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Covenant Army Marriage Podcast
Hosted by Brent & Lucy Howell · EN
Covenant Army Marriage is a movement for husbands and wives who refuse to retreat. We train couples to fight for unity, guard their covenant, and stand firm against the spiritual attacks designed to divide them. If you’re tired of passive marriage advice and ready to build a relationship forged in purpose, discipline, and Christ-centered strength — welcome to the Covenant Army.
One Flesh. One Fight. Unified in Christ.
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Respect vs. Love: Why Your Marriage Needs Both to Survive
3d ago00:30:33Tap to summarizeMost couples are getting this completely wrong. In this powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy unpack the unexpected power of respect and reveal four biblical ways respect can literally save your marriage.Through honest conversations, real marriage struggles, and practical wisdom rooted in Scripture, this episode dives deep into how respect can stop the “crazy cycle” of conflict, create emotional safety, guard your marriage against outside temptations, and even help resurrect feelings that seem dead and gone.You’ll discover why love may be the fuel of marriage, but respect is the steering wheel. Brent and Lucy share personal stories, biblical truth from Ephesians 5:33, and practical strategies couples can apply immediately to strengthen connection, restore honor, and fight for their covenant.In this episode, you’ll learn:• How respect de-escalates conflict before it destroys connection• Why emotional safety is essential for vulnerability in marriage• How honoring your spouse protects your marriage from outside threats• The surprising connection between respect and rekindling love• Why feelings should never lead your covenant• A practical 24-hour “Respect Challenge” to transform your home atmosphereThis episode is a call for husbands and wives to stop fighting each other and start fighting for each other. If your marriage feels stuck, strained, or spiritually exhausted, this conversation will encourage you to step off the crazy cycle, restore honor in your communication, and invite God back to the center of your marriage.Your covenant marriage is worth fighting for.Scriptures referenced:• Ephesians 5:33• Romans 10:9Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode with another couple who needs hope and encouragement in their marriage battle.Chapters00:00 The Power of Respect in Marriage02:58 Understanding Respect: A Biblical Perspective05:40 Respect as a Conflict Resolution Tool11:33 Creating a Safe Space for Vulnerability15:48 Building Resilience Against External Threats19:55 Resurrecting Dead Feelings Through Respect23:54 The Respect Challenge: Practical Steps for CouplesClick the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage!https://linktr.ee/ck4life Give to the Covenant Army Mission!https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC
Transcribe →Is Your Wife Begging For These? 4 Critical Marriage Needs
1w ago00:40:10Tap to summarizeIn this powerful and convicting episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy Howell confront four critical things a wife should never have to beg her husband for in marriage.From spiritual leadership and emotional connection to protection, faithfulness, and honor, this episode challenges husbands to step back into their God given role and calls couples to fight for unity instead of surrendering ground to the enemy.Brent and Lucy unpack how passivity, emotional distance, hidden compromise, and lack of protection can slowly erode trust and security in a marriage. Through biblical truth, raw honesty, and practical wisdom from their own journey, they remind couples that marriage is not a competition, but a covenant battlefield where husband and wife must stand side by side.In this episode, you’ll discover:• Why spiritual passivity damages the order of the home• The importance of emotional connection and fidelity in marriage• How husbands are called to protect and defend their wives• Why wives should never have to beg to be heard, valued, or honored• How to recognize the enemy’s attacks against your marriage• What true biblical leadership and partnership look like• The power of repentance, restoration, and fighting together in ChristThis episode is a wake up call for husbands, encouragement for weary wives, and a reminder that healthy covenant marriages are built through intentional love, sacrifice, spiritual warfare, and unwavering commitment to God.Whether your marriage is thriving or struggling, this conversation will equip you to strengthen your relationship, guard your covenant, and walk together in unity and purpose.Walk in truth. Fight in love. Stay united in Christ.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Marriage Dynamics01:06 The Call for Spiritual Leadership09:29 The Importance of Emotional Fidelity20:25 Defending Your Partner26:39 Equal Partnership in MarriageClick the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage!https://linktr.ee/ck4life Give to the Covenant Army Mission!https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC
Transcribe →The Remarriage Question: Can Grace Really Cover This?
