EP 443: The MF Read

Summary

Decisions, Decisions – EP 443: "The MF Read"

Date: October 20, 2025
Hosts: Mandii B and WeezyWTF

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Episode Overview

In this candid and fiery episode, Mandii B and WeezyWTF dive into the intricacies of non-traditional relationships, modern expectations around housing, dating, and financial security, and the pushback they often receive from listeners and society at large. The duo takes direct aim at toxic online comments, addresses generational shifts in attitudes, and unpacks personal challenges like loss, grief, and the realities of being ambitious Black women navigating love, finances, and public opinion. Expect vulnerable reflections, hilarious rants, and an unfiltered “read” of critics, culture, and each other.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Home, Happiness & Millennial Housing Realities

(02:14 – 14:00)

• Mandii’s Contentment in Atlanta: Mandii expresses deep satisfaction with her move: “I thought I would be like rushing super back to New York and I’m not. …That’s the joy of not having no fucking kids.” (03:52)
• The Therapy of Being Well: For the first time in years, Mandii feels so good, she jokes about skipping therapy because she’s just “bragging about life.” (03:56)
• Weezy’s Cartography Experience: Weezy discusses "cartography" (the astrology of location), describing how it validated her deep connection to Mexico and Brazil: “Where do I go all the time? Mexico. Mexico and Brazil, bitch says, strong sense of belonging, energizing home base…” (05:27-06:41)
• New York Real Estate Madness: Weezy details the financial rabbit holes of buying in NYC—unexpected taxes, co-op/condo confusion, and skyrocketing prices: “You would pay $2,300 a month on top of the mortgage. …I’m tired of people forcing me. And it’s hard because my man, I’ve…” (08:58)
• Homeownership Pressure: Both hosts critique the outdated “American dream” ideal, especially under current conditions: “Everything they told us was a lie.” (15:32)

2. Societal Scripts & The Millennial Unraveling of Old Narratives

(14:00 – 18:00, 31:06 – 35:19)

• Challenging Norms: Mandii rails against being shoehorned into traditional paths: “Be an independent woman. Get your decree. Got that… now they just sitting on my shelf, not worth a goddamn, and I’m sitting on $42,000 worth of loans.” (14:15)
• Children & Money: Both agree the only friends happy to parent are rich, but even then, parenting comes with sacrifices and second thoughts: “All my friends with kids…there’s always a ‘but’…the financial, the time, everything.” (15:19)
• Homeownership is a Scam?: “The American dream is gone. Everything they told us was a lie…” (15:32)
• Prostitution Mindset in Dating: A conversation about women who expect large “date fees,” and the blurred lines between transactional relationships and authentic partnership: “If you are charging and they were going to take you on a date…you are a prostitute.” (31:15)

3. Public Scrutiny & Social Media Clapping Back

(35:19 – 45:49)

• Reading Online Haters: The central “read” kicks off as they dissect negative (and often misogynistic or misguided) YouTube comments directed at their choices and platforms.
  • Notable Read:

    “I’m not toxic, I’m not crazy. And what I’m not is dangerous. What I am is the woman you wish you was, puss asshole.”
    — Mandii B (37:49)

• The Power of Speaking Up: Mandii shares her journey from people-pleasing and “taking crumbs” to now being absolutely clear and vocal about what she wants and expects. (38:25 – 41:48)
• Coexisting and Pages in Relationships: Both note that healthy partnerships often require weathering times when partners aren’t on the same page—communication is key: “Checking—are we on the same page? …When your relationship ain’t [good], you got off the page.” (45:49 – 46:05)

4. Non-Traditional Relationships, Check-Ins & Communication

(42:52 – 46:05)

• Open Relationships Require More Dialogue: Weezy describes the constant need for “check-ins” in her open relationship: “Are we on the same page again today? Because yes, pages can flip.” (43:31)
• Monogamy vs Non-Monogamy: They reflect on how non-traditional relationships can actually inspire more frequent honest conversations than typical “default monogamy." (44:44-45:49)

5. Cultural Specifics: The Braiding Salon Chronicles

(21:48 – 31:06)

• Weezy’s Hair Nightmares: Weezy tells a hilarious but ultimately disheartening story about chasing affordable braids in Flatbush, encountering salon chaos, and navigating cultural norms.
  • Notable Quote:

    “She said, ‘Everything okay?’ I said, ‘No, this isn’t what I asked for.’ …I started to tear up.”
    — Weezy (27:19)

• Why Quality (and Price) Matters: The struggles highlight the challenges of finding reliable Black hair services, grief over the loss of a beloved stylist, and inflation in Black beauty.

6. Loss, Grief, and Toxic Responses

(50:45 – 61:12)

• Weezy’s Grief: Weezy vulnerably recounts the sudden loss of her stylist, Shay, and the emotional turmoil of seeing callous, judgmental comments about her late friend’s family’s financial situation.
  • Memorable Quote:

    “You really came out to say that about a black family, you stupid bitch.”
    — Weezy (54:29)

• Black Community Realities: They address the lack of life insurance education, systematic barriers to generational wealth, and urge listeners to think twice before shaming families in crisis.
  • Mandii’s Mic Drop:

    “Do you have it set up to where your people connected to you [can afford your funeral]?”
    — Mandy B (57:00)

7. Sex Positivity, Respectability, and Black Women in Media

(62:19 – 68:54)

• Support & Critique from Other Black Women: Both express frustration that much of the greatest resistance to their work comes not from men, but other Black women in positions of power. (62:19-63:33)
• Respectability Politics in Brand Deals: Weezy references being excluded from brand opportunities due to her sexually-liberated public persona, despite similar white sex podcasts facing none of the same gatekeeping.

8. Judging Women for Reproductive Choices: The Cardi B Conversation

(68:54 – 73:31)

• Who Has the Right to Judge: They debate the hypocrisy of judging celebrities’ reproductive choices versus the realities facing less wealthy women.

  • “I've had those conversations with friends, bro, pull the vacuum out.”
    — Mandy B (67:46)

• Celebrity Reality vs. Public Expectations: Deep dive into Cardi B’s choices, relationship expectations, and societal double standards applied to Black women with money versus women without.

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Notable Quotes

• Mandii B (03:56):
  “I have a breather. This time of year for the last five years has been the year that I crash… And so maybe that’s why like this year just feels different because I’m not in that space. So I feel good, I feel great… All my niggas are still showing up.”
• Weezy (05:27):
  “Where do I go all the time? Mexico. Mexico and Brazil, bitch, says, strong sense of belonging, energizing home base... I saw that shit. I said, this might be real, bro.”
• Mandii B (14:15):
  “Girls, I understand why they advise us to get married and have kids before 25. Because after that, our brain starts working and the decision won’t seem so reasonable anymore.”
• Weezy (43:33):
  “Pages can flip… Being on the same page is literally—when someone’s off the page, that’s how a relationship ends.”
• Mandii B (37:49):
  “I’m not toxic, I’m not crazy. And what I’m not is dangerous. What I am is the woman you wish you was, puss asshole.”
• Weezy (54:29):
  “You really came out to say that about a black family, you stupid bitch.”
• Mandii B (57:00):
  “Do you have it set up to where your people connected to you [can afford your funeral]?”

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Timestamps for Important Segments

• 02:14 – Mandii talks “manifesting” her life in Atlanta and finding peace.
• 05:27 – Weezy explains cartography and global “soul homes.”
• 08:52 – 12:18 – Deep dive into NYC real estate and shocking costs.
• 14:15 – 15:32 – The unraveling of the Millennial “dream” and motherhood pressures.
• 21:48 – 31:06 – Weezy’s hair salon misadventures and grief for her stylist.
• 35:19 – 37:49 – Beginning of the “MF Read”: Reading online haters (esp. Alexis Barnes).
• 41:48 – 46:05 – Communication in non-traditional relationships; being on (and off) the same page.
• 50:45 – 61:12 – The loss of Shay and confronting toxic, classist comments (esp. Lily Edwards).
• 62:19 – 63:33 – Black women’s resistance to their own liberation in corporate settings.
• 68:54 – 73:31 – Discourse on judging women’s reproductive choices, especially high-profile women like Cardi B.

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Memorable Moments

• The DM Readings: Mandii and Weezy “read” their most aggravating YouTube commenters, both cathartic and comedic.
• Weezy’s Emotional Vulnerability: The open grief around her stylist’s death and the reality of being left alone, financially and emotionally, after loss.
• Mandii’s “Puss Asshole” Monologue: Quickly becoming iconic for its full-throated self-defense and refusal to be shamed.
• Cardi B Debate: Intersection of celebrity, agency, and double standards for Black women is discussed with complexity and humor.
• Final Reflections on Voice: Both hosts reinforce the value of candid, authentic self-expression, especially for Black women handling public scrutiny.

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Final Takeaways

• Live Authentically: Both Mandii and Weezy encourage listeners to define happiness and success for themselves, refusing to bow to outdated norms or others’ opinions.
• Communicate Openly: Whether in non-traditional relationships or navigating daily life, communicating needs and boundaries is central.
• Push Back Against Respectability: The pressures Black women face from inside their community can be as intense as those from outside—and must be named.
• Don’t Judge Families in Crisis: Especially in Black communities, shaming people for not meeting arbitrary economic benchmarks misses the larger context of systemic injustice.

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For more on sex, liberation, and the unfiltered navigation of modern womanhood, catch “Decisions, Decisions” every Monday and join the conversation.

(Note: Skip to 35:19 for the main “read” and clap-back portions; 50:45 onward for the deeply moving segment on loss and community support.)

