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Tom
Foreign.
Host
Did I scare you?
Schwartz
I'm sorry for that. Was that cruel? I'm just excited here. I'm tempted to put the tree up already. Guys. It's my favorite time of the year. It's fall. My local CBS has decked the F out. And decorations technically for you summer lovers. We still have a few weeks of summer, but count your day, summer lovers, because fall is here. That's right. Sunday Fun day parlays Pumpkin spice. Hooray for the holidays. Pour one out for the holidays. But for some horror. Spooky season is the reason for this episode. As far as I'm concerned, it starts September 1st. Technically I'm waiting until October 1st for the decorations to go up, but mentally, I'm already covered in cobweb. Yeah, you wanna know what my brain sounds like right now? Let me show you a little sneak preview.
Tom
Earth, Air, Fire, Water. Air.
Schwartz
Yeah, you guys get the reference? Love the craft. One of the all time classic fall October movies. The original, not the remake. All the remake's not bad either, but yeah, man, I got a special episode I won't yap too much. We're gonna go downtown Los Angeles to one of the most haunted hotels in all of la and we're gonna chill with its unofficial ambassador, Pete Monzingo. Maybe you're one of his 22 million YouTube followers. He's a singer, writer, musician, performer, great human being. Love his content. Have you guys ever tried absinthe? By the way, can we talk a little bit about absinthe? It's, you know, it's steeped in lore to me, is very magical and ritualistic. I dig absinthe. So absinthe is a strong emerald green spirit born in 18th century Switzerland. Made from a mix of wormwood, anise and fennel. Nicknamed the Green Fairy. Became the go to drink of artists, writers, cool ass Bohemians in the 19th century in Paris. What a time to be alive. By the way. Vibes were vibing. But it fueled some awesome myths that it caused hallucinations or even madness. Absinthe, Madness in reality. All right, I don't want to be a buzzkill, but it just had a really high alcohol content. It carried an aura of danger because of. Wormwood contains trace amounts of thone, which is the culprit for all of these myths. Thone is a psychoactive chemical found in plants like sage, wormw, mugwort. Yeah, but it's the culprit for its supposed mind bending effects. You know, the doses are so small, it doesn't really have the magical effect at Least not here in the US where it's highly regulated, apparently. Allegedly. And I still like to believe some of the stuff in Europe will make you trip out. We're gonna trip out a little bit. Maybe you've heard the term. Yeah, absent madness. But originally it was used medicinal. And a French psychiatrist flawed experiment linked wormwood to insanity, leading to public panic bans in the early 20th century. So, yeah, man, I'm excited to drink some absinthe, hang out with Pete, and we're gonna vibe out. I love the way it tastes. It's got a nice flavor. Licorice. And I love the ritual. Traditionally, you place a sugar cube on a little spoon and you let it dissolve with cold water dripping down into the absinthe and it creates like this cloudy, milky drink. And it's very cool, man. It's steeped in lore. Just like the Cecil Hotel, which is allegedly the most haunted hotel in Los Angeles. I've been close to there. It does have a weird energy. I won't say a dark energy. Maybe it's a figment of my imagination or just all of the stories and history seeping in to my psyche, but I'm gonna stop yap. I'm gonna go down there. So get out your sugar cube, some cold water and some absinthe, and let's drip, drop our minds into a spooky little loosh. Next stop, the Cecil Hotel.
Host
Pete Monzingo.
Pete Monzingo
That's right.
Schwartz
What are we doing?
Pete Monzingo
I have no idea, Pete.
Host
It's Spooky Season commencement. That's what I'm calling it.
Tom
Yes, it is.
Host
Okay, I don't start on October 1st. I start on September 1st.
Pete Monzingo
As you should.
Host
We're high fiving. We're downtown LA. Wait, do you want to introduce yourself first?
Tom
Yes.
Pete Monzingo
My name is Pete Monzingo. I'm here to tell Tom a little bit about paranormal because we are here across the street from the Cecil Hotel.
Host
Literally across the street. You guys might know Pete from YouTube. He's a singer, writer, editor, editor at large.
Pete Monzingo
At large.
Host
And he's a great human being. And yes, we are literally across the street from Hotel Cecil.
Schwartz
And I thought it was still open.
Host
It's not open.
Pete Monzingo
No, it closed in 2020.
Host
It closed in 2020.
Pete Monzingo
Or no, 2017.
Host
Actually, you guys probably know Pete, but if you don't, after this podcast, go watch his videos. They're so good. Educational and uplifting and hilarious and spooky.
Pete Monzingo
And spooky.
Host
So spooky.
Tom
Yes.
Host
I love, I like, I'm partial to your spooky videos. Yeah, but we're doing the damn thing. Okay.
Pete Monzingo
And it's Halloween now, so it's Halloween every day here.
Host
Honestly, as far as I'm concerned, it's Halloween right now. Yeah, I'm gonna go home on a macar with pumpkin.
Pete Monzingo
What are you gonna be this year for Halloween?
Host
I haven't thought about it yet. Maybe a Backstreet Boy. I really want to see the residency at the Sphere. Have you seen this?
Pete Monzingo
No, but I want to too.
Host
Me too. By the way, Pete was in a boy band. We're going to talk about that later. Well, multiple boy bands. Yes, yes.
Pete Monzingo
Fortunately and unfortunately.
Host
Yes, we're going to talk about that. I'm very jealous because I always low key, had like this closet pipe dream of being in a boy band. I could see it back in the TRL days, you know, when NSYNC and Backstreet Boys were charting. Trl? Carson Daly. What you know about that?
Pete Monzingo
I mean. Wait, what's trl? Is that Don't Go Chasing Waterfalls?
Host
No. Total Request live on mtv. Oh, I just aged myself. Wait, how old are you?
Tom
18. You guys.
Host
Oh, my God. Wait, I want to ask you something. I don't want to get right off the top. I don't want to get too heavy.
Tom
Okay, Okay.
Host
I want to keep things light. But I want to ask you, how does it feel to be a part of the black community? I think you've seen enough tiktoks to know what I'm talking about.
Tom
I am dead.
Pete Monzingo
Did you see the video? I did.
Host
No, I didn't see your.
Pete Monzingo
Oh, thank God.
Host
Oh, I didn't see it.
Pete Monzingo
Well, basically.
Tom
Okay.
Pete Monzingo
My great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great, great great grandmother is Queen Azinga Angola. So you can actually see like a tree chart in the other room where you can trace it down my family line to me.
Host
Oh, you have receipts and lineage.
Pete Monzingo
I sure do.
Host
You guys, I was making a kind of a cheap joke. This is. I was alluding to a TikTok trend that started back in like May.
Tom
Yep.
Host
Do you know what I'm talking about?
Pete Monzingo
Absolutely.
Host
And yes, essentially, like red haired people. I won't call you a ginger.
Pete Monzingo
You can. No, Ginger.
Host
Ginger got inducted, accepted into the black community because it's like there was, you know, much like them. There's some parallels. You guys have been othered, if you will. Is that okay for me to say that?
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, it's like.
Host
I mean, it's like in some, in, in some parts of the world, bullied, fetishized or Even, like, that part's fine, though.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
I'm just kidding.
Host
That's the absinthe talking.
Pete Monzingo
I know, right?
Tom
Yes.
Host
We're drinking absinthe.
Tom
Oh, God.
Host
We're going to talk about it. But no, but it's like, there's some parallels there. And on the surface it's funny, but there are some deeper, you know, parallels.
Pete Monzingo
There are really?
Host
Have you experienced this, by the way?
Pete Monzingo
I mean, like.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Just because of the color of your hair, people want to touch your hair.
