A Hawaii doctor's wife testifies against him. A Dad's retrial in Mississippi. And realtor safety.

Summary

Dateline NBC — True Crime Weekly (March 26, 2026)

Episode Overview

In this packed True Crime Weekly episode, host Andrea Canning and the Dateline team deliver updates and deep dives on three major true crime stories:

• The Hawaii anesthesiologist accused of attempting to murder his wife, with gripping testimony from the alleged victim.
• A father’s retrial in the Mississippi murder of his daughter’s boyfriend, centering on family testimony and shifting defense strategies.
• A roundup of key verdicts and developments, including a long-awaited arrest in the 2011 murder of an Iowa realtor, capped by a detailed interview with a realtor safety advocate.

The episode combines courtroom drama, personal insights, and practical safety advice, revealing the complexity and emotion at the heart of each case.

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Hawaii Doctor on Trial: Ariel Koenig Testifies Against Her Husband

[02:14–11:39]

Case Recap

• Defendant: Dr. Gerhardt Koenig, anesthesiologist
• Allegation: Attempted murder of his wife, Ariel Koenig, on Oahu’s Pali Puka Trail
• Incident: March 24, 2025 — hikers overheard screams and witnessed Dr. Koenig attacking Ariel with a rock; he fled and was later apprehended.
• Defense Claim: Self-defense; alleges Ariel was the aggressor.

Key Discussion Points

Marriage and Background

• Married in 2018; two young sons and Dr. Koenig’s older son, Emil, from a prior marriage.
• Both were successful professionals.

Prosecution’s Theory

• Ariel was lured to the trail under false pretenses, attacked near a cliff edge.
• Crucial sequence:
  • Alleged first weapon: a syringe (contents unknown); Ariel knocked it away.
  • Transitioned to a jagged lava rock; Ariel struck multiple times.
  • Quote (Ariel Koenig, [03:25]):
    “I just started screaming because I—in my mind, he’s trying to knock me unconscious to be able to drag me over... I just was screaming then.”

Defense’s Story

• Ariel attacked first, tried to push Gerhardt and strike him with a rock.

The FaceTime Call

• After fleeing, Dr. Koenig FaceTimes his son Emil, seen "bloody."
• Disputed meaning: Prosecution says it’s a confession; defense says he expressed despair, not guilt.

Alleged Motive

• Marital discord, suspicions of an "emotional affair" on Ariel’s part.

Memorable Testimony & Quotes

• Ariel Koenig describing attack ([08:36–09:12]):
  “My back was to the cliff, and he’s facing me and the cliff ... [He] grabbed me really forcefully by my upper arms. And he said, ‘I’m so sick of this. Get back over there.’ And he starts pushing me back towards the cliff... I threw myself onto the ground because there’s a lot of trees and shrubs there so that I could hold on.”

• On threats during attack ([09:18–09:44]):
  “I’m screaming, and he’s telling me, ‘Shut the up. Nobody’s—nobody’s gonna hear you out here. Nobody’s coming to save you.’ … ‘You can’t do this. Everyone knows we’re on a hike. They’ll know this wasn’t an accident and our kids will be orphans.’”

• On the alleged emotional affair ([09:55–10:03]):
  Attorney: “Did you ever have sex with Jeffrey Miller?”
  Ariel: “No.”
  Attorney: “In these messages, did you flirt with Jeffrey Miller?”
  Ariel: “Yes. Some of them were flirty in nature.”

Cross-Examination

• Focused on minimizing injury severity—no skull or facial fractures, discharged the next day.

• Quote ([10:54–11:05]):
  Attorney: “You did not have any skull fractures, correct?”
  Ariel: “That’s correct.”
  Attorney: “No facial fractures, correct?”
  Ariel: “That’s correct.”

Trial Outlook

• Proceedings expected through mid-April; Dr. Koenig may testify.

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Mississippi Dad on Trial for Murder: The Retrial of Jeffrey Spence

[13:33–21:40]

The Murder of Kirby Carpenter

• Victim: Kirby Carpenter, 36, Marine vet, father, rare metals dealer
• Accused: Jeffrey Spence (girlfriend Caitlyn’s father), with Caitlyn and her mother initially charged
• Background: Caitlyn and Kirby had a young daughter. Caitlyn’s parents visited from Virginia before Kirby was found shot in his driveway (Nov 30, 2022).
• Key evidence: Caitlyn and her mother took plea deals; Caitlyn testifies against Jeffrey.

Key Discussion Points

Retrial Moves Counties

• To secure neutral, uninformed jurors due to local publicity.

Motive and Evidence

• Alleged motive: Money—suspicious silver coins found with Jeffrey Spence.
• Prosecution claim: Jeffrey drove back from Virginia to commit the murder.

Caitlyn’s Testimony

• She says she learned of her dad’s involvement months later at a waterfall.

