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Joe Rome
Hi. This is Decoding Taylor Swift Season 2, where we're digging into the deeper meaning of the life of a showgirl. Week by week, track by track. Today we discuss the number two song in America, Opalite, with Taylor Swift expert Charlie Harding. I'm Joe Rome, a storytelling Swiftie and lyrics detective.
Tony
I'm Tony. I'm his daughter, and I'm aspiring annoying English class participant.
Joe Rome
I think you aspire to more than.
Tony
That and I guess I already am that.
Joe Rome
Yes, you already are that. But really the star of this show and very excited to announce. Today is Sunday the 26th, and we just hit the top 200 trending podcast list on Spotify.
Tony
We do appreciate it.
Joe Rome
Streams have, like, exploded. So, yes, we really do appreciate you. And today Tony and I are going to talk about Opalite and then we're going to hear from a really extended interview with a great music expert, super.
Tony
Duper smart guy, really, Charlie Harding, about.
Joe Rome
From the award winning podcast Switched on Pop. And after that, you want to stick around because I'm going to drop the real deeper meaning of Opalite is. But let's dive in with Tony. What do you think? What do you think of this song?
Tony
Well, I think that there is a lot under the surface of this song. I've been thinking about it, you know, ever since I've listened to it. One thing that I think is important to point out is that Opalite is a man made stone. Right? Yeah. And it's not all the way blue. Right. When somebody says the sky is Opalite, they mean that there are some clouds, but it's, it's, you know, clearing up. You can make your own, you know, happiness. You can make your own breaks in the clouds. I think that's in this on the, you know, kind of the slightly deeper than the surface meaning. I think going even deeper than that. You know, you had a great conversation with Charles and I was not there for that because I was still sick at college, I think.
Joe Rome
And you got your midterms. This is midterms.
Tony
I did my midterms. You guys. You guys, I officially can't drop out. I'm in too deep because now I have to know what I got on my midterms. So I can't drop out between now and then. But I also dyed my hair there. Right there. I'm sorry. But I also think that. I think that a lot of. I just want to take a moment and talk about a little criticism that Taylor's been getting for being kind of like, you know, trad Wifey in this new album. So, like, there's more under the surface than you would think. That's the criticism she's always gotten. Right. She's just kind of a pop singer. She doesn't have, like, deeper meaning.
Joe Rome
Can I say one of the points that we made in the second and third episodes is that you can't take a quote from Taylor in one of her songs and say that she believes that.
Stephanie Megan
Right.
Joe Rome
These are all.
Tony
That's the other thing. Yeah.
Joe Rome
This is a show, right? This is a show. She says so. And this is something Charlie Harding and I talk a lot about, which, because he strongly believes this, that this is sort of auto fiction, right? This is her. She's just trying to leave an emotional impression. So to say that she's acting like a trad wife is to say, I'm taking some of the lyrics in her songs and saying that's her. And yet at the same time, she's also like Elizabeth Taylor, who obviously wasn't a trad wife. So. And then she's like a showgirl, right? And then she's like Ophelia, and then she's like this and that. So you. I think people are making a mistake if they selectively look at a few lyrics, literally, and say, oh, that's proof that this is what Taylor Swift's identity is. Right? She is performing. And look, this is the number two song in America. And the fate of Ophelia is the number one song.
Tony
She's like a working woman. She has talent. She's not really a trad wife.
Joe Rome
Let's dive into the lyrics.
Tony
Yeah, we can dive into the lyrics.
Joe Rome
I had a bad habit of missing lovers past My brother used to call it Eating out of the trash it's never gonna last I thought my house was haunted I used to live with ghosts and all the perfect couples said when you know, you know and when you don'. You don't. Right? So the point is, she's making fun of herself a bit. I mean, to say her brother called. The fact that she obsesses with, you know, her old boyfriends, which is what she does for a living, right, Is eating out of the trash.
Tony
And so reusing old boyfriends, you know, breaking up, going back to them.
Joe Rome
Right? So again and then. And all the foes and all the friends have seen it before, they'll see it again.
Tony
Right? And that's referencing. Well, hold on, because that's referencing one of my favorite Taylor Swift songs. The archer, the character in that song talks about how I know all of her enemies Started out friends. The problems with relationships inherently is that when there's big emotions, there's a large chance for, you know, heartbreak. There's a large chance, you know, animosity. It's very easy to develop animosity and mixed feelings. You know, all of the foes and all of the friends. She. She's probably referencing her ex lovers. You know, they've seen it before and they'll see it again. Life is a song. It ends when it ends all. I think you guys, in your discussion, not to preempt, you talked about what you thought about the life is a song bit. I would like to add a different layer before we go into the discussion by just saying there are a lot of lines like that. In popular culture, life could be a dream. In BoJack Horseman, it's life is a bitch. And then you d. And, you know, life is a box of chocolates, obviously, from. From Forrest Gump. The way that her songs have been, you know, taken, retaken. You know, people like them. They don't like them. They're. They're art. You know, they're. There's not. They're not. There's not one interpretation of them. Just like how. There's not one interpretation of life. You know, you can just say shit about life. It's a song. It ends when it ends, you know.
Joe Rome
Yeah, well, and we'll come back after we hear what Charlie has to say about it. We'll come back at the end because I think there's a. I think that is an important line. Let's get to the chorus. But mama told me it's all right. You were dancing through the lightning strikes? Sleepless in the onyx night? But now the sky is opalite? Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh, my lord? Never made no one like you before. You had to make very important. Yes, you had to make your own sunshine. But now the sky is opalite. Oh, oh, oh, oh.
Tony
It's actually not oh, oh, oh, it's oah, oh, oh.
Joe Rome
So, yeah, so this song is very metaphorical. And she said that she liked opalite as a metaphor because it was man made and you have to make your own happiness. Right. And it's interesting, she's quoted her brother and her mother. I don't think she's ever done that before.
Tony
But she's not quoted her dad in this song.
Joe Rome
True.
Tony
Another noticeable absence of a father, which my dad really likes to obsess over as a father himself.
Joe Rome
But it's interesting that she says, Never made. Never made no one like you before. Even though in the next verses she says, never met. And this is something we also discussed with Charlie. Do you have a quick take on that?
Tony
Yeah, I think that never made no one like you before. I'm gonna be honest. A current member of the dating community dealing with men, in part, I think that you have to fix them a little bit. Like, they don't come perfectly together. And even though Travis Kelce seems great, he seems like a great guy. Obviously he has a huge penis, which is great for her, I think, but size doesn't matter generally. That's my. That's my opinion. That's one of my woke opinions, you guys, is that, you know, it's about the motion of the ocean, not the size.
Joe Rome
Well, she also has a big dick. She says in Father Figure.
Tony
She does have a big dick. And moving on from discussing penises with my father. A lot of men are raised in a way that is not. Does not create emotionally intelligent beings these days.
Joe Rome
Well, look, men. Look, let me speak a little. Yeah, Men are not.
Tony
Are you silencing women?
Joe Rome
No, I'm trying to explain.
