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Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Let's talk about this bitch, Summer Walker.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
Let's get into it, guys. Especially because a lot of y' all were tagging. I got a tweet that was like, ooh, I can't wait to hear you talk about the Summer Walker saga on horrible decisions. So let's get into it. Let's get into the tea.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
What could we even say?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
Well, I will.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
We'll update you.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
What happened is that there were. There was a leaked voice note from Summer Walker to rapper Rich the Kid. That was leaked, allegedly by his baby mom slash fiance, Tory Bricks. Now, I was just hoping my good sis didn't respond or said, bitch, that's AI. All you had to do was say, that ain't me, it's AI. In the voice note, you hear Summer Walker pretty much saying, hey, just buy me a new phone. Save me under Pizza Hut. I know you not gonna leave your baby mama, but I want us to.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Fuck with each other forever. I didn't think when you heard that because that's the line. That's all we need to know. Right? Okay, so I didn't see Summer's response first.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
Well, I want to. I wanted to say the voice note and then I was gonna play.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
No, no, no. I was gonna say the voice note. I didn't see her response. I didn't see anything. My first reaction was, oh, she's being funny. Did you think that? No. I've seen people say, oh, when you got a side chick, you saved them under Pizza Hut. So I was like, oh, she's trying to be funny. First off, let's be very clear.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
It is 2025. Nobody saves pizza Hut's number.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Bitch. I know. I thought it was.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
We all know that we like a slice from a real pizzeria. I don't know she would Pizza Hut like that.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Okay, so you think she was serious? Because she was like, listen, I'm tipsy right now. Y' all ain't gonna stop fucking with each other. I don't even want go be with her. I'm glad y' all together. Get me a phone. Save me on a Pizza Hut. I was like, oh, she being funny because you're tricking on her. Like, I could tell you talking to your trick and you just like, n keep breaking me off. No. So I thought she was playing it first until I list I listened to her six minute video.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
Well, I don't have six minutes, but I have about a minute and a half. But this is where she explicitly says, I just want to be the side piece. This is what Summer Walker had to say.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I just wanna be the side. That's what I'm seeing. Like, I just wanna be the side. I just want you to chill. I don't like him enough to lay up next to him every day. I don't even know how you do it. I'm not gonna start talking about him. You know, I'm not gonna start talking about him. But you know the things about him, Girl, I don't know how you do it. I was just trying to play my little position. He clearly won't stop. And, you know, he's obsessive. You can, like, say that you're gonna leave him alone and he will just call you back, back to back, get to call your friends, get to call your manager, get to call your assistant, get to sit and stuff. So why would you just. Every now and then you just give in. You're like, you know, let that take me somewhere. And I.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
You know what?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I'm actually really glad you did this because I was this close. I said, damn, I really want a Porsche and I really want a condo in Miami. But I really kept thinking about it. I was like, I don't know, because you. You act nuts. And this is what I needed to see.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
So, okay, Okay. I want to hear your thoughts, and then I'm going to get into the psychology of all this with you.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Okay, so there's a few things that I actually thought were embarrassing.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
So, okay.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I think Emma Walker is actually too big to have made this news, so. Too big in comparison to them. Okay. Tory Bricks, with all due respect, enrich the kid. I don't think they're on my radar at all. Maybe I would have swiped by that on Hollywood Unlocked or Shade Room. Summer Walker, to me really is that girl, like, that's an R and B rotation if it's R and B night. I just went last night, like I just said. And I was like. Summer was on, like, bitch, I'm a name. I can name summer songs. You can't name Meek Mill songs. I can name summer songs. What are we talking about here? Like, I'm about to respond to that. And this is why the Internet sometimes is a curse. Because now you look like a dodo. Like, you really could have let that hoe just be like you in my DMs. Da, da, da. And I wouldn't have, because Summer talked about it. It made it big. Rich the kid, in my opinion, leaked this because he actually has a lit little song.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
Oh, you think Rich. You think Rich leaked it? Not Tory?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Yes, because Rich just also put out a song. He goes, oh, we'll send y' all here. And he put out a song. And the song was kind of good. Rice and Killer and someone else, but it had a little beat.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