• Quote ([18:35–19:00]):
  “I asked him if he had anything to do with Kirby’s death. He turned aggressive and very short ... He said that he did what he had to do, that the less I knew, the better ... He said that I shouldn’t look a gift horse in the mouth.”

• Caitlyn was not physically present at the murder (seen on Walmart surveillance).

Defense Strategy

• No direct evidence placing Jeff Spence at the scene, timeline in doubt.
• New in retrial: Implication that Kirby’s own family or other third parties could be responsible, including those who owed him money or previously threatened him.
• Quote ([21:11]):
  “There are so many people who had motive, who had opportunity to kill Kirby Carter, so many people who wanted to see him walk.” —Defense Attorney

Ongoing Action

• Caitlyn expected to testify again; jury being asked to consider alternate suspects.

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Dateline Roundup: New Verdicts and Cold Case Arrests

[23:42–29:48]

Utah Nurse Trial — Megan Sundwall

[23:59–26:27]

• Case: Megan Sundwall accused of murdering best friend Kayce Terry via insulin overdose (Kayce did not have cancer as believed).
• Prosecution: Claimed Megan sought life insurance payout, not a mercy killing.
• Defense: No proof Megan administered insulin; possible suicide.
• Verdict:

  • Not guilty of murder.

  • Guilty of assisting in suicide (second-degree felony).

  • Quote ([25:19]):
    Defense Attorney: “Our system requires proof, not just a good stringing together of suspicious looking things... Reasonable doubt comes from lack of evidence, lack of proof.”

New York — Megan McDonald Cold Case

[26:27–27:48]

• Victim: Megan McDonald, 20, murdered in 2003
• Suspect: Ex-boyfriend Edward Hawley, indicted in 2024, second trial concluded after 14 days of deliberation
• Outcome: Acquitted
• Quote ([27:33]):
  Edward Hawley: “It’s only right for me to be a free man. I didn’t do anything. I should have never been in jail.”

Iowa Realtor Murder — Ashley Oakland

[28:09–29:36]

• Victim: Ashley Oakland, realtor, shot at open house in 2011
• Break in Case: Arrest of Kristin Ramsey, surprising many in the community
• Ramsey’s Connection: Employee at Iowa Realty; started months after Ashley’s murder
• Quote ([29:03]):
  Marissa Meyer: “Investigators really haven’t shared much information ... Iowa Realty told NBC News ... they were shocked that Ramsey was the person who had been arrested.”

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Realtor Safety: Carl Carter’s Tips After Iowa Arrest

[29:53–34:53]

Carl Carter’s Story

• Mother, Beverly Carter: Top-selling Arkansas realtor kidnapped and murdered in 2014 by a “client”
• Carl’s Response: Founded Beverly Carter Foundation to educate and protect realtors.

Discussion Points & Practical Advice

Realtor Vulnerability

• Crimes against realtors occur regularly—affecting both women and men.
• “Everyone, I think, has risk that associated with this industry ... working alone.” —Carl Carter ([31:38])

Concrete Safety Tips

• Know Your Client: Verify identity before meeting.
• Meet Publicly: First meeting should be in public places.
• Check Cellphone: Battery and signal before appointments.
• Surveillance Tools: Use Alexa, Ring Doorbells for accountability, and mention their presence to clients.
• Wearables: Discreet emergency devices (like InvisiWear) can send alerts—“just a little pin behind my necktie” ([34:08]).
• Tech Tools: Systems like Forewarn allow instant background checks via phone numbers.

Resources

• beverlycarterfoundation.org
• National Association of Realtors safety resources

Memorable Moment

• Carl Carter's personal mission:
  “It’s my honor.” ([34:53]) —on keeping agents safe after his mother’s tragic death.

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Notable Quotes at a Glance

• “In my mind, he’s trying to knock me unconscious…” —Ariel Koenig, [03:25]
• “I’m so sick of this. Get back over there.” —(Ariel quoting Gerhardt), [08:42]
• “He said I shouldn’t look a gift horse in the mouth.” —Caitlyn Spence, [18:35]
• “Our system requires proof, not just a good stringing together of suspicious looking things.” —Utah defense attorney, [25:19]
• "It’s only right for me to be a free man." —Edward Hawley, [27:33]

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Conclusion

This episode spotlights the emotional toll of crime on families, the complexities of evidence and motive, and the vital need for safety in high-risk professions. True Crime Weekly remains a go-to resource for in-depth analysis, direct testimony, and practical insight for those passionate about real-life mysteries and justice.

Transcript

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[Rachel White]

Hey, good morning, everybody.

[Andrea Canning]

You're listening to the DATELINE story meeting.

[Interviewer]

Let's jump right in here.

[Andrea Canning]

Our producers are catching up on breaking crime news. Any indication on motive?

[Interviewer]

Nothing yet.

