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De-Influenced with Dani + Jordan
Solo Dani: Controversial Opinions & The Really Important Stuff
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Foreign. The following podcast is a Dear Media production hello, and welcome back to your favorite podcast, D Influenced. I don't know if you noticed there, but that was just me. There was no. There was no partner. Jordan is out of town, you guys. I. I got sick again. I'm always sick. It's horrible. But we were actually supposed to go to Nashville this past week. I think Jordan is secretly trying to plan this, like, he was trying to plan this, like, amazing vacation to convince me to move to Franklin or Nashville. And I was excited because I was like, you know what? It's like a trip, like, and we get to spend time with our kids. Monday woke up with the sore throats, the congestion, all the things. And so I said. Which I. I knew was coming, because Summit was just coughing all over me and sneezing all over me. He was sick first at the lake house, and so I just knew it was coming. And I was actually talking earlier. I was like, I think I'm gonna start masking up around Summit. Like, no judgment. That's the one thing Covid did for us, is normalize the masks. I might be wearing a mask in my own house, because every time I get sick, it starts with my little Summit. Because, you know, they don't know. They just like. And there's this. You just feel this. The trickle all over your face. So anyway, I woke up Monday super sick. And I said. I said, you guys go. I said, go. Go. Have fun without me. So they went Stratton, Stella, and Jordan, and they've been having the best time ever. Facetiming me there with Shawn Johnson and Andrew east, and they're like, their kids are. Our kids are playing together, and they're like, move to Nashville. And then I'm getting. He was with Gabe and Jess Conte at church, and he's with the Beth Keys, and he's like, oh, my gosh. The community here in Nashville is so insane. Like, you would love it, because Dallas. Dallas actually does have amazing people, but Dallas does have this, like, who's who. What family are you associated with? Like, it's kind of. People just want to know, like, because there's so. There are so many big families here. Like, it just happens. And so. And in Nashville, it's like, who cares? We just. We take care of our neighbors. There's some really cool creatives, musicians, but we all are supporting each other. It sounds sweet. I. Honestly, when he was talking about it, I was like, man, I'm kind of bummed I missed the trip. But I will say, it was Kind of nice being in my house with myself. Oh, my gosh. It was like I. I almost felt guilty. I was like. Like, I miss them, but, like, I kind of am loving this right now. Like, I kind of felt like I was a single girl again, like, living in an apartment, and I could just go to the grocery store when I. Of course, I have Summit, but, you know, he's just like a little baby blob. And so they just kind of follow you wherever you go. And I'm, like, hanging out with, like. It was, like, the one time I could hang out with, like, some of my single friends, and we played pickleball whenever we wanted. We had a couple of, like, nights, movie nights planned, and it was just. I was living the single college girl life. But I will say I did start to kind of feel a little lonely. You know, towards the end, I was like, okay, I am. I do need a hug. I need some. Some warmth. So I am very excited for them to come home. But, yeah, so that is why I'm doing this solo episode, which I'm so nervous because, like, I have been creating content for, let's say, I mean, 12, 13 years. I have never done something like this where I have talked to myself for 45 minutes. And, like, I challenge you to talk to yourself for 45 minutes with no reaction of, like, anything. Because you say something funny, you. Typically, you can see the reaction of Jordan's face or he laughs. But now it's like, it's so vulnerable. Like, it's just me, and I don't know what's going on on the other side. When y' all are listening to this, I don't know if you're smiling, if you're like this John dumb. Like, it's a little scary. But, you know, I like to try new things. I really do. And, you know, speaking of trying new things, I have to give a shout out to Wellbutrin. So I always go through some type of depression when it comes to pregnancy. And it's so funny because it happens every single time. Every single time that I am either postpartum or I get pregnant. Either it's either one. Not usually both, but one or the other. I am like, oh, my gosh. So when I got pregnant, this go around before I got pregnant, I was feeling y'. All. It was. I was kind of living my best life. I was like, you know, planning all these, like, fun nights with friends. We went to the WNBA game. I was like, running again. I started waking up before Jordan and running again. Like, I was just feeling really good. I got pregnant. I started feeling really sick, started sleeping a lot. But then I got out of my first trimester, and I was still sleeping 12 hours. I was doing a three or four hour nap. The naps were getting longer. I was starting to feel like major headaches. Just like, I don't want to get up. What's the point? The lake house wasn't fun. So the kids would all go to, like, the big pool with, like, and see people. And I was like, I don't want to see people. And I had no motivation to, like, really. I would create some content, but it was just like, you know, it just wasn't. The spark wasn't there. It was like everything was just black and white. And every day I was just like, oh, what? Am I going to feel better? And I just started to dread every day and. But it's so funny because I've been through these phases so many times before, but when you're in it, you, like, just make so many excuses. You're like, I'm pregnant. I'm tired. I'm taking care of, you know, three children. I'm this, I'm that. You're never like, oh, I'm depressed. I need to go see a psychiatrist and talk about a medication. You just never do that, you know? And I kept saying the Serenity prayer. I kept praying about things, and I'm like, okay. And just taking it one day at a time. And then I. Whenever Jordan, when I got sick again this the second time, I was like, oh, no. I was like, and I'm gonna be by myself. Like, I need to reach out to my doc. So I had a little zoom call with her, told her everything. She's like, honey, this is just prenatal depression. It happens. It's very common. All the hormones are changing, whatever. And I was like, yeah, it sounds about right. So she put me on Wellbutrin, y'. All. The next day, I'm back to life. Like, mama is back. I started doing my makeup again. I started doing my hair again. I started showering again. That's always nice. I started shaving my legs again. Like, there's so many things. Like, even I was getting packages in the mail. Like, brands will send me fun stuff. And I was like, don't care. Like, nothing makes me happy. I was like, you could give me a $10 million. I wouldn't even blink. Like, I just want to lay in bed all day. I did start watching Downton Abbey, though. That was a good show. And. And, yeah, and so then I'm like, now I'm like, I'm wanting to clean my house. I feel so much better when I work out. I feel like I have energy again. I haven't napped one time since I started this medication. Not one time, because I am in my second trimester. So, like, you should start feeling better. I have seen, like, so many friends. I'm playing pickleball every day. I even made it to church by myself. Like, I