Transcript

[Mandy B]

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[Weezy]

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[Mandy B]

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[Mandy B]

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[Mandy B]

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[Mandy B]

Excludes Massachusetts. My response was. And I'm gonna further iterate on it because I want you bitches to stop playing in my motherfucking face. I'm not toxic, I'm not crazy. And what I'm not is dangerous. What I am is the woman you wish you was. Puss. Asshole. This is actually on this episode.

[Weezy]

This is gonna be my read. Okay? So this. It's gonna get dark, but it also kind of has to do with this prostitute. Y n gotta take care of me, right? Okay.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

Welcome to Decisions, Decisions.

[Mandy B]

I don't think you should say decisions, decisions. It sounded like you was talking. It cursed him.

[Weezy]

You definitely say the welcome.

[Mandy B]

Welcome to the new podcast.

[Weezy]

Oh, wait, you wanna say it together?

[Mandy B]

Decisions, decisions.

[Weezy]

Hey, guys.

[Mandy B]

Welcome to another episode of Decisions to Sizzy Homes. I'm your girl, Mandy B. AKA that bitch. Hey, everybody.

[Weezy]

Welcome back to another episode. My name is Weezy, and we're in Atlanta today. I know that if you're a YouTube watcher, sometimes things look different. We record everywhere at this point.

[Mandy B]

We record everywhere.

[Weezy]

We record everywhere, y'. All. So right now we're in Atlanta.

[Mandy B]

That's right where I live now. And I love it. And I'm glad that I get to spend more time at home.

[Weezy]

How's your time at home? And.

[Mandy B]

Oh, no, it's been great. It's been great. I'm looking forward to the holidays. I haven't decided where I want to go. I don't know. I've been doing Aruba. Last year, I did St. Croix, but I'm Just. I'm just loving it. I'm loving it. I thought I would be like rushing super back to New York and I'm not. I'll be here, I think probably like another three to five years. I feel like that's what I'm giving myself. No clue. I talked about. I don't like any other really cities.

[Weezy]

You don't feel like you would want to stay?

[Mandy B]

No, I'm not staying here forever. I. I feel like I'm just a nomad anyways. Like maybe I go back to New York. If I can afford my penthouse in overlooking Central Park, I will. That's what I'd like. I have no. I feel like that's the joy of not having no fucking kids. Like I genuinely feel like whatever my mood feels like in three to five years is where I'll go. Like my mood was pushing me back here. I manifested a radio show. I got it. I've been spending a lot of time with my friends. I love it. I have the space. I have the exact space that I wanted. Like I wanted a two story loft. That's what I even wanted in New York. So I don't know. I don't know where I'll want to be in three to five years after the pandemic. A don't even try to think or guess what the the world has for me. So I'm just really happy, like so happy to wear. Like I've pushed off like my last two therapy like sessions because I did like two sessions where I just felt like I was bragging about life and I was like, I'm not gonna pay you what I pay you to talk about how I'm not dealing with anything mentally and I'm not crying and I'm not worried and I'm not anxious and I'm like, whoo, I have a breather this time of year for the last five years has been the year that I crash. Whether I'm just miserable, I'm crashing out from work, I'm depleted, I'm exhausted, I'm not happy. And so maybe that's why like this year just feels different because I'm not in that space. So I feel good, I feel great. I feel, um. All my niggas are still showing up on being great.

[Weezy]

All my four all.

[Mandy B]

No. Did you get to three now? No, it's three. It's three. One fell off.

[Weezy]

Just naturally fell off. You cut them?

[Mandy B]

No. He had another relationship that I just felt like was making him not show up for me enough. But. And that's Fine, I got the other three. And welcoming another one. If anyone comes in my life. No, I'm great. Like, my partners are great. They show up. I'm just doing really good. So I'm excited for the holidays and the break that we normally get at the end of the year and just seeing what next year has, like, I'm really excited about next year. Outside of the orange Cheeto up the world. But I'm, like, in a good place. I'm happy.

[Weezy]

That's good. I'm happy. I feel like the sun. The south can do that for you too. So trying to think. Well, you will be hearing this after my Brazil trip, which I would have loved to talk about live in real time. Hopefully we can do that on a town hall with y'. All. Because I've been hearing fans and people talk about Brazil. I feel like my whole life. And, like, recently, I did something called cartography. Have you ever heard this?

[Mandy B]

No.

[Weezy]

Let me try to pull up. My friend Andre did it for me. So it's basically based on where you're born, your time, like your horoscope a little bit, but where your body should be, where you're happiest. Okay, mine. Here's the short one. This one's crazy. And when he sent it to me, he was like, nigga, yours is actually wild. Summary of potential soul homes. California coast, spiritual growth and resonance. Spain and Portugal for expansion, fortune, and cultural alignment, which I love. Spain, Never been to Portugal. New York City. Career magnetism, artistic and social recognition and love. And then India for karmic and spiritual soul home. Once it, like, kind of branches out because it gets bigger. Another line that I run through, this one is crazy. Where do I go all the time? Mexico. Mexico and Brazil, bitch says, strong sense of belonging, energizing home base, keeping you emotionally, eventually adventurous feeling at home when traveling to this place. Bitch, I saw that shit. I said, this might be real, bro.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

The fact that, like, I just always end up in Mexico.

[Mandy B]

Always, always, always.

[Weezy]

So it's funny you mentioned Penthouse. I have been looking to buy my boyfriend, and I've been looking. Most of you know that. Listen to Horrible. He's in. He's a real estate investor, and so some of the rates are going down. Ish. In New York. Not crazy, but, you know, talking about living together, he's like, I'd rather own. I'd rather own. I'd rather own. So this is how crazy New York real estate is. This is also probably my fault for not knowing what I should be doing. But find a Penthouse not even my style as far as where it is. And it's funny because you said overlooking Central Park. I want to live below 21st Street. I love the West Village. I love downtown. Rather be in the East Village, but whatever. Found an apartment. I'm like, this is perfect for a kid to. With a parking garage. I don't have a car. He wants to make sure he can always park. And I was like, this is perfect. Gym, doorman, whatever. It's not at Budget, but it's like right there. Put in an offer. Offer gets accepted. I. I'm like, holy. So start going over paperwork with the real estate agent that I have. By the way, hit up Matt the mortgage guy. You guys hit him up. Matt, mortgage guy, Ian, dumb laugh. I feel like they're all in that ethos. But he was super helpful when him and I were looking for mortgage loans. So the agent is like, all right, so your common charges are 1100. Super low monthlies. That's great for New York. I was like, yay, great. And then your taxes monthly are $1300. I was like, wait, wait, wait, nigga. I thought the monthly was 1100. Because I put in an offer for New York crib before. She's like, that was a co op. A co op includes the taxes. Okay? A condo in New York City has your common charges and your taxes. I would have been paying $2,300 a month on top of the mortgage. I was really sitting there like, I don't want that bad. I don't want home ownership that bad. I'm tired of people forcing me. And it's hard because my man, I've.

[Mandy B]

Given up on that. I'm not going to lie so hard like next year. I have talked to. I say I've.

[Weezy]

Your best friend's an agent now. I'm.

[Mandy B]

I'm going to go, I'm going to get one. But not that I want to live in. Like, I know what I want to live in is above what I want to pay to live anywhere. Like, I'm not home enough. But I literally am thinking of next year having my three and a half. I'll say I have three and a half because one of my old sugar daddies back in fiction. We're not. He not getting no sugar. But he's still. Daddy, what's wrong with you? He's not giving. He's not getting sugar.

[Weezy]

Medila.

[Mandy B]

No, no, no, no, no, no. Well, no, I would buy here in Atlanta. I wouldn't buy in New York. But literally that's. I'm Going to have all of them combined to buy me a house next year because I'm getting titties, my 36 inch watch and my luggage. Like I have all the things I'm getting for my birthday and Christmas this year. Next year everybody got to combine to get me a down payment for a house. But same thing I've been talking about. I'm like, well, taxes sucks, renovations suck. Like having to be like in charge of everything when it happens, bro, that doesn't sound like fun. So I'm trying to say in the comments, I'm trying to think about.

[Weezy]

I don't know what people say.

[Mandy B]

Well, they still say that real estate is the way to go, but like, but that's where I'm like, I think as millennials, bitch, when I look and see what them 50 year olds got to pay like 20 years ago, 30 years ago on a motherfucking house, bitch, it is like triple, quadruple that price. And I'm not seeing specifically in Atlanta anything go up, bitch. All I get notifications every day. Property dropped by 25k. Property dropped by 50k.

[Weezy]

I know, me too.

[Mandy B]

Every day Zillow is just alerting me if you want to know how.

[Weezy]

The one I wanted was my apartment. And now I realize why. My apartment that I put the offering on the escrow is when you fully go through with the right. So you put your offer, your offer gets accepted, then you put the money and then it goes into escrow. So I didn't get to that process yet because we started to talk about the monthlies, taxes, etc. I just wanted, I wanted to put that offer in. So under a million dollars for a two bedroom in New York City below, I'd say 54th Street, Upper East Side. And two, it's me.

[Mandy B]

I didn't go hold you. Shit sounds crazy.

[Weezy]

It sounds great.

[Mandy B]

No, no, no. But no, now that I'd have left New York, I know New York is fucking dumb, but New York's not dumb. If you want to say suck dick in the alley, have your late nights out, like New York gives you exactly what you would want New York to give you, except quality of life. Now what I realized, I don't want.

[Weezy]

To suck dick in alley.

[Mandy B]

You could suck dick. You could suck. You could jack somebody off in an Uber.

[Weezy]

I'll show you what it looks like.

[Mandy B]

You could go to a sex club. You could end up in a dungeon. You could literally. I shared it on one, I don't know if it was this episode or need to know bitch. Last time I Was in New York. I fell into a goddamn bar and had shots with Mary J. Blige. New York offers amazing experiences, but in terms of quality of life, bitch, it is the fucking show.

