SUMMER SCHOOL: Sex-Ed

Summary

DaBaddest Radio: Season 1, Episode "SUMMER SCHOOL: Sex-Ed" – Detailed Summary

Release Date: August 12, 2025

Introduction to the Episode

In this engaging episode of DaBaddest Radio, host Bretman Rock, joined by guests Princess and Kat, delves into the crucial topic of sex education. Embracing Bretman’s trademark confidence-boosting style, the trio transforms the traditional summer school concept into an informative session aimed at demystifying sex education.

Personal Experiences with Sex Education

The conversation kicks off with the trio reminiscing about their personal experiences with sex education. Bretman Rock initiates the discussion by questioning the typical scope of sex ed in summer schools, noting, “they don't really do sex ed, but in this summer school, where the fertility queen is present, we do sex ed” (00:18).

Princess shares her memories, “I think I was, like, sixth grade” (02:58), highlighting that her curriculum included basic anatomy and the traditional "birds and bees" talk. Bretman contrasts this with his own experience, recalling, “they showed us a video of how sex, like, works, and then they actually showed, like, how the sperm swims into the egg” (03:18), emphasizing a more visual and detailed approach in his education.

Kat adds another layer by discussing her homeschooling background, stating, “We learned how a married man and woman make children is what I was told” (02:08), indicating a more sheltered and limited perspective on sex ed.

Inclusivity in Sex Education: The Need for LGBTQ+ Content

A pivotal moment in the episode arises when Bretman Rock introduces the topic of inclusivity in sex education. He reflects on his own identity and the gaps in traditional curricula: “I've always known I was gay, but I feel like sex ed, they only educate you on straight sex” (03:24). Bretman advocates for a more inclusive approach, questioning, “do you guys think sex ed should also cover gay sex?” (03:38).

Princess responds thoughtfully, “I can't hide that from them... I have to explain to them at a really early age” (06:28), sharing her experience of teaching her children about diverse sexual orientations naturally and without stigma.

Kat concurs, emphasizing the importance of comprehensive education: “I feel like they should just cover everything because they cover oral, they cover... everything else” (04:47). This collective insight underscores a significant gap in current sex education programs and advocates for inclusivity that reflects diverse sexual identities.

Understanding Consent and Types of Relationships

Transitioning from inclusivity, the discussion shifts to the fundamental concepts of consent and the various types of relationships. Kat expertly defines consent: “it's like giving permission... communicating yes and no, and like, setting boundaries and respecting them” (11:39), highlighting its importance in healthy interactions.

When exploring relationship dynamics, Princess elaborates on different types: “sexual relationship, physical relationship, emotional relationship, and also... support” (12:22). Kat further refines this by categorizing relationships into friendship, romantic, and family ties, stating, “it's important for people to know... having relationships doesn't mean a romantic all the time” (13:03).

Contraception and Pregnancy: Knowledge and Misconceptions

A significant portion of the episode is dedicated to discussing contraception and pregnancy. Kat leads the conversation by asking about different types of contraceptives, to which Princess responds with a mix of accurate and confused answers: “There's like an IUD. Condoms. The pull out...” (14:07). Bretman humorously challenges her understanding, prompting further clarification.

Princess expresses her personal stance on birth control: “I've never had it, and I'm like, literally 25 years old, I'm like, I don't want it to with me so much” (15:11), revealing her desire to remain fertile for future children.

When discussing the risks of unprotected sex, Bretman succinctly lists them: “Pregnancy, sexually transmitted disease, falling for dick” (16:33), blending humor with serious implications.

Sexually Transmitted Infections: Awareness and Prevention

The conversation progresses to sexually transmitted infections (STIs), with Kat prompting Princess to explain, “What are sexually transmitted infections?” (17:07). Princess articulates the basics: “from having unprotected sex... somebody who has them, and you have unprotected sex with them” (17:21).

Bretman adds a humorous yet informative touch by mentioning misconceptions, “you can get a pink eye if you just let somebody fart in your face” (17:36), before Kat clarifies with accurate information about common STIs like herpes and their transmission.