would, like, sorry. Like, that's, like, the one cop out. Like, whenever I'm like, my husband's out to. I'm gonna watch it online. Like, And I was like, no, I'm going to church summit. I tried a new church where I was meeting new people. I loved it. It was a really cool church in Dallas that Janine actually recommended to me. And so, man, it's so funny because I really was. I loved this whole, like, Maha movement of, like, you know, trying to get to the root of things and. But. But I'm always, like, open to western medicine type of girly. But my thing is, is, like, I also want to get to the root of it. Like, why is this happening? And, like, what am I deficient in? And what. Because I don't want to just be on medications for the rest of my life, you know? But I will say, like, I don't really have time for that right now. Like, I need to be a mom, and I need to, like. Like, I was getting to the point where it was kind of getting scary, you know? Like, it had been maybe two or three months where I was like, I don't even know if I can, like, work anymore. Like, I don't know if I have, like, it in. Like, it was like, every single little task, like, getting out of bed to get the remote, like, kill me. Like, I can't. I literally can't. I feel like when I get out of bed, I have a hundred pound weight on my back. I. I'm dreading, and it's just like, the most silly, crazy thoughts and. And things. And so shout out to Wellbutrin for bringing me back. I will say I have had some side effects. Like, oh, my gosh, the night sweats are horrible. Again, the dreams. I had a dream last night that Gavin Castellano from Jeremiah on the Summer I Turned Pretty was trying to get me to take shots with him. And I was like, gavin, no. Like, I can't. And I was like, also, you're the one. Like, so I met him in real life, and he is, like, Kind of like, he's very, very conservative. Like, very. Like, I was like, also, you've changed. I was like, Hollywood and the summer I turned pretty have changed you. You know, I woke up and it was like. It's like one of those dreams where, like, you really feel like it's real. And then also, like, I have a little. I do have not insomnia, because I have been sleeping every night, but it's like when I get in bed, my mind is, like, racing. And typically when I get in bed, like, y'. All. The one thing about being depressed, like, sleep is so good. Like, oh, my God. Like, when you're depressed, like, you can fall asleep anywhere and, like, you can just. You just put your head down. You just, like, melt into the mattress, and you just sleep for hours and hours. So now I'm getting in bed, I'm like, I have so many thoughts. I, like, don't know what to do with it. I'm. I'm really not that tired right now, which is kind of more like, like, me. Like, typically, I always need my eight hours, but I don't need 10 hours. Like. Like, if I get seven hours, like, I'm still functional. But when you're depressed, it's like, you can get 12 hours and you're still dead. Like, you're flatlined. And so I am having. Now my sleep is not so gradual, comfortable. It's more like I lay down, thoughts are going, and then it's like a light switch that turns off. So it's not as, like, fun to sleep. Like, I don't know. I. I prefer being awake now, which I guess is a good thing. So, yeah. What else have I experienced? Those are really. My mouth is a little drier. I. I am really thirsty a lot. I've been doing a lot of my electrolytes, so. So, yeah, I would say the symptoms are definitely, like, the benefits are outweighing the negative side effects. You know what I mean? Like, I would rather be a little thirsty and have a light switch sleep than, you know, the alternative. Oh, my God. I'm so sorry. Sorry, my phone is on. So unprofessional. So, yeah, this kind of leads me into my Saturday night. Was it Saturday night? Yeah, when I got a little wild. So I got a little wild because, you know, I was like, Saturday night, my husband's gone. I was like, you gotta stir some shit up. Start. Stir some stuff up. And so what happened was I actually had plans with my friends, and now that I like you. So one thing about me, if you Follow me for a long time. I love doing my makeup. I love it. It is, like, so therapeutic for me. I love to try new things, and I. I always look the same, but the way I get there, like, I will just do something a little different, like use a different product. I just. I love makeup. So thank God I'm not depressed anymore because, like, I can have fun doing my makeup. And the perfect timing is. This is such a godwink. It is. The toast came back, and so I always listen to the toast or Theo Vaughan while I do my makeup. And so Saturday night, I got a babysitter. Actually, no, no. Saturday night, I was going to take Summit with me. I didn't get a babysitter till Sunday. I was going to take Summit with me because my friends are so awesome, and they're like, just bring Summit. So I was doing my makeup, and, oh, my gosh, my makeup looked so good that night. Like, you know, like, when you just do a make of a full beat and you're like, I. And my hair looks good. And I was like, I just can't wait to be seen, you know? And so. So I'm, like, so excited. Summit is, like, napped. I fed him just the right amount so that he wouldn't be hungry when we get there. And I plan on staying for an hour and a half. Well, then I'm walking out the door, and my girlfriend, who I was going to her place, is pregnant. And she's like, I'm sorry. She's like, 10 weeks, and she's like, I'm sorry. I can't. Like, I don't. I don't feel good. Which I totally understand. I'm so not offended, because the amount of times I've done that to people is out of this world. But then I was like, dang. Like, I have this, like, full makeup. Like, I can't just waste this, you know? And I was like, I can't really go anywhere because I'm not gonna take Summit to, like, a restaurant, eat by myself. Like, I mean, I could, but that just seems like such a hassle, and, like, it would be better if I just put him to bed. So I put him to bed, and I'm, like, so sad. I'm. Maybe. No, I hadn't put him to bed yet. I was like, I'm so sad. I don't want to wash this off. So then I was like, I'm going to film a reel, because now that I'm not depressed, I'm going to. I feel good enough to, like, create Content again. And that's one thing that I just love. Whenever I'm back to feeling Danny, it's like a hobby of mine. And I just, like, love creating content. Like, I just know whenever I'm. I'm. I'm doing my gig, you know, like working and speaking engagements and brand deals, that's, like, more work. But then there's, like, times where you just, like, create, and you get to share your life and you have fun with it. So we had a football game that morning. Tammy and Joel came over, and that whole day, I was just, like, creating content. I was just having the time of my life. So anyway, I was like, I'm gonna stir up my Saturday night because I'm a little bored, and I'm gonna make a video with Summit. And, you know, I knew the topic I was gonna cover, which was all the things I'd seen all over the news about Tylenol being bad for pregnant women. And I always say pregnant people because I think I like the alliteration. But then people get mad at me when I say pregnant people. They're like, that's offensive to the women. And I'm like, but aren't you just happy I'm saying women instead of woman? You know, because that's always been a thing on this podcast is I say the pregnant woman. But I think it's because I. I think because my dad is from, like, a small town in Texas, like, he has some Southern draw to. So