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Dad
Welcome to Decoding Taylor Swift. My daughter and I are taking a week off before we launch season three, where we'll decode the meaning of every song on the ERAS tour and dive deeper into the storytelling secrets of America's Shakespeare. But we still have a must see treat for you. Our first episode is our most watched. It tells our origin story and decodes I knew you were trouble and getaway car to reveal Taylor's most essential secret. How she combines foreshadow and karma. This is a secret you must master to become a great writer and speaker. But for the first time, we're posting the video version. After we taped it last year, we decided to keep things simple and just do audio for season one. But now seems like a great time to break it out of the vault. If you're new to the podcast, you'll see how Antonia steals the show with her improv comedy. We also have a sponsor, Liquid iv, which she loves, so listen for her testimonial ad about halfway through.
Daughter
This podcast will transform how you think about Swift songs and give you the life changing tools to lead, connect, and change the world.
Dad
Yes, that's our goal. To use Taylor Swift's lyrics as a masterclass to help people learn the most valuable skills there are. Persuasive communications and viral storytelling. Now, storytelling is very important to Taylor. She famously said in Miss Americana, which is the 2020 Netflix documentary on Taylor. Everybody in music has their own sort of niche specialty sneet.
Daughter
Niche specialty.
Dad
It's niche special.
Daughter
Just so you know. It's niche.
Dad
It's niche.
Daughter
Niche is not a thing.
Dad
It is a thing. We. We've been through this more than once.
Daughter
I've never heard anyone under the age of 60 say Nick.
Dad
Well, okay, but I'm not under the age of 60. But in any case, we have literally been through this. You know, if you go online, look at Merriam Webster's dictionary, it says there's a debate about how you're supposed to pronounce niche. But basically what it says is before like 2000, it was not even acceptable to say niche.
Daughter
Okay, well, I don't know. I've never met Miriam Webster, but I'm. I'm pretty sure most people I know say niche.
Dad
Well, I will say Taylor said niche. So I'm good with you saying, well, so then.
Daughter
Well, we're doing a podcast on her. So frankly, it's disrespectful if we do not use her vernacular.
Dad
I'll start again. Everybody in music has their own sort of niche specialty thing that they do that, you know, sets them apart from everybody else. My storytelling is what it is for me. So storytelling is what made Taylor Taylor. That's why we know her today. And if you become an expert in storytelling, you will be able to achieve what you want. Now, I wasn't always an expert on storytelling, but when you were three, you started saying blah, blah, blah to me. But I was okay with you repeating things you heard because kids repeat things that they heard, so as long as you use them correctly. So I asked you if you knew what blah, blah, blah meant. You.
Daughter
I mean, this is, this is all just allegedly. I don't remember any of this.
Dad
You were three.
Daughter
I wasn't there.
Dad
You were there. You were just three. You paused and said, it's when Daddy says something that doesn't matter.
Daughter
I don't think I said it like that.
Dad
How would you have said it?
Daughter
It's when Daddy says something that doesn't matter.
Dad
Oh, that's much better. Dang. You did know. And that hit me hard.
Daughter
I did. I did. Yeah.
Dad
That hit me very hard. You were three and you told me that.
Daughter
That's kind of sad that you let a three year old, you know, say something that hurt you. Well, I mean, it's okay. It's okay.
Dad
But I turned it into a story I tell. It's an empowering story. It changed the course of my life and it changed the course of your life.
Daughter
I can't believe I was so profound at three.
Dad
You were thinking about how.
Daughter
How profound I must be now.
Dad
Indeed. And how skeptical you are of me even now. You were skeptical of me at the age of three, so now you're just.
Daughter
Wow.
Dad
Yeah.
Daughter
Well, that's six times more skeptical you are, mathematically speaking. Yes.
Dad
And guess what changed our lives?
Daughter
You.
Dad
And I don't. I mean, I've told this.
Daughter
I mean, I fully don't remember this, so I can't say how much it changed my life, but I, I'm. If it changed your life, well, look happy for you.
Dad
Before you, I didn't know how often I said things that didn't matter. That's the truth.
Daughter
I had a PhD and that's men in our society.
Dad
Well, okay, I. I had a PhD in physics from MIT.
Daughter
Geez.
Dad
And a successful blog that landed me in Rolling Stone magazine.
Daughter
Ladies, get in line.
Dad
So figuring out that became my holy grail. My mission in life was figuring out what words mattered to you.
Daughter
Oh, thank you.
Dad
And I came to realize that when I was telling stories, I had your attention. And when I wasn't, I Didn't. So I studied the. The great storytellers. And they're the ones who told the long heroic stories and the original stories. They were the great bards. But the bards sang their songs. That's why those who don't gain fame are called unsung heroes.
Daughter
Pretty cool facts.
Dad
Yeah. So I realized a good way to master these secret weapons of storytelling is to study how they're wielded by modern day bards, the singer songwriters. And you introduced me to a whole bunch.
Daughter
That's true. Well, before you, you only listened to the.
Dad
To the Beatles and abba.
Daughter
And abba.
Dad
Well, there we go again. I'm not even going to.
Daughter
I don't even think they have on Swedish. They probably don't. Sorry.
Dad
Well, okay. The point is that I came to realize Swift was the best storyteller and that's how I got into Swift. And you got me more and more into Swift over the years. But tell me. That's sort of my story. That's. That's the story of how I got here. Tell me what? You and Swift. What? Why is Swift so important to you?
Daughter
So I don't know. Why. Why did I get interested in Taylor Swift? Well, I had anxiety a lot as a child, which, which obviously, you know, I did obviously many 2am calls that you took after I went to sleepovers and got scared that something was going to happen.
Dad
And they weren't just phone calls, were they?
Daughter
No, they.
Sponsor Voice 1
They.
Dad
They resulted in me doing more things.