Oh, okay.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Rich the kid only got plugged. Talk to me. So I really think he was like, what's the biggest play I could do here? And I think.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
And Summer did just release her album.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Last week, and it's like you shit on her because she got all her cool shit going on. You can post your shit up, make your name relevant again. I'm telling you, I really think it was calculated. And for Summer to reply when all we're thinking about right now is her cute, funny wedding dress, shit, you're a dodo. The other thing that really blew my mind was like, bitch, you've been acting anxious for years. And you got up there and told us for six minutes you was able to do all that. But she did say one really funny thing. Like, the bitch was kind of funny. Even though she looked stupid, she was kind of funny. She was like, yeah. I mean, if he's gonna buy me shit, like, I can't imagine what you do. Cause I'm rich, so I can't. I see why you can't leave.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
I was like, oh.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Oh, that's fucked up. That was funny. The summer is fucking lit. I've paid over a hundred dollars to be Summer Walker. I never think that. Rich the kid wouldn't even be on a Groupon, so. And I would pay for her again. And she barely did anything, but she sounded good. So. Okay. This girl really got bread. And she liked fucking with this nigga. Cause whatever. Maybe if she wants to say her words. Not mine, bird brain. Bird shit. You want to trick on this nigga? Cool. Have him trick on you.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
Cool.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
But replying was so stupid. You do not reply to people when they're begging for you to. You telling me I'm up here? I'm. That. Nah, that's begging for you to answer. You're trying to make me look bad.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
So.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
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Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Hey, everybody, welcome back to another episode of you Got Decisions. I am not here with Mandy because I'm in la. We're taking a little bit of our winter break. I'm actually in Los Angeles, my other co host for my show For Fact Sakes podcast. So if you're a member of Horrible Decisions on Patreon, go ahead and add For Fact Sake to your list. Me and Eddie have had our show for about five years now, and it's all about random facts. We only had one guest, actually, with Charlemagne, but last week's episode was about Cancel Culture, and we just named a bunch of chefs. What was the one a week before that?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
What do we talk about?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I don't know. Oh, lawsuits.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Lawsuits. A lot of people. You.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Yeah, sorry, because the podcast is bleeding over. Yeah.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
But hey, I'm back on. Back on the Patreon for Horrible Decisions. Finally.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
How many years ago in your Horrible Decision? I don't know. Before the pandemic.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
The pandemic. I remember the first time I was on Horrible Decisions. I was just like. Just like, look at my Instagram just blowing up. Just. Black Woman. Black woman, Black woman. Okay, all right. Okay. Hello. Bro, these names are fun.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Hey, this is a black effect.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah, sorry, sorry, sorry.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
But don't worry, guys. He's Peru. I know.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
He sound like, hey, I'm me, but.
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Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
All right.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
So it's crazy because, like, people ask Mandy and I such specific sex questions, and I was like, damn. Like, how are Eddie and I going to do this? Because that's fine.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Hey, I've had sex. You know me.
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Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
I have had sex. I've been in people. People have been in me.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Really?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Now.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Eddie's married now, so I'm just like the married guy. But to me, like, married people sometimes give the best dating advice. But, you know, we. It's pretty horrible advices.
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Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah. You're out there sucking and fucking having a good time. I'm not.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
That's. That's what I do, honey. Now the subject is plug or nah. And so I don't. I don't know if I mean butt.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Plug, plug, butt plug. Who's a butt plug? Is that a guy?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Eddie, we are trying to sell our Patreon here.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Do you think there's a guy with a. Who's a butt plug plug?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
That's what I was like, is it a plug or is it a plug?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
But a guy who can get you butt plugs.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
That's the only thing. Because I got a drug plug.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
But do you have a butt plug plug? He just has a briefcase full of butt plugs. Like, wow.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Why aren't there any sex toy slangers?
