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Ricky
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Mandy
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Ask anything with the new Meta glasses. So, located in Green Lake County, Wisconsin is is absolute lake life. The primary attraction is Green Lake. It's often called the Big Green Lake and it's famous for being the deepest natural inland lake in the state, with trenches plunging down to roughly 237ft deep.
Ricky
Now, to put that into perspective, 237ft is almost the height of a 24 story building straight down into pitch black, freezing water. Now, it's a beautiful area, but from, from a search and rescue standpoint, a lake that deep would be an absolute nightmare if someone just so happened to go missing.
Ashley
Yeah, and keep that depth in mind because it becomes incredibly important so late in the evening. On August 11, 2024, there was a 45 year old father of three and local cabinet maker. His name was Ryan Borgwart and he was out kayaking on this lake. At 10:36pm he sends a text to his wife. Emily may have snuck out on a
Ricky
lake, which is a pretty weird message to be sending at 10:30 at night to your wife.
Ashley
Yeah, and Emily's response shows that this isn't exactly a fun, spontaneous surprise. She replies, that would have been nice to know. I was beginning to wonder why you weren't home. Ryan apologizes, but Emily responds with something that shows there's already some tension there. She says, nothing new. I should be used to it by now. So many nights I have no idea where you are when it's late. So she's frustrated. I mean, she's at home alone with the kids. And he's just like, yeah, she has
Ricky
no idea where he is. And he's just dropping like, oh, yeah, by the way, I'm in the middle of a lake.
Ashley
Yeah, okay.
Ricky
Like at 10:30 at night.
Ashley
So Ryan tells her he will work on their communication. And he adds this detail. He. He tells her that he's out there because he's watching the northern lights and that they are pink.
Ricky
Right. Isn't that something you would normally do with your wife and family, though?
Ashley
Well, not in this situation. He texts her, I love you. Good night. Emily tells him she loves him too, and tells him to be safe. Then at 10:49pm Ryan sends his final message. I'll be heading to shore soon. So the next morning, Emily wakes up and the house is still. Still empty. It's 5:12 in the morning. And she sends a panicked text. Where are you? Followed by five question marks. And there's no response. So what actually led Ryan Borgwart out onto that lake in the pitch black? Was it really just a spontaneous trip to go see the northern lights, or was there something more to this story? I'm Ashley.
Ricky
I'm Ricky.
Ashley
And this is Crime Salad. So today we are heading to Greenlake County, Wisconsin to dig into one of the most bizarre investigations this county has ever seen. So let's get into it. So Emily hasn't heard from her husband. It's just after five in the morning and he's not answering. The last she knew, he was out watching the northern lights around 10:30 at night on the lake.
Ricky
Now, keep in mind, the lake that Ryan was at was over 50 miles away from their hometown. So when Emily woke up and Ryan still wasn't home, she immediately started to panic and called the police. Deputies arriving at Dodge Memorial county park find his van and trailer still in the parking lot.
Ashley
And it gets even crazier when they go out on the lake with their boats. They deploy the boats and they find a kayak that has been completely capsized. So it's upside down on the water. It's, you know, pretty scary because this is. It was over the. One of the deepest, darkest sections of the lake. And when they get closer, they find his life jacket floating on the surface. So what happened? Yeah, they later find his fishing pole in the water. So it was like submerged in the water. And also his tackle box, which included his id, his keys, and his belongings. So it's like obviously his.
Ricky
Right.
Ashley
So immediately everyone's jumping to the most heartbreaking conclusion that this was a terrible drowning. Accident. The community is heartbroken, and a family is in absolute terror. Like they just lost their father.
Ricky
Yeah. I mean, with everything, it's pretty obvious what happened here. You know, kayak's empty, the keys are in the tackle box. The van's still there. He didn't leave the lake.
Ashley
Yeah. So the Green Lake County Sheriff's Office, they go into absolute overdrive. They're launching a grueling 58 day operation. But a lake this intense, like, this deep, would you say 237ft deep?
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
It requires true specialists.
Ricky
Yeah, definitely.
Ashley
So they bring in a volunteer search group called Bruce's Legacy.
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
They.