[Marissa Meyer]

They were looking at all of the

[Ariel Koenig]

cases that detective had been on because

[Marissa Meyer]

she had deleted one or two pieces of evidence.

[Andrea Canning]

A lot of it happens after they

[Ariel Koenig]

figure out who it is.

[Ryan Reynolds]

Really.

[Andrea Canning]

Welcome to DATELINE True Crime Weekly. I'm Andrea Canning. It's March 26, and here's what's on our docket. Family drama in a Mississippi courtroom as a man accused of murdering his daughter's boyfriend stands trial for a second time and his daughter is the prosecution's star witness.

[Rachel White]

The last time that Caitlin testified, she said she started questioning her dad and he basically told her not to look a gift horse in the mouth.

[Andrea Canning]

In DATELINE Roundup, we're on verdict watch in the trial of the Utah nurse accused of poisoning her best friend. And 15 years after the murder of an Iowa realtor, news of an arrest.

[Marissa Meyer]

They were shocked that Ramsey was the person who had been arrested.

[Andrea Canning]

Plus, how can realtors protect themselves? We've got some safety tips.

[Carl Carter]

It's just a little pin behind my necktie. I can be pushing it. Sending an alert to the authorities to tell them, hey, I need help.

[Andrea Canning]

Before all that, we're heading to a courtroom in Honolulu where an anesthesiologist is on trial for attempting to murder his wife with a rock. On the morning of March 24, 2025, a woman's cries for help pierced the quiet of the Pali Puka Trail, a scenic and sometimes treacherous hike overlooking Oahu. Two hikers raced toward the noise and Saw a man beating a woman with a rock. They called 911. Hi. Someone's currently being attacked on the top of Paulipuka where there's a man trying to kill her. She has blood all over her face. The man fled and the hikers helped the woman, Ariel Koenig, down the TR trail. After an hours long manhunt, police found her alleged attacker at the edge of the forest. It was her husband, Dr. Gerhardt Koenig. Now, Dr. Koenig is on trial in a Honolulu courtroom accused of second degree attempted murder. He has pleaded not guilty and his defense says the story is much more complicated. They say far from being a victim, Ariel is the one who attacked Gerhardt first. On Tuesday, exactly one year since the attack, jurors got to hear from Ariel as she took the stand to tell her story of that morning and what led up to it.

[Ariel Koenig]

I just started screaming because I. In my mind he's trying to knock me unconscious to get to be able to drag me over that. I just was screaming then.

[Andrea Canning]

Here to bring us the latest from the courtroom is Hawaii News now anchor and reporter Mihailani Richardson. Welcome back, Mahealani.

[Mihailani Richardson]

Aloha, Andrew. Good to see you.

[Andrea Canning]

Before we get to this story, there's been severe flooding impacting Honolulu this past week. I hope you all are staying safe. I know you're covering that as well.

[Mihailani Richardson]

That's right. And actually the judge in the Koenig trial, he thanked the jurors for coming to trial because every single juror has been able to make it to court despite the flooding.

[Andrea Canning]

Amazing. So to start, Mahealani, tell us about the relationship between Gerhardt and Ariel Koenig. They've been married since 2018. Two young sons together living in Maui.

[Mihailani Richardson]

That's right. They live in Kahului, Maui. And they also have a 19 year old stepson. That's her stepson, his son, Emile Koenig from a previous marriage. Emile was also living with them as well.

[Andrea Canning]

And this is a successful couple, right? I mean, Gerhardt was, was an anesthesiologist, former medical school professor. Ariel worked at a nuclear engineering company.

[Mihailani Richardson]

That's right. Highly successful, highly educated. It was this dreamlike situation. She was able to work from home while Dr. Koenig was an anesthesiologist, going to different hospitals on Maui.

[Andrea Canning]

The prosecution and defense, they presented very different theories as to what happened that day. Take us through the sequence of events the prosecutor outlined to the jury during his opening statements.

[Mihailani Richardson]

Well, the prosecutor said that they went up this trail, the Palipuka trail. It's not a very far hike to get up to. And the prosecutor said that Ariel did not want to be there. She felt this unease in being there. And that's what led to this whole confrontation. Or it was an attack, as the prosecutor calls it.

[Attorney]

And then as Ariel's moving down the trail to safely get by the defendant at this narrow spot with the cliff behind her, the defendant pushes her backwards towards that cliff. They start wrestling, they start struggling, they start fighting.

[Andrea Canning]

And he had a syringe in his hand.

[Mihailani Richardson]

That's right. Ariel Koenig in her testimony said that in the middle of this alleged attack, he pulled out a syringe and tried to stab her with it. And that he also reached into his bag and pulled out a vial. And so at the this point, we don't know what was in that vial. The syringe and the vial were never found by police.

[Andrea Canning]

The prosecution at least is thinking the theory is that, you know, the, the syringe came first and then she knocks it out of his hand. So then he moves on to a rock.