Personal Stories and Reflections

The episode is rich with personal anecdotes that add depth to the discussion. Bretman shares his own experiences with Pre-Exposure Prophylaxis (PrEP), detailing its importance in preventing HIV: “It's kind of like how gays would fight, like, sexually transmitted disease... stay on prep so that you don't ever” (18:40). He candidly discusses his journey of understanding and utilizing PrEP as a protective measure.

Princess opens up about her reluctance to discuss sex with her parents and the fear associated with potential pregnancies: “I was always telling my mom, like, no, I'm not having... you're an angel” (24:53). This vulnerability underscores the emotional aspects of sex education and the importance of open communication.

Kat adds her perspective as someone who learned crucial information outside formal education: “My friends were like, okay, did you use protection? I'm like, I'm on birth control” (21:39), highlighting gaps in sex ed where critical topics like STI prevention are sometimes overlooked.

Conclusion and Future Episodes

As the episode draws to a close, the trio reflects on the importance of comprehensive sex education. Bretman emphasizes mutual respect and understanding: “Respect each other's opinion, period” (07:57). The conversation seamlessly transitions into light-hearted banter about personal milestones, such as Bretman’s upcoming birthday and entering his late twenties, maintaining the show’s signature blend of humor and depth.

Bretman concludes with a teaser for the next episode, promising a deep dive into home economics: “It's literally just things that you learn that aren't other subjects” (27:19). This sets the stage for continuing the tradition of blending educational content with entertaining dialogue.

Notable Quotes with Timestamps

• Bretman Rock: “They don't really do sex ed, but in this summer school, where the fertility queen is present, we do sex ed.” (00:18)

• Princess: “I’m the walking truth, period.” (02:30)

• Kat: “It's important for people to know... having relationships doesn't mean a romantic all the time.” (13:03)

• Bretman Rock: “I've always known I was gay, but I feel like sex ed, they only educate you on straight sex.” (03:24)

• Princess: “I wish that I was more honest... I was so scared to tell mom, and I was so scared to tell the doctor.” (25:53)

• Kat: “Sex ed isn't super, like, questions and answers. It's more just not. You're learning about it.” (18:14)

Final Thoughts

This episode of DaBaddest Radio serves as a vital conversation starter on enhancing sex education to be more inclusive and comprehensive. Through a blend of personal stories, humor, and honest dialogue, Bretman Rock, Princess, and Kat illuminate the areas where sex ed can evolve to better serve diverse populations. Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own experiences and consider advocating for more inclusive curricula in their communities.

For those who haven't tuned in, this episode offers an insightful exploration of sex education's past, present, and potential future, wrapped in the charismatic and relatable delivery that DaBaddest Radio is known for.

Transcript

[Bretman Rock]

The following podcast is a Dear Media.

[Princess]

Production Ring, ring.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. Welcome, everybody, to period six. What are we studying today, Princess?

[Princess]

We are studying sex ed.

[Bretman Rock]

And, yes, we know summer school, they don't really do sex ed, but in this summer school, where the fertility queen is present, we do sex ed. And. Yeah, period, Period. Princess, what are you drinking today?

[Princess]

Oh, you know what's so cool? That my drink looks like your outfit and.

[Bretman Rock]

And my drink looks like your outfit.

[Princess]

My outfit. Because my outfit at the bottom is, like, reddish, and then it goes up to pink. It's so cute.

[Bretman Rock]

But anyway, show the class. Show the class. Stand up. Oh, okay. I love how you stood up and, like, nothing changed. The height same.

[Princess]

But, yeah, I am. I am having a strawberry dragon and a four blueberry shot. That's it.

[Bretman Rock]

Period.

[Princess]

With water.

[Bretman Rock]

Today I'm having tropical guava with blueberry breeze, which I've never had before, and some water. And it also says sea cashier. I don't know what that means.

[Kat]

It's sparkling water.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, it's sparkling water.

[Princess]

These are both sparkling water.

[Kat]

No, yours is lemonade.

[Princess]

No, it says water.

[Kat]

It's supposed to be lemonade.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, okay.

[Princess]

But it's still good.

[Bretman Rock]

She's good. All right, you guys, without further ado, Q in the intro, Bratman to Earth. Earth to Bratman. Girl, you already know who it is. And we are back. Princess, what kind. What grade are you when you study sex ed?

