
Joe & Toni launch Season 2 devoted to decoding the real meaning of Taylor's new album
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Antonia
Hi, guys. Oh, my gosh. Season two. Welcome to Decoding Taylor Swift. This season will probably be just devoted to the life of a showgirl, and we have some interesting opinions on it. My dad loves it. I have mixed feelings and a nuanced perspective as a member of, you know, the younger generations. But rest assured that as people who are storytelling experts, my father, as he likes to brag about bonafide nerd and very, very celebrated author in his respective fields. Me personally, I am an opinionated teenager, so I also am good at dissecting things. So trust and believe that this season will be one to stick around for. And by the way, for those of you who have stuck around and have listened to season one, thank you so much. We actually have a production and distribution deal now. Oh, my gosh. Season. So thank you guys for that. Like, seriously, thank you.
Joe Rome
Thank you, guys. I'm Joe Rome. That was Tony Rome or Antonia. And yes, we have a distribution deal with Realm, and very excited about that. And I'm very excited about this album. You know, season one, that was all about how to use the secrets of Taylor Swift to become a better storyteller. And we dove into a whole bunch of stuff, and everyone should watch season one to go back because we're not.
Antonia
Going to do or listen. Oh. Because here's the other thing is now we're on video.
Joe Rome
We are on video now. And I want to say something about this album. Taylor said on Travis Kelce's podcast that the point of this album was everything fitting together like a perfect puzzle for these 12 songs. So there is a perfect puzzle here. And she has done her best to embed some deeper meanings that I think some of the critics are missing entirely.
Antonia
She. Sure, sure. Which is fair. I also think, you know, as with any good piece of art, there are very good criticisms of it, and I am here to offer them.
Joe Rome
Well, this is gonna be an epic Boomer Zoomer debate and discussion. And so let's dive into.
Antonia
Let's dive in. Oh, two pieces of housekeeping. Before we begin the debate. I'm in college now, and so in the music room next to me, there is somebody who might be playing piano and singing opera. We've just realized that that is happen. But that's beautiful. And me, personally, I'm a little bit sick. So if you see me move out of frame, that is because I'm actually coughing. And I don't have typhoid. I just have a cold. But unfortunately, as many people have told me, college is a time where you are perpetually Sick. So, yay. Okay.
Joe Rome
Anyway, and I just want to show people I have my new hat here.
Antonia
Yes, we have merch. Not for sale, but they exist in the world. And perhaps you can buy some if you feel so inclined later.
Joe Rome
And if you like this podcast, please tell your friends.
Antonia
Tell your friends. This is.
Joe Rome
Yeah, this is the podcast to come to if you really want to understand what these songs mean. Not what the critics have to say.
Kitty
Right.
Antonia
And not what Reddit with the Reddit has.
Joe Rome
Yeah, you can learn stuff on those.
Antonia
You can learn stuff on those.
Joe Rome
Yes. Are you just going to repeat everything I say?
Antonia
Well, basically, we are talented. We are smart, we're so cool. And our opinions are good opinions and you should listen to us is basically what I have to say. Because we know what we're talking about. You know, I love writing. I'm a philosophy major, but that's just because I'm too scared to do creative writing. I also do physics. So trust and believe that mathematically wise, there are 12 songs on this album.
Joe Rome
And I'm excited about this album because I've written about Hamlet and Shakespeare a lot, and.
Antonia
I think it's more impressive to be a broke college student. So in my opinion.
Joe Rome
Yeah, well, as your father, I can say it's impressive for you. It's.
Antonia
You know, actually, I'm not broke. I actually got a job on campus as a barista.
Joe Rome
So let's dive in to.
Antonia
Let's dive in.
Joe Rome
We are. Just to be clear, what are we doing in this season?
Kitty
Right?
Joe Rome
We are. This is an. We're gonna go through and just some. Give initial takes and talk about some of the larger themes in this album.
Antonia
This episode is specifically for takes. This is first takes.
Kitty
Right.
Antonia
We're gonna go into the subsequent songs in the subsequent. Each.
Joe Rome
Right. So then next episode, we will devote just to track one, which is actually.
Antonia
That's perfect. Cause we'll end up having 13 episodes.
Joe Rome
This is how it takes.
Antonia
We will.
Joe Rome
And we may also do some bonus episodes. We'll have to figure that out. But the plan now is each episode, we're going to dive in to a song and go through and explain exactly what Taylor's doing, just like we did for other songs. In fact, the 13th episode of last season, we did that for Cardigan.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
And that was part of Folklore. And we did that because Max Martin, who co authored a lot of these songs, said he wanted to do, you know, kind of storytelling. And that album had interconnected stories. And these. This album also has songs that refer to each other.
Antonia
Sure.
Joe Rome
And so Anyway, what's the first song?