Ashley
And their backstory is pretty incredible, but it's also heartbreaking. It started in 2013 by an expert diver named Keith Cormacan to honor his brother Bruce. So back in 1995, Bruce was a firefighter. And at the time, the standard way to recover drowning victims was just dragging a giant metal hook through the water and hopefully picking up something.
Ricky
Which is terrible.
Ashley
Yeah, it's awful. It was, like, dehumanizing for sure. So the two brothers, they were fighting to have a proper dive rescue team, and they wanted it to start in their county. Now, tragically, Bruce actually died on a job before he could even make any changes. He was out searching a flooded creek for a drowning victim, and he lost his footing. He got sucked into a powerful whirlpool. His crew eventually managed to pull him out and started cpr, but he was underwater for too long, so he passed away a few days later.
Ricky
Wow.
Ashley
But Keith, he wanted to finish what they started together. He wanted to start Bruce's legacy to help find victims. And it's just such a moving story behind all of that.
Ricky
It is, and it's terrible what happened, but I think it's so cool when someone is able to turn something so terrible and make it into something really, really positive.
Ashley
Yeah, it's very inspiring. So this. This organization, they use state of the art sonar and remotely operated underwater drones. They focus on extreme depths. So, like, this is perfect for the body. Yeah, like, this is absolutely perfect. And Keith and his team, along with local law enforcement, they're out there on this lake day after day, systematically searching the freezing, murky trenches of Green Lake. And you really have to think about the massive scale of an operation like this. I mean, he's using the top of the line equipment, but it's taking them 58 days. And the cost of all that has got to be racking up.
Ricky
Oh, for sure. And what's crazy about that is this is a non Profit. So it's running entirely on public donation.
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Ashley
So it is amazing.
Ricky
Yeah, because they don't charge the family a dime.
Ashley
They don't, but it gets like really like disturbing when you find out like, what happens. So day after day, they're searching. The sonar is coming back empty. The lake just refuses to give him up. They find everything, you know, like the kayak, his fishing pole, his life jacket. Where's the body?
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Ricky
Yeah, and this is where the story starts to get really interesting and fast, because the database hit showed that the Canadian Border patrol scanned a passport for Ryan on August 13th. Now, keep in mind, this is just one day after police found his abandoned vehicle on the lake. His family's still at home grieving, and he's crossing international lines.
Melissa
But when investigators talk to his wife,
Ashley
she is completely thrown off by this.
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
Why?
Ashley
Because she physically hands investigators Ryan's passport. She's like, what do you mean? I have the passport right here. There's no way that he used it in Canada.
Tudor Historian / Vulgar History Host
So.
Ricky
Yeah. So that brings up the question, how does a dead man cross international borders?
Melissa
Right.
Ashley
So forensic analysts, they crack open his laptop that he left behind, and it's like they find this hidden treasure trove. He left behind a massive digital footprint on the laptop with information that he thought was deleted for good.
Ricky
Yep. And the saxophones just keep getting louder and louder. Little boys in the hood reference there.
Ashley
And it turns out, back in May, he had gone online, reported his original passport lost. So he applied for a new one, and he kept his old one secretly, and he had the new one expedited. So it's like he has two, and he intentionally leaves the old one at home so his wife would find it and go. This exact thing. Like, he set this up. Like, there's no way he would have left. The passport's right here. But this was just the beginning. The laptop shows in the months leading up to his tragic kayaking accident. He is a happily married father of three. He takes out a $375,000 life insurance policy.
Ricky
So essentially, he's putting a $375,000 price tag on his family's trauma while his wife and kids, they all think he's still at the bottom of a lake. Yeah, it's crazy.
Ashley
And he's also researching how to transfer large sums of money out of his local bank to foreign banks. He's also communicating with a woman online who lives in Uzbekistan. And just to put more icing on the cake, he even tried to cover his own digital tracks by replacing his computer's hard drive and clearing his browser history on the exact day he disappeared. But he left an absolute mess behind. So the picture's finally clear. Ryan didn't drown in that lake. He orchestrated a massive theatrical illusion to abandon his family and move out.
Ricky
And this is one of My favorite parts of the story, because Ryan remembers to clear his hard drive and his web history the day of the disappearance, but he actually forgets that everything is being backed up on.