Tony
I'm just joshing. He gets mad when I make fun of him for being a man. But that's not your fault, dad. You couldn't choose to be a woman. And in fact, fun fact, you guys, in the womb, you know, the reason that men have nipples is because we all start out as women. So in a way, you're part of the community.
Joe Rome
Men are discouraged from sharing emotions. There's no question about that. And all I'll say to you on this subject, my daughter, because these are things you will have to learn on your own, is I do understand that a lot of women believe that men are fixer uppers, as they say.
Tony
I met some cool men here, but there's always something. You know what I'm saying?
Joe Rome
And all I'm saying is, like, women.
Tony
Are great, but men.
Joe Rome
I'm a big fan of women. All I have to say is the hope of either gender that they can get the other person in the relationship to change. But they don't have to, Right? She did a whole song on that, right? What's the song? It's on which. The Torture Poets Department song. The I can make him change. I really can.
Tony
Yeah, yeah, yeah. I can fix him. No, really, I can. That's the song, right?
Joe Rome
And by the end of the song, she realizes.
Tony
She's like, oh, shit, I can't.
Joe Rome
Yeah. So I will pass this wisdom on to you. You can.
Tony
Thank you, Wisdom giver.
Joe Rome
Yes. I think all of us should be in a continual act of growth, imposing that, Trying to get someone else to grow. I'll just say good luck, babe, as the song goes. And so let's. Let's continue in here because. Oh, and but one thing I want to say, by the way, for the listeners is we're going to try something.
Tony
He's already fixed. So if you're a lady, like, hit him up because he's been.
Joe Rome
I wasn't going to say that.
Tony
I was going to say he's a great guy. He's a feminist. He's a feminine.
Joe Rome
Thank you, my daughter.
Tony
Like, he's pretty great.
Joe Rome
That's the kindest thing, the warmest thing that you've ever said about me. My daughter Opalite really has a lot going on in it, including the hero's journey stories.
Tony
Yes, it definitely does. Right. For both of them, which is why it makes it a good song.
Joe Rome
Yeah, it's a double hero's journey story.
Tony
Him and they come together.
Joe Rome
Everyone needs to know how to tell their hero's journey story.
Tony
They do. Right.
Joe Rome
And so I hope that we can help you become a better storyteller. Learn from Taylor, one of the great storytellers of the day.
Tony
Are you ready to dive into the interview?
Joe Rome
Yeah, I think. Let's introduce the interview. So.
Tony
So who is this Charles man?
Joe Rome
Charlie Harding is a songwriter and now he's a music professor. But about 11 years ago, he started a podcast, oh, wow. With a friend of his cross country. And it evolved into. It won awards. It's a great podcast. It's called Switched On Pop. So anyway, these guys understand song lyrics and I think they did a great episode.
Tony
Yeah, we've been getting really good dudes for our interviews.
Joe Rome
All right, you're gonna learn a lot. I learned a lot from Charlie in this interview and I hope you'll listen.
Tony
Through speedily preparing for this episode in 2x speed. Listening to him, I also learned a lot.
Joe Rome
Yes. Then we're gonna come back for brief segment at the end where I'm hoping to really blow your minds with some final thoughts on what he's not told.
Tony
Me, what he's gonna say.
Joe Rome
I don't know.
Tony
What the hell.
Joe Rome
All right, with no further ado, here is the interview with Charlie Harding.
Tony
So you are on the other side.
Joe Rome
This is a sequence two where we're gonna talk to Charlie Harding. He's a multi hyphenate. You're a songwriter, music journalist, professor, and creator and co host of the award winning, award winning podcast Switched On Pop. Why don't you tell our audience a little bit about you?
Charlie Harding
Thank you so much for having me on the show. I appreciate it. I have been working as a music journalist on Switched on Pop for 11 years, and Taylor has been with us the entire time. I think the show, which started as a long distance musical friendship project, really developed into a much more serious journalistic inquiry probably on episode 11. Within year one, when we covered Blank Space and we just saw all the kinds of ways which she uses prosody where all the music is interwoven and connected to the lyric, that just blew us away.
Nate Sloan
And we've covered nearly every album released.
Charlie Harding
Since with a serious lapse in lover. That album came out the exact week my first son was born, so.
Joe Rome
Oh, sure, I understand.
Charlie Harding
Apologies to the Swifties out there.
Nate Sloan
But she is just one of the.
Charlie Harding
Most delightful artists to study because she's so thoughtful about every little choice. And thus a whole career in music journalism kicked off from one Taylor Swift song in many ways.
Joe Rome
Well, and I get what you're saying, and that's sort of what attracted me because I was originally into Shakespeare and figuring out what his plays meant. And I realized every single word he chooses is for a reason. And if you don't know the reason, you probably don't know what he's saying. And my daughter introduced me to many singer songwriters, but Taylor, I sort of realized, oh, wow, she is doing everything. She's putting a lot of stuff in, you know, if. If you discover a connection. She didn't do it by accident. And Blank Space. We did an episode on Blank Space in our first season because I was. We've been talking about storytelling and she loves hyperbole and antithesis. Right, darling? I'm nightmare dressed like a daydream. So you're behind really, really just love, as you say, talking about her lyrics. There's a great episode you did when the Life of a Showgirl dropped. Oh, thanks. And people should listen to that. And you were talking about this idea that we need to treat this like a show. People should approach this album a little differently than maybe some of the other albums. Could you explain that a little bit?
Nate Sloan
Sure.
Charlie Harding
I think that she's being very clear with her opening and her closing song. Her opening song, the Fate of Ophelia is a Shakespeare reference.
Nate Sloan
She's drawing from.
Charlie Harding
She's drawing from the history of English literature.
Nate Sloan
And then in her final song, Life of a Showgirl, she literally says, you.
Charlie Harding
Will never know the life of a showgirl.
Nate Sloan
She's telling us that everything is an act. It's a bit of a deception. I don't think we actually have to listen to this album differently than all Taylor Swift records. What I tried to say on Switched.
Charlie Harding
On Pop was that Taylor is a.
Nate Sloan
Performer and that as much as she is trying to maybe goad you into thinking, oh, who is this song exactly about? When you say that she chooses her words. I don't think her choice of words is necessarily about one person. I think her songs are about capturing an emotion, a feeling that you can read into. Now, one of those things you can.
Charlie Harding
Read into is, is it about this boyfriend? That boyfriend, that old flame, that friend, whatever.
Nate Sloan
And by all means, I do think.
Charlie Harding
That she is pulling from her real life. She says as much. We should trust her. But she also says that she will.
Nate Sloan
Never leave an Easter egg in her music. That will draw back to her personal life and to her private life. And when we see her communicate out.
Charlie Harding
In public, give the example of her commencement speech at nyu, it seems like.
Nate Sloan
Oh, you know, I'm so excited for you all to go out into the world. You're gonna be out there on your own, kid. And it's an Easter egg to a future album drop. So even when you think you're getting the real Taylor, she knows that she.
Charlie Harding
Is a professional former.