Antonia
Yeah, is. Well, okay, let's just do some general hot takes first. Yeah, first hot take. I think that we were promised lyricism, folklore. I think that there are certain songs like the Fate of Ophelia, Honestly, Life of a Showgirl, and, you know, a few others like Elizabeth Taylor, that I think are really up to snuff. They are quite good, and you have to give it a few listens. You really do. But that's how all Taylor albums work. That's how they've always worked. People hated Midnights. When it came out, they were like, what the hell is this? And now a lot of people are like, it's her best album. So I think that what needs to happen is people just need to let this breathe and have, like, time with it. The. The thing is, when you. When you use the words trolling and meme in a song about the Internet, obviously she used them to elicit reactions. Sure. I'm not sure that that is something that I can get behind. I think that Taylor Swift is such a talented songwriter, she could have found other things to.
Joe Rome
Well, let's. Can we do these in order, my daughter? Okay.
Antonia
But you give your hot takes first. You give your hot takes first. You give, like, a hot take first, then we can go down the line.
Joe Rome
Well, first of all, I've read a lot of the critics, and I think that it is a challenge to do hot take of an album, as you said. First of all, I want to see what actual people who have to pay money for this album do.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
How do these songs do in the real world?
Kitty
Right.
Antonia
That's.
Joe Rome
That's very important to know, as. Is this a popular success?
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
She's a pop singer, and that means selling albums.
Kitty
Right.
Antonia
I'm actually going on the US top 50 right now.
Joe Rome
It takes a while. I. I don't even think it's possible to get in until, like, Tuesday. She launched it on a Friday because they.
Antonia
Sorry, yeah, no, you continue. I'm gonna go off screen and, like, hack my guts out.
Joe Rome
My daughter has not figured out how to take a cough suppressant. This is.
Antonia
Yeah, you know what? If Taylor can do it with a broken heart, I can do it with a broken esophagus.
Joe Rome
And that's how the show must go on. The show girl must go on. Yes.
Antonia
Fact.
Joe Rome
And my daughter has been on stage, and she understands and I appreciate her, you know, her commitment to the craft here. I don't know what you're doing.
Antonia
Oh, my gosh. Thank you.
Joe Rome
And she's Also been directing me. We did it. We did a promo.
Antonia
Yeah, we.
Joe Rome
We did a promo.
Antonia
Now, the official director and script supervisor.
Joe Rome
Yeah, yeah, we did. We did a promo. And I thought take six was pretty good, but apparently my director daughter.
Antonia
His delivery is kind of stale.
Joe Rome
I'm sorry.
Antonia
That's okay. That's okay. That's okay. Acting is hard. Acting is hard. Like, personally speaking, I'm a way better director than I am actor because you can't hear yourself. So that's. You have to give yourself grace, Jo. You really do. You really do. I think that you have a talent within you that people are going to try and exploit, and you cannot let them. But you. You have to foster that talent. You have to learn how to use it for yourself, and that's what I try to do for you.
Joe Rome
All I can say is that my daughter director drove me so hard that we didn't get a decent take, and it ended up being number 13, the take we're using.
Antonia
That's true. We didn't even try that. That's kind of scary. I can't lie.
Joe Rome
Yeah. It just happened that way. So.
Antonia
Would you excuse me?
Joe Rome
My daughter. My daughter. Yeah. Video is new to us. These are supposed to. These will be going up on YouTube.
Antonia
You know, it's fine. Is this a bit. This can be a bit, right? You know, cost till I kill myself.
Joe Rome
Look, my basic take is that. That she's. First of all, I think this is ambitious.
Kitty
Right?
Joe Rome
And, you know, is she trying to reinvent herself? I saw some of the critics saying, well, you know, she should really keep reinventing herself. It's like, you know, guess what, you critic. When did you ever reinvent yourself? It's not easy to reinvent yourself. I think, you know, this is a. I think this is a transition album. She has met Travis. There are a lot of songs on this album where she's clearly, you know, in kind of a blissful love with Travis and also a kind of a sexual bliss. This is a very. This has a. The raunchiest song on it.
Antonia
It does. I think it's the best song. I can't lie.
Joe Rome
Yeah. Wood.
Antonia
I really like wood.
Joe Rome
A lot of people thought it might be raunchy. We were a little skeptical because, you know. But I will just say this. Shakespeare was very raunchy.
Antonia
Oh, yeah. That's like, all he did. Like, half of it is just sex jokes.
Joe Rome
Yeah.
Antonia
Like, whenever he says the word die, like, talking metaphorically. Usually that means, like, having sex. Usually it means that having sex. Whenever Taylor or whenever Shakespeare Said the word die, like, metaphorically, like, I was dying yesterday. Like, that meant sex in the, like, 1600s. So look.
Joe Rome
And in fact, when we get to, you know, the next episode, episode two, we're gonna dive into the fate of Ophelia and.
Antonia
Which I like. I really do think that is well written.
Joe Rome
Good lyricism. Yeah, Look, I'm obviously very biased. She put Shakespeare in a lot of her songs. And in fact, she was being interviewed, and she says she has this thing where she doesn't like tragic endings to Shakespeare's plays. She did a whole song write Love story where she rewrote the ending of Romeo and Juliet. And so she's like, I'm rewriting Ophelia's story. And I like that. But if you read Hamlet, you know, there's a whole raunchy dialogue between Hamlet and Ophelia, which we can get into. So.
Antonia
Yeah, Gundy to an honoree.