Narrator / Edge of the Forgotten Host
On the cloud.
Ricky
I mean, the cloud has caused a lot of problems for people over the years. I don't think anybody understands the cloud.
Ashley
Do you understand the cloud?
Ricky
No, I'm afraid of the cloud.
Ashley
So investigators now know that this guy's alive and hopefully well, so they can catch him. He's out on the run. But they still have to piece together what actually happened on Green Lake the night of August 11th. How does a guy stage a drowning in the middle of a massive lake and vanish into thin air?
Ricky
Yeah, I mean, you can't just press delete on yourself and expect no one to come looking for you, especially when you have a wife and a family.
Ashley
Yeah, you think he would have just, like, left a note on the kitchen counter, like, see ya.
Ricky
There's so many ways that he could have handled this better. I mean, one, he could have got a divorce. And almost all of these cases that we cover, it's like, why didn't you just get a divorce? It's not that hard. But he could have wrote a weird letter. Could have been like, dear family, I've ran away. Catch me if you can, suckas.
Ashley
Here's some money.
Ricky
Here's some money.
Ashley
There wouldn't have been a life insurance policy if he did that. So maybe there's more to the story.
Ricky
Here's 20 bucks for pizza.
Ashley
So it turns out Ryan's grand illusion was basically a real life cartoon. So let's walk through his master plan. First, he drives 50 miles from his home in Watertown out to Green Lake just to set the scene. And he's out there on the water. And right after, he's sending that final text message to Emily about heading to shore. Soon, he executes the setup. He takes out his tackle box, which contained his wallet, his keys, his driver's license. He tosses the entire thing in the lake, and he throws his fishing pole in there. So then he undoes his life jacket. He just throws it in the lake. It's just floating on the surface. And he completely flips over the kayak and just abandon ship.
Ricky
He's like, now you see me, now you don't. Houdini. He's gone.
Ashley
And, like, what was he thinking? That his family would just move on?
Ricky
Like, yeah, I guess so.
Ashley
Didn't love me anyway. I'm just gonna leave. Like, did he think that? Like, it sucks, but, I mean, him Doing all of this to his family, leaving $375,000 life insurance policy is just like, what is that?
Ricky
It seems strange and there's got to be more to it.
Ashley
Yeah, I mean, he was probably thinking like, well, you know, flip over the kayak, leave, start a new life.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
So Ryan, he staged his accident on the lake. He planned ahead knowing that it would be way too risky to just swim in that dark lake. It's deep. Like he could actually drown. He doesn't want to do that. So he came prepared. He brought an inflatable secret getaway vessel. A child sized inflatable boat.
Ricky
What does that even mean? I just picture like a 45 year old wading in the water, just huffing and puffing into like this inflatable pink flamingo. You know, he's like. Because you couldn't have a pump, right? Like most. Most rafts would have a pump or something. But what do you do with the pump? You would have to, you know, throw it into the water, which they would find.
Ashley
They'd be like, wait, why is there an inflatable.
Ricky
Yeah, that would pump. That's a little obvious. So I don't know, I just picture him in this pink flamingo and he's like splashing, like trying to get to the shore. You know, something like that.
Ashley
Yeah, I guess it could be.
Ricky
And then he pulls out a knife and he, you know, stabs the pink flamingo and then all the air comes out and he packs it back into his backpack. That's the only.
Ashley
They actually, they never found the inflatable boat. So it could very well be a pink flamingo.
Ricky
You don't know. Just saying. Just saying.
Ashley
This is a true criminal mastermind at work.
Ricky
I think so.
Ashley
So he arrives on shore, he sneaks into the woods, and he hops onto the next getaway vehicle, which is an electric bike that he planted in the weeds. Now, remember, he already drove 50 miles to get to the lake, so now he has to ride his E bike in pitch black for 70 miles all the way to Madison, Wisconsin.
Ricky
Holy cow. That's like hours of just cranking on an E bike in the middle of the night.
Ashley
And he planned for it too. He actually bought this bike and two lithium batteries on Amazon before he did all this.
Ricky
Oh, so he's swapping batteries?
Ashley
Yeah, he's got battery backups, you know, because you never know. He doesn't want to be pedaling that whole way. I know. I wouldn't.
