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Mandy B
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Mandy B
Hey, guys. Welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. However, before we get to this week's episode, I want to remind you guys to purchase my book, no Holds Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. So feel free to go to your local bookstores, preferably queer owned, black owned or woman owned, to support them, but also just click the button on Amazon, Barnes and Nobles, or wherever you read your books. Again, that is no Holes Barred, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power written by yours truly and my co host of the Decisions Decisions podcast with Wheezy. Make sure y' all get that. Now let's get to this week's episode. This is Mandy B. Welcome to Selective Ignorance, a production of the Black Effect podcast network and iHeartRadio. Yo, yo, yo. Welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance with your girl, Mandy B. And we're kicking this bonus one off Real reckless. Because first up, I gotta tell y' all about an ignorant moment that I just witnessed in none other than a birthday dinner that I went to. If you didn't listen to the Tuesday one, I already brought some ignorance there, but I got some more ignorance. And when I say that, I laughed so hard I almost choked y'. All. I was high as hell. I put this in my notes just to talk about it with y' all today. I could not believe my ears and it got me thinking. Is there ignorance in food orders when you don't know the food you're ordering? That is the ignorant. Take that I have to talk about today and you'll laugh about it, but of course, we're also getting into this is America, where we're looking ahead and making some bold 2026 political predictions. And while we're at it, we gotta ask the real question nobody wants. The answer rolled out. Is gambling. The new crack epidemic. Crack is whack. Oh, yeah, I took it there because suddenly it's everywhere. Is this about freedom? This ain't free. Or are we regulating it in the same way we did weed so that the powers can be in line with the pockets with the 1 percenters. We dive into it. The whole Rico sized conversation involving Sh, Drake A and Aiden, Steak and Trick. Look at me. I'm over here rhyming, baby, like a rapper. All right, and then next up is celebrity save the darnest things. The Internet. Internet went absolutely ablaze and is still talking about the two Bryants. That's right. Cheyenne Bryant and Pastor Jamal Bryant's wife. And what the two had to wear in settings that apparently y', all, the ladies, the women, we can't wear what we want to wear, where we want to wear it without the Internet having something to say. I also have a double down or take it back from a recent take I had on my decisions to see podcast. And of course, we are ending things out here with celebrities say the darnest things. Getting into Jim Jones versus Cam' Ron versus the let's Rap About it podcast crew versus 50 Cent versus all the things. And we have some thoughts about these rappers on microphones. We'll get into all of the things as well as an am I ignorant at the very end to wrap it up. But before we get into all the things, I am joined by my super.
Aaron A. King Howard
Producer, gang, Gang gang.
Mandy B
I have journalism Jason up there in Jersey. I was going to keep going with.
Aaron A. King Howard
J. Yeah.
Mandy B
We got the Triple J over there. And then we got podcast OG and Legend a king on the mic in the boards. So if anything doesn't sound right.
Jason Rodriguez
Blame the interns that ain't get hit.
Mandy B
The interns are not here yet. But yeah, if y' all don't like the audio.
Unidentified Female Producer
Getting done, that's what you're supposed to say.
Jason Rodriguez
Facts.
Mandy B
Y. Oh, yeah, he making sure get up on time over here. And then y', all, we. We luckily have him twice this week. Y' all are. Y' all are gonna miss him because you're only getting him once a week, baby. But we have Jason J, who you.
Aaron A. King Howard
Love and who you want to be hugging, huh?
Mandy B
Oh, and he is Also journalism Jason 2.0, but he's just gonna be journalism Jaw. So we got.
Aaron A. King Howard
Reggae.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah. I want to start leaving them in there because it sounds so, like, on cue. Like, insert this here. I'll be taking them out.
Mandy B
Why do you take it out?
Jason Rodriguez
Because I insert it.
Mandy B
I'll be like, hey, insert jeopardy. Music.
Jason Rodriguez
I missed the opportunity. My bad. I missed it. I missed it. You saw it, though.
Aaron A. King Howard
I saw it. I saw it. I saw it. I'm with you.
Mandy B
A king said he wants to let y' all know he knows when people tell him to insert things in place.
Aaron A. King Howard
Keep it in.
Mandy B
That's what I heard.
Aaron A. King Howard
That's what I hear.
Mandy B
Oh, is that what you were.
Aaron A. King Howard
Keep it.
Mandy B
Keep it in.
Jason Rodriguez
Y' all get no semen retention.
Mandy B
Talking about cream pies in the first five minutes of this guy. Like, where are we going with this guy?
Jason Rodriguez
I think cream turbo button. I think the percentage of cream pie that's happened is probably lower now.
Mandy B
No, it's very high. These bitches pregnant.
Aaron A. King Howard
These bitches is Fergus, Bro, don't nobody like condoms. Nobody like condoms, Bro, I want to be safe. And I get it. Don't nobody want to get syphilis or gonorrhea, nothing like that. But don't nobody want.
Jason Rodriguez
No, we don't got no CDC no more, so we don't know what's happening.
Aaron A. King Howard
Std.
Mandy B
No. We need to put an alert out there. Hey, y', all, the masks that we was wearing during COVID Oh, they need to come back on because there's something else out there.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
I wear mine. I wear mine, and I start. I start seeing an uptick in people wearing it, too. Worried about whatever.
Aaron A. King Howard
Whatever the new thing is.
Mandy B
Oh, no, there's a new.
Jason Rodriguez
That's like the super flu.
Aaron A. King Howard
Super flu.
Mandy B
Oh, I ain't going to hold y'. All a. That got sick every. Every. Every week this month. Like, no, no, no. Since October.
Aaron A. King Howard
October.
Mandy B
November. And I was just sick in New York. Thank God my little boo was able to get me a Z pack, so he went and got me that. But, baby, I'm someone who never gets sick. And I got sick right after my birthday, and I Kissing stranger at the. At the bar the night before. I probably should have just been making out with strangers, right?
Jason Rodriguez
You did that?
Mandy B
Of course I did. Okay, so I was trying to prove to this guy what non monogamy looked like, right? And I was like, yeah, man. I just be going out begging, and he ain't believe me. He's like, nah, man. Maybe it's a little harder for him. So we're at the bar, and he just Sees these women start coming to, like, I'm just a magnet, right? Oh, a girl magnet. Woman magnet.
Aaron A. King Howard
Let me not a magnet.
Mandy B
Wait, I can say.
Aaron A. King Howard
You could, yeah.
Mandy B
Can I say with endearment, Right? So. So the bitches flock. You feel me? And so we're at the bar talking, and we're literally just doing shots. I buy these girls shots, and then I tell them to kiss me. And I'm literally just on both sides, two different bitches.
Aaron A. King Howard
How many kisses you think you did?
Mandy B
Enough to get sick.
Jason Rodriguez
You are the contagion. Okay.
Mandy B
And so didn't kiss anyone the week after. But in around Thanksgiving, I had a cough that lasted for about two weeks. I said, what the fuck is this? And then go up to New York. And of course, I feel like it's just allergies because I went from Curacao to Orlando to New York.
Jason Rodriguez
All a lot. A lot of.
Aaron A. King Howard
A lot of traveling.
Mandy B
A lot of temperature changes, you know, And Black Zosia.
Unidentified Female Producer
You the black Zoja.
Mandy B
Jet to holiday. Oh, yeah. I was on the. Yes. And was. And was. Because my ass took. Took Frontier down to Orlando. That was giving a jet to holiday. I was like, yeah, sure. I. When I fly it, where are the TVs, where are the outlets?
Jason Rodriguez
Listen.
Aaron A. King Howard
Whoa.
Mandy B
This is the bare bones of a plane.
Jason Rodriguez
Short travel.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, I was gonna say frontier with demands.
Jason Rodriguez
Listen, just. Just stay in the frontier.
Unidentified Female Producer
You can see the wiring.
Aaron A. King Howard
All you gotta do.
Mandy B
You know what? You know what? A part of me did very briefly feel aligned with the Delta CEO's sentiments. That is very classless and very ignorant, but I felt him just a little bit. I don't know if y' all saw. Over the holidays, the Delta CEO spoke out and was like, these budget airlines are ruining the experience of flights. Basically insinuating that, hey, the peasants shouldn't even be able to fly. Like, they should just be on the Greyhound or road trip it.
Jason Rodriguez
Mega bus.
Mandy B
What do you say?
Jason Rodriguez
Wasn't that the attitude when they. When they changed how the sky miles kind of. It's like.
Aaron A. King Howard
It's appealing to the big spin.
Jason Rodriguez
20, 24.
Mandy B
Oh, and I'm not gonna lie. A part of me, every time I walk into it. Every time the lounge has a line, I say, bro, I thought we took care of this. Why are there so many people in here? I'm one of those people.
Aaron A. King Howard
My girl had a whole attitude at the airport in New Orleans because the lady was like, oh, we're at capacity. And Whoopi. Whoopi, capacity. You weren't trying to hear nothing about that the. You talking about? I got Whoopi.
Jason Rodriguez
Whoop Miles.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like, I'm about to. I'm saying, hey, hey, hey, listen, I want. No.
Jason Rodriguez
And that's why you move the goal post, to make it a little bit more.
Mandy B
And. And look at us. We're on this side, and we're like, yeah, keep moving the gopost. Still too many N over here.
Aaron A. King Howard
Get off out of here.
Jason Rodriguez
Listen, the perks and the convenience.
Aaron A. King Howard
Listen.
Mandy B
Nah, dead ass. Well, I wanted to share with y'. All. Y' all know I went to a birthday dinner, and because I'm in dry January, a bitch was on drugs. And so, DRO Goss, I'm not gonna lie, I was like, damn. Not me having the itch to be on some sort of vice.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like I need to.
Unidentified Female Producer
That.
Mandy B
That I can't go out in public and be sober. Sober. But no. So I literally ended up writing this in my notes because I could not believe it.
Aaron A. King Howard
So what night was this? This was.
Mandy B
This was Saturday night.
Aaron A. King Howard
Saturday night.
Mandy B
Saturday night.
Jason Rodriguez
Jason, look in the calendar to make sure that this. Whatever this is, it is. Remember the first episode?
Mandy B
It was within the. Yeah, it was still within it. Still within that day. So, y'. All. So. So I'm out last night. And there's two parts to this. It's where maybe your thoughts should be, you know, should stay in your mind. But my thoughts all spilled right out because I didn't give a fuck. So the first part came. So I sat across from a lovely lady who had, like, a huge scar on her from her mouth down to her neck. Right.
Unidentified Female Producer
Is that attractive or not?
Mandy B
Okay, well, I didn't know where it came from. And so, mind y'. All, I just had a fresh. Y' all see underneath here. So Bodhi had just got me. Bodhi is my cat.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, you got one of them Al Qaeda cats.
Mandy B
Yeah, baby.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah.
Mandy B
It's a very abusive relationship. I understand abusive relationships because he'll beat my ass. And then I. I just want to cuddle with him. Sorry.
Aaron A. King Howard
I just want to love you, you know?
Mandy B
I do. I just want to show him love. Maybe he'll stop scratching me. Anyways, so I have this scratch under my lips. So I'm thinking this probably got a.
Aaron A. King Howard
Cat or a dog.
Mandy B
You know what I mean?
Jason Rodriguez
Right.
Mandy B
And so I'm looking at the scratch, and I wanted to, like, you know, what's the word when you get with somebody?
Aaron A. King Howard
Commiserate.
Mandy B
Now, that's a big one. What is commiserate? Okay. I wanted to box. It's a hundred dollar word.