Nate Sloan
And I think she is stating that thesis so clearly on this album with the bookends of those two songs that.
Charlie Harding
You know, we should say fata Ophelia, that is drawing on the play Hamlet.
Nate Sloan
In which there is a play within a play. She is showing us with her text.
Charlie Harding
That things are not exactly as they seem.
Joe Rome
I agree. And if you watch the music video to Fate of Ophelia, then she's clearly cosplaying. And she uses the word cosplaying, right? She's cosplaying Ophelia, but then she cosplays a whole bunch of Marilyn Monroe.
Nate Sloan
Right? As you say, it's different showgirls of the past.
Joe Rome
Different showgirls of the past. And one of the things that I discussed when I was talking about this episode is she starts with, I heard you on the megaphone. In the music video, the megaphone is a director's megaphone. And then she also has this little ad she did where she's directing herself with a megaphone. And then the very end of life of a showgirl, she grabs the mic, breaks the fourth wall and says, thanks for coming here, right? Thanks to the singers in the band. And of course, Sabrina. And Sabrina screams back at her. So, yeah, she's blown up the fourth wall. And said, hey, guess what? You just watched a great show.
Charlie Harding
I love that analysis of the megaphone.
Nate Sloan
That it becomes intertextual. It's not just the lyric, which I'm.
Charlie Harding
Thinking my podcast, which I had to prepare within a day or two to help him drop. So it's a pretty quick reaction.
Nate Sloan
The obvious connection was Travis Kelce, her.
Charlie Harding
Now fiance, had gone on his megaphone.
Nate Sloan
His podcast, New Heights, and said, you know, there's this pod, there's this new album. Here's Taylor, actually, I guess. No, the reference was he had called.
Charlie Harding
Her out for not getting to meet up with him after era's show thing.
Nate Sloan
Right. So he called out on his megaphone. But here's the thing about decoding Taylor Swift. Getting to know what the words might mean, I don't think is about arriving at a singular meaning that tells us what the song is about. In fact, you've just shown us that when we look at this intertextually and watch the video, the megaphone all of a sudden becomes a metaphor that expands. And what we see is that oftentimes by looking closer and closer to the work, actually what happens is when you.
Charlie Harding
Pull out, the world has expanded and.
Nate Sloan
That the megaphone is not singular.
Charlie Harding
It does not mean one thing.
Nate Sloan
In the same way that when we read Hamlet over and over and over again over the centuries, its meaning constantly evolves. I think she's very conscious of that in her songwriting, and she's willing to trick us.
Joe Rome
She.
Nate Sloan
She baits us.
Charlie Harding
Right.
Nate Sloan
Constantly trying to figure out all who's what about. But she's smarter than that. And there's significantly more going on, I.
Charlie Harding
Think, beyond the work.
Nate Sloan
Within each work.
Joe Rome
Absolutely. You have the fate of Ophelia and the life of a showgirl that structurally, the titles are similar. They use the F sound. As with Father Figure, she sort of has a running thing there. Those songs also start with an imaginary character. One's Ophelia, one's Kitty.
Charlie Harding
Yes.
Joe Rome
And the second verse of each one is a backstory of first Ophelia and then of Kitty. So, yes, I agree with you that she. This is foreshadow. I. You know, she uses foreshadow the way Shakespeare does.
Charlie Harding
And.
Joe Rome
No, I really, really like this album, you know, and I appreciate you. You had to do a quick dive and, you know, now that you've had some time, I'm glad you know, this.
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Joe Rome
I wanted to chat with you about a lot but we've been talking about Opalite.
Charlie Harding
I love Opalite.
Nate Sloan
The first time I heard Opalite I.
Charlie Harding
Said that is the hit. And I'm not surprised that On Billboard's Hot 100 right now, Opalite is number two.
Nate Sloan
Feet of Ophelia was of course the lead single.
Charlie Harding
I think that Opalite is going to be the long running hit out of this record.
Joe Rome
I think so. And in fact it's the one that leaped ahead. It leaped ahead of Elizabeth Taylor. Tell me more. I mean you're an expert on really her how she writes songs. What is it? This is sort of Max Martin y. This is a bop or whatever, you know, term you use. How would you. Why is it so pure pop? Why is it such a good song in your mind?
Charlie Harding
It reminds me of when I heard the song Birds of a Feather by Billie Eilish for the first time.
Nate Sloan
Both of these songs are.
Charlie Harding
And by the way, I really don't like to compare pop stars to one.
Nate Sloan
Another, but the songs have something in common.
Charlie Harding
Where Billie's last record was, her last album was this very expansive sort of concept album where every song flows nicely into the next. It's a very challenging music on there. A lot of experimentation with genre. You know, Taylor here I think is.
Nate Sloan
Concept album is sort of loose.
Charlie Harding
You know, it's not one singular storyline but rather it's a world that she's built. It's an era in her world.
Nate Sloan
In both albums there was this thing.
Charlie Harding
Where it's like, oh, there is the pop song.
Nate Sloan
And for me that is a familiar classic chord progression. So using the 1, 6 and 4 and 5 chords, the most common chords.
Charlie Harding
If you play guitar, that's C, G, F and A minor. You can play them in any Order. And you have just like, I don't.
Nate Sloan
Know what 60% of pop songs use.
Charlie Harding
Those combination of chords.
Nate Sloan
Finding new phrasing new melodies over these.
Charlie Harding
Familiar chords is a very satisfying thing to listeners.
Nate Sloan
And I love that she pairs this progression. Those chords are often called ice cream changes or the 50s progression because they.
Charlie Harding
Were so popular in doo wop and they were the same chord changes played on ice cream trucks.
Nate Sloan
And so this song employing this chord.
Charlie Harding
Progression is also very throwback. It has a.
Nate Sloan
Sort of Motown era or throwback 50s, 60s girl group vibe.
Charlie Harding
It's very reminiscent of the Renettes. Be My Baby. The oh, oh, oh moment is clearly inspired by it.
Nate Sloan
And the entire presentation of the song.
Charlie Harding
Has this sort of classic quality that is celebrating the Showgirls of the 50s and 60s girl group era.
Nate Sloan
So all of those things, this classic pull back to familiar pop sounds of.
Charlie Harding
The past while updating them with her kinds of stories and great metaphors. Yeah, that's what does it.
Joe Rome
Yeah. And I agree, I love, you know, I'm very big on metaphor. I mean, great musicians, great songs are metaphorical. Travis's birthstone is opal. So not. Not an. You know, he's born in October and. But they. Apparently she and her mother loved opal beforehand. I was going to read this quote. I thought it was kind of a cool metaphor. Opalite is a man made opal. And happiness can also be man made too. So that's sort of what she's singing about is you have to make your own happiness. And I think, by the way, I think that's a theme of the whole album and the theme of both Fate of Ophelia and Elizabeth Taylor and some other songs is you have to make your own happiness.
Nate Sloan
It's also a clever metaphor. Who's ever written a song about opalite?
Joe Rome
Right?
Nate Sloan
Like a man made stone. It's a much more sonorous word than cubic zirconium.