Daughter
He drove and he picked me up at 2am by then it was 2:15. But before, before that, I don't know if you know this. My friend, My friend Anna, she put. She. She printed out a photo of your face from Wikipedia and put it on one of her body pillows to make me feel better.
Dad
And, and before you told me that story last night, I had no idea that such a thing happened.
Daughter
And it was. It was. She was a great friend. She was a great friend and I should actually reach out to her because I really appreciated. I still went home because I had just watched the Conjuring 2, which I'm pretty sure scared the crap out of me.
Dad
I remember the phone call too. Anxious. Why were you so anxious? You know, did you do anything that would make you.
Daughter
I'm not a coward. Like, I watched the movie. I wasn't scared.
Dad
One of the scariest movies.
Daughter
Okay, the Conjuring Con Ghost don't exist.
Dad
Just so you know. They changed the whole rating system of movies so you could slap a R rating on a movie just because it was so damn scary.
Daughter
That was pretty bad. Yeah, it was pretty bad. It was scary. But you know what? At the end of the day, I think as you. As you picked me up, we sat in the car and we listened to some Taylor Swift.
Dad
Sounds like something.
Sponsor Voice 2
I don't know.
Daughter
That was the first thing that I. The first moment that I kind of remembered feeling grounded after listening to any song. And after that, I just started listening to Taylor Swift whenever I got anxious, you know, before tests, before I had to speak publicly, before big presentations, I would just listen to blank space, and I don't know why. There are great songs out there. She's not. She's not really even my. My favorite artist. She's definitely up there. She's in the top five. But. But, you know, there's so many other artists that I listen to, you know, Sza Hosier, all of them. I. I don't know why Taylor Swift has always just been the one that makes me remember that there are things in the world that. That are not ghosts or zombies, and they cannot hurt me.
Dad
Well, she's a great storyteller, and storytellers are immersive, and they take you to another world.
Daughter
They do, yeah. It's kind of like popping open a nice book and leaving life for a while. But, yeah, that's why, I guess I love Taylor Swift so much. And I think it's worth talking about because if that happened for me, very anxious individual, then it can probably happen for more anxious individuals, and they will become normal individuals who are not anxious and who do other things well.
Dad
And you've learned to control your anxiety over the years.
Daughter
Yeah. Yeah. I think Taylor Swift helped me do that. I think. I think realizing that one of the best coping mechanisms there is is just reminding yourself that there are other things to be scared about. Honestly, people get surprised when I say this, but watching the news kind of calms me down because it remembers. It makes me remember that, you know, there are drone strikes happening and that my calculus exam is not the worst thing going on today. So, you know, it makes me feel a bit better. It gives you perspective. I think listening to songs and stories can give you a lot of good perspective.
Dad
So, yes, she's a great storyteller. I think one of the simple points for Taylor and for us is that one of the essence of storytelling, the hero's journey, is this idea of karma. What goes around comes around. And in a Vogue interview, 2016, she was asked, what do you think is the most important life lesson for someone.
Daughter
To learn that Karma is real.
Dad
And see, Karma in a lot of.
Daughter
Her songs, including that is true, including the. The titular. Titular song Karma. That's, you know.
Dad
Absolutely. And also in look what you made me do, where she says, oh, I.
Daughter
Think I thought you didn't like Reputation.
Dad
You know, we'll get to that later.
Daughter
I don't know. Feels like we should get to that now because I. I kind of want to talk to you about that. I've been meaning to talk to you about that. I think reputation is a great album because it says that, you know. You know, women, they don't have to be like, oh, oh, my gosh, wow, look at me, I'm writing little pop songs. They can. They can write whatever they want, and they can say whatever they want. And, you know, I mean, it was cute. You know, she was kind of making her little. Her little steppies into a little edgy territory. I thought that was great.
Dad
It's true. It's true. I. As you know, I had an issue with the song look what you made me do, because that sort of what. Gaslighters do, they blame other people. They make it. They try to turn other.
Daughter
I think women should Gaslight people.
Dad
All right, well, I'm gonna. I'm gonna remember that.
Daughter
And I'll get. I'll. Well, yeah, and I'll probably gaslight you on this podcast to demonstrate that women can do that. We can be empowering in the horrible things that we. We do, you know?
Dad
Well, one of her points in the song was, maybe I got mine, but you'll get yours. And that's sort of what that album was about a lot. Yes.
Daughter
She.
Dad
She was. She felt betrayed, and this was her response. And I get what you're saying. So this just gets to the whole point of the. The centrality of what our topic is today.
Daughter
Sure. The centrality. Yes.
Dad
Of foreshadow.
Daughter
Foreshadowing.
Dad
Foreshadow. Like, exactly. The basic idea of the story, particularly Taylor stories, what goes around comes around. So what goes around has to be foreshadowed in the story. What comes around is how it bites you back.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
And that's the irony.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
So this is all I'm saying. That's one of the core things anybody who wants to tell stories has to understand.
Daughter
Right.
Dad
From Shakespeare to the great bards to Taylor Swift. Why is foreshadow so important to anybody? The listener, a writer, someone who's tweeting. Because we don't tweet anymore. But anyway, someone who's doing a TikTok video, one of the Reasons why we like foreshadow is because we see patterns in our own life.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
Like, we do seem to date the same type of person over and over and over again. We don't seem to often we don't learn. Maybe we. You know, when you get to be older, hopefully you learn, but I can tell you I am older, and it's not clear to me how many people actually do learn that. And so let's talk about. For Tay, Taylor has a song she wrote a long time ago which has an amazing piece of foreshadow of her own life. Ironic foreshadow, right?
Daughter
15. Yes.
Dad
Which she wrote. She sang. He wrote the song 15 about what? It's like, what she didn't know at the age of 15. She wrote it when she was 19. Or she wrote it 18 and then sang it.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
Right. So what is the line in that song that is so amazing? Foreshadow.