3w ago00:52:18Tap to summarizeCan God’s Grace Truly Cover a Remarriage?In this deeply personal and powerful episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and his Lucy tackle one of the most difficult and emotionally charged questions many Christian couples silently wrestle with: Can God still bless and redeem a remarriage?Drawing from their own testimony as a remarried couple, they open up about the shame, condemnation, and spiritual attacks they faced early in ministry when others questioned whether God could truly use them because of their past. Through honest conversation and biblical truth, they confront the lies of the enemy with the redeeming power of God’s grace.This episode dives into:• What the Bible really says about divorce, remarriage, and redemption• Why God’s grace does not erase truth, but transforms broken people• How shame keeps believers spiritually trapped in their past• The story of the Samaritan woman at the well and the power of restoration• Why your past failures do not cancel God’s future calling on your life• How remarried couples can build a Christ-centered covenant moving forward• The difference between conviction and condemnation• Why no surrendered life is beyond God’s mercy and healingWith raw honesty, biblical encouragement, and practical wisdom, this episode is for anyone carrying guilt from divorce, questioning their worthiness, or wondering if God can still restore, use, and bless their marriage today.No matter your past, the cross was enough.Scriptures Featured:Romans 8:1Ecclesiastes 4:12John 42 Corinthians 5:17Micah 7:18Romans 10:9Visit Covenant Army Marriage for marriage resources, coaching, and training tools to help strengthen your marriage and fight for oneness in Christ.
Transcribe →Battle Tested & Spirit Bound: The Journey of Three Cord Marriage
4w ago01:32:15Tap to summarizeMost couples underestimate the spiritual battle for their marriage — until chaos erupts. Brent, Lucy, Raymond, and Leslie Funk reveal the hidden warfare every believer faces and how they turned their mess into a ministry of hope and victory.In this transformative episode, you'll discover the powerful story of a marriage dragged through addiction, betrayal, and nearly destroyed by the enemy — yet redeemed through obedience, prayer, and the Holy Spirit's unwavering power. Raymond and Leslie Funk share how God took their brokenness and birthed Three Cord Marriage, a ministry rooted in biblical truth and practical warfare strategies that equip couples to fight for their union.We break down their groundbreaking Tactical Marriage Training, a high-impact experience designed to strengthen marriages by teaching couples how to deploy spiritual weapons during real-life battles. Raymond and Leslie share how fighting with faith, boldness, and unity can expose lies, rebuke darkness, and restore hope even in the darkest moments. You'll also hear their candid testimony of overcoming addiction, infidelity, and spiritual deception — lessons that can save your marriage from the enemy’s schemes.Why does this matter? Because your marriage isn’t just about you — it’s a legacy that influences generations. The enemy wants to divide and destroy what God has joined, but through spiritual warfare, obedience, and relentless faith, your marriage can become a mighty example of God's victory. This is not just another episode — it's a battle-cry for every couple fighting to stay united under God's purpose.Whether you're in the storm or seeking to prevent one, this episode offers spiritual tools, real-life grace, and a message of hope that will leave you equipped and encouraged to stand firm. Perfect for couples, ministry leaders, or anyone desperate for a breakthrough in their marriage — this is your call to fight in love, walk in truth, and walk in God's victory.Raymond and Leslie Funk are founders of Three Cord Marriage, devoted to helping couples discover their divine purpose and build resilient, faith-centered unions. Their journey from brokenness to breakthrough proves that with God, nothing is impossible.If you’re ready to lead your marriage into victory, don’t miss this episode. Every couple needs this spiritual warfare strategy — because the fight for your marriage is worth it, and you’re already equipped for the victory.Chapters00:00 Introduction and Personal Reflections02:44 The Birth of Three Cord Marriage05:44 The Journey of Faith and Obedience08:28 The Transformation of Raymond and Leslie's Marriage11:02 Facing Challenges and Seeking Restoration13:46 The Power of Vulnerability and Sharing Testimonies29:29 Confronting Chaos: A Moment of Truth31:48 Spiritual Warfare in Marriage34:47 The Power of Prayer and Faith36:24 The Journey of Healing and Reconciliation42:01 Building Trust and New Beginnings45:15 The Importance of Inner Healing48:54 Navigating the Path to Restoration52:36 The Influence of Christ-like Responses54:56 The Power of Response in Leadership56:20 Three-Cord Marriage: A Journey of Healing57:35 Fighting for Your Marriage: The Covenant Army59:58 Tactical Marriage Training: A Unique Experience01:06:05 Building a Legacy Through Marriage01:17:15 Final Thoughts: The Impact of Marriage on GenerationsClick the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage!https://linktr.ee/ck4life Give to the Covenant Army Mission!https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNCThree Cord Marriagehttps://www.threecordmarriage.com/ Tactical Marriage Training eventhttps://www.threecordmarriage.com/tactical-marriage-training-day/