[Mihailani Richardson]

That's right. She told police that she was hit multiple times by this rock, a jagged lava rock, about 10 times. The defense said that she was hit twice.

[Andrea Canning]

The prosecutor said Gerhardt called his older son Emil after he ran off into the forest. What's important about that phone call?

[Mihailani Richardson]

Well, it is very important, Andrea, because at this point it's becoming a he said, she said in a violent attack. Who attacked who? Who started it? This was a FaceTime call and apparently Dr. Koenig was seen on camera and his son saw him bloody. We haven't heard from Emil yet. But According to prosecutors, doctor, Dr. Koenig confessed to trying to kill his wife and he was very depressed about it. But according to the defense, it was not a confession and that he was depressed that they had gotten into the situation and that he wanted to end his own life by jumping off the cliff.

[Andrea Canning]

Oh my goodness. This is Gerhardt's own son who's going to have to testify against him. That's a lot. So what is the prosecution's alleged motive for the attack?

[Mihailani Richardson]

The two of them had been working on their marriage and leading up to the incident they had been going through couples counseling. He had concerns that she had this so called emotional affair with her married co worker. And the prosecution is basically saying that this fueled this rage in Dr. Koenig.

[Andrea Canning]

The defense of course presented a very different version of what happened.

[Mihailani Richardson]

That's right. The defense repeatedly has said that this was an attack instigated by Ariel Koenig. That Ariel Koenig tried to push Gerhardt first and that she tried to hit him with the rock.

[Andrea Canning]

So that was the long buildup to Ariel's testimony on Tuesday. What was your impression of her as she took the stand? I mean, she's facing off with the man she says tried to kill her.

[Mihailani Richardson]

Well, she was very stoic from the moment she walked into that courtroom. She looked straight toward where she was supposed to go. She sat down, all eyes were on her, and she just looked straight ahead.

[Ariel Koenig]

My name is Arielle Koenig.

[Mihailani Richardson]

And she answered the questions very clearly and concisely.

[Andrea Canning]

Let's take a listen to some of that testimony.

[Ariel Koenig]

My back was to the cliff, and he's facing me and the cliff.

[Attorney]

What happened next?

[Ariel Koenig]

When I walk up to him, then he grabbed me really forcefully by my upper arms. And he said, I'm so sick of this. Get back over there. And he starts pushing me back towards the cliff.

[Andrea Canning]

Ariel says it really felt like Gerhardt was almost kidding at first. And then for her, she says it turned into a matter of life and death very quickly.

[Mihailani Richardson]

That's right. She says that she was only 10ft or less to that cliff, which drops hundreds of feet.

[Ariel Koenig]

I threw myself onto the ground because there's a lot of trees and shrubs there so that I could hold on.

[Attorney]

Can you tell us what you remember he said as he was on top of you?

[Ariel Koenig]

Yeah, I'm screaming, and he's telling me, shut the up. Nobody's. Nobody's gonna hear you out here. Nobody's coming to save you. And I'm saying, like, you can't do this. Everyone knows we're on a hike. They'll know this wasn't an accident and our kids will be orphans.

[Andrea Canning]

She talks about this relationship with Jeffrey Miller, the guy from work, and she really downplays it. You know, she's saying, yes, I talked to him, but I, you know, it wasn't at all like, anything bad.

[Mihailani Richardson]

Right.

[Attorney]

Did you ever have sex with Jeffrey Miller?

[Ariel Koenig]

No.

[Attorney]

In these messages, did you flirt with Jeffrey Miller?

[Ariel Koenig]

Yes. Some of them were flirty in nature.

[Andrea Canning]

How did Gerhardt find out about Ariel's this emotional affair?

[Mihailani Richardson]

Well, he logged onto her WhatsApp, and he found that there was this long conversation, and Ariel described an angry confrontation.

[Attorney]

You say angry upset. Can you describe what he said to you?

[Interviewer]

Yeah.

[Ariel Koenig]

Called me a lying bitch. You're a whore. You know, how could you do this sort of thing?

[Andrea Canning]

How did the defense handle Ariel? On cross examination, the defense asked very

[Mihailani Richardson]

pointed questions every single time about the truthfulness of her answers.

[Andrea Canning]

The defense questioned her on just how serious her injury really was after the incident.

[Mihailani Richardson]

The defense said that the laceration on her head, though it looked bad on the pictures, it actually was not as severe and it just bleeds a lot.

[Attorney]

You did not have any skull fractures, correct?

[Ariel Koenig]

That's correct. No skull fracture?

[Attorney]

Yeah. No facial fractures, correct?

[Ariel Koenig]

That's correct. No, no fracture on my face.

[Attorney]

You were discharged the next day, correct?

[Ariel Koenig]

Yes, sir.

[Andrea Canning]

Interesting. How long do we can we expect this trial to go on for?