Joe Rome
Yes.
Nate Sloan
Maybe pyrite would be a decent metaphor. We could use fool's gold. Fool's gold, though, has a. There's a cynicism within fool's gold. The word fool, let alone is just really drawing you in a certain direction. But opalite, it's a word.
Charlie Harding
I guess I'd probably heard it before, but I'm not much into gemstones.
Nate Sloan
It wasn't familiar to me, but of course, at the same time, it was instantly familiar. I'm like, oh, yes, opalite. Oh, sure, sure, sure. That must be a stone. And I already have a sense of.
Charlie Harding
What it looks like. And it, of course, matches perfectly. But the sky is Opalite.
Nate Sloan
And you're like, oh, yeah, the sky does have an opalite quality. That's the kind of day where it's not a blue sky day, but it's like the clouds are lifting and they're sort of starting to haze over a little bit because opal is a little hazy. I could instantly see it. A word that I probably have never heard as a metaphor before. That's a perfect kind of song where you're saying something everyone has heard, that everyone feels familiar with, and they've never.
Charlie Harding
Heard it in that context.
Joe Rome
No, absolutely. And a lot. I mean, because a lot of pop songs are taking a well known phrase and repeating it in different ways. But here, this is a. Like, who? As you say, I don't know if the word opalite has ever been used even in a lyric of like, a top 10 song.
Charlie Harding
Someone out there is saying, taylor, Yeah.
Nate Sloan
I did that 75 years ago. I'm furious at you.
Charlie Harding
But I don't think she took it from anybody. I think that this was something she arrived on. And it feels very pure, simple, innocent.
Nate Sloan
Something that feels like it could have been written.
Charlie Harding
By the Ronettes or the Supremes or music of that era.
Joe Rome
Right. The metaphors in this song are very timeless.
Charlie Harding
It's much more innocent than some of the other songs.
Nate Sloan
There's plenty of more explicit songs.
Charlie Harding
Uh, there's a lot of contemporary, you.
Nate Sloan
Know, sort of Internet slang that we.
Charlie Harding
Hear on this album.
Nate Sloan
Yeah, Opalite feels like timeless.
Joe Rome
Uh, yes. And she's able to, you know, compare the Opalite day to the Onyx Knight, which is a classic thing she does is sort of extend a metaphor. I'm gonna talk about one stone, so I'm gonna use the other stone as a different metaphor. You know, the opposing metaphor.
Charlie Harding
Yeah, it's. Yeah, it's a lovely pairing. And it's also. It's about rhyme. One thing that we know about Taylor's.
Nate Sloan
Writing, we can listen to her voice notes.
Charlie Harding
She makes them available, which is incredibly.
Nate Sloan
Raw and vulnerable because they're not beautiful. Like, they're unprocessed. They're thoughts in motion. She, in writing with Max Martin and Shellback especially, really cares about melody, internal.
Charlie Harding
Rhythm.
Nate Sloan
The melodic rhythm, stresses where things are going to land. And you can hear her creating songs like this where she's like, la, la, la, Opalite. And you're like, oh, she's got.
Charlie Harding
Okay, she got the idea.
Nate Sloan
And then you can sort of see how she backs into Opalite. What rhymes with Opalite? Onyx Night. And so it's both incredibly deliberate, but, yeah, it feels like she's solving a puzzle. It's not as if every single word is chosen as a sort of, like.
Charlie Harding
Verite of her journaled experience from her.
Nate Sloan
Life, but rather this. This game where she's inventing melody and rhythm and rhyme and then constructing narrative from that metaphor. That's. That's so much the Max Martin and contemporary pop way of writing. And she is one of the experts in writing in that way.
Joe Rome
Can you tell me a little bit about. Cause I'd love our listeners to know a little bit more about this Max Martin way of writing. Obviously, he is almost tied with Paul McCartney, as, you know, the two greatest songwriters in terms of number one hits. What is. I mean, he's a Swedish guy and yet he has mastered number one songs in a completely different language. So can you sort of tell our listeners what's he doing that he understands and that Taylor understands that she wants to work with him?
Charlie Harding
Well, Max is, aside from being immensely talented and adorned with Billboard medals, famously quiet. He has only done, I believe, four interviews.
Nate Sloan
Wow. And so what we know about him we're drawing from very little information. We're drawing from secondhand knowledge.
Charlie Harding
I've interviewed people who've worked with him. I recently spoke with Zara Larsson, who's Swedish, who's worked with Max Martin. And so, you know, we get some.
Nate Sloan
Experience from the people who've worked with him, but he really lets the artist shine. And so, to a certain extent, I.
Charlie Harding
Do think we're speculating at exactly what it is that he's doing, but, you.
Nate Sloan
Know, we need to know that.
Charlie Harding
Max Martin arrives to Chiron Studios, the studio of Dennis Pop, which helped form the early careers of Robin and Ace of Bass. These Swedes have been really inspired by abba, who were one of the big pop breakouts from Sweden in the Eurovision competition.
Nate Sloan
And they had a vision of pop music that became the sound of the 90s.
Charlie Harding
It was Britney Spears, Backstreet Boys, NSync, and Max Martin was behind many of those hits. His. His mentor, Dennis Pop tragically died at a young age, and so he sort of became the torchbearer of that sound. When the sound of late 90s pop.
Nate Sloan
Music started to change, so did Max Martin.
Charlie Harding
Max had actually got his start playing in like, I think, like metal bands or something, or like air metal stuff before he was a songwriter for other people. And so he knew how to adapt into other genres. He started working with Pink And Kelly Clarkson, he Contemporary Times has written extensively with Ariana Grande, the Weeknd, and just countless other artists.
Nate Sloan
People talk a lot about with Max.
Charlie Harding
This sense of melodic math, that there is a structure to the melody, where.
Nate Sloan
For Max, I know that concept and melody and hooks are paramount. Having a clear, great concept is essential. And then building the rest of the.
Charlie Harding
World around that chorus, hook that melody.
Nate Sloan
In a way that has kind of like when you're a physicist, you know how it is like to solve a mathematical equation where all things are equal on both sides and it's just very satisfying.
Charlie Harding
And he knows that if the melody and the chorus is going to be long and drawn out, you know, that the melody in the verse is going.
Nate Sloan
To be shorter and faster, that there's.
Charlie Harding
Going to be a balance throughout the entire song. And because he is a. A Swede, where Swedes have one of the highest English proficiencies of non English primary speaking countries. So he's very fluent in English.
Nate Sloan
But the thing you always miss in.
Charlie Harding
A second language are specific cultural idioms.
Joe Rome
Yes.
Nate Sloan
And so.
Charlie Harding
And this is something that benefits him. He will write these. These lines like, what.
Nate Sloan
What is that phrasing? What do you mean?
Charlie Harding
He wrote Hit me baby one more time, which is like kind of first impression. You're like, is that about some kind of violent act?
Joe Rome
Right.
Nate Sloan
And he was trying to say, you mean like. No, hit me back on the phone.
Charlie Harding
Like, call me back.