Joe Rome
Yeah. Well, and also. And so, you know, the critics who are like, oh, Wood is like, you know, that's just too raunchy for her. It's like, no, you're missing the point.
Antonia
It's like. It's also like, get with the times. Okay? Let's really quickly dive into our first impressions of the fate of Ophelia.
Joe Rome
Yeah. And look, so let's talk about the fate of Ophelia.
Antonia
Let's talk about the fate of Ophelia. One minute you. One minute me. Okay. Or we can just have a discussion.
Joe Rome
We should have a discussion. But next episode, we're gonna have a long discussion, right?
Antonia
Yes.
Joe Rome
So we don't have to get in deep. I think that there is a lot going on in this song. There are great many Hamlet references. I don't think the critics have, like, noticed all of them and understand know what she's doing.
Antonia
So next episode, you're, like, the ultimate Hamlet nerd. So, like, next episode is going to be very interesting. Ever since I was. He made me, when I was, like, five years old, memorized the to be or not to be speech by singing it to me. And until I was like. When I was like, actually, two, and until I was, like, five, I had it memorized, and then I had to remember it again for high school. But it was so. It was really easy. Like, like, when I tell you that this man is, like, probably the most nerdy person that you'll ever meet in your entire life, if you have the opportunity to meet him, like. Like, the eye contact, will it be there all the time? Maybe not, like, the. Like, the references to, like, really Esoteric pieces of art. Yes, that will be there. He will tell you everything that you need to know. And that's. That's what. That's your truth. And I think that's beautiful. So that is why you really should listen to the next episode. Like, not to plug the next episode, but you should listen to it.
Joe Rome
Well, look, I think Hamlet's the most famous play of all time. The great.
Antonia
My favorite Shakespeare play, and it's mine. That and Twelfth Night.
Joe Rome
It's the greatest tragedy of all time. And so it's quite bold of Taylor to rewrite the story so that instead of Ophelia drowning, she gets rescued. And in this case, it's pretty clear she's rescued by Kelsey. So.
Antonia
Yeah, and we'll not get into it. But I do just want to say, like, I think that. Like, I do think that it is a very interesting choice because Ophelia is a character whose whole story is about her lack of agency. Right. She drowns because of her lack of agency. I think the fact that she had to be saved by another man is a very interesting choice on Taylor's part. That's a little critique that I have that we'll talk about next time.
Joe Rome
Oh, I think that. Yeah. And I think there's a lot. I do think there's a lot going on in this song. And as we've said, and one of the things that troubles me with the critics hot takes is I'll see a critic quote a line from a song and say, ooh, there was New Yorker said, oh, Taylor inadvertently said this. No, no, no. Taylor doesn't inadvertently say things.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
That was the point of the first.
Antonia
I think that's. The other thing is people really do assume that she's just like some sort of untalented, kind of one of those mediocre women who just gets really popular. And like, you know, and implicit in that is kind of. I. It also happened when Beyonce's Cowboy Carter come out came out. It was. It was something like, you know, like, sure, but, like, what are you really doing? Like, what are you actually doing when. When it comes to. When it comes to female artists, I think a lot of the times people really think that they know better than them what their songs are about. I think we have to realize, and this is not a conspiracy theory. It's not me, like, clutching at anything, grasping for straws. It is. I'm being honest when I say I. I do think that Taylor Swift has not, like, lost her game. You know, I think that what she thinks.
Joe Rome
Yeah.
Antonia
And I think is just that, you know, you can have criticisms for artists. You really can, but the stuff that I see on Reddit and Instagram, very valid things. However, a lot of it kind of has a little undertone of, like, kind of misogyny. Right. A lot of people like to criticize Taylor because she's gotten really popular, so she's an easy target. Right. She's kind of a way that you could kind of subvert, you know, the whole pop scene. You could kind of say, oh, I'm not like those people that listen to Taylor Swift. Like, I'm not basic. Right. I think the problem with that is that there's kind. I mean, nobody really said that about Bruce Springsteen. He was super pop. Nobody. Okay? People who said that about the Beatles, the tone was completely different. Right there. There was no undertone of. There's just this basic bleach blonde Barbie. Right. As she references in her other song, the because. Because society will try to masquerade sexism as just, I don't want to be, you know, basic or like, this is just too girly for me or this is too much for me, or it's just, like, not good. I think that there are valid criticisms of this album. There really are. But I think if you are somebody who's criticized this album, you need to be really careful that what you're doing is not just pretending like you're special or cool because you don't listen to Taylor Swift.
Joe Rome
Well, look, you know, one of the points we made in season one is that many of her songs are very ironic, and if you read them literally, you might get the exact opposite meaning of what she attends.
Antonia
Right, Right. But that's all of irony. People don't think of her songs as literature. And when it's. When you're looking at a song called Wood, like, I know, Gotta knock on Wood, My boyfriend's magic wand. When you just look at those, it's a little bit hard to be like, how is this? It was the best of times, it was the worst of times.
Joe Rome
Oh, a little bit hard. My daughter made a double entendre herself.
Antonia
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever.