Daughter
Oh, yeah. Well, in your life, you'll do things greater than dating the boy on the football team. I didn't know it at 15, and she still doesn't know it because she's dating Travis Kelce.
Dad
So, yes. When she was 19, she wrote a song about at 15, she didn't know there were more important, greater things than dating the boy in the football team.
Daughter
If I were Travis, man, I'd be pissed. So take that song off Spotify.
Dad
So the point is that, yes, we do say things and go through things, and frankly, that's the point of the blah, blah, blah story. Yeah, here we go. That was when you were three. So that was three 15 years ago.
Daughter
That was 15 years ago. And wow. Things. I didn't know it at three.
Dad
But you did know them at three.
Daughter
I did, actually. Who knew that the most important thing I did in my life would actually be telling my dad to shut up?
Dad
I don't think you told me to shut up.
Daughter
I don't think I did either. I think I told you to speak smarter.
Dad
You told me that. What? I. You said I was saying things that didn't matter.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
You wanted something more. You didn't want nothing.
Daughter
That's true.
Dad
Right?
Daughter
That is true.
Dad
You didn't want.
Daughter
So wise. Yes. Well, you learned. You've clearly learned.
Dad
I have learned.
Daughter
Congratulations, young padawan.
Dad
Thank you.
Daughter
You've become the master.
Dad
Well, I have often told people that I have learned more from you. Thank you. You ever learned from me.
Daughter
I think that's backhanded. I think that implies that I haven't learned very much. I swear, I've learned.
Dad
I'LL leave that up to other people.
Daughter
Oh, my God.
Dad
But the point is, this is the real world. In the real world, there are elements of who we are today in our childhood. And by the way, that's natural. That's an authentic person. Right? People don't just suddenly develop a whole new personality, talent, skill, passion.
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Dad
Like the age of 31st, for which there's nothing earlier in his life just doesn't happen. Right. So foreshadow happens in our life. And frankly, when we try to make sense of our own lives, we do look for those elements. And other people do too.
Daughter
Right? Right, Right. Because what, what you love obviously shows up in your childhood. No?
Dad
Absolutely.
Daughter
Yeah. Foreshadow is just, you know, obviously in, in life, when something happens to you, it doesn't Happen out of nowhere. Right. You know, what goes around comes around, but obviously it has to go around first. And foreshadow is just that, you know, it goes around. Whenever you talk to somebody new in your life, whenever you start a new relationship, start a new job, pursue your own interests, there are always patterns that, that you have experienced from before, from earlier in your life that, that contribute to how you respond to certain situations. And if you recognize those patterns, if you recognize the same things that show up in literature. Because, you know, Jane Austen didn't just write about, you know, some human, you know, fake, random alien that doesn't exhibit human traits. No, they mirror real life humans. And you, as a real life human, ostensibly, hopefully can understand that when you are, you know, you know, maybe having an argument with somebody or you are procrastinating, if you're doing a trait that you know you have experienced before, if you're falling into your old patterns again, you should be able to recognize them. If you know how to recognize, you know, foreshadow in literature, you can recognize it in your own damn life. And that's what makes it so freaking useful.
Dad
I, I certainly, you know, my whole career is built around fighting climate change, focusing on the solutions of climate change.
Daughter
Mine has been going to school, but soon it will be something that is useful.
Dad
Well, look, I think, and you have actually done a whole lot of stuff which we'll get into. But the point is, yes, people who want to change the world for the better have to become good at storytelling. Why? Because the existing world is built around stories. That's what define them. And the people who like the status quo have a lot of money to tell those stories loudly or, and pay politicians to tell those stories and set up think tanks to tell those stories and to put ads on TV that tell that stories.
Daughter
Yeah, not a lot of lay people know this stuff. And that's why it bothers me when people say, like, studying communications is useless. I don't think it's useless, but I do think that studying, you know, getting an English degree is also basically getting a degree in communications because it's those stories that are going to get you to a successful place in life.
Dad
Well, and I just want to say that, yes, the point is, as we foreshadowed in the beginning, the single most valuable skill that you can have is the ability to tell stories that people remember that go viral.
Daughter
Right. Because if people remember your stories, they're going to remember you.
Dad
Right. And if they don't remember what you say, it doesn't matter what you say.
Daughter
Yeah, right.
Dad
And the last piece here is everyone's going to have to learn how to tell their hero's journey story.
Daughter
Yeah, right.
Dad
And we will get to that. And so the point is, you are going to have to figure out what is the story that you tell the world about yourself. And that story better include some foreshadow, because that's what people expect in that story.
Daughter
And there are two main types of foreshadowing. There's overt and then there's covert foreshadowing. And please expand on what those mean for us.
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Dad
And I, as I've thought about it. Yeah. Because I did give a TEDx talk in which I go through this. That was a short version and more. I thought about it. There's really a spectrum of how obvious. Foreshadow is something that foreshadows that gives you some idea of something that's going to happen later, perhaps. Generally the ending. Generally we're foreshadowing bad stuff.
Daughter
Yeah, right, right.
Dad
Sometimes it's going to be very, very overt.
Daughter
Right.
Dad
Like when the soothsayer in Julius Caesar says to Caesar, beware the Ides of March.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
Right. And Zeus. And Caesar says he doesn't hear him the first time, gets him to repeat it. And guys, what does he say? He said, beware of the Ides of March. And then Caesar says, oh, he's a dreamer. Let him pass.
Daughter
Sure. Right.
Dad
So we know disaster is coming. And indeed Caesar gets killed on the Ides of March.
Daughter
On the Ides of March, yes. Not in the month of March.
Dad
Ides is the middle of March. It's the middle of the month. But in this case, it's March 15th.
Daughter
Oh, wow.
Dad
March 15th is the ides of March.
Daughter
Wow. It's crazy that they have the documentation of that.
Dad
Yes, well, this is the ancient Romans. So they had different funny words for everything.
Daughter
The eyes. Yeah, let me start using that now.