anyway, because I also say pillow and whatever. So where was I? That's the other thing about podcasting by yourself. It's harder to keep your train of thought because Jordan. Okay, so I see these at or this news, and everything about these Instagram posts about Tylenol is now questionable when it comes to pregnancy. Now, let me tell you why I want to talk about this. I take Tylenol almost daily pregnant, okay? Like, so this affects me. So I see all this. I see RFK on the news. I see him talking about it. I'm pissed off because I'm like, we can't do anything as pregnant people. Pregnant women. And, you know, I had basically the flu last week. I couldn't take anything. The only thing I take for sore throat, congestion, when my back hurts, when I got pink eye, when I twist my ankle, when I have whatever is Tylenol. Tylenol is the only answer for everything in pregnancy. And I mean, of course, there's all these, like, homeopathic, but, like, you know what I'm saying? Like, it's like, sometimes you just gotta, like, feel good right now. And so I was really bummed and. But I, I, of course, I understood it was probably a little political because RFK is the one saying it. So, like, I'm not. But the same time, it's also, like, medical, and sometimes I feel like some of the health stuff is not so political. It's like, oh, let's just, like, have a conversation about it. Like, let's not be naive to the convers. Which, of course, there was a part of me that was, like, a little scared because I was like, oh, my gosh, people are going to make this political. But it's really one of those things where if these studies that RFK are coming out with are true, I want to know because, like, it's relevant to me right now. It might not be relevant to, like, the majority of people following me, but I share videos about my life, and this is a very big thing going on in my life is I need Tylenol every day. Like, it's, it's really, it's, it. You don't understand how pissed off I was. So rfk, basically, he said that he was going to be releasing these reports suggesting that there is a link between prenatal taking Tylenol and, like, adhd, some other, you know, autism, whatever it is. Now, just because there's a link between something doesn't mean that it causes it. So let's just say, like, maybe whatever causes adhd. Let's just say whatever causes adhd, maybe also whatever that is gives you headaches. So you're. So, it's like there's a, there's a link between it. It's like, oh, People that are struggling and need Tylenol also seem to have children that struggle with adhd, but that doesn't mean that it causes it. Okay, so, but apparently he's gonna, like, release all these studies. And I looked up some of these studies that have already been done, and look at me. I even came with, like, a little notepad. Okay, so. Because I'm not depressed anymore and I can actually, like, read things, so. Boston birth bio Malar study. Sorry, by. I'm sorry, I can't even read this. Also, I, I, I really, I, I want to make a disclaimer. And I, I really hope that you all know I'm not giving you any medical advice. Like, I am not qualified. I, I suggest you talk to your doctor. I, I actually don't know what I'm talking about, but I am trying to, like, learn because I, I am pregnant and I take Tylenol every day. So I feel like this is something I should talk about. You know what I mean? Like, but who knows? Like, what am I talking about? He's like, everybody just like, go do your own thing. Don't listen to me. So there was this study that happened in 2019, birth bio, I just have really bad handwriting study. And it said high in your in utero exposure linked with higher ADHD and autism risk when pregnant women took Tylenol. Okay, so that was a Boston study, but then Harvard comes out with a study in Mount Sinai that said there was no causation of ADHD autism when taking Tylenol. That was in 2025, which, like, I, that's the study. I want to, I want to believe that one because I want to take Tylenol. And so the thing is, is like, then you have rf, RFK saying. Okay, because I think rfk, the way he said it, he said it was like, there's a link between, not a causation. So if there's not a for sure causation, because we don't. There's no actual proof that Tylenol causes these things. Why would RFK be talking about this on the news? I personally feel it's because he's kind of set himself up. Like he's told everybody, like, these are his goals during this presidency. Like, he wants, he wants to find the cause of autism. He wants. And maybe he feels a little pressure, you know, and so he wants to give the people something. And so he was like, look, these studies give a link. But, you know, I, I don't know really. I'm honestly not smart enough to know like all the political like, handlings and why they do this and why that there's reasons to this. And why would he attack Tylenol and say acetaminophen? Like, is it money related? I'm not smart enough to know all of that. But, but I will say that so far the studies are saying that there is a link. So that gives me hope because I'm just hoping that there is no causation. So, so anyway, I, the other thing though, I want to talk about this because I want to talk about my video that I posted because the comments, I mean, it was really fun. Like, I had a blast on Saturday night. I actually did make myself popcorn and like, I was like on my couch, like reading, which I don't typically indulge in like that type of feedback and that. But that's what happens when you're alone. Like, you know, when you're alone, and you got your phone. Phone, and your kids are sleeping, and you have nothing to do, and your makeup's done. You're just like, I'm just gonna scroll. And, like, I typically don't reply to my DMs, but I was, like, all up there, reply to my DMs. I got a little statsy sometimes. I wasn't mean, but I was, like, a little sassy, you know? And it was like. It was so. It was just a great night. And so my. My one thing with a lot of the feedback is people were a saying, danny, this is misinformation, and this is really irresponsible for you to talk about this. And first of all, I don't. The only information I really shared on the real was that I heard that there was problems. I heard on the news that there were problems with Tylenol and how I was upset about it. So I wasn't saying that there for sure is a causation or this is a study. You know, I was just like, I'm kind of pissed off that this is happening. And so I really wasn't spreading any misinformation that would actually be false. I was raising the topic for sure. I was. I was like, you know, but I. I don't understand sometimes, like, why we can't talk about these things and why we can't sometimes maybe acknowledged in the past, like, you know, people have been deceived by doctors. Like, people have been deceived by studies or whatever it is. And so it is kind of like, I knew when I talked about it, I was like, yeah, I do want people to know that this is a conversation being held, but not because I want you to act one way or the other. I just want you to know. And I. We're just talking about something that's literally all over the news. So if you want to be mad at somebody for misinformation, it definitely. It wouldn't be me. I was just kind of here. I was just talking about, like, what was happening. Okay? And so then people were also upset because they're like, why are you listening to rfk? Or, you know, these studies are not accurate or all these things. And. And just, you know, immediately wanted to make it political. And I'm gonna be honest with y'. All. I don't know what's