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Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah, there should be a sex toy.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Slinger because I guess they're cheap.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
I guess. Yeah.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
All right, let's.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Also, you wouldn't want it from a store. You want some guy with a bag full of sex toys.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Yeah. No, but unless it was like. Because like certain vibrators, like the Womanizer is like two. Upwards of $200.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Or the. We vibe the remote.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
What's your vibrator?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I don't use any.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
You don't use any?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I need my hands.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
You're what you.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Because I started to desensitize my cooch.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
I see.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I was going really hard at some point.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
It's like a chef's thumb. That thing's. Doesn't feel anything anymore.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Really. I would be having sex. I'm like, yo, can't wait till he leaves so I can fuck myself.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah. Yeah. And you were the vibrator because I guess. I guess when you use a vibrator so much, you must get. So you can ruin a sex life where you're like, I get so desensitized.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
And I don't think this is a knock against vibrators because if we have an ad that comes up, there's a vibrator I want you to buy.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Right.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
What I'm saying is, like, you start to overuse it.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I think once you get to that point where you need that strong of a fucking.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
I used to have a. An ex girlfriend back in the day. I'VE never said the story before.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Oh, my God. Tell us your sex death.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
She was, like, very, like, high sex drive. Very. Almost like a little bit like. Like, okay, relax. You know, just like, very, very intense. Let's do it now. Right now.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Okay.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
She's like, almost like a coach. Like, come on, 20. Now. Like, all right, let's go right now. She's like. I go, do you ever use a second. Do you ever use a vibrator? She's like, I have one. I'm like, we should use it.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Oh, Eddie is wild right now, dude. I hope your wife doesn't.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Dude, I. I'm telling you, when she brought this out, I was like, oh, are we, like, mixing cement? It had a plug. Damn. Not even a battery. Not aa. Not a plug. Like this needs a plug. Plug or not. So. Dude. And it's like, I couldn't believe. I was like. And when she pulled, I was like, oh, no, I'm good. Like, that's okay. Like, I.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
What?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Can't bring out a Star wars tool? It was like this.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
What was she. What would she want?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
It was bizarre. I was like, that's not. Are we. Are we working our backs? It's like my. It was like a white.
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Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
It. Was it from Brookstone.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
I don't know what it was. I was like, oh, I'm good. And ever since then, I've never asked. There's a great never. Because you want it. Because when you ask, you want to be like, it's.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Yeah, it's a little, teeny, tiny.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
It's the tickler. Not like.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Not like, you know, did any of your male friends. So Eddie's a comedian. If you guys haven't heard him or you're new to decisions, decisions, you haven't heard his name. So I'm wondering, like, do comics ever talk about sex? Because I know some of my.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Oh, like.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Oh, like, sex details. Like, do male.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
No, no. Me and my friends, we get no details. Women get details. Like, how big was it? What happened? You know? How did it. Smell it? Guys are like, you get it in? Yeah, okay, cool.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
You get it in.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
He's like, oh, yeah, we hooked up last night.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Oh, get it in.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Like, yeah, yeah. And it was like, that's.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Why do I keep getting confused with the punch? I'm like, did you get it in? Like, did you get the dick in?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
No, just like, yeah, no, we hooked up. That's it. I'm like, okay, cool.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I don't know if Mel.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
I don't have sex toys.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
They don't whip.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
First of all, it's a little sus. If my friend's like, tell me everything. Every smell, every taste, every feel and how did she feel? And how did it. Did you like right away or did you wait, Was it all over her chest? I don't ask any questions. No, I don't. None of the guys do.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
No. I need a vote.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
No, I take it. I'm not saying it. I'm not saying anything. It's homoerotic. But if I want to be like, buddy, take me there.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I'm like, you weren't like, oh, yeah, she was sucking my dick.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
No, I don't. We don't talk like, me and my friends don't talk like that.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Is that.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
I think it's. I think women like details. Guys don't just need to know what happened.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
But I think the guys be talking about how nasty someone is.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Maybe. Maybe it's just me, but my friends never like, all right, nobody.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
The plug story or you didn't tell anybody the story? Where that girl on you?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
No, I've never. I've only told women these stories because women don't judge me.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I don't even know how they could find that.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
No, we don't talk about my friends at all. Now that we're married, we don't even talk about our wives at all. Just like, what's her name again? I am.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Okay, but I can't wait to get there.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Butthole. Anyway, a plug or not?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Not the plug.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
No worries. Anyway, that's the last time I asked a woman about a sex toy.
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Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Okay, here we go. So. Hey guys, it's been a while. This shit is so long. So let me know if I should send a voicemail to Mandy on the hotline or send a voice message.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Is this like a fan thing?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Yes. Okay, so. Not sure what I'm looking for. Validation? Advice? Just sending the story into the ether in May. My boyfriend met this girl on hinge Girl A My partner is a guy that falls Head over heels for people. Quickly he was beginning to get deep feelings for her. Like she could be another girlfriend, but she lives on another continent. When she left town, he was a bit depressed, but moved on. Come June, he matches with another girl on hinge. Girl B. She messages him. Oh my gosh. Are you the guy girl A was hanging out with last month? I'm the best friend she made during that trip. He and Girl A and B have become good friends and they connect and talk often. Girl B is local, so he hangs out with her every so often. I want you guys to know, Eddie, who is a monogamous married man is looking like, what the fuck?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Honestly, I'm not kidding. I just texted my wife like pasta tonight. So like I don't know who A and B are. I don't know if they're having on plan B. I don't know what's. I don't know what's in someone's A, in someone's P. I don't know what's happening. It just sounds like someone is like in an open relationship with someone and then they're meeting women. They're meeting women. That woman happens to be friends with another woman.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Yes. How does this happen? God damn.