Aaron A. King Howard
I Wanted to bond with friendship for broken people.
Mandy B
About being a. A fur bomb.
Aaron A. King Howard
The canoodle.
Jason Rodriguez
Assuming that's how she got hers.
Mandy B
Assuming that's how she got hers.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, so, y'.
Mandy B
All. I'm having a conversation with the people next to me, mind you. This is my thought, but I didn't say it out loud yet because we hadn't talked yet. Next thing I know, she's telling the story about the scar on her face. She got shot. Woof. Damn. Actually, it was a ricochet of a bullet that sliced her face, and so it sued up her. And so as she's telling this horrific story about being shot in the face from that stole a car that ended up outside, she thought it was a brother they were shooting. It was a. It was a robbery with shit they were breaking.
Jason Rodriguez
New York.
Mandy B
No, this was here in Atlanta. You know, this is where they do the armed robberies for the cars.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, yeah, Good old crime.
Mandy B
They Homeboy.
Unidentified Female Producer
What's Homeboy's name? From inmate.com.
Mandy B
Listen.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, Blake, Blake, Blake, Blake.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
Inmate Blake.
Mandy B
Oh, no, no. Let's be very clear. The interior designer and contractor that I got to. To do the studio. Guess where I found her?
Aaron A. King Howard
Inmate.com?
Mandy B
Worse. ATL scoop. She had a video of four floors of car breaking.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Mandy B
And I clicked who recorded the video? And I said, oh.
Jason Rodriguez
Hold on.
Aaron A. King Howard
I found her.
Mandy B
For ATL Scoop.
Jason Rodriguez
You like how that clip was shot?
Mandy B
I don't know.
Aaron A. King Howard
You needed more information?
Mandy B
No, the. The information was. So I just came back.
Jason Rodriguez
Manny, scroll. This is a wild. She looks on the Internet like, what?
Aaron A. King Howard
That's a crazy way to find.
Mandy B
That's how I got.
Jason Rodriguez
She went through with it, by the way.
Mandy B
By the way. For those of you listening who are unfamiliar with ATL Scoop, ATL Scoop gives you all of the crime and bullshit that's happening in Atlanta.
Jason Rodriguez
That's like NYC Scoop. All the Scoops.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, there's a NYC Scoop?
Mandy B
Yeah, it's a Scoop.
Jason Rodriguez
Oh, okay.
Mandy B
Major cities.
Jason Rodriguez
Oh, okay.
Aaron A. King Howard
For a second, I thought it was just something about Atlanta that was like, oh, yeah, that's some going on down there. Got to see this.
Mandy B
Like, I was like, okay, so anyway, so she goes and shares this story. And after I'm like, damn, that's a way cooler story about the. The cut on your face. I thought you had a. A pet. And so then that's how we became talking at that point, Right. Because I had to deal with my inner thoughts of thinking we bonded over having pets. But yet this got shot in the whole face, you know? What I mean? And I was like, damn you. Your. Your scratch is way cooler than mine.
Aaron A. King Howard
I can't even tell my story now.
Mandy B
Because I'm like, a little.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Mandy B
I said, you got a shot in the face. And I'm like, I got an orange cat. I got a tabby. Me up. All right, anyways, so that goes into us, like, just being now. Now we're talking, right?
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Mandy B
By the way, that's the story that I came back to her at the end of, which was also weird as fuck. So I didn't get to the end of what happened after she got shot because I got pulled away into another conversation.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, you. Like, I need to know.
Mandy B
So I came 20 minutes later and said, wait, you didn't finish the story about you getting shot. What happened next? That's literally how I did that. So very awkward. This is what happens when you're hot. So anyways, food starts being delivered because again, you know, party started late. Finally start getting food around 11. So I see that she ordered the tuna tartare.
Aaron A. King Howard
Okay.
Mandy B
But she's not touching it. So I. I look across from her. Oh, yeah. This is where the ignorant. So I'm looking because, baby, I actually was saying a tartar. So I look over, and she's like, not touching it. She got the patata bravas. She got. She ordered quite a few, but she not touching this. And I kind of wanted to know if it was good. I said, oh. I said, why you not touching? You know, is it. Is it good? You don't like it? Like, you're not eating it? She was like, I don't think they cooked it. Oh, yep. Hold on.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah.
Mandy B
So I said, girl, it's tartar.
Jason Rodriguez
Why did you.
Mandy B
Hold on. I said, tartar means raw. And we ended up looking it up. Hold on. So this is how the. The conversation gets ignorant. So she's like, well, I wish it was char charred, because I don't know about this tartar. So then me. And I said, well, tartar is. Is means it's raw. You know, like steak, tartar, tartar. So the girl next to me, this is where it gets real ignorant. She's like, yeah, tartare is the preparation of it. And I'm like, actually, I think it's a French word. So we're now at the table trying.
Aaron A. King Howard
To Google the entomology of tartar, right?
Jason Rodriguez
Because she was fascinated by the scarf scar.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Mandy B
Yeah. So we're literally at the table, and now we're trying to spell tartar.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh.
Mandy B
Because I'm like, there's an E in that. So the girl pulls up tartar, and we pull up that it's a classic French dish. So where I was right, yes, it's a tartar is a dish. It's not the preparation, but it is. It does stem from a French word, often meaning that it's finely chopped and raw. And ingredients are included, such as shallots, capers, parsley, mustard, and often served with a raw egg yolk as well. Yeah, which is what I told her, too. I said, now, this is the. It might be mixed in there, but you might be also eating raw egg.
Aaron A. King Howard
For sure. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Mandy B
So then it goes into my mind, like, damn. People order food and don't know what it is.
Aaron A. King Howard
I was thinking the same. Gotta pay for it.
Mandy B
Hold on, you ready? And you gotta pay for it. So clearly she's like, I don't like my stuff raw. I don't like it raw. So hear me out. The person right next to Hermione, these are tapas or there's calamari. So 50. So she looks. So she looks. So she looks over at the calamari. And I got. Literally the way this happened. And the person is like, anybody want calamari? The girl across from her is so ignorant, says, like, yeah, I don't like octopus. So I'm like, well, actually. Hold on, you ready? So I'm like, oh. Just so you know, calamari is not octopus. It's squid. And at that very moment, the girl who also didn't know about tartar is like, you mean like jellyfish? So we went, man, so. And I'm so high, y'. All. I'm like, we just went from calling calamari octopus to jellyfish. When it's just squid. It's just squid. And maybe they all in the same family. I know they got tentacles and they look like when you draw them when you're in fifth grade. But. But the way that this table. And I was just like, wow. So we have people ordering tartare calamari, and they don't know what the fuck they ordering. So a part of me was like, when I go to other countries, I ask, what is this? When it's a word that I am unfamiliar with.
Aaron A. King Howard
Pretty simple, you know what I mean?
Mandy B
Like a bitch went and lived in Singapore. It was ordered bim bimbop. And I said, now, what the fuck is a bim bimbop? Like, I needed to know.
Aaron A. King Howard
Break it down.
Mandy B
The fact that Americans are in America ordering dishes that they have no clue what it is. Now, to be Fair. Tartar is a French word. And I feel like calamari might be Spanish. Let me see. What is calamari?
Jason Rodriguez
Inspiration and going in some way to eat. You just want to try something different and don't ask about it and don't even ask. You should be quizzing the. The, the waiter or, you know, you accustomed, by the way, is an Italian.
Aaron A. King Howard
Okay, okay.
Mandy B
So this is how ignorant Americans are now. When words are rooted in other goddamn phonetics.
Jason Rodriguez
Right?
Unidentified Male Contributor
Yeah.
Mandy B
When it comes when it's Italian or when it's French. A bitch. Just don't know when it's on the menu in America and they out here just.
Jason Rodriguez
Why would you order it?
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, that's the part that's confusing to me.
Mandy B
I mean, well, the person that ordered it, I feel like knew, but when it was offered to the other people, it was giving octopus and jellyfish.
Jason Rodriguez
But what if you wasn't present?
Mandy B
Oh, let's be very clear. Then they would maintain ignorant. I love that. I gave. I gave a lesson at the table. Let them know that you didn't hide. And I also, also got the consent to let. I told them I was going to talk about them in the pot. So you should have seen. So as they're deciphering between jellyfish, octopus and all that, I said, y', all, I don't know how high I am, but I'm writing this in my notes to talk about tomorrow.
Jason Rodriguez
You got that? I want to add him like mother, but.
Mandy B
But I did want to ask y' all if it's ignorant or if you guys have actually done this yourself, where you've ordered something without the knowledge of knowing what the it is.
Jason Rodriguez
I did that.
Mandy B
And what made you do it? I need to know the psyche behind this.
Jason Rodriguez
So years ago, when I. Many before this whole thing, before cell.
Mandy B
Phones were out for you to Google.
Jason Rodriguez
It, when I was. When I was working, I had a 9 to 5 early on doing this, you know. You know, as we enter this podcast space. And I remember we went. Went our department went to a lunch thing or whatever. Now I'm thinking it was in Long island in. I think it was in New High park or Roslyn, one of them. Whatever. We went to this, this, this, this restaurant.
Charlamagne Tha God
So.
Jason Rodriguez
Pardon. I'm not ignorant now.
Mandy B
Oh, now you're not.
Jason Rodriguez
So now you're cultured. They had brought out appetizers and stuff, right? And the first thing I saw was the. Well, I didn't know it was calamari.
Mandy B
How did you say it?
Jason Rodriguez
Calamari. Calamari. Is that how you say it? Is that how you say it? That's how you say it. Like calamari. Calamari, Right.
Mandy B
This shit, Whoopi, y'.
Aaron A. King Howard
All, Calamari sound like a.
Jason Rodriguez
Listen, check this out, though. And I preface this by saying, you.
Mandy B
Thought it was onion ring. Yeah. You thought it was onion ring.
Jason Rodriguez
So boom. Yes. So I saw this shit. So, no, that gets you, nigga and.
Mandy B
Me.
Jason Rodriguez
I took one and I dipped it in the sauce, right? And I thought it was marinara.
Mandy B
Boom.
Jason Rodriguez
So then I had it. I had. I'm chewing.
Mandy B
I'm like, yo, these are your chewing.
Jason Rodriguez
So my colleague, you know, at the time, the Asian lady, she's super. She's like, you. In a sense, like, she. She sent. Something is not right.
Aaron A. King Howard
And she sorted out.
Jason Rodriguez
She locked in on it.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like, oh, nigga.
Jason Rodriguez
And she leaned in on to me. He's like. She's like, you all right? I said, yeah, but what? And I said, yo, why the onion rings so tough? And she. Yo. And she said, yo, that's not onion rings. That's calamari. And I'm like, what?
Mandy B
Why?
Jason Rodriguez
Okay, what is fried? I'm thinking it's based off. She said that squid.
Mandy B
I was like, oh, fuck, no.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah. If I had known that before I ate it, I wouldn't have ate it.
Mandy B
Have. Do you eat calamari now? No, because you know what it is.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah.
Unidentified Female Producer
I thought this was gonna be a story growing.
Jason Rodriguez
No, no, no, no.
Mandy B
I thought he was gonna elevate here.
Jason Rodriguez
No, I'm not.
Mandy B
No.
Jason Rodriguez
There's no elevation.
Aaron A. King Howard
I'm just not gonna eat that.
Jason Rodriguez
That's the one thing in that culture.
Mandy B
That I'm not eating in that culture. It's a Italian. No, the word is. That's like entertainment.
Unidentified Female Producer
Entertainment.