Dad
So that's pretty overt.
Daughter
Overt.
Dad
Overt.
Daughter
Over foreshadowing.
Dad
Overt. Yes. Out in the open.
Daughter
Out in the open.
Dad
You're not.
Daughter
You say what you mean.
Dad
It's kind of very obvious.
Daughter
Right. I knew you were trouble when you walked in.
Dad
Right.
Daughter
Overt. Right, right.
Dad
Other examples which we'll get to, you know, nothing good starts in a getaway car.
Daughter
Right?
Dad
Okay, that's kind of obvious.
Daughter
That's very obvious.
Dad
It starts in a getaway car. Starts, but nothing.
Daughter
But it's nothing good.
Dad
Nothing good.
Daughter
It's nothing good.
Dad
Nothing good.
Daughter
And they. And she tells you.
Dad
So let's Ease into.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
The COVID foreshadow.
Daughter
Okay.
Dad
So we have.
Daughter
We can approach it more covertly.
Dad
Some may say, no, this is over. I just told them we're doing okay, but we're doing.
Daughter
We're easing into the COVID We're being covert.
Dad
Okay. At the beginning of I knew you were trouble, the very opening line is once upon a time, a few mistakes ago.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
Now, on one level, that's kind of overt. She says she's made mistakes in the past. So again, we're thinking this is going to be another mistake.
Daughter
Right.
Dad
But then there's this phrase, once upon a time, which is quite unusual normally to begin a song with. You would think, because that's the beginning of a fairy tale.
Daughter
Sure, sure.
Dad
But what does Once upon a time. She's used the phrase, this is a song in the year 2012. I knew you were trouble four years.
Daughter
Yeah. So she used the. She's used the phrase before, obviously. So in 2008, the very first song that she used it in was forever and always. She starts once upon a time. I believe it was a Tuesday. Well, she uses it is in an ironic sense a lot. She uses it because, you know, whenever you hear once upon a time, you think, fairy tale, something good's gonna happen. But obviously, Taylor Swift, as a woman of literature, knows that one of the best ways to get a point across is to subvert the meaning of something, which she does by using once upon a Time in kind of a sarcastic way like Once upon a time. Oh, I believe it was a Tuesday. I don't think Once upon a time. There are Tuesdays, I think. It's not supposed to. You're not supposed to know when this time is. It's just one time. So obviously, Taylor's long and storied history of using once upon a Time has not. Did not end with that song. And you. You can.
Dad
And. And we will get to later on the third time she uses once upon a time, which is the song mastermind.
Daughter
Right.
Dad
And which has an interesting relationship to. I know you were trouble.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
But I wanted to talk about once upon a time for a completely different and even more covert foreshadowing.
Daughter
Right.
Dad
Because once upon a time is the first line in one of the most famous and best regarded rock and roll songs of all time. And for those who saw the recent movie about Bob Dylan, you heard this song Once upon a time, you dressed so fine you threw the bums a dime in your prime, didn't you?
Daughter
People like poetry. What, some slam poetry?
Dad
Well, Bob Dylan Yes. People call, say, beware doll, you're bound to fall. You thought they were all kidding you. So she is by opening this song Once Upon a Time. She is a scholar of great songs.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
And she has mentioned Dylan. She even mentions Dylan in Miss Americana. So she knows when she says Once upon a Time, she is referencing this some considered one of the greatest rock songs of all time. This song, which happens to be also be about a woman who ignores warnings. And because she ignores warnings, she crashes and burns.
Daughter
It's true.
Dad
Now, it just so happens that I knew you were troubled.
Daughter
It just so happens, like we didn't plan.
Dad
It's also about a woman who ignores warnings, except they're her own internal warning.
Daughter
Internal warnings, yeah.
Dad
And she crashes and burns.
Daughter
Yeah. Women can ignore red flags too.
Dad
So this is how she writes songs. And this is one of the points that we're going to be trying to make over and over again. She has a lot going on.
Daughter
Well, she writes things very intentionally. I think a lot of people, you know, they hear Taylor Swift and they think, oh, it's just. I can't. I don't know. Taylor Swift is just another pop singer. She just kind of says things. She just writes songs she thinks are going to be popular. That's not necessarily the case, I think. I mean, obviously all of her lyrics are really chosen carefully and it makes it. It makes it hard to. To understand that as just a regular listener, because she puts. She puts so much out there that it can be a little bit overwhelming. And the stuff you hear on the radio is not all of her. Like, that's not all of what she does. And even the things on the radio, if you just pay attention to the rhythm, which is, you know, designed to be very addictive, you're not really going to get all of what you can get out of Taylor Swift. Um, because clearly there's a reason she's so popular. And it's worth noting that part of that is how intentionally she speaks about her. Her. Her stories, how intentionally she chooses words.
Dad
Well, and it was one of the reasons I came to really get very absorbed by her.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
Because I have been a student of Shakespeare as, you know, kind of obsessive over time.
Daughter
Very obsessive.
Dad
I wrote a journal article in the journal Hamlet Studies.
Daughter
He has like a framed poster of the entire script of Hamlet up on the wal.
Dad
I wrote a play about Hamlet and his son. Excuse me, Shakespeare and his son, whose name was Hamnet.
Daughter
Hamnet.
Dad
In which Shakespeare only speaks line from his plays.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
Yes. And all these Books that I've written, like how to Go Viral in the Millions, which talks about all of this, but it also has Shakespeare in the subtitle. But what I also have, I spent a lot of time studying how does Shakespeare convey meaning? Because I wasn't actually trying to learn storytelling back then. I was trying to figure out what he was saying. And I actually had this set of rules that I came up. And one of the rules was that Shakespeare uses foreshadowing throughout his plays, and he doesn't even just use foreshadowing at the start. And we will get into some of Shakespeare and Hamlet later. But the point is, Taylor's using the techniques of classical poetry, classical literature to convey meaning. And her songs have lots of different meanings in it. But part of the way we understand what she's saying is to understand her as a poet. And, of course, her final, most recent album, Tortured Poets Department.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
She clearly thinks of herself as a poet. And in fact, this gets to the title of our podcast.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
There's a line in Tortured Poets Department where she says to the guy, who's gonna decode you.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
And who's gonna hold you? And then she says, who's gonna know you?