[Princess]

I think I was, like, sixth grade.

[Bretman Rock]

I think it's fifth grade because I remembered Mr. The Teacher for it, and so that was definitely fifth grade for me. Oh, okay, Cat, you were homeschooled. Did you guys have to study sex ed?

[Kat]

No, we did not learn.

[Princess]

She just learned the bees and birds.

[Kat]

Yeah, we learned how a married man and woman make children is what I was told.

[Princess]

Did you say something, Cat? Did you say married? Are you saying something, Cat? What are you trying to say?

[Kat]

When I was this little Christian, homeschooled, sheltered child, like, oh, you know, they tell you certain things that isn't necessarily true. You find out later, later on that was not true.

[Princess]

I am the walking truth, period.

[Bretman Rock]

Also, I don't know if you guys noticed, but every episode we've added, like, a little trinket or two to. For each episode, we. Well, not every episode. I honestly forgot to add some for some. Some episodes, but also some labus have been changing around as well. Like a little changing of. But, yeah. What are your earlier memories of sex ed?

[Princess]

Sixth grade.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, what. What did you learn?

[Princess]

Oh, what did I learn? I learned about the body and how, like, the v. The vagina, you know, and you know how that works and birds and bees and all of that. Those are my.

[Bretman Rock]

I remembered watching the video. I feel like. Did they show you guys a video?

[Princess]

No, they did not show us a video.

[Bretman Rock]

Girl, did we go to the same school? What the.

[Princess]

Yes, we did, Brett.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my gosh. I remember they showed us a video of how sex, like, works, and then they actually showed, like, how the sperm swims into the egg and, like, the whole birth canal thing. Like, we had to watch a video. What I will say as a gay person and obviously, like, I feel like if you're gonna talk about sex, and maybe I'm just a little too progressive, so, like, let's not fight in the comments down below. But I've always known I was gay, but I feel like sex ed, they only educate you on straight sex. And I'm not saying they should be educating us on gay sex, obviously, because I'm like, I don't know if that's, like, a little bit pushing it, but what do you guys think? Like, do you guys think sex sex ed should also cover gay sex? I think it's not that bad, but maybe it's just because I'm gay. But I also understand the latter of, like, maybe people are like, maybe kids are just being exposed to that really early on. But I've spoken to grown, grown, grown people, like, like, my own family members, honestly, where I've actually had to explain to them how gay sex works. And they're like, wow, that. That's how y' all have sex. And even me as a gay man, like, I'm always intrigued. Not intrigued because ill. But, like, I'm always, like, shook when I learn about, like, lesbian sex. I'm like, oh, that's how y' all do it, period.

[Kat]

I feel like they should just cover everything because they cover oral, they cover. They cover everything else. I'm like, I feel like they should just cover it.

[Bretman Rock]

All right, you know, how do you feel, princess? You have kids. How do you feel about Cleo or E learning about same sex, same sex marriage, Same sex sex? And you can be very candid. I wouldn't judge you for your answer because I'm not a mom.

[Princess]

I don't know. I don't know how I feel about it. But I also.

[Bretman Rock]

Homophobic. I'm just kidding. It is. It is. It is. Because even I don't know how to feel about it.

[Princess]

I was like, wait, what?

[Bretman Rock]

It is a touchy thing.

[Princess]

It is. But I think sixth Grade. It has, like, I feel like sixth grade. It's okay. Like, I feel like we're grown already.

[Bretman Rock]

Girl were calling me a in second grade, so obviously they know what gay is.

[Princess]

I, like, sorry. I was thinking about it, like, if my kids were, like, at their age right now and they're learning about it.

[Bretman Rock]

No, no, no. I'm saying, like, obviously, that's what I mean.

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, during sex, when you're learning about sex.