Mandy B
So calamari comes from the Italian mean, like, meaning squid. Yeah, but it's not Italian. It's just. It was an Italian word.
Jason Rodriguez
It was at the steakhouse. Italian, you know, But. But I. It's just tough. It's tough, though. The tough pizza thing.
Mandy B
That's funny.
Aaron A. King Howard
Well, maybe they overcooked it. I feel like if you get a good calamar, it should be like.
Unidentified Female Producer
But if you think you're biting an onion.
Jason Rodriguez
But you knew, right, that I thought that it was onion.
Aaron A. King Howard
That's how people get got all the time.
Mandy B
Because. Yeah. People ignorant all the time.
Aaron A. King Howard
I've seen it happen.
Jason Rodriguez
So I'm not gonna go to a restaurant, order all of that taco and all this.
Aaron A. King Howard
No, no.
Mandy B
The fact that she sat there after ordering tartare and was like, yeah, it's like it ain't cooked, and I don't know why it ain't cooked. And I said, all right.
Jason Rodriguez
So she didn't eat nothing.
Mandy B
Well, she ordered the potato, the patatas bravas. Those were just potatoes and mayo. You know what I mean?
Jason Rodriguez
She had to pay for everything.
Mandy B
The girl next to her ordered the calamari that she thought was jellyfish. And then, yeah, she. She didn't. She didn't eat the. The salmon tartare at all.
Aaron A. King Howard
The fact that she thought it was jellyfish makes me wonder has she ever seen a jelly fish before?
Mandy B
She just know it's singu. You got to stay away from cartoons. But that's what I'm saying. When you think of even a drawing, jellyfish, squid, octopus, they all. They all look the same.
Aaron A. King Howard
But it's like with a jellyfish, tentacles.
Mandy B
Are not a monolith. People clear.
Aaron A. King Howard
I would say all tentacles matter. All tentacles matter.
Mandy B
Anyways, you know what? I'm not staying here. I'm not staying here. We. We've already been ignorant.
Unidentified Female Producer
Bar as hell, though. For people who don't have the food, that's. That's a tough one.
Mandy B
The small bites be wolfing these. It be whooping Yalls asses. All right, well, let's get into it. I did have a double down or take it back only because I wanted to know yalls thoughts before we get into politics briefly, because we're not staying there. We're going to get mostly into culture. But this clip circulating this week. This is the first episode of 2026 for Decisions, Decisions. And boy, were people in the comments.
Jason Rodriguez
Big in the comments.
Mandy B
Big in the comments.
Aaron A. King Howard
I'm still getting the comments right now.
Mandy B
Like, wait, wait, did you see this one, though? This is for decision. They're big in the comments for select the big. I'm past all of them at that point.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, I'm just like, all right, so.
Mandy B
This was a conversation that wheezy and I had, and I wanted to bring it here to bring up to. To get a man's opinions on it because they are upset in the comments. This is a clip from episode. The first episode of 2026 of Decisions, Decisions. And can you play that for me, Jason?
Jason Rodriguez
Sir?
Unidentified Female Producer
This thumbnail is extremely Maddie, but I mean Mandy, by the way.
Aaron A. King Howard
So what you're telling me is.
Jason Rodriguez
All right, here we go.
Mandy B
This is how.
Unidentified Male Contributor
Sounding like prostitutes.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, my God.
Unidentified Male Contributor
Home girl's been dating a dude maybe a month and a half. He's paying for the hotel. The hotel is about $700 a night. I was like, oh, you got your outfits ready? She was like, girl, I don't even know if I'm going on Tuesday. I was like, why? She was like, cuz this get my flight to the Turks. And I'm like, but he got your flight back with you. You're flying from somewhere else. He's not flying with you. So she's like, yeah, but he planned the trip for us without getting my flight. And I'm like, bro, how much is the flight to get to the Turks from where you at? 380. Right? So she lets him know. He's like, to be quite honest with you, it actually didn't cross my mind because I assumed we were booking our flights together. What I will tell you though, I'm very bothered by the fact that you wouldn't even jump on a plane to come for this trip I planned for.
Mandy B
If your friend actually like this. 380 wouldn't have. It wouldn't have even been a thing. The real fact of the matter is she don't really like this.
Unidentified Male Contributor
That's not true, bro. She's hella excited about him. Every post on her close friend.
Mandy B
I'm saying this is. This is the root of when we.
Unidentified Male Contributor
Started really arguing on the call. I'm like, you went through the whole group chat to tell us how great this guy is, how smart he is, how thoughtful. You got the hotel you wanted, the driver. The driver that like that you didn't need.
Mandy B
When a woman experiences something and really likes it, anything less than that is settled.
Jason Rodriguez
Why she ain't just asked for the.
Mandy B
Because she don't really like.
Jason Rodriguez
Well, I'm not gonna lie.
Unidentified Male Contributor
That's not it. Mandy.
Mandy B
I'm not gonna lie.
Aaron A. King Howard
I feel like that might be it too, bro.
Mandy B
Get you that's gonna do what you want.
Unidentified Male Contributor
This lotties hoes, it's gonna have nobody.
Mandy B
And it's okay to have nobody until the right one come.
Unidentified Male Contributor
Why does the right one need to.
Mandy B
Do every single thing?
Jason Rodriguez
Okay. 20, 26. Wow.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
Ball, yo.
Mandy B
Double down or take it back. There were a lot of thoughts from this.
Jason Rodriguez
Of course, of course.
Mandy B
And I think that I will do both. I am still going to double down in the fact that I do believe that once you are given certain things from partnership or relationships or in dating, that accepting less than that is settling. So like hear me out, hear me out. Okay? If you are a woman who has experienced a man who shows up with flowers, who book, let's make it small, right? Who plans dates, who shows up on time who is considerate of your successes in your professional setting. To me, if those are things that you like that you've already gotten for you to be with a man who doesn't exhibit those things, you are settling with a man because you feel like this is the bar. Because I've already received it. Now, I get that there's women out here expecting things from niggas that they never got before. The bills paid, the full, all expense paid trips, but never got it. Can't afford it themselves. For a woman, though, who has experienced certain. Certain things, I don't think that it's a bad thing when they decide if a man can't show up this way, it's not enough for me. However, there was a bar dropped that I did also see get picked up in the comments that, yes, I don't believe that a woman should remain single until a man checks off all the boxes, because I think that's unrealistic.
Aaron A. King Howard
Sure.
Mandy B
However, I do think that it is okay for a woman, and I'm going to stand on this one. It is okay for a woman to, if she is not satisfied with what she's getting out of this situation or what a man is bringing to the table, for her to walk away and not feel like she's subjected to this person just for the sake of dating being hard or it being rough out here or the Pickens being slim, like, so I'm gonna stand on it. And for all of y' all thinking that a woman being single is just so terrible, it's not the same way you fucking mothers and fathers keep acting.
Jason Rodriguez
Like having kids are so much fun.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah. No, no, no, no.
Mandy B
I don't think so.
Aaron A. King Howard
Well, two. Two things. I'll say.
Unidentified Female Producer
We don't say fun. We say rewarding.
Aaron A. King Howard
And that's a very different thing. Huh? That's a very different thing. Fun and reward. Rewarding. So two things.
Charlamagne Tha God
A.
Aaron A. King Howard
The word is, like, defined, is doing a lot of heavy lifting. Like, you saying that the woman is settling.
Mandy B
Oh, okay.
Aaron A. King Howard
Does she. Is she settling or does she feel like she's settling? Okay, Cook.
Jason Rodriguez
Because.
Aaron A. King Howard
Because is settling. A suggests like, oh, why are you even with this person? How did you get to this point with this person to know even how to get to this point? So to me, you kind of already understand what's going on. And so if you feel like you're settling, to me, that's something you got to examine yourself about. Why do I have this emotional reaction to the fact that the man is doing whatever thing that I think I'm Supposed to be getting.
Mandy B
Now, I want to ask y' all then. And I don't know if y' all have offered. Jason, we know you're married, but I don't know if there's been the offer in your past.
Aaron A. King Howard
You've already given up on yourself.
Unidentified Male Contributor
Exactly.
Aaron A. King Howard
Jason is defined.
Mandy B
I wanted to know if. Because another part of my, you know, opinion on this that that didn't make the clip was that this could have possibly been a test. Now, when I say a test, clearly he was telling the girl to buy her one way there. He would pay for the one way back. And when it comes to men with money or just wanting to make sure a woman wants him for him and not just what he brings to the table in terms of finances, men will often kind of put a test in there. And I want to know a. If any of y' all have ever tested a woman in terms. No. So then I would like. I would like to know then how y' all have given a woman a test and if she passed or failed it.
Aaron A. King Howard
I personally don't really believe in.
Mandy B
Thank you, J. Thank you. This ain't class.
Aaron A. King Howard
You don't. Like, you don't get to find out what kind of person I am via manipulation. Oh, yeah, like. Like that's not how you find out my character or what's going on. Like, yeah, life is going to present situations where you'll find out what somebody is really, really on. It'll always show itself in various ways. Just keep living. And if you with this person in your life, things will go on. And you'd be like, oh, I thought you would have did this if you really me you didn't. So I don't need to like Inspector Gadget my way through some to try to figure out whether or not also, if I'm gonna test you, like, I don't think the 380 is the real test. If you're tricking off how he salad he's shook it off. Like, I don't think the 380.
Mandy B
I don't use that word tricking. You know that. That's a sense.
Aaron A. King Howard
Okay, that's a loaded term.
Mandy B
What can he say? Over tricking. That's a sensitive word.
Unidentified Female Producer
Why sk skip a good word when it's right there?
Aaron A. King Howard
If you are spending your funds in.
Mandy B
In.
Aaron A. King Howard
In the process of courting a woman. Like, if you're willing to spend that kind of money.
Mandy B
Not willing.
Jason Rodriguez
It ain't tricky financial appropriate.
Aaron A. King Howard
But I don't think, like, I'm gonna need. If you're gonna test Somebody. I need a bigger test than 380 bucks.
Mandy B
What? What would be a bigger test?
Aaron A. King Howard
Something that's more valuable than that. Like that to me, that's not really a good. Oh, does she want me for me? Oh, yeah. She was willing to spend $380 to go on a $20,000 vacation for me. Like, no. Like, that's not.
Jason Rodriguez
But what's the expectation of that trip, though?
Mandy B
That's what I said too, cuz I had to ask.
Jason Rodriguez
I said, what's the price?
Mandy B
I said, have they yet? Cuz they were just dating.
Aaron A. King Howard
And I was like, yeah, yeah.
Mandy B
I was like, was he expecting. For the fly out?
Jason Rodriguez
I can see?
Mandy B
And I said that.
Aaron A. King Howard
But that's doing a lot. Just for.
Mandy B
The.
Aaron A. King Howard
Just for the.
Mandy B
God damn.
Aaron A. King Howard
Inflation is a.
Jason Rodriguez
I feel like my. My card was debited hearing this shit.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like, we trying to hold.
Jason Rodriguez
We trying to hold. And this guy's like, one way we.
Aaron A. King Howard
Go, nigga, you can go over here.
Jason Rodriguez
You can go downtown. It's a new hotel.
Aaron A. King Howard
It's a brand new hotel.
Jason Rodriguez
Brand new.
Unidentified Female Producer
It's not weird that he said. It didn't cross my mind. Like, he did all that planning, put all that bread up a drive.
Aaron A. King Howard
That is a weird response to that.
Unidentified Female Producer
That didn't cross my mind. That's weird.
Mandy B
Ladies, just know that a King and J will be taking y' all to Jonesboro. Y. Y' all ain't going nowhere.