[Weezy]

This apartment, right? This was the one, bitch. Guess how much the offer got accepted for? 8:30. Do you see how high that price is? So that got me worried because I.

[Mandy B]

Said, this pisses me off. This would be 250 in Atlanta. I could show you apartment no. I can show you. That would be 250,000 in Atlanta.

[Weezy]

That's what I loved about this apartment is it was a seven minute walk to Central park. And I thought, whoa, my nigga lives upstate. I call Westchester upstate.

[Mandy B]

It's upstate.

[Weezy]

He's like, listen, I need outside. I need nature, I need quiet. I can't deal with this bullshit. I can't handle this shit. You want to walk outside, we see niggas. I don't want to see nobody. So I'm like, this is perfect. Maybe I'm going back to my roots. You know, when my sugar daddy got me that apartment on 54th and 8th, maybe I'm going back. Maybe I'm going back, bitch. For the apartment to get accepted that low. So then my agent and I are like, both saying. She's like, no, no, we need to do a deep dive on this shit. We got to figure out if the building is about to put a. I don't know. The word is not an abatement, but there's something they put on top of homeowners. Let's just say, for example, for anyone listening, maybe you find a homeowner's association fee that's 300 bucks, but for the next five years, it's 1100. Because maybe they want to install an elevator or something else, right? Okay. She's like, something got to be off, bitch. Because how the fuck they accept the offer? $200,000 less. Come to find out, it's the taxes and the monthlies. So her and I are freaking out that we also started thinking, well, maybe they're building something else on top to obstruct the views. Who knows? But what I did learn through this is like, and I've said this over the years, I feel like the last two or three years, I do feel like somebody's pushing me. It's not even just him. I feel like the world is pushing when you have money or you're at a certain age or credit score, bye, bye, bye. But I really am happy, and I don't want to buy, buy, buy the.

[Mandy B]

Fact that I'm talking about wanting to buy, to still rent something else. Like, to me, it's the pressure of. And that's the thing. So I've been talking about it with a lot of my friends. And in terms of. Hold on. Actually, let me read. Let me read this. I'm gonna read this quote. I just screenshot it today because it was fantabulous. And I feel like it's what we're dealing with, right? So I said, girls, I understand why they advise us to get married and have kids before 25. Because after that, our brain starts working and the decision won't seem so reasonable anymore.

[Weezy]

That's bad.

[Mandy B]

This is what I think about as being a millennial is being a woman in your 30s. We've been pushed to think that all of these certain things are how we're supposed to exist. Okay? Be an independent woman. Get your decree. Got that? And now they just sitting on my shelf, not worth a goddamn, and I'm sitting on $42,000 worth of loans. Then they talk about have kids. Everybody with kids is miserable. They won't say it out loud, but bitch, they do in a group chat. And they do today. Friends with no kids.

[Weezy]

I will say this. The only caveat. Do you know what I really believe it is?

[Mandy B]

What?

[Weezy]

Fucked up y', all. And it's elitist.

[Mandy B]

What?

[Weezy]

My only friends that are happy with kids have fucking money.

[Mandy B]

Well, no, I still friends with money. And they still my friends with bread. They can live shout out to Brit and her husband. They is dope as fuck. He's like a nursing nurses. She's a fucking celebrity makeup artist. They live fucking beautifully. They were my neighbors and lic breaded. And when I tell you every day, she be like, bitch, I love my kids, but. There's always a but. Like the way that sometimes she be like, girl, I done already spent $800 on a sitter this week. Not finna go out. Cause I'm not paying that bitch no more money.

[Weezy]

I don't know if that necessarily means someone's unhappy.

[Mandy B]

I'm not saying she's unhappy. But the fact is, a lot of you bitches, if you could take it back, you wouldn't have had the bestest. That's all I'm gonna say. You wouldn't have had them if you knew how beautiful life would be without them.

[Weezy]

I don't think that's true.

[Mandy B]

Okay, well, I'm saying this speaking for me and my thoughts and beliefs on life, because this is what I see, this is what I hear. And every single person With a baby, loves their fucking kids, but would also love to not have them in certain instances of life. And that's just the fact of the matter, whether you have fucking money or not. Secondly, thirdly, fourthly. I'm on the fourthly. They tell us that we had to have the white picket fence, the husband, and yes, the mortgage. Home ownership is tricky right now, baby. It is 7 to 8% in interest right now. All of the homes are priced over. And now what's happening, especially in Atlanta, you have a higher supply than demand. So now all the people that invested all this money, hoping for whatever, get back, they was going to get back and get back nothing they about to see here and either break even or all the things I just want y' all to know, the American dream is gone. Everything they told us was a lie. And now we got a Cheeto in office trying to make it to where me and we can't even say what we want to say whenever we want to motherfucking say it. They taking away our rights. They're taking away our freedoms. And so, just so you know, whatever you thought life should be, bitch, live for you. That's it. We're in an individualistic society any motherfucking way. So live for you. And that's where I'm going to go with it. I don't talk to enough people. I talk all day, every day. Between here, between my radio show, between selective ignorance, between us talking about a book, everything else, bitch. This is an assimilation. The aliens is watching us. They got a new producer that like the drama. And so the way that we are living life right now, bitch, the aliens watching at us laughing. Bitch, you. You used to call me love and hip hop, bitch. We. We in worse than loving hip hop. America is Zeus network. And the aliens are laughing at us.

[Weezy]

Us Zeus making money, though.

[Mandy B]

That's fine. Everybody making money on us. That's why fucking Trump then became a goddamn billionaire while being a president, knowing his goddamn president's salary ain't but 200,000.

[Weezy]

Doesn't he donate it?

[Mandy B]

They have not. Even if he donates his fucking presidency salary. It has noted that now the Trumps have made damn near a billion dollars in the fucking 10 months the nigga done been in office because he's getting all these contracts for his. His shit and his friends. That's why the fucking goddamn planes, they not going to reimburse you for cancellations, delays, luggage anymore because he in bed with the goddamn people taking over them goddamn airlines. All I know is hopefully we're seven Minutes in, because that was a lot of fucking bleeping. Okay? If y' all are on YouTube, you got to hear all of that shit. But yet the way I just been living right now is just a fucking dump. It's a fucking mess. And I hate that. I am proud to be an American.

[Weezy]

I'm not that proud.

[Mandy B]

I mean, I ain't gonna hold you when I go to other countries. Maybe because I ain't been to Tokyo yet because they seen worlds above us. I just still be happy to be here sometimes. And I don't know why.

[Weezy]

I think it's because I think it's just there.

[Mandy B]

I think it's because I like African American dick and I don't go anywhere else and really find African American dick. Like I find it here in the States. You got African dick and then you have darker complexion. Everything else dick. But I love me some African American dick.

[Weezy]

Especially like the, the African, the black dick elsewhere. They spoil.

[Mandy B]

They're. No, they're also out there. They have turtlenecks. I think that's why I like saying I like African American dick.

[Weezy]

You like a little skin.

[Mandy B]

Skin back. I like African American dicks. Them is I. Those are my favorites.

[Weezy]

My. I've never had an African that wasn't.

[Mandy B]

Okay, my experience and my experience only yours wasn't no. African dicks just weren't good. They were small. They didn't good.

[Weezy]

They like small.

[Mandy B]

Yes.

[Weezy]

Science literally tells us that.

[Mandy B]

No, no, no. There's only one country, Congo. Only Congo. And all I've had was Nigerians and Cameroonians. One Ghanaian.

[Weezy]

I don't want to say who I've had.

[Mandy B]

They was thick.

[Weezy]

I'm.

[Mandy B]

I'm. I'm saying back in the days, y' all know, I used to have a diplomat. I used to have the little who brought me to Dubai. Like, I had my. My share of Africans. The dicks weren't hitting and they were so, like, they were much more respectful in the bedroom. Remember the one African I had, he only wanted missionary, didn't want to fuck me from the back and wouldn't let me suck his dick, which was great for me. Like, I don't want to do work, but it wasn't enjoyable.

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[Weezy]

Well, if I could speak for a moment, I would like to talk about Africans actually, in a way that we didn't think we'd be going.

[Mandy B]

Uh oh. Just so y' all know, we both adhere to our own thoughts, views and opinions. They are separate of each other and so whatever y' all hear moving forward, y' all could roast me on the African American dick and y' all could talk about how that is. And I guess we got to bleep that because that's not a word we a lot to say anymore.

[Weezy]

We just have the floor. They get me.

[Mandy B]

But here go.

[Weezy]

Let me chat for a moment please. Thank you.

[Mandy B]

You got the floor. I ain't saying nothing. So I'm bald.

[Weezy]

We are online, right? And we get to see everybody complaining about the hairstylist and their rules. The rules are necessary. I will now shut the fuck up and relinquish all. I decided. Now many of you know one of my hairstylists died. Rest in peace to Shay. She was amazing. If I wanted to touch up on these braids, I would have went to Shea. She's been my hair stylist for eight Years now I've been going to New Girl for the. The better looking braids. We could say they're providing the human hair. They have a certain style of braiding. So I said, let me get a touch up before we go to this show. Oh, bitch. I decided to go to Flatbush. I should have took that 5 train right back around. Not only did I try Harlem first, because I know you're gonna be in the comments. Like, you should have went here. You should have went here. Oh, you bitches lied. You bitches lied. You bitches lied when you posted the TikToks of the $200 braids. You bitches lied when you said you were getting a deal. You bitches lied when you said YG Wigs had the best human bundle hair. I have had this sin for six days. I had to look at my ring. I had to flat iron it. I had to comb it. I had to deep condition brand new human hair. I want to start off by saying I went into three places, Mandy, Before I decided this would be the one. The only reason I went into the one that I went into is because it seemed cleaner. Let me show you a photo of this bathroom. I want to show you this bathroom. Because my hair was already taken out at this point and there was nothing I could do. Just tell me what you see when you look at it.