Ricky
You ever try to pedal an E bike, though? They're so heavy.
Ashley
Yeah. When the battery does, you're like, we're sending.
Ricky
You know what? I'm calling the police myself. I'm caught. Just come pick me up. I just want to sleep in a bed.
Ashley
I wonder if he even slept. Like, I feel like he didn't sleep.
Ricky
I mean, with something like that, I don't think you could sleep. Like, you'd be full on adrenaline. I mean, you're just like. Like I said, you're cranking on that E bike. You got to get somewhere.
Ashley
I wonder, past them, and they're just like.
Ricky
Like, what is this?
Ashley
Dude, that guy's on the freaking run.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
So here's another one for you. Investigators discovered that in January, while he was quietly plotting all of this to start a new life with his new girlfriend, Ryan went to a doctor, and he completely got a reversed vasectomy.
Ricky
You can do that?
Ashley
Yeah, I guess so. He did, huh.
Ricky
Okay, so wait, you cut the tube, and then somehow you got to put the tube back together?
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
Yeah.
Ricky
That's insane. I mean, I mow the grass a lot. Right. I've ran over a hose a couple times in my life. Could you imagine taking two pieces of the hose, putting them back together, and, like, duct taping them and trying to get them to work right again? I mean, you'd have water splashing out of the sides. I don't know how it's possible.
Ashley
And this. This process is actually very expensive. Insurance doesn't normally cover it, I would assume. Yeah, so he's, like, determined to get everything back. And so while he's planning this whole runaway, he's dropping, like, thousands of dollars on this reversal vasectomy. And his wife drove him to the doctor's appointment.
Ricky
He just says cash. He's like, well, you know, this is for my getaway, but I need to get this done.
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
Yeah.
Ashley
He's like, what's $15,000?
Ricky
That's how much it costs, I think it was.
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
It's.
Ashley
It's around that. I don't know. I saw it could be, like, 10 to 15.
Ricky
Okay. Wow.
Ashley
Yeah.
Ricky
So where does he actually go? Like, what does this place look like? He's got to be on a beach somewhere, right? Like, if you're going to leave your life, your wife and kids, you got to be going at least to a better life. I just picture him out there with, like, this new vasectomy. He's, like, got a freshly shaved chest, and he's going by, like, his crisp new name of Palm Beach Pete. Right.
Ashley
You think he shaved his chest or waxed it?
Ricky
I didn't want to say shaved his bush.
Ashley
Okay, but let's. Before we talk about that, let's talk about how he actually got out of the country. So he's riding on this E bike, right, for 70 miles all the way to Madison, Wisconsin. And once he gets there, he boards onto a bus, takes him all the way to Detroit, Michigan, and he just continues on that same bus all the way to Canada. So when he gets to Canada, they give him a little bit of a hard time. They're like, why are you going to Canada? And he's just like, I just want to go for fun.
Ricky
I want to go for fun.
Ashley
They're like, can we see your id? And he's like, oh, snap. Dragons. I don't have it on me. I have my passport, though.
Ricky
Oh, his license is in the lake.
Ashley
Yeah, they don't. He doesn't have his license, so they're just like, okay, but, like, do you, like, owe anything? Like, do you have, like, lots of bills and stuff? He's like, no, I'm caught up on my mortgage, everything. So I'm just going for fun.
Ricky
I'm not fleeing. I'm going on a vacation. But at the same time, he has to make this work because essentially, he's dead. Yeah, he's supposed to be dead at the bottom of a lake, and he
Ashley
made it this far.
Ricky
Like, you can't just go back to your normal life. You have to make this work somehow.
Ashley
Gosh, I wish they didn't let him through, but they ended up letting him through. Unfortunately, they're like, okay, fine, I'm gonna go on my lunch break.
Ricky
You imagine being the guy who let him through. Like, you'd be like, whose name was on the document?
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
I'm sorry.
Ricky
Oh, sorry. Do I have a job still?