Tom
Yes, yes.
Pete Monzingo
I mean, people always are commenting on my hair. They're always wanting to touch my hair. I'm, like, walking on the street and people are rolling on their windows, like, oh, my go. Your hair color, like. And then the worst part is that when I moved to la, it was at a time where, like, gingers were very. Like, they. They weren't in commercials, they weren't in movies. They weren't. And I came to LA to be an actor at first. And so, like, the fact that now that I am, like, a creator, not an actor, and then now it's cool to be a ginger, I'm like, okay, what's happening?
Host
Where was this credibility when I needed it?
Pete Monzingo
Exactly.
Host
It's like, you get now, you know, back in the day, you had people driving by. Do you have a soul?
Tom
Yeah.
Host
And making cheap south park jokes and stuff like that, but.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Did you experience any bullying and stuff growing up as a kid because of the color of your hair?
Pete Monzingo
I would say not until I came to la, really, but it was. I mean, you know, when you're in a dwarf family, usually the jokes are on the dwarves.
Host
Yes.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah.
Host
Yes. And we're gonna talk about that. We can talk about it right now. How's your mom?
Pete Monzingo
She's okay.
Host
She's okay.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
She was in and out of the hospital again, so.
Host
Okay. I'm sorry to hear that. You guys. You guys have. So.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
You come from a family with dwarfism, and that's, like, one thing you feature on your YouTube channels a lot. It's uplifting.
Tom
Hey. Hi.
Schwartz
How's it.
Host
It's okay. Should we stop and say hi?
Pete Monzingo
We should.
Tom
Hey.
Host
All right, we're gonna pause, guys. One sec. We'll pick back up. Guys, what is up?
Schwartz
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Host
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Host
We're back.
Tom
We're back.
Host
The absinthe's kicking in.
Pete Monzingo
I've never been drunk in my life.
Host
Any hallucinations yet?
Tom
I don't know.
Host
It's a myth. But it's, it's a, it's a fun myth to embrace.
Pete Monzingo
Only in America. It's a myth because I was in Europe last year and I was hallucinating because I made my brother and I do a shot of absinthe and then we were like floating around like fairies for the next fucking six hours.
Host
So that's the common lore. The common myth is if you drink absinthe, you hallucinate. It's been dispelled for the most part because. So there's. Okay, in, in absinthe there's an ingredient called wormwood.
Tom
Okay.
Host
And the, and the psychoactive component in there is called thuhon.
Tom
Through whom?
Host
Thuhone.
Tom
Through home.
Host
And that's the one that's supposed to make you see the green fairies, but I guess over the years it's been dispelled and they said people just hallucinated because they just drank too much. And, and the OG stuff, maybe some of the stuff that you had in Europe still has a very high apv, very high alcohol content. So if you drink enough of anything that strong, you're probably going to hallucinate.
Tom
Wow. Yeah.
Host
Wait, can you tell me about your experience drinking it? You were in Paris?
Pete Monzingo
I was in Paris. We were at the Paralympics with. And I went with my brother.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And we, I was like, andrew, let's go to the bar because we leave in two Days. And we have to have, like, a crazy night. And so we go to the bar, we get absent because he's like, whatever you want. And I'm like, all right, well, if he's giving me the opportunity, I'm going to just fuck him up. And Me, too.
Host
That was your first choice?
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
I do everything for reactions. So honestly, I'm like, he's gonna, like, lose his shit. And he did. And I'm so happy. No regrets.
Tom
Wait, did you.
Host
So, wait, are you half joking, or did you actually feel some sort of visuals when you did it?
Pete Monzingo
No, I did.
Schwartz
You did.
Pete Monzingo
But I'm the kind of person who also just, like, gets in my head.
Host
So kind of like a psychosomatic thing.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
I'm like, oh, wait. Oops. Maybe like, after you said that, I'm like, okay, I totally would believe that. I, like, did that to myself somehow.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
The placebo effect a little bit. It's like you expect you're gonna hallucinate. Or if we go to Hotel Cecil and you really expect to see a ghost, you might manifest that.
Pete Monzingo
Well, that's. That's the. That's different.
Tom
Yeah. Though.
Host
Yes.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
No, we're gonna get into that.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
If that's cool with you.
Tom
Yes.
Pete Monzingo
Yes.
Host
But, no. Contrary to popular belief, I don't think. Well, you just. I'm. Now you've thrown me for a loop. Pete. Pete says he hallucinated in Paris on absinthe. I mean, I love the lore. Now I just want to know more about your experience. I don't say, you know my experience. That's so cliche. Don't say you saw a green fairy.
Pete Monzingo
I did not. I just saw my brother. He's pretty much a green fairy.
Host
Okay. No, it's like. It's kicking in now. All of a sudden, I want to paint something and I want to chop one of my ears off. Oh, no.
Pete Monzingo
As long as it's one of yours, not mine.
Host
Van Gogh. Van Gogh reference.
Tom
Oh, God.
Pete Monzingo
I don't.
Host
Van Gogh, the artist.
Pete Monzingo
I mean, I know he's an artist, but.
Host
Well, he's famous, like, for drinking absinthe and, oh, writing. Terribly sad, Dear John letters.
Pete Monzingo
And do you think that is part of a success? Absinthe is.
Host
Well, like we talked about earlier.
Schwartz
Pain. Pain.
Host
Not necessary for great art. But it does help fuel great art.
Pete Monzingo
I believe that.
Host
Right. Yes. And Pete is in pain because he's painstakingly edit. Editing a video right now.
Tom
Yes.
Host
But it's gonna be a classic. One for the ages.
Tom
Yes.
Host
One for the ages. By the Way I tried. So we have all the classic stuff here, guys. Sorry for no video. We have the sugar cubes. We have absinthe. We tried to get the loosh. It's when. So when you add the water to it, it gets that milky opalescence. It's called louche. It's from the. It's when the oils from the. The anise are released.
Pete Monzingo
How do you know all of this?
Host
Well, I used to love absinthe. I have one of those traditional absinthe dispensers. And, yeah, I was an absinthe guy.
Tom
Wow. Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
I would never have guessed, by the.
Host
Way, randomly, before I came here. And I didn't go looking for it. This happened organically. I saw one of your videos. It was what you. It was a YouTube short. You trying Adderall for the first time. And it was so funny because it took me back to when I was in college and. Do you remember taking Adderall for the first time?
Tom
Yes.
Host
Yes. Can you tell me about it?
Pete Monzingo
I called my doctor and I said, I just had a coffee when the Adderall kicked in, and I feel like I'm gonna die. And he goes, don't drink coffee again. You're really sensitive. You're only on 5 milligrams. But I think we need to make sure that you. We, you know, moderate your. Your intake of caffeine. And so naturally, when he said that, I'm like, I'm gonna drink coffee every day from now on because it was such a rush, but don't do that.
Host
You chased your first Adderall with caffeine?
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, I just didn't know. I didn't ask the pharmacist anything because I didn't know you're supposed to. I was like, 19.
Host
What did you. What did you. Did you utilize it or do you just go about your day?
Pete Monzingo
I utilized. I ended up utilizing it because I was like, okay, if I take it when I need to, like for homework or for projects, because I was in college. And then now, though, unfortunately, I feel like I have to take it every day.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
But I'll go back to that.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
The first time I took it, I waited and I procrastinated. So the night before for a biochemistry final in college, and I was crying and I called my friend Kayla because I knew she had Adderall in a last ditch effort, and I took one and I went into the Matrix.
Tom
Yep.
