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Do things feel a bit off in your creative practice at the moment? I mean, beyond just like the state of things or the general stuff you're worried about? Does your creativity feel off, imbalanced, off kilter, if you will? I have a friend, illustrator Fabiola Lara, she says, I hear say this every once in a while, like, oh, hate everything I've ever made again. And I feel like that is very relatable. That happens to me sometimes. I have another friend who is a rapper named Andy Mineo and he's got a song called Lost and a song called Clarity. One of those. Which one of those starts with a little bit where he says, you ever feel lost? And that's really just part of the creative journey. That's just part of the journey. So true. That off ness it is part of the hills and valleys and peaks and lows that is the creative process. But if you're in that zone, if you're not careful, you're gonna stay in that zone. 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Quince.com peptalk you ever have anybody tell you creativity is this? Creativity is exploration. Creativity is problem solving. Creativity. Creativity is combining things into new combinations. Creativity is innovation. Whatever. You've heard it before. I probably said plenty of those things in this very show. But I think the problem with trying to define creativity is that it's not one thing. It is lots of different things. In fact, I would say it's all the things that your brain can do in a kind of symphony, playing their parts at the right time. I like to think of great creative work as whole brain creating. And so it is problem solving. You know, this thing that's very like solving a puzzle and getting every piece in the right place, but it's also exploring and breaking things and chaos. And that's the opposite of solving a puzzle. But it's both of those things. And one of the things that makes a creative practice so challenging, so interesting, but also so challenging is that you have to master all these different pieces. And it feels kind of like creativity is sports for the brain. And you have to know how to play all the positions and how to get into those very different roles at different times throughout your creative process. And so this episode we're going to talk about a few different tightropes that we have to walk that aren't this or that, but balancing two very, very different energies, sometimes seemingly contradictory injuries energies. And you might injure yourself on the way. And the best way I've heard this described comes from two folks that I talk about quite frequently, Carl Jung and Joseph Campbell. Carl Jung talked a lot about the tension of the opposites, masculinity, femininity, the conscious and the unconscious, the self and the ego. Like how, like being a great person, being a good person, being walking your path is about how to hold these tensions, these opposites in a. In a. In a nice tension and a tension that creates chaos. You know, this place between chaos and order that's really vibrant and alive and interesting and life giving. And then Joseph Campbell talked about it like master of both worlds. If you don't know. Joseph Campbell was the guy who coined this idea, the Hero's Journey and wrote a whole book about it and all kinds of other things about it. And one of the pieces that I find really compelling about this and how it relates to being a creative person is this idea of master of both worlds. So really minor, simple oversimplification of the hero's journey is you start in the ordinary world, you go into the extraordinary world, but it's a circle. So you come all the way back, you return to the ordinary, but it's the same world, but you're a different person. You're a different. Because you're taking something from the extraordinary. So you. But you can't come back to ordinary and be carrying all of the same energy that you had when you were in the extraordinary fighting dragons and leaving things behind and, you know, in mission mode and not in present mode. Like you have to be able to carry both of those things and show up in the right way depending on what the day demands of you. And the same is true for your art. I almost feel like the Hero journey, if you think about it on a psychological lens, it feels a bit like as a creator, you're leaving the ordinary of everyday rational logic, maybe even left hemisphere, dominant type thinking. And then you're going into the extraordinary, the symbolic realm of the right hemisphere, the weird imaginary visionary world where anything's possible. And then you're coming back to the surface and trying to make sense of it and trying to fix it and trying to edit it. But there are things you can't do at the same time. Now you might. All that stuff might be lost on you. That's fine. It's really just like an impression to get us to set the stage of we're going to be trying to do. We're going to try to do very, very different things, not at the same time, but in the same creative practice at different times. And externalizing that realizing that's the case means that you can call those different parts of yourself to action when you need Them. And one of the things that gets really dicey when we start trying to talk about making work is that we're usually only focusing on one side of that spectrum, one side of that pendulum. And so I wanted to kind of course correct that with an episode and be like, hey, here's two sides of the pendulum. Here's two sides of the coin. Let's talk about both so that you can recognize when you need to pull at which one. Let's do it. Okay, so this can act. These, all these categories can act as a self checkup, a diagnosis to be like, am I balancing these two things? And these different, really key parts of creative practice. The first one is standing out versus fitting in. Okay, this one is, I feel severely misunderstood. I feel like generally in the culture, we feel like being an artist is all about being different. It's all about standing out. However, when you're in creative practice, when you really. If you're a creative professional or you're participating in a particular scene, I would say you probably are more likely to struggle with trying to fit in too