Ashley
No. Maybe they were just trying to see, like, if he was dangerous or something. But, like, I think they do check. Like, if you're trying to flee from your debt, try to flee from your wife.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
Meet some woman and Uzbekistan. Okay. So once he arrives safely in Canada, they let him through. He takes a bus to the Toronto airport. He actually gets on a plane. But before that, he has to get creative. So he wanted to initially buy the flight tickets using airline gift cards, but he knew that wouldn't work because you can't use US Gift cards in Canada. So he gets creative, and he even brags about this later. But he gets his tickets using Western Union, so he, like, transfers the money there, and then he, like, purchases the ticket so that his wife, you know, it won't show up on his bank statement. His wife's never going to know.
Ricky
Yeah. Because he can't use a credit card or anything like that.
Ashley
No. Yeah, because that's just going to flag him like, oh, he's at the airport.
Ricky
Yeah. But at the same time, he only has so much money at this point. Is he. He has to fork out that money, the little money that he has to put it on some Western Union card.
Ashley
Yeah, it's true. So according to his own confession, his route went from Canada to Paris and then to an undisclosed country in Asia before finally landing in Tbilisi, the capital of the country of Georgia. So, yeah, he made it.
Ricky
He did it.
Ashley
He did it. He met up with his girlfriend. Her name is Katia. It might be Katya. Katya. Katya, okay. Pretty name. But there wasn't like this happily ever after. So he did end up meeting with his girlfriend Katya. It might be Katya or Katya around there. But it wasn't like this happily ever after because his grand escape fund completely dried up. So it's like she's probably expecting like, let's go out to eat, let's go do all these things.
Ricky
And he's like, sure, he's my new rich American man.
Ashley
Yeah.
Ricky
Not to stereotype, but that could very well be the case.
Ashley
I mean, have you ever seen 90 Day Fiance?
Ricky
All the time.
Ashley
I love that show.
Mandy
Does it?
Ashley
Is it still, like, on air?
Ricky
I think so, but it's just. I don't know.
Ashley
Same thing.
Ricky
Yeah. The honeymoon phase is done, I think.
Ashley
So it turns out we spoke earlier how he moved, like these massive funds, you know, from his US bank accounts to the foreign bank accounts. Turns out he actually didn't do that, but he did actually wire $20,000 to Catia Katya. And he claimed that since his family was already in debt, like $200,000 in debt, what's another $20,000?
Ricky
It's just a number at that point.
Ashley
Yeah.
Ricky
Oh, so wait, he's in debt 200,000 plus. Right. So maybe that life insurance was like his make good commitment.
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
Yeah.
Ashley
Like, oh, this will help the family.
Ricky
I'm gonna leave you all of my massive debt. But hey, pay it off and live happy, happily.
Ashley
The wife will take care of it, as always.
Ricky
Hey.
Ashley
So after blowing his cash on everything to escape, he landed at his destination. He met up with his girlfriend, and he only has 4,5500 dollars in cash in his pocket. And yeah, so this guy's like blowing through because he. He gets an apartment and I don't know how Much. His apartment is. I don't know the prices in that
Ricky
country, but yeah, I have no idea.
Ashley
But Anyway, I mean, $5,000, it's not going to last very long.
Ricky
No, he's not living his dream, I would imagine.
Ashley
So this was more of like a getaway vacation, I think, in reality than like a flee the country situation.
Ricky
I hope it was for, for love at least.
Ashley
I mean, he did get a vasectomy.
Ricky
Yeah, well, he would have had twenty thousand dollars instead of five thousand if he didn't get the fifteen thousand dollar vasectomy.
Ashley
Well, it was more important at the time.
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
Okay.
Ricky
I guess. Snip, snap, snip snap.
Ashley
So after tens of thousands of dollars that were put into his search, like what did we say? 58 days of a grueling daily day to day search.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
By November 11th, investigators, they knew exactly where he was, he wasn't fooling anyone. And they were trying to communicate with his new girlfriend through her. And they finally got to Ryan. So they actually get a hold of him and he sends them a video and he hopes that it just like solves everything. He's like, I'm alive and well, everything's fine, no problem. Here I am.
Ricky
Yeah, no problem for you. I mean, your family's at home thinking you're dead. You have teams of people literally searching this massive lake for you.
Ashley
How mad would you be?
Ricky
I'd be like, oh my gosh, I'd be so, so mad.
