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I mean, Jesus gives this unbelievable invitation abiding me, and I'll abide in you. That's friendship language. That's relationship language. I don'. You call me Lord and master, and rightly so, but I call you friends. James says it in James 4:1 is the craziest and 4:8 is the craziest verse in the Bible. Man, draw near to me and I will draw near to you. And so a bunch of people in line were like, you talked about, you want me to love Jesus like you love Jesus. But I see you fired up. I don't have it. Like, what's wrong with me? I'm gonna Go, is there some junk in your life you gotta get rid of? It's either sin or stupid, but you've got some entanglement. You just got to get out of there, man. And you can see it in their face. I don't, I don't, I'm not going to. I'm just online in the lobby. I'm not going to be like, you know, what is it? And so it's the old puritan mortification and vivification, man. You got to kill the sin and not just the sin. You got to kill the stupid. If you spend more time scrolling than in scripture, bro, you, it's just, you're. Your heart is going to be damp towards the Lord, not on fire towards the Lord. And then you've also got to cultivate the things that, that grow your heart for Jesus. And again, it's, it might not be demonic, it might just be dumb. So if you spend the majority of your time chasing money and chasing likes and you're, you will not be cultivating your love for Jesus. You just will not be, you know, and so to one of the folks that ask, she's 25 years old, sweet, sweet as possible. She's moving here in three weeks or something. And then I was, because she's, I was like, listen, you're just thinking about yourself too much, man. If you just think around, evaluating how you feel all the time, it's. It is a one to one relationship with depression. You got to. I was like, do you serve? She's like, I don't do anything. I was like, all right, you just sit around and evaluate how you feel about God and is it enough or not. I was like, quit. Get in the game. Like, I spend the majority of my life trying to serve people, whether it's through preaching or like, you know, even when I'm studying the Bible, I'm not even just studying it for me, I'm like, lord, I got to understand this so I can be a conduit of your word. It makes me love him more. You start, you start caring about other people. Your heart for God grows because your dependence on him grows. These things matter. Yeah, because. And, but if you spend your whole life chasing after this world. So dude, Chris and I, she's, she's at the retreat center. She's writing a bunch of devos for the Women's encounter. So she went up there and so I FaceTimed her right before I was preaching, just asked for prayer and stuff and we were chatting and somehow we got on this conversation and I was like, is there anything materially that you want? And listen, man, some people would look at us, you know, it's all three little bears, right? So do we have money? Depends on who you're talking to. You know, there were some people, as compared to when I was a youth pastor, we're doing okay. There's a bunch of people I know in our church, and they were like, you poor pastor. Okay, whatever, whatever. That's how it always is. No matter how much you have. That's what it is, right? And she was just like, there is no thing in this, on this planet that I desire. I just want. Honestly, she's like, if I could buy just my kids to be on fire for Jesus, you know, and they know the Lord. That's it. What she's describing is there's nothing this planet could give me that could satisfy me. I have Jesus. And then after that, it's just your family, right? And think about it. What she's doing right now is she's got her Bible open first in. In second Corinthians 5:17. Is that new creation or is it first Corinthians, second Corinthians, second Corinthians, 5:17. And she's writing devote five days worth of devotions on what it means to be a new creation. So she's eyeball deep trying to hear from God to speak to women at the Women's Encounter. So her taste buds in that moment are not tuned up for, you know, I really do need some boots or need a car, whatever. None of that. All that stuff seems like, what is that? It's just fluff. That's what. Like an abiding relationship with Jesus. Is it? We've talked about this a million times. The spiritual disciplines is how you get there. That's how you cultivate your relationship with Jesus. There's 10 million books on it. There's about 800. You know, everybody's got this whole formula. As far as I can tell, it's always going to boil down to just three things. God's presence, God's Word, and God's people. That's it. So you get serious about doing those things, God's presence. And it's usually kind of like there's two edges of the sword. It's like God's presence is corporately, it's worship. Privately is prayer. Those things, God's Word, you got to be reading it for yourself and you got to be studying it together, like whether that's in a sermon or like in a group, you know, and it's God's people. You gotta be together with some people, like receiving, and you gotta be serving some people. You get those things right and that the whole John 15 is a garden illustration. There's gonna be some pruning, some cutting out of some junk, some weeds, and then there's gonna be some feeding of good growth. And then I'm telling you, dude, you wanna fight temptation in your life, get, get on the offense in regards to God's presence, God's people, and God's word, and man, it's almost like you ain't got time for that. The things of this world.