Host
I studied all night to edm. Sorry. I don't know why I'm getting excited. And I know I ended up Getting like a B plus just for cramming.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
The night before.
Pete Monzingo
Worth it.
Host
Accumulative final too. So everything we learned all year and then.
Pete Monzingo
Did you try it ever since?
Host
I dabbled.
Tom
Okay.
Host
But I was like, you know what? I had a really good experience. I think I'm going to leave on a high note.
Tom
Yeah. Yeah.
Host
I don't want to make a Costanza reference because I don't know if you'll get it. Seinfeld.
Pete Monzingo
Oh no, I wouldn't see.
Host
Yeah, he didn't know what TRL was. Total request Live.
Pete Monzingo
I live under a rock.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
But yeah, you, your. We took. Oh, we. Oh, before we stop talking. Your family has dwarfism. Yes. And well, the preferred nomenclature is little people or.
Tom
Yes.
Host
Not never.
Pete Monzingo
Never.
Host
Yeah, never.
Pete Monzingo
That's like saying ginger exactly by the.
Host
That was at the top. I said that jokingly. I would never call you a ginger. Yes.
Pete Monzingo
I don't care.
Host
But it is, it is disparaging. Yes. Okay. Yeah, that's what I thought. But family's doing okay.
Tom
Yeah, they're okay. Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
I'm really excited cuz my niece just turned 4 and or 5. Oh God, I'm turbo uncle. But she finally got offered trach. Well, she still has a trach, but she doesn't have to be hooked up to a machine anymore. So she actually has double, double dwarfism which is a 25% chance for her. And that means she got my brother's type of dwarfism and my sister in law's type of dwarfism and usually they die and she made it and so she's one of the few out there in the world.
Host
That's a beautiful thing.
Tom
It is.
Host
Thank you for the education, by the way. I've never even heard of that.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, it's crazy.
Host
So it's, it significantly increases your chances or it reduces your. No. Increases your mortality rate a thousand percent. Oh my God.
Tom
Okay.
Pete Monzingo
And my brother is a type of dwarfism that like is not in the books. So he's his own type. He gets to name it and everything. And so he decided to have children, which is fine because he ended up healthy and his wife is very healthy. But then the, the youngest, my youngest niece ended up just getting really an unfortunate, you know, luck of the draw.
Schwartz
Yeah, well, I'm sorry to hear that, but it's okay.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, she's persevering.
Host
She's persevering. She's not, she's, she's thriving.
Pete Monzingo
She's thriving.
Host
Not just surviving. Yeah, she's thriving.
Pete Monzingo
She is.
Host
I love to Hear that?
Tom
Yeah.
Host
It's uplifting, like your videos.
Pete Monzingo
Thank you.
Host
I love your videos. I'm fangirling out a little bit. I've known. I've known you for a while. I know.
Pete Monzingo
Wait, the Hills. Wait, what is it? The Hills? What's the new one?
Host
That was a predecessor, actually. I think you could say our show. Well, you could say all the shows like that were a derivative of the OG Housewives of Orange County. Well, our show was actually. We had the same executive producer, Bill Langworthy, that was on the Hills. He did Vanderpump Rules the first nine seasons, actually.
Tom
Wow.
Host
Yeah. So history there. Yeah, a little reality TV history.
Pete Monzingo
That's cool.
Host
Wait, did you watch our show?
Pete Monzingo
Well, I watched, you know, bits and pieces, the big parts.
Host
Don't say that.
Pete Monzingo
I'm not gonna say it.
Host
Don't say the word.
Pete Monzingo
I don't know you're talking.
Host
Don't say the s word.
Pete Monzingo
I'm not.
Host
All right, this is Spooky Season commencement kickoff. It's going down right across. Right across the alley from Hotel Cecil. Can you tell us a little bit about this place? I feel like you're an expert.
Tom
I am.
Host
You might be the go to expert in Los Angeles.
Pete Monzingo
Okay. A year ago, you could type in a GPS Pete Monzingo, and it would route you to the Hotel Cecil on every maps online. Not anymore, though, since I kind of slowed down on the content. But the Hotel cecil is now 100 years old as of last December 21, 2024. So it is actually. It has 18 reported deaths. Reported deaths. But there have been over 800 deaths total since its opening. And you don't see it. You don't hear about it. You only hear about the things that have, like, made the news. And since I've been here, even in the last year, I've seen, or I would say year and a half, I've seen somebody jump off the roof. Never reported, never online, never anything I could ever find. And I, like, go in the depths, you know, rabbit hole style.
Host
You witnessed this from your. Your apartment here?
Tom
Yes, I.
Pete Monzingo
Yes. I was standing right there looking up, and I'm, like, at the window open. I'm like, stop, stop. Don't help. Like. And I was calling 911 and he jumped, and then they carried off his body. And, like, not a trace. Like, nothing you can find the news didn't report or anything.
Host
From the top floor on the roof. Yeah, I'm looking at the roof right now, guys.
Pete Monzingo
You can see the. The fire escape on the right there. You see all the balconies.
Host
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And that's what Elisa Lam's path was to the girl from 10 years ago.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Which I want to talk about a little bit. Yes, there's been.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
So that's interesting. Reported. Yeah. 16 reported.
Pete Monzingo
18.
Host
18 reported. I know about the first suicide in 1931, I think it was. I did a little. I did a show. I did a shallow dive. So a woman checked into the hotel and she later jumped from a window and unalived herself.
Tom
Yep.
Schwartz
I can.
Host
Pete, I'm, like, literally taken aback. I don't even know what to say. You witnessed that with your own eyes.
Pete Monzingo
I've witnessed. I mean, I was held at gunpoint there. I was.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Wait, we can't just brush over that. Can you talk us up to that moment? What were the moments leading before? Were you doing when you're doing a video?
Pete Monzingo
Okay, so basically, where it stood last, when they reopened the building, it was a grand reopening for the low income homeless. Because before that, before COVID the owners, they have a pro for profit business, and they wanted to completely redo the entire hotel and do a rooftop pool and bar and like, all this weird. That's actually kind of disrespectful because of Lisa Lamb and all of, like, the deaths and stuff. Like, I would never be up there lounging, chilling, getting that, like a drink right next to the water tanks. Like, that's weird.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And so when Covid happened, they struck a deal with the Skid Row Housing Trust, where basically they didn't have to worry about, like, remarketing, redoing anything, and they saved, what was it, like, 80% on redoing the entire building to just kind of code so that they can get people in there and then have, like, a profit without trying. And that's why they repainted the. The signs on the side of the building, because they didn't. They wanted to be really inconspicuous. And so I started, like, talking about this online in my videos and things, and the owner ended up trying to do a cease and desist on me. And then insider did, like, a whole report, like, and pivoted me against the owner. And then we were, like, talking at each other, and then they banned me from going into the building. And then as soon as I realized I was banned, I was like, I have to go in tomorrow. So then I went in the next day. I was like, them, I do what I want.
Host
Wait, this is insane. You've made a name for yourself? Well, a reputation, for better or worse. Oh, My God.
Pete Monzingo
And so it's like they.
Host
They accused you of running a smear campaign against the hotel almost or, like, tarnishing it. Yeah, they're trying to rebrand. Yes, it's.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, they weren't even rebranding at that point because it was like they had given up on it. They didn't want to put in the work and the money because they're like, oh, we'll just sign off on the. The homeless. But the thing is, the homeless are now moving out because it's safer on the streets than it is at the Cecil Hotel.
Host
Really?
Tom
Yes.
Schwartz
Wow.
Host
So it's haunted in a different sense of the word now.
Pete Monzingo
It's all the sense of the word.