[Princess]

Yeah. No, I honestly wouldn't feel any. You know, because they see gay people.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Princess]

You know, like, LGBTQ people everywhere. So, like, I can't hide that from them. You know, I'm not gonna be like, oh, no, that's. That's a girl. Like, that's a girl or that's a boy. You know, I hate saying that because they already know, like, and I don't. And, like. And them having you as, like, you know, as an uncle who's also an auntie, you know, I can't hide that, you know, And I have to explain to. At a really early age, you know, you know, being that they're only, like, not even 10 years old, but honestly, they. They don't even care about it. They're like, okay, but that's Uncle Bremen.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Princess]

You know, like, what's the difference? Like, they call them either uncle or auntie or whatever. I.

[Bretman Rock]

Whatever.

[Princess]

That's.

[Bretman Rock]

For me, I definitely had moments where I've had to. Especially Cleo, because obviously she's older, so she's seen and experienced more. But, like, I remembered having to explain what. Why it's okay for two boys to be dating. Like, I remembered having to explain to Cleo the concept of her uncle having a boyfriend. And that was, like, she got it right away because I was like, boys can like boys, Cleo, and girls can like girls. And your mommy and daddy can like each other or, like, you know, and, like, straight people can like each other. And she got it right away. Like, there wasn't really, like, questions that stood out. Like, she didn't really question it. She was just like, period. My uncle has a boyfriend.

[Princess]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

So, yeah, they.

[Princess]

I feel like I've taught my kids at, like, a really early age already. Like, you know, it's okay. You know, it is what it is. You'll never know when you grow up too, you know?

[Bretman Rock]

Right. And, yeah, like I said, this is a question that I wanted to ask the audience. So please leave your, I guess, opinions down below. There is no right and wrong opinion. Just don't fight each other. Obviously, don't come for me for bringing up the question, because it's genuinely like, to each their own type of question. Yeah. And I get both sides of stories.

[Princess]

I feel like we all can educate each other, you know?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Princess]

Respect each other's opinion, period.

[Bretman Rock]

So I had Kat look up questions, like, always, Ms. Kat. And we're going to just raise our hands. I genuinely feel like Princess is going to win this, because if she's going to win an episode, it's going to be the sex.

[Kat]

That episode.

[Princess]

Honestly, imagine if I lose.

[Bretman Rock]

All right, should we get into it? Let me get a sip of my Duncan reflection.

[Princess]

Me too.

[Kat]

Me too.

[Princess]

Me too. Me too.

[Bretman Rock]

Well, yes.

[Princess]

She's so dead.

[Kat]

Okay, so do you guys know, like, what sex ed is for?

[Bretman Rock]

No. Teach us. Tell us.

[Kat]

Okay, so it's understanding anatomy, puberty, relationships, consent, conception, and sexually transmitted infections.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Kat]

Period. So these questions are kind of going through all of that.

[Princess]

Okay.

[Kat]

I kind of categorize them. Right. So.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay. She's organized. She's organized.

[Princess]

She said organize it, Jack.

[Kat]

So the first one is under physical development and anatomy. First question. What happens during puberty? Princess.

[Princess]

Oh, go ahead.

[Bretman Rock]

No, go, girl. You were so confident. Go. What happens through.

[Princess]

There's growth. Right. There's, like, different hormones. Right, Hormones. And your body is changing and growing. Period.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, essentially, like when a kid turns to a teen and there's hormonal changes in their body. Like boys. Boys. Voices getting deeper. Pubic hair.

[Princess]

Yeah.

[Kat]

Body hair in general.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

[Kat]

So that's it, is it both of y'?

[Princess]

All?

[Bretman Rock]

No. That was a supporting answer for me. Really?

[Princess]

Oh, thank you. Being a supportive person. The supportive person that you are.

[Bretman Rock]

That I am.

[Kat]

Okay, next question. What is a clitoris and what is his purpose?

[Bretman Rock]

A what?

[Princess]

Clitoris.

[Bretman Rock]

Clitoris.

[Kat]

Is it clit.

[Bretman Rock]

It's clitoris, not clitoris.

[Princess]

Clitoris.

[Bretman Rock]

Isn't it clitoris?

[Princess]

Isn't it to, like, arose you or, like, supposed to, like, make you sexually more like, horny? I'd say.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, I'll give my answer, and you can say, who's closer?

[Kat]

Okay. Okay.

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like. Okay, this is a feeling. I obviously don't have one. I've never seen one, but I feel like a clitor. Clitoris or clitoris?