Aaron A. King Howard
All expense paid trip to Gwinnett County.
Mandy B
Bring your ass.
Aaron A. King Howard
Damn, y'.
Mandy B
All. Y' all said all the way to the Turks. That wasn't necessary.
Aaron A. King Howard
That's just a lot.
Mandy B
Oh, my God. But yeah, I. I just. We. We didn't have much pushback from men on this. We did have Eden, but. And Wolf in the studio, but Wolf didn't have Mike, and I knew y' all would give me a laugh out of that. But, yeah, I doubled down and took that back. Isn't that a great way for me to take accountability at the top of 20, 26? Because I think I riding the fence. I doubled down. Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
That's accountability.
Mandy B
Well, that's the start of me writing something. I'm not out here writing shit. Okay.
Aaron A. King Howard
Crawl before we walk, right? January.
Mandy B
Baby. It's okay to waffle. Turn up in February.
Jason Rodriguez
Coffee season almost over.
Mandy B
Listen, apparently we ain't. We ain't had it here in Atlanta. Like, yeah, hoodie season. Like, it's giving fall still. We.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, you know, 6, 7, 6, 7, 6, seven.
Mandy B
Well, let's get into this is America. And for this one, I guess before we get into just because. Because we're talking again. Aiden Drake, a. And all the things with the rico. Before we get there, let's kind of get a little politicky with 2026 political predictions. Since we are still at the top of the year. Let's go down the list. What do we want to predict in terms of what we can expect or, or feel within, within this year of a second year of Trump, the hot Cheeto in office, in power? Dude, do y' all have any.
Aaron A. King Howard
I mean, I think that. I think one of the things that we're probably going to see in 2026 is more like Republican infighting.
Mandy B
Oh, what is?
Aaron A. King Howard
Well, I think that there are issues. I think there are issues within the Republican Party where it's kind of like people know that Trump isn't exactly a lame duck president yet. He's still got almost three whole years in office. But I think people understand there's a life after MAGA now. They're acting like there's a life after Maggot and that they need to kind of pivot themselves to be tolerable after all this is over. They're more willing to speak publicly against Trump. They're more willing to push back against his agendas publicly. They're more willing to use all the machinations of Congress to get things done that are more important than the Trump agenda.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
And so I think as 2026 goes on and we go further into his presidency, I think you're going to see more of a decline within the party of the politicians themselves, of Trump support. Now, whether that trickles down to the voters or not.
Mandy B
Right.
Aaron A. King Howard
That's what we'll find out in November. Do voters still fuck with Trump that heavy?
Mandy B
Well, and I guess that's the other thing, too, Right. Trump said that if Republicans don't win, he believes he'll be impeached.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah. And that might be the most honest thing he ever said.
Mandy B
But he's also gotten away. But he did that, too.
Aaron A. King Howard
That's it. That's number one. This is number two.
Mandy B
But wasn't. Wasn't he impeached or, or up for. Well, he.
Aaron A. King Howard
Technically.
Mandy B
And so I don't even think. I think even him saying that is. Is laughable because it hasn't done nothing.
Aaron A. King Howard
Well, it's interesting that he brought that up because to your point. Yeah, it hasn't affected him in any real way. But he still seems worried about it.
Mandy B
No, no, no, no. He's wearing these impeachments like 50 wears, the getting shot like, I think I think him being up for impeachment for a third time and maybe getting away with it again is like it. I think it's, it's, it's, it's cementing him into this level of this dictatorship essentially that he's really leading here.
Unidentified Female Producer
I think he's dog whistling to maga so to try to get them to vote.
Jason Rodriguez
And this is, and this is why this isn't very important because it's all or nothing now. Because if there's no balance to what he's doing within the power structure in the House, bro, that next three years, I mean, the people don't respond.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
You know, with their right to do so, man.
Mandy B
I mean, I think it's interesting and we talk about too, how the Democrats lean on an emotional tug right at the heartstring. And that's kind of what I've been seeing. Well, well. And I'm only saying that because it's something that's been definitely circulating in my algorithm is the continuous post on human life. And so there was just, there was just a white male who was posted who ended up dying because he had to choose between paying for his inhaler, he had asthma, or paying for rent. Right. And so as we're talking about what just happened with the lockout, the, the government shutdown that took place and them not holding strong was the rise in medical insurance and how it's impacting people. And Bernie Sanders said that because we didn't hold on to that government shutdown, specifically that 5 million Americans, Schumer, that we were looking at possibly 5 million lives being lost because they weren't able to pay for their medications or things like that because it's just not affordable. Health care is just not affordable in.
Aaron A. King Howard
This country and they don't have a plan for that.
Mandy B
Well, that's. So that's why I said there's not yet a plan. But I do think it's interesting that if we talk about propaganda and what they feed us in our algorithm. I've been seeing so many stories of just regular people passing away or dying because they couldn't afford the basic necessities of, of their medical needs because of the cost of it.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah.
Mandy B
And then tying in there the cost of living where we still have, where you, in order to get in anywhere you need to make three times the rent. But we're also being told that AI is taking all these jobs and, and, and you know, we're not seeing a rise in people's salaries. It's just not happening. And so the Cost of living is just becoming like nothing's happening there. Nothing.
Aaron A. King Howard
And, and that's what I mean. This midterms is going to be interesting for a lot of reasons because all of these, all those factors that you just laid out are going to be on voters minds.
Mandy B
And I'll tell you, we've been talking about the unfortunate passing of Anthony Joshua's two friends over in Nigeria. But I was just having this conversation with, with the, with this super, super nice Senegalese Uber driver the other day and we were talking about different parts of, of Africa and the countries and how it's ran. And for me one of the scariest things about Nigeria clearly isn't how they don't have. Now I'm learning that they don't have a good healthcare infrastructure over there either. But for me it was the like vast distinction between the haves and the have nots. Right. And so what I'm seeing here is now that push of a middle class leaving our own country, which to me is what makes this country so incredible. It makes me feel so seen and safe. Even from growing up to, to leaving corporate America, to making my own money. One of the things that made me feel the most unsafe was that stark difference between the haves and have nots when I visited Nigeria. And so seeing that we're in this position now where that's what's kind of happening here in our country where you're having to decide whether you get your asthma, you know, your asthma tank or you pay rent. It's scary.
Aaron A. King Howard
And that should scare politicians. Like not, not even on. Like this isn't about promoting violence. But what I'm saying is that you can only push societies so far before there's a breaking point. Like and, and what? America hasn't really seen a breaking point in modern times.
Jason Rodriguez
We don't know.
Mandy B
What do you mean by that?
Aaron A. King Howard
Like we don't know what famine looks like in America.
Mandy B
You don't think, you don't think Covid gave us that.
Aaron A. King Howard
Not the millions of people I think. I think it gave us an idea maybe of what it looked like. But things were still civilized to the, for the most part. Like there was still order, There was still some level of order.
Mandy B
The only reason why I just agree with that, the only reason why I disagree with that is only because we've seen to me the country be shook by multiple things that have caused, cause, divide. I mean we could literally go back to 9, 11 with, with the terrorist attack. We could go to me, the COVID we could go to the 2008 crash and economic crisis, the recession. I there they're skirting around this R word and being real coy with it. I think we've been in a recession for the last three years.
Aaron A. King Howard
I think that's fair.
Mandy B
And so to me we've seen this shakedown take place and what, what I want to predict from a political landscape because what we've seen over the last five years is the, I don't want to say growth or I guess move of regulation being removed from weed. Right. And a lot of people who got locked up for weed charges finally being released because now it's, you know.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, some, some, some, not all. Biden gave some clemency to a lot to some, a good amount of folks.
Mandy B
But I wanted to turn this into. While we're talking about shifts in this economy, shifts in this country, to me seeing this RICO take place and having the conversation now at the top of the year, we were talking about Chauncey Billups and all of the, the coaches and between NBA, ncaa, all of the betting, we now have another RICO with steak, which is another gambling site. Drake academics, Aiden Ross streamers, rappers who apparently are tied in because these steak dollars that aren't real were being used to stream and go into musics which also lead into why Drake may have been the most streamed artist last year despite not really dropping anything that made any noise.
Jason Rodriguez
Jason, Damn, you said that.
Mandy B
How else can you. I didn't say that. I didn't say. I didn't say that. I didn't say that. People are saying. I'm saying what the people are saying. Y' all know Drake let me down. Y' all know how. Not how JCole let Nas down. Drake let me down. Okay. I thought he was coming to take, to take the crown.
Unidentified Female Producer
Goddamn it.
Mandy B
He said all right y', all, I'm just going to hang out with this streamer and hang out in Australia.
Jason Rodriguez
Oh, wo.
Mandy B
Jason, what exactly is happening? What is the overall consensus of what is happening with this RICO? Explain it to a 5th grader. Cuz yeah, some of our listeners probably don't dance past.
Unidentified Female Producer
So it's a class action lawsuit filed by two women in Virginia. Yep. Trying to get I think like $5 million in restitution. And you know, they, the RICO part of it is basically they're saying that Drake, Aiden Ross and there's this guy George Nuang who operates like a couple different popular Instagram accounts. They're saying that they did this organized activity to defraud people and you know, asking for tips on the stake platform. And they were converting those tips.
Mandy B
Yep.
Unidentified Female Producer
Into like crypto to then allegedly, you know, purchase inflated streaming numbers.
Aaron A. King Howard
Wow.
Mandy B
Now, I just wanted to have a quick conversation about how we think steak.
Unidentified Female Producer
Is like a foreign Saudis.
Aaron A. King Howard
The way. The way they rock, the way.
Mandy B
The way Saudi Arabia is coming in, about to take over every industry. Are you going to Saudi Arabia for, like, a gig?
Aaron A. King Howard
Like, they're gonna give me a couple dollars. I. At this point, I don't think I can. Only because of the fact that it's like, why? Well, the question is, for me, not.
Mandy B
A solid like target.
Aaron A. King Howard
If you're Dave Chappelle and you can just eat the bad PR and don't give a.
Mandy B
Okay.
Aaron A. King Howard
If you're a. That's not already rich and you go over there and you give up your dignity too fast, you don't have nothing to come back to.
Mandy B
Josh said, ask me this in 2027. When I get my money out, then I ain't gonna give a fuck about.
Jason Rodriguez
What y' all think.
Aaron A. King Howard
Is that maybe I feel differently. Oh, wow.
Mandy B
What? What? What? What'd you find?
Jason Rodriguez
So Ed Craven.
Mandy B
Okay.
Jason Rodriguez
Who was. Who's an Australian billionaire entrepreneur. He's a co owner.
Mandy B
That might make sense why Drake was over in Australia.
Jason Rodriguez
Dijan Tarani is Tarani. T, E, H, R A N. Look at you. That sounds being racist.
Mandy B
It doesn't.
Jason Rodriguez
Geographically.
Mandy B
That's not a real racist. He got a solid H. You know.
Aaron A. King Howard
What that H and M. You know what that means? He's defined. Yeah, he's defined.
Mandy B
That is crazy. You just said that.
Aaron A. King Howard
Wait, so these are the owners of steak or the people who have the biggest vested interest in steak?
Jason Rodriguez
You said I'm being rich.
Mandy B
Okay, I get it.
Charlamagne Tha God
But you can't.
Mandy B
But you're not allowed to say that, bro.
Jason Rodriguez
I'm just spelling his name.
Aaron A. King Howard
You said, let me spell his name.
Jason Rodriguez
Can you guess who I was just giving.
Aaron A. King Howard
Guess what he is Ovio Terani.