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What are they?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Okay.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
How do you.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
This is our non monogamy world. Okay, fast forward to September. Boyfriend tells me girl A is coming back to town next month. Sorry for the long background. I feel it is needed because this is where the advice for the story comes in. Very early into girl A being back in town, my boyfriend asks me if I could be would be able to hook up the girls with some Sid. I don't even know what the fuck that is. Sid and I do drugs. Sid. He said they're both experienced with mushrooms. So he would like to bring the happiness that is Sid into their life. Bitch, put me on. So I asked him, will you do it with them? He said, probably not. I prefer it if they experience it for their first time together. But I'd be willing to be their shepherd since I'm good at it and I've done it plenty of times. So I said, okay, I contact my plug. Okay, this is a drug plug. He said he'll work on it, but no guarantee I'll get it before the girl leaves the country. So when my boyfriend and I get together, we do a little catch up. What have you been up to since we last hung out? Convo. We also talk about our upcoming plans for the week. He comes over on October 25th. Damn. This is tea we do our catch up convo. He's telling me about how he went out with girl A and B and he feels bad for not going to the club with them. He's very sensitive to loud noises and bright lights. Okay, so yo, niggas autistic, they tried to encourage him to try it out. He stood outside of the club and immediately is like, no one left. And I joke, I bet you would have handled it if you could have had a threesome at the end of it. So then I ask him, are we gonna hang out for Halloween? And he says, I'm not sure. I may hang out with girl A and B. We may just hang out another day around Friday. And then he says, matter of fact, do you think you can get the Sid before the weekend? And I said, oh, well, I'm not sure when my plug will call me next time. And I don't know if he'll even have it the next time I see him. And he said, okay. Cause I was hoping to get it to them before the girl leaves. So I said, okay, I'm working on it. And I don't know because it's based on my plug. Then I said, by the way, what do I get out of all of this? Can you look up Sid, by the way? Cid. Okay. Lsd. Oh, oh, lsd. Acid. Oh, acid.
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Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Bitch, you did all of that? Why did you.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
You could just set it.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Almost me. Sorry, girl, I know you've been a fan.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Let's get Gen Z. Slang thing. Get some Sid.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
He's like, what do you mean? And I'm like, well, I'm using my connection to get you and these two people that I don't even like. We were drunk during this conversation. So then my negativity came out. I'm getting them to sit. So what am I getting out of it? And he says, my happiness. And I said, lol. That's Cupid. No, really, what am I getting out of it? And he gets it negative, takes it negatively, and he's shocked that I'm saying his happiness isn't enough for me to do the favor. And I'm like, well, what about them? Because I don't know them and they're getting happy and I don't even know them. I don't like them. I don't know why you don't like them yet. But he said, I didn't realize it was transactional for you. And I'm like, well, I don't know why it wouldn't be. I don't know them. And I Also am like, what if you do this and you end up having a threesome? I say this jokingly before the fight started. You think you're doing me doing you this favor is out of the kindness of my heart. And the fight kind of spirals a bit from here. At one point I say, you're not even the one that has anything to offer me. Especially since there's no guarantee that he's even going to do it with them. It's just two bitches offering him something because I'm doing it for them. Oh, so she thinks the girls are gonna give him some ass cause she's getting them drugs. He said, well, I'm kind of hoping it would be a surprise for them. So, like I said, I'm not even asking for much, but fucking give me the money, like something. How is it we're in a situation where I'm getting nothing? And he said, well, what do you want, $20? And I got so mad. It just adds to my point that he thinks I'm asking for a lot. Eventually, we both take turns going to the bathroom to wash our faces, to cool down and come back when the fight is over. Now it's November 2nd. I still don't have the acid. Girl A leaves the country in a week. Girl B got sick with COVID They all didn't hang out, and he ended up having the best Halloween with me that we've ever had together. And all he offered me was a favor for the fight and apology and some homemade cinnamon rolls. He emails 18 hours ago. This is a week ago. Just to update. Girl is out of country and we still got no goods. All the fighting for nothing. Bitch, you wrote all of it. Was you all asking when you wrote that?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
You know, this reminds me of actually with me, my wife. Actually, my wife wanted to get a new accent chair and she wanted from West Elm. And I said we should just get it from Amazon. It was $400 more. And then we had a bit of a fight. And anyway, that's what we fought about recently.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
What the fuck?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
That's where my life's at. If you want to these whores and want me to get the acid, don't think I'm gonna do it for free. I have no idea what I'm doing here.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I'm not gonna lie. Let me see what time she sent that email.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