[Kat]

Clitoris.

[Bretman Rock]

I've never.

[Kat]

Is it a dinosaur?

[Bretman Rock]

I've never said that word so many times in my life, but I feel like that word means you did see one.

[Princess]

You saw my video.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, Ew. Of Lele being born. That was so traumatizing. Like, princess, don't ever show me these again. But I would say it's your. The bean. It's. It's like you're flicking the bean. Obviously, you. So it's like, tied to. Yeah, you're DJing. Giving Era. Era the bean. Maybe it helps. Has to do with, like, your hormones making you more hornier. Maybe. But is it also your P hole?

[Kat]

No. Okay, so it's a organ that is just made for pleasure.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, I don't think boys have that.

[Kat]

No.

[Bretman Rock]

No, they don't, period. I'm jealous.

[Princess]

So who's close?

[Kat]

You.

[Princess]

Yay.

[Kat]

Okay, so the next category is relationships and consent.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, period. We love that question.

[Kat]

What is consent?

[Princess]

Okay, you need the.

[Bretman Rock]

I guess consent, I guess in a lack of a better word, is like giving permission. Like allowing someone and communicating. Yes and no. And like, setting boundaries and respecting them. Very good.

[Princess]

That's what I was gonna say.

[Kat]

They like to emphasize that. Being enthusiastic about it.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay.

[Kat]

Because people can, like, give consent, but, like, you know, you look at their face and they're just kind of like, oh, yeah, okay. Pressured. So enthusiastic. Yeah, that was good, Bretman. Good job.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. Right, right, right, right.

[Kat]

Okay, next question. What are the different types of relationships?

[Princess]

The different types of relationships?

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay, I think I might know this one. There's a sexual relationship, a personal. No. Sexual relationship, a emotional relationship, and maybe a friendship.

[Kat]

Yeah, kind of. For instance, do you want to add anything? Help him?

[Princess]

Support.

[Kat]

Do you want to support him?

[Princess]

Yes. So the different types of relationship is like, sexual relationship, physical relationship, emotional relationship, and also, like, what?

[Bretman Rock]

What? Isn't physical and sexual kind of the same thing? Yeah, because you can have a physical relationship with someone and not have sex with him. Like, what? Because isn't that the same thing?

[Kat]

You guys are going to the same direction, but it's just. It's friendship, romantic, and family.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, okay. We were. We were like. Okay, okay.

[Kat]

So it's just important for people to know, like, friends, family. Having relationships doesn't mean a romantic all the time. Like your. Your relationship, mine and princess relationship. Like, it's all different. Her and Tony, period. It's good to remember.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh. Because, like, that's like, Tony and her would be romantic.

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

You are friends and I'm family.

[Kat]

Exactly.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah.

[Kat]

Okay, so next category is contraception and pregnancy.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm gonna let you. I'm gonna take you. I'm gonna let you take the lead on this group work.

[Kat]

What are the different types of contraceptions?

[Princess]

What is it called?

[Kat]

Contraception.

[Bretman Rock]

Girl. She ain't never heard of that. She's never heard of that.

[Princess]

Different types.

[Kat]

Yeah. Do you know What? That is like preventatives.

[Princess]

Oh, okay.

[Bretman Rock]

She don't know what that is.

[Princess]

There's like an iud. Condom, condoms. The pull out. There's also the pull out.

[Kat]

I don't think that's cool. It is, girl.

[Princess]

Before you.

[Bretman Rock]

And did they work?

[Kat]

But I don't think they teach that in sex ed. I don't think they teach.

[Princess]

Okay, there is the pill. There's also the pill. There's the thing in the arm.

[Bretman Rock]

That's IUD, right?

[Princess]

Yeah.

[Kat]

No IUDs in your vagina.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh.

[Princess]

And then there's nothing in the arm. There's also the shots, the pillow.

[Kat]

Mm.

[Princess]

They're the thing that goes in your vaginas, Princess.

[Bretman Rock]

You're just repeating it. Are you trying to reach the word count? I think she's missing one.

[Princess]

It's.

[Kat]

I have three. And then. But this is. There's many, many more.

[Princess]

There's many. And which is the pull out, girl?