Mandy B
Huh?
Aaron A. King Howard
He looked like he could be ovr.
Jason Rodriguez
First of all, first of all, first of all, everybody knows when you read any online news article, newspaper, in your mind, everybody plays red, black, brown and yellow.
Aaron A. King Howard
Who's that fellow?
Jason Rodriguez
We always do it. We always look at a name and then we always place them geographically.
Aaron A. King Howard
We should drop this one. We do.
Mandy B
Okay. Okay.
Jason Rodriguez
So you want to see maga. Maga, Social media. A black story. And they be. Look, must be at your quesia.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah. See?
Mandy B
Okay.
Jason Rodriguez
And I'm like, fatigue.
Aaron A. King Howard
The fatigue.
Mandy B
Okay. I'm not gonna lie. So you said if there's a H Or it's Muhammad. I know you think Muhammad too.
Jason Rodriguez
Well, I said Tehran. I just wanted to make sure.
Mandy B
You said there was an H. I know. We heard silent H. A King.
Jason Rodriguez
No shout out to the Saudis.
Aaron A. King Howard
OVO habibi.
Mandy B
I'm not gonna lie.
Jason Rodriguez
They're both from Australia.
Mandy B
When I see you're right, you're right. Because when I see that hard the win new joint.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
You said that's probably why he was in Australia a lot.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, yeah, yeah. That's what it's given offshore.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
Offshore team. Offshore team.
Mandy B
Offshore team.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Unidentified Female Producer
And King is about to turn this into only murders podcast.
Aaron A. King Howard
He's on a fourth billionaire list too.
Jason Rodriguez
Maybe, I think maybe. Maybe it was just miscommunication and misrepresentation understanding of what that relationship looks like as far as what they could do.
Mandy B
Now. Now, aside from. Aside from Drake's relationship, when we talk about poisoning the communities. Right?
Aaron A. King Howard
Poisoning. Speaking of poisoning the community.
Mandy B
Poisoning the community. I mean, will there at all be any, I guess recourse or discourse to like. We saw everyone get upset. Well, not even physical discourse. Right. We did see. And I don't know if you could look this up, Jason, but I'm. I'm relaying this to all of the people that lost money and the influencers that end up having to pay back some level of money for the suit Against Fire Festival. Right. So you had all of these influencers telling people to spend their money for this festival, and it was false. Now if you have this type of lawsuit, mind you, just in one state steak is across multiple states.
Jason Rodriguez
So we actually, actually look, it says it's illegal in Arizona, Connecticut, Delaware, Idaho.
Mandy B
Yeah. There's certain states that gambling is still not. That's why also prize picks. All of that promote in Jersey. You can't still. You. You can't have.
Aaron A. King Howard
You can't fighting for that to get opened up in here. Because they want that too.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
Texas too. They want that bad.
Mandy B
So. So I want to ask you, you guys, though, knowing that we're in this economic crumble, how we feel like this push for our community and the nation to get into this gambling addiction, how you compare it to a crack epidemic or how you compare it to other addictions. I literally am comparing this to the crack epidemic because it's gonna up these households that already Ms. Is bad.
Unidentified Female Producer
Like poor communities that like when everybody was cheering for Nas when he got the casino bid in New York and it sucks. It's like, oh, come on, New Yorker.
Mandy B
You about to on Nas. You did not podcast. What are your thoughts on that?
Unidentified Female Producer
But still. But it's like casinos are, they're not good for lower income communities. Like there's just studies over a 50 year period. Like, and people will say like, oh, it'll get them jobs and they can work in casino. There's a small amount of people who are working in the casino, the rest of the community there who are gambling their paychecks to try to catch a lick. It's not good for them. You know what I mean?
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah, but we have self discipline as, as us.
Unidentified Female Producer
Sure. Yeah, sure. When the CIA pours crack into the neighborhood.
Mandy B
Right.
Unidentified Female Producer
It's hard to have this.
Mandy B
I was about to say prohibition said they're not spending money on bottles no more, they're spending money on parlays.
Jason Rodriguez
But I think casinos, it's hard to.
Unidentified Female Producer
Have discipline when there's an outside determining factor in force. Yeah, that's tipping the scale.
Jason Rodriguez
But you got to make money to walk in these places.
Mandy B
No, you don't. No.
Jason Rodriguez
I mean, no, no, no, no.
Mandy B
And that'll be the last 20.
Jason Rodriguez
Right. But they had a choice.
Mandy B
Oh, here we go.
Aaron A. King Howard
We got a king.
Jason Rodriguez
No, honestly, look, Van La gonna come.
Aaron A. King Howard
From down around that corner.
Jason Rodriguez
Listen, we do have an option and choices to.
Aaron A. King Howard
No, here's what it is.
Jason Rodriguez
Look, when I go play Powerball and Mega, right? Yeah, Powerball Mega.
Mandy B
Oh, and mega.
Aaron A. King Howard
Mega Millions. Mega Millions. You play Maga Millions.
Mandy B
God damn.
Jason Rodriguez
Like when I play Mega Millions, that shit went up $5. So you know what I do? I like, damn, I don't want to spend $5 on this one ticket. I advance to the Powerball because that's still $2.
Mandy B
Oh yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
I made a conscious decision. Oh, It's a good $3.
Aaron A. King Howard
And I think that comes from a reasonable, logical place of how to.
Jason Rodriguez
But I could buy whitings and French fries for five for seven bucks.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yes.
Jason Rodriguez
Or I could go buy Tatar for 100.
Mandy B
Did you just say Tatar? Or call Mary. How do you say it?
Jason Rodriguez
It's still.
Aaron A. King Howard
We do have.
Jason Rodriguez
We adults, man. We got look through trial and error.
Mandy B
Did the slave adults have a choice?
Jason Rodriguez
I'm not leaning into that one.
Mandy B
How are you giving like 20?
Jason Rodriguez
You saying $20?
Mandy B
And then maybe they last because they think they can double it to 40. Like that's what, that's what gambling is. That's the addiction. The same way as a drug addiction. You fiend for the high. Like feeling the euphoric feeling. You just want to feel that. Again with gambling, if you've won once or you've Seen someone else win. You believe you could win too.
Jason Rodriguez
We're in a capitalistic society.
Aaron A. King Howard
Well, also, but, but gambling, unlike other addictions, gambling addiction has it's, it's preying on two types of people.
Jason Rodriguez
Right.
Aaron A. King Howard
Part of it is, yeah, you're preying on low income communities who are desperate just to feel some kind of relief. And they feel like, well, if I could get this couple dollars, this could relieve my situation in life. I'm up. The other person that is attacking is people that aren't worried about, oh, it's my last $20 is people who to your point, are addicted to that euphoria, that feeling of like, I got hundreds of thousands. I don't even. Drake doesn't need steak money.
Mandy B
He does.
Aaron A. King Howard
He's gambling because he's. Yeah, he's gambling. Him and Aiden Ross and these rich ass are gambling because they want to feel like winners.
Mandy B
But not only do they want to feel like winners, they're promoting this feeling, this euphoric feeling of winning. And then the people that don't have the hundreds of millions of dollars to lose also want to participate in it.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah. And so it's is a tough thing. And what I will say, I play parlays sometimes.
Mandy B
Okay, but have you won?
Aaron A. King Howard
I've won once. And it wasn't, it was like $200. Like, I didn't.
Mandy B
What you paying penny slots?
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, I put it, I put in his $5.
Mandy B
You got to put some more dollars.
Aaron A. King Howard
Put it down.
Mandy B
You gota. You gotta bet big to win big.
Aaron A. King Howard
But the funny part about what Jason was saying was that people cheered for Nas getting his casino and people killed Jay Z for not getting, for not getting it. Like he's trying to take the community.
Jason Rodriguez
I'm like, damn, Time Square is kind of crazy to have a casino.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Unidentified Male Contributor
Yeah.
Mandy B
But he was a part of already the backlash when he was a 0.1% owner in the Nets and bringing that to, to Brooklyn.
Aaron A. King Howard
Well, and this is another conversation, but Nas has been able to get away with the capitalist that they killed Jay Z for. Who?
Unidentified Female Producer
Because he's an investor.
Aaron A. King Howard
So he's doing all this. He can rap about Nvidia and all this and be like, yeah, that's dope. I would love cybertech.
Mandy B
Yeah, he got, he got the 200 bills for free.
Jason Rodriguez
But don't you think getting away is kind of harsh?
Aaron A. King Howard
No, I think he just making.
Jason Rodriguez
I think he. It's the pursuit of. Well, no, what he deems.
Mandy B
I think it's the hypocrisy of the reality.
Aaron A. King Howard
Nobody Is like I haven't heard not a single person.
Jason Rodriguez
You said this is a dark. This is, this is marvel. I'm gonna tell you why, because I just had a thought. We see people give their last every Sunday in tithes.
Mandy B
Oh not you bringing it to the church. Oh boy.
Jason Rodriguez
There's circumstances changing.
Unidentified Female Producer
That's gambling.
Jason Rodriguez
It's gambling.
Mandy B
Faith based gambling.
Jason Rodriguez
Ooh, you said that. You said that. He said Dark ak no.
Mandy B
Ties and offerings is gambling with faith.
Aaron A. King Howard
Said they playing Bible blackjack over there. That we know people, we know people.
Jason Rodriguez
In our families or Jace that we've seen. Sure they yo, I gotta pay my ties because. And you like damn. But you just got an outstanding bill.
Mandy B
That you ain't got.
Aaron A. King Howard
You ain't got it?
Mandy B
Oh yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
You ain't got it. Yeah. I mean no, there's, there's definitely something Bible blackjack. But, but there, but the reaction to how people are looking at Nas in these situations, how they're looking at Jay Z is very, very.
Jason Rodriguez
I think because Jay Z's out the gate. Been on that type of.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, but it goes back to like, like, like is it Uchi. Wally.
Jason Rodriguez
Wally, we're not doing that.
Mandy B
It's like.
Aaron A. King Howard
What is like what is it for real? And so only.
Jason Rodriguez
So if he was a degenerate rapper then it would have been.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah. If Nas was. Wasn't kicking the knowledge. And, and he can still kick knowledge. Sure he can. But what I'm saying is that while you're kicking knowledge, you're also a hardcore capitalist and that seems to be what people are railing against.
Jason Rodriguez
Is he a hardcore.
Mandy B
Oh absolutely.
Jason Rodriguez
I think he's taking advantage of the opportunity.
Aaron A. King Howard
Of course he is. But that doesn't make you not a capitalist.
Mandy B
Facts.
Jason Rodriguez
But what, but what if he's taking that money and pouring back in which.
Mandy B
He might be but he's pouring into the community. That essentially going to have a negative impact on the lower income community.
Jason Rodriguez
Well that area queen is Queens and.
Mandy B
That area Russia at right?
Jason Rodriguez
No, it's a South Ozone park. But it has, it has. The casino is up there already.
Aaron A. King Howard
They just, they just expand, expand, make it bigger. Right, Interesting.
Mandy B
All right, well we're, we're talking celebrity talk here and I kind of want to lighten it up a little bit.
Jason Rodriguez
Okay.
Mandy B
And have you really say these can't wear this because the way that you're going aing they had a choice. No.
Jason Rodriguez
And I think we should, we should honestly.
Mandy B
And they made the wrong one.
Jason Rodriguez
Aiden Ross, in my opinion. Let's remove on from him. No, I'm just saying it culturally. I love what I show speed is doing. You know what I'm saying?
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
That we should be amplifying and talking about and elevating.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
Actually doing dope.