Joe Rome
Yes.
Nate Sloan
Right. And so sometimes when we're writing songs, we're actually trying to find new ways of saying things. And having English as a second language.
Charlie Harding
Is actually to his benefit because he.
Nate Sloan
Maps words just very slightly differently. And I think, obviously, I want to check something real quick. Is Taylor the sole writer? They share writing credits.
Charlie Harding
Yeah.
Nate Sloan
And then on Opalite, Max, Martin and.
Charlie Harding
Shellback, who is another one of the.
Nate Sloan
Producers and songwriters on this album, we don't know who wrote exactly every single moment.
Charlie Harding
We could listen back to some of the voice notes to get an idea, but you can. I feel like.
Nate Sloan
I don't know. I'm just looking at some of the lyrics here. Like a storm inside a teacup is.
Charlie Harding
One of the lines in Opalife.
Nate Sloan
That's a great metaphor. That feels like something that a Swede.
Charlie Harding
Might have come up with. It very well could be Taylor's idea.
Joe Rome
So that's Max, speaking of mathematical, since you brought it up the repetition five times, right here we have the O, O, O, O, O. And the love, love, love, love, love. And that goes back to Shake it Off, which they wrote.
Nate Sloan
Oh, my Gosh, yeah.
Joe Rome
Which is the. Again, five repetitions, which is a lot.
Nate Sloan
I mean, it's a lot of repetition.
Joe Rome
It is a lot of. And. And Shake it off is a very repetitious song at. Particularly at the end. But I think that's. Abba understood that, that, that. That repetition was key. But yes, I sort of see a sort of a mathematical thing in what they're doing.
Nate Sloan
Max is going to repeat something up until the point, until your ear knows it, and then he's going to change. He will also trick you.
Charlie Harding
A song like Oops, I Did it Again.
Nate Sloan
That song begins with the chorus line.
Charlie Harding
And melody, except you don't know it because it starts I did it again.
Joe Rome
Right.
Nate Sloan
It's the first line of the verse.
Charlie Harding
And you're like, okay, what did you do again?
Nate Sloan
And it skips. There's no oops. It's just, I did it again. I play with our heart, whatever. And then finally when the chorus comes back around, oops, I did and all. Now you finally hear. You hear it once again. And because he's previewed the melody before, you're like, oh, I like this. This feels familiar.
Charlie Harding
But he's also separated these melodies by, you know, there's a whole pre.
Nate Sloan
Chorus in between them.
Charlie Harding
And so by the time you get to the chorus, you're like, oh, great chorus.
Nate Sloan
So he's very conscious about having the.
Charlie Harding
Right amount of repetition and variation. Too much repetition and you're going to get bored. Not enough repetition and you won't be able to remember it. Variation in order to keep you constantly interested.
Joe Rome
Well, I love that, you know, starting I think I Did it Again. That's the way a lot of modern TV shows start at the weird thing that you see and then it says 24 hours earlier.
Charlie Harding
Yeah, exactly.
Joe Rome
Suck you in with that.
Charlie Harding
Yeah.
Joe Rome
So, yeah, really, really. It's one of my favorite songs. And the whole Titanic thing in the third verse.
Charlie Harding
Yeah.
Joe Rome
You know, is just insane. So there's one very interesting line in this song. In the final two verses, she says, never met no one like you before. But in the first one she says, never made no one like you before.
Charlie Harding
Oh, I didn't even catch that.
Joe Rome
A lot of. I realized that a lot of people missed that and I had to go back to make sure. I was trying to understand what she was doing there because that's a dynamite word. Rather than met, I was originally thinking that she's imagining. Constructing this guy, Pygmalion or whatever. You know, because as you say this song, we immediately think, oh, we know this is Travis Kelce.
Charlie Harding
Right.
Joe Rome
But as you say, it's not Travis Kelce. It's this Immet, her imagined ideal version of him or whatever it is. Or.
Nate Sloan
Yeah, it's the song that is inspired.
Charlie Harding
By, motivated by that feeling and that relationship that then gets constructed first through hooks and melodies and then through metaphor and drawing from our personal life. This is why I called it on our show. Not just autofiction, but. Which is drawing from autobiography, but also fictional, but polyphonic autofiction.
Nate Sloan
Because she's often also drawing on other.
Charlie Harding
Characters, whether there are other versions of herself or other characters like Kitty or Ophelia.
Joe Rome
Well, as Walt Whitman said, what? I contain multitudes.
Charlie Harding
Yes, exactly.
Joe Rome
If anyone contains multitudes, you know, it is definitely Taylor. She is able to empathize. And like Shakespeare, he's able to empathize with people who are completely different from her. And it's one of the reasons why I get upset when people, like, quote a line from one of her songs and says that's what she believes. Right. They say the same thing about Shakespeare. No, no, no. She's a writer.
Charlie Harding
Right.
Nate Sloan
Especially when we understand the process of. Actually, what you share so much in.
Charlie Harding
Common with Shakespeare is that with Shakespeare.
Nate Sloan
Meter is so essential. Iambic pentameter.
Charlie Harding
It creates a structure of what words.
Nate Sloan
Can and cannot fit and thus forces fiction. Right. You have to change which words are going to work to match the stresses of the melody.
Charlie Harding
And you might have to change someone's.
Nate Sloan
Name, a pronoun, an adjective. You might have to change the place that you're in.
Charlie Harding
And so it immediately has to be a created world, a crafted world.
Nate Sloan
But who did she make? We've gone beyond there. I've never made someone like you before. What is she saying? What does it mean?
Joe Rome
I googled it just because it was so odd and apparently. But again, you know, that's in the real world. You hear a song and it's up to you to figure it out. Right. And most of the listeners don't know, but apparently she and her mother kind of talk about this. What she may mean is, in all of my songwriting, in all of my dreams, I never imagined a person like you. Oh, yeah.
Nate Sloan
Oh, well. And also, well, obviously, this is Opalite. It's a man made.
Joe Rome
Right.
Charlie Harding
It's a crafted stone.
Nate Sloan
So she's almost stepping into the shoes.
Charlie Harding
Of the craftsperson who created the opalite.
Joe Rome
Right? And she's saying, whatever you are, you're an original. And did I make you or you make yourself? And I think part of the song is that she is trying to tell him that. Remember, she says there's this line, you know, life will beat you up. This is a temporary speed bump, but failure brings you freedom. So she's trying to tell him that he can make whatever he. He failed in this previous relationship like she did. But now I. I can.
Charlie Harding
You.
Joe Rome
You can make yourself whatever you want, and together we can maybe make ourselves whatever we want.
Charlie Harding
Yeah, Yeah.
Nate Sloan
I just have to share this.
Charlie Harding
I'm looking at the lyrics right now.
Joe Rome
Please.
Nate Sloan
Life is a song.
Charlie Harding
It ends when it ends.
Nate Sloan
Ooh, that's a gut punch line.
Joe Rome
Yes. Yes. I wanted to ask you. That line first troubled me because life isn't like a song. So the question is, how is it like a song?
