarizeReady to ditch Halloween chaos and step into the holiday season with more peace and less pressure? 🎃 In this episode of Conversations Beyond Borders, Susan and Laura share how to simplify the season’s kickoff and build calm from the very start.From costume checklists and caregiver kits to smart candy planning and safety must-haves, Susan and Laura offer practical tips for a stress-free Halloween night. They also dive into the deeper work of midlife—balancing caregiving with trick-or-treating, embracing the “good enough” mindset, and preparing gently so joy has space to grow.You’ll hear strategies for creating sensory-friendly experiences, navigating co-parenting with ease, and protecting your energy as the holidays approach. Because peace doesn’t start in December—it starts right now, in the small, mindful choices you make today.✨ What’s inside this episode:A stress-free Halloween system: costumes, candy, safety, and sensory tipsHow to balance caregiving duties with holiday funLetting go of perfection and embracing “good enough”Mindful planning practices to protect your energyInclusive ideas for kids with sensory sensitivities🎁 Bonus: Grab your free Halloween Prep Pack—including a Costume Checklist, Safety Route Map, and Sensory-Friendly Tips—in the show notes.Follow Conversations Beyond Borders for more midlife insights, and share your “good enough” moments with us on social @ConversationsBeyondBorders.Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
Transcribe →Episode 10: Your Evolution — Celebrating Growth and Embracing What’s Next
Apr 18, 202500:31:57Tap to summarizeIn this final episode of Season 1, we arrive at Stage 5 of our journey: Your Evolution. This episode is a heartfelt pause—an opportunity to reflect on how far you’ve come and to embrace what’s next with openhearted confidence.Together, we revisit the themes of gratitude, self-acceptance, closure, and pride, while exploring the quieter—but deeply powerful—ways growth can show up in your life. We’ll honor the inner strength it took to show up, to stay, and to evolve. Because healing doesn’t always come in big moments—it often lives in the quiet decisions to keep going.In Segment 1, we reflect on the inner transformation that’s taken place throughout the season. And in Segment 2, we cast a hopeful, intentional vision for what comes next—one rooted in curiosity, courage, and self-trust.If you’ve been on this journey with us, we created something special to support your reflection. Our downloadable Season 1 Reflection Guide is designed to help you celebrate your growth, identify your shifts, and honor the story you’ve written so far.👉 Click here to find this week's resource.Thank you for walking this path with us. This may be the end of the season, but it’s the beginning of something new.Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
Transcribe →Episode 9: Building Resilience: Practicing Mindfulness and Resilience
Apr 10, 202500:24:08Tap to summarizeAs we step into the final stage of our journey, we’re no longer just naming the challenges—we’re moving through them with intention. In this episode of Conversations Beyond Borders, we explore how mindfulness and resilience intertwine to help us navigate midlife transitions with strength and clarity.Join Laura and Susan as they unpack the emotional landscape of resilience—from the quiet fears and self-doubt that emerge in times of change to the courage, confidence, and empowerment that help us rebuild. Through personal stories and reflective prompts, we’ll explore how staying present can transform how we meet life’s uncertainties.Whether you’re feeling apprehensive about the unknown or ready to step into a more grounded, intentional version of yourself, this episode will guide you through the small, mindful shifts that build resilience—one breath, one choice, and one moment at a time.🔹 Which emotion in this episode resonates most with you? Take a moment to reflect, journal, and connect with your inner strength.🔗Continue the journey beyond the episode! Click here: Conversations Beyond Borders with You to join our private Facebook community for deeper discussions, Click here: Season 1 Workbook to grab this season's workbook, and download this episode’s exclusive practice guide here: Building Resilience: Practicing Mindfulness and Resilience🎧 Tune in now and step forward with clarity, compassion, and courage.Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
Transcribe →Episode 8: Aligning Goals with Values – Finding Clarity and Purpose in Midlife
Apr 3, 202500:24:08Tap to summarizeHave you ever felt like the life you worked so hard to build no longer fits? Maybe everything looks fine from the outside, but deep down, there’s a quiet question tugging at you: Is this it?In this episode of Conversations Beyond Borders, hosts Laura and Susan explore the pivotal moment when we begin to outgrow old definitions of success, purpose, and identity. This isn’t a crisis—it’s an awakening. Through reflection, curiosity, and small intentional shifts, we can start realigning our goals with what truly matters.We’ll discuss: ✨ How clarity emerges not from forcing answers but from making space for them. ✨ Why hope is a byproduct of tuning into what truly fulfills you. ✨ The messy middle—navigating setbacks, self-doubt, and the fear of change. ✨ The power of resilience, self-compassion, and adaptability in midlife reinvention.With insights from experts like Brené Brown, Martha Beck, Lisa Lahey, and Valerie Young, this episode will help you embrace growth, reframe challenges, and trust yourself as you take steps toward a more aligned life.If you’re ready to move beyond expectations and start creating a life that feels right—not just right on paper—this conversation is for you.Continue the journey beyond the episode! Click here: Conversations Beyond Borders with You to join our private Facebook community for deeper discussions, Click here: Season 1 Workbook to grab this season's workbook, and download this episode’s exclusive practice guide here: Aligning Goals with Values – Finding Clarity and Purpose in Midlife 🎧 Listen now and take the first step toward a more authentic, purpose-driven life!Editing: Mazed @ www.upwork.com/freelancers/mazed or email: pronoyclammr@gmail.com.Music: A Special thanks to Tudor Arvinte for our podcast music. You can find him at: www.youtube.com/channel/UCJCSbToEWd0WCbHA-QYmW2w?sub_confirmation=1 or Instagram @twodoorlucaDisclaimer:The information shared on this podcast is for informational and educational purposes only and should not be considered professional mental health advice, diagnosis, or treatment. We are not licensed mental health professionals, and the content of this podcast is not intended to replace care from a qualified mental health provider.If you are experiencing distress facing challenges in your mental health or require professional support, we strongly encourage you to seek help from a licensed mental health professional. If you are in crisis or need immediate support, you can contact the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline by dialing 988 or texting 988. Trained crisis counselors are available 24/7 to offer free and confidential support.This podcast is designed to inspire and support women navigating midlife transitions, but your journey is unique, and professional guidance can make a significant difference.
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