Daughter
Yeah. Because, I mean, she likens decoding to knowing.
Dad
Exactly.
Daughter
We are knowing Taylor Swift.
Dad
Well, I think she wants to tell her listeners that to fully know me. Right. You have to decode me. There's more here than the literal surface meaning of the words. Right, Right. And that's what poetry is about. That is the underlying figurative meaning of the word. And so let me point out one more very subtle use of foreshadow.
Daughter
Very covert.
Dad
This is a very covert foreshadow. Although when I point it out to you, you'll say, no, no, that's overt.
Daughter
Yeah. And you're gonna say that. You can say that aloud, even if you want, in your car, wherever you are.
Dad
And what we're going to talk about is what's the worst thing that happens to Taylor in this song? Okay. And as is often the case, the bridge is a very important point in the song. Right. So what is the bridge to? I knew you were trouble and the saddest fear comes creeping in that you never loved me or her or anyone or anything.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
So that's pretty bitter. Yeah, that's pretty bitter. But what did she say in the opening of a song?
Daughter
Well, she said, once upon a time, a few mistakes ago.
Dad
But a couple lines later, she says, I guess you didn't care.
Daughter
And I guess I liked that.
Dad
Right. So she liked the guy who didn't care about her. And now she bitterly complains at the end of the song that he doesn't care and he didn't ever love her. Yeah, but she knew that from the beginning.
Daughter
She knew.
Dad
Right.
Daughter
From even, some could say from when he walked in.
Dad
Indeed. So it was pretty overt. But you may not have noticed it at the time. But then when you get to the end, and this is often the case in great stories, you have to go back to the beginning and say, well, did anything in the beginning tell me that this particular ending was coming?
Daughter
Well, and that's how great plot twists are structured. You know, it has to be foreshadowed from the beginning, like an inception with his little spinning top. You know, it's the thing that he. That he uses to tell the difference between a dream and a reality. And I mean, obviously you can't have great twists come out of nowhere. Right. Like you can't have. I know. You can't have a movie about a dog and a cat and all of a sudden a big anvil falls upon them without first talking about how they're afraid of anvils.
Dad
Well. And in fact, that is precisely what the famous poet Anton, A famous writer and playwright, Anton Chekhov, said. That is, he said, if there's a gun on the mantle in the first act, or an anvil, it will be. It needs to be used in the final act.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
And I was looking up. He actually has variations of this. He says, if you're not going to use the gun in the final act, don't put the gun there in the first place.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
Right. We're not trying to mislead the reader. We're trying to create a coherent story.
Sponsor Voice 2
Right.
Dad
So that's what she's trying to do. This is about coherent storytelling and this is how she writes songs. So let's just do one more here.
Daughter
One more.
Dad
I mean, I wanted to get to. All too well.
Daughter
Yes.
Dad
Because that's her masterpiece.
Daughter
It is.
Dad
And one of the points of the entire podcast.
Daughter
Well, you could say we could spend an entire season talking about how important.
Dad
That is and getting into exactly everything that all too well. Her 10 and a half minute masterpiece is about. Is going to take all season. But let's dive into one more song Taylor clearly considers important.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
Which you mentioned, which is Getaway Car. And we know it's important to her because she put it into Miss Americana.
Daughter
She did. That was her documentary about her and.
Dad
Her music in Netflix. And that doesn't. She only has a Few songs in there, so it's pretty good evidence. And this comes from reputation?
Daughter
From reputation. It does.
Dad
Right. And I think you reminded me that you told me this was an important song.
Sponsor Voice 1
I did.
Daughter
I literally did. And when we listened to it, well, we put it on in the car as we were going to this museum a few weeks ago, and he was like, yeah, it's a fine song. And now it's like, literally. He texted me last night. He said, I've listened to this song 11 times. It's all I can listen to.
Dad
No, a hundred times.
Daughter
Oh, my God.
Dad
Yeah. No, that's how I interpret her songs. Yes, it's true. In preparing for the podcast, I watched Miss Americana again.
Daughter
Yeah, sure.
Dad
And so there's Taylor singing Getaway Car. And then I thought, oh, my daughter was right all along.
Daughter
Yeah, well, obviously.
Dad
So then I started listening to it.
Daughter
Yeah. I'm on a 2, 2 time streak with the blah, blah, blah. Getaway car.
Dad
You were.
Daughter
That's why they pay me the big bucks. Can't lie.
Dad
That is very true. And someday you'll pay me back the big bucks.
Daughter
Yeah. I spent a lot of money on doordash. I ask him for food.
Dad
Yeah. And that let's, you know, forget about, like, tuition and stuff like that, but yes. So I started listening again, and as often happens with Taylor's songs, certain lines bother me.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
And I have to listen over and over and over again until they just has to stop bothering me. You should get tested for that or do a podcast.
Daughter
That's true. And it's certainly cheaper. You'd be surprised.
Dad
It is.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
So let's look at Getaway Car the same way we looked at I know you were trouble.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
And the same way we'll eventually look at a lot of songs, including All Too well, All Too well, which has, I would say, more covert foreshadow than any of her other songs.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
Is what I'm just gonna.
Daughter
I mean, it has 10. 10. 10 minutes.
Dad
It does.
Daughter
Which is, you know, on average, six more minutes than any of her other songs.
Dad
It is a much longer song. And by the way, since we're digressing.
Daughter
Here, since we were digressing.
Dad
It didn't used to be common that songs were that long.
Daughter
No. Yeah.