[Mandy B]

I would never. I would never judge a braiding spot by their bathroom.

[Weezy]

You wouldn't judge that.

[Mandy B]

Actually, this looks way cleaner than I've been into. Swear to God. Looks way cleaner than I've been in. I lived in the Bronx, though. I'm sorry.

[Weezy]

The floor is filled with piss. Okay, well, or.

[Mandy B]

Or maybe it's water dripping from the braids after they got their girl.

[Weezy]

Too much damn water.

[Mandy B]

But maybe it's. But maybe it's not piss, bro. I'm not gonna lie.

[Weezy]

Whatever it is for.

[Mandy B]

For the African shops that I used to go into over on Hunter. Hunter. Goddamn this. How long I've been out the Bronx, bitch. But there was. There was something. Hunts Point. I'm saying Hunter, Hunts point. And then 125th. I used to go to two shots and one on Elder Avenue. Elder. Elder Avenue. Used to do the straight backs. When I tell you it was that. That's a luxury bathroom. Well, and this is nice. It was half the size of that. And you just go in and you're pissing next to a mop. You're pissing next to.

[Weezy]

Oh, I don't care about that.

[Mandy B]

But that's what say.

[Weezy]

I don't care about the back next to.

[Mandy B]

But people's hair gets wet.

[Weezy]

I don't think that was it. I think that this was just flooding. It was filth. It was nasty. So, boom, I go in there. Someone's.

[Mandy B]

I want to put that on the video, y'. All. We got to put it on. We going to put that on the video. Cuz. It wasn't that bad. I want y' all to see it wasn't that bad to me.

[Weezy]

I posted on IG Live, and, like, you know how you could talk with the live. The MOS was gagging. Okay, okay. So walking, Boom. I'm like, hey. I showed them the photo, Mandy. I said, this is what I'm looking for. Do you know? And you can't say boho braids. I don't do boho braids. I'm like, this is the gypsy bora bora, whatever these bitches call them. I'm like, can you start it from here? Yes, yes, yes. It's. It sits it. I'm like, okay, how much? She said, 40. I already knew that price was too low. I said, give me somebody more experienced. Do it for 75. That actually made her say, okay, I'll do it. So the shop owner started to want to do my hair, and I was like, thank God, because you know, you got to let them like, bitch, I'm serious, girl. I show them what I wanted, and what I wanted was not what I got. They start taking out my hair with a comb. That was number one filthy. I said, no, that's not going to work. I need you to put it in that barber side. Whatever. Huffing and puffing at me now like I'm saying something crazy. Then she start trying to comb my hair out with the fucking super tight rat tail comb. Don't comb my hair out with that. You're going to pull my hair out. And you know, you feel like you can't say nothing to the aunties. I ain't trying to be disrespectful. So I'm like, you know what? Let me just let this happen. So I started taking my hair out. Then her baby come over. I don't give a fuck. Sit on my lap. If that's going to make your mama comfortable, we going to get through this. So I said, you know what? I'm the type of person. I'm sure you are, too. You're getting your hair done or something like that. Makeup. Someone comes to your home. I'm ordering you a smoothie. Whenever I'm ordering something.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, you nicer than me.

[Weezy]

Oh, you don't do that. Okay, I know. If I'm getting a service and I'm going to order something, I'm going to order you something. So I said, you want some? Yeah, tuna sandwich. Cool. First of all, the sandwich gets there. Mandy, the lady has a bite of the sandwich and goes, oh, I don't eat mayonnaise. What the fuck is a tuna sandwich? Then? What is the tuna?

[Mandy B]

Where you at?

[Weezy]

So I don't say nothing. Then someone come over to me and I was like, this bitch is like.

[Mandy B]

Do you do a TV show?

[Weezy]

I said, no, I seen you before on the YouTube show. She famous, y'.

[Mandy B]

All. I hate that. I hate that. I hate that.

[Weezy]

So then they start seeing my hair as I'm asking for it. She goes, this is good. Now that's the number one problem, bitch. Now you complimenting the other braided bitch. You do good, Mandy. These braids that this bitch gave me were so terrible, I started to tear up. I started to tear up. She said, everything okay? I said, no, this isn't what I asked for. I had no choice. I had to go to this fucking event. She's like, it's okay. It's okay. I'm gonna fix it. Now we got three ladies in my head. One lady pulled a comb out of her own head to start fixing what I had going on. And I was really just like, what am I gonna do? Do I take the whole thing out? I don't have time to go to this vet and take the whole thing out. She's like, don't worry. I'll give you a discount now. It's only $70, bro. We have got to stop going for the cheap shit. I ain't saying I was going for the cheap shit. I'm just saying my braider. One braider passed and the other one's on vacation. What am I to do? I almost cut my hair off and did blonde like. Mandy, when you see the PDF and it says, leave your kids at home. Make sure your hair is blow dried. Make sure it's combed out. Don't bring any other people to the appointment. Just fucking listen. I am never again walking into a shop where I gotta sit my feet up on the goddamn chair and wait for the roaches if I have to pick up my bag and make sure bugs don't get in it, I'm not doing this shit no more.

[Mandy B]

You know, bugs is a hard. That's my hard limit.

[Weezy]

Duh.

[Mandy B]

Fuck the bathroom. I can't do no bugs.

[Weezy]

They're in There. If the bathroom looks like that, I'm.

[Mandy B]

Not gonna sit there and deal with bugs, not see invisible bugs. The bugs can be in the wall. I don't want to see the bugs.

[Weezy]

But this culture of this, these type of braiding shops just being like little shops. Da da da da da, whatever. People that semi know how to do braids, they really only know how to do one type of braid and it's at the knot and all the way down. They can't do none of this other shit. They sitting here trying to figure it out because every bitch bitch on Instagram does it. But at the end of the day, these braiders are charging $1,000 because they do a good fucking job. I'm never again bitch. I'm wearing natural hair.

[Mandy B]

I'm so glad I'm a bald headed bitch.

[Weezy]

I know you are.

[Mandy B]

Because $1,000 for some braids. I wish a bitch would. These bitches are 170 is what I used to pay before I chopped it off. And that's it.

[Weezy]

Were you doing. No, you were doing shirt likes the.

[Mandy B]

Knotless 170 in the Bronx Hunts Point. And it was fine.

[Weezy]

The braids.

[Mandy B]

When I tell you the braid prices can suck my dick. Like how braid prices went up and coochie prices went down. I just don't understand what's happening with our economy. It's not making sense.

[Weezy]

Because bitch, it's not making sense. The human hair is getting higher. This skill set is changing.

[Mandy B]

And then, and then Ish wanted to be mad at me when he was like, well, what you bring to the table, bitch, as a woman to come out looking like anything is fucking expensive.

[Weezy]

Wait, I don't know what you're talking about. What's the context?

[Mandy B]

Ish was. We talked about the. The lady from the tennis player who said I charge $1,000 just to take me out on a date. She's some tennis player who was in the World Cup.

[Weezy]

And is she a prostitute?

[Mandy B]

No, I said bitches is operating like prostitutes. So that was my sentiment. So his thing was, well, if a man is supposed to pay for the date, what does a woman. What is her financial investment?

[Weezy]

I hate these hoes, dog.

[Mandy B]

Well, the conversation was, nigga y' all want us to look a certain way. This shit is expensive. Like bitches. Why stop getting the lashes? Because the lashes, the way I sleep is rough. Apparently. So one I be gone before the next. I can't do it.

[Weezy]

And I wait, she's joking. She really charges a thousand?

[Mandy B]

No, she charges. You didn't see the Girl, the tennis match girl. No, she said, I charge $1,000 to be taken on a date, not to fuck. If you want to take me on a date, it's going to cost you $1,000, which so you don't. You cannot, you cannot be shady. As if we wasn't on. What's your price? What's your price was.

[Weezy]

Because I was acting like a sex worker.

[Mandy B]

I was, but that's what. So that was my sentiment. I would hope that women would just admit to being prostitute.

[Weezy]

So this is the problem.

[Mandy B]

Because that's what they are. If you are charging and they're going to take you on a date. If on the first date you're bringing up how you with bills. If you are bringing up that your son need a babysitter in order for this to take you on a date, whether you or not, I need you to know you are a prostitute.

[Weezy]

You know why I hate this time? Something. Something I was also saying, right? I'm talking to my homegirls. I think it was Josie. Josie on her 40th birthday. She flies in from London. We're just like talking about how the world works. So Josie left World is ghetto. Her corporate job to start a new company where she's working with black female founders only only. And her husband's holding it down while she's exploring her new business and her entrepreneurial side. And she's like, yo, I don't think I would have been able to do this single. Like, I have a kid. I was able to leave.

[Mandy B]

It's because she got a kid. She could have done a single without a kid. She couldn't have probably done it as a single mother.

[Weezy]

Yeah, I mean, maybe not.

[Mandy B]

That's different.

[Weezy]

Maybe not.

[Mandy B]

Doing something single and doing something as a single mother. There's. There's drastic parallels between the two. And there is a difference between entrepreneurship as a woman who's just single and navigating life, maybe dating and having to run a business and be the primary caretaker of a child.

[Weezy]

I mean, I can't speak for. For what it would look like, but either way, like, it's still hard to support yourself while trying a new venture. Right. And just trying it out there and being able and growing. I just hired her too, for trash. So one of the things we were talking about, I was like, you know, bitches got the world so fucked up that, like, when I get this home, if I buy it, whatever, there's going to be a woman somewhere saying, oh, teamwork. They split the down payment.