Transcribe →Before Marriage, Nobody Told Us This About Conflict
May 600:33:30Tap to summarizeIn this episode of the Covenant Army Marriage Podcast, Brent and Lucy dive deep into the often misunderstood topic of conflict in marriage. They candidly share their personal journey, revealing how they initially believed love and commitment would shield them from conflict, only to discover that it is a natural part of any relationship. Through heartfelt discussions, they explore how conflict can be a powerful tool for growth and unity when handled in a God-honoring way. Listeners will learn practical strategies for navigating disagreements, the importance of humility, and the transformative power of inviting God into their marriage. Whether you're newlyweds or have been married for decades, this episode offers valuable insights to strengthen your relationship and embrace conflict as a path to deeper connection and understanding.Chapters00:00 Understanding Conflict in Marriage06:19 The Nature of Conflict09:58 Handling Conflict Effectively18:27 The Role of God in Conflict Resolution25:24 Seeking Help and Community SupportClick the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage!https://linktr.ee/ck4life Give to the Covenant Army Mission!https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC
Transcribe →You’re Marrying More Than Each Other: You’re Marrying Your Upbringing Too
Apr 2900:31:34Tap to summarizeNobody tells you this before marriage, but they should. You’re not starting from scratch. You’re bringing patterns. The way you handle conflict, show love, shut down, or take control was shaped long before your spouse ever came into your life. And when pressure hits, you don’t rise to your intentions, you fall back on what trained you. That’s why so many couples feel blindsided. Marriage doesn’t create problems. It reveals patterns. In this week's episode on the Covenant Army Marriage podcast, Brent and Lucy breakdown this poweful topic.Here’s the truth and the hope. You are not stuck with what shaped you, but you are responsible for what you build. If you don’t confront it, you will repeat it. But in Christ, you can break cycles, choose a different blueprint, and build a marriage that reflects Him, not your past. You’re not just inheriting a tree. You have the power to plant a new one.Chapters00:00 Celebrating 18 Years of Marriage02:39 The Importance of Community in Marriage05:15 Tactical Marriage Training Experience08:30 Understanding Baggage in Marriage11:14 Expectations and Upbringing in Marriage13:58 Navigating Conflict and Communication16:46 Breaking Unhealthy Patterns19:59 Building a New Foundation in Marriage22:51 The Role of Faith in Marriage25:41 Invitation to a Relationship with ChristClick the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage!https://linktr.ee/ck4life Give to the Covenant Army Mission!https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC
Transcribe →The 1 Mistake Every Couple Makes Before Marriage
Apr 2200:49:09Tap to summarizeFalling in love feels powerful, but it’s not enough to sustain a healthy, God-honoring marriage. In this episode, we break down the truth most couples overlook before saying “I do.” You’ll learn why feelings alone cannot carry a marriage, what actually builds lasting unity, and how to prepare for a covenant that thrives through every season. If you’re dating, engaged, or even married and struggling, this episode will challenge and equip you to build your relationship God’s way.Chapters00:00 The Foundation of Love in Marriage09:14 Navigating the Journey of Commitment18:52 Understanding the Difference Between Love and Infatuation23:29 Covenant vs. Convenience in Marriage26:33 Commitment Over Emotion30:07 Growing Together Spiritually and Emotionally34:10 Building a Marriage on a Strong Foundation37:26 Choosing Love Daily40:40 Transforming Marriages Through God43:55 The Power of Prayer and FaithClick the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage!https://linktr.ee/ck4life Give to the Covenant Army Mission!https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC
Transcribe →This Is How Your Kids Lose Their Faith… (And Most Parents Miss It!)