Host
Listen, it has a fascinating history. I know. Richard. Richard Ramirez, the night stalker, stayed there, I think his room Fact checked me. 14th floor.
Tom
Yep.
Host
Yes, 14th floor. By the way, you guys, the night soccer back In, I think, 84 and 85, he went on a vicious, nasty killing spree where he raped and murdered many women. Super twisted. I was reading some stuff from his trial, by the way. His trial began in 89, and in September he was convicted of 13 murders and a variety of other twisted crimes. And two months later, he was sentenced to death. Do you know about this?
Tom
Yeah.
Host
And this. This struck me with the judge saying that his crime showed, and this is a quote, cruelty, cruelty, callousness and viciousness beyond any human understanding. And he never expressed any remorse. I think is the last thing he said was, big deal. Death always went with this territory, which is like. That haunts me a little bit.
Pete Monzingo
You know what's even crazier is that. Well, I mean, that's crazy as is. But my hairdresser person, Pete, has great hair. Thank you so much.
Schwartz
We should have video.
Host
He has the best. And we'll come back to this.
Tom
Okay.
Pete Monzingo
I was telling her about the hotel Cecil and all of this, and she ended up telling me her dad was a cellmate with Richard Ramirez. And she would only. Well, not only go to see Richard Ramirez, but she would go obviously see her dad, too. But she had some sort of connection, she thought, with Richard Ramirez to where he painted a picture of her or of some sort of picture and he gave it to her. And she has it still in her house to this day. And she's like. I mean, at me. It's just like the weirdest parallel.
Schwartz
Wow.
Pete Monzingo
And I'm like, can I see it? And she said, yes. And I, like, went over to her house and I saw it and I'm like, can I please Post about this. Can I please like interview you? And she's like, no, no, no, no. Don't even say my name.
Tom
Wow.
Host
Yeah, it's controversial. I. I don't know if it was the Night Stalker, but I swear in some sort of twisted. I can't even believe, like, he had a fan club. I know he had a fan club.
Tom
Who?
Host
Women who were weird cuz I. Apparently they thought he was handsome. He looks demented to me. He's one of the scariest looking I've ever seen.
Pete Monzingo
I agree.
Host
Yeah. And he just looks. He just looks. Do you think people are. Do you think people are born evil or can be born evil?
Pete Monzingo
Is this wicked?
Host
I haven't seen wicked yet.
Tom
No.
Host
Do you think. Okay, like a psychologist would say, it's a combination of nature and nurture, genetic predisposition, environment, life experience. Essentially biology loads the gun and then your environment pulls the trigger. But I don't know.
Schwartz
I don't know.
Pete Monzingo
I think it's like, like me, I'm a twig. I'm so skinny. I've tried so hard to like, you know, be a bodybuilder, gain weight, all these things and it's like, you can do it. But I think DNA does play a point where it's like, well, good luck though. Yeah, but like you can. But is it worth the time? Like maybe that's kind of how he was of. Like maybe inherently that's just kind of his DNA and then he just kind of ran with it or something.
Host
In, in, in. In the philosophy of Theravada Buddhism, they say human beings are not born with a blank slate. Essentially, some people are born good regardless of their good or bad environment or good and bad behaviors of their parents. Some people are born bad regardless of their good or bad environment or good and bad behaviors of the parents too. That was a mouthful. But did it make sense?
Tom
Yeah, yeah.
Host
Which. I don't know. I like to lean towards the latter.
Pete Monzingo
That. That's what you think.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
I mean, yeah, I'm a. Listen, I'm a. I'm an exercise physiology major. I have a science background. But I do, I do think some people are just born wicked. I don't know. Good callback. But yeah, but can we talk about Elisa Lam?
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Just for a little bit. I know it's been covered like odd Nazi ad nauseam on the Internet. We've all talked about it. But it's like, to me, it's such a fascinating case. It really is. So can you tell everybody a little bit about it?
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
So 2013. Elisa Lam was a girl who came down from Canada who was just kind of, like, coming to LA for the first time.
Host
21 years old.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, 21 years old. And she was looking for a cheap place to stay. This is back when it was Stay on Main and Hotel Cecil. So Hotel Cecil were for the residents, and then Stay on Main was for, like, they were trying to rebrand in a creative way that was legal. So they had a separate entrance for Sam Main. And so Lisa Lam was like, oh, downtown la, that's where you go downtown. Like, that's where everything's just usually at. So she booked that hotel because it was really cheap. She didn't know it was Hotel Cecil, but she had a room with a couple other people. It was like a hostel at first, and then she started acting kind of strange, and then she ended up getting her own room, which I'll have to show you, Tom. Her room you can see from here.
Host
You can?
Tom
Yes.
Host
Oh, my God.
Pete Monzingo
And basically, long story short, she goes missing, and the. They look at security footage, and the last known footage of her was in an elevator where she was acting like she was possessed or weird or something was going on.
Host
I'll post the video for you guys if you haven't seen it. But there's a whole documentary, too. But it was. It was really uncanny and eerie to me. It almost looked like she was possessed or having. Maybe she would. I can't make a joke. I was gonna say maybe she was drinking. No, that's not funny at all. No. But it looked like she was really talking to someone. It did, didn't she? It was really eerie.
Pete Monzingo
And some people say that they can see, like, a foot, you know, like an apparition. Yeah. Or. No, like. Like. Like a shadow or something. On the end of what looks like someone's foot.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And then in other footage, it's not there, so it makes me wonder, like, if it's been tampered with.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And there's just so many other. And I have my own thoughts about it, too, living across the street. And, like, it's. It still is wild to me.
Host
You know what? You know what really sticks with me and haunts me, if you will? It's like, the fact that she was in there, I think, for 19 days. She climbed up into the water tank. It was not locked or bolted down. She was in there for 19 days. And then I guess a maintenance worker discovered her because, like, they were investigating the low water pressure and strange taste in the water.
Pete Monzingo
It was yellow.
Schwartz
It was yellow.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
I I like, I, by the way, I like thinking about this.
Tom
It.
Host
It really haunts me, you know what I mean? Like the fact that people reported strange tasting water. They were drinking it, they were bathing in it, gargling with that water. Like that really just disturbs me. 19 days. Like can you imagine if you're one of those people who was there during that time?
Pete Monzingo
No, I'm like, why didn't anyone say anything earlier? I know, like, and they had a full investigation. Like there were like. It was pretty much like the SWAT team, you know, not really, but like the LA lapd, like the top people were on this case for two weeks and then they just like gave up.
Host
It was ruled an accidental drowning.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
And they said she was bipolar and they said that she hadn't taken her medication. But it's. I don't know, it's controversial.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Like the lingering questions, how did she end up in the tank? Why did she go in there?
Pete Monzingo
Well, and what I think is they trace your scent up to that, the like the sixth floor balcony right here. But there are so many. Like they're like the cameras and work and we didn't know, but there are cameras on top of this building. There happened.
Host
There's no security footage of her going in there.
Pete Monzingo
No. And I'm like that there's something weird here because not only there's are no camera footage from any of the downtown L. A buildings all around the fucking Cecil, but it's also just all the units. Like I'm one unit right here. But There are like 100 units on facing there. And it is weird and very noticeable. If anyone were to climb up there, everyone would see it and someone would call some sort of, you know, call 911 or call somebody. And I mean it's, it's doesn't check out to me.
Host
Do you lean more towards foul play or supernatural stuff?
Pete Monzingo
I think it's a little bit of both.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
What do you think?
Host
I. I think I tend to agree.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
It's fascinating.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
If you watch the video, it's disturbing too.
