Transcript
A (0:03)
Okay, so I have a question for you. How do you figure out what to do with your time during any given day? Now, I think this question matters more now than it ever has before, because if you don't have a good answer to it, if you just sort of wing it, as your day unfolds, guess what forces are going to take control of your intention. Email, Slack, social media, online chatter, YouTube streaming services this is a show about finding depth in a distracted world. And to succeed in this goal, you need a good planning system. But how do you create a system that's not only going to work, but is something you're going to stick with over time? This is what I want to talk to you about today. And I have an expert that's going to join me to help us in this conversation. Her name is Sarah Hart Unger. She's a doctor and a mother and also a planning aficionado. She's the host of the Best Laid Plans podcast on which I've been a guest. And in December, she published a book with that same name that had the subtitle A simple planning system for living a life that you love. Amazon selected it as one of the best nonfiction books of the month. So I invited Sarah on to get into the nitty gritty details of how to build a useful and realistic planning system. She even helps me figure out solutions to some problems I've been having with my own system. So there's some changes I make after talking to her. She also makes a case for why she only uses analog tools, which I think is interesting. I'm not quite sold on that, but I think it's an interesting case. So, anyways, this is a deeply practical discussion and one that I think is absolutely vital to our mission here on this show. So let's get into it. As always, I'm Cal Newport, and this is Deep Questions, the show for people seeking depth in a distracted world. And we'll get started right after the music. All right. Hey, Sarah, welcome back to the show.
B (2:15)
Thank you so much for having me on. I'm excited to be back, of course.
A (2:18)
I mean, I'm excited about your book, and I'm excited to get into the weeds on planning. I have a whole list here of practical things I want to learn from you. I want to talk about, like, what makes a good planning system good? How do you keep systems sustainable over the long run, digital versus analog, family versus personal versus work, tasks and planning and how that differs. I actually saw a lot of connections between your new book and slow productivity. So I want to get into that as well. So we're going to walk away from here with like, lots of ideas about how to get your life under control. But I want to start by just motivating this entire conversation for my audience. Like, why is planning important? We need to ask that question. Why is it being talked about? Like, why do I care about it on this show, which is largely about fighting back against digital distractions. I actually think that it's really well connected. So I'm going to give you my take for why I think planning is important, Sarah. And then I'm going to ask you to sort of give the way you think about it. Right. So from what I noticed is there was a period, I really kick it off around 2019 with Ginny O', Dell, who brought a sort of anti neoliberalism, anti capitalism critique to the world of things like planning and productivity and the sort of related topics. And essentially the anti neoliberal critique was to care too much about planning is to commoditize time to think about your efforts as things that can be turned into productive value. And the sort of ideal anti productivity vision that was being pushed, starting with Odell and then lots of commentators during the pandemic was really what you should be doing is just in an unstructured way, walking through fields and watching birds and uncommodifying your life. And that this was the tension between commodifying your time and watching birds in a park in San Francisco. And this was sort of the setup that never rang true for me. You know, like you, I have three kids, I have seven jobs. Like, there's a lot going on. And to me, the opposite of having a planning system is not walking through the fields and enjoying birds. It's chaos, it's stress, it's anxiety. And. And this is how I connect it back to my program here on this show. It puts you into exactly the state where the digital overlords can dominate. Because when you are overwhelmed and reactive and don't know what's going on, guess what suddenly becomes really appealing. Well, let me just pull up the phone or let me just fall back onto like email and just sort of shoot messages back and forth. Let me zone out to a streamer because it's going to numb out the anxiety I feel. So I thought of planning as a key step towards a deeper life, not as something that was getting in the way of a deeper life. And there was this sort of clash that was happening. All right, so that's my soapbox speech, but you've Been working on this topic so practically for years with your podcast and now with your book and with your blog. Why do you think about planning as being important?