true. Like, I don't really know what's true. But here's what I do know that is true, is that I went through and I thought about all the times in the Past because everybody's like, ask your doctor, ask your doctor. And I respect doctors so much. Like, you have no idea if you are a doctor watching this, like, I could never do what you do. I'm so thankful for doctors. Thank you for my doctor for saving me from depression and prescribing me Wellbutrin. But you know, there have been, and it's not even doctors faults, but it's just like as time evolves, we learn new things, right? And so, you know, things every 30 years are going to come out and change. And so maybe like a doctor didn't know, but maybe like for example, I wrote down some examples. Like in 1964, okay, doctors suggested using cigarettes for health to help with anxiety or depression. That was 61 years ago. My dad was like 12 years old. That's just like one generation behind us. They also said that, doc, that pregnant women could smoke and all of these things. And so it's like one of those things. And then they Learned, oh, in 1964, doctors finally linked lung cancer to cigarettes. It was something that they learned. And so now they have to evolve and change. And it's. It's just like new information. It's not anybody's fault. It's just like, wow, we learned something new. Arsenic and mercury were replaced by penicillin in the 1940s for syphilis. Like arsenic, you know, they were giving arsenic and mercury. This is not that long ago. We have other ones. This was a crazy one. Lobotomies. Lobotomies happened in the 1960s. Do you know what a lobotomy is? Okay, so a lobotomy is when it was typically used for mental health. Like, if you had depression, it would be me. It would be me. I would have had the lobotomy. Okay? Like if you had mood swings or you were struggling with, you know, having these weird thoughts or whatever, they'd be like, you went to a doctor, okay? And they would be like, you need a lobotomy. This happened to thousands of women, okay? Thousands of people. And because they were trusting doctors. Now, like I said, I don't think it's the doctor's fault. I think the doctors learned this and that's what they thought was best. And I, like, it's not. Do you know what I'm saying? So what they would do in the lobotomy is they would literally cut into your frontal lobe. They would stick while you're conscious. They would drill holes and, and try to puncture your frontal lobe, which is the part of your brain that controls, like, Your emotions, your decision making, your personality. In the 1940s, they would do it with an ice pick. They would stick it through your eye, all the way to your brain while you're conscious. Okay? This is what they were doing, y', all, not that long ago, the 1960s. Like. Like, our parents. This is our parents. Okay? So this was actually a really fun fact. Rosemary Kennedy, who's related, obviously, to RFK, he is JFK sister. In 1941, she. Her. Her dad made her go through a lobotomy because she was having mood swings and tantrums. This is. She was 23 years old. Doctors inserted surgical instruments through her skull and brain while she was awake. They had her sing songs to monitor her brain function. And halfway through, she became incoherent and unable to speak. It left her unable to walk and to take care of herself and to speak for the rest of her life. She literally had to have someone taking care of her for the rest of her life. This is because we're like, we. He took her, and these are the Kennedys. Okay? The Kennedys. They took her to a doctor, and this is what the doctor said to do. Now, I'm not saying that every doctor nowadays, you go do something and. But, like, this is a. This is a crazy example to me. Okay, hold on. I got to, like, reseat my little. But because I'm, like, in a little heated. This one's crazy because this is personal. So y' all know about Red Diet 40? Okay, so that's, like, a thing that is just now, this year, being kind of taken care of. It's been caught. Like, there was a cause of thyroid tumors in animals when they took ride die 40. But in humans, ADHD, mood swings, hives, asthma, migraines, especially whenever kids had it. This stuff is in our everyday food, our medications, like you are. As a kid. I can't even think about how much red dye 40 I consumed. Like, remember those Kool Aid bottles that looked like beer? And I would sit around the pool, like, drink, take a couple of those back with some of my friends. Like, I mean, the amount. Because here's the thing. I didn't eat it unless it was colored. You remember the colored ketchup? Like, I am made of red dye 40. That stuff raised me. Like, food dyes raised me because I was not eating vegetables or anything healthy as a child. Like, let's just be real. Plus, we all did those microwavable plastic meals. What are the snot? What are the sofas or. No, I always had the. It was so Good. Chicken Alfredo. One with broccoli. I. It was just like, I always had the one every night after volleyball practice. So just now, in 2025, that is banned. Okay? It's been banned from other countries for a very long time. But just now, in April 2025, they're also getting rid of, like, some of the other, like, food colorings and, you know, the green 30 green. I don't. I don't even know. So it just. To me. Okay, so then, okay, this is where the crazy. The story gets crazy. So I'm pregnant. And, you know, every. Every time you're pregnant and there's some week where you do this, like, glucose test where I guess I don't even really know what they're checking for. I'm guessing it's like, gestational diabetes, and they're seeing how you process sugar and stuff, and they just need to know. And so what they do is they give you this, like, really sugary drink that you have to drink right before your appointment. And then I think they take your blood, I think. And they have done this only like four times or three times. But, yeah, they take your blood and they check and see how, like, your blood sugars are, blood level sugars. So I'm going to the doctor and I have my drink and, you know, I always go for the red one because, like, I'm a. When it comes to, like, candy flavors and any of that, I'm like a cherry watermelon girl. Like, you know, cherry, especially apple, whatever. So I'm looking in this drink, and it has all the ingredients. You know how when they list ingredients on anything, it's the first ingredient is what's in there the most, and the last ingredient is in what's in there the least. So the first ingredient is red dye 40. Okay. And they're giving this to a pregnant women. I did it wrong woman. The one time I need is a woman, a pregnant person that, like, is going to drink this. Everything I have affects my baby if it. And they had just, like, banned all this stuff. But my doctor is giving me a glucose test with basically red dye 40. Now, it's just one of those things where it's not the doctor's fault. I'm not blaming my office. Like, I love my office. They're amazing. They're just doing what everybody else is doing. But I do believe that now this is not medical advice. Like, I don't know if this is true, but I do believe that our bodies are kind of like thresholds. Okay? And so it's kind of like equivalent to, like, there is a point where you have too much of something and then it turns into something else. So maybe it turns into a cancer, maybe it turns into being too inebriated, maybe it turns into the flu. Like, I don't know. But it's like a threshold. And if I was made of red dye 40, then I probably should stop taking red dye 40. Like, you know, if that's what the ingredient