much. You know, if you're a typographic dude, a type of typographer, you might be like, look, Comic Sans, totally lame. We only like these five fonts. If you're cool. If you're an illustrator, it might be like, we cool people don't draw noses. I don't know. I feel like I was in that club for a while. Dumb things like that. But if you're a musician, you're like, saxophones never your only losers. Put sax breakdown at the bridge. Whatever it is, is. I strongly think that fitting in is a key part of the creative journey. Making sure you can hang, making sure you are part of a scene, you are part of a group. Like almost every pioneer started in some kind of new wave of art. And it's a place where ideas are exchanged and you get so much from your peers in those collaborations. It's so, so essential. And in order to hang in those groups, you. You gotta have a similar taste profile. You have to agree to a degree on certain elements of what the movement is about. But if you stick within that, if you just think, I'm never using Comic Sans, no matter what, because my people say no to that. If you do that, you will never break out. You will always be part of the crowd. You will never have your own point of view and your own perspective. And so it requires you to choose, pick and choose the things, the rules that you're gonna break. And this can kind of look like A different tightrope that's very similar. We'll just keep it in this category, which is following the rules versus breaking them. A lot of creative people don't like close their ears, da la la la. Don't even want to know the rules. Don't even tell me the rules. I'm scared of even hearing about the rules for all kinds of reasons. I think for a long time I didn't want to know the rules of storytelling or anatomy or anything like that because I just didn't believe I was capable of learning those things. So some of it was just like self esteem kind of thing. But a lot of artists think, I don't even want to know all those things because I don't want to get in my head about it. I don't want to make formulaic work. Whereas it's so powerful, there's not really any downside to having a loose grasp on all of the wealth of knowledge that that came before you. I often think about Del, the funky homo sapien. And when I say I often think about, I think about him a lot. No kidding. Like I like think, where is he now? Why don't people, why doesn't he get on these lists of greatest rappers of all time? Why people don't know about him, all that. I just think he's great. I'm a pretty big fan. Love Deltron3030. Love his gorilla song. He's just such an interesting character. He was on Clint Eastwood, that gorilla song. If you're not familiar with him, he's the rapper in that. You should check out Deltron 30 30. It's the only concept album that I know of that I actually liked and felt like the concept brought something to it. Supposed to be an album in the year 3030 and he's kind of like Mega man, but a rapper anyway. One thing I do think about with him a lot is that song Clint Eastwood, which puts Gorillaz on the map. He made those verses right after reading this how to write a hit song for Dummies kind of book. And I feel like most artists tend to fall off on that side of the tightrope where they don't even want to know the rules. They don't even want to try to fit in because they think that's not what creativity is, man. And that's, I think, where we get it wrong, where it's not one thing, it's not this or that, it's not standing out or fitting in. It is a tension of those opposites. And if you, you can look at your own practice and think, do I need to brush up on the rules? Do I need to learn them a little bit before I learn to break them? And also, it can happen where, if you get obsessed with story structure, if you get obsessed with this is how you do a hit song, you can get stuck in this world where it's like it has to be less than three minutes to be a hit song. And then you never do anything to break out. You never listen to your intuition and taste. And now when I'm writing story, that's what I'm thinking a lot about. I let the structure stuff guide the way. When I'm building a podcast episode or telling a story on the show or making a picture book or whatever, making a talk, I'm thinking, I'm usually using the structure stuff as a jumping off point. But then when I notice, like, oh, this kind of breaks the rules, like, you're not supposed to do this, I have to tap into my intuition and be like, yeah, but is that my taste? Would I like that? Like a lot of my ADHD tangential stuff, I'm just letting it fly because my taste requires it not to be boring and samey. So I like the unexpected little twist on things or addition or the maximalism. I like all of that. So that's the first one, standing out and fitting in. Creativity is both, and it's always both. That's why it's yes. And in the creative world, that's why it's both and it's never either or because we got to have both of those energies standing out and fitting in and just figuring out the balance of that for you. Number two, self versus audience. Now, I think it's worth saying that for a lot of these, we often think in binary. I think it's when we're more in the left hemisphere type of thinking of the brain and we're thinking, is it this or that, on, off, that sort of thing. Whereas a lot of creative stuff is more like the universe, it's more like seasons. It's more like this and that, then this, then that. There's a pulse, there's a pendulum, there's a seasonal. Seasonality to it. And so I think it's worth saying that for a lot of these, it's a bit little bit about understanding when in the process to do them. And for the previous one, standing out, fitting in, I think you probably need to fit in and then stand out. Or you start out being standing out because you're totally unique as a person. Then you learn to fit in and then you stand out for this one. Self versus audience. I really like what Rick Rubin says where he says the audience comes last. And what. I've said this a couple times on the show, so forgive me if you're a longtime listener. I think that that's so brilliant because it's not saying the audience is out of the equation. Never think about the audience. It's saying