Aaron A. King Howard
Aiden Ross is not culture.
Jason Rodriguez
No, he's not.
Mandy B
No. Y' all are hoping he gets got with this. Rico heard you. All right, well. And celebrities say the darnest things, y'. All. We're gonna get into what the Internet has been ablaze talking about for the past, like, two to three weeks. It started off with Dr. Umar. You might have to believe. I don't know. I was gonna say Dr. Cheyenne Bryant, but that's still up for debate. Love you, Cheyenne. I'm telling you, I want to see where that. Where that doctor degree came from.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, oh. She's like a crack doctor.
Mandy B
I don't know. But she's a life coach. I just don't know where the doctor with the doctor.
Aaron A. King Howard
Okay.
Mandy B
And then when I looked it up, the school no longer exists. But I was. You know what's crazy? I like what she doing, though. I like what she doing as a content creator. As a woman. I just like that she got a voice. I like what she doing as a content creator.
Aaron A. King Howard
A net positive life. Right. Like, Jay Shetty done lied and he's helping a lot of people.
Mandy B
That's crazy.
Aaron A. King Howard
So that's crazy.
Unidentified Female Producer
Was he not a perspective?
Aaron A. King Howard
I don't.
Jason Rodriguez
I think he might have been understood.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
But there's no Monk Deshetti.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
Designation.
Unidentified Female Producer
He's a college dropout.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
This.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah. They're saying that he was lying about his college education and certain things.
Unidentified Female Producer
He dropped off the line.
Aaron A. King Howard
But he helped. He's helping a lot of people. So ultimately, like, net positive. Like, I don't care about you.
Mandy B
The that was in Atlanta giving these composite veneers is going to jail. But he helps a lot of people without being served. Fortified. He got the rico. Y' all saw that.
Jason Rodriguez
I think somebody.
Mandy B
Somebody said, you know what? Well, let's get into the thoughts. Basically, what the Internet has been ablaze about is of Two women, both Dr. Cheyenne Bryant and what she wore to the Jeezy concert right before the New Year's.
Jason Rodriguez
Amen.
Mandy B
And also Caris Bryant, who is the wife of Atlanta pastor Jamal Bryant, who drew attention. No, they're not related.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, really? Damn. Okay. I was confused about that whole thing.
Mandy B
She also drew attention with her flesh colored dress that she wore to the annual United Negro College Fund mayor's mask ball right here in Atlanta. And he chose to take to the Pew to call the Internet and all the naysayers out about what he put his wife in. But the clip that I wanted to play before we get into thoughts on this was from Bishop Patrick Wooden of North Carolina's Upper Room Church of God in Christ. What he had to say, you can't say.
Jason Rodriguez
Somebody gave their last to his ties too.
Mandy B
And they did. Jason, if you want to pull up the clip for what he had to say in response, I think we heard enough about what people had to say about Cheyenne Bryant. But let's, let's lean into this one before we share our thoughts.
Aaron A. King Howard
Sure.
Jason Rodriguez
When he defended her dress by saying.
Aaron A. King Howard
First of all, he bought the dress.
Mandy B
Oh. And he did. And then he said, I want to.
Jason Rodriguez
Address people who don't know anything, who haven't been anywhere or know nothing. So I guess our objection to a man of the cloth presenting his wife in public looking like a two dollar whore.
Mandy B
A two dollar whore. At least two.
Jason Rodriguez
I said, yeah.
Mandy B
He said, oh. He wanted to make sure y' all knew it was $2 and nothing. Not a cent more. $2.
Jason Rodriguez
The bigger the nose, the greater the truth.
Mandy B
Now. Now with both of these, you have Dr. Cheyenne Bryant, who holds the esteem of the Dr. Label, who gives relationship advice. I'm trying to explain why the people. It was good.
Unidentified Female Producer
It was good.
Mandy B
And then you have the first lady of the of a down south mega church, which is new birth Pastor Jamal Bryant's church. And pretty much the sentiment is that both women were not dressed appropriately and unfortunately should be deemed a, a, a a takedown of how the community should respect them, how people should listen to them, how they, you know, don't deserve to be heard anymore based on these decisions and their clothing. And I kind of wanted to hear yalls thoughts. I'll, I'll share mine. First off, which y' all are going to be so shocked because I am here for the and the hive and how people present themselves. I think a woman should be able to wear whatever. But I also agree there's certain things that you put on that unfortunately it don't matter what we say, what we do, the congregation and society and the world will judge you on. And for me, again, Dr. Sham Bryant, beautiful lady, didn't hate the outfit, just thought it wasn't styled well. So for me, I don't hate the look of the outfit. I just don't. I think she should have wore black under it. The green didn't make sense.
Aaron A. King Howard
Sense.
Mandy B
And in terms of Carrie Bryant's dress, men, I think are just, they don't know about materials. It definitely was flesh colored. Her skin was not showing. It was lace over a nude goddamn material.
Aaron A. King Howard
Right.
Mandy B
It literally. You couldn't see nothing. Yeah, I don't. I'm not a fan of the outfit of. Of Dr. Cheyenne Bryant here. I think she still look good as like, I Cheyenne, you bad. You know, I think we Eskimo sisters. I. That's what I call her when I. When we in the room. I be like, what's up, Eskimo sister?
Aaron A. King Howard
I'm sure she know who you talking about reference to that.
Mandy B
I'm just sure we've knocked down the same.
Aaron A. King Howard
Hey, at some point, I feel like.
Mandy B
We the same tribe. We probably the same tribe of. We are Eskimo sisters. We have not discussed who it is.
Jason Rodriguez
Why think you the same? See.
Mandy B
Cuz, these. These niggas just giving it out. Hey, listen, they just giving it that. Anyways, I did want to know your thoughts though, before we get into to hip hop talk real quick. Just if y' all had any thoughts on this, just cause the Internet was going, y' all are men. Go ahead.
Jason Rodriguez
I don't think that. No, I don't think we got a right to call them hoe.
Mandy B
No, I don't think we should call them hoes.
Jason Rodriguez
But as far as what they wearing, again, I go back to the theme. Everybody got a choice.
Mandy B
Ooh.
Jason Rodriguez
You know, I'm looking at the video and I'm looking at what other people are wearing. She's the most. She's the one that most provocative. So I think that her thing was like, yo, so this was intention. Like, I'm gonna be the showstopper now.
Mandy B
I want to ask y' all because I want to lean into ignorance here.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah.
Mandy B
Is there anywhere. So she went to a Jeezy concert, which was like an orchestra. It was. That's what it was supposed to be. Like, black tie event.
Jason Rodriguez
Right.
Mandy B
And then you have Carrie Bryant. Is it Carrie?
Unidentified Female Producer
Carrie, yeah.
Mandy B
Carrie Bryant who went to church. No, Went to a gala.
Aaron A. King Howard
The gala.
Mandy B
So this is where I want to get ignorant.
Aaron A. King Howard
Ball.
Mandy B
Ball. Remove it from the gala. Remove it from a black tie. Unless that's your answer. Is there anywhere that you guys walk into that you do judge somebody by what they're wearing based on where you're at? Like, for me, this is going to be problematic. And I don't give a. I don't care. Bonnets and pajamas. Oh, keep them at my airport.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
You know what's funny?
Mandy B
Keep them out. Mandy, you already think that y' all shouldn't be Flying, yo. Because you know what I mean? Like there is just a way.
Unidentified Female Producer
Me and Delta.
Mandy B
Me and the Delta CEO.
Aaron A. King Howard
Real Delta CEO.
Mandy B
But to me the bonnets and the pajamas should not be worn at the airport.
Jason Rodriguez
Yo, my mom hates that.
Unidentified Male Contributor
I hate it.
Unidentified Female Producer
She hate pajamas at the grocery store is not my jam.
Mandy B
Pajamas at the grocery store. I don't love it.
Aaron A. King Howard
I don't even believe in like sandals and like Birkenstocks and. And like in public, like oh, in public because for me he said keep.
Mandy B
The burger stock in your home.
Aaron A. King Howard
And honestly like this is more for men than for women. Honestly. But like like if you gotta run to go somewhere, like you're gonna fall the out of them like little flappy ass shoes and bust your ass, whatever. Like that to me she said if.
Mandy B
You gotta run from the cops.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah. That is not that it's not practical but like as far as like. So first off, these two dresses are very different dresses.
Mandy B
They are like.
Jason Rodriguez
Like.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like like the. The sledge color dress. I don't have no problem with. You can say, oh well she looks naked. And what she is is two different things. So like to me it's like she's not naked. Yeah. Shut the up now. Cheyenne dress was a little bit like that uterus. Okay, like I see your fallopian too.
Mandy B
You got.
Unidentified Female Producer
Tuck that back in.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, yeah yeah. Like what the going on? But also like I guess my thing about it is I get she's a. She is. Wait, wait. This is why I'm clear. She's married to a pastor. Or she is. Carrie is right. Carrie is.
Mandy B
Cheyenne out here trying to. Trying to fishing.
Aaron A. King Howard
So wait, so if she's not. If Cheyenne is not connected to the church, what are. What exactly are we Carious. Thank you, Carrion.
Unidentified Female Producer
Say that again. Keep saying.
Aaron A. King Howard
If she's not connected to the church and she's not like what are we talking about as far as how.
Mandy B
Because it wasn't. Because it wasn't from the church much perspective with her. It's the fact that she's a doctor. A doctor should not be dressed this way whether in public or anywhere.
Unidentified Female Producer
Because it's also what she says too.
Aaron A. King Howard
Right?
Unidentified Female Producer
Because. Because she holds men to task.
Mandy B
Yes.
Aaron A. King Howard
And.
Unidentified Female Producer
And about how they present themselves to.
Aaron A. King Howard
Right.
Unidentified Female Producer
Get into a relationship. Then she turns around and dresses people. People are trying to draw.
Mandy B
You can't speak this way and then.
Aaron A. King Howard
Go out dressed like go out and do that.
Jason Rodriguez
I do think there should be a standard. I think we protect the standard.
Unidentified Female Producer
The fact that he said define.
Jason Rodriguez
But the thing is.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
What's the standard? Do we. Do we. Are we just standard list now?
Aaron A. King Howard
Well, there's.
Jason Rodriguez
Because we can dress however we want to do what we want to do.
Mandy B
Oh, this sounds real simple.
Aaron A. King Howard
Because.
Jason Rodriguez
Because you know what?
Aaron A. King Howard
King Vance over there. No, don't do that.
Jason Rodriguez
No, because, look, at the end of the day, guess what? The shorties is looking at us famous. What are the standard we holding for this? For the little ones?
Aaron A. King Howard
Everybody gonna be. I mean, like. Well, the standard. To me, the standard is if you 11, you can't be naked. If you're 111, you can be as naked as you want to be.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah, that's true too, but.
Aaron A. King Howard
And also, where are you going? Like, the standard for what's. Like, if we. If we. If we come in here in this studio, there might be a quote unquote standard, even for a pot. We're in a corporate building.
Mandy B
Yeah. I mean, you can't sit here and put your dick on the table. Yeah. Be doing. That is crazy.
Aaron A. King Howard
That is a wild boy.
Mandy B
The fact that they had to tell him to put his little gummy dick away like that is inappropriate.
Jason Rodriguez
By the wave. Shout out to the wave.
Mandy B
That's crazy. Wait, didn't you say that when you was running loudspeakers that somebody brought in some new somebody else? Oh, sorry, was.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, oh, oh, the ignorant demographic.
Mandy B
Oh, my God.
Jason Rodriguez
Another. Another episode.