[Mandy B]

That's crazy.

[Weezy]

He Ain't taking care of you. Oh, I already know. That's how fucking weird I believe the world is now.

[Mandy B]

Not the world. Yeah, but you can hear it.

[Weezy]

It's like that echo chamber of girls thinking.

[Mandy B]

But. But it's an echo chamber of, again, a reality show. Because the reality is that you bitches are fudgeing niggas that aren't helping you with bills, that y' all are fudgeing your baby daddy who's not paying child support, that y' all are with men and still navigating life. However, it is. Like, I know so many girls who have dated and who have partners who. Who still feel the need to go out and deal with other niggas because other niggas do more for them than the guy that they chose.

[Weezy]

This is the thing that's crazier. Right? It's not your nigga. On top of that. Yes, fine. And when Josie and I were talking about. I'm like, bitch, I know. I agree with you. Someone's going to say, oh, she got this, she got that. She still splitting bills with a dig. Now, mind you, I'm not splitting bills. My man is taking care of some of those. We don't even look at. That part is kind of nice. But buying a home is fucking huge purchase, bro. Yeah, we're talking six figure down payment. Like, of course we're going to share that. Now, granted, is there a world where I would be dating a billionaire and not even doing this podcast for you bitches? Sure. But at the end of the day, I'm dating someone normal. I believe that I am normal. I'm definitely making more than most of my peers, but at the same time, like, I'm going to be living out a normal fucking life, so what the fuck am I supposed to do? Just be, I don't know, like, seeking this thing that I see on Instagram. And I think it's very silly to think that two people that are doing well in life can't share that teamwork is bad. I'm so excited to have a partner that can put some money up with me on a crib like this. What? Yeah, like to. To be able to have both of our incomes. If it was just me, I would not be looking at this expensive. But I know at the end of the day that the judgment that we feel from others just because of what they believe relationships should look like, it sucks. Like, it sucks because you can really have someone keep you from your own happiness. And it goes back to just like, really, like the attitude of to Me. What is prostitution charging? $1,000 for a date when at the end of the day, most of you want to find love, most of you want partnership or even the benefits of a rich nigga. And now you gonna charge him to show up to that motherfucker anyway.

[Mandy B]

Damn. I was about to. I like. I like that.

[Weezy]

That.

[Mandy B]

That vent so bad. I cut someone out and I want to lean into it real quick.

[Weezy]

Okay?

[Mandy B]

Because we got it. Decisions. I'm gonna talk to you little pussy ass hoes over on decision. So this is a comment from on our YouTube.

[Weezy]

Oh, boy. Who you about to cut down?

[Mandy B]

Her name is Alexis Barnes. 54. 54. So maybe that helps with it not being her real name. And I didn't like this because if you know me, you fucking know. I believe in accountability for both men and women. Right? I believe in women being delusional a lot of times. And I believe that men sometimes ain't shit. But I'm not a man haters. I also am in the best place of my life where I'm over communicating and demanding and getting exactly what the fuck I want out of life, out of partnership, out of friendship, period. Out of the bedroom, too.

[Weezy]

Oh, no.

[Mandy B]

So let me read this comment that I had an issue with because it's giving projection.

[Weezy]

Oh, Alexis, why'd you do this now, Alexis? Oh, I got one too. I'm doing now.

[Mandy B]

Oh, we gonna do it. Okay, this is. This is.

[Weezy]

Oh, my God. Hold on. This is the.

[Mandy B]

Decisions, decisions. Bitch year end wrap up. You pussy ass hoes had. What y' all had to say about the goddamn rebrand. We too motherfucking nice. We ain't too slutty enough. Well, anyway, pussy asshole, we coming for you bitches today. Anywho, this is the comment, by the way, Dwayne, throw some fucking sounds behind this violin. I don't know what the fuck to throw, but soundscape this shit. Mandy.

[Weezy]

Toxic.

[Mandy B]

I ain't gonna lie. As a grown woman, I know what I want expect. And the people I deal with want the same thing. It can become dangerous and messy if y' all are not on the same pages. She basically said if she's getting what she needs from someone, she wouldn't cut them off if they want something else. That's messy. If she had a dude who loved her in a room full of dudes she haven't sexy with, who's to say it wouldn't get dangerous? That's crazy to me. I don't know. It just doesn't make any sense to me. I'm not dealing with anyone who wants more or less than what I want. We have to be on the same page now, pussy ass hoe.

[Weezy]

Wait. She said, but if you're getting what you want, you wouldn't, bro, I'm.

[Mandy B]

I'm crazy. I'm dangerous. I'm toxic. Because I'm getting what I want from a person, even if they're not getting what essentially what they want from me. And maybe she's talking about is this bae. Maybe she's talking about my ex. There's a lot of niggas recently that. Let's talk about what it is. I'm going to be very, very adamant in the things I'm not willing to do and the things that I don't want. And if you choose to stick around, I'm not going to dead you, nigga. We having fun. We're enjoying each other. We're enjoying partnerships. So my response was. And I'm going to further iterate on it, because I want you bitches to stop playing in my motherfucking face. I'm not toxic. I'm not crazy. And what I'm not is dangerous. What I am is the woman you wish you was, puss asshole. I'm the woman who knows how to talk to a man and tell him exactly how I want. And if he doesn't show up how I need him to show up, I have no shame in walking away. Okay, so this was my response to her. I am vocal about the things I want. I want to make that very clear how powerful it is. You see voice right here tatted on me for a long time in all of my 20s, if y' all read the book no holds barred, I talked about taking crumbs. I talked about being in a place where, you know, I got whatever a man would give me because that was enough. I was in a place where I was fine being the side chick because I didn't think I had the voice or wherewithal or anything to bring to the quote unquote table to make a nigga show up for me. That made me feel validated, bitch. I do now. So let's be very clear. I am vocal about the things I want out the gate with a man. He will know what other partners I have. He will know exactly how I expect him to show up. And if he cannot show up that way, boom, bitch. Bye. I said it's their job to walk away if they're not getting what they want from me. Again, that's communicated. Whatever a nigga wants from me and how we Adhere to each other. Baby, he getting. Cause, baby, what I can't do is make a nigga feel real good in the bed, out the bed, long distance, whatever. He gonna get what he need from me. So we're reciprocating. Bitch, I'm not wasting nobody's time. Secondly, I said it's not dangerous. It's life. You can literally be married and not be on the same page with your husband. Does that mean you're gonna file a divorce? When y' all get off the same page, you can literally have friends that mean the world to you, that matter to you, and y' all end up not on the same page. Does that mean you end those friendships?

[Weezy]

No.

[Mandy B]

As human beings, a lot of times, in a lot of different variants, we are on different pages, coexisting at the same time, trying to make it work. To me, you leave a man or you leave a partner. I'll put it as partner. Because we have everybody from the Alphabet community listening. It doesn't matter what your partner like, where your partner is at the very moment of where y' all might be. At a crossroads, a lot of people end up on different pages at different times. Now, to me, I. I live with wanting to enjoy the human experience, the human experience of partnership, of building memories, of having fun, of orgasming. Sorry, Alexis Barnes, if you are not doing any of those things. But what I want to be very clear and why I love this platform so much. And where. Shout out to Barry, if y' all go on Patreon, there's a story. He says, what did you get from this goddamn podcast? It was my voice and the power to be able to, as a woman, share exactly what I want in the bedroom and out the bedroom and how I want to show up as a woman to you, not lean into the tropes of patriarchy and be exactly what makes me feel happy in the one life I have to live. Because where. Yes, I'm sure we was here before, we gonna be after all of our soul spirits and things that live different lives. Bitch, I don't know them other lives. I be having deja vu, but I don't know what those other lives are. And so. Alexis Barnes, you pussy ass ho. Ain't nothing dangerous or crazy I about a woman being able to live in her fucking truth. And when I tell y', all, I've been so happy lately, that shit pissed me off.

[Weezy]

Cause I said, damn, bitch, dangerous is a big word.

[Mandy B]

Dangerous is A. And. And I.

[Weezy]

No offense, bro.

[Mandy B]

D. Talk toxic.

[Weezy]

Okay, okay.

[Mandy B]

I can talk to you see, I. It was the dangerous and crazy, which also how we live our lives can be deemed crazy to someone. But to label me as a dangerous person and how I'm navigating these relationships when I'm getting fed, like, affirmations from my partners, like, this feels good. I didn't know these type of relationships could exist with women. Like, I love that I could be honest with you, babe, I want to watch you suck a dick. I love watching you with other people. Like, now we get little horrible decisions here.

[Weezy]

They were like, I've never had this. I want to watch you suck.

[Mandy B]

I want to watch you suck dick. And I didn't know I could tell a woman I want to see her suck another man dick. But to be in these spaces where, like, these men. It's not like the Buddha ho whisper anymore. It's not like I'm just dealing with n that want to be pigged and they so shameless. It's men that are like, whoa. I didn't think I could have this fun, exciting relationship and feel safe where I can express the things I want. It includes you being with other men. And we're just open.

[Weezy]

And keep in mind being on the same page. Last night I was out with my man, we're having dinner. We were in Mexico last night on my cartography, and I said something to him along the lines of, we're not really sleeping with people, right? So we just were doing a check in. And I'm like, where are we at with this? Like, who? What's up with the people you talk to? I'm talking about me. He's like, where is this coming from? And I'm like, nothing. So he's asking me like, what's wrong? And I'm like, where did it come from? Nothing. I'm just making sure we're on the same page.

[Mandy B]

Okay, Same page. Okay.

[Weezy]

Because we're on the same page last time we talked about it. Are we on the same page again today?

[Mandy B]

Because yes, pages can flip.