Ashley
And that is when the sheriff, he holds a press release conference. He looks directly into the camera and he says, Ryan, if you're viewing this, I plead that you contact us or contact your family. We know that things can happen, but there's a family that wants their daddy back.
Ricky
Okay. So they just want to get him back at this point. And then they're kind of pulling on his like emotions there though, throwing the children in. I think it was close to Christmas too. So they're like, hey, what better gift than coming home on Christmas for your family?
Ashley
Yeah, I'm sure they were really sad.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
I wonder if like she told them like what happened or if she's like, he's gone on a trip.
Ricky
Yeah, I have no idea.
Ashley
So his great escape was over and now he had to face the music and come home running like a dog with his tail between his legs.
Ricky
Yeah.
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Melissa
And I'm Melissa and this is Moms and Mysteries.
Mandy
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Melissa
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Ashley
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Ashley
So the fantasy is over for Ryan and by early December, he finally breaks. He coordinates with law enforcement and he figures out a way to go back to the US So bus, by bus, plane, whatever, into Chicago. And he's immediately taken into an interrogation room. And the police, at this point, you got to think they have no idea what kind of guy this is. Like, is he like some like crazy, manipulative like he.
Ricky
Yeah, it's like, is he a mastermind? Is he an idiot? He's probably an idiot, but they don't know.
Ashley
Yeah. They don't know what to expect. But it turns out he just kind of breaks. And he just explains, I feel like a total failure.
Melissa
Failure.
Ashley
And he starts listing his excuses. He claimed that he and Emily had completely grown apart, and he feels like he can't talk about his problems with her. He's ashamed of himself, and the kids don't want anything to do with him. So he's just like, this is why I did it.
Ricky
Yeah, well, boo. Who? I don't know. Like,
Ashley
who cares for you? Do you understand how long we search for you?
Ricky
Like, you literally traumatized a community, your wife, your children for the rest of their lives. Like, not. Okay, yeah, you're. You're not dead at this point. But now they got to deal with the fact that you faked your own death to get away from them. Like, that's not cool.
Ashley
So now if you ever see, like, an upside down kayak, you're just gonna be like, oh, that's probably a fake death.
Ricky
You're gonna be skeptical.
Ashley
Like a life jacket floating in the water.
Ricky
It's insane. Wow. My dad hated me so much that he faked his own death to get away from me. Like, that's gonna mess you up for the rest of your life.
Ashley
It's pretty, pretty bad.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
So. So he uses, like, all these excuses. And the reason why he started talking to a woman across, you know, the globe. It started off as a friend. He. He just wanted a friend. And then it turned into something more.
Ricky
Yeah. On an international dating site that. It's like, you weren't looking for that.
Ashley
I feel like the breaker for her was like, but can you have kids?
Ricky
And he was like, give me two weeks.
Ashley
Give me two weeks to recover, and I can definitely have kids. And that was the breaker. It's kind of funny.
Ricky
Yeah. Gotta get the plumbing back in order.
Ashley
Now, don't get me wrong, this is, like, really horrible. I know we're joking a lot, but I mean, at the same time, like, living with debt, I mean, that's really sad. It's really hard on a lot of people. And it's so common for people to just be drowning in debt and, like, not knowing what to do. Like this fight or flight response.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
And, like, you have your kids and you just feel trapped. Like, it's true of what he's feeling. I'm sure. But he just, like, gets so selfish in a way.
Ricky
Yeah. I mean, I know what you mean. Because it's sad that he felt that was the only option. Right. He was not only running Away from his family, but he was running away from a life that he created.
Ashley
Yeah. And not to mention, he put all of this financial burden onto his wife. Now she's like, oh, my God, look how much debt we're in. And they live in the state of Wisconsin, so Wisconsin is actually a marital property state. So, like, if you get married and you have the secret debt, it's gonna be my debt. Like, if something happens too, like, it just kind of goes over.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
So, like, there's that. So that's probably why he did get the life insurance policy. Honestly.
Ricky
Yeah. I mean, he probably felt that was the only solution. I'll fake my death. We'll pay off the debt. They'll get to live, you know, a normal life, and I'll. I'll go live my dream life over here.