Nate Sloan
Yeah. Cause clearly a song is so limited. It only has, you know, it's three minutes long.
Charlie Harding
It has this climactic moment.
Nate Sloan
Other parts usually can cover one subject. There's not that many characters in it.
Charlie Harding
Life is not at all like a song.
Joe Rome
No, not at all. But maybe life is short.
Charlie Harding
Yes.
Joe Rome
And maybe it's how she thinks about songs, that each song she writes is a life.
Nate Sloan
A song is written.
Charlie Harding
Opalite is made.
Joe Rome
Yes. And, you know, I mean, a song like world building. I think you've used that word. I think she has used that word. I mean, obviously a song like all too well is a 10 minute constructed world.
Charlie Harding
It's amazing.
Nate Sloan
Yeah.
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Nate Sloan
I feel like I kind of rushed.
Charlie Harding
Over and I just would like to provide an example of the way in which songwriting is world building in the connection to Shakespeare and meter and stresses and how that forces language. I think the Best example that is antihero because it's so the.
Nate Sloan
The stress pattern is so clear.
Charlie Harding
It's me.
Nate Sloan
Hi, I'm the problem. It's me.
Charlie Harding
At t time everybody agrees you it's.
Nate Sloan
It's almost nursery rhyme like. And then of course you get that perfect repetition. And then she's going to give you.
Charlie Harding
This long run on sentence.
Nate Sloan
I'll stare directly at the sun but never in the mirror. It must be exhausting.
Charlie Harding
Always rooting for the anti hero.
Nate Sloan
So nice that the word exhausting is.
Charlie Harding
In this long run on exhausted sentence.
Nate Sloan
You can hear in the way that.
Charlie Harding
She'S constructing these choruses that there is a commitment to clarity of repetition and.
Nate Sloan
That she's going to find the words.
Charlie Harding
That fit with it's me. Hi, I'm the problem.
Nate Sloan
It's me. And then she has to solve this puzzle now of like how do I get exactly those same stresses in the next line? That's the kind of thinking that's going.
Charlie Harding
On in a songwriter's mind, which is different than a biographer's mind.
Joe Rome
Sure. Yes. And you know, I liked the song we discussed it in the first season because she does a lot of plays on hero's journeys. Sometimes she does reverse heroes journeys where she crashes and burns. But the opening line, I quote a lot. You know, I have this thing where I get older but just never wiser. So she understands the defining thing about a hero is they grow and learn the defining and their self less. The defining thing about a hero is that they don't grow, they don't learn and they're selfish. So she understands what a hero's journey is. And I always tell people who like oh, I don't know what they don't know. They don't like Teller. They don't know. I say, you know, listen to the extended version of all too well and watch the music video right. Of antihero. Because I don't think a pop star has ever done such a sort of self exact critical self examination.
Charlie Harding
Yeah, yeah.
Joe Rome
To say maybe the guys I'm going out with aren't.
Charlie Harding
It's not just them, it's me. Yeah. It's powerful.
Nate Sloan
It's hard to be that vulnerable.
Charlie Harding
And anyone who feels that these. That any song feels too simple is missing the sleight of hand trick that a songwriter is doing. A songwriter is especially in the Taylor Swift way of writing things that are hyper detailed auto fiction.
Nate Sloan
These songs are trying to sound spoken. They're trying to sound like something you might say to a friend.
Charlie Harding
And at the same time Be unbelievably memorable. We create memorability through rhyme and melody and rhythm. But too much rhyming can create sort.
Nate Sloan
Of a break of the fourth wall. It creates a little bump in the.
Charlie Harding
Road where you're like, oh, it's just.
Nate Sloan
Rhyme, rhyme, rhyme, rhyme, rhyme.
Joe Rome
Like Dr. Seuss or something.
Nate Sloan
Exactly. It becomes too much like a children's book. And so she is strategic about her use of rhyme and rhythm and meter to make sure it's memorable, but also that it's personal. And to then use these tools and song format, the larger structure of the song, to use these tools and be able to tell a consistent, clear narrative while you're having to be conscious of your rhymes, your rhyme schemes, your internal rhymes, your assonances, to be able to keep track of all of that and.
Charlie Harding
Then give you a story that runs all the way through.
Nate Sloan
That's what a great songwriter does. So to write a song, like, all.
Charlie Harding
Too well, where it's just like, story.
Nate Sloan
And then this happens, but therefore this happens, and, oh, my gosh, you won't believe this happens, that is great songwriting.
Joe Rome
Yeah. And I think the other, of course, way to be memorable is to make an allusion to something that's already memorable, like Hamlet and Ophelia or Elizabeth Taylor. And I mean, it's obviously, in some sense, ballsy, which I'll use that word because we know from this album that she has.
Charlie Harding
She's happy to.
Joe Rome
She has a big dick. Right. In Fossil.
Nate Sloan
I was not expecting that.
Charlie Harding
Lyrics.
Joe Rome
I was like. I was saying to people, this has got to be the only album in history where the singer, a female, says, both her boyfriend has a big dick and she has a big dick. It is ballsy to rewrite maybe the most famous play ever written. Right. The two most famous tragedies are Romeo and Juliet.
Charlie Harding
Yes.
Joe Rome
And him, arguably. Right.
Charlie Harding
She's rewritten both of them.
Joe Rome
She rewritten both. So that's like, okay, Shakespeare, you like tragedies. I love your stories. I just like happy endings.
Charlie Harding
Yeah.
Nate Sloan
She prefers the comedy. It takes guts, you know, it is.
Charlie Harding
The role of a pop star, I think, to be able to demonstrate an absurd amount of confidence.
Joe Rome
Yes.
Charlie Harding
Because we're all projecting ourselves into these worlds, and we need people who are even more confident in their vulnerabilities to.
Nate Sloan
Say, hey, I'm a little bit of.
Charlie Harding
The problem here in the confidences of. I'm happy to take on the most.
Nate Sloan
Legendary works of all time and see myself in them. Because we have to see ourselves in our pop stars.
Charlie Harding
And so this is not a Taylorism.
Nate Sloan
This is 50% of the world of.
Charlie Harding
Hip hop is about boasting of how.
Nate Sloan
Great you are and we all need.
Charlie Harding
A confidence boost at time.
Nate Sloan
So I think it's a really fun way of putting yourself in history, putting yourself in music history, claiming space and saying, I can be a part of this too.
Joe Rome
Well, and I've said many times I consider her to be a modern day Shakespeare. Shakespeare rewrote every play he wrote. He took from someone else.
Nate Sloan
Oh yeah.
Joe Rome
And Hamlet, he took apparently from a play that was written and out 10 years earlier.
Nate Sloan
No way.
Charlie Harding
Yeah.
Joe Rome
If you Google, for those who are the hardcore nerds, Google Hamlet or the Ur Hamlet. Ur Hamlet. It's clear that there was a play called Hamlet about revenge that was popular 10, 12 years earlier. And he just took it and said, I'm rewriting this whole thing.
Charlie Harding
It's like rebooting Batman after the last reboot had just come out.