[Weezy]

And he literally said to me when we were leaving, he's like, yo, like, it's crazy. Being on the same page is what breaks people up. Not being on the same page will break you up in a marriage, like, constantly checking. Are we on the same page? Are we good? Are we this?

[Mandy B]

Like, just only for people that don't believe in the power of communicating. And he was possibly being on a.

[Weezy]

Different Monogamy brings up that all the time. We over, over, over talk.

[Mandy B]

Ah. Because. Okay, wait, I didn't think about that.

[Weezy]

Because at One point, he's like, think about, if we weren't having sex with other people, would we even talk about this right now? We would just keep going through life not checking in.

[Mandy B]

To be fair, though, if you were, if you were monogamous, you live in the fear of what they're doing without you knowing, right? So to me, it's honestly the same thing. So him saying, like, would we have this conversation if we were monogamous? Probably. Because if anything shifted in your behavior, my mind is going to go to thinking that you're doing something with someone else. And in non monogamy, it's a constant check in because you're allowing all of these other energies, all of these other people in existence within our relationship. And to be fair, in non monogamy, you risk every chance that maybe there's a connection with someone else, or maybe you find a connection with someone else, or maybe there's a connection where you both want to bring someone else in. To me, it's actually the same thing. The thing is, in non monogamy, you don't do as much communicating. You do more assumption.

[Weezy]

Assuming you do, you do more. Assuming you're like sitting there thinking is the last thing we agreed on. So I think when I was saying it, he's like, what is this trying to bring to the table? I'm like, bro, I'm really trying to.

[Mandy B]

Bring to the table.

[Weezy]

I swear, nothing.

[Mandy B]

You ain't want to throw up a bitch, okay?

[Weezy]

But like, you know, we just haven't been doing it as much. And I'm just like, where are we at? Like, are we good as far as, like, where we stand? Do you not want to do have sex with other people anymore? Because I know that he mentioned to me a few weeks ago, it was a lot of energy dealing with other people. And he was like, I kind of just want to do this together. I'm like, is that still like. And if that happens, is it both of us doing that? Like, what does it look like? But I say all that to say it's always just being on the same page is literally when someone's off the page. That's how a relationship ends. Like, you're on, you're off, you're on, you're off. Like, that is literally what it is when your relationship's good, you're on the same page when your relationship ain't. You got off the page.

[Mandy B]

Maybe. I don't like tables and pages being used as metaphors because this shit gets confusing. Because if you and I are reading the Same book. We could be on a different page, but in the same book, bruh. It just means that either you gotta catch up to where I'm at or you know what? I' ma wait until you catch up to me.

[Weezy]

Something with our book right now that is a little.

[Mandy B]

Wait, what?

[Weezy]

We want children, but we both want children to live in different places. That nigga said that baby ain't about to be in no city. We going to Connecticut. We going to Westchester. We know. We know. When that baby coming out, we'll know where that baby gonna go.

[Mandy B]

This.

[Weezy]

When I saw that two bedroom, I was like, this is perfect for my podcast room and the baby room. He's like, no it's not. Because we could have a five bedroom house in Westchester where you have podcast room, side bitch room, baby room, gym and our room. What the fuck are you talking about?

[Mandy B]

You're not willing to give up the allure. Not even. Not even allure? Hold on. Not even allure? It's the fast paced access that New York City has that upstate doesn't have.

[Weezy]

Okay.

[Mandy B]

This is because how could you want to live in a seven figure two bedroom home knowing you have the option of living in a five bedroom home and it's just a 45 minute longer commute.

[Weezy]

I don't give a shit. I'm not getting in a car. Now here's where I feel.

[Mandy B]

Bruh.

[Weezy]

Bro. You should see though.

[Mandy B]

He's like, are you bro, I'm not gonna lie. You sound crazy.

[Weezy]

I don't care. Number one.

[Mandy B]

You see. I said she sounds crazy.

[Weezy]

There's a few.

[Mandy B]

She sounds toxic, but she doesn't sound dangerous. This is called me dangerous fucking Alexis Barnes.

[Weezy]

You could go to Brooklyn. I said I'll go to Brooklyn. Fuck the men. But the main thing for me is actually. Which he started to understand.

[Mandy B]

Bro, we all.

[Weezy]

If you read the book, you've read that sad ass suicide chapter. Bleep bleep it. Wheezy was ready to go. And you know what else? Going on some walks. Please don't put me in Tarrytown. We're having a big ass house.

[Mandy B]

I used to have a in Terry Town.

[Weezy]

No.

[Mandy B]

Every time I had a from Park Chester, it was only like 15 minutes.

[Weezy]

He'd be trying to take me to nice restaurants and shit up there.

[Mandy B]

I don't give a shit. I like Terrytown.

[Weezy]

I don't give a fuck.

[Mandy B]

That was cute. Now let me you know all the that played on the Knicks in the G league live up there.

[Weezy]

Congratulations to them. I'm not a Terry Girl, I don't.

[Mandy B]

Do Terry Cl and I don't do Terry Clark.

[Weezy]

No Terry Town.

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[Weezy]

All right, now what we get into?

[Mandy B]

Yeah, at this point, where are we at? This is actually on this episode.

[Weezy]

This is gonna be my read.

[Mandy B]

Okay. I love it. Words to the read, not the read. Look at you now. We just read it. Oh, you're reading somebody. By the way. Decisions, decisions. It's your decision to motherfucking support us. Pussy. Asshole. And when y' all motherfucking support us, just know we still horrible over on Patreon. Patreon.com horribledecisions so your turn, Weezy.

[Weezy]

Okay, so this. It's gonna get dark. But it also kind of has to do with this prostitute. Niggas gotta take care of me brain. Okay.

[Mandy B]

Okay.

[Weezy]

Oh, this is long.

[Mandy B]

Oh, bitch, I'm here for this, so.

[Weezy]

I will try to make this quick.

[Mandy B]

No, we got. Girl, you got the last 20 minutes of the pot.

[Weezy]

Let's not the sad part quick. The person I used to do my hair that died, her name is Shea. She has two children. One and a half. You've met Shea. She's done my hair on some sets. One is five. Her the father. Her children woke up next to her. She was not moving. Children were upstairs sleeping.

[Mandy B]

That's what happened to my grandpa.

[Weezy]

Oh. And like, that's the thing, you know, like, when my grandma died. The only piece we have is they live the life. Yeah. Shay is our age.

[Mandy B]

Oh.

[Weezy]

Breastfeeding age to one of her kids. Okay. Crazy. A lot of you have went to her because you found her from my page. She's an amazing girl. Real fan of the Horror Hive. For real. Watched every episode with her clients was do or die hore Hive rip. Now I post her baby daddy and her and her children. And to go fund me saying, hey, this man is left in the world with two small children. Whatever you can do to help them would be great. Lily Edwards.

[Mandy B]

Oh, I love that we calling these hoes out today.

[Weezy]

Oh, Mandy.

[Mandy B]

Lily Edwards.

[Weezy]

This me up so bad. I shed tears. And my man had to take my phone for an hour because I couldn't believe a black woman said this in.

[Mandy B]

I'm sure Alexis was black too, based on her photo. Barnes, can y' all not be doing that to us?

[Weezy]

Oh, no. This bitch.

[Mandy B]

Okay, let's see.

[Weezy]

This is nasty.

[Mandy B]

All right.

[Weezy]

What is on a dead girl's photo? Okay, this is so sad. Like, really sad. But respectfully, how can the man stood who stands next to her not be able to afford a funeral? He helped to make her a mother twice. Great lesson on dating and co creating with people that can stand on their own two feet and provide for their children without you having to be present. This is just all very sad, especially for those two girls that don't have a mother. Hope the father can do a great job in providing and protecting. Oh. Oh, bitch.

[Mandy B]

That's.

[Weezy]

What do you know?

[Mandy B]

That's what she chose to fix her goddamn thumbs to type to somebody.

[Weezy]

Mandy. So the tears that were coming out were like, you. Like, I just would never think a mom of two, a black man, a black woman with two black babies living in New York City, a sudden Death like that. You would come out your stupid fucking mouth like, what? So I started to reply, I couldn't reply. I had to block her because I started to get so like, revved up. And a lot of friends donated. Leah McSweeney gave a lot of money, by the way. Just seeing it, so many moms felt this shit. Average black family in America makes $56,000, bro.

[Mandy B]

Though the average funeral is. Talk about the average funeral cost, please, $10,000.

[Weezy]

And to me, I've heard of more.

[Mandy B]

Yeah, and you, I thought it was.

[Weezy]

About, really came out there and say, a man that just lost his second income of his house got babies. Mandy, do you know how much babies cost in America? And you said, oh, great lesson. Who the fuck is the lesson for systematically? Shay and JD are a product of this fucked up country. We're in this fucked up medical system. We're in the same hospital that let this woman go. She put a case out on him two days before she died that told her she was mentally ill for thinking she had something wrong with her head and ended up waking up dead. This same system that keeps us down and you got the nerve to say, you stupid bitch. Lily Edwards, what a great lesson on who to co parent with. Oh, let's just say let Shay have found a rich athlete that broke his fucking leg. Then what? Let Shay have met a man that was super rich and got addicted to drugs. Then what? She has a very loving, strong fo. Mandy, they ain't gonna leave.

[Mandy B]

I can't believe she wrote that.

[Weezy]

Bitch Shay, my dog. I be like, girl, come do my hair. I'm talking about strong baby father. I never heard her. And I'm not just saying this because she gone never heard her complain about the nigga always showed up even when they weren't living together and they finally made themselves a home. And you really came out to say that about a black family, you stupid bitch. Like, it just really was mind boggling to me because this is a product of a nigga gotta do everything. And you know what's crazier? Damn. When I, Shay, lasted my hair in.