That's good.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
She literally said, I don't know what I'm asking for.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
These people make me look Christian as hell, man. I'm not even like, I'm not I'm not even that, like, strange of a guy, man. I'm. I will say this. This guy is. He's. He does have a luxury here to even be in the situation.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Oh, I'm not gonna hold you.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
He is like, so she's very grateful that this woman's even, like, fathom.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I was gonna say, I actually understand why she's mad. However, I can't dictate the dynamic of someone else's relationship. But I'll say this. When I have conversation with my boyfriend, it isn't like, a choice that anyone else is gonna get. Like, it's not like, oh, are we gonna hang out? And then he says, maybe I'll be with someone else. Like, so we aren't there. Right. And I'm not shading you at all. I'm just saying I can't imagine someone telling me who I would assume as the girlfriend is a priority. Like, I'm not sure, but can you get this? Can you get this? Can you do this? Like, I ain't doing a favor for no.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah, well, you don't want to turn it to, like, a personal assistant.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Oh, so you can say, hell, no. Because I bet you if you were somebody else and you were like, oh, make sure you get my new boost and mushrooms and this and this and that. What the. Like, I don't like.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
But what if she wouldn't like this?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I don't need to convenience.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
You can give me some mushrooms and some condoms. Actually, get some magnums. Is huge. And there may be a point, like, can you just get this yourself? There'd be a point where you're like.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Why am I the clock?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah, I think so. I think there's a point where you have to be like, hey, this is still a person, not just for a personal assistant.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
So I would tell you this because you never want to run into this situation again. Nothing is wrong with the AV girl. Like, especially if it's in. When you're a dynamic and they have some little sexual thing going on. Who cares? Whatever. There should be boundaries drawn anytime you feel weird about something.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Right.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
And I also think it's okay to say, I don't know how this is making me feel. We got to talk about it.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Mandy)
For example.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I think the last person my boyfriend had sex with. It's been a minute. We've been monogamous for a bit as of lately. Just because I feel like we have too much life shit going on for us to experience sexuality in the realm where it's enjoyable. Like, for example, just being totally Transparent. When I was in Brazil, my dad goes to the emergency room and I'm like, yeah, we can't just be having threesomes while I'm calling the ER and doing all. Yeah, like, damn, it kind of ruins it, but. And he gets it. Like.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
And you're hitting certain life, you know, steps, or you're just like. Not that anything's shameful, but you can't be. Just be like.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Like, there's certain things that start to.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
You can't be just like, going down a woman. Like, I just signed a co. Signed a mortgage with her.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I can't do it.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah, there's a point. Give yourself a little space.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
But don't get me wrong, that would be fun, right? So I say all this to say one of the things I discovered in the last person he had sex with. I was like, you know what I feel? I was like, I kind of don't want you. Someone from the past. Because I think it's this layer of like, let's just say you fucked a year ago. And I guess we've been together two and a half years, so years before. And maybe you and her ended because you couldn't give her what she want, or she liked you and something ended and now you're her.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
You don't need anything rekindled.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
I'm like, don't you kind of feel like that would cause issues because now you have a girlfriend that's totally chill with you. But, like, right, so we start talking about it. He's like, what do you want from this conversation? Do you want me and you to make suggestions or do you want me to cut off girls from the past? And I literally said, I don't know, but I'm telling you how I feel. And something that's coming to my head, for you to sit there and like, we figure this out together. Because I. When guys that I used to fuck hit me up, I do speak to them. And that's something he brought up. He's like, okay, well, you be hitting them back.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
It also depends on what type of relationship you had. If you're just like, it was a one night stand. He was. He's from Europe, but he's in town. Okay, fine. But you can't be like, yeah, he was the one that got away. I thought he was something special. But anyway, we're gonna.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
