
| DSH #1984 What happens when someone starts reading the Bible again and suddenly questions everything? In this episode of Digital Social Hour, Sean sits down with Brian for a deep conversation about Christianity, the Bible, faith, church, false prophets, Islam, AI, marriage, fatherhood, and what it really means to follow Jesus. Brian breaks down why he believes the New Testament is the best place for new believers to start, how Catholics, Orthodox Christians, and Protestants differ, why the Eucharist is such a huge deal, and why he believes Jesus is not just a prophet but God in the flesh. They also get into reincarnation, psychics, past life readings, channeling spirits, spiritual warfare, Christian persecution around the world, and why Brian believes church is not optional for people trying to grow in faith. This episode gets personal too. Sean opens up about reading the Bible again, marriage, wanting kids, work obsession, and trying to figure out how faith fits into his li...
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Ryan
Did this past life reading. She said I was basically a stressed out sailor in a past life businessman and died from a heart attack. She claims to have cleared that past life trauma. And I haven't had any heart palpitations since.
Brian
I would call that demonic. I believe that Muslims have been deceived by Muhammad and Muhammad is a false prophet. In Nigeria right now, Christians are dying just for being Christian. That's why I say Islam is a
Ryan
false religion and they're being killed by Islamists.
Brian
Yes.
Ryan
Okay, guys, got Brian on the show. Just went on his show with Ryan. It was a blast. We've been talking more and more as I just started reading the Bible again. So thank you.
Brian
Yeah, I'm excited to talk to you about that.
Ryan
This is the man who inspired me. There we go, reading the Bible again.
Brian
So how'd that go? How have we been going?
Ryan
I finished Matthew and I think I'm on John now. I do the audio version.
Brian
Okay. Yeah, the audio makes it a lot easier.
Ryan
It's cool, man. I feel good when I'm listening to it. Okay. You know, like, I feel a sense of peace.
Brian
What have you, like, learned so far?
Ryan
Learned? I mean, a lot of anecdotal stories, I feel like. Because they're talking about Jesus through their words.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
But it is pretty impressive hearing some of the things he's. He's done also.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
You know? Yeah, yeah, it is. It makes me think because I'm pretty logical. It's like, how is he doing this? You know?
Brian
Yeah. What about. Did you enjoy any of the parables?
Ryan
I don't know if I got to listen to those yet. What are those?
Brian
They're kind of like stories. So he'll abuse, like, the father and the son. So like the prodigal son. So father has two sons. One of them wants his inheritance and he gets it, and then he goes off and blows it, and then he just feels so much shame and father still takes him back even after, like, the son was out about to eat what the pigs eat because he got so low in life. And then he came back and then the father came out and forgave him. That's like an example of a parable that's in the Bible.
Ryan
Got it.
Brian
It's like a story, but has a deeper meaning, like a literal story.
Ryan
That's what I've noticed with the Bible. I feel like there's a lot of stuff like that.
Brian
Yes. Yeah. Exactly.
Ryan
Where it's not literal.
Brian
There is. Yeah, there's a lot of parables.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
So they're like Stories. So, like, also, like, Jesus says that he's like the good shepherd and, you know, at the end of the day, he's going to separate the sheeps from the goats. And how is he going to separate them? By what, you know, the goats did and no. Feeding the homeless, all those type of things. So, like, it's not like a literal story where he's saying, oh, I'm a shepherd and I'm moving these goats and sheep. He's like, trying to tell us a
Ryan
deeper edge of story. Yeah, yeah. That makes the Bible a whole nother level. Right? Yeah, it's all like that.
Brian
Yeah. Or like we were talking about yesterday when Jesus walked on water. So did you get to that part yet?
Ryan
Yes.
Brian
Yeah. So what did you get out of that story? Just curious.
Ryan
Yeah, he walked on water, and then when he stopped looking at him. Peter.
Brian
Peter.
Ryan
Yeah, yeah, exactly, exactly, exactly. Yeah.
Brian
So he was like, hey, Peter, keep your eyes on me. But then he was looking around. I started looking at the wind. He started sinking. So he just lacked faith at that moment.
Ryan
So do you view that story as it actually happened, though? Like, he.
Brian
That specific story? I say yes. Yeah, yeah, yeah, of course. Yeah.
Ryan
See, that's what I'm struggling with, seeing what actually happened and then what you have to interpret as.
Brian
Yeah, well, usually as far as in the New Testament, it tells you that it's a parable.
Ryan
Oh, it does.
Brian
Or Jesus will start off the story where he'll say something like, this is like this, and then he goes into a hypothetical story. But, like, the healings, him walking on water, his death and resurrection, those are, like, literal things. And a lot of those things are prophecies that are spoke about in the Old Testament.
Ryan
Okay, I started the Old one.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. So that's where a lot of times people read the New Testament and they're like, I don't. Like, why does it matter that he healed this woman or he did xyz. It's because a lot of that is in the Old Testament saying that the Messiah is going to come, and these are signs of the Messiah.
Ryan
Got it.
Brian
Yeah. So, like. But the Old Testament's hard to read, so it's easier to start in the New Testament and understand who Jesus is. And then when you go back and read the Old Testament, you're going to be like, oh, okay. Like, this is where. Why Jesus did this. And this is why Jesus had to do that. Yeah. Even, like, you know, being on a cross and being resurrected and, you know, the three days, like, all these things are like, from the Old Testament sounds.
Ryan
Which one did you read first, personally?
Brian
New Testament.
Ryan
The new one?
Brian
Yeah. The New Testament, I feel like, is way easier for new believers. Yeah, I think we. Yeah, you. You start. You try to start in Genesis.
Ryan
I know you fell asleep. I'm like, dude, I really tried.
Brian
Like, yeah, yeah. Wait till you get to, like, Leviticus. There's a book called Leviticus. It's, like, all about the laws. And, like, if you touch. Let's say someone that's sick, you need to go sacrifice a pigeon. And then you need to take the heart out and put it on the left side and then put the blood on the right side and like, all these. Yeah, it's. It's very hard to read. You're just like, I don't even understand, like, what the heck is going on. That's why the New Testament, you have to first agree to it and, like, understand what it's trying to tell you. And then you could go get contacts with the context, with the testimony.
Ryan
I see. It seems like with your content, you've really been going hard with religion lately.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
And that's getting a lot of views right now.
Brian
Yeah, the Christianity space is getting a lot of views, and I think there's not a lot of. There's a lot of people that are looking to go deeper with their faith, but there's not a lot of good content on it. So I'm just trying to provide good content to teach Christians how to understand their faith more and to. How to. How to understand different denominations.
Ryan
So many.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. There's not so many, actually, but. Yeah. No.
Ryan
So you hear, like, there's thousands. But is that actually true or not really.
Brian
So it's kind of like saying, let's say on the Strip. You would say, dude, there's 50 different casinos. Well, you know, Caesars actually owns a lot of them, and then MGM also owns a lot of them. They're actually the same owner. They're just different locations. Yeah, so that's when people say, like, oh, there's 14,000 Protestant denominations. That's not actually true, but, you know. Yeah, exactly. Yeah. There's a lot of people that try to say, oh, do you understand what Protestantism is?
Ryan
I know you are one, but I don't know exactly what their beliefs are.
Brian
Okay, so the main three Christians. And these are the main three. Obviously there's a bunch, but is the Catholic Church, the Orthodox Church, and then the Protestant church.
Ryan
Right.