Dad
People played on the songs on the radio back in the day. They were all like, two and a half minutes.
Daughter
Well, yeah. And now they're. Now they're coming back down again, apparently. It's like, it's. It's a trend that people are observing is that songs are Getting shorter and shorter and shorter.
Dad
Except Taylor songs.
Daughter
These damn phones.
Dad
Except Taylor.
Daughter
Except Taylor.
Dad
Right.
Daughter
Keeps getting longer and longer and I think like tortured, Tortured Poets Department. That song is like four and a half minutes long.
Dad
Yeah, well, look, you know, Daddy I.
Daughter
Love him is like six minutes.
Dad
And it's like podcasts are popular too, because people are willing to listen to something longer if it's immersive.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
And you know, all too well, you know, she used to be the original was like five and a half minutes and then she added five minutes and into why she might have done that. But one of the first long songs was in fact like a Rolling Stone by Dylan.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
Right. He kind of broke the mold with that song because again, the, the old people who played songs on the radio, they wanted to get ads in, so they didn't like long songs.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
So the long songs are. Have to be stories. Right, Right. That's the whole point you can tell. Long song. It's going to be a story.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
And for the people, my generation all too well broke the 50 year record for the longest duration number one song.
Sponsor Voice 2
Wow.
Dad
And that song was Bye Bye Miss American Pie.
Daughter
Miss American Pie.
Dad
Yes. That was seven and a half minutes. And that's that. Another storytelling song. There's a lot of COVID stuff in there, you know, the jester and the King and Queen for those who follow it. And I urge everyone to listen to that song.
Daughter
It's a good song.
Dad
But she smashed that record here.
Daughter
The music died.
Dad
But that's a whole digression.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
Which by the way, is figure of speech. And we'll get into.
Daughter
Yes, it means to stray from the crowd. Right? Yes, yes, it does. And now we're going to do a regression.
Dad
We're going to regress to getaway car.
Daughter
Getaway car. Okay. Okay. So.
Dad
No, nothing good starts in a getaway car.
Daughter
Yeah, that's the very first line.
Dad
And the key word there is the word no.
Daughter
No. Yeah. Yeah, it is.
Dad
So what is. Why does she do that? Why isn't the beginning. Nothing good starts in the getaway car. Why is the beginning. No, no.
Daughter
Well, it's her. It's her. It's. It's. It kind of. It's her saying that she is talking in the present tense, talking about something that happened. She's the narrator. She already knows that nothing good starts in a getaway car, which is what makes it so powerful. She's being casual, saying, oh, no, nothing good starts in a getaway car.
Dad
Now the next line. This is the line that really got me Thinking a lot. The next line is, it was the best of times, it was the worst of crimes.
Daughter
That was the line that bothered you. You had to keep listening.
Dad
Well, that line is intended by Taylor.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
To bother me. Because it is, of course, to bother you.
Daughter
Specifically.
Dad
To bother me specifically. She wrote it specifically for me. For you or anybody who is aware that that's an allusion to one of the most famous. Maybe if you list the top 10 most famous openings to any classic book.
Daughter
It was the best of times, it was the worst of times, it was.
Dad
The age of wisdom, was the age of foolishness. Right. This is a Tale of Two Cities by Charles Dickens. Right. Not a casual illusion. Right. She knows everybody. Not everybody, but I think she knows most of most people know that she's doing that. But she twists the worst of times into the worst of crimes.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
All right, so that's pretty significant. She's saying something special about this is the worst of crimes. All right, so you tell me what happens in this song. How does it end?
Daughter
Well, as we've already established, nothing good starts in a getaway car. And it ends, obviously, with her dumping the dude that, you know, she picked up after dumping another dude, and they ran away together. And surprise, she runs away at the end. That is, of course, course, the worst of crimes.
Dad
Now, here's the interesting thing. It wasn't. She didn't pick him up in the getaway car.
Daughter
He picked her up.
Dad
He picked her up?
Daughter
Yeah. You were driving the getaway car.
Dad
We were flying, but we'd never get far. Don't pretend it's such a mystery. Think about the place where you first met me. So she's telling the guy that you shouldn't be surprised that I'm dumping you and leaving in a getaway car.
Daughter
And.
Dad
Because that's where we met. Right. That's the point of this foreshadow. This is a circular story for her. She leaves guy number one because this other guy swoops her away in the getaway car where nothing good starts.
Daughter
Nothing good starts.
Dad
And guess what? That whole relationship she talks about in the song, it's just a whole crash and burn.
Daughter
It's. It's.
Sponsor Voice 2
Yeah.
Daughter
Getaway cars upon getaway cars, an inception of getaway cars.
Dad
And the guy shouldn't be surprised, hey, you stole me from another guy. So the fact that I stole myself away. Or maybe there's a third guy we don't know about. Just ambiguous. But if you watch the music video, she's driving the car, so, you know, she's in Control. But the point is. Yes, now let's get back to the original foreshadow. Yes, it was the worst of crimes. So what is the worst of crimes?
Daughter
Genocide.
Dad
We've been through this in the song. What is the worst of crimes that she commits in the song? Betrayal.
Daughter
Oh, yeah, it's pretty bad.
Dad
We were jet set Bonnie and Clyde until I switched to the other side. To the other side. It's no surprise I turned you in because us traitors never win.
Daughter
Right?
Dad
So she's saying she's a traitor. Traitors don't end well either. But here's the very interesting thing. Here's the very interesting thing. Is being a traitor the worst of crimes?
Daughter
I mean, I again think genocide is probably the worst of crimes.
Dad
Right, I understand. You do? But interestingly, in Dante's Inferno.
Daughter
Sure, sure.
Dad
The ninth circle of hell.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
The worst place you can be.
Daughter
It was for. Right. Liars and betrayers and traitors.