Ashley
Yeah. So as soon as he was arrested, Emily's like, I'm filing for legal separation. This guy is out of my life.
Ricky
Yeah. Good for her.
Ashley
So hopefully during the divorce, they were able to use a defense called marital waste, which is basically a way to force all of this debt, like, 100% of the debt, onto Ryan because it's like he's been hiding it. And, like, there's different, like, loopholes with that, I'm sure. So she successfully divorced him in May, and she completely cut ties with him for good. She's like, good riddance.
Ricky
See it.
Ashley
Your loss. So, yeah, she deserves way better anyway. I mean, that's just like. You're just playing mind games at that point. Now, one thing I wanted to bring up. Whenever this case became, like, I guess I want to say, like, viral or, like, people knew about this case. There was a Tick Tock video that was circulating online. Do you remember seeing that?
Ricky
Yeah, I do.
Melissa
Yeah.
Ashley
So there's this Tick Tock video. This guy's, like, on his E bike, and he's just, like, riding down the road on the sidewalk, and there's this girl holding a poster board that says, ask me for advice. And he stops, and he's like, I could use some advice. And this guy looks eerily like Ryan.
Ricky
Like, identical.
Ashley
And what's even weirder is his story. He's like, should I leave my wife, or should I go and moved to Uzbekistan to meet up with this woman that I'm talking to online, right? And she's like, use Beckistan. Like, what's wrong with your wife? Are you gonna leave her? Like, are you guys still married?
Melissa
Do you have kids?
Ashley
Like, asking all these questions? He's like, yeah, yeah, yeah, but who cares? Like, what should I do? And it's so weird because, like, this video went viral, and I'm sure you remember it if you've seen it, because
Ricky
I think it went viral while he was still missing.
Narrator / Edge of the Forgotten Host
Yeah.
Ricky
So people thought they cracked this case.
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Ashley
Everyone's like, there he is. He's right here. And they're sending it, like, as a tip. Like, he is in California. And that's the problem, is this video was taken in California. Meanwhile, he's in, like, Wisconsin, Canada, like, that way. So it's just so interesting. And, like, what a coincidence.
Ricky
It's so much of a coincidence that I know experts looked at it and they did all this analysis and stuff, and it's definitely not him. But in my head, I'm still skeptical for some reason.
Ashley
Like, okay, it's so weird how things happen.
Ricky
We'll put this TikTok video, the link to it, in our description. So check it out. But tell us what you think, because holy cow, it. It's crazy. Like, it almost gives me goosebumps because it's.
Ashley
Yeah.
Ricky
I just don't see how there could be two stories that are exactly the same. Not to mention he's on a dang E bike.
Ashley
So I wonder what happened to that guy.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
Like, did he actually fake his own death, too? Like, doppelganger guy, maybe, living the same life?
Ricky
That's Palm Beach, Brian. Yeah.
Ashley
So what a wild case. I mean, the organization, Bruce's legacy, for one, like, they are absolutely amazing. I know. Like, I read that they have recovered so many bodies and helped so many families, you know, that were grieving and didn't know what to do. Like, it's just an amazing organization. So, like, it just is horrible that this happened to them.
Ricky
Yeah. Honestly, I think their organization was the downfall for Ryan. I think it totally blindsided him because in his head, he was probably thinking, this is a small town. The cops will probably look for me for maybe a week, not be able to find me, not have the resources to do it. And then, yeah, Houdini, Scot free. I'm good to go.
Ashley
He's like, I know the police aren't going to go in that lake.
Ricky
Yeah.
Ashley
They're going to come out with their flashlights and shine around and go, maybe
Ricky
something got them open case. You know, we'll just keep it open and whatever, but no close. And it's so sad, too, because these. These teams are so passionate about what they're doing, and a lot of them have faced things like this in their own past. So they're out there putting the man hours in and a lot of them are, you know, volunteering and he's just wasting their time. And that, that sucks because those resources could have went to a family that actually needed them.
Ashley
Yeah, that's disgusting. And like thousands of dollars went towards his search.
Ricky
Yeah, 58 days. And all of those resources and travel
Ashley
expenses and maintenance and like, they better
Ricky
be getting their money back.