[Mihailani Richardson]

Well, we expect the trial to go on until mid April. We potentially can expect to hear from Dr. Koenig himself. He is on the witness list for the defense.

[Andrea Canning]

Yeah. Well, since he's claiming self defense, you know, jurors like to hear, you know, a firsthand account of that. We'll see what happens. Mahalani, thank you so much for bringing us this story all the way from Hawaii. We love hearing Aloha at the top of our stories. It's very special. Thank you.

[Mihailani Richardson]

Mahalo, Andrea. It's good to see you again.

[Andrea Canning]

Coming up, a man accused of murdering his daughter's boyfriend stands trial for a second time and his defense team has a bold new strategy.

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On November 30, 2022, father and local businessman Kirby Carpenter was shot and killed outside his home in Tippa County, Mississippi. He was just 36 years old. For nearly a year, the murder went unsolved. Then on the one year anniversary of his death, investigators arrested Kirby's girlfriend, Caitlin Spence, along with her parents, Jeffrey and Karen. All three pleaded not guilty. Then in a sudden change of heart before their trial, Caitlyn and her mother, Karen took a plea deal, leaving Jeffrey to face a jury alone. Caitlyn testified against her father for the prosecution. Father told you that he was responsible

[Attorney]

for Kirby Carmen's death, correct?

[Rachel White]

Yes.

[Andrea Canning]

But after four and a half hours of deliberation, jurors could not reach a verdict. A judge declared a mistrial. This week, prosecutors are trying the case again. Jeffrey Spence is on trial in a new courthouse in a different county. DATELINE producer Rachel White, who attended the first trial, is back to tell us what else might be different this time around. Welcome back, Rachel.

[Rachel White]

Thanks, Andrea.

[Andrea Canning]

So first thing, why the move to a new county for this new trial?

[Rachel White]

So the judge ordered the retrial to be moved. They were looking for jurors who didn't know details about the crime or the case. And the case has gotten a lot of local attention. So now we're in Calhoun County.

[Andrea Canning]

What is the atmosphere like in the courtroom?

[Rachel White]

Kirby's family members that are in the courtroom have been emotional. I think there are a lot of things that are hard to hear. And there are also, you know, photos from the crime scene that I think are really devastating for them to have to look at.

[Andrea Canning]

So before we get to the opening statements, let's remind people of what happened here. Tell us about Kirby.

[Rachel White]

Sure. So Kirby Carpenter was 36 years old. He was a Marine Corps vet, a father of two young children, and by all accounts a very successful businessman. He worked as a rare metals dealer and often handled cash, gold, silver, things like that.

[Andrea Canning]

And Kirby's relationship with Caitlin Spence, his girlfriend, is really central to this case. Explain how they met and how her family became a part of his life.

[Rachel White]

Yeah, sure. So Caitlin and Kirby began dating in 2020, and they had a daughter together in July of 2022. And around that same time, Caitlin's parents, Jeff and Karen Spence, came from Virginia, where they lived, to help them with the baby. They stayed for several months before returning to their home on November 29, 2022, which day before Kirby was murdered.

[Andrea Canning]

Okay, so walk us through what investigators say happened the day Kirby was killed.

[Rachel White]

So investigators say that Kirby arrived back at his house after going to the grocery store and he was shot twice. Once in the neck and once in the chest. And then his body was dragged to the side of his carport in the driveway. And then two days later, on December 2nd, Kaitlyn Spence called 911 and reported finding Kirby's body.

[Andrea Canning]

It took a year, but detectives, the investigation eventually leads them to Caitlyn and her parents. They're saying that they are involved in this?

[Rachel White]

Yes. So that information came to police from a former employee, someone that Kirby knew told police that while he was at Kirby's funeral, Caitlyn allegedly said something to him along the lines of daddy killed Kirby, speaking about Jeff Spence.

[Andrea Canning]

But Rachel, you just said that Jeffrey Spence had already gone home to Virginia the day before Kirby's death. That's 500 miles away. Is that possible that he was the killer?

[Rachel White]

So prosecutors say that Jeff Spence did drive home to Virginia, leaving Kirby and Caitlin's home, but then he drove back to Mississippi to kill Kirby. As promotive, the prosecution alleges that it was really about money. A few days after the shooting, when Jeffrey Spence was in Mississippi, Kirby's side of the family say they noticed something suspicious. They called the sheriff's department to report finding bags of silver coins belonging to Kirby in Jeff's Spence's vehicle.

[Andrea Canning]

We mentioned that Caitlyn and her mom took plea deals. How did that come about, Rachel?

[Rachel White]

So Caitlyn pleaded guilty to being an accessory after the fact to capital murder. And her mother, Karen Spence entered an Alford plea to charges of being an accessory after the fact, degree and larceny. Now, an Alford plea is not her pleading guilty. She's just saying the prosecutor has enough evidence to convict her and she's received a suspended sentence and is now on probation.