Joe Rome
I know you're gonna plug your ears when we talk about all of those.
Antonia
Oh, my God.
Joe Rome
Whatever my daughter got. For those who haven't seen season one, when we. I pointed out that a lot of that all too well, was about teenage sex. My daughter was like, I can't have my father talk about teenage sex. And now Taylor has rolled out her raunchiest album ever. And this album, you know, What?
Antonia
Taylor is just giving me strength. And honestly, the worst part of hearing you talk about sex jokes is just that now it makes me sad because I'm so single and so lonely. So it really does just make me sad. It doesn't even hurt anymore. It just makes me sad. I'm not even lying.
Joe Rome
Well, whatever you want to say about this album, I think this may be the only album.
Antonia
Okay. It's the first week of college.
Joe Rome
I think this may be the only album by anyone but by a. By a female singer in which she sings one song where she says she has a big dick, and then she sings a whole nother song that her boyfriend has a big dick.
Antonia
Clay. So any children that watch this, all you have to know is that a dick is a nickname for Richard.
Joe Rome
In some other songs, she gets very much more overtly raunchy.
Antonia
But she also should.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
She's a grown up woman.
Antonia
Well, and also she's influenced clearly a lot by Sabrina Carpenter, who has in the past also done stuff like that, which is why I like Sabrina.
Joe Rome
Well, I will also note that. That Nicki. Nicki Minaj.
Antonia
Nicki Minaj.
Joe Rome
We sing her Instagram.
Antonia
Prepare, bro. That's how I prepare for these freaking makes. I will wrap a little bit of Nicki Minaj.
Joe Rome
And sometimes I do. Sometimes I play star.
Antonia
Sometimes I have gotten him to do it, too.
Joe Rome
All right, Nikki. Nikki put on Instagram that she was. She so needed to hear Wood. That was her favorite song on the album. I think it's got mine. Yeah.
Antonia
Yes.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
So. And by the way, I think Wood is a dividing line for a lot of people because a lot of critics.
Antonia
Are like cool, hot people and the ugly, dumb people. I'm just kidding. I'm so sorry. If you don't like Wood, that's well within. You're right.
Joe Rome
There are a lot of critics, maybe the older ones, who are like, oh, this is beneath Taylor to make these raunchy puns.
Antonia
And in a way, they're right. It is beneath.
Joe Rome
There you go. And I'm so sorry. I think this is a very much a running theme in these songs is the. The. The raunchiness and the sexual language. And I think this is. And. And I just want to say, as we have often talked about Taylor foreshadowing things, her most romantic song ever is Lover, and it has a line that.
Antonia
You say my dirtiest jokes for you.
Kitty
Right?
Antonia
So she is make women horny.
Joe Rome
Again, I think dirty. Clearly. If she and Taylor.
Antonia
If she. And you know, that's feminism. That's feminism.
Kitty
Yeah.
Joe Rome
Look, if I hope that that Taylor and Travis enjoy telling dirty jokes. That's what regular couples and people.
Antonia
That's what regular couples do.
Joe Rome
They do.
Antonia
And you know, like Tyrant by Beyonce. I love Tyrant. Love Tyrant. So dirty. I love wood.
Joe Rome
I think Rihanna's song.
Antonia
Oh my gosh. Yeah. All of her songs. Really?
Kitty
Yeah.
Joe Rome
You know the boyfriend who kisses her.
Kitty
Right.
Antonia
Yeah. Kiss me. Right.
Joe Rome
Kiss me right.
Kitty
Yeah.
Joe Rome
So look, that's the world that we're in. And you, you critics out there, if.
Antonia
You Take me to church. Take Me to Church.
Joe Rome
Was the OG Take me to church.
Antonia
Oh, gee.
Joe Rome
Well, actually, there's one more OG than Take me to Church, which is Despacito.
Antonia
Oh.
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Joe Rome
Despacito possibly.
Antonia
But. But like music in Spanish, like learning Spanish has been such an eye opening experience for me because now I'll just be listening to Bad Bunny and I'll be like oh my God. Wow. How did I not realize this five years ago?
Joe Rome
Props to Bad Bunny for getting the Super Bowl.
Antonia
I Love Bad Bunny. Oh my gosh.
Joe Rome
Props to Bad Bunny for getting the Super Bowl. But yes, Despacito. You have to get the. I'm not a Spanish speaker. You have to go and look up the translation to realize. Yes, this is one of the raunchiest.
Antonia
That's how I practiced in AP Spanish when I was in junior year. Let me tell you guys something. Tell your kids, tell yourselves, if you're in a Spanish class, listen to Bad Bunny because that'll help you. If you're going abroad, you need to be listening to the raunchiest, craft, craziest, like most slang ridden songs that you can in Spanish. Because that's what, that's how you learn. That's how you learn. And honestly, I think that English speakers really should be like, listening to, like, I've seen so many songs, like so many reviews that have been like, I didn't learn English for this. But the thing is, is unfortunately. Yes, you did. Yes, you did. Because whether or not you like this album, the fact is that this is an incredibly wide ranging use of, of themes of, of. Of language. It captures the zeitgeist. I mean, this is like, this is the moment that we live in. Like, it really is. And that's also.
