Transcript

A (0:08)

The following podcast is a Dear Media production.

B (0:10)

Hello, and welcome back to your favorite podcast, de Influenced. I wish y' all could have seen moments before this. Jordan was rearranging. Oh, yeah. If you're watching this on video, we have a different set background.

A (0:22)

It's actually just the left side of our set.

B (0:24)

Left side of our set. But it was really cute because Jordan went and got all of the my awards from downstairs in my office, and he wanted to display them behind me. And so we have our ey. Entrepreneurship Entrepreneur of the Year. That was a American Influencer award. Not to start this episode just bragging, but, you know, JP Morgan, female founder, Emerging Brand of the year. That was 2025, I believe.

A (0:55)

Wow.

B (0:55)

But you know what's so funny is it's a lot of accomplishment, but. Oh, wait. Oh. Ink 500.

A (1:01)

You still feel hollow?

B (1:03)

No, I was gonna say I feel like my biggest accomplishment is you.

A (1:06)

Oh, so nice.

B (1:07)

I know.

A (1:08)

Who put you up to saying that?

B (1:10)

I really. I felt it in my heart.

A (1:11)

Wow. I believe you.

B (1:13)

I was like. I really did. Well, I was gonna say my kids first, but then I was like, he's here.

A (1:18)

I might as well say him.

B (1:19)

No, but I actually feel like that just came because you were around, but, like, I had to choose you. Like, that was something I, like, did.

A (1:27)

Right.

B (1:27)

Like, I, like, made that decision, and I did good.

A (1:30)

I've also been making you laugh a lot lately.

B (1:32)

Summary

De-Influenced with Dani + Jordan

Episode: Dani is Starting to Warm Up to Nashville

Release Date: April 30, 2026
Host: Dear Media
Hosts: Dani & Jordan

Episode Overview

In this candid and playful episode, Dani and Jordan dive into their evolving feelings about the possibility of moving to Nashville, Tennessee. The couple discuss the cultural contrasts between Dallas and Nashville, sharing honest reflections on parenting, marriage dynamics, and their life in the public eye. They open up about logistical challenges, emotional growth in their relationship, and the impact of community and family values. The episode balances laugh-out-loud anecdotes with genuine relationship insights, making it a relatable listen for anyone navigating marriage, parenthood, or community changes.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Marriage Dynamics: Humor, Sensitivity, and Growth

The episode opens with playful banter about Dani’s business awards, segueing into a conversation about marriage and how their relationship evolved from sensitivity and conflict to humor and stability.
Memorable Moment: Dani jokingly says her biggest accomplishment is Jordan—“I feel like my biggest accomplishment is you.” (01:03)
They discuss relationship roles, their personalities, and the skills—and patience—it takes to manage “big emotions.”
Quote: “Your family doesn’t like sensitive people. You guys were not raised to be sensitive.” – Jordan (01:37)
Quote: “If I die, you can remarry, but I want you to marry someone really mousy... not funny, no edge, just nice.” – Dani (02:10)
They address their improved ability to handle disagreement, giving each other grace and space.
Quote: “It’s not about who’s right. It’s about how I make you feel.” – Jordan (14:00)
Marriage Tip: Jordan explains that learning to be emotionally sturdy, as opposed to reactive, helped his marriage. He credits a metaphor about men being the “concrete wall” and women the “waves” (21:30).

2. Parenting: The Chaos and the Comedy

Dani shares her typically “spaghetti brain” approach to planning while organizing a birthday party for their son, Stratton, without professional help (05:38).
They describe the juggling act of entertaining and parenting four children, especially on weekends.
- Quote: “Do you ever feel like the weekends just feel like war?” – Jordan (09:25)
Dani elaborates on how she struggles with logistics and juggling social obligations, wanting guests to always feel comfortable (07:20).
There’s humor in their honest depiction of parenting fatigue and “survival mode.”
They reflect on their community of friends and the changing nature of adult friendships as families grow.