Ashley
I know that he was ordered to pay roughly $30,000 in restitution to cover all the costs.
Ricky
Research.
Ashley
And the Department of Natural Resources actually used that money for something incredibly poetic. Yeah. The DNR took $9,000 of Ryan's restitution money, bought a brand new state of the art tow fish sonar device. So it's a highly sophisticated unit and it's used to map the bottom of the deep lakes to find missing persons. So pretty good turnaround.
Ricky
I could probably use it, you know, bass fishing, maybe.
Ashley
Yeah, it actually probably. Maybe it would work.
Ricky
I don't know, just when they're not using it on the weekends or something.
Ashley
Can I borrow it?
Ricky
Yeah, I'll bring it back.
Ashley
So that's our story for today. We would like to hear from you guys in the comments.
Mike Carruthers
What.
Ashley
What would you have done in this situation if you were the guy in the canoe or if you were Emily or if you were police officer?
Ricky
You know what I would do?
Ashley
What?
Ricky
You ever seen that movie Double Jeopardy?
Ashley
No.
Ricky
So the premise of double jeopardy, I think the husband cheated on the wife and then he faked his own death or something like that. Right? Same, same thing. But basically everyone thought he was dead.
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Ricky
So how do you get charged from murder? You can't kill a dead guy.
Ashley
Oh, right. You know, maybe you should have put like a decoy in the bottom of the river. Decoy, like fake body.
Ricky
Thinking, like they would have pulled out a fake body and that would have been more obvious.
Ashley
That's true.
Ricky
All right, we're already in the weed, so I have to bring this up. What is up with this town? We have water town, big green lake. Like, what was this? You know, three clicks down, you had small yellow pond next to Turtle Town.
Ashley
Turtle Town.
Ricky
What is up with these names?
Ashley
Just a very simplistic area. Just like very simple.
Ricky
Well, we got the blue sky lake over there. I don't know.
Ashley
Yeah, so I know that we joked a lot and everything there, but on a more serious note, this case is pretty heavy and with the crushing debt and everything like that, we wanted to let you know that you can absolutely get help. You can call or you can text nine eight eight anytime to reach the Suicide and Crisis Lifeline for free. It's 24. 7 confidential support. So if you're struggling with anything, financial anxiety, depression, and you just need someone to talk to, just know that there are resources out there. You don't have to fake your own death and go mad and traumatize your family. Like, yeah, you can get help.
Ricky
There's always options.
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
Yeah.
Ricky
Now, before we let you go, if you want to come hang out with us during the week, because I know you do, you can follow us on Instagram or TikTok or if you want to see our faces, you can now see us on YouTube.
Ashley
Yeah, you might have caught us here, maybe might have caught us there.
Ricky
But if you hate ads, you can watch on YouTube. There's no ads over here yet.
Ashley
That's the secret menu item.
Ricky
But you can also follow us on Patreon patreon.com crimesaladpodcast where you can get ad free listening and behind the scenes things like that. But yeah, here we are.
Ashley
Careful eating the salad out there though, because I heard that there's parasites in it. Maybe, but you can always just like stick to crime salad. It's healthy.
Ricky
Yeah, healthier.
Ashley
Healthier. Healthy.
Keith Cormacan / Bruce's Legacy Narrator
Ish.
Mandy
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Edge of the Forgotten Narrator
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Date: July 25, 2026
Hosts: Ashley & Ricky
In this episode, Ashley and Ricky dive into the astonishing story of Ryan Borgwardt, a Wisconsin father of three who staged his own death in an elaborately planned escape that wasted months of search efforts, devastated his family, and left law enforcement and the community stunned. The hosts focus on the evidence, the investigation, and the aftermath, with their signature mix of factual storytelling and candid commentary.
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“It is amazing... because they don’t charge the family a dime.” – Ricky (08:40)
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“So that brings up the question: how does a dead man cross international borders?” – Ricky (15:12)
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“There’s so many ways he could have handled this better. I mean, one, he could have got a divorce.” – Ricky (18:11)
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“How mad would you be?” – Ashley (30:38)
Ashley and Ricky close with a reminder that resources and support are always available, no matter how dire one's circumstances may seem, and that running away only multiplies the trauma for everyone involved.