Brian
So originally there was the Orthodox and Catholics. They came from Peter and the original disciples. And then around year 300, and I'm paraphrasing this, they split, and then there was just Catholic and Orthodox. And then around the year 1500, there was some corruption in the church and a guy named Martin Luther. Not Martin Luther King, but Martin Luther broke from the Catholic Church. He didn't want to, but there was, like, the Catholic Church at the time was selling indolent. I forgot. I don't know how to pronounce him. But, like, they were trying to sell something where you could be forgiven for sin. So people used to be able to pay, really, and get less time in purgatory. Wow. Yeah.
Ryan
That's so weird.
Brian
Yeah. So that's one of the reason that
Ryan
incentive sounds backwards to me.
Brian
Right, Exactly. So that's why there was something called the Reformation. And that's when Protestantism came back. And the hope of Protestantism was to go back to what original Christianity was.
Ryan
Got it.
Brian
Yeah. So now there's like a bunch of different denominations, but the big three are Protestants, Orthodox, and Catholic.
Ryan
And what's the percentage breakdown? Is that known?
Brian
Well, Catholics, I believe, is, like, the biggest religion in the world. It's the biggest Christian denomination.
Ryan
My wife grew up Catholic, and she said a lot of Latinos are Catholic.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. Filipinos, a lot of Latinos, Mexicans. Like, other countries, Catholicism is huge because Catholicism was the main denomination for the first 1500 years.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
Like, it's super big. Like, people don't understand how big the Catholic faith is. It's like multiple times bigger than the Jews or. Uh, it's. It's huge. It's. It's like Americans don't really understand that because America is a Protestant country.
Ryan
Oh, really?
Brian
Yeah. Yeah. So like, the colleges, like Duke, Yale, all these things are from Protestants. They just say, yeah. So America is a Christian country. So Christian means, like, Protestant normally.
Ryan
Um, but yeah, I looked up Vegas before this episode.
Brian
Oh, yeah.
Ryan
So 61% are Christians.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
In Vegas.
Brian
Yeah. And what are the. What's the rest percentage?
Ryan
I didn't look off the rest, but I just thought that was way more than I thought.
Brian
Now there are 200 million Christians in the United States.
Ryan
Crap.
Brian
Yeah, that's what I'm saying. And then again, Catholics are the biggest denomination.
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Brian
again we I don't know where you grew up, but Jersey. When you go to like the Philippines, it's a Catholic. It's just Catholic.
Ryan
Interesting.
Brian
There's some countries you go to Germany and other places, I I don't know be too specific but you don't see Protestant churches. It's rather Orthodox or Catholic, but we're used to here where there's like multiple churches and you could be any church, but there's some countries where it's just Catholic or it's just Orthodox. Yeah.
Ryan
So let's say you're traveling somewhere and you come across a Catholic church. Would they let you in or how does it.
Brian
Yeah, of course. Yeah. So the good thing about Catholic is like their Mass or their service is the same throughout the whole world. Like they they're that organized. The Mass is always the same. They're all on the same schedule and they're all teaching the exact same thing on the exact same day all over the world.
Ryan
Got it.
Brian
Yeah. The only thing that you can't do as a non Catholic is take the Eucharist. Have you heard of that before?
Ryan
But I don't know what it is.
Brian
So anytime, if you remember, this is going to be very important though. Yeah. So anytime you speak to an Orthodox or a Catholic, the Eucharist is like their main thing.
Ryan
Really.
Brian
That's literally. If you talk to them, that is
Ryan
literally their eyes light up.
Brian
Yeah, that's their. That's just say, oh, you take the Eucharist. Right.
Ryan
Okay.
Brian
They love it. So what Catholics and Orthodox and some Protestants believe is that the Eucharist is literally the body and blood of Christ. So in the book of John, he says, this is my body and this is my blood. And pretty much you need to take these things in order to be enter the kingdom of heaven. Again, I'm paraphrasing, but they believe that the priests, during the ceremony, they say a prayer for the bread and it literally turns into the body of Christ. And then they. With the same. With the wine, that they believe it literally becomes the blood of Christ.
Ryan
Interesting.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. So if you read a lot about Catholics. Catholics and Orthodox.
Ryan
Oh, and Orthodox.
Brian
Yeah. And then I also believe that it's spiritually becomes the body and blood of Christ.
Ryan
So, yeah, a little bit of Protestants believe it.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. It's like real presence. So I believe that we are literally partaking in his body and blood. And that's part of the sanctification process, which is like, to become more like Christ, and it gives us more grace and it gets us closer to Jesus. So if you read, like, church history, Romans and a lot of these societies, they thought that Christians were practicing cannibalism because they didn't understand that it was like a sacrament is like a religious thing. We're not like, eating flesh and blood. But. And then there's some Christians that hold that as just symbolic. But the point is, with Catholics and Orthodox, that's like a very big deal. Like, if you were to drop it, like, the whole church would, like, stop.
Ryan
Are you serious?
Brian
Yes. There are some churches, when they do the Eucharist ceremony, everyone lays down face down on the floor.
Ryan
Holy crap. What?
Brian
Yeah, because it's literally the body and blood of Jesus Christ.
Ryan
But there's so many Eucharists, right? Like, yeah. So how did they verify that one?
Brian
Well, it's because they're doing the ceremony. And then when the priest says, like, I don't know what exactly they say, but they say a prayer for it, and then they believe that it becomes the actual body and blood of Christ. So, like, if Jesus Christ walked in here, they believe in, like, it's the presence of Jesus Christ. So they also practice something called adorism or, dang it, Adoration. They broke it. They practice something called adoration. So adoration is with the extra bread and maybe the wine, they'll have it in the room. And then people will sit in the room and just spend time with Jesus. And then a lot of people say that they have, like, experiences or, you know, communications or they feel extra grace.
Ryan
Is this a once a year thing or.
Brian
No, this is like.
Ryan
Oh, every week.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
Yeah. Then the Catholic Church, they do that every day.
Ryan
Holy crap.
Brian
Yeah, but most Catholics go to church once a week, but they have service every day.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
The Catholic Church.
Ryan
That's insane.
Brian
Is it?
Ryan
I mean, every day. I mean, to me it is. To me it is.
Brian
Why you're devoting two to.
Ryan
How long is it? Two, three hours?
Brian
Well, the. The. The day service. The. The weekday service is only like, 30 minutes.
Ryan
Oh, okay. Yeah. I thought it was, like, multiple hours, because I remember when I went to church growing up, it was a long time.
Brian
Yeah, yeah, yeah. No, the Sunday service and the Saturday service are longer, but, like, the midweek service are like 30 minutes. Yeah, 30 to 45 minutes, something like that.
Ryan
Yeah. I used to go every Sunday. I don't remember what denomination I was, but, yeah, definitely Christian. Yeah. I even went to Bible study once a week or something. Okay. Yeah.
Brian
Do you. How do you. Like, if you die today, do you think you would go to heaven?
Ryan
If I died today, would I go to heaven? I guess it depends what you mean by heaven.
Brian
Like, do you think you go as
Ryan
the traditional, like, heaven and hell, like.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Okay. Yeah. No.
Brian
Why is that?
Ryan
I believe in reincarnation.
Brian
Okay, so you believe in reincarnation.
Ryan
Yeah, got it.
Brian
Okay, so you believe. Like, where do you get that belief from? And, like, can you explain it?
Ryan
I would say from past guests, from watching podcasts on other spiritual shows and then psychics, which I know you're probably not a fan of.
Brian
No, I would love to talk to psychic.