Joe Rome
And we will get into the best of the songs and the least of the songs.
Antonia
The worst of the songs.
Joe Rome
The worst of the songs.
Kitty
Yeah.
Joe Rome
Look, I.
Antonia
The fact is, is that, okay, whenever I'm thinking of criticizing like an artist, like, because everybody has implicit sexism, even women, whenever I think to myself, wow, this is quite shitty, I say to myself, if a smaller artist released this, if somebody like, I don't know, just to throw, like Malcolm Todd, if Malcolm Todd did this, if like a small mailer artist or like released this, or if it was like, I don't know, between friends or like, or like, I don't know, something like that, like smaller alt people, I say to myself, like, I don't know, would I think the same things? Usually the answer is like, no. I think that a lot of it is because she's popular. It's not because she's a bad songwriter. So some of it now, some of it as we'll get to in eldest daughter.
Joe Rome
Well, and look, you know, and let me add, let's remember she brought in Sabrina carpenter for track 12. Sabrina's made a whole career out of the sly, winking raunchiness, right?
Antonia
I love Sabrina Carpenter.
Kitty
Right?
Joe Rome
And more power to her.
Kitty
Right?
Joe Rome
But you know, power to her latest album. We could do a whole, you know, I mean, her latest album is kind of a brilliant compendium of kind of ironic, sexy raunchiness. So the point is, you know, let's. Let's go through some of the other songs. I know. I know, but.
Antonia
But we don't have to do all the songs, but we can touch on the most important songs. So the other song that I really like is Elizabeth Taylor. I will say the chord progression that I used in my little improv thing, that was very bad, and you don't have to go back and listen to it, but I had a very similar. I predicted a little bit of the Elizabeth Taylor. Elizabeth Taylor. That was my version.
Joe Rome
Yes, you did. You called out that she would be using. That she would be saying Elizabeth Taylor's name that way as. As a. Yeah, yeah.
Antonia
And I also just want to say I predicted literally, perfectly. I told you bitches. I predicted that she would. It would be a song, Eldest daughter, where she only used the word eldest daughter once. And it was, like, in the middle of, like, some verse. I predicted that. And you know how I knew? Because Lord did the same thing with favorite daughter.
Joe Rome
Well, I got one prediction right, too.
Antonia
Yeah. What was yours? What was yours?
Joe Rome
Because everybody was saying, ruin the friendship. Yeah, everyone was saying, ruin the friendship was.
Antonia
That's the other song that I liked. And people who are talking about it being like, why is a grown woman talking about high school romance? You do not know this story. You don't know the lore.
Joe Rome
It's a tragic story.
Antonia
It's about a dude that she had a crush on who was. She was friends with that committed suicide.
Joe Rome
Yeah, it's a very tragic story, but I just want to point out that everyone was saying. It was about Blake Lively, and I, during our discussion, said, well, there is a second meaning to ruin the friendship where you don't want to ruin a real friendship by getting, you know, romantic.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
And so that turned out to be correct. But let's.
Antonia
Oh, and the other thing that she does have a diss track, which is actually romantic, and it's about Charli XCX as a Charli XCX lover. I can't lie. She was kind of ate up in this song. I do like, actually romantic. It's another kind of dirty song. She. Oh, yeah, she's very funny.
Joe Rome
She has a line that. That it gets her.
Antonia
Well, we don't have to say the line. Oh, it's fine. It's fine.
Joe Rome
Wait, are you trying.
Antonia
It just makes me sad. It just makes me sad.
Joe Rome
Do you. Are you trying to silence Taylor's raunchiness In. In. In actual.
Antonia
I'm trying to silence your raunchiness. Your raunchiness. You're too old to be raunchy. People over the age of 60. Don't get horny.
Joe Rome
Oh, now you're getting ageist. I see. Now you're getting ageist on it. So. So boomers can't be running freaking thyroid medicine. I know, I know. No one wants to hear that. Their parents. I get it.
Kitty
All right.
Antonia
Unless you have Hashimoto's shout out to my Hashimoto friends.
Joe Rome
Your mother and I had sex only once. Only once in our entire marriage. Yes, Just the time for you.
Antonia
That was not enjoyed by either of you. You guys hated.
Joe Rome
It was not enjoyed. We were drunk out of our minds.
Antonia
Drunk out of our minds. Oh, wow. It was like 1984. The wife in 1984 who hated saw the Sex is Mechanical. You guys didn't like it. And actually what happened was that you donated your sperm, she donated her egg, and I was grown in a lab. No sex was had.
Joe Rome
All righty. So I think we've. We beat that particular extended metaphor to death. That's fine. That's beautiful. What other songs? Let's. I. So we. Yeah. Elizabeth. I like Elizabeth Taylor, and I think that, you know, she's always trying to find a story about a strong woman, a very talented woman, a successful woman, who had a hard time because of critics and the paparazzi and maybe some of her own choices. I mean, look, we're talking about a woman who was married eight times to seven. Or is it eight? No, what is a lot?
Antonia
It was like seven times to six people or something like that.