that basically raised me, I probably shouldn't have any more of that because I probably have already had so much of it. And every single little drop I have these days is probably just pushing me closer and closer to that threshold where I cross it. And maybe it turns into something really scary, you know. And so the fact that, you know, a doctor is giving me red dye 40 like that in a pregnant person, I just thought it was kind of crazy. So then you have all these people in my DMs that are like, danny, do your own research. This has been out for a long time. They have a test called Fresh Test. And you can actually order that separate, you know, third party. You order it yourself. It comes to your, comes to your front door and you can take it to your doctor's office. And a lot of your doctors will, will, will take that. They're okay with that test. But that takes a lot of, first of all, education. It takes a lot of research. It takes a lot of, you know, being open to and being willing to say, oh, you know what, maybe what my doctor is giving me isn't the best for me. Maybe I should be willing to try something new and be willing to, to look outside of just the norm. And so many people are just so stuck with the way that things are done now. I'm not. This is not me saying that Tylenol, the rfk, is right about Tylenol. Like, I, I really don't. I'm just, I'm just kind of challenging us as people and as parents and as maybe, you know, consumers of social media to maybe just be like a little more open minded, you know, and a little more willing. Because there are times in history where what doctors have said and what the norm is, with more time, you learn that there's maybe a better option or there's a better way to do things. And maybe that wasn't the best thing to do. And so now when I do my glucose test, it's called Fresh test, I'm going to order that and I'm going to advocate for myself, and I hate advocating for myself. I want to go to the doctor, and I want to trust everything that they say, and I want to just do what they do. Like, that's their job. I don't want to stress about what I do, but I'm learning that I kind of have to because there always are alternative, like, healthier, safer ways. And so that's all I wanted to talk about with this. With this conversation with Tylenol and pregnancy. Once again, I. I do. I probably will take Tylenol in my pregnancy. I'm not gonna lie to you, until I definitely see that, like, link between it. But I'm also going to be. What I'll. What I probably will do is I will probably, like, I've started, like, I actually have, like, started really doing my electrolytes. I've been trying to, like, work out, like, just do all the things that will prevent me from needing Tylenol. Do you know what I mean? Like. Like actually focusing on the route. Like, go to my chiropractor and, like, so I don't have to take Tylenol every day because my back hurts or stretch and all these things that I want to try to avoid it. Not because there is a link, just because it's like, it's not worth it, you know, and there are, like. I think it's, like, definitely a fact that it's not good for your liver. So, you know, it's like, I try to avoid any medication if I can, but sometimes you just need it. So I'm appreciative for. For doctors. I'm appreciative for, you know, Western medicine. I'm so, like, thankful that that is. The epidural is an option. You know, I think about that all the time because I'm like that. You know, the natural giving birth without the epidural is not for everyone. And honestly, if I didn't struggle with depression or if I didn't struggle with my mental health during postpartum, I would have gotten the epidural every single time. But there was something chemically that happened in my brain this last pregnancy, this last. And I'm like. I'm. Like. I said, I'm not telling everybody that they should. But there was something that was different about this birth going unmedicated. Whether it was the Pitocin, whether it was whatever the doctor gave me, or whether it was just maybe all the endorphins and all of the hormones that were released when I did an unmedicated birth. And I felt so good about myself. That kept me out of my. My postpartum depression. Like, whatever it did, it worked. And so I don't want to change it. I'm gonna probably. I want to try to do the same. Oh, God. I don't know. The other day, I was, like, feeling constipated, and I was going potty, and I was like, that really hurt. And I was like, I can't do this again. I was like. I literally. I was like, I can't do this. I was like, this alone is. Is hell. I like. And it kind of just gave me some flashbacks, because that's what they tell you to do whenever you're up on the table. It's just try, like, it's like, kind of act like you're going potty, like, push, push, push. And I was like, oh, my God. This is, like, triggering. Like, it was, like, a little ptsd. And I was like, I can't, I can't, I can't. But, yeah, so that's my thing is, like, I want to open the conversation. I don't. Especially when it comes to health. Like, I don't want it to be political, and I also don't want to be put in a box, because I think you guys would be surprised. Like, when it comes to a lot of people, I think that they'll vote for someone, but they don't like everything that they do, and they. You like? I like the stuff. Some of the stuff that RFK is doing, and I don't like some of the other stuff he's doing. Like, you just were all so complicated, and we're all so. And. And I think it is a little. What's that word that starts with an I? That's really ignorant. It's such an offensive word. I hate when people say you're ignorant. Like, I'm like, that is so mean. Like, it's. I really can't think of a word that is meaner. Like, I would rather be called mean than ignorant. But it is one of those things where it's, like, it is a little ignorant to act like we know everything and that in the next 30 years, there isn't going to be some new information that we're going to want to adapt to. But I understand it is political. I knew exactly what I was doing. Okay? Like, I knew exactly what I was doing, and. But I didn't know it was gonna get as, like, mean and nasty in the comments. You know, I thought we would be, like, a little bit more, especially because it had to do with, like, health. 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I don't know if y' all follow Becca Bloom, but she has been really fun to follow. It's like a little social experiment. She's. She kind of popped off on Tick Tock under Rich Talk. Hashtag Rich Talk. I believe I'm not that cool when it comes to the Tick Tock. But like this, this girl is fun to follow. She is 27 years old. She's like from California, San Francisco. She is like the epitome of. Have you ever seen that show Crazy Rich Asians? Like, she is one of those characters. But honestly I think it's like even more. But her wealth, you know, they always say money talks, wealth whispers. That's kind of her. Like she. But kinda because like I do feel like some of the stuff she posts is like it's just so normal to her to live off of. To wake up and eat off of an Hermes plate and to have her. Her chef that lives with her to make her dog. Like what's the little. Not escargot, but the little fish eggs that you put caviar, like give their dog caviar. And like it's just the way of life for her. It's not anything that I feel like she's being really flashy about, but it's just very subtle. Everything she's wearing, like she'll be making a tick tock and she's like, this necklace is $200,000 from Van Cleef. And then this is. And