Ryan
Oh, you would? Oh, yeah. I'll set some error for you. Yeah, you should do a. We got you a. Legally. Yeah, take her.
Brian
Yeah, I would love to do that.
Ryan
That'd be awesome.
Brian
But. Okay, so you said psychics.
Ryan
Yeah. So I've gotten past life readings is what they call it.
Brian
Wow.
Ryan
Where they. There's different ways of doing it. Some put you in a state of hypnosis. Some can do it just by looking at your eyes. I've done.
Brian
Oh, wow. Have you been in hypnosis?
Ryan
They couldn't get me.
Brian
Okay.
Ryan
Yeah. I don't know if it's my ADHD or something.
Brian
Yeah. Okay. So psychic cvs.
Ryan
Guess I had one guest that claims to remember all his past lives on birthday. Okay, so he's pretty famous. His Name's Matthias De Stefano. Okay. So from him and a couple other guests like Billy Carson, Robert Edward Grant.
Brian
Billy Carson is the guy that got like exposed.
Ryan
Yeah, I talked about it. Yeah. And what was my other reason? I forgot. But it's. It's not set in stone though.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
If I was to be presented certain information, it would change. Yeah, yeah, I'm open.
Brian
What information have you seen from them
Ryan
that convinced you the past life reading was eye opening? Because I've told this story before, but I used to get these heart palpitations a lot. Do you know what that is?
Brian
Like when your heart beats?
Ryan
It's kind of like when you can feel your heartbeat and it gives you anxiety. You can kind of hear it. So I used to get that a lot when I was in high school. Did this past life reading and she said I was basically a stressed out sailor in a past life businessman. Okay. And died from a heart attack.
Brian
Okay.
Ryan
And then she claims to have cleared that trauma. Past life trauma is what she called it. Okay. And I haven't had any heart palpitations since. Okay.
Brian
Okay.
Ryan
So I don't know if that, like. Yeah, I don't know if that was just the power of the subconscious or something. There's a lot we don't know about the brain. But yeah, that to me was pretty. Because I. I used to go to the hospital.
Brian
Okay.
Ryan
Yeah. I used to really freak out over this.
Brian
Did you also pray during that time for it to go away?
Ryan
I probably did. I think I did.
Brian
Okay.
Ryan
I used to pray a lot.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Yeah, I used to definitely pray when I was a kid. I would. If I got a stomach ache, I would pray anyway.
Brian
Have you ever had any experiences with like, with God or Jesus? The holy smearum?
Ryan
No, nothing visual, nothing audio. I've even done psychedelics. Never seen him on that.
Brian
I didn't know you did all this.
Ryan
Yeah, when I was younger. Okay. I. I went to Amsterdam, took mushrooms with his legal bear and that was one of the best days of my life, honestly. Really. Just walked around for eight hours straight with a smile on my face. It was great, man. She was great. But yeah, I've never seen him or heard him. What about you?
Brian
Yeah, I would say I've definitely spoken to God.
Ryan
Really?
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
How do you verify it's God though?
Brian
I think the feeling you get when you speak to him or hear from him.
Ryan
So.
Brian
In the Bible it says God is love. So when you get an overwhelming feeling. For me, sometimes it's like on my shoulders.
Ryan
Your hair stands up?
Brian
Yeah. Kind of like, you just feel, like, warm on your shoulders, going up, or you just feel like a weight. Like all your stress and anxiety is, like, being lifted off of.
Ryan
You experience that?
Brian
Yeah, that's our experience. Yeah. I don't.
Ryan
I love that you said that. I just. I have these guests that, like, claim to be channelers and claim to be speaking to God, and they take ayahuasca and speak to God. And I don't know, I'm just a bit skeptical sometimes of anyone being able to pull it off.
Brian
But what do they say about. When they speak to God? Like, what do they say God is like?
Ryan
I guess, usually similar to what you said. Like, they feel. See a lot of light. They feel like an energy cleanse almost. Okay. But I don't know, the channeling thing, I'm a little skeptical of.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Have you seen those people channeling, like, entities through their body? You haven't seen that?
Brian
No.
Ryan
Oh, wow. Yeah, I've had a few of them on the show.
Brian
How was that?
Ryan
I got anxiety. Yeah, I got anxiety from that. It's just like, I don't know. Look into channeling. It's a weird one.
Brian
I don't even know.
Ryan
Have you heard of it?
Brian
No.
Ryan
Really?
Brian
There's so much I've heard of psychics, but I haven't heard of channeling. What is channeling?
Ryan
Channeling entities, basically. They're claiming they're using their body as a vessel and channeling a spirit to enter their body and communicate.
Brian
That's crazy. Yeah, that's. I would call that demonic, but. Yeah.
Ryan
You would call it demonic?
Brian
Yeah, for sure. Some of them claim to be channeling God through their. Really?
Ryan
Yeah, yeah.
Brian
I personally, unless they're talking about Jesus Christ, I would say that's, like, demonic, because what Christians believe, I think it's like John 14:6 is like, he said, I am the way, the truth and the life. Let me just read it to you, actually.
Ryan
Which app do you use for the Bible?
Brian
The Bible app.
Ryan
Okay.
Brian
Easy, baby. Keep it super easy. And then it even talks about if someone comes and promotes a different gospel, that they will be cursed. But John 14:6, Jesus said, I am the way, the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.
Ryan
Oh, I've actually heard this first.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
So popular one?
Brian
Yeah, it's very popular. So pretty much it's like the only way to the Father is through Jesus Christ. So if there's any other thing that you're hearing. Yeah, I would consider that, like, demonic. It's not saying that you can't speak to the Father directly, but, like, when Christians pray, we say, well, you know, in Jesus name.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
Or we pray to Jesus or pray to God or pray to the Holy Spirit. Anything outside of that, I would say is a false gospel and is demonic and they could be speaking to a spirit. I believe there are other spirits.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
And I've been around evil spirits and I've seen evil with my own eyes. But so I'm not saying those things aren't real, but, like, anyone channeling saying these things, I would say is, like, they have some sort of power to speak to spirits, and I don't think those spirits are from God.
Ryan
Got it.
Brian
Yeah. Like that dude that debated with Wes Huff.
Ryan
Billy.
Brian
Billy. Yeah. I would say that person is a false prophet.
Ryan
Interesting.
Brian
Yeah. So he would be a great example of a false prophet. He's someone that's trying to take the word of God and the history of Christianity and turn it into something else.
Ryan
Right.
Brian
And a lot of these things are explained in the Bible. It's just people don't go into the Bible or know how to find it.
Ryan
Yeah. And yeah, he does say, and I've seen other people say the Bible has been rewritten. Right. It's not the original word of God.
Brian
No. So the Bible is the word of God.
Ryan
The whole Bible.
Brian
The whole Bible is the word of God.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
Yeah. So that's why you got to talk to Christians, because you talk to these like.
Ryan
But how do you verify that, though?
Brian
Do the Holy Spirit. So pray and ask the Holy Spirit, is this true? And I know it will be revealed to you.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
Yeah. But, like, Christians believe. That's why you talk to a lot of people, too, that talk about the Bible. And I'm like, bro, that's not a Christian. Like, that's a Hebrew Israelite. I'm like, sir, oh, I'm new to the space. Hey, Exhibit. Some of you or even, like, Muslims, it's like, just because they quote the Bible, that doesn't mean they're actually, like, Christian.
Ryan
So, yeah. Sheikh Uthman, I will say he. He definitely, like, actually reads the Bible, though.