[Bretman Rock]

No. Well, there's. I think. I don't know if you said condom.

[Princess]

I did say condom.

[Bretman Rock]

Okay. And then there's also men getting their things tied now. Yeah, the, like, not only women get their tissues tied, but men be getting their testicles tied, so. Love that. I don't know the actual term for.

[Kat]

It, but I know vasectomy.

[Bretman Rock]

Vasectomy.

[Kat]

Yeah. So I think princess got that.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm going to let her take the floor, girl with this contraceptive because I feel like she needs to start listening to it.

[Princess]

My doctor was like, what are we going to do?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, what have you done? Have you done any of these contraceptives?

[Princess]

Okay. I honestly feel like every person that I asked about, like, birth controls, they always. It really with you. It really with your hormones, your body. And I'm like, since I've never had it, and I'm like, literally 25 years old, I'm like, I don't want it to with me so much. And like, to the point I'm not going to be able to have kids and I want more kids. So I think I'm going to get it when I'm done having kids. Like, I'm not going to stop it. You know what I mean? That's just how I feel, period.

[Kat]

Interesting.

[Bretman Rock]

You're allowed to feel things. Next.

[Kat]

Okay. What are the risks of unprotective sex, Princess?

[Bretman Rock]

It's you. Pregnancy, sexual transmitted disease. Falling for dick. Honestly, like, falling for the person. Because sometimes sex be taking you there, girl. I'm like, oh, what are we now? Delusions?

[Kat]

Delul.

[Princess]

Okay, Is there any more cat?

[Kat]

Yeah. Okay. So, last one for the STIs. What are sexually transmitted infections?

[Princess]

What are they?

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, yeah, sti. Sexually transmitted.

[Kat]

Not like naming them, but, like, what is it exactly?

[Princess]

Sexual transmitted infections.

[Kat]

Well, how do you get it?

[Princess]

Oh, from having unprotected sex. Somebody who has. Who has them. Somebody who is who. Who carries them, and you have unprotected sex with them. And that's how you get it, Right?

[Kat]

Sex and sexual activity.

[Princess]

Sex and sexual activity.

[Kat]

Because you can get through oral.

[Princess]

Yeah.

[Kat]

And a lot of people don't know that.

[Bretman Rock]

That's crazy, because I. Not I have. But, like, I feel like you can get a pink eye if you just. If you let somebody fart in your face, some shit like that. You can also get, like. Is it crabs?

[Kat]

Yeah, it's herpes.

[Princess]

Herpes.

[Kat]

Genital herpes. It could be on your mouth. A cold sore.

[Princess]

Yeah.

[Kat]

That's not necessarily, like, transmitted, but, like, it is transmitted, like, through people.

[Princess]

Yeah.

[Kat]

But yeah, there's just, like, a lot of different things, and there's all different ways. Yay.

[Bretman Rock]

Was that it?

[Kat]

That was it.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, that was so easy.

[Kat]

Sex ed isn't super, like, questions and answers. It's more just not. You're learning about it.

[Bretman Rock]

Yeah, you're learning about it, period, princess. Do you have any sex ed questions for me?

[Kat]

I have a question.

[Princess]

Yes, Kat.

[Kat]

Okay, so because you aren't worried about pregnancies, do you have to, like, take contraceptions for other reasons? But, yeah. Do you have to do, like, different than we would have to do as girls?

[Bretman Rock]

Yes, girl. There's this thing. I'm sure, like, gays know this. Well, no, not that. No, it's. It's called prep. Prep?

[Kat]

What's that?

[Bretman Rock]

It's like. It's kind of like how gays would fight, like, sexually transmitted disease. Like, you stay on prep so that, like, you don't ever, like, you stay ready. That's basically, like, how it is. Or you can go on prep after, like, your first, like, not first sex, but, like, after having sex. But like, most gay people who are sexually active stays on prep. Obviously. I've been with the same person for, like, a year and a half, so I'm not gonna be fucking beyond prep. But if I were, like, I don't know, maybe in college and, like, sleeping around or sleeping with multiple people or just a sexually active person, we're technically advised to, like, stay on prep. It doesn't really do anything for you, like, hormonally, at least for my experience. Like, I don't think I've seen Changes.