3. Community, Culture, and Considering Nashville

The central theme arises mid-episode as Dani and Jordan weigh the prospects of moving from Dallas to Nashville.
They describe God moments, signs, and experiences in Nashville that made them feel welcome—including an elderly woman at Jason’s Deli telling them, “God is proud of y’all.” (37:21)
The couple remark on the warmth, family orientation, and genuine culture of Nashville vs. Dallas.
- Quote: “In Nashville, I feel like I can just be here. Like, I don’t need to be something, I can just be.” – Dani (46:02)
Dani details Nashville’s emphasis on personal values over status, noting that Dallas often feels like a competition of who you know and what you have (47:11).
Quote: “Dallas culture is very much that—if you weren’t a part of it, you feel less than.” – Dani (47:11)

4. Social Pressures, Awards, and Keeping it Real

Dani and Jordan reflect on living in Dallas, the competitive atmosphere, and the endless “mountains” of success.
- Quote: “Do we have to have more? ... I don’t want more. I want to be content.” – Jordan (51:23)
They joke about Dani’s “side boob” social media post possibly influencing the family’s school admissions process (38:57).
They explore the balance between ambition and happiness, concluding that chasing more success isn’t necessarily fulfilling.

5. Building Family Bonds

Dani shares her intentional focus on fostering sibling unity and prioritizing family in her children’s lives.
- Story: She recounts Stella willingly sharing her birthday jelly beans with her little brother, Strawton, as an example of family teamwork (53:54).
Quote: “Besides your relationship with God, the most important thing is family and your siblings.” – Dani (54:45)

6. Influencer Culture & Reality TV Talk

Discussion shifts to “Secret Lives of Mormon Wives” and influencer culture, especially as some influencers become less relatable after attaining success (56:53).
Jordan breaks down the “fork in the road” for influencers: stay relatable and humble, or lean into visible wealth and status (59:58).
They consider different approaches by influencers such as Avery Woods and Alex Earl, discussing authenticity and public perception.
- Quote: “The Internet is so smart—they know.” – Jordan (59:58)
- Quote: “No matter how successful you are... there’s always ways to be relatable, because emotion is emotion.” – Dani (60:59)
Both agree that humility and genuine personality maintain connection with audiences, regardless of wealth or status.

Memorable Quotes & Moments with Timestamps

Dani’s playful ambition:
“I feel like my biggest accomplishment is you.” (01:03)
On emotional growth:
“It’s not about who’s right. It’s about how I make you feel.” – Jordan (14:00)
Marriage analogy:
“The husband’s like the concrete wall, and the woman is the wave crashing against it.” – Jordan recalling a TikTok (21:31)
On Nashville:
“God is proud of y’all.” – Elderly woman at Jason’s Deli (37:46) “In Nashville, I feel like I can just be here. Like, I don’t need to be something, I can just be.” – Dani (46:02)
Social media & School admissions:
“It could be the side boob keeping us back.” – Dani (39:19)
Influencer culture:
“The Internet is so smart—they know.” – Jordan (59:58) “No matter, like, how successful you are... there’s always ways to be relatable, because emotion is emotion.” – Dani (60:59)
On family unity:
“The most important thing is family and your siblings.” – Dani (54:45)

Notable Segments & Timestamps

Marriage & Humor: 00:55–02:39
Parenting & Party Planning Chaos: 05:09–10:04
Weekend Parenting Realities: 09:25–10:04
Marriage Growth & Conflict Resolution: 13:17–16:45, 21:30–26:44
Considering Nashville & Community Differences: 37:00–50:04
Parenting Values & Sibling Bonding: 52:32–55:48
Influencer Culture, Success & Authenticity: 56:00–62:44

Final Thoughts

This episode skillfully blends lighthearted marital banter, honest reflections on personal growth, and sincere discussion of place, community, and family. Dani and Jordan’s willingness to be vulnerable—about everything from school admissions to influencer burnout—adds warmth and relatability. Their musings on Nashville’s welcoming culture, together with practical relationship takeaways, make this episode especially resonant for listeners questioning community fit or seeking gentler approaches to marriage and parenting.

If you’re considering a big move, grappling with the pressures of success, or just want a comforting, honest take on family life, this one’s for you.

Note: Advertisements and product endorsements are omitted from this summary for clarity and flow.

Dani is Starting to Warm Up to Nashville