Brian
Yeah. And I would say he is a great example of a false prophet.
Ryan
Really?
Brian
Yeah. I believe that Muslims have been deceived by Muhammad and Muhammad is a false prophet. It's unfortunate. And it's unfortunate that Muslims believe that Jesus Christ. Ask. This is the crazy part. So Muslims believe that Jesus Christ was sinless.
Ryan
Okay.
Brian
Did you know that?
Ryan
I didn't know that. Yeah.
Brian
If you could text that guy.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
Say, hey, do you guys Believe that Jesus Christ was sinless. He's gonna say yes.
Ryan
So what does that mean, though? Sinless?
Brian
He didn't sin.
Ryan
Okay. And Christians don't believe that.
Brian
Christians do believe.
Ryan
Oh, they do believe that.
Brian
Yeah. But the crazy part is they believe that in the Bible, when Jesus just said, I am the way, the truth and life, they don't have an answer for these things that Jesus is claiming to be. So Jesus claimed to be God. So if Muslims believe that he was sinless, why don't they believe him when he was claiming to be God?
Ryan
Got it.
Brian
Do you know what I'm saying?
Ryan
Yeah. So that's it. They. It doesn't make sense.
Brian
Right, Exactly. And then also, Muslims believe they're supposed to believe in the Bible. Right. They're supposed to believe in Bible in the Quran. It validates the Bible.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
I didn't know.
Brian
Yeah. There's a contradiction there. Where, like, Muslims. I'll send you.
Ryan
That's not possible to believe in the Bible and the Quran though.
Brian
Right.
Ryan
That wouldn't be conflicting information.
Brian
Well, think about this. Where do Muslims get the story of Jesus from?
Ryan
Is it from the Bible?
Brian
Yeah. Because Muhammad was not a. You know, Muhammad came like 600 years after Jesus existed.
Ryan
Yeah. Yeah.
Brian
So where did they get him from? Right. Where else could they have?
Ryan
That's a lot of time. Yeah.
Brian
Yeah. So. And they quote the Bible. There's Bible verses in the Quran. So the Quran came from the Bible. So kind of like how I was telling you in the beginning, there was Orthodox and Catholics. There were other small denominations during that time after Jesus was resurrected and one of those groups turned into Islam.
Ryan
Got it.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Were any of his prophets part of that? Like, were any of Jesus's disciples disciples?
Brian
No, because again, this came 600 years after Jesus.
Ryan
Okay. So it's a whole separate group.
Brian
It. Yeah, that's like George Washington driving a Tesla. Like.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
Even worse, because if you think about it, the United states is only 250 years old.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
So it puts more context in the time gap between Jesus and Muhammad. So think about that. So two times longer than America's been around, a guy came and said, oh, Jesus actually didn't claim to be God. He claimed to be a prophet. And, you know, this and that. And just he. He changed the whole Gospel.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
So that's the problem that I see with that Billy guy or that other Muslim guy that you had on your show is I would consider them false prophets.
Ryan
Have you had any Muslims on yours yet?
Brian
I talked to one Muslim imam. He's Going on, actually. Oh, the guy that I spoke to.
Ryan
Imam.
Brian
Yeah, yeah, well that's what they're called.
Ryan
Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Imam Taweedi is the one.
Brian
Okay, got it, got it. That's like teacher or something like that in Muslim. But yeah, so we went back and forth between this because he was like, well, Jesus, you know this. And Jesus died. And I'm like, well, where are you getting your understanding from Jesus, from the Quran is that, well, why would I read the Quran when the people that were around Jesus and were physically in front of him and Jesus spoke to wrote about him? Why wouldn't I believe what they said instead of what you say? Because like in John one kind of like it was like the first book that I told you to read. It starts off with, in the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God and the Word was God. He was with God in the beginning. So Jesus is the Word. And it clearly says in the beginning was the Word and the Word was with God and the Word was God. So the Bible clearly teaches, and this is one verse, clearly teaches that Jesus Christ was God. That's what Christians believe. True Christians believe that Jesus Christ was God. He wasn't like a good prophet, he wasn't a good guy trying to teach us, you know, morality. He was God in the flesh and he came to die for our sins and show us the way. And that is through him. And then once you accept him into your heart, then you start to become more like Jesus. That's the sanctification process. Yeah, or orthodox call it like theosis. So that's just a process of becoming more like God.
Ryan
And then is there a final point where you truly become God or what's the end point?
Brian
The end point is when you die and then you go to heaven and then you are with God.
Ryan
Got it?
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Okay.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
And where do the end times fall into that?
Brian
The end times of the world, like
Ryan
the end times that are mentioned in the Bible?
Brian
Well, there's a couple theories. So some people look at Revelation as a story of things that already happened. And then some people look at Revelations as a story of things to come.
Ryan
Got it?
Brian
Yeah. So it kind of just depends on your theory.
Ryan
I've heard both takes. I've heard some people say it already happened. Exactly, I've heard that. And then some people say we're in it right now with the Israel war, kind of. And then some people say it hasn't happened yet.
Brian
Exactly. Yeah. So that's all like hearsay and that's all like Speculation. Because Jesus says nobody knows when he's going to come back.
Ryan
Right.
Brian
So I don't know. Like, I have a theory of both. I believe that if you look at the Bible in context, and again, I'm not a theologian and people are going to destroy me for this. But you can't read the Bible from your eyes in America in 2026.
Ryan
What do you mean by that?
Brian
Meaning the Bible wasn't. Those letters weren't written to Americans. Got it. They were written to Jews around the year 50. So when they're reading those books, they have context of what was going on in the culture, what was happening at the time and all that stuff. So that's why, like, even some of the parables and stuff, it's going to make even more sense to the people back then, you know?
Ryan
Yeah, yeah.
Brian
So it's kind of like if someone reads a letter from you and you're talking about a casino that doesn't exist anymore.
Ryan
Right.
Brian
They're like, this casino doesn't even exist. This doesn't even make sense.
Ryan
Yeah. Not as relatable.
Brian
It's. Yeah, but you have to just read the Bible in context.
Ryan
Right.
Brian
So the point is, the Book of Revelations was written to Jews at that time. And some people have the theory that those Jews understood what all these signs he were talking. Yeah, all the signs he was talking about was symbolic. Like even like the getting the 666 and a king come, an Antichrist coming. So Christians were killed at that time. So at that time, there were Jews that believed that the current king was the Antichrist because he was literally killing Christians.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
Did you not know that?
Ryan
No.
Brian
Really? Did you know that, like the first 20 popes were all martyred?
Ryan
No.
Brian
You didn't know that?
Ryan
Do you know what martyrdom is killed for?
Brian
Yeah. Killed for your faith.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
Yeah. So 20 of the first popes were rather beheaded, hung on crosses. They had.
Ryan
That's insane.
Brian
Anchors tied to their neck and thrown off boats.
Ryan
What?
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
That's why they're so respected on popes.
Brian
Exactly. And that's why people will point at that and say, hey, look, the 12 disciples were literally crucified, upside down, drug boiled, beheaded, all these things. Why would they do that if it was a lie? Wow.
Ryan
I didn't know that.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
All 12 of them got pretty bad ending.
Brian
Yeah. Except for one of them.
Ryan
But which one?
Brian
I think it was John.
Ryan
Oh, John. Shout out to John.