[Mandy B]

July, it sound like projection. I ain't gonna hold it.

[Weezy]

Oh, that was such a sick response to me. I was sleeping so much I couldn't even talk. And then I wanted to post it and curse her out. Then I didn't want her baby daddy to see it at the time because I know he was fudgeing, grieving, and I just like, I didn't know who was going to see what. So I'm Talking to my man about it, he's like, yo, these bitches got this fucking prostitute mindset.

[Mandy B]

Oh, what the fuck? What the fuck?

[Weezy]

And Shay, by the way, had to take some time off for her health. And guess who the fuck was holding this bitch down? Her baby daddy. What the fuck else can a man do but be talking about? I hope he could step up. So what? So what is he supposed to be a future super rich and then the kids go to.

[Mandy B]

Hold on. Future not even paying child support for.

[Weezy]

That's right.

[Mandy B]

He not future not even paying. Responsible for everybody.

[Weezy]

I'm in Atlanta. I thought about Sierra, but here's what I was thinking. Rich pays the bills. And then what? This man is a great father. The last time she did my hair, he was in there showing her five year old shabby how to do the Alphabet, making sure, checking over her stuff while simultaneously doing a photo shoot downstairs. Bro, these kids were so smart. She was telling me what kind of podcast she wanted to make. Her daughter was like, I'm going to be a podcaster. So sweet. And I was just thinking to myself, we are so jaded of the outside view of what people have in their lives.

[Mandy B]

It's so crazy. So crazy. Well, not only that, what I would have Lily Edwards pussy asshole. I'd love to know what health insurance and life insurance you have set up for when your ass passes, what your family will have to pay for. Like, that's the thing that bothers me. Like talk. There's a lot of stones being thrown in glass houses. Like, unfortunately, a lot of us specifically within our community have not been educated to what it means to have a life insurance policy or what happens if we are not here, right? It's been so sad. Like my. My friends are grieving this guy that cte a guy that just took his life. We see everything that's happening or I don't even know if at this point the case has been solved with the nigga that might have killed the little 15 year old girl, the little rap dick.

[Weezy]

There's just. Do you know what's crazy? The song I had in my phone from him was romantic.

[Mandy B]

Of course it was. That's his biggest record.

[Weezy]

But I'm saying just the name of this.

[Mandy B]

And so when I think about like even it's. It's funny because if you guys go on Patreon and y' all listen to the. My first day at Hedo with my best friend, I thought she left with a nigga and I was going to find her body in the Jamaican ocean. Okay? I don't know if Jamaica has an ocean, but it's the ocean that's around Jamaica.

[Weezy]

Jamaica got an ocean, man.

[Mandy B]

They got an ocean, but it's not the Jamaican ocean. It's the.

[Weezy]

Okay, that's fair.

[Mandy B]

I see it's one of the. It's Atlantic.

[Weezy]

I see where you're going with this.

[Mandy B]

You know what I mean? So what I'm saying is, even in that moment, bitch, my best friend go get that lit funeral. But I was like, bitch, do I gotta pay for this? So that conversation literally stemmed like my. My best friend beat cancer. I was gonna be mad as fuck if she died from a nigga. But. But the fact of the matter was. Was the conversation about. We think about our parents. We think about all these old, old people that should have their funeral set out. You got the nerve to fix your fingers to say that? Do you have it set up to where your people connected to you?

[Weezy]

Don't respond and say, oh, well, I don't have kids. Like just.

[Mandy B]

Just the financial burden of your funeral.

[Weezy]

This is a family. These are two people that decided to make a family whether they got married or not. They. They built a life together.

[Mandy B]

Don't think about it. I gotta call my person. I know I got life insurance, but.

[Weezy]

I don't know the.

[Mandy B]

I don't know the funeral portion of it, but I know that, like, however I die, my mama and my sister get what they get.

[Weezy]

Do you know how. Who I put the money to? Who. Well, I would change it now, I guess, like, because I plan to get married soon. But Enoch, because I'm like, Enoch will know how to delegate the money. Yeah, I wrote notes about.

[Mandy B]

I put it to my mom financial. Only one of my sisters.

[Weezy]

I.

[Mandy B]

Both my sisters.

[Weezy]

And by the way.

[Mandy B]

So it's going to be a fight.

[Weezy]

My mom would be in, my father be getting this money, and my God children. But Enoch is just so financially literate that I didn't want to give so much money to just anybody.

[Mandy B]

I ain't gonna hold you.

[Weezy]

I wanted him to be.

[Mandy B]

You sound a little like what people say about reparations. But I ain't gonna say nothing. Only. Cause I've been having that conversation a lot. Shout out to Ish. He came on. So he's had a hot take that we as financially illiterate, community as a whole because of system systemic oppressions. If we got reparations, we wouldn't know how to spend it. And so I've just talked about, like that with him. So I was just hearing you say you would give it to your financially literate friend who also happens to be a white man. It's interesting because you are very pro black and have a lot of black friends, but you giving your money to a white man, like, that's.

[Weezy]

But the conversation, that's a good call out. Well, I will say this. When my parents lost their home, Enoch was the person that would help me help pay for their rent. So basically, my parents would get Social Security at the middle of the month. I would have to pay my rent and theirs and do their bills. So he would teach me what to do with my money. And like, I just had had so many conversations with him, like, if I die, will you help me do X, Y, Z? And like I said, now with change, of course, I got to be in my life. But it's. It's just sad because when you sit and think about it and she was.

[Mandy B]

So political, that's crazy.

[Weezy]

She.

[Mandy B]

Did you respond to her or did your man take your phone like, you guys?

[Weezy]

Fuck you. This is a. I don't know what I'm saying. I was mad.

[Mandy B]

But you. I mean, you could see it. I want to sound you.

[Weezy]

No, I blocked her.

[Mandy B]

Oh, you blocked her.

[Weezy]

I don't know if I could see it from the block, but this is a screenshot.

[Mandy B]

Okay. You said, bitch.

[Weezy]

I don't know. He was like, this. Now this is too much, because that's.

[Mandy B]

Something to where she probably would have continued. And you just got to cut that energy off.

[Weezy]

And then what he said to me was like, just post her gofundme and let it go. And I'm like, no, a lot of people love this girl. Like, I want to be able to engage or laugh about a memory, but I started looking at some of the shit she would send me, and it's just crazy. Someone had this common to her because she would post shit about politics and be like, bitch, they trying to keep us down. And just knowing this happened to you, just being a person that's part of the system of just medical racism and someone black saying, you would think, she must love Charlie Kirk. Lily Edwards.

[Mandy B]

Now she must love Charlie Kirk.

[Weezy]

Now that's a funeral I'm sure you're happy is covered, huh?

[Mandy B]

Asshole. Anyway, this is what. You know what they're gonna be like. This was a real Florida episode.

[Weezy]

Like, I feel like now we got grievances and green.

[Mandy B]

Like, I feel like, oh, no, no. This episode, Shout out to Crystal and Fury. We have to call this the read. That's all we did. All episode was read people for Phil, the braiding salon. This is the. The braiding salon. The goddamn in interest rates for homes and mortgages in the American dream.

[Weezy]

Has a problem. How about that?

[Mandy B]

Has a problem.

[Weezy]

And by the way, uh, oh, one.

[Mandy B]

Of my friends said to me when.

[Weezy]

I was bitching about the braiding salon, and she was right. She's like, bruh, I can't imagine how depressing this is because your homegirl died and she would have been the one to do that hair. And then you had to go get fucked up hair and grieve your friend. What the fuck? So if you do quicklys and ponytails in New York, hit me up.

[Mandy B]

Oh, hold on. I just want to actually add to that before we get out of here. It's the dilemma I had in therapy over the summer.

[Weezy]

Actually.

[Mandy B]

It was standing as a woman for the movement of sexual liberation when I felt like we had all of the backsteps and lack of support for our book. One of the things that my therapist suggested I do and I immediately, you know, push back on, was to create content or hold spaces and conversations about being a black woman and how we navigate the system and how we show up as our sexually liberated selves and demand that we get we want in a. In an era of Roe v. Wade. And just everything that I had felt dumped on me. And in the same moment, I was like, bitch, but it be black women too. And I found out that, you know, ESSENCE was a little bit to do with. I know, not Essence best, Essence Fest did us good. But the brand that we worked with, but that was a black woman. In terms of every time I've had to fight and like, prove myself. It's been to black women in corporate that have felt like it wasn't it. So it sucks that she's someone who was just like, we need this for black women. And it's black women that fucking got something to say.

[Weezy]

I have had a black woman hit me up 4 brand deals, 2 hour call doing all this.

[Mandy B]

Oh, what you talked about on Patreon.

[Weezy]

Oh, I can't get over that. Because I'm just thinking to myself, call her daddy low jobs in 4k, bro. I just don't know what you thought my image was. I went through my IG for like 30 minutes that day and like, do I look crazy here? And then I look at another girl's IG and I'm just like. Or these white girls that have sex podcasts and they do way wilder shit, but at the end of the day, we have an A on our chest and I don't give a fuck. Oh, I think this would be a great opportunity to say, I will make sure the family creates it. Forget the GoFundMe, nice Amazon wish list, Whatever stuff they need at home, some good toys for the kids. If you want to support her, girls will make sure to include that in here. For sure, for sure, for sure. And also, yeah, think before you press and think before you press. Send on the YouTube comments asking for a lot. No, no, no. And honestly, even the read this week, like, or not this week, but a few months ago, you know, I. I just. The read is so iconic, but there were things that I heard that I was like, fuck, this is. This is hard for a pregnant woman to hear. Like, dying on the surgery table, Certain words. And I was like, I don't believe either of them are bad people. I've been listening to the read a long time, and I think they mean so much to podcasting, but you just never know that. Like the people that you're talking to. And I know you might look at Mandy and I that way may reach.