Dad
And in fact the inner circle, the very, very worst place is Judas, Brutus and Cassius. Brutus. Famously. Brutus. Cassius famously killed Caesar. Bruce was Caesar's best friend. That was betrayal. Of course, we all know what Judas is, Right? So in Dante, for those of you.
Daughter
Who don't know, of course he was the person who sold out Jesus Christ. Just in case you do.
Dad
Judas is scary. Yes.
Daughter
Yeah, I think they knew.
Dad
I think they knew.
Daughter
Some people don't know. It was a long time ago.
Dad
Do you think any of our listeners don't know who Judas is?
Daughter
Some of them. Some of them probably think it's the Lady Gaga. Lady Gaga. Well, possibly Lady Gaga mentioned.
Dad
The point is that this betrayal can send you to hell. And now let's go back and make one little connection. This is one of those connections that I always, never am 100% sure Taylor did, but I think she probably did because if you go back to. It was.
Daughter
Well, that's. And that's part of what analyzing these songs is, is we obviously can't talk to Taylor Swift. Be great if we could hit us up.
Dad
Taylor can call in.
Daughter
She can call in anytime, anytime. She can hit our phones, hit our lines, talk to our people, please. But. But that's part of what it is. Since we can't do that, you know, we're. This isn't, you know, just conjecture, right? This is, this is educated, you know, based on our knowledge of, of the literature of our time. But, but of course, all analysis of all literature is subjective.
Dad
Well, and sometimes people, great writers put things in, maybe they weren't even fully Conscious of themselves, but they're so great that their mind unconscious. Put it in. Right now, my basic view. Covertly we shake and I, as I said, I'm called, you know, Taylor, modern day Shakespeare. I think it's a good bet if you see something, if you figure out something clever that's in a Shakespeare play. Yeah, he probably put it in there, right? Probably.
Daughter
I mean, by that, by the time he got to his later plays, especially like the Tempest, you know, stuff like that.
Dad
Well, and your Hamlets and that sort of thing. So the question is, if we go back to it's the best of times, it was worst of times, it was the age of wisdom with the age of foolishness skipping ahead. We were all going direct to heaven. We were all going direct the other way. So Taylor is putting in. She's referring to a famous quote which talks about going to hell.
Daughter
Right.
Dad
In the bad scenario.
Sponsor Voice 3
Yeah.
Dad
This song is her bad scenario. She becomes a traitor. Traitors go to hell.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
And she made a reference. So was this intentional on her part?
Daughter
I mean, I think. I think it's easy to kind of write a song that if you want to start out with, you know, talking about betrayals and stuff. It was the best of times, it was the worst of crimes. You know, it's a good lyric to go with. But I don't think it's a coincidence that in the book, in Charles Dickens tale Two Cities, he talks about betrayal and going to hell. I think those are two natural connections that, you know, one can make, you know, if you're a great writer, you're talking about the best of times, the worst of times. I think going to hell is natural in both scenarios. So I think both writers were doing kind of a similar thing. Honestly, they were. They were leading themselves to the logical conclusion of their points. Right.
Dad
Yeah. And let's leap to Bonnie and Clyde.
Daughter
Bonnie and Clyde again, at the bridge of the song.
Dad
At the bridge.
Daughter
Bonnie and Clyde.
Dad
She is comparing her and the guy to Bonnie and Clyde.
Daughter
To Bonnie and Clyde.
Dad
Right. Now, again, probably not a casual reference because she doesn't.
Daughter
She does not seem to do that.
Dad
She doesn't seem.
Daughter
It's not very casual with her.
Dad
So Bonnie and Clyde, perhaps the most famous rogue outlaw couple. Certainly in American mythology.
Daughter
Yes.
Dad
And even mythology. It actually happened. And of course, sure, they did dial die. There's a famous movie everyone should see. It's a very influential movie called Bonnie and Clyde. And they all. They die in a hail of both bullets.
Daughter
Right.
Dad
It's not. I mean, they each end up with like 50 bullets in their heads. Because Bonnie, warning, Bonnie Parker was not the violent criminal he here. Yeah, He, Clyde, just killed a lot of people. And now here's an interesting point. Bonnie Parker was a poet.
Daughter
That is interesting.
Dad
And she published poetry. And she. In fact, when she was young, as I. I looked it up in school, Bonnie liked to make up songs and stories. She liked to write poems. She even wrote a poem before her death, an autobiographical poem in which she said, called the End of the Line. They don't think they're too smart or desperate. They know the law always wins. They've been shot at before. They do not ignore that death is the wages of sin. So very simple poetry. But the point is, is it a coincidence that Taylor is referencing Bonnie and Clyde and she's Bonnie? And Bonnie happens to be a published poet, storyteller.
Daughter
I don't think so.
Dad
No, I don't think so either. Now, interestingly, the last point is that Bonnie and Clyde die because they get betrayed.
Daughter
Right. Not by interesting.
Dad
Not by Bonnie.
Daughter
I did not know that.
Dad
But one of the gang, by one of the gang betrays actually the father of one of the. The gang. But you know, for me, what's interesting here is that again, She knows. And the other thing, of course, foreshadowing Bonnie and Clyde is they end very poorly.
Sponsor Voice 4
Sure.
Dad
But she is twisting the story, right? Because she's saying, well, I'm not going to end up like Bonnie and Clyde.
Daughter
Right.
Dad
Right. Because I'm going to turn on him first.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
Right. And that's what she does. And she. Ends poorly for her. I mean, it doesn't end well for her. You know, she ends up being a traitor and she ends up, you know, analogizing death, if nothing else. And that's what she does a lot. That's what she does a lot. She. She will. Will foreshadow her own bad ending.
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Yup.
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Dad
Oftentimes at the very end of the song, she will reference a metaphorical bad ending. Remember she says the end. I was riding in a getaway car. I was crying in a getaway car. I was dying in a getaway car. Right, Right. So this is the explicit metaphorical ending of death that happens when you start in the getaway car and you commit the worst of crimes.