[Andrea Canning]

Are Caitlyn and her mom saying that they knew that the dad had done this?

[Rachel White]

That's not exactly what they're saying. So the last time that Caitlin testified, she said that she did not know that her dad had killed Kirby until many months later when they had this conversation at a waterfall near her parents property.

[Interviewer]

I asked him if he had anything to do with Kirby's death. He turned aggressive and very short with me. He said that he did what he had to do, that the less I knew, the better he said. He said that I shouldn't lick a gift horse in the mouth.

[Andrea Canning]

How did you take this conversation with

[Dr. Horton Announcer]

respect to Kirby's death, that he was

[Interviewer]

confessing to me that he had killed Kirby.

[Andrea Canning]

So she is in trouble because she didn't say anything. Like, why does she have to take a plea deal? Like, was she in on the planning? Sounds like she wasn't, right?

[Rachel White]

I mean, we don't know. One of the reasons that investigators are sure that Caitlin wasn't the one who pulled the trigger is because she was actually on security video at a local Walmart in the parking lot with her daughter at the time that they believe that Kirby was killed. So they know that she couldn't have been involved in the actual murder.

[Andrea Canning]

So. So Caitlin testified against her dad, and that trial last fall still ended without a verdict. Rachel, the defense must have put up a good fight.

[Rachel White]

They focused on, you know, common sense arguments. They told the jury that there was no physical evidence placing Jeff Spence at the scene. And they said that the timeline just didn't add up. They said that the prosecution didn't prove that he drove back to Mississippi like they said that he had.

[Andrea Canning]

Okay, so mistrial was in September. Retrial is happening right now. Opening statements got underway on Tuesday. An assistant DA was up for the prosecution. What did he ask the jury to pay attention to? And did you notice anything different?

[Rachel White]

So he laid out just what the jury can expect to hear from prosecutors, and he said that they would prove that Jeff Spence made that drive back to Mississippi to kill Kirby Carpenter.

[Attorney]

Jeff Spence's defenses. Hey, I wasn't there. I left on the 29th. We'll prove otherwise.

[Andrea Canning]

The defense also had their opening statements. Anything new from them?

[Rachel White]

Well, the team itself is new. So Jeff Spence is now being represented by a new set of attorneys. And, you know, just like his defense at the first trial, they say there's no proof that Jeff was at the scene when Kirby was murdered. What felt new this time, though, is that they said, you know, things about Kirby's family that they might have been the ones who wanted to steal from him. And that definitely wasn't a part of the trial last time. They really also leaned into alternate suspects, including someone that they say owed Kirby money and had threatened him 24 hours before he was killed. And they also brought up another man who allegedly threatened to shoot Kirby.

[Defense Attorney]

There are so many people who had motive, who had opportunity to kill Kirby Carter, so many people who wanted to see him walk.

[Andrea Canning]

Those people were never, ever investigated. Rachel, can we assume Caitlyn will testify again? She's such a. A key player in all of this.

[Rachel White]

We don't know what day, but Attorneys for both the prosecution and the defense mentioned her in their openings and said that we'd hear from her.

[Andrea Canning]

Okay, Rachel, thank you. We will keep an eye on this as the trial moves along.

[Rachel White]

Thanks, Andrea.

[Andrea Canning]

Up next, it's time for Dateline Roundup. A jury decides the fate of the Utah nurse accused of murdering her best friend. And 15 years after an Iowa realtor was shot dead at an open house, there's been an arrest. Plus, what can real estate agents do to stay safe? We talked to one Realtor who's made it his mission to get agents the training and tools they need to protect themselves.

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[Andrea Canning]

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[Kelly Clarkson]

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[Rachel White]

Uh, little to the left.

[Marissa Meyer]

No, wait.

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[Kelly Clarkson]

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[Marissa Meyer]

That sofa was four days old.

[Kelly Clarkson]

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[Andrea Canning]

It was a sofa.

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[Andrea Canning]

Wayfair Every style, every home. Welcome back. Joining me for this week's roundup is Dateline producer Marissa Meyer. Thanks for being here, Marissa.

[Marissa Meyer]

Thank you for having me, Andrea.

[Andrea Canning]

Okay, so first up, we are headed to Provo, Utah, for a story that you brought us last week. Marissa. This is the case of Megan Sundwall, the former nurse on trial for allegedly murdering her best friend, Kayce Terry. Remind us of the details of that case.

[Marissa Meyer]

Yes. So Casey Terry died in August of 2024, and her friends and family believed that she was terminally ill with cancer. But investigators soon learned she didn't actually have cancer, and she died from an insulin overdose. The prosecutors are alleging that her best friend, Megan Sunwall, poisoned her because Megan believed she was the beneficiary of Casey's life insurance policy.

[Andrea Canning]

Yeah, this is a very twisted case. What is new since the last time we talked about it?