[Mandy B]

I ain't talking to you. I'm talking for me.

[Weezy]

Oh, no, no.

[Mandy B]

I need you to know real quick. Hold on.

[Weezy]

Alexis Lawrence.

[Mandy B]

Alexis Barnes. I am speaking for me in hopes to help you, but I'm not speaking for you to you at you, bitch. I promise you. I was speaking at Alexis Barnes post, asshole. But when I hop on this mic, I'm speaking for me. I share my experience. This has been one of the most liberating experiences that I've got to feel live. I am blessed that this has been a part of my existence. But I share my experience. I share what I'm dealing with and who I'm becoming in 4K or MP3, however you listen.

[Weezy]

I'm also mean, like, when you're talking about someone in a negative way, to be fair. Even not talking about yourself.

[Mandy B]

No, even that. I feel like that's a problem, too. Sometimes we want people to do better for themselves and be better for themselves than they want for themselves, and we internalize that. And it could be projection. It could be just our disappointment of someone else. So when we talk about, like, public figures or celebrities or people that we know, a lot of times our frustration might come out and sound harsh. Delivery is always a thing. Y' all know delivery. I done made a bitch cry at work during fucking busy season. Black Friday at coach. I done shared the goddamn story. And sometimes it's more delivery than anything. But intention is bitch. We were all rooting for you, Tyra. Banks voice and I think sometimes we want more and we see more in people than sometimes they see in themselves.

[Weezy]

I think that's only true if it came to dating that person, not having children. And the reason I say that is because we could look at it like, damn, bitch. Another baby. A lot of people want more children, want to go family. Rihanna want to do that more. She want to give us an album. Well, we don't shade her because.

[Mandy B]

Oh, no, I've shaded my friends for keeping certain kids.

[Weezy]

But no, I'm saying, like, I'm not going to lie. We don't shade Rihanna. The public doesn't shade Rihanna because she's married. Right.

[Mandy B]

But again, let's go back to the group chat, bitch. In real life, okay, when we have opinions on celebrities, we don't know them. We sometimes speak about them in a parasocial way. I absolutely. And y' all know because I told his ass. I have sent flowers to a friend to champion an abortion if I didn't feel like a baby would make sense in a certain relationship. I've had other friends where I was like, it's too late. I would. I would have told you not to have it. Like, I've had those conversations with friends, bro, pull the vaccum out.

[Weezy]

I have, too. But some people want to have their children.

[Mandy B]

And you know what? That but is where we can't have a butt when we want the First Amendment, bitch.

[Weezy]

Freedom of speech.

[Mandy B]

I'm here for everyone sharing their opinions.

[Weezy]

The only really, like, hilarious thing that from that rant with Crystal that I love that she said is, y' all not use your butt. That shit was funny. But speaking of what, I don't think we can place our thoughts on more children being in the world as, like, death sentence to certain women, because.

[Mandy B]

No, I agree.

[Weezy]

Because that is kind of the thing of, like, choice, right? You choosing not to have kids, me choosing to have kids.

[Mandy B]

Okay, so here's the thing.

[Weezy]

Someone's going to attack you today, but be like, mandy doesn't get it. The thing you said earlier, she doesn't get it because she doesn't want kids. And then me, oh, weezy saying that. Cause she wants kids.

[Mandy B]

Well, and there could be. But also, we have to think about it, too. The things that we've said on the sort of comedy. Like, I think sometimes, especially when we have a mic in front of us and we want things to be entertaining, bro, sometimes we drag people a little more than we want to off the face of entertainment and comedy, and we don't consider that person at the time, we consider everyone who's listening who we might want to get a chuckle of.

[Weezy]

Who knows by now maybe Crystal has a little bit of empathy toward some of the things that we don't know. But when I was first listening to it, I was like. And then I was like, oh, it is bad.

[Mandy B]

You know what's crazy? Their read for Charlie Kirk was way worse.

[Weezy]

Why wouldn't it be?

[Mandy B]

But that's what I'm saying. But in our community, we're not going to consider at all. That's not being said about.

[Weezy]

Well, we're talking about a woman.

[Mandy B]

I get that. A black woman talking about another woman of color and pregnancy and as a woman. But the things that they said about Charlie Kirk was 10, 15, 11 times worse.

[Weezy]

But the thing is in righteousness of women being able to do what they want to do, condemning having another baby is the circular thing of it. Because I cannot be someone that'll say, you're fucked up for. Not again. I think I said recently I was reading in one of Kennedy Ryan books someone what book was it can't get enough A woman doesn't want to have kids in the book. And she's like so interesting how everybody says to me, why not when my homegirls want to have kids. No one says, how come? It's always why not? Why not? Why not? Right? And I'm sure you experience this. I feel like I cannot fight for a woman that doesn't want to have kids and fight for the one that wants to with that rhetoric. We can't have that coming from other women. It just sucks now talking shit about Stephanie.

[Mandy B]

But I'm also.

[Weezy]

Let's definitely talk shit about.

[Mandy B]

But I'm a. I'm a hypocrite too. I feel like not for Cardi, but I think certain you shouldn't have babies if you broke. Like I have certain things to where I just deem to be completely irresponsible as an adult with decisions that you can make in a time where I.

[Weezy]

Actually don't think that's a bad one.

[Mandy B]

So that's what I'm saying. So if we can police a broke bitch having a baby, we can talk about a multi millionaire having a baby by a fuck nigga while she's still married and still be questioning of the decisions to do so at the at now a new pinnacle of her career. I didn't feel like it was to me here's the thing. She's talked so down on strippers and all the women that offset cheated on her with right to where she placed herself on a pedestal to be a better woman than those that her husband, her ex husband, cheated on her with. So to me to show up as a project chick. Give me a hood rat. One that don't give up to still show up as a bitch from starlets 10 years into a career where you have multi. Millions.

[Weezy]

Yes.

[Mandy B]

You have a. A community. You have this. To me, she's operating as someone from the projects and we all thought she was no longer that girl.

[Weezy]

So I.

[Mandy B]

Because we pedestal her.

[Weezy]

I disagree.

[Mandy B]

Cardi is my girl. Let's be very clear. She's a Libra bitch. She got the money, she has the. I'm here for her.

[Weezy]

Having said she wanted to the date. Maybe Stephan is worse than the baby. The baby?

[Mandy B]

Oh, no, no, no. It's who she had the baby with. But she did say that on and I forgot what podcast because she did a whole lot during her press run. She did say.

[Weezy]

Y'. All.

[Mandy B]

Y' all people thought that I should have left Offset got with a billionaire, a millionaire, a nigga from Dubai.

[Weezy]

Right. I saw that.

[Mandy B]

That's not me. And so that's. What I'm saying is a lot of times, because of how someone excels in front of us, whether it be in business, in monetary like means or in education, we feel like they should. They should. They should act differently than what their actions show. When in reality, she's still the bitch from the Bronx that worked at Starbucks, but with a bar.

[Weezy]

Some people believe they shouldn't have a line. I'm one of them that does. At least when it comes to women. Okay. And my line is make fun of that nigga. You ain't about to be telling me how my kids.

[Mandy B]

You know what's crazy for me?

[Weezy]

How good luck to me not dying on the table. Like. Like that sounds crazy.

[Mandy B]

That sounds crazy. But that was crazy. I will say that's a crazy thing.

[Weezy]

To say to somebody.

[Mandy B]

Stefan is an attractive man.

[Weezy]

Oh, when she called him up and then.

[Mandy B]

Hold on, hold on. And then that song that she got on her album, Lay Me on My Back or whatever it is, it made me like. It made me. I said, that dick gotta be good. Cause that song was so good. I said, oh, that dick gotta be fire.

[Weezy]

Nigga, that dick is.

[Mandy B]

That dick is. And he gotta.

[Weezy]

Do you know anybody that fucked him? I only know one, bro.

[Mandy B]

I know Matt.

[Weezy]

Didn't they all say it was good?

[Mandy B]

I used to talk to him when I was. I literally had to go back when he was on the Vikings. But I thought he was short and you know, I don't like football players. We had a close stint of talking. Never got flew out. Never fucked him. I know multiple bitches who have fucked him.

[Weezy]

The girl that I know that fucked.

[Mandy B]

Him said, well, the girl that fucked.

[Weezy]

Him up and said that she heard he was fired from the current bitch he was fucking and said, you gotta come get.

[Mandy B]

No, the girl that I know fucked him, met him at an event. I guess he was so, like, interested in her, he, like, booked a flight and got the seat right next to her just to talk on her, talk to her on the flight. Like, he moved like that, like he's a demon. And his brother, the demon, they both demons.

[Weezy]

But did she also agree the dick was fire?

[Mandy B]

Well, yeah. She also almost had a baby by him, but apparently all the bitches are having babies. Bombs.

[Weezy]

So Cardi said, oh, well.

[Mandy B]

Swimmers, swim, bitch. Nonetheless, this was a chaotic toxic s episode. Welcome. If you missed horrible Decisions, this is a little bit of that with some real estate talk. I don't know what this episode was, but some real estate, you know, some real estate talk. If you guys want Horrible decisions, though, we didn't go anywhere. We're over on Patreon. That's patreon.com backslash. Horrible decisions. If you haven't yet, get our goddamn book. No holes barred. A dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. We will see you pussy ass hoes next week. Bye. Bye.

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[Weezy]

Every now and then I rinse it out.

[Mandy B]

My kid went the bed and the smell never leaves. I don't know what to do. I'm always in the dark.

[Weezy]

The sweat and dead sure smells like a dark.

[Mandy B]

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