Podcast Summary: "You've Got Decisions: Plug Or Nah?" (feat. Eddie Della Siepe)

Podcast: Decisions, Decisions
Hosts: Mandii B, WeezyWTF (with guest Eddie Della Siepe)
Release Date: November 26, 2025
Produced by: The Black Effect and iHeartPodcasts

Episode Overview

In this candid and hilarious episode of "Decisions, Decisions," the hosts and guest Eddie Della Siepe dive into the sticky nuances of non-traditional relationships, the boundaries of helping partners with their other lovers, and the ever-relatable question: “Plug or nah?” The episode features an in-depth listener story involving open relationships, drug plugs, and emotional labor, peppered with personal anecdotes, laughs, and sharp commentary on boundaries and transactionality in modern love.

1. Pop Culture Tea: The Summer Walker Saga

(Starts ~03:16)

Key Points & Takeaways

• Hosts break down the leaked voicemail involving R&B singer Summer Walker, rapper Rich the Kid, and his fiancée, Tory Bricks.
• Summer Walker’s explicit side-chick confession:
  • “I just wanna be the side. I just want you to chill. ...I'm not gonna start talking about him. ...I was just trying to play my little position. He clearly won't stop.” (Summer Walker, quoted by hosts, 05:55-06:35)
• Host reactions:
  • Gina calls Summer’s public response “embarrassing,” suggesting she shouldn’t have dignified the drama, while Mandy muses about Rich’s possible motivations for leaking.
  • Gina on Summer Walker: “That’s an R&B rotation if it’s R&B night ... Summer was on, like, bitch, I’m a name. ...You can post your shit up, make your name relevant again. I’m telling you, I think it was calculated.” (07:10-08:13)
  • On the power dynamics: “You do not reply to people when they’re begging for you to. ...That’s begging for you to answer. You’re trying to make me look bad.” (Gina, 09:44)
• Memorable Moment: Gina’s comedic takedown of pizza chain code names and her praise for Summer’s music despite personal missteps.

2. Introducing Guest Eddie Della Siepe

(10:40 – 12:51)

Key Points

• Eddie joins the show as a married man bringing the “monogamous perspective” to famously non-monogamous territory.
• Jokes about sex and audience demographics keep the energy light:
  • “I remember the first time I was on Horrible Decisions. ... Just Black Woman. Black woman, Black woman. Okay, all right. Okay.” (Eddie, 11:32)
• Banter about Eddie’s podcast with Gina, “For Fact Sake,” and their recent topics.

3. "Plug or Nah": Sex, Toys, and Sensory Boundaries

(12:52 – 20:10)

Key Points

• Clarifying "Plug": Is it a butt plug or a hookup for drugs or sex toys?
• Funny Riff: Why aren’t there “sex toy slingers?”
  • “Do you have a butt plug plug? He just has a briefcase full of butt plugs. Like, wow.” (Eddie and Gina, 12:59-13:06)
• Sex Toys & Desensitization:
  • Gina discusses her decision to stop relying on vibrators:
    • “I started to desensitize my cooch. ... I would be having sex, I’m like, yo, can’t wait till he leaves so I can fuck myself.” (Gina, 13:30-13:43)
• Eddie’s story: Bringing a literal ‘plug-in’ vibrator into the bedroom (“Are we, like, mixing cement? It had a plug. Damn. Not even a battery.” (Eddie, 14:36))
• Gendered conversations about sex:
  • Gina: “Women get details. ... Guys are like, you get it in? Yeah, okay, cool.” (15:44-15:54)
  • Eddie admits men rarely share sexual details; “My friends never [ask for details]. Now that we’re married, we don’t even talk about our wives at all.” (16:16)

4. Listener Story: The "Plug" for LSD—and Emotional Labor in Open Relationships

(20:25 – 32:21)

Story Recap (Listener Email)

• Situation:
  • Listener (in a non-monogamous relationship) is asked by her boyfriend to procure “Sid” (aka LSD) for his other lovers (girl A and girl B).
  • She’s frustrated by her role as the “plug” for people she barely knows and wonders what she gets in return.
  • The boyfriend is surprised she wants something in exchange (“He gets it negative, takes it negatively, and he’s shocked that I’m saying his happiness isn’t enough...” (24:19))
  • They bicker: he offers “my happiness” or (sarcastically) “twenty dollars” for her troubles.
  • The end? No acid, one COVID case, and “all the fighting for nothing.”