Apr 1500:39:46Tap to summarizeHow does one generation walk closely with God… and the next forget Him completely?This episode unpacks the warning from Book of Judges 2:10 and brings it straight into your marriage and home. The truth is simple but urgent: faith isn’t inherited, it’s imparted.If it’s not lived out in your marriage, it won’t last in your children.You’ll be challenged to stop assuming and start leading as the spiritual gatekeepers of your home. Because your kids won’t follow what you say, they’ll follow what you model.But here’s the hope:If faith can be lost in one generation, it can be restored in one too.It starts with you. Right now.Build more than a marriage. Build a legacy that points your family to God.Chapters00:00 Generational Faith and Spiritual Warfare09:11 Building a Legacy of Faith18:16 Intentional Parenting and Spiritual Training27:56 The Power of Prayer and Worship in Family Life33:45 Invitation to Faith and Community EngagementClick the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage!https://linktr.ee/ck4life Give to the Covenant Army Mission!https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC
Transcribe →Why You and Your Spouse Feel Spiritually Out Of Sync (And How To Fix It)
Apr 800:50:39Tap to summarizeHow can two people share a life… yet slowly drift in opposite directions?This episode confronts one of the most common and dangerous realities in marriage: being committed, but not aligned.Fresh off a deeply moving Resurrection Sunday, Brent and Lucy unpack how the sacrifice of Jesus doesn’t just save your soul, it sets the standard for your marriage. Through raw reflection, biblical truth, and real counseling insight, they expose why so many couples feel disconnected even while living under the same roof.This is not about falling out of love. It’s about falling out of alignment.From spiritual division and silent expectations to pride, miscommunication, and unclear direction, this episode gets to the root of why marriages lose unity and what it actually takes to restore it.You’ll discover why spiritual unity is the foundation, how unspoken frustrations quietly destroy connection, and what it really means to be “on the same page” in a God-honoring marriage.If your marriage feels off, distant, or directionless, this conversation will challenge you, awaken you, and give you a clear path forward.Because a divided marriage will always struggle…but a marriage aligned under God becomes powerful, peaceful, and purpose-driven.It’s time to stop assuming you’re aligned and start building it intentionally.Chapters00:00 The Disconnection in Marriage05:55 The Impact of Resurrection Sunday11:50 Understanding Alignment in Marriage18:33 Walking Together in Agreement23:42 Navigating Imperfections in Relationships25:08 The Importance of Spiritual Unity26:33 Unspoken Expectations and Their Impact28:23 Communication: The Key to Alignment30:10 Misconceptions About Unity in Marriage32:18 Aligning Values and Roles in Marriage34:08 Practical Steps for Alignment36:25 Intentional Conversations for Unity38:13 Establishing Roles and Responsibilities39:37 Ongoing Alignment: A Lifestyle Choice42:48 The Call to Surrender and Seek GodClick the link below for all things Covenant Army Marriage!https://linktr.ee/ck4life Give to the Covenant Army Mission!https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=KCFTJJDJUGYNC
Transcribe →What Biblical Respect Really Looks Like for Wives (And Why It Changes Everything)
Apr 100:38:06Tap to summarizeRespect in marriage isn’t optional… it’s biblical.In this episode, we tackle a hard truth: Respect isn’t based on your husband’s performance. It’s rooted in your obedience to God. We break down what respect is not: Not silence. Not weakness. Not tolerating wrong. But also expose what many miss: Disrespect often shows up in tone, correction, and public criticism… and it slowly tears a marriage down.Here’s the reality: A disrespected man withdraws. A respected man rises. If you want real change in your marriage, this will challenge you. 🔥 Listen now and learn how to build unity, not division.Chapters00:00 Understanding Respect in Marriage05:36 What Respect Is Not12:09 The Importance of Communication18:35 Why Respect Matters to Men21:46 Defining Biblical Respect25:51 What Respect Doesn't Mean29:03 The Call to Action for Wives ResourcesEphesians 5:22-24 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Ephesians+5%3A22-24&version=NIVRomans 12:10 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Romans+12%3A10&version=NIV1 Peter 3:1 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=1+Peter+3%3A1&version=NIVProverbs 14:1 - https://www.biblegateway.com/passage/?search=Proverbs+14%3A1&version=NIVCovenant Army Marriage Resources - https://covenantarmy.org
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