Joe Rome
Eight times to seven people. She married Richard Burton twice. And yeah, what? There was a scandalous. Yes, she did go out with a married man. And look, you know.
Antonia
Okay, but, like, what are you supposed to do, like, and stuff.
Joe Rome
By the way, that's hardly even. It's not scandalous today, right? I mean, geez, people show up in. In concerts with someone else's wife.
Kitty
Right?
Joe Rome
Or someone else's husband, you know, so look, anyway, but it's a great song. And I think Liz Taylor, you know, for people, my generation, she was one of the original, you know, monster superstars. A great beauty, a great talented actress, you know, for. Made some famous movies when she was young. She was also a child star. I think that's why the other reason Taylor likes her story, because she became famous very young and a breakout in the. In the movie National Velvet.
Antonia
I wouldn't have Guessed that.
Joe Rome
The horse race. The horse race. National Velvet.
Antonia
You should put it on your wish list.
Joe Rome
Oh, wish list. Which was also a surprise song.
Antonia
You know, I can't lie to you. I. I just didn't relate to it. I mean, like, it just kind of made me sad. Like, I mean, it really did. But that's just because. I mean, the reason Wood did make me sad is because it was iconic. But. Tbh. Maybe it's just because I'm too single. But whatever. Ladies, gentlemen, hit me up. Whatever.
Joe Rome
Taylor has been singing about her failed relationships for a very long time.
Antonia
Very long time. And this makes me feel better about.
Joe Rome
Myself because maybe it's like, you know.
Antonia
I've been in so many situationships, guys. Give me a real one. Give me a real one. Anyway, whatever.
Joe Rome
Wait, you've been in a lot of situationships.
Antonia
Yeah.
Joe Rome
This is news. We'll talk about this offline. My daughter.
Antonia
I'll tell you later.
Kitty
But.
Antonia
But look, yeah, college is crazy, you guys.
Joe Rome
I don't. I don't think anybody. You know, I don't want to say someone deserves happiness. We all deserve happiness.
Antonia
I think. Yeah, everybody.
Joe Rome
But Taylor's been through it, right? And maybe she's made bad choices.
Kitty
Right?
Joe Rome
She did. The whole point of anti here was, hey, you know, I have this thing where I get older but just never wiser. So she acknowledges not every choice has been great. But anyway, and you know, yeah, Kelsey. Features. Features. I mean, even the podcast is name checked. Right In Wood.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
New heights.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
And by the way, remember, everyone, we are newer heights and newest.
Antonia
We are newest heights and newer heights. That's us. Yes, yes.
Joe Rome
But yeah, and. And yeah, so. So you had issues with.
Antonia
Eldest daughter.
Joe Rome
Yeah, well, no, the song we were just talking about, which was, oh, Wish list.
Antonia
It's just because I'm not, you know, like, I'm. She talks a lot about being afraid that when she becomes happy, the well will run dry, so to speak, of, you know, like, creativity. I think that. I think that just like, I don't know.
Joe Rome
We'll see.
Antonia
I mean, it just didn't wow me, you know, I mean, I think that she hasn't. The well hasn't run dry, but the song is just not for me, you know, not everything has to be for young people.
Joe Rome
Absolutely.
Antonia
I get it.
Joe Rome
And what about since we talked about Wood and we talked about wish list, so let's do eldest daughter. Yeah, let's.
Kitty
Let's.
Antonia
Let's talk briefly about eldest daughter.
Joe Rome
You are the eldest daughter. You're also the youngest daughter. I Am the youngest.
Antonia
And I'm sure, I think that. Here's the thing, everyone, every joke's just trolling and memes. Every single hot take is cold as ice, you know? Ah, here's the thing. I. I think nobody. I think. I think we can't know what it's like, what it has to be like to, like, constantly, like, go on the Internet and see yourself bashed and bashed and bashed and bashed. And it's not even because you're, like, problematic. It's not even because. Well, there are criticisms of her private jet use, which I do agree with. But the other thing, I mean, like, seriously, like, it's not because you're doing anything wrong. It's just because you're making your art and people just hate your art and they hate you because you're popular. That has to be hard. Here's the thing. If I were Taylor Swift, would I have used this lyricism? No, I would not have. I was a little bit underwhelmed. The other thing is that not to be the Wokler. She is a billionaire. You know, she's very rich. She can do whatever she wants. I mean, this is what this album is. She's doing what she wants, and that's beautiful, and she's very talented. The other thing is that, you know, she. I think. I think when you have that much money, it feels just a little bit out of touch to say that, you know, that she's like, never going to leave you. It's like an attempt to be. To connect with people, right? It's an attempt to say, like, I'm never going to leave you, but she's kind of already left the realm of normal people, and she's long since left. And that's what the life of a showgirl is. And she, I don't think, is trying to hide that, but I do think that. I don't think she is out of touch or tone deaf. There's no point in criticizing her because she's still gonna be so rich at the end of the day that it won't matter. And I mean, the point in criticizing is then therefore, to focus on the lyrics, to really dissect, to pick apart. So that's why I think that it is more worthwhile to talk about the lyrics in a very academic way, because I think that if you're doing it in any other way, there's just no point in doing it other than to make your voice heard, you know, not contributing anything meaningful to society.