Host Commentary & Advice

• Eddie’s perspective (the married monogamist):
  • Uses humor to highlight the disconnect:
    • “Honestly, I just texted my wife ‘like pasta tonight.’ ...I don’t know who A and B are. ...It just sounds like someone is like in an open relationship with someone and then they’re meeting women. ...I don’t know what’s in someone’s A, in someone’s P. ... If you want these whores and want me to get the acid, don’t think I’m gonna do it for free.” (21:36, 26:35)
• Gina recognizes the imbalance:
  • “When I have conversations with my boyfriend, ...I can’t imagine someone telling me ...‘I’m not sure [if we’ll hang], but can you get this for my other dates?’ Like, I ain’t doing a favor for no...” (27:13)
  • “There should be boundaries drawn anytime you feel weird about something.” (28:12)
• On transactionality and boundaries:
  • Eddie: “Yeah, you don’t want to turn into a personal assistant.”
  • Gina: “Your happiness should not come with me needing to help you to get women. ...That’s the conversion...The act of enjoying someone else’s pleasure.” (31:46)
• On emotional honesty in open relationships:
  • Gina: “I think it’s okay in relationships where you have open dynamics to be like, something’s making me feel a little icky and I don’t know why. ...If we don’t communicate to that level, then you don’t have successful open relationships.” (31:02)
  • “What I don’t like about people in non monogamous relationships is the idea that they ...‘I don’t experience jealousy.’ Guess what? The fuck you do.” (31:14)
• Eddie’s final advice:
  • “You gotta feel like the fact that you’ve been allowed to do this stuff, you must feel real lucky. Just don’t abuse your power. Don’t abuse that sort of comfort level.” (32:25)
  • “Communication is key for everything. If you’re hiding, you’re hiding, you’re dying, bro.” (32:44)
• Gina agrees on the importance of boundaries:
  • “You kind of made me feel like I was the drug dealer plug and I don’t really want to be the liaison between you and other women.” (31:21)
  • Analogies about “hooking up restaurant reservations” for someone else’s date drive the point home (31:43).

5. Memorable Quotes & Moments

• On sex toys:
  • “Are we, like, mixing cement? ...It had a plug. Damn. Not even a battery!” – Eddie (14:36)
• On Summer Walker’s reply:
  • “Now you look like a dodo. ...You really could have let that hoe just be like, you in my DMs... Because Summer talked about it. It made it big.” – Gina (07:10)
• On men sharing sex stories:
  • “Women get details. ...Guys are like, you get it in? Yeah, okay, cool.” – Gina (15:44)
• On boundaries:
  • “You don’t want to turn into a personal assistant.” – Eddie (27:41)
  • "Your happiness should not come with me needing to help you to get women." – Gina (31:46)
• On emotional labor:
  • “If we don’t communicate to that level, then you don’t have successful open relationships.” – Gina (31:02)
• Summing up:
  • “Communication is key for everything. If you’re hiding, you’re hiding, you’re dying, bro.” – Eddie (32:44)

6. Timestamps for Key Segments

• Summer Walker saga and codependence: 03:16 – 10:00
• Eddie joins and discusses his POV: 10:41 – 12:51
• "Plug or Nah," sex toys, and how women/men talk about sex: 12:52 – 20:10
• Listener story (“the LSD plug”): 20:25 – 32:21
• Final thoughts on boundaries: 31:01 – 32:44

7. Tone & Style

The hosts maintain a playful, irreverent, and unfiltered tone throughout, seamlessly swinging from raunchy humor to real advice:

• Gina is blunt, witty, and direct; Eddie brings a grounded, self-deprecating perspective as “the married guy,” often the butt of the joke but also offering grounded wisdom.
• Memorable banter and genuine moments of insight make even heavy topics feel accessible and engaging.

8. Takeaways for Listeners

• Communicate boundaries—especially in open relationships or when emotional labor is at play.
• Don’t become someone’s "personal assistant" for their other romantic interests unless you’re truly comfortable with it.
• It’s okay to express jealousy or discomfort, even (and especially) in non-monogamous arrangements.
• Don’t undervalue your own contributions and don’t feel guilty for wanting something in return in transactional situations.
• Humor and honesty go a long way in maintaining healthy, non-traditional relationships.

Want more? Join the hosts’ Patreon for uncensored advice and messier stories. If you haven’t yet, tune into “For Fact Sake” for more Eddie and Gina antics.