Mandy B
But yeah, he.
Unidentified Male Contributor
He.
Jason Rodriguez
You know, when I was helping him out, bringing him into this podcast space, he didn't let me know he was gonna do this, but he had some girls there that was of a particular profession, not of us, and, you know.
Aaron A. King Howard
One might say the oldest profession.
Jason Rodriguez
He's a very unpredictable person.
Unidentified Female Producer
Some people called him Santa Claus.
Aaron A. King Howard
And next thing you know, he had.
Jason Rodriguez
These girls, you know, perform on this random dude.
Mandy B
Wait, wait, wait, wait.
Jason Rodriguez
I still have that.
Mandy B
I thought they were getting naked.
Jason Rodriguez
Wait, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. This girl was telling her story why she became a sex worker.
Mandy B
Okay?
Jason Rodriguez
She was all dolled up. I think she was Dominican and Puerto Rican and Italian, whatever. But some random dude from Connecticut, I believe. And I'm watching, I'm like, who is this nigga?
Mandy B
Queen Flip invited him in.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah, it was all planned, but he just didn't let me know he was doing this shit. So then homeboy pulls up and I'm like, what is the correlation? So anyway, they talking to him.
Mandy B
Wait, were you the engineer for this?
Jason Rodriguez
I was producing it, but I didn't know he was doing all this shit.
Aaron A. King Howard
Right. So then.
Jason Rodriguez
And it's the first Time taping. Mind you, that's a hell of a lot. He wasn't. And he wasn't part of loudspeaker, but he was recording where. Yeah, we were recording it, right? And the dude comes in the room and. And then he says, yo, remember what we said, what I told we was gonna do? And then it's like, what? So while she's talking and whatever, this dude sit next to her. And then she's taking. Pulling, you know, she started.
Unidentified Female Producer
She needed a different microphone.
Jason Rodriguez
She started trying to get him off. But the problem was. I don't know, because it was crazy. I'm saying it.
Unidentified Female Producer
Performance anxiety.
Jason Rodriguez
Yes. There you go.
Mandy B
He wasn't getting hard. Paused.
Jason Rodriguez
She got frustrated. No, no, no. I was trying to figure out, how.
Aaron A. King Howard
Do I stop for the emergency break.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
So then what happened when she got so frustrated, right? And the manager. She had a manager. Yo, why? The manager was like, step aside. I got this. She got to business.
Unidentified Female Producer
Wait, the manager.
Aaron A. King Howard
I got.
Jason Rodriguez
I'll show you. I show. I have the video.
Mandy B
You having the footage is crazy.
Jason Rodriguez
No, because it was shoddy. It was recording in real time. So it was like, what? So lo and behold, that happened. He put the clip out as a teaser promote. But they blurted out, and then the studio got wind of it, and they was like, nah. They was like, take your money. If we know we was gonna do that, we would have told you off top. And it was at the time they had children used to do voiceover work there.
Unidentified Female Producer
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
So we're like, that can't you remember?
Aaron A. King Howard
Right?
Jason Rodriguez
So mind you, this is 2017, 2018. So mind you, what I said before. Standard. What is the standard that we're setting? So in his point of view is let me do enough shock value to get attention to what I'm getting ready to jump into versus safety, versus all the other things. Right. But it's like, it. You didn't need to do that, in my opinion.
Aaron A. King Howard
Well, like, what? This. The.
Jason Rodriguez
I'm glad you remember that.
Aaron A. King Howard
The Cheyenne. The sh. Wait, Cheyenne is the naked one.
Unidentified Female Producer
So Cheyenne Bryant, the real naked one.
Mandy B
Right.
Unidentified Female Producer
She was at the Jeezy concert.
Jason Rodriguez
There you go.
Unidentified Female Producer
Life coach.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
So, like, if I'm at the Jeezy concert, I'm definitely not listening to Jeezy.
Aaron A. King Howard
I'm like, yeah, like, no, no, no.
Mandy B
By the way, it's something that I want to do. I know. He has his residency now in Vegas.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah.
Mandy B
Everyone that has gone to that Jeezy orchestra has said it's by far the best live show that they've seen their entire life.
Aaron A. King Howard
No. Yeah, I talked to. Oh, yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
But she had a tail, so you couldn't see her booty, man. So that's intentional.
Aaron A. King Howard
But you had a Jeezy show. Like, I don't think there's any. I don't think that's inappropriate for a Jeezy show.
Mandy B
It's black tie. That's inappropriate for black tie.
Aaron A. King Howard
Okay. It's not a black tie. Okay.
Jason Rodriguez
That's not.
Aaron A. King Howard
That's not a. That's not a black. That's not a black tie.
Mandy B
But it's definitely a Vegas outfit, and she was in Vegas, so.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, yeah, yeah. So I'm not. I'm not mad at her for that. I don't see what the problem is. Plus, like, I ain't going to lie.
Mandy B
She look good.
Aaron A. King Howard
She look great.
Mandy B
She look good.
Aaron A. King Howard
She look great. Like, okay, whatever black on black would have been.
Unidentified Female Producer
Would have been fly to your point.
Mandy B
To me, it was just the styling of it.
Aaron A. King Howard
I'll say this, though. I had. I think I have a bigger issue with, like, the. The pastors doing the back and forth from the pull pit about this than I do with how either of the ladies are dressed.
Mandy B
Me, too. I agree.
Aaron A. King Howard
Because to me, it's like, the problem.
Mandy B
Is always the men.
Aaron A. King Howard
The defense sense of. I get that. That Jamal Bryant wants to defend his wife, and that's cool. Defend your wife. But, like, he was basically like, y' all and broken. Don't know nothing about this.
Mandy B
That's exactly what.
Aaron A. King Howard
So, like, that. You sound crazy as a pastor, like, talking like that in defense of your.
Mandy B
He said, y' all ain't never been to a gala. Y' all don't know how to dress right.
Aaron A. King Howard
I'm like, you're just telling people that. Like, that's there. That whole is crazy.
Mandy B
Give me your money every week, but you ain't got enough to give to go to a gala.
Aaron A. King Howard
And then for the other pastor. Mind your business.
Charlamagne Tha God
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
Why you beefing with me? Like, you talking about podcast wars. Why are we having pulpit war? Why are you talking about me and my wife from your pulpit? Talk about God. That's what you here for.
Unidentified Female Producer
Keep money.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like, I should slap fire out of you for even doing that.
Jason Rodriguez
And so, like, I. I think being a pastor might be the cheat code.
Aaron A. King Howard
To just get to just.
Jason Rodriguez
That might be the new rapper, rapper, new podcaster.
Aaron A. King Howard
I mean, but that's also part of the thing. Like, these wanted to be celebrities. These wanted to be stars.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like, if. If, you know, if you want to be a pastor, Star a pastar, then that makes you.
Unidentified Female Producer
Right.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like, you want to be a pastar and eat tartar.
Mandy B
That's what you want.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like, that might make you look a certain kind of way to your congregation.
Jason Rodriguez
I ain't gonna lie. I don't want to go to no church in Atlanta.
Mandy B
I. I told you. I went to one and ended up seeing a goddamn Netflix commercial for a Tyler Perry show.
Jason Rodriguez
You see?
Mandy B
Yeah, I think I'm cool on it, too.
Aaron A. King Howard
The whole thing is weird. Like, so we went to. Last weekend, we went to a church. I never been to one of these, like, modern church. Like, for me, church is the I is like, like an old ass church that's built in the 60s with a bunch of black people, old black ladies with hats. Like, that's like going as a little kid. That's a church I went to. I don't know nothing about these modern churches. I don't really go to church. Like, mega. So last weekend we went to this church called Passion City Church.
Mandy B
No, you didn't.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, so Passion City. Yeah, so. Because it's across the street from the crib. And my girl was just like, oh, look, just. Let's go to church. Let's just see what this thing is about. So we went up in there and like, it felt like the white version of P Valley, of a black with a black mega church.
Mandy B
Passion City.
Aaron A. King Howard
It's production. Like, they come out singing.
Unidentified Female Producer
Like, it's like a Disney singing. My prerogative.
Mandy B
Did y' all see. Did y' all see the viral thing that happened over the holidays from the mega church in Texas where they had, like, in that. It had, like, little people flying through the sky and like that.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, they had pyro and, like, it.
Mandy B
Looked like Chris Brown, but a little person with a little elf thing. Did you see it, Jason?
Unidentified Female Producer
I'm looking at it now.
Mandy B
You're looking.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah. This is like, it was real. Some cir c at the church.
Jason Rodriguez
That's what a ti Offering night at the church.
Mandy B
Wait, what do you mean fight night? Like, what they do at the strip club.
Aaron A. King Howard
Bro.
Unidentified Female Producer
Oh, wait.
Mandy B
Oh, you're looking at Passion City.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, see, they got Jesus's life behind a Lambo. Wait, what was that?
Jason Rodriguez
Passion City Church. They got a whole boxing ring and everything.
Mandy B
Wow. That is insane.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, y', all.
Mandy B
I need y' all to Google Passion City.
Jason Rodriguez
Yo, this look like how much they charge you get in?
Aaron A. King Howard
No, no, but. But the way to sit is that they get. So the main church is in midtown, but they have satellites. They have a satellite in Cumberland.
Mandy B
And so I'm not gonna lie, I saw that too. There was a. There's a mega church here. And one of my friends hopped on and was like, I was trying to go to church, church for the New Year's. Apparently the church said, oh, we off this week, but we live streaming to everybody. So he went all the way to the church and the church didn't even hold. Hold the service at the church. They said, we live streaming to y' all from my living room today because I need a break.
Aaron A. King Howard
I need to watch.
Unidentified Female Producer
I can't even make it tonight.
Mandy B
I can't even make it. Y'. All. Y' all missed the. Sorry. You should have checked your emails.
Unidentified Female Producer
I was at this birthday dinner with this girl who got shot in the face.
Aaron A. King Howard
I couldn't even make it out there. Couldn't even make it in, player.
Mandy B
Oh, wow. Yeah.
Jason Rodriguez
So it looked like money. She looked like money.
Mandy B
She looked like.
Jason Rodriguez
She looked like she.
Mandy B
He looked like he had enough money to snort a little.
Aaron A. King Howard
So at this church they had, I guess last weekend they had a thing called. They have like a festival basically in Texas. So they had a festival at like, I think it was at Cowboy Stadium or whatever the place is. They had like 70,000 people in the stadium and they're having speakers and singers and all of this come through and it's like, it's a. It's a real product. Yeah, that was the guy that was speaking, the ball headed guy.
Mandy B
That's the guy that was crazy.
Charlamagne Tha God
Oh, look at it.
Mandy B
No, look at the production.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, the value production.
Jason Rodriguez
They hiring.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, yeah.
Mandy B
And Keith's like, I could do the audio mix over there.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah, look at this.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, look at his nose.
Jason Rodriguez
Look like he invested in stage steak.
Aaron A. King Howard
That didn't mean more steak.
Mandy B
I'm not playing.
Jason Rodriguez
Oh, they got yes.
Aaron A. King Howard
No. Yeah, full band. Like the whole thing.
Jason Rodriguez
We gotta see if we can do a selective ignorance live show there.
Mandy B
Never. Not the way we talk about churches. It's not gonna happen. It's not gonna happen.
Aaron A. King Howard
But here's a question I always ask though, like, and this isn't necessarily in defense of the mega church, but the question I always have is like, okay, if you have a church and you have that many members, like at a regular church that just has, you know, a couple a thousand people, 1500 people that come the past is probably going to have a Cadillac or a nice car. The pastor makes a couple dollars. If you have a church that's that big and that many people are coming to your essentially your business to patronize your Business.
