Professor Julian Womble (40:56)
So the next theme really focuses on adults, the sharing of information, and the adultification of children to the point where they become child soldiers. A lot of Heat came from the chat around the idea of Gryffindors in particular as child soldiers. Some of you argue that the kids were reckless because adults withheld information from them and praise their dangerous choices and set them up to fail. Others push back on this idea, saying that adults like Dumbledore. We're not talking about Dumbledore in depth. Okay? He's going to have his own set of episodes with the S. Okay. Others pushed back, saying adults like Dumbledore had to treat Harry strategically given Voldemort's hold on him. The debate forces us to ask like a really important question, which is like, did Gryffindor bravery become warped by adults by the adults who exploited it? Now this, this, this we have to have a conversation about because in some ways this is kind of what I was talking about in the first theme, but now it's here in our third theme. K wrote, thank you for giving voice to the absurdity of Gryffindor's expectations of child soldiers. I remember internalizing so much shame as a first grader who was reading the books for the first time and wasn't willing to die for, well, anything. Honestly, I believe I've carried it ever since. Thank you for telling my inner child that it's okay I didn't want to die to save the world and for telling my adult self that bravery doesn't need to be reckless. Cassie wrote, however, the second Harry was allowed to go through the trapdoor after Voldy and not then be ripped a new one for being so stupid entitled him to whatever information he desired. If they didn't want him to have the info, they should have kept him out of the action. But by praising his recklessness and encouraging him to continue taking action as a child with no adult help or supervision, the adults then put everyone in danger by not sharing every single piece of information they had. Hiding information at that point is reckless, dangerous and verges unvillainous. Mia pushes back saying, you simply can't tell Harry everything. The teen who has a chunk of Voldemort living in his skull, potentially seeing through his eyes and listening through his ears. His body apt to be seized by Voldemort at any time. In possession, Harry is a leaky sieve sieve who must be strategized around. That's the truth. Harry is also a combatant in a war which is not his fault, nor is it Dumbledore's fault, but it too must be considered. If Dumbledore is our general on the field, then his job is to use his assets responsibly and judiciously, averting losses whenever possible, and delegating tasks as he sees fit. Jenny writes, the reflection hit me on this episode, especially the last 4ish minutes, if you haven't listened to it. That reflection, I felt really good about it. Jeannie writes, I know I am so brave for things I've done and I'm still doing, but I'm the furthest thing from reckless. So not knowing what house I truly belong in breaks my millennial heart. I do wholeheartedly believe the school as a whole is reckless, as someone mentioned, but the Lions take it to another level. So here's the thing. I recorded this whole other thing and now I'm gonna re record over it because I've got a new idea and a new thought and it's better. I think the reality is that at Hogwarts, the adults, like anywhere, right? The adults set the stage for what is understood as acceptable and what is unacceptable. And from a very early age, the Gryffindors learn and are taught by adults that basically risking your life is totally fine as long as it's in service of something good. And that something good could literally be like in service of making sure we win a Quidditch match, right? There is a way that I think even more so than the students, the adults who are much better at magic, literally lean into this idea that we can fix all of our problems. There is a moment in Sorcerer's Philosopher's Stone where Harry is talking to Dumbledore after he comes back from the like, whatever underground place after defeating Quirrel, and he says, I feared I might be too late. No, no, no. Yeah. No, no. Dumbledore says, I feared I might be too late. Harry says, you nearly were. I couldn't have kept him off the stone much longer. Dumbledore goes, not the Stone, boy, you. The effort nearly killed you. For one terrible moment there, I was afraid it had. So let's be clear. Dumbledore recognizes in Harry in this immediate moment, this outlandish self sacrificing behavior. And what does he do? He doesn't chastise him. He doesn't say like, you cannot be that reckless anymore. You have to be careful. He literally is like 60 points to Gryffindor for acts of bravery. After this kid basically was like, yeah, I. I'm not even thinking about my own self at 11 years old. You are fostering the idea that this behavior is okay. And so that when we think about the association with recklessness and bravery, the adults absolutely play A part in this. And it does engender the idea of like we have to be the ones to do this. Like the idea, like he doesn't. At no point does he chastise Harry for or Ron or Hermione for going down without an adult or at all. Not even without an adult. Without an adult. That's ridiculous at all. Right? He's just like, wow, it's really crazy that you figured that whole thing out. Hello? Hello. Are we, is this, are we in the same time zone? Like that's, that's wild, wild, wild behavior. But Dumbledore operates from the space of. And this is what we talked about in the last episode of it all serves a purpose. And so at the end of the day, it might not be ideal, but it is necessary. And the cost might be high, but the ends always justify the means. And everything for Dumbledore was a fact finding mission earlier on, right? Trying to figure out exactly what Voldemort's play was. Trying to figure out what Harry was capable of, what Harry was willing to do. And so then, and then we see throughout the process, Harry begins to. I don't know if it's not trust Dumbledore, but he doesn't tell him about the Basilisk, he doesn't tell him about the visions that he's having with Voldemort until it becomes way too late in order of the Phoenix. And so that there is a way that this relationship engenders a level of independence that no child should have. And part of it is that it's because, like he abandons Harry at Privet Drive every summer. And I think that what we also experience is that there