Pete Monzingo
And I, I used to like be such a skeptic with all of that. But like ever since I moved in here, I would start noticing things at the Cecil, like things moving or never apparitions, but definitely like curtains moving or like lights or just a ton of stuff. And that's kind of when I started shifting my perspective on the Elisa Lam thing is because I'm like, okay. At first I was like she was bipolar. And then I'm like, okay, based on What I've seen with my eyes. Maybe it's a mix, maybe it's. I don't know anymore.
Host
The building does have an energy, a presence. I've never been in there. Right, but you've spent a lot of time in there. It does have, would you say a negative energy?
Pete Monzingo
Yes. Okay, the top floor specifically?
Host
Yes, the top floor. And like, I don't know, some people are like, I, I. Based on what I know, I'd be like, that building's cursed. But other people will say it's like a self fulfilling prophecy shaped by years of tragic press coverage and stuff like that, you know? But I don't know. Why do we feel, why do we.
Schwartz
Feel compelled to visit haunted spots?
Pete Monzingo
Is it the mystery?
Host
The mystery? Yeah, the, the endorphins. The adrenaline rush too.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Also, it's just like, I don't know when, when, when facing, you know, the existential dread. We're all gonna die someday. It's like. You hope there's an afterlife. I don't know. I believe in ghosts.
Tom
Me too.
Host
Do you?
Pete Monzingo
Well, lately, in the last five years. Yeah.
Host
Have you ever had like a remarkable ghostly encounter?
Tom
Yes.
Pete Monzingo
Here actually, after I did a ghost investigations, I came back here and there were like three big things that happened in this. Where you're, where you're at right now.
Schwartz
I had a little.
Host
Wait, can you talk about it if you're not comfortable?
Pete Monzingo
Oh, I should talk about it.
Host
Oh, okay.
Pete Monzingo
The first one was the first day I moved in and I, I didn't even know about the Hotel Cecil because I, I just moved here because it was the cheapest spot I could find. And I was, I didn't have a place to live.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And so I'm like, okay, I'll just do this. And then when I'm at my housewarming party, everyone's like, you know the Hotel Cecil? And that's kind of where it all started for me. But that first day I had a roommate and we had this old TV right here in front of us in the living room. And there was a water bottle on top and it was half full and it was like 1pm all the windows were shut. No wind, no fan on, nothing. We're just watching tv and all of a sudden the water bottle, it, it looks like it got hit and it went all the way to like the thermostat where the keys are there. Like from there to there, that's like.
Host
Guys, just so you know, it's like 10ft maybe.
Pete Monzingo
At least.
Host
At least 10ft.
Pete Monzingo
Yes.
Host
So it wasn't just like a subtle tip over. The windows were closed. Yeah, there's not a strong ac. And I mean, there's ac, but it's not like enough to nothing.
Pete Monzingo
And that's never. And I've been here so long and like, that's never happened since at all.
Host
Did you get that feeling in your spine or did you get that?
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
Even though I didn't believe in ghosts at the time, I was like, it must be some weird thing.
Host
From a physics standpoint, it's not possible.
Pete Monzingo
It's not.
Host
But it happened. It happened, witnessed it.
Pete Monzingo
And then nothing happened after that until I started posting online and I started getting into the Hotel Cecil stuff. And so that's actually how I launched my YouTube channel is just paranormal content. TikTok was more family, but YouTube was more paranormal. And so that I got back from my first trip across the country where I went to 25 different haunted locations and then I, like, landed in the mother of all asylums and I did a collab there. And then the day I came back, not only was all my footage corrupt and I lost all my hard drives, my computer didn't work anymore. My phone footage from that location was corrupt as well. But that night I got into bed and I heard. I. I've never heard this in my life. I go to close my eyes and I hear Pete. And I'm facing out the window. My bed's like, on the other side of the wall right there.
Host
Are you asleep or semi asleep or just chilling?
Pete Monzingo
Just laid down. I, like, I didn't even close my eyes.
Host
You're fully conscious?
Tom
Yes.
Pete Monzingo
But I keep tricking myself into thinking that I was, like, part of sleep. But I had to come to the realization that, like, I was not. And I knew in my spine and my soul that I have left since I'm a ginger. If I were to turn around, I.
Host
Had to ask permission to laugh. He said, it's okay, it's okay.
Pete Monzingo
I knew if I had turned around in that moment, I would have seen something. And at that point, I kind of like did own deliverance on me because I'm Christian, so I'm like, in Jesus name. I'm like, hopefully this works. And I just, like, went to bed.
Host
Yeah, you just rolled over. So you said a prayer and you rolled over and went to bed.
Pete Monzingo
I. I didn't. I was already rolled over. If I had rolled back over, I'm pretty sure I would have seen, like, something crazy. And I'm like, I'm not going to do that.
Schwartz
Wow.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And then There was one other thing that happened, and then. Do you want me to tell it?
Host
Is that okay?
Tom
Yeah. Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
This happened not even a year ago. And I was sitting here, around here, wherever. Like, my desk was at the time, and I was editing, and it was like 3 or 4am Witching hour, and I had, at the time, my creative director here, and we were, like, really going in on an edit. And all of a sudden I hear a. And we look at each other, and I'm like, did you do that?
Host
Like. Like, almost like. Or like, at the door?
Pete Monzingo
It was. It was. It was like on the wall, slash, door.
Tom
It.
Pete Monzingo
It sounded like it was at the door. And sometimes, like, you can hear the units above if they have heels or something. Like, I can kind of now discern, like, what's what. But that was definitely, like, on the wall or on the door. And so I go and. And look, and I. I open out, like, out the door immediately. And it's all, like, lit up. We have sensors out in the hallway. And so again, it's that time of night, 3 or 4am, and I'm like, why? Like, if the lights are on, someone was right here. But it's been like three seconds and no one's here. So I was like, tripping out, and we were just looking at each other. I closed the door and he gives me a look, and I give him a look back, like, yeah, nothing. And then I go to lock the door, right? When I go lock the door, the same thing happens again. And I'm like, do I. Do I check again? I'm like, whispering, like someone can fucking hear us, you know? And he's like, I don't know. And so I open the door immediately, and nothing there again. And I'm like, all right. And then I bought my house a month later. No shit. Seriously? I'm like, I can't do this. Like, it's killing me, you know?
Host
So for the listeners.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Pete has his work studio downtown. It's amazing in here, but he also just bought a beautiful home.
Pete Monzingo
Yes, in the Valley, right next to Universal. Well, Universal City.
Host
Yeah, Universal City. Okay. It's a great spot.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, it is.
Host
How's the house coming along?
Pete Monzingo
It's peaceful, which is nice, but it's not haunted. Yeah, I mean, it might be haunted, though.
Host
Wait, what? Are you joking?
Pete Monzingo
I don't know. I don't know if I'm psyching myself out or not, but there's some things you'll have to come over and check.
Host
Well, it's like, okay, one thing that prevents me from going and staying in like a haunted Airbnb or something. There's. Every once in a while I. You hear about spirits or entities that.
Schwartz
Can cling to you.
Host
Not like inhabit your your. But like cling to you and sort of linger.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
I've had to have a deliverance because of that.
Schwartz
Wait, what?
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
You really never talked about that?
Tom
But yeah.
Host
Like an exorcism or like a low key exorcism.
Pete Monzingo
Yes, but I literally like was like. And then like my eyes were rolling the back of my head. I mean, this before I even moved to la.
Host
Did you document that?
Tom
No.
Pete Monzingo
Oh, this is before.
Host
That's very intimate in a way.
Tom
It was.
Pete Monzingo
I mean, it changed me forever, honestly.