[Marissa Meyer]

Closing arguments took place on Monday, and the prosecutor pushed back on the defense's theory that Megan was helping her friend fulfill a wish to die by suicide. It was not a best friend merely helping out her other best friend in the whole world. This was control. And the person who was in control during that entire time frame sits at that table.

[Andrea Canning]

Megan Sundwal. What did the defense have to say?

[Marissa Meyer]

So Megan's defense attorney said again and again that there's simply no proof that Megan was the one who killed Casey.

[Defense Attorney]

Our system requires proof, not just a good stringing together of suspicious looking things. Suspicious looking words, reasonable doubt. Comes from lack of evidence. Lack of proof.

[Marissa Meyer]

And he argued that based on the glucometer readings, it very well could have been Casey who gave herself the fatal dose of insulin. And for anyone who doesn't know what a glucometer is, Because I didn't before I started covering this case.

[Andrea Canning]

Yeah, me neither.

[Marissa Meyer]

It's a. It's a portable medical device that essentially measures the amount of sugar in your bl.

[Defense Attorney]

There is no evidence that anything was injected after Casey Terry was unconscious, so it is unequivocal in this case. KC Terry could have done anything that was the cause of her death herself.

[Andrea Canning]

The case went to the jury on Monday afternoon. Have they reached a verdict?

[Marissa Meyer]

Yes. They found Megan Sudwell not guilty of murder, but they did find her guilty of assisting Kayce Terry in the commission of suicide, which is a second degree felony.

[Andrea Canning]

For our next story, we are going to Hudson Valley, which is in upstate New York. And a jury deliberated for 14 days before returning a verdict in the retrial of a man named Edward Hawley for the murder of his ex girlfriend, Megan McDonald. So, Marissa, this is a story the podcast covered a while ago, but just remind us about the details.

[Marissa Meyer]

So back In March of 2003, Megan McDonald is 20 years old. Her friends say that they saw her at a party, but that she left to go look for her ex boyfriend, Edward Holly. Megan's body was found two days later on a dirt path. She'd been bludgeoned to death.

[Andrea Canning]

Marissa the investigation didn't lead to an arrest until 20 years later when police arrested Edward Hawley. He was indicted for second degree murder in 2024. Last year on the podcast, we covered his first trial, which ended in a hung jury. In January, his second trial got underway. Days and days go by. As we said, 14 days before the jury returned its verdict. What did the jurors decide?

[Marissa Meyer]

They acquitted Edward Hawley.

[Andrea Canning]

Hmm. And we should say Edward Hawley spoke out. He told the Mid Hudson News, quote, it's only right for me to be a free man. I didn't do anything. I should have never been in jail. What did Megan's family have to say about the verdict?

[Marissa Meyer]

So they posted a statement on the justice for Megan McDonald Facebook page. They thanked the prosecutors and said, after decades of seeking the truth, we now have the answer to who took Megan from us. So it seems like it is, you know, some kind of closure for them.

[Andrea Canning]

Yeah. For our final story, we're off to West Des Moines, Iowa, where there's major news in the 2011 murder of 27 year old realtor Ashley Oakland. Marissa, tell us about that case.

[Marissa Meyer]

So this is a really interesting case. Andrea Ashley was fatally shot while working in an open house in a townhouse development in West Des Moines. And the case went cold for many, many years despite hundreds of leads that had come in. Then in 2024, the Iowa Attorney general launched a cold case unit and last year, new detectives got onto the case. That brings us to last week when Police announced that 53 year old Kristin Ramsey had been arrested and charged with Ashley's burner. And Ramsey has yet to enter a plea in this case.

[Andrea Canning]

So this came out of the blue for a lot of people. What do we know about Kristen Ramsey?

[Marissa Meyer]

Yeah. So investigators really haven't shared much information at this time, but we know that at the time of her murder, Ashley was working as an agent with a firm called Iowa Realty. And at the time of the arrest last week, Kristin Ramsey was working for a subsidiary of Iowa Realty and she had started there a few months after Ashley's death. Iowa Realty told NBC News in a statement that they were relieved for Ashley's family that there had been an arrest in the case, but were shocked that Ramsey was the person who had been arrested.

[Andrea Canning]

Kristen Ramsey's next court date is scheduled for early April and we will make sure to follow along as the case progresses. Marissa, thank you very much for that update and for all the updates.

[Marissa Meyer]

Thank you so much, Andrea.

[Andrea Canning]

For our final story, I wanted to talk to someone who's been on my mind a lot ever since I heard about the arrest made in the case of murdered Iowa realtor Ashley o', Neill, Oakland, and his name is Carl Carter. I first met Carl more than a decade ago, reporting on a Dateline episode called the Client, which told the story of another murdered realtor, Carl's mom, Beverly.

[Carl Carter]

I'm texting her, I'm calling her, and I. I can't. I can't get any response.