she's so soft spoken, but she's also really smart. I think she comes from like an entrepreneurial family in San Francisco. Oh, she's an entrepreneur herself. Well, this last weekend she got married in Lake Como and it was so fun to watch. She got married. I don't know if you've ever seen those pictures on Instagram where like when they kiss at the end, all of the rainbow smoke comes out. It's so cool. Like. But she got married at Villa Balbiano. I believe people are estimating that her wedding was $6 million, which it seems like with her lifestyle, that's like a drop in the bucket. It's like, literally nothing. Like, she. She kind of walks you through, like, you're just like, watching. She's like, today I'm gonna go to lunch and then maybe go shopping. And then she literally buys like, eight Hermes bags while she's. I'm not. I'm not kidding. It's bizarre. Like, an Hermes bag, like, one is. You know, those Birkins are like. The small ones are like 20, $30,000. And she buys like eight. And she's just like, I went shopping today. Here's. Here's my haul. And then the next day, she's doing the same thing at Louis Vuitton. Like, all these. These brands are inviting her on. These are not, like, brand trips, okay? There's, like, a different type of exclusive trip that, like, we don't even know about. It's like the. The trips where, like, Van Cleef or Louis Vuitton or they plan these trips for, like, some of their top clients and some of their top shoppers, and they just, like, send them to Italy or Switzerland or whatever. It's like, not even influencer stuff. It's just like, like rich people stuff, you know? And so that was very, very fun to watch. It's also interesting. This wedding that she had was. Was, you know, 6 million. I think she had 60 guests. So, like, I wonder if you do the math, like, how much. How many millions per guest is that? Oh, wait, if she had 60 guests, she said, yeah, you. I can't. Sorry, my brain. So each guest received, like, a hundred thousand dollar experience. If you think about it, that's how much each head cost. That is so cool. Like, I want to be friends with her when I go to this wedding. But it also is really interesting why she can get away with it. It's like selective bias or whatever. It's like, why can she get away with it? But, like, other people can't? What does she do so differently that people are like. And people will try to come for her and, you know, they have all these opinions about her and. But why. Why does everybody defend her in the comments? But then you see all these other influencers that, you know, are making a lot of money or spending their money doing outrageous things, and why do we not like them? It's it's really an interesting question. Like, if you really think about it. I'm gonna really think about it for a second. Okay. I think the reason why I liked her was I felt like she was born into it and she didn't know any different. Like, it's not her fault, maybe, which. Yeah, so it just seems like it just is her way of life. So it's like, you can't judge that. And she's not her fault that she's just so rich. Like, you know, but then. So why do we judge other people that get rich? Maybe because we're jealous of them. Maybe because we want to be them. Yeah. And. And I think too, because. So it's kind of funny because we're all like, okay, she's so, like, subtle with her wealth, but she's still making videos where she's unboxing like eight Hermes bags. So that's not really whispering. So why are we so okay with her doing it? Y' all need to go look her up and just kind of like. And then ask yourself that question. Oh, what do we. Is she, like, overly charitable maybe? No. Well, that was my guess. No, it's a great guess. I would say. I think I respect her because she also does some videos where she gives, like, financial advice and entrepreneurship advice or she shares with people, like, how her parents raised her. And so I liked. I liked that part of her. But yeah, so maybe I respect her. Maybe. I think, like, yeah, she has a lot of money, but she's also smart and she worked hard and so maybe that's it. But, you know, I don't feel that way about, like, some of the royals. Like, I don't feel that way about. I don't know, it's just really interesting. I would like to hear Yalls feedback in the comments. Also, speaking of like, millions of dollars. Hold on, I gotta take a sip because this is while. But it's making my mouth dry. 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Lives.Com Speaking of millions of dollars, there have been I also saw this on Instagram so allegedly because you know, I don't want Travis Kelsey to come for me. I'm sure he listens. Allegedly. Travis kelce got paid $20 million for his Pfizer ads. That's kind of. There's been multiple sources that came out with that. Which adds up because it's like Pfizer in Travis Kelsey. You know, he's getting so many. He's so famous right now. He's so brand friendly. Like everybody loves him. He's the only person that could do a Pfizer ad besides probably Taylor Swift. And everybody's like I don't care. I love you still, you know, whether like, you lean one side or the other. So I thought that was crazy. And it actually more was more than his, like, NFL, I think that year he was signed to make like 17 million. So it actually, like, was more than his entire salary. But this is another really interesting question, and I want you guys to just. I want you guys to just be vulnerable for a second. Okay? I want you to think about this question. If you were offered $20 million to do a Pfizer ad, you know, when everything is so political, like, would you do it? Oh, really? Okay. I'm looking at the studio audience for sure. Okay. Jenny, 20 million. Okay. Like, you could retire. Except you're such a liar. No, I don't think so. Okay. Okay. I think you're me. It would depend on if I actually support it or not. Well, so, yeah, so I'm a sellout, I guess. Like, so if I support it, yes. Okay. If I don't support it, then no, I wouldn't be able to do it. Okay. For me, it's a moral thing, if that makes sense. Okay, so you just don't want to share yes or no? I just. On this specific one, I guess I'm going, no, I need more research. I need more facts. No matter. About vaccines. Good luck. Exactly. I don't think you're gonna get it. I'm scared. Nobody come for me in the comments. Yeah. No matter if I support it or not, I can't take the heat on. That's the thing is like, that's the thing. Whether you support it or not. It's such a political, divisive conversation. It's like, that's so that's. But yeah, I don't know. So I really thought about it too. And at first I was like, oh, totally, I'll do it. Like, and then, you know, you really, like, think it and like, you talk to your people and you're like. And I was like, I just don't. I don't think I could. I don't think I could. Whether I felt like I was pro it or not, that one is just so hot topic that I wouldn't want to deal with the backlash for the rest of my life. Gosh, 20 million. I mean, come on. Like, maybe I would. Maybe I'll just do it in the retire. Like, what if you just did it and then you just move to an island and like, who. Who cares if people hate you? But why did. Why did Travis Kelsey, I feel like he just slid right by it. Just because it's Travis. Because it's that's my point. And that's my point is, like, here's the thing. I wouldn't slide just past it. And I, like, the average person, even the average celebrity probably wouldn't. But I just want to, like, I want you to really close your eyes and think about that. Yeah. But if you think about it, we always say we wouldn't