Joe Rome
So now that you've had two weeks from your hot take, sort of a hot take.
Nate Sloan
I tried to digest slowly as possible.
Charlie Harding
And be as thoughtful as possible, but yes, it was a quick take.
Joe Rome
I will say now it's got the top 12 spots.
Charlie Harding
Yes.
Joe Rome
Not surprising and not surprising in Taylor's world. No, in the world of mere mortals.
Charlie Harding
She just doesn't exist on our plane.
Joe Rome
This album, obviously still, as you said, it was controversial when it came out. It's controversial now. Now I try to tell people half of her albums are controversial. She switched from country to pop.
Charlie Harding
Oh yeah.
Joe Rome
She dropped reputation, Right. She dropped folklore. These were jaw dropping shocks to a lot of people. So what's your take on this album? The songs? The other point I try to make is people are remembered for their greatest songs. Right? Now we pick out their worst lyric, right. But Dylan had 600 songs and I think that's why he's famous.
Nate Sloan
Well, that's what One of the apt.
Charlie Harding
Comparisons to someone like Dylan or to I think of like Neil Young are.
Nate Sloan
Artists who just continue to put out work.
Charlie Harding
Like Neil Young puts out an album.
Nate Sloan
Seemingly every eight months. And every handful of albums there's a.
Charlie Harding
Record where you're, wow, stunning.
Nate Sloan
Taylor has put out a ridiculous amount.
Charlie Harding
Of music in the last couple of years.
Nate Sloan
She's working at a pace that is uncanny and unlike any of her peers in pop music.
Charlie Harding
I don't mean to suggest that that means that they're all not going to be hits, right? But in fact, I think our hit rate is, as we are seeing on Billboard, exceptionally high.
Nate Sloan
This record doesn't make the Strong left.
Charlie Harding
Turn that reputation makes or that folklore makes. Rather, she is continuing some sounds that.
Nate Sloan
We'Ve heard before, continuing collaborations that we've heard before, and injecting just what I.
Charlie Harding
Hear, like 20% of this showgirl sound.
Nate Sloan
Using sounds of the past, she invokes.
Charlie Harding
Sort of the classical jazz era of music, the classical pop era of music.
Nate Sloan
You can hear in lots of her bridges.
Charlie Harding
I love the, in the song wish.
Nate Sloan
List, these unbelievable reharmonizations of the chords.
Charlie Harding
That feel very classic. And so there's a little bit of.
Nate Sloan
New sound in here. Part of the reason why, I think, is because Taylor, unlike I can't think of anyone, has continued to build a new youth audience with every generation. And so a lot of times as an artist you have the opportunity to be like, this was my first record.
Charlie Harding
I was a kid.
Nate Sloan
Now I'm revealing more about myself.
Charlie Harding
Now I'm becoming an adult.
Nate Sloan
This is me becoming a woman album and now here's me like going out.
Charlie Harding
On a limb album.
Nate Sloan
She's playing to this very large audience, which is both much older and much younger. And one of the things that we.
Charlie Harding
Hear on this record that I think gets the most criticism is her worst album is her use of what we.
Nate Sloan
Can call cringy lyrics. Trying to use Internet speak, slang that.
Charlie Harding
Does not fit in her mouth, that doesn't feel like she would be delivering.
Nate Sloan
And many people find it off putting.
Charlie Harding
And I find it to be thoughtful and deliberate.
Nate Sloan
One of the things that we're learning.
Charlie Harding
About the character of Taylor Swift, I.
Nate Sloan
Might say the showgirl that I am.
Charlie Harding
Learning about in this album is despite.
Nate Sloan
All this stuff and perhaps because of.
Charlie Harding
All this fame, accolades, et cetera, I'm just kind of basic and I want to do basic things like bake bread, I want to get married, probably want to have some kids. And I know that I'm not cool. In fact, Taylor Swift has never been cool.
Nate Sloan
At no point in her career has.
Charlie Harding
She ever been cool. She's always been able to pull off being an underdog, even as a billionaire.
Nate Sloan
Because she's comfortable showing her vulnerabilities of.
Charlie Harding
I'm gonna use words.
Nate Sloan
It's like I'm a middle aged dad.
Charlie Harding
And professor and if I said, wow, that's so fire, this is so savage, my students would eviscerate me.
Nate Sloan
And I think she knows that people.
Charlie Harding
Are gonna eviscerate her for using Internet.
Nate Sloan
Slang, which we should say, of course, largely coming first through black communities and queer communities and then becomes diffused throughout.
Charlie Harding
The Internet and becomes broad youth slang. I think that is how she's invoking it, though other people have made analysis on the sort of important racial history of this language and perhaps there's some insensitivity to using these words. I hear it as trying to put on words that clearly are not fitting. And look how kind of lame I.
Nate Sloan
Am, because that's who I am and.
Charlie Harding
I'm comfortable being actually who I am. That's what we're hearing, especially in Eldest Daughter.
Nate Sloan
Eldest Daughter is this beautiful ballad full of words that do not fit in.
Charlie Harding
A beautiful ballad.
Joe Rome
Interesting. Well, and much as in Shake it off, where she can't dance, right. She tries all the different types of dancing. She has these people who are world class dancers and she can't do it, but she still just enjoys dancing.
Nate Sloan
Most people are not the popular kid. Most people are not the good dancer.
Charlie Harding
So she is the person that you can project your feelings into. Like, I feel equally awkward when I try to use those words. I feel equally awkward when I try to do those dance moves.
Joe Rome
Well, look, really appreciate your take here and your time here. And I hope everybody, you know, listens to. What is it? Switched On Pop.
Charlie Harding
Yeah, Switched On Pop.
Joe Rome
Great podcast out of Vulture.
Charlie Harding
Yeah, Vulture, New York magazine, which is part of the Vox Media family.
Nate Sloan
Lots of. Lots of layers here.
Charlie Harding
But yeah, we've been doing this thing for 11 years, me and my co host, Nate Sloan. He's a musicologist, I'm a songwriter. We talk about pop music every single week.
Nate Sloan
It's a lot of fun. Thank you for having me.
Charlie Harding
It's just always a delight talking, Taylor.
Joe Rome
It is always a light. Thank you so much. So that was a really great interview.
Tony
I thought, oh, my gosh, that was an amazing interview. Oh, wait. Hey, are you guys here? You state our listeners are very cool. You guys seem like really awesome people. Thank you for leaving comments.
Joe Rome
Please leave comments.
Tony
I read them when I smile. Ask questions. Yes, we will answer your questions on the podcast.
Joe Rome
If you ask questions, we will answer them on the podcast.
Tony
We will answer the questions, put them.
Joe Rome
In Spotify, put them in the comments.
Tony
In the comments, in the comments below. I love answering questions.
Joe Rome
Yeah, I think this song is a very ironic song. Yes, I think this song is very.
Tony
Just blow our minds, Joe.
Joe Rome
Well, the line was when she says, life is a song, it ends when it ends. Right. And as we discuss, as Charlie and I discussed, life, in many respects, life is not at all like a song.