Tom
Wow. Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And so that's why I'm like kind of weary about like opening the door to it again. But I'm like, but the views and also like, I'm interested in it, you know?
Tom
Yeah.
Host
But okay, so I, I like, I love that you think that's a real concern too. I don't think that's a figment of my imagination.
Pete Monzingo
You think it's a concern too?
Host
Yes. I, I just, I've never, I've. I love watching scary movies and stuff, but I've never really went to like. I don't know how you did what you did across the country. I didn't know you went. I have to go back and watch your old stuff.
Pete Monzingo
Would you ever come with me?
Host
I would love to do one with you.
Pete Monzingo
Okay.
Host
But we might have to do like a seance or something. I've Not a sans, but a cleanse afterwards. Yeah, a spiritual cleanse, if you're cool with that.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Just to be safe.
Tom
Yes. Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
I feel intense all of a sudden.
Host
Dude, that's really. I didn't know any of this.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, it's crazy.
Host
Well, you guys, I've known Pete for a while, but like, I didn't know I'd never done a deep dive with you.
Tom
Yeah.
Schwartz
That's so cool.
Pete Monzingo
Have you ever had any paranormal experiences?
Host
I did 11 years of reality TV. It was pretty spooky.
Pete Monzingo
Fair, Fair.
Host
No, I haven't, I haven't. Katie, who's my ex wife and my dear friend, she's had a lot of supernatural experiences. There was one time when me and Katie got our first apartment together on Kings in Santa Monica. She said, I woke up in the middle of the night and I. And I remember I saw like an old man sitting in the chair.
Tom
You saw it like.
Host
Yeah, like an apparition or something. And I think. I think I drifted off and just went right back to sleep. But it scared the bejesus out of Katie. And from that day on, she said she always felt a presence in there. Not a malignant one, or is that what they say? Malignant?
Pete Monzingo
Malicious.
Host
Malicious ghosts. There's. There's benign ghosts. And yes, I'm not. Yeah, but she said it was just a neutral one. But it was enough for us to not want to stay there longer than we had to. But I've never. Now, have you ever. So wait, have you ever seen an apparition?
Pete Monzingo
I don't know. The only apparition.
Host
Drink up.
Tom
Absolutely.
Pete Monzingo
Please, just like put it in my cup.
Host
No, I'm just kidding, you guys. By the way, the absinthe. Well, it's spooky season, but we're like, listen, if we're not going to be able to go into Hotel Cecil and experience the supernatural, we'll just drink enough.
Pete Monzingo
Until we see ghosts. Just kidding.
Host
No, no. Sorry, you were saying?
Pete Monzingo
So I thought like, when was this? It was like 2019 or 2020 or something. The. I had not seen anybody in this hotel since I moved in at all. There was zero of anything. And then I woke up one. One night at like 1 or 2am and I had to pee.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And I. So I wake up, my bed's right next to my window. And so I open my eyes and I'm like, there's somebody on the balcony at the Cecil. And I'm like, that's not possible. I've never seen anyone here. The hotel is closed. It's been closed since 2017. And I like, I kept blinking like I must be asleep. Must be asleep. And then I'm like, okay. At that moment, his head turns and looks at me and I'm like, how could he even see me? Because my lights are off in my apartment and the Cecil is right across the street.
Host
So like eye contact?
Pete Monzingo
I mean, from what it felt like, yeah, like his head turned, like almost like in a creepy way. But I'm like, he doesn't look like a ghost. Because I thought that initially I was like, it's a ghost. And I'm like, okay, well, I barely even believe in ghosts. And he doesn't look like a ghost. Maybe he's a homeless person. Maybe like, I don't know what the fuck's going on. And so I was like, okay, I have an idea. If I run from one side of my apartment all the way to the other and I fort giant windows. So I'm like, if his head Turns. As I'm moving from one side to the other, I'm gonna know he's actually looking at me. And then. That's creepy. Doesn't make any sense because the lights are off. How can he see me? And I do that. And his head turns. And, like, on the fourth window, I had a couch in there. And as I'm thinking, he's looking at me as his head turning. I duck behind the couch, and I'm like, what the fuck?
Tom
What the fuck?
Schwartz
What the fuck?
Pete Monzingo
What do I do? What do I do? What do I do? You know, kind of a thing. And then I'm like, wait, but no one's living there. How is this possible? And then I kind of peer up, and he's gone. And he was smoking a cigar. I remember that specifically. He was like a white man who was a little bit shorter and bigger. And then I went to look up online, and there was kind of someone who matched that identity from the same floor of someone who took their life in 1960 something.
Tom
Wow.
Pete Monzingo
And I'm like, okay, was that that guy? But I still don't think it was, because he didn't look like an apparition. Looked like a human being. So I don't know.
Host
By the way, the hiding behind the couch is the realest shit ever.
Tom
Right?
Pete Monzingo
You're always, like, crying.
Host
If you talk to. Behind a couch, you're safe from almost any entity or blankets or dinosaur or anything. No, but it's like, I think skeptics would say that the. The h. The history of the place kind of primes your pump. So it's like the power of expectation shapes your perception.
Pete Monzingo
That was before I knew about the hotel.
Host
No, no, no, no. I'm just. I'm. I'm not a skeptic, but I think skeptics would say that. You know what I mean? You go in expecting to see ghosts, you're gonna see him. But just based on our conversations today, it's, like, irrefutable.
Pete Monzingo
I mean, from my perspective.
Tom
Yeah, yeah.
Host
And it's like, you didn't. You didn't move here with preconceived notions about starting a supernatural content. No, I know. Obviously, I'm saying, yeah, was this a.
Pete Monzingo
Cheap place to live? I'm like, thank God I have a roof over my head, which.
Host
Which further corroborates your story.
Tom
Yeah. Yeah, man.
Host
It's spooky season.
Pete Monzingo
Now I know why it's so cheap too.
Tom
Okay.
Host
By the way, I've always wanted to start a YouTube channel.
Tom
Yes.
Host
Like, can you just, like, Give us some one on one likes, tips, secrets, things you've learned. Not like a full course here, not you don't have to spill your secrets, but just like for aspiring YouTube artists who are scared to start.
Pete Monzingo
Yes. So I would say I actually started my YouTube channel in 2007. Nobody cared.
Host
Oh, gee.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, so never give up. Literally, don't have a plan B. Do what you feel like you're born for. Don't take anyone's shit. Do what you feel. And if, even if it doesn't work, just keep going. Try to pivot into new things. And then the nice thing about when TikTok came out is that it changed the algorithm on YouTube shorts, on Instagram Reels, on obviously TikTok, Snapchat, everything. So now you have the opportunity since 2020 to just kind of explore whatever you want to do and whatever kind of catches, you know that there's something there and then just fucking delete everything else you did before that and then pretend like you're just starting and then, you know, like roll with it.
Host
This is good advice. It is like listen, how methodical are you about or conscious are you of the algorithm and stuff like that?
Pete Monzingo
Very much. I have charts.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Okay. So you're scientific about it.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
You don't just wing it. Obviously not. You've had a great career. But, but for the listeners, for someone who's listening, who's like, how aware should I be of, you know, best time to post during the day, stuff like that.
Pete Monzingo
I mean, I think there is a science to that, but I think at the end of the day, good content is good content.
Host
Yes.
Pete Monzingo
You should always just focus on making the best content.
Tom
Yeah, yeah.
Host
And being unapologetically yourself. Exactly what you do so well.
Pete Monzingo
You do too well.
Host
I mean, thanks, that's really sweet. No, but your authenticity shines bright when I watch your, your shows, your channels. It's like really your truest shelf, your truest self. Sorry, the absence.