[Andrea Canning]

In 2014, Beverly was one of the top selling realtors in Little Rock, Arkansas, when she was kidnapped and murdered by a man posing as a new client, Aaron Lewis. Lewis and his wife Crystal were eventually convicted of kidnapping and capital murder charges in connection to Beverly's murder. Ever since his mother's death, Carl, who is a realtor himself, has been determined to do what he can to keep realtors safe. He set up the Beverly Carter foundation, an organization dedicated to training realtors about the potential dangers they face and the tools they can use to protect themselves. And Carl is here now to share some of those tips. And, and we're so grateful to have you on. Carl, it's good to see you again.

[Carl Carter]

It's always, always good to see you. What a tough time. I mean, for all of us that know of Ashley's story. And I, you know, through the work that I've done with a nonprofit, you know, have befriended people that were close to Ashley. And so, you know, for a case that I think many of us had just accepted that there was probably not going to be closure.

[Rachel White]

Yeah.

[Andrea Canning]

And then suddenly, suddenly we have this arrest. It's a ripple effect for all of the realtors around the country when something like this happens. And you know that all too well. Realtors and these kinds of crimes, it's more common than people might realize.

[Carl Carter]

Absolutely. I mean, there are, you know, countless agents that I've met across the country, and it doesn't just fit one particular profile of a person that's going to be victimized. Everyone, I think, has risk that associated with this industry, that these precious people are working alone.

[Andrea Canning]

Yeah. I mean, secluded areas sometimes, not always. The best cell service everywhere can be at nighttime. And we should say, carl, this isn't just an issue for women. It happens to men, too. In the business.

[Carl Carter]

It does. There have been just in the past couple of years, several men realtors that were killed while doing the work. Through the years, I've met many, many men that have been either assaulted or assaulted and robbed.

[Andrea Canning]

What tips do you. Do you give realtors?

[Carl Carter]

Well, you know, just thinking about my precious mom, you know, the. The number one thing that I always go to is try to find out who you're working with. What have you done to verify their identity as best you can, ensure that they are actually interested and have the means to purchase a.

[Andrea Canning]

And, Carl, I know you talk about meet in a public place first.

[Carl Carter]

Absolutely.

[Andrea Canning]

Always check your cell phone battery and signal before heading to an appointment. Technology has really stepped up with other things you can do to stay safe.

[Carl Carter]

There are things like the Alexa devices or the ring doorbells. So those add a layer of surveillance, but they also add accountability. You know, I've had agents say, everything's been fine. We've shown multiple properties, and suddenly starting to just get that we know feeling in your stomach. And so they'll say, hey, just want to be mindful of the fact that I read in the property description that this home has recording devices. And so just that kind of little ping of accountability to that person would hopefully, you know, deter some.

[Andrea Canning]

They might think twice about what they're about to do if. If they're thinking, oh, is there a chance that there's a camera in here?

[Carl Carter]

But I also love up just some of these wearable devices that you can be even more discreet. So it looks like jewelry. Or there's one that's. It's just a little pin. And so I can put it, you know, behind my necktie, and I could be pushing it, sending an alert to my support group or, you know, the authorities to tell them, hey, I need help.

[Andrea Canning]

We should say what you were talking about, you know, with behind your tie or a piece of jewelry. It's called invisiware. And also there's a. There's a system called Forewarn. What is it, Carl?

[Carl Carter]

So it simply. It is. You take a phone number and it does a reverse lookup, and it hits a ton of databases based on, you know, this data. Are they who they say they are?

[Andrea Canning]

So, you know, if. If people want to get these tips, what should they do?

[Carl Carter]

So. Beverlycarterfoundation.org but also, there's a treasure trove of resources through the national association of Realtors. They have an ongoing safety committee.

[Andrea Canning]

Fantastic. Carl, thank you for doing this interview and for all you're doing to save lives of other real estate agents. Thank you.

[Carl Carter]

It's my honor.

[Andrea Canning]

That's it for this episode of Dateline. True Crime Weekly. If you're looking for a show to binge this weekend, we've got the podcast for you. All six episodes of Josh's original podcast series Trace of Suspicion are out now. If you haven't listened yet. It's a story about the mysterious death of a marine and his widow widow's eyebrow raising behavior and the investigation that followed. There are some twists you won't see coming. You can get that for free wherever you get your podcasts. And if you want to listen without ads, subscribe to Dateline Premium. Thanks for listening. Dateline True Crime Weekly is produced by Carson Cummins, Caroline Casey and Keani Reed. Our associate producers are Ellery Gladstone Groth and Aria Young. Our senior producer is Liz Brown Kurloff production and fact checking help by Audrey Abraham. Veronica Mazeka is our digital producer. Rick Kwan is our sound designer. Original Music by Jesse McGinty Paul Ryan is executive producer and Liz Kuhl is senior executive producer of Dateline. Have a great day everybody.

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