Tony
Sure.
Joe Rome
And so the question is, what does she mean by that? And then the interesting thing, which I noticed after the interview was what's the lyric? Immediately after she says, life is a song. It ends when it ends, you move on. I was wrong.
Tony
Oh, I was wrong.
Joe Rome
So that was the question I have for you and for everybody. What does it mean when. When Taylor says in the middle of her song, I was wrong. What was she wrong about?
Tony
Her boyfriends. She just dated the wrong people. That's what I assumed.
Joe Rome
Well, she says, and all the foes and all the friends have seen it before, they'll see it again. Life is a song. It ends when it ends. I was wrong. I'm just saying that that's a bombshell thing to drop into the middle of your song when it's not exactly clear. Later she says, you move on. But here she says, I was wrong. Right. So is she saying that she's wrong when she said life is a song? Is that entire thing before what she said wrong?
Tony
No, I don't think that's what she means. I think it's something along the lines of when people say things like, I don't know, it is what it is. You know, I was wrong. Something like that. Right. I think she's talking about how she, like, dated the wrong people. She was wrong. She thought that they were the ones, and she was wrong. You know, she says in another one of her songs on the album, I thought I had it right once, twice. But it could be.
Joe Rome
I'm just saying it's a very odd place to put in. I was wrong. And I'm thinking, all right, well, then.
Tony
What do you think, Joseph?
Joe Rome
Well, I just think that she doesn't want this song read straight. Everyone is very much reading this song straight. And I'm just saying that this is one of the other instances where she is being. Turning this song on its head and making it very ironic. Let's come to this part. This life will beat you up up, up, up, up this is just a temporary speed bump. But failure brings you freedom and I can bring you love, love, love, love, love, love, love. So failure brings you freedom, I think is the powerful line in this song. We get to Hero's Journey. The lowest point in your life is the thing that sets you free. Right? So in some sense, although she says she was wrong, the point is you have to go through this process to be right. Right? Nobody starts out. You can't get there just by. No one's always right. You gotta make some mistakes to figure stuff out. Right. Her mother's advice, I think, is good advice. Which is, you know, there's lightning strikes all around you. Right? But you're dancing, you know, they're sort of making you dance. And anyway, I just think it's a mistake to think this song is just about her and Travis. Right. That was the point that Charlie made. Right. You can say it sounds like that's what she's talking about and she's taken elements from that. Right. But again, this whole album is part of a show.
Tony
Right. And she's talking about the broader sense of her life, too.
Charlie Harding
Right, Right.
Joe Rome
And that, I think, is the takeaway for everybody here.
Tony
So what, she thinks she was, like, wrong about one of her albums or.
Joe Rome
Well, I think that is a question for everyone to answer. I don't know that I have the definitive answer. Maybe by the end of the album when we go through all the songs, I just want to put a. A flag on it. This episode is produced by Scott Poarch for Big IP and distributed by Realm. We'll see you the next episode for discussion about the next track on the life of a showgirl father figure.
Tony
Oh, my God. We have an outro.
Joe Rome
We have an outro.
Tony
Guys, we're in the big leagues now.
Joe Rome
Ciao.
Hallie Keeper
Welcome and enter if you dare. Hi, I'm Hallie Keeper.
Alison Leiby
And I'm Alison Leiby. And together we're the hosts of Ghosts of Ruined, a scary movie podcast where Hallie tells me the grisly details of a haunting new horror film each week.
Hallie Keeper
Whether you're a terror hound like me or a scaredy cat like Allison, we've got so many thrills, chills, and obviously kills to share with you.
Alison Leiby
In every episode, it's the podcast that'll have you saying, that was so funny. I should not have listened to it. At night with all the lights off.
Hallie Keeper
From the greats like the Exorcist and Poltergeist to modern classics such as Hereditary and get out to the freakiest new releases like A Quiet Place and Terrifier. We ruin em all and we'll leave you howling, mostly from laughter sometimes because you're turning into a werewolf.
Tony
Ooh.
Alison Leiby
Listen along as I try and guess the movie's twist, predict who will survive, and answer the hardest question of all, what would you do?
Hallie Keeper
So please listen to new episodes of Ruined every Tuesday on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts.
Alison Leiby
And whatever you do, we're begging you, please keep it spooky.
Podcast: Decoding Taylor Swift
Hosts: Joe Romm and Toni Romm
Episode: A Taylor Swift whiz helps us decode Opalite’s unexpectedly deep meaning
Date: October 28, 2025
Special Guest: Charlie Harding (Co-host, Switched On Pop)
This episode dives deep into Taylor Swift’s hit song “Opalite,” exploring its layered metaphors, cultural significance, and songwriting brilliance. Special guest, Charlie Harding—music journalist, songwriter, professor, and co-host of Switched On Pop—joins Joe and Toni Romm in an extensive discussion. The hosts and Charlie uncover the storytelling tools Taylor Swift uses that position her as a modern-day Shakespeare and how these tools can inspire effective, viral communication.
Opalite as a Metaphor (01:19-02:00)
Critique of “Trad Wife” Interpretations (02:20-03:58)
Self-awareness & Recurring Themes (04:06-06:17)
On Interpretation (05:00-06:17)
Opalite and Self-Made Happiness (06:54-07:21)
Gender, Relationships, and “Fixer-Uppers” (07:36-10:18)
Musical Makeup of “Opalite” (21:39-24:38)
Opalite as Metaphor (24:45-26:16)
Rhyme & Melody as Structural Tools (28:07-29:36)
Layered Authorship (37:34-38:29)
Songwriting Constraints: Form Shapes Content (38:36-44:58)
“You can't take a quote from Taylor in one of her songs and say that she believes that... These are all... this is a show, right?”
— Joe (02:40)
“Her songs are about capturing an emotion, a feeling that you can read into... she's willing to trick us.”
— Charlie Harding (15:36)
“This song employing this chord progression is also very throwback. It has a sort of Motown era or throwback 50s, 60s girl group vibe.”
— Charlie Harding (24:13)
“Opalite is a man made opal. And happiness can also be man made too. So that's sort of what she's singing about–you have to make your own happiness.”
— Joe (24:45)
“That's why I called it... polyphonic autofiction. She's often also drawing on other characters, whether there are other versions of herself or other characters like Kitty or Ophelia.”
— Charlie Harding (37:55)
“If anyone contains multitudes... it is definitely Taylor.”
— Joe (38:05)
“She's rewritten both [Hamlet and Romeo & Juliet]. That's like, okay, Shakespeare, you like tragedies. I love your stories. I just like happy endings.”
— Joe (47:30)
“Life is a song, it ends when it ends. Ooh, that's a gut punch line.”
— Nate Sloan (40:35)
“Failure brings you freedom. I think is the powerful line in this song... The lowest point in your life is the thing that sets you free.”
— Joe (58:00)
For further depth in Swift’s lyricism, pop songwriting structure, and modern mythmaking, this episode stands as a masterclass—with actionable storytelling insights for the listener.