Brian
Yeah, he was exiled, but that's pretty. Yeah, yeah. But like Peter was about to be crucified, you know, on a cross. And he was like, I don't want to be killed, like my Lord and Savior, so just hang me upside down there. Yeah. So, like, all these guys literally died for their faith. And people today still die for their faith. Do you know that?
Ryan
Really?
Brian
Yes, yes. ISIS beheaded. I believe it was 21. Do you know the number? Can you Google it real quick?
Ryan
ISIS beheadings. How many? Yeah.
Brian
ISIS just beheaded Christians that refused to give up their faith.
Ryan
Really?
Brian
Yes. They brought them out and what. And it's filmed. It's. This is not a high thousand.
Ryan
What? That's a.
Brian
It's not 2000. But is that in. That's probably total 2000 executions in Syria over a suitable period. Yeah, well, yeah. No, there's thousands of Christians still to this day dying for the faith for sure.
Ryan
And that's. I'm talking about.
Brian
Can you look up the 21 martyrs from ISIS?
Ryan
But that's only because they're Christian, though.
Brian
Yes.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
In Nigeria right now, Christians are dying right now.
Ryan
Just for being Christian.
Brian
Just for being Christian. That's why I say. No, that's why I say Islam is a false religion.
Ryan
And they're being killed by.
Brian
Yes.
Ryan
Islamists.
Brian
Yes.
Ryan
And I know the whole Islam thing is. There's different parts of it. Is it 21 men?
Brian
21.
Ryan
21 people.
Brian
There was 21 men that were brought out on camera and got their heads cut off because they refused to deny that Jesus Christ was God. And then there was another. There was one man in that group that wasn't even Christian.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
But he saw what those men were about to do, and he had so much respect for their faith that he allowed that to happen, too. Yes.
Ryan
He didn't speak up.
Brian
He refused to not say that Jesus Christ was not God.
Ryan
That's insane.
Brian
Yeah. So that's why it's important for people to understand it's not all like, oh, the Muslims have the same thing as Christians. And it's like. No. Like, we're sheltered here in the United States, we see some of it, but in other countries. In China, you think you could just be Christian In China, they're communists, so
Ryan
probably not out of my.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. They get put in concentration camps today.
Ryan
That's nuts.
Brian
In 2026, Christians are still dying for
Ryan
their faith in China. Wow. That's a development.
Brian
All over the. All over the world. All over the world, brother. It's not. Yeah.
Ryan
This crazy. Yeah. We are sheltered in America.
Brian
We are sheltered in America because we have religious freedom here. And we could say f the president or F, The Pope or whatever. We can. But in other places, you can't. In other places, if you say Jesus Christ is Lord, you will die. And those things. And that has been happening for 2000 years.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
Did you not know that?
Ryan
I thought it ended a while ago, honestly.
Brian
No, bro.
Ryan
Yeah. No, bro.
Brian
This has happened for 2,000 years. Yeah. Jesus Christ was killed. Did you. You knew that, right? Yeah. So Jesus Christ was the first that died. And then after that came the disciples, and then after that came the Pope. So then all the way up till today, people are still killed for being Christians to say. Yeah. And people just don't know.
Ryan
So it's going to keep happening or what's.
Brian
Yeah, because in the Bible it says you're going to be persecuted for following me. That's what Jesus said. Yeah.
Ryan
That's nuts.
Brian
Yeah. So until Jesus comes back, Christians are going to be persecuted, and that's crazy.
Ryan
So when you're traveling, you got to kind of keep that in mind. To certain countries.
Brian
Yeah. Depending on where you're at. Yeah.
Ryan
You have to be careful.
Brian
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Ryan
I did not know that.
Brian
Yeah. We're just sheltered in America.
Ryan
Yeah. We. We do have a good year. When I see people complaining here, I'm like, bro.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
No, I mean, I get it, but, like, I don't.
Brian
Yeah. You had the captain on what you think about him.
Ryan
Yeah. I know you had him on, too. Part of me wonders how much of it he actually believes.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Versus exaggeration. But he does do a lot of what he says.
Brian
Like.
Ryan
What do you mean? Like, I just saw some video. Fred Bayer went to his.
Brian
Oh, yeah, those shoes.
Ryan
Yeah. So they actually have these meetups for black people.
Brian
No, I believe they actually, like, practice what they preach.
Ryan
Yeah. And I do think he genuinely hates white people.
Brian
Yeah. I mean, it's weird because when you talk to him in person, he's very charismatic and he's. I thought he was, like, very funny. He's very cool.
Ryan
But you got to keep in mind you're giving him a platform. Right.
Brian
I also think he treats me different because I'm Puerto Rican, so.
Ryan
Puerto Rican are not as bad.
Brian
Yeah. We're like one of the lost tribes. So you are probably not.
Ryan
So he's probably white, half Asian, but he treated me really nice.
Brian
Yeah, but he probably. But he still treats us different because I can actually become one of a Hebrew Israelite. Yeah, I don't think you can.
Ryan
I can ask them out there.
Brian
Oh, yeah, yeah. So I just noticed he treats people differently. Like with me, he was like, actually Trying to like convert me.
Ryan
I mean, they need you. They don't have any numbers. Yeah, Only a few thousand people.
Brian
Yeah, they. Yeah. And it's. And that's another unfortunate false gospel. And that's kind of where people take the Bible, just like the Muslims, and they turn it into something else.
Ryan
And that's. It's kind of how we started this show, how you can read the Bible and interpret it in so many different ways.
Brian
Right. Yeah, you can interpret it, but you can also just lie.
Ryan
Right.
Brian
So some faith, they just flat out lie. Because again, like if you look at what I just read to you, in the beginning was the Word and the word was with God and the Word was God.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
So who's the word? Jesus. So Jesus Christ was God, Right. How can I. I don't want to turn this about Muslims, but how could Muslims read that and think that Jesus Christ was not God?
Ryan
Yeah. Yeah.
Brian
So it's not even about interpretation. It's just like about people lying and twisting the truth. That's all it is.
Ryan
I think we're going to, unfortunately, with AI, I don't think we're going to live in a reality with objective truth.
Brian
What does that mean?
Ryan
Like, because you could fake videos and things so easily now, it's. It's going to be really hard to like have actual truth. And I think, you know, I know you have five kids. I worry about that with kids, like what type of information they're getting.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
And how accurate it is.
Brian
Yeah. I actually think the complete opposite.
Ryan
Silly.
Brian
Yeah. I believe with AI, the truth is going to be more clear.
Ryan
And we got to debate this.
Brian
Yeah, Yeah. I mean, if you just look at again, religion, AI can tell you the entire history of Christianity and accurate is
Ryan
it right now, like if you go on ChatGPT and ask it to give you the history, is it pretty accurate?
Brian
It's pretty accurate. It is gonna have some biases because it's not a Christian platform. But there are Christian AI apps that will give you the full truth where like Chat GPT and things will say like, hey, I can't really answer this because it's not my place. But like, there's other apps where if you ask a direct questions about the faith, it will give you a direct answer.
Ryan
Okay.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
I never thought of it from a religion point of view. I was speaking more overall because there are studies on how AI usage is linked with a decrease in IQ in brain activity.
Brian
I'm sure. But even though maybe brain activity will go down, people are still going to do more than what they would. So, like, let's just say you had a child. Would you rather train your child and have him in high school read books and use pen and paper to work out math equations, or would you rather have him spend time trying to make things with AI?
Ryan
AI. Exactly.
Brian
Exactly.
Ryan
So even though that's also because I think textbooks have been like, if you look at who makes the textbooks, that's a whole rabbit hole. But there's a biased point of view with some of these textbooks.