Joe Rome
And I also think it's important, which I think is harder to do in the one day hot takes. I have to listen to one of her songs 50 times to really understand.
Antonia
And he does.
Joe Rome
And I do. And I do. And that's how this podcast came about.
Antonia
So, ladies, ladies, please, please take him away from his computer. Take him away from Spotify. He needs to go outside.
Joe Rome
It's. It's because she is very careful with her word choice and a lot of it's ironic. And so you see, critics will quote a line as if this is what Taylor Swift believes, which is just as crazy as quoting Shakespeare and saying this is what Shakespeare believes. No, he didn't.
Antonia
Or even quoting his. His sonnets is a better example because then it seem like perhaps it's what he means. He does not.
Joe Rome
And so you have to. Let's be. You know, the interesting tension in this album is on the one hand, she does complain about having the bad things that happen when you become famous.
Antonia
Sure.
Joe Rome
On the other hand, she also acknowledges in Elizabeth Taylor and in Life of a Showgirl that that comes with the territory. It's not her.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
She's not the first person to go through this. If you make the choice to be a showgirl.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
The point of life of a showgirl is if you choose that life. You were warned.
Kitty
Right?
Joe Rome
That's the point.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
Kitty.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
Warns her that, guess what? You don't know what it's like. It's really effing rough. So I do think. And I, you know, so anyway, yeah, I think these are important songs to talk about. And look, I happy, you know, be the first person to acknowledge that no one's going to put out an album, including Taylor, in which every song works.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
And. And this. But, you know, I think people are going to get judged at the end of the day when you ask how do we think about the Beatles?
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
Or how do we think about Bob Dylan?
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
I don't think a lot of people spend a lot of time thinking about the songs that didn't work.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
You, you list these, right?
Antonia
I mean, that's a good point. That is a good point.
Joe Rome
Yeah. And I think. And by the way, in Life of a Showgirl and is really about immortality, right. And the immortality comes from how many great songs did you do.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
And Taylor has become very prolific. I think that's another thing. I mean, she did this album while she was doing the grueling Eras tour.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
So, yes, I think anybody who decides on I'm going to put out a lot of content, obviously they're not all going to be winners. And, you know, but I'm. I think that there are a lot of great songs on this. Which ones haven't we hit? Oh, Father Figure. I just want to mention, you know, Father Figure, which was a interpolation of George Michaels.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
But none of the same lyrics.
Antonia
Sorry.
Kitty
Right.
Antonia
Yeah, right.
Joe Rome
None of the same lyrics. And by the way, in. In the movie, which we might talk about more next week, because the movie launches the music video for Fate of Ophelia. She gives an intro to each song where she talks about it. And, you know, remember when we were talking, when we talked about Father Figure, I said, oh, that's great alliteration.
Kitty
Right?
Joe Rome
Well, when she talks about it, she says, oh, I have always loved alliteration. She says, father Figure. I just loved the. That title from George Michael because it has alliteration. And a lot of these songs.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
Have alliteration.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
Father Figure has the F alliteration. So does Fate of Ophelia.
Kitty
Right?
Joe Rome
Three Fs. So there's sort of. There's sort of a running theme of Fs.
Antonia
Wait, wait, wait. Hold on. I'm curious. You said that there was a hidden 13 in the fate of Ophelia when you texted me a few days ago. What was that?
Joe Rome
There's a hidden 13. Thirteen in. Where? She says a hundred.
Antonia
Yeah. Keep it 100. On the land. The sea. Yeah.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
Well, 100 is Travis Kelsey's number, which is 87. Plus her number favorite number, which is 13. You didn't know that? You didn't know the. The reason she says 100 is because it's 87.
Antonia
No, a hundred is a saying. Like I keep it 100, like 100%. Right.
Joe Rome
But she says she keeps it 100.
Antonia
Yeah, right.
Joe Rome
Because it's 87 plus 30.
Antonia
That's crazy. What the hell?
Joe Rome
Yes. And to go. And by the way, this is the point of debate between my daughter and I. Well, what you want. Which is. During the podcast with Travis, it turns out that Travis's brother loves the number 13.
Antonia
Right. And.
Joe Rome
And Taylor loves the number 13. And so she thought, oh, that's a commonality we have. And that she called Triskadeka and Trixa. Decophilia is an unusual word. Triska. Decophilia is the love of the number 13 happens to coincidentally be one of the only words that has the word Ophelia in it.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
Is that an accident? Does Taylor not know that the word she used, Triscadia.
Antonia
Do you see that? He needs to go outside. Do you see that? You guys need to come and date him or, like, befriend him, take him away.
Joe Rome
I am dying to ask Taylor. I don't. We've had this discussion before anyway, so.
Antonia
Father figure, all in jest, all in just love you.
Joe Rome
Love you, father figure. We will get into. Very interesting song. Just says, you know, she's singing it. It's. It's a song that's. Was originally sung by a famous man. It's really clearly in her version of it. You know, she has a big dick. I mean, she's right. She's so. It's just a very interesting song.