Daughter
Yes.
Dad
All right.
Daughter
Yes, it is.
Dad
So this is how she writes songs. That's the point wanted to make. And this is how we're gonna try to look at the songs. And I think I'm inclined, and you're inclined to generally give her credit that these things are not accidental. It's not like, oh, I figured this out, but Taylor didn't know it that well.
Daughter
If they're accidental, pretty damn lucky accident.
Dad
Yeah. And as I said, oftentimes. Yeah, said here. Right. It's always possible. Certainly I can write stuff. I'm not Taylor or Shakespeare, but I can write stuff and then go back and say, oh, well, that was better writing than I thought when I wrote it.
Daughter
Right. But that's part of what writing is. It's part of what makes it artist. Part of it is the subconscious. You're tapping into your, you know, innate ability to recognize patterns. If you notice a pattern, you know, between Bonnie and Clyde or something, you put it in a song. You know, just so happens that that might be a better pattern than you consciously thought.
Dad
Well, and I would go further since I learned, helping to raise you, that you were. You watch stories the same. You've heard hundreds, thousands of stories.
Daughter
So many stories.
Dad
Right. And these are all the same hero's journey stories, Harry Potter or whatever, you.
Daughter
Know, and yes, love Harry Potter. The point is don't love J.K. rowling right now. Can't lie.
Dad
Understood. The point is that we from a. Before we could even consciously remember, our entire perspective on the world is drummed into us by these thousands of stories, some of which you would watch the Same Story movie 10, 20 times in a row.
Daughter
Yeah, I watched the first Harry Potter movie. Fifteen times, I think, at least.
Dad
That's a lot.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
And, well, I still did it.
Daughter
I feel like I. I think I have most of Community, the TV show that everybody should watch. I think I have most of that memorized. I can't lie.
Dad
Well, and we get to show, like, Community. It's all about irony.
Daughter
It's all about irony.
Dad
Sort of all about irony. A lot of modern American shows, sitcoms, especially Seinfeld, your Simpsons.
Daughter
Yeah, well, curb your enthusiasm is better.
Dad
But the point is that, yes, we don't even know how deeply imbued this Hero's Journey story is in us. And of course, Joseph Campbell, famously, he wrote the Hero with a thousand Faces. He basically showed that all of the great monomyths, all the great heroic myths in every culture, whether it's Native Americans, whether it's the Nordic, whether it's Middle Eastern, South America, whatever it is, Asian, they all have this similar journey. And we will be getting into that journey over the course of the episode.
Daughter
Over the course of the next. Yeah, over the course of.
Dad
Yes, of course, several.
Daughter
We're going to devote an entire episode to the Hero's Journey, because that is how important it is.
Dad
Well, and she wrote a whole song called Antihero.
Daughter
Sure.
Dad
So I will say that her mastery of the Hero's Journey and the anti hero's Journey, because a lot of her songs are not Heroes Journey. They're crash and burn stories.
Daughter
Yeah.
Dad
She starts out feeling good. She ends up feeling bad rather than, you know.
Daughter
And she does it all over again.
Dad
She does it all over again.
Daughter
Three. Three new songs, four new albums.
Dad
And so I think this comes to the point where we are. This final. Yeah, I think we're done for.
Daughter
We're done. Well, this wouldn't be much of a storytelling course. We didn't leave you guys with some homework. So my homework to you guys is whenever you're reading a book, if you still do that anymore. I know, I don't. If you're watching a TikTok, you're scrolling on Instagram. Anything you read in the news, anything that you do with another person, look for signs of foreshadowing the next time you're looking at anything remotely related to stories.
Dad
And I'm going to say, since we're going to keep coming back to all too well.
Daughter
Right.
Dad
And I think we'll maybe discuss this in the next episode.
Daughter
Stay tuned.
Dad
What is the mystery scarf? The one that's so famous, Saturday Night Live made a joke about it. The one that she left behind. At this guy's boyfriend's sister's house.
Daughter
I know.
Dad
And could never get it back.
Daughter
Could never get it back. I mean, she could. I mean, realistically, you can just ask for it back.
Dad
So look for the foreshadow and we'll talk about it next time.
Daughter
Talk about it next time. Thank you so much.
Dad
Thank you.
Daughter
Have a wonderful dang day. Or night, depending on when you listen to this.
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Podcast: Decoding Taylor Swift
Hosts: Joe Romm (“Dad”) and Toni Romm (“Daughter”)
Date: January 20, 2026
This breakout, most-watched episode introduces the podcast’s origin story and dives into the storytelling genius of Taylor Swift through the lens of two major hits: “I Knew You Were Trouble” and “Getaway Car.” Joe and Toni reveal what they consider Swift’s single greatest writing secret – how she masterfully combines foreshadowing and karma to craft lyrics with depth, resonance, and viral stickiness. Along the way, they show how understanding Swift’s narrative tools can make anyone a better communicator and storyteller.
Notable Quotes:
“You paused and said, it’s when Daddy says something that doesn’t matter.” – Joe, recounting Toni at age 3 [03:29]
“That hit me very hard. You were three and you told me that.” – Joe [03:49]
“My mission in life was figuring out what words mattered to you.” – Joe [04:58]
Toni describes Taylor Swift’s importance as a calming presence during childhood anxiety, a grounding force before tests and presentations.
“Taylor Swift has always just been the one that makes me remember there are things in the world that are not ghosts or zombies, and they cannot hurt me.” – Toni [08:25]
Key Example:
Literary References:
Bonnie and Clyde
Memorable Banter:
Death and Metaphor:
Joe and Toni Romm use their warm, witty banter to unpack Swift’s deep storytelling secrets, demonstrating how elements like foreshadow and poetic karma can help anyone – not just songwriters – change minds, go viral, and tell their own story more powerfully.
Homework: Watch for foreshadowing next time you consume a story—and tune in for the mystery of “All Too Well” in the next episode!