[Princess]

I have a question. What do you. What do you do? Like, what are you.

[Kat]

It's just like a pill.

[Bretman Rock]

Two pills that you take, depending on what prep you're on. Like, mine were always, like, these two pills that you just pop in after.

[Kat]

Eating and then, like, like, every day.

[Bretman Rock]

Every day?

[Princess]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

And it's always advice. You take it on the same time. So I always do it for breakfast.

[Kat]

Did you find it, like, ever, like, did anything to you? Like, like, your health? Like, did you ever find, like, you're nauseous or, like, did it affect you at all?

[Bretman Rock]

No, that's what I was saying. Like, it doesn't. Like, you know, you were saying how, like, birth controls and, like, IUDs have, like, effects on your hormones. I'm obviously speaking for my experience. This is not the experience for every gay people. But, like, I was normal. I was fine. And this is why I brought up the question of, like, is gay sex a part of sex ed? Is because, like, I remembered. This is so tmi, but I've talked about it so many times before. I lost my virginity at 18 years old. I was in LA. I have no friends. Well, I had friends there, but, like. And then I was just like, oh, my God, I just had sex with, like, a stranger. And I'm like, I don't know what to do. And, like, my friends at the time, who are some of my friends, were like, girl, you gotta go to the. This center, the gay center, and to get tested, and you, like, swab your asshole. They draw blood. And then, like, they just tell you, like, if you caught something or not, and if you did, they would address it. And then if you didn't, like, you would still be advised to take prep. But, like, these are things that I wish I would have known. Yeah, obviously, like, even in sex ed in fifth grade, like, I don't remember them talking about HIV and how that affected a lot of gay people, especially in the 80s and 90s. Like, that took. That wiped out a lot of gay people. And that was mainly prevalent in the gay world, you know, So I feel like a little bit of, like, gay sex should be. I don't. I don't mean to, like, go back around, but, like, I really feel like a little bit of gay sex should be educated in some.

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Princess]

Yeah, I think so, too.

[Kat]

Yeah, because, like, for being homeschooled, like I said earlier, my mom and dad were like a married couple, have babies. That's it. So when I finally had sex at 20, girl, I didn't know about STIs. I was like, I'm on birth control. I'm not going to get pregnant. I'm good, girl. My friends were like, okay, did you use protection? I'm like, I'm on birth control. They're like, no, cat, like protection. And I had no idea what they.

[Bretman Rock]

Meant, so I thought it was just pregnancy.

[Princess]

Because, like, that's what I thought too.

[Kat]

Yeah. So I feel like people a lot of, like, older, like, generation are very like, if you don't talk about it, it won't happen. Yeah, girl, it's gonna happen, so might as well tell me what I need to be careful of.

[Princess]

Yeah, so. Yeah, you know, it's crazy. Like, I didn't know that people like, even, like, even if they pull out their pre come can still get you pregnant.

[Kat]

They'll be in here for three days.

[Princess]

That's crazy.

[Kat]

So if he came in you three.

[Bretman Rock]

Days ago, post come, girl, they're all calm.

[Kat]

During. If he came in you two days ago and by the third day you're on your ovulation, you can still get pregnant.

[Princess]

That's what I'm saying. That's crazy.

[Bretman Rock]

What?

[Princess]

Yeah, because, like, it's.

[Bretman Rock]

You can get pregnant even after having sex.

[Kat]

It'll stay in you.

[Princess]

Yeah, because they'd be just swimming.

[Bretman Rock]

I would douche that shit out.

[Princess]

They're swimming.

[Kat]

That's why.

[Princess]

Hey, boy, we're first place.

[Bretman Rock]

Oh, my God, we are first place.

[Kat]

We're first placers. I'll take like, boric acid. If, like me and my ex, if he ever, like, did it too long, I throw boric acid up in that.

[Bretman Rock]

Bitch and then list, what the fuck is an A? Boric acid.

[Kat]

So it helps with, like, getting your ph balance back to normal. So after my period, I have, I take a boric acid and they shove it in your vagina and it just.

[Princess]

Helps kids in there.