slide past it or anything, or, like, the heat's too much, but it all fades eventually. So maybe I would. So he. So he probably has gotten a lot of heat, but he's kind of just like, well, he's got his 20 mil. Yeah. So, like, I'm sure he's got people handling his Instagram, so maybe. Yeah, we just. The team takes the heat. That's so true. Just, you know, do your thing. See, my issue is I want to run for president one day, so it would probably mess up my, you know, my political stances. I. Interesting. Me and Jenny, first we've ever heard of this. Oh, my gosh. Can you imagine? That'd be horrible. You really have to monitor the comments. I'll be like. I'd be like. I'd be like, don't take Tylenol. No, I'm kidding. I probably. I, like, took one this morning. Like, so. Yeah, I just. I think that's such an interesting question. At what point will you become a sellout? Like, at what dollar bill? Because, like. Like, I do feel like everyone can be bought, you know, except for people that have, like, really experienced wealth and, like, realize it's not. Like, honestly, I. I've never. Like, I've never been paid $20 million for a brand deal, but I honestly feel like I. I wouldn't because, like, I just don't. I. I've realized that that's not the stuff that. That makes me happy. And even if. Especially when I'm depressed, I'm like. Even if I had $22 million, I'm like, I don't really want to do anything, so what would I do with this? But no, I think I probably wouldn't. I do have, like, a lot of integrity, like, when it comes down to it, a lot of times, not every time, but, like, I would say when it really matters. I try to have integrity, and I try to live my life. Like, if I was ever. Like, if everything ever came out, you know, if everything. If people saw everything my. Every day, like, you know, right from when I wake up and when I go to bed, like, you know, I want to be at peace with it. I don't want to have you Know, I don't know. Anyway, Justin Bieber came out with a new album. What do we think about that? Nobody talks about it. I kind of feel bad for him. I mean, I don't, but, like, you know, it's like. Have you listened to it? Yeah, I like it. I like the second album better than the first. Yeah, I do. Yeah. Oh, I liked it a lot better. Like, the first, like, four or five songs. Yeah, I like that sensuality. I like that. I liked this. I liked Justin Bieber. Just, like. Yeah, I. It was interesting. I. I kind of felt bad. I felt like there would be more hype around it. I kind of want him to grow his hair out. Does everybody else feel that way? No, he's kind of got the buzz cut. And I'm having a hard time. Like, I don't know. I'm just having a hard time. I just. I really need. I feel like we're in the era of, like, 90s baby boy. Like, boy, we got the Conrad, we got the Jeremiah, we're getting all the hair. And I just. I need to see Justin back with his little side sweep, you know, just for, like, a little nostalgia. I. I liked his second album, but there really wasn't too much hype about. Had a lot of songs on it, so. Yeah. I don't know anything else about Justin Bieber. Him and Haley seem to be going strong. No, I don't think Justin's okay. I really don't. I really don't think he's okay. But I think he just, like, smoking a lot of weed, so I think he's, like, numbing himself to, like, his day every day. Like, I mean, you don't think that. Don't think he's smoking weed every day? No, he definitely. No. 100. Yeah, no, he, like, posts it. Like, he's, like, holding his baby, and there's, like, a blunt in front of him, like. Yeah. So it's. I just feel like sometimes when that's happening, you, like, aren't living, like, your true life because you're, like, numbing yourself every day and you're like, like. And so I just feel like there's something that he's running from, you know? And honestly, if I was raised in the spotlight, I would have a lot to be running from. I'm running from a lot now, you know? And I wasn't. I'm not Justin Bieber, you know? So it's like, I. Yeah, I feel. I feel for him. Do y' all think he's okay? Well, I had a question. Did you pick up that he put out this album the same day that Haley put Road in Sephora. And how does that make you feel? Like, if you were Haley, how would you feel about that? No, but that's smart. I feel like people are talking about both of them. It's like, I think, honestly, I would want. It's like a power couple. It's like all eyes on us. Haley's in Sephora. Justin's second album. Like, everybody talk about me and my baby. Like, it's like they're power. It's both of them. They both. They own each other. I mean, I don't. They probably signed supreme ups, but it's like, my wealth is your wealth, baby. Like, let's both hit this thing and, like, have the whole world talking about us. But I feel like nobody was really talking about Justin. I. I don't know. I feel like if. I don't know, I feel like if they were more a united front, always, I would be like, yes, so true. But because they're kind of sus sometimes and, like, weird tensions and stuff, I'm kind of like, is it supportive? But here's the thing. The reality of the situation is there are huge teams behind both of these people, and everything is strategic. And the company that owns Justin's music and, like, now the company that owns Hailey Bieber's music, they would never let that happen if it wasn't a healthy. A healthy, like, transaction on both of their sides. Like, it. There's just. They're not like, two people running their own businesses. Like, they're kind of just like, you know, the faces of the people that own them. And so it had to be strategic, like, for both of them. I don't know. And they're supporting each other, not fighting. Like, they're, like, going to events together, holding hands. And I did see a video of Logan Paul looking like he. Like he was fighting with Nina, his wife, and it looked like she tripped him on the way out of his car. Did you see that? I. I felt like she was trying to trip him. Like, I think she was tripping, he was tripping, and so she tripped him. And, you know, I. I try not to resort to violence when I'm upset with my husband. It's just that never is really the answer. So tripping my husband has never been one thing I thought about doing. I definitely suggest against it. It did not. It wasn't a good look. It kind of made me sad because I feel like they just got married. And if that's the stuff you're seeing already. It's like, man, it only gets harder. Except for I do feel like after the seventh year of marriage, you kind of, like, hit this. Like, you start gliding. You know, the first seven years are a lot of building figure. Like, the first year, you're like, who's this person? Why are they in my space? Like, you're like, I. This is weird. Did I. What did I do? I can't go out with my single friends all the time. I can't just, like, go to movie nights. But then your second, third year, like, it's kind of fun having best friends. Friend. And then your fourth year, you're like, you're building, you're doing cool stuff together. But, you know, fifth, sixth, seventh, you start having kids. Things are just like. It's like you're down, you're back at square one, just rebuilding. And that's at the point when. I would say that's the point when you start to realize that we both have changed so much that we're actually not the same people that got married in a good way. You know, it's like, that's good. You don't want to be the same people. But then it's like we're stuck in our old routines, but we're kind of, like, married to different people. So now I have to, like, re date each other, but also raise