Brian
Yeah, but even you could use the example of math. Would you rather your son sit at home and work on math problems with pen and paper or spend extra time working with AI to build things for math?
Ryan
Probably AI.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Yeah, I think we agree on that.
Brian
Yeah. I mean, what. But I just. What circumstance is AI not better for
Ryan
learning in general, you're saying? Yeah, I can't argue on that one.
Brian
Exactly. So AI is just going to make our lives better and it's going to give us better access to truth. Because now people can watch the news and they could ask AI better access to truth.
Ryan
As long as these AI companies. So like, for example, right now, a lot of these AI companies are in bed with government organizations and they limit certain searches. I don't know if you're aware of this.
Brian
I know they. They limit searches.
Ryan
Yes. Yeah. So certain topics you can't even look up.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
So that's my worry with it. They become so regulated where they kind of gatekeep certain information.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
You know what I mean? And you can't access it. And only the elites or whatever can access that information. Yeah, that's my worry with it.
Brian
Yeah. I mean, I don't worry about it. I think that AI is actually going to enhance religion, faith, health, life, make us live longer.
Ryan
I hope so. I want that. Yeah, I do want that. But there's a new study on Claude. Do you use Claude?
Brian
A little bit, yeah.
Ryan
Yeah. We'll link the study below. They figured out they've made it a lot. Basically a lot dumber. I'm oversimplifying it.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
But it's not as good as it used to be. There's like a 67% decrease in the output.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
And my worry is these models. I don't know.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
I don't like to think in the future too much.
Brian
Yeah. So, like, you. You mentioned children. So you just got married, right?
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
Are you guys gonna have kids?
Ryan
I want kids too. I don't know.
Brian
Even though. Even with AI?
Ryan
Well, yeah, I mean, I use AI every day. I love it. I'm just saying. Yeah. It's so easy to fake stuff now. I worry about AI, but I also love it. Yeah. Grace it.
Brian
And how old are you again?
Ryan
29.
Brian
29, okay. How old your wife?
Ryan
28.
Brian
28.
Ryan
Yes.
Brian
How long are you going to wait to have kids?
Ryan
We're trying right now, honestly, but yeah, I don't, I don't know, about five, like, good, good sheet. Five's impresser. Yeah. But two to three would be great, man.
Brian
Two to three? Yeah. Yeah. I feel like the first one is going to be the hardest one.
Ryan
That's what I hear.
Brian
Yeah. Because you just don't know what to expect. Yeah. And like the first three months are just brutal because you just don't sleep. Yeah. But after that it gets like easier and easier.
Ryan
Teenage years weren't too hard.
Brian
No.
Ryan
That's what I hear. They rebel a little bit.
Brian
So I have a 15 year old. So this year was the first year where he gave some trouble. Yeah. But it was just with school.
Ryan
I feel like that's natural.
Brian
Exactly. Yeah. And the problem with actually AI and social media is now high schoolers are getting fed ideas where, you know, I feel like back in the day I didn't watch tv, I didn't really watch movies and stuff when I was like in high school and I wasn't watching the news.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
So now high schoolers can be fed the idea, like, oh, you don't really
Ryan
have to go to school.
Brian
And then with my son, he had that idea, like, why do I have
Ryan
to go to school?
Brian
Like, I want to do sales and I want to have a business and, you know, I don't need to go to school.
Ryan
If he goes to public school, he goes to public school. It's pretty bad out here. Yeah, it's, it's relative to the rest of the states.
Brian
Yeah. Relative to the other states. Yeah, it's bad for sure.
Ryan
49, I think.
Brian
Yeah, yeah, yeah. Relative to other states it is. But yeah, he, he came home and was just like, dude, I don't, I don't really want to go to school. I don't get the purpose. And I had to be like, dude, you gotta go to school right now. But even in the back of my mind I'm like, if he wants to do sales or he wants to run a business, it's kind of hard to like keep forcing him to go to school.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
So he's only a freshman right now. We'll see what happens. But I don't know. What do you think?
Ryan
If I was in that Situation. I would say show me some proof of concept before you fully drop out.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Show me some numbers. Show me some type of revenue. Show me a business. Show me he needs to do psychiatric dropout for nothing.
Brian
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Ryan
Like, even though I hate public school.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Let's be realistic here. You know what I mean?
Brian
Yeah, yeah.
Ryan
Like so many.
Brian
What are these? Like, I want to work for you. I want to drop out and go work for you. I want to sell. I'm selling some podcasts.
Ryan
Personally, I've never been good at working with family, so I wouldn't do that. Okay, yeah, I can mentor you, but I don't want you tied to the company. I have to mature into that because I can't have those boundaries yet. I'm too nice.
Brian
Got it.
Ryan
With my family.
Brian
Yeah. That's kind of what he was pitching me. He was like, dude, I could just come work with you. I could go do real estate.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
And I'm like, that's true.
Ryan
But, you know, shadow you or. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Brian
I mean, I could. We hire people every single month. Like, my son is smart enough to do what these adults are doing. It's not that hard. It's just work ethic and tenacity and learning sales. So it is tough because you're just like, do I send you to school for another three years and just hope you don't get corrupted by these liberals or.
Ryan
I mean, he is. There's no doubt about it. We did. When we. It wasn't. I feel like it wasn't as bad, though.
Brian
When I went to CSN here, I had some hard for liberal teachers that were trying to make us feel shame for.
Ryan
Really?
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Okay.
Brian
They were like, shame. This was like college, so.
Ryan
College, right?
Brian
Yeah, yeah.
Ryan
I didn't go to. I went for one year. I was talking about high school, but college. Yeah, yeah.
Brian
My first year in college, there was a teacher that was trying to make us feel shame for living in the United States. And like.
Ryan
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Brian
She was Canadian. Yeah.
Ryan
A lot of universities do have a liberal connection, unfortunately, or fortunately if you're liberal. I guess.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
I think it does more harm than good.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. But the point is. Yeah. With my son, I'm like, okay, is it better to leave him in school for the next three years?
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Hopefully.
Brian
Hopefully he doesn't get corrupted by the teachers or other students or pull them out and just let him start working with me and.
Ryan
Right. See how, like, why did you do a. Is there a protest in school or. Or.
Brian
No, there is. Honestly, I'm A high school dropout. So I am also not, like, the biggest fan of school. So it's actually something that I'm wrestling with right now with him, where he's like. He came to me as, like, it's hard to imagine because you don't have kids, but imagine your boy.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
Like, hey, dude, like, I kind of don't want to go to school anymore. Like, yeah. You'd be like, it's hard. And then you have to pitch them on, like, whoa. You gotta go to school because you gotta learn algebra and you gotta learn.
Ryan
There's drawbacks because I feel like you have to grow up quicker and you're giving up part of your childhood. You're giving up prom and all those memories. Yeah, Yeah.
Brian
I didn't go to promote.
Ryan
Yeah. But for me, that's like, a memory I'll have for the rest of my life. Yeah. I feel like a lot of kids feel that way. You give up on certain memories with your class and friendships. So there's pros and cons to both.
Brian
Exactly. Yeah.
Ryan
I feel like college, though. Hell, no.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Not for the price.
Brian
No. If you want to be a doctor
Ryan
or something like that, even that, like, I think AI is going to replace a lot of doctors. I talked to a lot of surgeons.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
And AIs get so good at surgery now.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
It's crazy.