Jason Rodriguez
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
You're probably gonna get rich.
Mandy B
Yeah.
Aaron A. King Howard
And so like my thing about it is like, what is the line? They're not taking a vow of poverty. These aren't monks or anything like that. So I guess my question is like when you have a church that big big, what is the line of how much you're supposed to. There's not capitalism profit financially from the thing if you have, if, if you're essentially have that many customers. I don't know what, I don't have a good answer for that.
Mandy B
You're not telling me that a person who gives gives the word also doesn't want to live a certain lifestyle?
Aaron A. King Howard
Of course they do.
Mandy B
Hey. Hey. The church I, I, I used to go to when I was it, when I was a jit, he pulled up in the Hummer and this is when Hummers was one of the things. Yeah, one of them things. It was like not our pastor pulling up in the Hummer. It was like the H2. It was like the fancy.
Aaron A. King Howard
How much when I was a little, little kid, when I was legit, like our pastor had a bins and we had. It was a regular ass. Little regular ass black church in St. Louis. It wasn't even no mega church. So my thing about it is what church, what black church is the pastor broke. What black church do like I never seen one.
Mandy B
Well, that's, that's a deeper. We got to Evergreen saved. Why we don't see black broke pastor.
Aaron A. King Howard
I don't care if it's a mega church or your regular community church. I ain't never seen no broke pastor who just out.
Mandy B
Here's the hypocrisy. Don't we want generational wealth within our community? Don't we want black people to win? Like, is it Ushi Wally or is it.
Jason Rodriguez
Gucci? Wy on the mic now.
Mandy B
Now y'. All. This was a bonus episode. I know y' all were hoping to hear our thoughts on Jim Jones cam, the 50 beef and all that, but you know what you're going to have to do. Tune in next Tuesday to hear our thoughts on that. God damn it. Cuz that one we're talking and it's still developing. It is developing. I also really wanted us to break down and get into Jim's business. But also IP in this podcast space, especially at the top of the year with what's, you know, happening over at Iheart and Netflix and Charlemagne and all. And we did talk about it, but I want to talk specifically the other.
Jason Rodriguez
Day on Eyes Il with, with Ian Ian Schwartzman Very interesting.
Mandy B
Very interesting. I.
Jason Rodriguez
But we could save it.
Mandy B
I want you. So I need. That's everyone's homework. I think it just. It just dropped, like, yesterday or two days ago. I need everyone, even y', all listening, please. And these are my friends. So I want y' all to go listen. If you're into the space of. Of where creators, entrepreneurship, ownership, all of this is headed specifically within our community, head on over to ear.
Jason Rodriguez
Give a no.
Mandy B
But that's why do not party it. I want y' all to go on over to earn your leisure. Shout out to Rashad and Troy. They sat down with Ian Schwarzman, who is, to me, the brains behind the Joe Butter Network. But if y' all go and listen to that, I would love for us to deep dive into that in terms of even. We're. We're taking this to him to hip hop. So look up the. The history of the Dipset trademark. I want y' all to look into what Jim's building and also just what the rappers right now in the podcast space are doing. What we anticipate them doing and how we do essentially anticipated.
Jason Rodriguez
We anticipate them.
Mandy B
Here we go. Here we go, Here we go.
Jason Rodriguez
I don't know if I.
Mandy B
Well, you are shady, y'. All.
Jason Rodriguez
A key said I'm looking forward to. I will tell you, the one I'm looking forward to is Uncle Murder and Tony. I am looking forward to that.
Mandy B
All right. I don't know how much I want to hear New York talk. I'm having a problem.
Jason Rodriguez
You said you want to look behind the business dealings of Jim Jones.
Mandy B
Oh, chill out. That's my homie now. Not too much.
Jason Rodriguez
So why we can't talk about Tony and Uncle.
Mandy B
We're gonna do it from a place of love. That's why.
Unidentified Female Producer
She don't love them, too.
Mandy B
I ain't got no personal relationships. That's another thing. The hypocrisy of bias, baby.
Aaron A. King Howard
It pulls up, everybody got.
Mandy B
You just know I'm parking the car in the. In the bias spot next week.
Aaron A. King Howard
Everybody's got to buy somewhere.
Mandy B
Yeah, I mean, I. Hey, we're on the Black Effect network. If you. Y. Y' all know what sign we rolling with over here. Shout out to Charlemagne and his $200 million deal.
Unidentified Female Producer
We hope.
Aaron A. King Howard
Yeah, let me hold five.
Mandy B
Let me hold, baby, let me hold.
Aaron A. King Howard
Like.
Mandy B
We'll get into that next Tuesday, actually. Y' all check that out. Other than that. Oh, and then also, it gives us time, too, to watch the. The ti. I'm gonna buy it.
Aaron A. King Howard
I do I do want the hypocrisy.
Jason Rodriguez
Of people.
Mandy B
We gonna lean into.
Jason Rodriguez
TI Is wrong with people, bro.
Mandy B
A lot of things.
Jason Rodriguez
A lot of things shout out to TI Man.
Mandy B
You know, it's like they. Do you want an echo chamber? Do you want someone to step out and try something new? What is it?
Jason Rodriguez
Don't critique that you haven't watched or experienced. Start there. Yeah. Everybody chiming in and haven't watched it.
Aaron A. King Howard
This is why I'm having experience.
Mandy B
Oh, next Tuesdays we gotta do.
Unidentified Female Producer
And King just took a whole shot at the whole entire podcast.
Mandy B
You know what?
Aaron A. King Howard
I just pretty much.
Mandy B
Is it Uchiwali or 1M think I don't like that. Six, seven.
Aaron A. King Howard
Oh, yeah, yeah, it is 67. J.
Unidentified Female Producer
Don't entertain.
Mandy B
Let's get on. All right. Well, y', all, yet another good episode. I hope y' all enjoyed this conversation with my super producers and journalism.
Jason Rodriguez
J, we g. We gonna get active in the. In the Discord, too.
Mandy B
Yeah, man, come get up in there.
Aaron A. King Howard
We come with y', all, man.
Mandy B
So I'm going add them. I'm going to give them the link. If you guys want the link to join us in on episode feedback and am I ignorant? And all the things. Again, something else we'll get into next week. On next Friday's episode, we'll do some more Am I ignorant? But join us on the Discord. And to do that, you have to join our Patreon for as little as $5 a month. You get ad free content, so you get the audio ad free. You get the video ad free and you get the video to this episode. All bonus episodes are not up on YouTube, but they are on the Patreon. So if you like to watch this content, make sure you join us over on the Patreon. It's patreon.com backslash with MandyB. And again, make sure you follow my super producers as well as ja. Their information is not only in the description of this episode, but JA, tell the people where they can follow you because I love your name on all socials.
Aaron A. King Howard
You can find me on the Instagram Mr. Hip Hop Obama. You can find me on threads the same way you can find me on Twitter at Hip Hop Obama.
Mandy B
That's right. And I'm really happy y' all will soon find him on his own podcast.
Aaron A. King Howard
How about we gonna roll that on?
Mandy B
How about, you know, we. We. We getting his feet wet. Opening it up, up a little bit, you know, pause. Not opening you up too much.
Unidentified Female Producer
Not too much.
Mandy B
Not like, you know.
Jason Rodriguez
That.
Charlamagne Tha God
Hey, y.
Aaron A. King Howard
This whole thing has gone completely off the rail.
Mandy B
It did.
Jason Rodriguez
Okay, guys, talk about Trump not parting in. He said he's not going to hold it.
Mandy B
You know what? We. We might have to just. Next week, y'. All. Hope you enjoyed this episode, this bonus episode of Selective Ignorance, where curiosity lives, controversy thrives, and conversations matter. See you next week. You see, I can say I'm in. With endearment. With endearment. Bye, guys. Selective Ignorance, a production of the Black Effect Podcast Network. For more podcasts from iHeartRadio, visit the iHeartRadio app, Apple Podcasts, or wherever you listen to your favorite shows.
Unidentified Female Producer
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Mandy B
This is an iHeart podcast. Guaranteed Human.
Date: January 16, 2026
Host: Mandii B (plus contributors Jason Rodriguez, Aaron A. King Howard, and producers)
Podcast Network: The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts
In this candid and unfiltered bonus episode, Mandii B and her co-hosts tackle the complexities of modern relationships, societal standards, and the hilarity and ignorance that often surface in social and political conversations. With characteristic humor and openness, the group explores topics ranging from "ignorant" food ordering, shifting standards in dating and relationships, the influence of gambling and celebrity culture, to heated debates around women’s clothing—culminating in a discussion about changing social norms inside and outside the church.
[10:13 – 24:28]
Mandii B recounts a hilarious birthday dinner experience:
Group reflects on their own food blunders:
Key Insight:
“I love that I gave a lesson at the table. Let them know that you didn’t hide.” (Mandy B, 20:00)
[25:01 – 34:47]
Clip Debate Recap:
Double Down or Take it Back?
"If those are things that you like that you’ve already gotten, for you to be with a man who doesn’t exhibit those things, you are settling..." (28:28)
Test or True Standard?
“You don’t get to find out what kind of person I am via manipulation... Life is going to present situations where you’ll find out what somebody is really, really on.” (31:28)
Men’s Perspective:
[35:04 – 43:00]
“I think as 2026 goes on... you’re going to see more of a decline within the party of the politicians themselves, of Trump support...” (36:53)
[43:00 – 57:05]
Gambling Proliferation:
"I literally am comparing this to the crack epidemic because it’s gonna f*** up these households..." (50:00)
Casinos & Community Harm:
Celebrity Decision-Making:
[57:05 – 79:08]
Dress Code Debates:
“I think a woman should be able to wear whatever, but... there’s certain things you put on that unfortunately... the congregation and society... will judge you on.” (61:53)
“Why are we having pulpit war? Why are you talking about me and my wife from your pulpit? Talk about God.” (74:00)
"Standardless" Society?
"Are we just standardless now?" (67:59)
Mega-church Capitalism:
"Don’t we want generational wealth within our community? Don’t we want Black people to win? Like, is it Uchi Wally or is it..." (80:24)
On ordering unfamiliar food:
“People order food and don’t know what it is!” — Mandy B (17:28)
On “tricking” and relationship standards:
“If you are a woman who has experienced a man who shows up with flowers...book[s] dates...for you to be with a man who doesn’t, you are settling...” — Mandy B (28:28)
On the new gambling landscape:
“I literally am comparing this to the crack epidemic because it’s gonna f*** up these households...” — Mandy B (50:00)
“People cheered for Nas getting his casino and people killed Jay-Z...” — Aaron A. King Howard (54:25)
On church fashion scandals:
“A two dollar whore... At least two.” — Jason Rodriguez, quoting church criticism of a pastor’s wife (61:27)
On standards and hypocrisy:
“Are we just standardless now?” — Jason Rodriguez (67:59)
“Don’t we want generational wealth within our community?...Is it Uchi Wally or is it...” — Mandy B (80:24)
This bonus episode playfully dissects the “ignorance” and standards that shape our decisions—be it at the dinner table, in dating, political engagement, or in church. Through personal anecdotes and panel banter, the hosts demonstrate how collective assumptions (about food, relationships, policy, money, or morality) both constrain and amuse us. The show’s charm lies in its refusal to take anything off-limits and in its willingness to challenge not only traditional patriarchal narratives, but also contemporary hypocrisies in celebrity, capitalism, and community life.