[Kat]

It just helps, like, clear it out. It's not advice to take it regularly, but if I ever. If me, my. If me Max, if he ever stay in there too long, I'd be like, oh, kill them.

[Princess]

Kill them, kids.

[Bretman Rock]

Get them.

[Kat]

Yeah, get them before they can spawn the boric. It just helps clear it out.

[Princess]

I love that cat.

[Bretman Rock]

I wish we had a lesbian in here with us right now. Because I'm always wondering about lesbian sex.

[Kat]

I done it once, but it wasn't all that period.

[Bretman Rock]

Like, I want to learn about, like, you know, the nails, like, why they get certain nails done and done. Even the whole scissoring thing. I'm like, I still can't imagine Yeah, I can't imagine.

[Princess]

No, even, like, me as a female. Like, I'm thinking to myself, like, how do you get orgasm from that?

[Kat]

Because your. Your vaginas are, like, rubbing.

[Princess]

I know, but like, that's kind of like. Like, wait, it's just like, kind of. How do you do it? You know?

[Bretman Rock]

Try with Tony. Lol. That is so funny, princess. How about you leave us off with maybe something you didn't learn in sex ed and something you learned not during sex, but, like, as a mother.

[Princess]

Birth control. That's what I feel like I should have known, you know, and, like, being sexually active.

[Kat]

Mm.

[Princess]

Actually, I do remember going to my doctor and they're like, are you sexually active? And I lied and I lied. And that's why she didn't talk to me about having birth controls, you know? And like, they never brought it up to my mom, so. And I was. I was always telling my mom, like, no, I'm not having. I'm not having any intercourse. I'm not doing anything. You know, I'm a. I'm an angel.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm a queen. I'm a diva.

[Princess]

And so, yeah, I wish that I was more honest. And I felt like I was so scared to tell mom, and I was so scared to tell the doctor, like, oh, my God, am I pregnant already? You know, because, like, in my head I was thinking, like, okay, why is she asking me if I'm sexually active? Am I pregnant? You know? So I was like, oh, my God, I'm so scared. I was so.

[Bretman Rock]

So were you.

[Princess]

No, I wasn't pregnant yet, but.

[Bretman Rock]

And then the next time you saw her, you're like, yeah, I was like, I was.

[Princess]

And then, yeah. So, yeah, period.

[Bretman Rock]

Period. Well, that was sex ed, everybody. I hope you guys learned a thing or two. The next episode is going to be our last episode, which I'm really so sad. But that just means the Baddest Radio Season 2 will be coming right up. It's just under our nose. I also forgot to mention, girl, tomorrow's my birthday, so. Yeah. Wait, how are you turning? I'm turning 27. It's such a ugly number, girl.

[Princess]

Excuse me.

[Bretman Rock]

27 is an ugly number.

[Princess]

It's not.

[Bretman Rock]

I feel like 26 is so chic. It's your last year to make the excuse of, like, I'm young, like, I can get away with things. I feel like 27 when A is 27. I'm like, you a grown ass person. Like, you shouldn't be.

[Kat]

Are you in your late 20s?

[Bretman Rock]

This is my first year of my late 20s.

[Kat]

Welcome. Welcome to the. To the club.

[Bretman Rock]

The dorks.

[Princess]

Wait, how old are you?

[Kat]

29.

[Bretman Rock]

29 period. Yeah, it's my Saturn return.

[Princess]

She hitting 30.

[Kat]

Yeah, but they say 30s are the best. So I'm excited.

[Bretman Rock]

I'm ready for my Saturn return and I feel like I'm slowly creeping into it. Anyways, we will see you guys on our last episode. We are going to be doing home E. And if you guys don't know what home EC is, it's home economics. It's literally just things that you learn that aren't other subjects.

[Princess]

Yep. Other subjects.

[Bretman Rock]

All right, you guys, I will see you guys next episode. See you at home at class. Aloha. Bye. I'll see you next Thursday.

[Kat]

Yeah.

[Bretman Rock]

Don't forget to follow rate and like, you can follow me at bretmanrock on everything and follow the podcast at the baddest radio on all social media. Bye, beach. Please note that this episode may contain.

[Princess]

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[Bretman Rock]

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