Pete Monzingo
I know, I'm like stuttering too.
Host
No, but I mean that genuinely, your truest self shines through almost. Not almost as if it. It's not a two dimensional experience. I feel like I get the 3D you as I'm sitting right across from you when I watch your videos.
Pete Monzingo
Oh, wow.
Host
I just wanted to say that that's.
Pete Monzingo
Crazy because I did kind of craft, you know, a little bit like my personality. But the crazy thing is is that the crafted part of my personality is actually the closest to me and I feel like I had to get that because when I started Content. Like, everyone was obsessed with my mom, and so I'm like, well, you're not going to start a channel, so, like, if I'm going to continue, I got to, like, make people like me too, you know?
Host
Were you an overnight sensation?
Pete Monzingo
To most people, they would think that, but absolutely not.
Host
As. As the old Hollywood saying goes, an overnight sensation 10 years in the making. Yes.
Tom
Yes.
Host
Yeah, I like that.
Pete Monzingo
I mean, you get it, probably.
Host
I do. This is what I'm most excited to talk about. New music. You got a new music? Actually, the supernatural was what I was most excited about. This is what I'm.
Tom
Second.
Pete Monzingo
Second.
Host
Okay, sorry.
Pete Monzingo
See, the absinthe is what I was most excited about. But, you know, this is the third most.
Host
Pete, new music. Are you writing? You producing?
Tom
Yes.
Host
Are you always? What's going on in the music world?
Pete Monzingo
So I'm still trying to find my footing. Honestly, people think that I started as a creator, and now I'm trying to, like, be a pop. Pop star. And I'm like, no, I started as a pop artist, went to content on accident, and now I'm trying to get back into it. And people are like, you. And so I'm trying to just kind of find my footing. There.
Host
You were just for the audience if they. If they don't know. So I know about 5 West.
Tom
Yep.
Host
But you were in a boy Band before 5 West.
Pete Monzingo
I've been in so many fucking boy bands.
Host
Oh, my God. How many lives have you lived?
Pete Monzingo
I don't know, but enough to where I'm. I'm done now.
Host
Can you tell us about the.
Pete Monzingo
Just kidding.
Host
Can you tell us about the genesis of the first boy band?
Pete Monzingo
It was called Zero Gravity, and that's badass.
Host
It is such a good name.
Pete Monzingo
I actually slightly became manic while I was in that. At the beginning, because it's your face. Because I couldn't sleep. I was so excited. I was having, like, premonitions. I felt like when I, like, was dreaming, and it's like, this is my route. And, I mean, I really thought it was gonna be my future. Like, I thought, we're gonna be the next Backstreet Boys, you know, and we're gonna have a residency. Like, we're like. We planned our whole, like, next 50 years together.
Tom
Wow.
Pete Monzingo
And it was special. And to me, I'm like, finally, like, a group of, like, a family that's like me.
Host
Did you feel that you had a deep connection with your other band members and you guys. Did you guys have momentum?
Pete Monzingo
Yeah. I mean, it was. It was. It was Incredible. And then when we broke up, it was like my first, it felt like my first romantic breakup because I had always placed my values in my career and my, my friends and like brotherhoodness. And so it's like I broke up with four of them, plus their families, plus their friends. And like one tried to sue me even back then. And like, it was just all this stuff happening and I was like, like, I haven't been as happy in my life as I've been since like the breakup. And I'm like, I've always been trying to find that sense.
Host
It sounds like it was your first love, at least professional first love. And love, love hits hard.
Pete Monzingo
It does. I'm like that.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Wait, so, okay, but you guys had, you had a decent amount of success.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
And then, wait, can we talk about the genesis of Five West?
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Just like, how did it come to fruition?
Pete Monzingo
So it was after my last boy band that everyone disbanded and I was like in a wreck, crying like 13 year old girl, you know, getting broken up with at lunch. And I went on Craigslist and Actors Access and LA casting and I just scoured. I went back to home and home in Seattle and that's when my mom and family were living there still. And I was like, I'm going back here. I'm giving up on everything. My life is over. I'm gonna, you know, like, did you really have despair? Oh my God. I mean, I, I was like, I can't go on. Like, I mean, I know it sounds dramatic, but that's how I was feeling.
Host
And that's good for aspiring artists to hear. I feel like.
Pete Monzingo
I know. I was like, I know, right? I'm like, I'm gonna write some songs.
Host
Don't give up.
Tom
Yeah. Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And so, okay, in the first, like, week I was in Seattle, I was like, I gotta find another boy band because I'm now aging out soon. And it's now or never.
Host
Oh, you were dialed in.
Pete Monzingo
I got so much Botox, I got so much filler. I mean, I can't even tell you. Like, like, my mom went with me because she was like, she's like, wait, if you're going to go, I want to try. And I'm like, mom, you really did.
Host
I thought you were making a joke.
Pete Monzingo
No, I swear to God, I'm like preventative. Like, I mean, I'll do. They were like, what do you want to do? I'm like, whatever you think. I'm like, make me 18. I'm like, I don't care. This is my last shot.
Host
17 again.
Pete Monzingo
Exactly. It was like that vibe. So dramatic. And so then I found something on. It was either Craigslist. I hope it was Craigslist, make the story better. Or Actors Access. And it was an audition for a band called five west, and they don't have any of the members yet. The same producer from Big Time Rush and they want to make a TV show out of it. And I was like, that's my thing. Like, I belong on Nickelodeon and I am a singer and I can do all, like, basically Big Time Rush vibes. And so I auditioned and began callback. Callback, callback. And then I got in the band, and then I moved to Nashville and met the boys and we ended up doing a world tour. So we were opening for, like, Westlife. Jason Derulo.
Schwartz
Holy.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
Like, just.
Host
I didn't realize how big you guys were.
Pete Monzingo
I mean, we weren't. People just went for the actual act.
Host
You open up. Opening for Jason Derulo is insane.
Pete Monzingo
I mean, to me, I thought so.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
But then it's like when no one were, we didn't get the stream. So it's like, oh, we just have money behind us, you know, Oops. So. But we were finally, like, building it, though. You know, we're building modes. And then Covet happened, and then the label was like, everyone go home. And then at my first viral video a week after that, I was like, I'm changing careers, I guess.
Host
Do you still have fond memories of five West? The boy bands, like, being on stage, the choreography, Like, I mean, it's.
Pete Monzingo
It was everything.
Host
It's cool.
Pete Monzingo
It was an arena tour.
Host
Aren't you happy you did it and you're still doing it. But like, you, like, that's such a unique, rich experience that it's like.0001% of the population will ever get to experience what you've done.
Pete Monzingo
Right?
Host
Touring as a boy band.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
I mean, I really felt like I was in my element. It was wild. I mean, it was just so special, you know? And we got to go to. Have you ever heard of Butlands?
Host
No.
Pete Monzingo
So it's. It's kind of like a. How do you explain it? It's like. It's almost like a Dave and Busters.
Host
I felt like Beavis and Butthead. When you said Butlands, I was like, he said Butlands.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, exactly.
Tom
Sorry. Classic.
Pete Monzingo
But it's like a. It's almost like a carnival, but there are like five of them in Europe. And so we did a Butlands tour and it was just like, that's My favorite part, because I got to go to the fucking circus.
Host
I know you have stories.
Tom
Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.
Pete Monzingo
You already know. I'll tell you off air.
Host
Let's redirect this episode exactly. Oh, my God. But that's so cool that you did it. Don't you feel. I mean, you're happy you said yes, right?
Tom
Oh, yeah. Yeah. You.