think about the audience last. That's part of how this process is going to unfold. And I can think about it like a stand up comedian. A stand up comedian doesn't go on stage and say, what do you guys want me to talk about? I mean, some people do, but I think it's more poignant to be like, what do I think is funny? Take some notes, come up with some ideas and then work it out in front of the audience and be like, either do you find this funny? But even more so, am I able to communicate what's funny about this if I really think it's funny? And for me, that's writing on stage. I think about this all the time. That's the primary way I recommend using the Internet. As a creative person that I think I'm always working on something a little bit more hopefully long standing, perennial hope, even maybe a little bit timeless. I'm working. My big final creative energy is going into books and classes and posters and that sort of thing. And the Internet is where I write on stage. I'm going in the clubs, working out the material and then I have my specials, which that's the stuff that I actually sell. This looks like the episode art of the this podcast. So every week I do another piece of art and only about 12, literally no 12 fit into a calendar. That's the special. But I'm writing on stage, I'm trying them out every single week because I'm not a genius. I need to try, I need a bunch of errors. And it's so. And the Internet's a great place to put that stuff because most people don't see what you post anyway. So it's no harm, no foul. And so for me, that's what this balance looks like. It looks like listening to your taste, watching your experience pull from that stuff and then find a place to test it out. One thing I've been thinking about on this tangent recently, this tear that I get on sometimes about writing on stage is one of the things you want to do is road test the material. I've heard comedians talk about. You don't want to just make material that works in Brooklyn, you want it to work in la, you want it to work all throughout the country. If you want this thing to work. Now, that doesn't have to work for all people, but you want it to be versatile enough to appeal to a wider group of people. And so that requires you going to different clubs. I think the same is true on the Internet. Like, for me, I'm testing material on Instagram, YouTube, podcast, substack, all these different places, and you don't have to do that many. But I think it's an interesting way to think about, like, okay, Instagram, maybe that's the coasts, maybe substack is the Midwest. It doesn't really break down like that. Maybe the YouTube. I'd say YouTube's more Midwest. It's a little bit more down to earth. But I think it's really important to think about that, Think about how are you getting your stuff out there. This is also a little bit into whether you sit on ideas and keep them to yourself and keep them completely private until you launch, because you don't want any influence from anybody else, or whether you're giving all of your best stuff away before you even actually do the work. One of the ways that I try to strike the balance of this is I try not to talk about or post about anything that I think I'm going to do. I'm not gonna talk about I'm gonna write a book. Unless I've already started writing that book. I'm not gonna talk about this is. I think I'm gonna do this picture book because I've heard the brain science says around goals that if you talk about what you're gonna do, you get the dopamine hit like you already did it, and then you don't feel the impulse to actually follow through. So for me, one way of balancing this is creating something, sharing a little piece of that, Creating something, sharing a little piece of that, letting that inform you. I really like, as I've done school visits, letting those presentations inform how we do the next book a little bit, realizing, like, oh, they really respond to this character. They really respond to that joke. I want to play that up. I want that to be more like that when we do the next book and I do the next reading. So this is the second balance, self versus audience. To me, I just don't know if we are the type of animals that can be completely selfish. Unless you are pathological, a sociopath. But if you aren't, if you are, you're probably not listening to this. Podcast, honestly. But, but if you, if you are human, you're a social animal and you, a lot of your drive to do anything is about connection to yourself and to others. And so to me, it's never about art, is always about pleasing yourself, or art is all about knowing your audience. It's not either of those things. It's not this or that, it's this and that. And having a sense of that balance is really key. And so how do you have, do you have a practice like morning pages? Do you have a practice where you are getting in touch with yourself? You are continually having some space where you're checking in and being like, what am I thinking about? My reflection on dreams is a bit of this. My writing for this podcast is a lot. That is a lot. Like, what is hot topic in my heart right now? Where are the people with all the piercings in my heart? You know, Hot Topic, what's the hot topic? What's the thing I'm thinking about and then putting it out every week and dripping it out and trying it out. And as I'm saying it, as I'm thinking about it, I think about this a lot. Where Cal Newport, the writer, says, if you're a writer, you don't really have to worry so much about capturing all of your ideas. The ideas that are usually worth pursuing are the ones that are deeply persistent. You never quit thinking about them. And for me, doing this podcast is part of that. Like seeing I'm talking about it and thinking, is that something I'm really passionate about? Maybe that perspective shift is the hint of a story that I want to tell in a picture book or in a talk. So do you have a practice where you are touching base with yourself, touching base with the audience in a sort of somewhat balanced manner? Nothing hits like home cooking and hello Fresh makes it easy to do more of it this year with recipes that feel good and taste delicious night after night. 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