Kitty
What?
Joe Rome
And so what is the one after Father? Oh, there's Opalite. We missed Opalite, which is a nice.
Antonia
Song, I think I like Opalite. Yeah, I like Opalite. I think it didn't stand out to me immediately, but I do like it. Perhaps it will when I, you know, listen to it more.
Joe Rome
I think it's kind of a bop.
Antonia
I like it. I do.
Joe Rome
It's got a very nice hook.
Antonia
Is it a banger? I don't know, but it is a bop.
Joe Rome
It is a banger. Yeah. I think these are bangers and bops. And it's a subtle distinction for me.
Antonia
I think Elizabeth Taylor's a banger. I can't lie. I do like it well.
Joe Rome
And I think that.
Antonia
That I think would also a banger. I wish it was longer.
Joe Rome
And I think the.
Antonia
Oh, my God, the recording failed.
Joe Rome
Your computer died, in all honesty.
Kitty
Alrighty.
Antonia
And for our last. For the last part of the discussion, we're just gonna spend a few minutes on the life of a showgirl.
Joe Rome
Yeah, yeah, let's just. I just wanted to. The life of the Showgirl we talked a little bit about.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
And I think it holds the ultimate meaning to this album. I think ultimately she is trying to write this album the way she writes a song in the sense that the first song is a lot of foreshadow and kind of anticipating what's coming. And Showgirl has a lot going on in it, which I'm not going to reveal today. We're going to. You're gonna have to wait till the last episode to talk about this. But I think the interesting thing is the end of Life of a Showgirl.
Antonia
Where she puts the recording, she breaks.
Joe Rome
The fourth wall, and she and Sabrina talk to each other as, like, you know, she's thanking everybody for coming.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
This whole thing has been a show.
Antonia
Yeah, right.
Joe Rome
She's turning the album into saying, this has been a show.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
Because she goes meta is what I'm saying. And that makes that song a meta, ironic song. And it has to be understood that way. And, and we need to think of the album a bit in that way. So, you know, I, I, that's why I say it's very hard to do a hot take without really thinking about each of these songs because she said they were all connected.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
She said that she couldn't on Travis, on, On New Heights. She said, hey, guess what? You know, we could, we did 12 songs. We couldn't have done one more. We couldn't have done less. That there is this perfect puzzle. And so you're gonna have to. Which is what we're gonna do on the podcast. You're gonna have to look at each song and try to understand how does it contribute to an overall meaning. It doesn't mean she succeeded.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
But at least this is what she said she's trying to do. And you know, I think there's a lot to be uncovered which I have not heard critics talk about yet. And I think people, again, get, get treat a lot of her words literally.
Antonia
Yeah.
Joe Rome
That she clearly, clearly, you know, we talked about shake it off. Even a simple bop like shake it off. In fact, she doesn't herself shake things off. That was.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
The whole point of, of the song.
Antonia
Right, right.
Joe Rome
That was super irony.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
She's telling all these people, just shake it off. Just shake it off. She's not a person.
Antonia
She's not shake. Shaking on us.
Joe Rome
She's not a person who shakes things off.
Kitty
Right.
Joe Rome
So, so let's.
Antonia
But we will discuss so much more in the next episodes.
Joe Rome
So. Yes. You know, and once again, you know, we appreciate, we really do. We really do. If you, if you do like this.
Antonia
Episode, like, and subscribe, I mean, you can't like.
Joe Rome
And we will get better. We'll get my daughter a microphone. This is the first time we've used Riverside. And we will get better.
Antonia
Yeah, we will get better. And that is dependent on listeners and viewers like you. Thank you.
Joe Rome
Thank you.
Antonia
Thank you. Peace.
Podcast Summary: Decoding Taylor Swift — Season 2 Premiere
Episode: Taylor Swift’s ‘Life of a Showgirl’: Ironic, Raunchy Lyrics' REAL Meaning
Release Date: October 5, 2025
Hosts: Joe Romm & Toni (Antonia) Romm
This Season 2 premiere launches an in-depth analysis of Taylor Swift’s newest album, Life of a Showgirl, with a focus on lyricism, irony, and the album’s storytelling craft. Joe Romm (storytelling expert and author) and his daughter, Toni Romm (opinionated Gen Z college student), set up a season-long, song-by-song discussion of the album. Their exchanges blend generational insights, literary context, and playful banter, highlighting both critical and appreciative perspectives on Swift’s latest (and raunchiest) work.
In this engaging, reference-rich kickoff, Joe and Toni Romm exemplify how close reading, generational dialogue, and pop culture context can unlock fresh ways to appreciate (and critique) Taylor Swift’s work. Life of a Showgirl is framed as both a personal and artistic evolution for Swift — raunchier, more ironic, and meta than ever. The hosts promise deep dives for each song, always looking for hidden depths, literary connections, and cultural resonance, while also calling out the critical “hot take” culture and double standards faced by leading female artists.
This episode is essential for Swifties, pop culture observers, aspiring storytellers, or anyone seeking tools to dissect modern songwriting with nuance, humor, and heart.