children together. It's just a very complicated, challenging time. But it's so great when you, like, work and fight for it, because then you come out, I would say on the seventh year, you come out of it and you're like, dang, now we're gliding and it's like, so much better. But I didn't really mean to talk about that. What else? Oh, should we talk about Taylor Swift's album photos? Her provocative photos? No. Okay. I just. I didn't get a reaction from my studio audience. Okay, Now I'm curious. Oh, okay. I'm gonna give you, like, the raw. Raw what I'm feeling. Okay. So obviously, I love Taylor Swift. And she came out with her album photos where she is, like, in this sparkly bra, very burlesque looking super sexy, doing the sexy faces. She's like an engaged woman. So it's like, it's. I. When I first saw the photos, I loved them. I was like, get it, girl. She looks fabulous. She looks gorgeous. But then. Okay, I'm gonna be honest. Okay, so I went to church yesterday, and there was a lady that I met sitting in front of me, and she was so sweet. She was like, Danny, I follow you, you know, I know you're pregnant with your fourth. She's like, I have 10 kids. And she's like, you can do it. She was just like, amazing. I don't know if she was the pastor's wife, but she was sitting on the front row, so maybe, maybe he or I don't know. And, and then she was like, you know, I. They brought up something that was like, it was something about pop culture. And she, she was telling me after church, she's like, yeah, you know, I am. My daughters, I have so many kids, you know, and she's like, my daughters have been begging me to watch the Summer I Turn Pretty, but I, I don't know if I want to let them watch it, but I did find comfort that you watched it. And I was like, oh, like, like knife in my heart. Like, I was like, oh, my gosh. I, I'm influencing the way, like, what you're letting your children watch, like, you know, and it's like, ah. So then I was like, oh my gosh. But the Summer I Turn Pretty, like, isn't bad, I don't think, but it just kind of, it was like a reminder that people are watching me. And I do, like, influence some people sometimes, like, but because I kind of feel like we're in the era where we can watch people but not be influenced by them. Do you know what I mean? Like, I feel like a lot of times it's like entertainment. It's. I see someone doing something and I'm like, I would never do that. Like, for example, I watch somebody with 10 kids and I'm like, that's so fun to watch. I would never do that. That's why I like watching it. But it's not influencing me to. And I feel like we're kind of at a point where it's. I guess it goes back to the misinformation being spread or like, why are you taking advice from an influencer, A medical advice from an influencer? I kind of feel like we're in that, that era of, like, we all make our own decisions. We're responsible for our own decisions. We can't blame other people's influence for what we choose to do with our lives. But, but that one was hard for me because I was like, oh, maybe I should think twice before I post things, you know, where I want to be honest about how, like, I want to be honest that I loved the photos. Okay. I'm just, I want to be honest. But yeah, would I want my 4 year old daughter to see some of them. Probably not. You know what I'm saying? Like, it's like, I probably wouldn't want my daughter to see Taylor Swift, like, climbing over the chairs like that, or in some of those, like, really provocative outfits. Now, I'm an adult, and I know what my beliefs are, so I'm not, like, influenced by. I'm not gonna, like, go put on a bra and start posting on social media for, you know, wearing, like, no clothes. That's just, like. It's. It's not my vibe. But. But I did. But, yeah, I. I get it. It's hard. It's really hard because I. I loved this. But, yeah, maybe it's what. Maybe it's, like, one thing where I'm like, okay, I don't know. I'm kind of at a loss for words. Do you all see what I'm saying, though? It's, like, kind of hard. So sometimes I just wish that I. I are gonna hate me for saying this, because I kind of hate myself for saying it, but sometimes I just wish that everything was, like, a little bit more pg, because then we wouldn't even have to go there, you know? It's like, now we have to go there. Now I have to even think twice. But, you know, I also say sometimes on my podcast, so I'm guilty of it too. You know, it's like, maybe I. If I could just PG everything out, then maybe y' all could listen to me around your children. I don't know. It's definitely making my wheels turn. Okay, so it's a start. Did you want to talk about the summer I can pretty. You stirred a lot of controversy. Oh, okay. So, yeah, speaking of the summer I turned pretty, I want to end the this podcast with saying, I hate that show now. Like, I. I loved it so much. There was so much build up. Not because it was, like, an amazing show, but they just did really well with the characters and that plot for a little bit. I now despise the show. I honestly don't even know if I want to watch. Like, spoiler, spoiler alert. But now she goes to France. She tries to sign up for, like, a class or she tries to enroll into a school that she never actually got into. And then her backpack is stolen. She's running. She meets all these new people. It's such a, like, side plot and such a. Like, I'm like, get to the point. Like, this is a love story. We need to know what happens. And, like, we want to see Conrad, we want to see Connie, and I don't like how people are treating Connie. He just needs a hug so desperately. Like, people are just, like, leaving him and saying all these horrible things. And I'm just so. I'm sick of the show dragging on and the plot is getting so weird. It's so. That episode was so pointless. Like, you literally could just, like, X that one out and, like, just keep going. Like, I truly. It's so silly. And so I'm really just disappointed. And. And then also, like, oh, my gosh. Because everyone is so mean to Conrad. And then you see Jeremiah so heartbroken. He's actually, like, mourning belly so much. Like, it's so sad that I'm kind of team Jeremiah now. You know, Like, I'm. I'm kind of team Jeremiah the way that they're, like, playing my heartstrings. I feel for him and he is such a good looking guy, you know, he's just a good looking guy. And also, I will say Chris Briney. That's his name in real life. I feel like right now, when you see him, like, outside, I just feel like he doesn't really look very well. He looks like he hasn't seen the sun in a long time, but not like, you know, it's like, oh, pale. But like, it's like actually, like, I want you to get vitamin D back into your skin, you know, he just doesn't look very, like, healthy. Like, he's kind of. I feel like he's. He's looking a little skinny. Like he's not eating enough. And. And so I'm just really worried about Connie, baby, all, like, all together. And so I think that's why I'm kind of leaning towards Jeremiah. I'm feeling health from him, you know, but, you know, I will watch the next episode because I do need to know. But I hope we get back on track. So that's all I had to really say about that. This episode has been great. Thank you for listening to just me. If you like these solo episodes, let me know. They're very challenging for me. So you would have to really like them for me to do this again. Like, it would have to be really worth it because this was new. This was new for me. But thank you guys for listening and we'll talk to you next week. Bye. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.