Brian
Yeah. Yeah. Law, surgery, all those things. AI's got to replace it because that's
Ryan
the biggest thing doctors get sued for is, like, when they fuck up.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
So if AI can not fuck up as much, it's huge for their business. Yeah.
Brian
Yeah. What about you as, like, a new husband? How do you feel like you're doing as a husband?
Ryan
Not as good as I should be, dude. I. I'm very addicted to, like, my passions, you know? Like, why? Like, Dude, I filmed 2,000 podcasts in three years. That's not normal.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
So that obviously takes away time from the family. And I think it does worry her that I'm just so obsessed with work sometimes, you know? And I know for you, you put faith first, then family, then finance, right? Yeah, I'm probably family finance, then Faith.
Brian
Got it. Okay.
Ryan
Like, ideally. But at the same time, I'm working so much. I don't know if I could truly say families first yet, but in an ideal scenario, that's what I would, Mark.
Brian
Okay, so let's just ask you a hard question right now. Do you put money over your family?
Ryan
In what sense?
Brian
In time.
Ryan
And in time in time, yes. I probably work 60 to 80 hours a week. And the time I spend with her, just one on one is probably 30 to 50 on the week. No hours per. Okay.
Brian
Okay.
Ryan
Yeah. Because when I get home at, like, 5, until 10, 11.
Brian
So you do go home at 5?
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
Okay. And then you're. Are you present?
Ryan
No. Okay. Not the whole time.
Brian
Okay.
Ryan
That's what I need to work on. Okay.
Brian
Do you put your phone away?
Ryan
No.
Brian
Do you plan things? Do you guys have date nights?
Ryan
Yes. My gym started doing that. We just started doing foamless dinners.
Brian
Okay.
Ryan
That was, like, my worst habit, I think.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Do you do that?
Brian
Yeah. Yeah. And then we also do date nights. For us.
Ryan
A week.
Brian
For us. Yeah. That was huge. That was like. We went through a rough patch in our marriage, and when we started doing date nights, that was like, literal game danger.
Ryan
Yeah, yeah, we just started doing that.
Brian
Yeah. Because we got so wrapped up in, like, cleaning and the kids and. And business. And then we come home and then we just wanted to be chilling, cleaning.
Ryan
I outsourced.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Because that was a fight, too, for us. Because I'm kind of messy because I have ADHD and I forget to do things. Forget to clean up sometimes.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. So day nights is huge. And then I believe, like, spiritually leading is also huge because even, like, it's hard to think about, but, like, as a man, it's obviously really important for you to have a relationship with God. Right. It's also really important for you for your wife to have a relationship with God, because the more peace and love and joy and forgiveness that she has, that also translates into your relationship with.
Ryan
Right. Yeah. So I'd say we both believe in God right now.
Brian
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Ryan
When I first started dating her, I was atheist slash agnostic.
Brian
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. But it's not about belief, because in the Bible it says even the demons believe in God.
Ryan
Really?
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
You think, like, Satan doesn't believe in God?
Ryan
Well, he's Adams. All right, so he definitely believes in him.
Brian
Yeah. So he believes that he's true. So belief is not enough.
Ryan
Interesting.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
So what is enough then?
Brian
Do you have faith?
Ryan
Define that.
Brian
Do you have trust in Jesus Christ? Do you believe that Jesus Christ is God?
Ryan
Do I believe Jesus is God? Yes, because you've taught me about and I've read the Bible, so.
Brian
Okay, well, then that's good. That's the very. That's a very, very good first step. Right. So after you have that first step and your wife has that first step, then comes the sanctification process. So that means to start, become More like Christ. So that means follow his commandments. So, like, one commandment Jesus told us to do was be baptized.
Ryan
I've been baptized. Okay, perfect. Yeah, I'm pretty sure I have. I got circumcised. Is that another one?
Brian
That's. That's great, too. Oh, that.
Ryan
Okay, we're gonna have to debate on that one, actually.
Brian
Yeah, I'm not saying Jesus told you that. I'm just saying that's great that you. There's a bunch of information on circumcision.
Ryan
I don't know if I want it for my kids.
Brian
Yeah, well, in the Bible, it actually tells us to not be circumcised.
Ryan
Oh, really? Yeah.
Brian
So. So Paul was fighting against that, but we're gonna stick on Jesus. Our second.
Ryan
Yeah, sorry.
Brian
So, yeah, it's so funny, too, because Christians still debate about circumcision, and then when you read it in the Bible, you're like, damn, like, this was written 2000 years ago. And people are still arguing that. People are still fighting. But okay, so you believe, which is great. Next you're saying you have faith. That's great. Next step is becoming more like Christ. First step, be baptized. Okay, you guys are done there, right?
Ryan
I think we both did, yeah.
Brian
Next step, in my opinion, would be what you're already doing is reading the Bible with your wife. Right. So you don't want to be unequally yoked. You want to be on the same page. Right. And then I believe it's important to find a church that you feel comfortable with, because there's a couple things you're going to find at church. One of them is community. Right? So the enemy likes to isolate us and keep us by ourselves or keep us around non believers.
Ryan
Right.
Brian
Because that weakens our relationship with God. And then also you're going to find spiritual fathers or spiritual mentors. So people that can say, hey, when you're having problems with your wife, you go speak to someone who is a godly man, who is wise, who is and knows the word of God, and he can speak life into you. Right. Or when you have questions about circumcision, instead of you debating some idiot like me, go debate a leader or not. Don't go debate a leader. Go talk to a pastor. Like, hey, what do Christians believe about circumcision? And then they explain it to you, and then you have the answer. You don't have to, like, figure it out on yourself.
Ryan
Yeah, yeah, I know you've been to a lot of churches, right?
Brian
Yeah, I've been to a lot of churches, for sure.
Ryan
What's been your experience? Because I am. I have a biased perspective on it from guests I've had on the show. Yeah, that really talked out on it.
Brian
But, yeah, I mean. So I'll tell you a quick story. So I was born in Puerto Rico, moved here when I was 5. I lived with my mom, right? My mom was a cocktail waitress at the Imperial Palace. Do you know where that was?
Ryan
No.
Brian
It was on the Strip. It was like an old casino. Right. So, long story short, I grew up with a single mom, right? I watched her struggle, I watched her cry, not be able to pay the bills. She was kind of abusive. Like, it was a bad environment, right? Became an adult. I was like, you know what? I'm out, dude. I'm going to live my life. I'm going to do what I want to do. Started doing drugs, are sleeping around. How my first kid at 19, met my wife at 26, you know, became successful, became a multimillionaire, all these things. And then there was a day where I was sitting at my house, and at the time, my house was paid off. I had my daughter on my lap watching tv. I had my kids there. My dog's there. My wife was in the kitchen. And I was, like, extremely depressed. I was just like. I was looking into my backyard. I see my pool. I have a huge glass door. I have a Mercedes Benz in the front. And I'm just like, I don't understand why I don't feel happy. Like, I thought once I had this and that and live in a gated community and had the Rolexes and had the wife and had the kids, I thought I would be happy because I was like, dude, I'm just gonna. I'm just gonna put God later, and I'm gonna focus on money now. And I thought once I got there, I was gonna be happy. So I was just like, bro, this sucks. Like, I feel like crap. So I went to my buddy Ryan, and I was like, dude, this is what's happening. I feel depressed. I feel anxious. I don't feel happy. He's like, bro, you got to go to church. I was like, dog, I do not want to go to church. Like, that's not what I want.
Ryan
That's so relatable.