Host
Sounds like you've taken a lot of leaps of faith.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
And that's why now I'm fucking tired. I'm like, all right.
Host
But you're still. Now you're working as a solo musician, right? Mm, yes.
Pete Monzingo
And I have a new song that I've. It's my first song I've ever wrote all by myself, and it's called Isms, and it's about feeling like you're neurodivergent neurospicy. And how the miscommunications are incredible with that. So it's like, oh, we're speaking the same language, like we're meaning the same thing, but you're thinking that I want nothing to do with you, but I'm just trying to build a connection. So it's like the whole, you know, discrepancies of communicating when you feel like you don't belong.
Host
Can we get an acapella preview? I'm whispering to pee. You don't have to.
Pete Monzingo
Can you keep the whisper in the heart?
Host
I would never make you do that.
Pete Monzingo
I'm trying to remember how it goes. No, no, no, no, no.
Host
I would never put you on the spot like that. I was fully kidding.
Pete Monzingo
No, no. I want to, though.
Host
Oh, I see that leg.
Tom
I know.
Pete Monzingo
I'm anxious.
Host
I feel like he's revving up, you guys. He's revving up right now.
Tom
Just. Okay.
Pete Monzingo
I'm so glad that you're sharing your. Look at. Wait, no. Okay, that's not a good part. You should keep all this in because this is so raw.
Host
Is it okay?
Tom
Yeah.
Host
You got a great voice. I know, I know, I know. I'm dead, mind you. I've gave. I've fed him absent. So give. Give Pete a break if he's.
Pete Monzingo
Oh, I got it. I'm ready.
Host
Okay.
Pete Monzingo
Why we complicated? Stop trying to rage bait. Oh, God.
Host
Oh, no. You had me. I'm hooked.
Pete Monzingo
We're just sharing isms.
Host
Dude, that's a banger.
Pete Monzingo
Thank you. It is catchy.
Host
I mean, I'm serious. I'm not just saying that. That's a. It's catchy.
Tom
Thank you.
Host
What are we gonna get a Five west reunion tour?
Pete Monzingo
Oh, God. There's just a lot of drama.
Schwartz
A lot.
Pete Monzingo
It's like Vanderpump 2.0.
Host
Is it crazy that some significant. Both of us had significant success spawn from Craigslist. I met Tom on Craigslist.
Tom
I know.
Host
And I moved out to la and then Jax moved in and the rest is history. Tom was dating Kristen. That's.
Pete Monzingo
Craigslist is our, like, savior. In a way.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
But also a nightmare.
Host
No. For some people, it's a nightmare. The Craigslist Killers. And yeah, not to make light of that. I'm just like. There's like some. There's a dark side to it, but I've had only good things happen to me on Craigslist.
Pete Monzingo
How did you find Tom?
Host
Well, it was actually. I don't know, I think it was. It was. It was a roommates.com link through Craigslist. Does that make sense?
Tom
It does.
Host
I think, like, cross linked.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
If that makes sense. And I responded and yeah, he just seemed like a cool dude. He was doing all the things I wanted to do. He was acting. I didn't really want to model, but he was modeling acting. He was in a band. I was like, this dude's cool.
Pete Monzingo
Was it the same band he's in now?
Host
No, he said like five bands.
Pete Monzingo
Okay.
Host
I think I forget the name. His first band was Pierce the Arrow, which they had some killer songs back in the womb. I don't know if you can find it on Spotify, but it's one of my favorite songs ever.
Pete Monzingo
When did you meet him?
Host
Like, it was cool. I first moved to LA back in 2009. Like, he was performing at the Viper Room, like, you know, Johnny Depp's old spot. It was cool.
Tom
Wow.
Pete Monzingo
That's the first year I came.
Tom
09.
Pete Monzingo
Really?
Tom
Yeah.
Host
Oh, dude.
Pete Monzingo
When we had a Hollywood video across the street from where my sister was living. That's how old we are.
Host
I'm a little bummed. No. 5 West reunion tour. Okay. A lot of drama there.
Pete Monzingo
So much.
Host
Pete, most importantly, what's making you happy these days?
Pete Monzingo
Absinthe.
Tom
Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
No, it's definitely, like, feeling less pigeonholed.
Tom
Yeah.
Host
You're a master of your craft, but you're versatile.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, it's, it's. It's flexing the versatile.
Tom
Yeah. Yeah.
Pete Monzingo
But trying to, like, you know, trying to find more of the success in that.
Host
You're so good at what you do. But I love that you're going back to music.
Pete Monzingo
Me too. Thank you.
Host
I'm excited for new music. Wait, have you dropped your isms?
Tom
Not yet.
Pete Monzingo
I like it. It's gonna be a couple months, probably.
Host
Okay, cool. Is there gonna be a music video?
Pete Monzingo
Hopefully.
Host
It's my favorite medium. I love music videos. Yeah, I love them.
Pete Monzingo
It's like a different world. Are you a musician?
Host
No.
Pete Monzingo
Do you want to be?
Host
No, I dislike music.
Tom
Okay.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, You're a consumer.
Host
Yeah, I'm a consumer. Well, I kind of wish we could go across the street to the. The Cecil now, but I feel like it's almost.
Tom
I don't know.
Pete Monzingo
We can try. But if we die, then don't blame me. We'll be trapped in there forever.
Host
Then we'll haunt the cel.
Pete Monzingo
Yeah, that'd be kind of fun. No.
Host
Well, dude, this has been so fun. I just kind of want to end it here. I'm sweaty. I got absinthe in me.
Pete Monzingo
Turn the AC on.
Host
No, it's not even that. It's perfect.
Tom
Okay.
Host
This has been nice.
Tom
It is.
Host
Thanks for chilling me on a Saturday night.
Pete Monzingo
Thanks for hanging out.
Host
Spooky season kickoff. It's official.
Pete Monzingo
It's official.
Host
Thank you, Pete.
Pete Monzingo
Thank you.
Host
This is fun as hell.
Pete Monzingo
Come back soon.
Tom
Okay. Bye.
Pete Monzingo
Bye.
Tom
Retoxification complete.
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Episode Title: Spooky Season, The Cecil & Absinthe Shots with Peet Montzingo
Podcast: Detox Retox with Tom Schwartz (PodcastOne)
Date: September 9, 2025
Guests: Pete Monzingo (YouTuber, musician, paranormal explorer)
This episode kicks off "Spooky Season" as Tom Schwartz and guest Peet Monzingo delve deep into the haunted history of LA's infamous Cecil Hotel and explore the lore and legend of absinthe. Together, they share chilling personal experiences, discuss the fine (and dark) art of boy bands, talk about living with difference (including dwarfism and being a "ginger"), content creation, and creativity under pressure. Amidst laughter, goosebumps, and a few absinthe shots, Schwartz and Monzingo strike a balance between reflection and mischief, setting the tone for a season of all things weird and wonderful.
“His crime showed, and this is a quote, cruelty, cruelty, callousness and viciousness beyond any human understanding.” (25:23)
“The fact that people reported strange tasting water. They were drinking it, they were bathing in it, gargling…Like that really just disturbs me. 19 days.” (31:24)
The conversation is candid, friendly, filled with dark humor and real talk, making complex topics accessible and deeply personal. Schwartz balances his signature goofiness and introspection with Pete’s wit and sincerity. Stories blend the mystical and the mundane, inviting listeners into the search for harmony amidst chaos.
Whether you’re obsessed with true crime, paranormal lore, resilience in the face of difference, or simply fascinated by the creative hustle, this episode captures the wild, weird, and warm spirit of “Detox Retox.” Come for the ghosts, stay for the heart.