is this kind of tug of war adultification of these kids, right? In some moments they're allowed to break the rules and there's no problem. In other moments they break the rules and there are massive consequences. And so there is very little kind of socialization surrounding the consequences of magic and the consequences of one's decisions and one's choices. And I think that that plays a really big part in the way that Harry, Ron and Hermione approach this. I think it changes the way that Gryffindor's approach things because I think that implicit in Gryffindor ness and this, and I won't even say that it's recklessness, I think that this idea engenders recklessness, which is for the greater good. I think implicit in so much of what is done is it's always for the greater good. If it's being done to thwart Voldemort, it's worth it no matter what. If it's an 11 year old willing to risk his life and die, it's worth it. If it is 15 year olds going and fighting full grown wizards in order to protect a prophecy, it's worth it. I think that there is a way that the greater good permeates through Gryffindor mentality in a way that is simply not true for other houses. Certainly not for Slytherins. I don't think so for Ravenclaws either. And maybe for Hufflepuffs, but not to the same extent. I think that we talk a lot about, and we talked a lot about in the last episode, Gryffindor's willingness to pay the cost. And I think that again, the ends always justify the means and that there is a way that Gryffindor nasty just invites some of the recklessness because sometimes that's the way you think things have to get done. And when you don't have adults who are willing to kind of support you while simultaneously protect you, then you're left to your own devices. And so I do think that the relationship between recklessness, bravery and Gryffindor is absolutely being like bolstered up by the adults. But I am not going to absolve these kids because some of these decisions are being made with full knowledge that like, oh, we should probably tell an adult, but we won't. I don't want to bother Dumbledore. I mean, I guess that is in some ways Dumbledore's fault. I mean, like a lot of this is a failure on the part of the adults in the school not availing themselves in ways that make children feel like they can rely on them. I will not, I will not take that away. I also though simultaneously, concurrently and feel like there are moments where some of these children make a decision and they're not good ones. And we're going to talk a little bit about one of those decisions because one of the things that came up a lot because I talked about how Harry, I used the word led the, you know, Ron, Ginny, Neville and Hermione into the Ministry of Magic. And many of you pushed back on that idea and said they decided to go with him. And I don't disagree with that. They did decide, however, simultaneously, concurrently. And he. It was his recklessness that invited theirs in the same way that it is the recklessness and the abandonment of the adults that invites the recklessness from the students in the first place. And I don't think those things are Mutually exclusive. And I. And what's more is like, Harry recognizes it because. And the reason why I'm willing to call it reckless is because Hermione's literally like, dude, you don't know the full scope of things. And Harry's like, and honestly, hey, sis, I don't care. I saw the vision. I'm gonna go. And I get it. But again, this reifies the kind of thing that I'm submitting to you, which is like. That is like the ends will justify the means. We just have to get there. If you come with me, that's your business. I'm not going to tell you that you need to come. And in fact, I'll tell you, don't come. And I think Harry tells them, like, you don't need to come with me. I'm going to go. But no matter what we do, I'm going. And Neville's like, we're going with you because you're not going by yourself. And this is a means by which that we are able to like, really use what we've been learning in the da. And I think that, you know, Kelly Yu points this out and saying those kids had been training during DA sessions and were feeling confident that they were capable. They were, of course, wrong. But I take issue with the idea that Harry asked any of his friends to accompany him. As mentioned in the episode, his recklessness is shared amongst his fellow Gryffindors. Agreed? 1,000%. 1,000%. There is a way in which they feel like they have to be the ones to fix the problem. And it was taken in. And they took. I mean, the DA in and of itself. Right? One was reckless because I'm Dumbledore, because Umbridge is crazy, but necessary. And that's the thing about recklessness is that sometimes you have to be. And I think that sometimes we think about recklessness and we see it as a negative. And there are times where it absolutely is. But I think that there are also moments where it is a necessity where you have to kind of break out against the mold. Especially when you are operating in a space like Hogwarts where the adults are just kind of letting you do whatever you want. And I think when I think about the da, when I think about them going to the Ministry of Magic, I also realize that there is a way in which, in addition to kind of recklessness, there is this feeling of obligation that so many Gryffindors have, right? Like that if you see something, you have to say something. If there is a problem that you have to then go and fix it. And I think part of the recklessness also comes from the fact that they don't have the tools really to be able to do this in a way that doesn't put their lives at risk. In addition to being rewarded time and time and time and time and time again for putting your life at risk, I don't think that they know another way to operate, but they also feel compelled to fix the issues and they feel compelled to do it themselves because the adults around them have allowed them to feel this way and have kind of promoted the idea that this is how you do it. And so in that way, I think, yes, the adults play a really big part in this. But I also do think that the recklessness does come as and is associated with Gryffindor ness. Maybe not inherently, but it is definitely invited and cultivated by the adults around them and and then warped into this sense of obligation that then lends itself and leads itself to reckless decision making on the part of the children that we see and then is rewarded. Right? And so this cycle continues.