Brian
I was like, bro, that's not the answer. Like, tell me something else, right? Tell me my wife is wrong or something.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
So he was like, bro, you got to go to church. Other people started pouring into me saying, you should go to church. So I go to church. I was like, you know what? I never wanted to be fake. I thought I was, like, a bad person, which is a whole nother story. But I thought I was a bad person, so I didn't want to go to church. So I go to church finally, and I'm sitting there, and then Pastor Jabe in a City Light church was talking about shame. And he was like, what the enemy likes to do is he's like, well, Brian, you've done this, you've done that, you've done this. You're not good enough for grace. Right.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
And at the time when I was sitting there, I used to struggle with pornography.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
While I was married. And at the time, I'm like, holding on to this Shane of like, my wife doesn't really know that I'm struggling with porn. And all my friends don't really know. And I'm kind of like, you know, bottling this in. And I always just share that. But everyone usually has something rather than being. I don't want to say the word, but, you know, an abortion or whatever. Everyone has something that's their little dark secret, and they feel like God is ashamed of them for it. So he went and talked about that, and I felt like this huge weight was lifted off of me. And then from that day, I never watched porn again.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
And I struggled with that for 15 years. Yes.
Ryan
You went from watching it daily to never again?
Brian
Not daily. I'm not. I wasn't like, there were, you know, we won't get into it. I wasn't like, oh, my God. Like, I'm this crazy person, but it was a thing. Right. So that went away. And then I used to struggle with anxiety, and then my anxiety went away, and I had anxiety my whole life.
Ryan
Wow.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
So I was going to church once
Brian
just from going to church. Well, one of them was going to church once. And then the second time was I was telling one of my friends, Ryan, that I was struggling with it.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
He's like, bro, let's pray for it. Pray for it. It went away.
Ryan
No way.
Brian
Yes. Yes. And I've seen people. I've seen people healed of cancer. I've. I've literally, I've seen.
Ryan
Just from prayer.
Brian
Just from prayer. Yes.
Ryan
These are like a physical condition.
Brian
These are. I've seen people that had physical conditions be healed. I've seen animals. I saw an animal that had a tumor, like, that was blocking the animal's nose, and it was, like, unable to breathe. Its teeth was worth falling out. I seen someone pray for the tumor, and I seen that Tumor go away. I swear with my own eyes.
Ryan
Like, oh, my gosh.
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
And you have no reason to lie about it.
Brian
Yeah, exactly. Like an animal. Like who has a testimony about a dog. Right? Like, that's.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
So after experiencing these things, I realized how important church was. The enemy likes to make people think church is not important.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
It's like, dude, you gotta, you got, you got a relationship with God on your own, man. It's you. It's you in the Bible, you know, you pumpkin pie in the Bible. You're America. You got your freedom. You don't need authority from another man. That's the fallacy that we don't need church.
Ryan
I've seen that argument. I've also seen all the headlines with the mega churches and the money laundering.
Brian
Exactly.
Ryan
Yeah. That's a fear tactic.
Brian
I'd assume it's a fear tactic. And it's like, okay, one pastor steals money. How many churches are just in Las Vegas?
Ryan
Is there a lot?
Brian
A lot, a lot quadrants or hundreds, maybe thousands just in Las Vegas. How many churches do you think there are that are in the United States? Let's say Christian churches.
Ryan
Let's just look, it's gotta be hundreds of thousands, right?
Brian
Let's just, let's just ask Chat how many Christian churches are in the United States? So Chat says there's around 350 to 380,000 churches. Yeah. That's a lot of churches. Right. And we always hear about the one pastor that has a plane. Let's say the five pastors that have a plane. What about the other 300,000 pastors? What about all the broke pastors that are literally living in apartments and can't provide for themselves, but they run a church? What about the Catholic priests that they make $50,000 a year no matter how big their church is?
Ryan
What about those guys that I respect?
Brian
Yeah.
Ryan
If there's no direct incentive with member count and financial.
Brian
And that's fair, you know. But the point is the news and all these things. They point out the pastor that stole money. There's 350,000 churches. And most of those churches have multiple pastors. There's not one pastor at a church. Usually there's five, six, seven.
Ryan
Right. So, yeah, I feel that.
Brian
So, yeah, it's propaganda against the Christian church.
Ryan
Yeah. I just had one of these, I guess you could call it mega church. It was Justin Bieber's pastor. Okay. And I just thought it was interesting how they really. I think so you have biases.
Brian
Why do vices.
Ryan
Yeah, yeah, yeah. They've really villainized some of these dudes, so I wanted to get his perspective.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. And it sucks. And it's like, also like, these mega church pastors, bro, they impact hundreds of thousands of people, so it's. It's tough. Like, do I agree with. Should they be making millions of dollars? I don't know. To me, I don't care either way. But if you see someone who's like, Stephen Furtick, do you know who that is?
Ryan
Yeah, heard of him, bro.
Brian
He's impacting hundreds of millions of people. His songs, like, all those songs that you hear.
Ryan
Yeah.
Brian
You know, he wrote a lot of those songs.
Ryan
I didn't know.
Brian
Did you know that? No. Like, I'll show you real quick.
Ryan
One of my favorite guests was a megachurch pastor.
Brian
Who was it?
Ryan
Erwin McManus.
Brian
Oh, yeah.
Ryan
You heard of him? Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Sharp, dude.
Brian
But look, Trusting God, Huge psalm.
Ryan
Yeah. Wow. Good for him.
Brian
He. He writes.
Ryan
I actually love church music.
Brian
Yeah, yeah. He writes so many songs, bro. And they travel the country and fill up arenas, and it's like, dude, like, if he makes a million bucks, is he just. It.
Ryan
It's like, dude, when they make money indirectly, I don't mind it. So about books and public speaking, stuff like that, I don't mind that at all. You know, it's in business at the end of the day. But, dude, thanks for your time work, beat the scripture, your show and everything.
Brian
They could just go to the way with Brian DeVilla on YouTube.
Ryan
Cool. Check them out, guys.
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DIGITAL SOCIAL HOUR EPISODE SUMMARY
Episode: "Christian WARNS Me That My Psychic is Doing Something Much Darker Than I Think" (DSH #1984)
Date: May 28, 2026
Host: Sean Kelly
Guests: Brian DeVilla (Christian entrepreneur, host of "The Way with Brian DeVilla") and Ryan (frequent guest, podcast producer)
This episode dives deep into faith, religious denominations, alternative spiritualities like psychics and reincarnation, and the intersection of technology, family, and personal struggles. Ryan discusses his experiences with psychics and his evolving beliefs, while Brian offers candid Christian perspectives, often warning against spiritual practices outside Christianity and their potential dangers. Alongside this, they openly discuss the challenges of modern faith, family life, AI, education, and money, punctuated by memorable anecdotes and genuine vulnerability.
The conversation is open, candid, sometimes tense but curious and respectful, with both hosts probing each other's worldviews. Brian is unapologetically direct in his faith-based warnings, while Ryan offers genuine curiosity and relatability, particularly about struggles with faith, marriage, and technology. The dialogue is marked by Brian’s passionate advocacy for "objective truth" through Christianity and Ryan's openness to questioning and learning.
This episode offers a highly engaged exploration of faith versus alternative spiritualities, the beauty and complexity of Christian tradition, real-life stories of struggle and renewal, the role (and dangers) of AI in shaping truth, and practical talk about family, marriage, and legacy. With memorable quotes and honest storytelling, it provides food for thought for Christians, seekers, and skeptics alike.