No, it's not anything that serious. But it's still girls that may have had feelings. So I guess the thing that we had to discuss was like, all right, but how do they feel? About you. Right? Like, what about these women? And what if they have a lot of weight for their feelings with you? Maybe they didn't mean anything to you, but you did to that. Like, whatever. So I bring that up to you, listener, because I approached the way something made me feel or a thought that I thought was, you know, kind of bothering me. And it didn't have a solution and I didn't have an ask. I just needed to put it out there.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Right.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
So I think it's okay in relationships where you have open dynamics to be like, something's making me feel a little icky and I don't know why. If we don't communicate to that level, then you don't have successful open relationships because you're not gonna not get jealous. You're not gonna not act funny. Like, that is the truth. What I don't like about people in non monogamous relationships is the idea that they. Oh, like we're good. I don't experience this. Like, if you're monogamous you do, but I don't get jealous. I guess. The fuck you do. Like, that's just the reality. So I think you absolutely bring this up when you guys are not drunk and you're like, you know what? You kind of made me feel like I was the drug dealer plug and I don't really want to be the liaison between you and other women. Like, think of it as I'm hooking up a restaurant reservation for you and.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Some other like, oh, yeah, that's a good analogy.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Yeah. Your happiness should not come with me needing to help you to get women. Like, I'm, I want you to be happy because when you, when you to me that your happiness and us being in this dynamic is enough. Right? Like, the pleasure that I receive in my relationship is like, let's just say I'm with another person and it's like, oh yeah, she got to explore. So that's fun. That's your happiness. That to me is it. That's the conversion. I've been saying that word for years. We all have learned it. It's in the no holds barred conversion is the act of enjoying someone else's pleasure. Bitch. I'm going to be the assistant in the floor.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah, yeah.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
So it's not a butt plug.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Interesting. Any final thoughts, married guy?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah. Call my wife. Hey, what are you doing? No, I will say that for this guy. I don't know who this guy is, but you gotta feel like the fact that you've been allowed to do this stuff, you Must feel real lucky. Just don't abuse your power. Don't abuse that sort of comfort level.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
And also because I'm happy is very manipulative.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah, it's like, oh, I guess you find enjoyment not making me happy. And like, no, I can't. This makes me uncomfortable. And I'm allowed to say that I think you're right. Communication is key for everything. If you're hiding, you're hiding. You're dying, bro.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
If every time I saw you, I asked you for something. Eddie. Oh, can you tell me about this? I know you get Eddie, I'm running late. Eddie.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Can we do another time?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Oh, shut up, everybody. I love you. Okay, so every single Wednesday we have you got decisions. They're a little more relaxed than our decisions decision episode where you always get the both of us. But these maybe solo might be with a friend, another co host.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Did I do okay? Did I ruin it? Did I do okay?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
No, I think you do good.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Did I?
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Okay. Cause you gave us a little section. You got to.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I put it out there. Wife's making pasta. I gotta go.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Gina)
Okay. Patreon.com backslash horrible decisions. And then once you're on there to hear old horrible decisions episode that you probably missed going over to for fact's sake. Patreon.com ffspodcast if you don't got an extra $6, me and Eddie, you can actually subscribe to it and get 10 minutes of preview. That's a little tip. Not the tip that you'd put in or the butt plug.
Horrible Decisions Host (possibly Eddie)
Bye bye.
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Podcast: Decisions, Decisions
Hosts: Mandii B, WeezyWTF (with guest Eddie Della Siepe)
Release Date: November 26, 2025
Produced by: The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts
In this candid and hilarious episode of "Decisions, Decisions," the hosts and guest Eddie Della Siepe dive into the sticky nuances of non-traditional relationships, the boundaries of helping partners with their other lovers, and the ever-relatable question: “Plug or nah?” The episode features an in-depth listener story involving open relationships, drug plugs, and emotional labor, peppered with personal anecdotes, laughs, and sharp commentary on boundaries and transactionality in modern love.
(Starts ~03:16)
(10:40 – 12:51)
(12:52 – 20:10)
(20:25 – 32:21)
The hosts maintain a playful, irreverent, and unfiltered tone throughout, seamlessly swinging from raunchy humor to real advice:
Want more? Join the hosts’ Patreon for uncensored advice and messier stories. If you haven’t yet, tune into “For Fact Sake” for more Eddie and Gina antics.