From Engineer to Influencer: Her Viral Journey | Ara Bozorgian DSH #1308

Summary

From Engineer to Influencer: Ara Bozorgian’s Viral Journey

Podcast: Digital Social Hour
Host: Sean Kelly
Episode: From Engineer to Influencer: Her Viral Journey | Ara Bozorgian DSH #1308
Release Date: April 8, 2025

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1. Introduction

In this compelling episode of Digital Social Hour, host Sean Kelly sits down with Ara Bozorgian, a former chemical engineer who has successfully transformed her career into that of a viral social media influencer. The conversation delves deep into Ara's unconventional path, the challenges she faced, and the insights she gained along the way.

2. Early Days on Social Media

Ara began her social media journey in 2011, primarily using Instagram to build her following. "I started growing a following on Instagram. I had like 20 to 30,000 followers, and I was like, okay, how do I monetize these people?" (09:24). At the time, branding opportunities were limited for influencers with her follower count, prompting her to explore alternative monetization strategies.

3. Transition to OnlyFans and Content Creation

Seeking more lucrative avenues, Ara transitioned to platforms like Patreon and eventually settled on OnlyFans after discovering its potential for financial gain. "I heard about Only Fans and how you can make more money in the messages. And, like, I was like, okay, wait, let me switch over." (10:14). She embraced a trial-and-error approach, offering various custom content to engage her audience. This included everything from sending selfies in workout gear to more unconventional requests like "take pictures in the underwear and then, like, work out in it" (10:57).

4. Navigating the Influencer Ecosystem: Challenges and Scams

Ara highlights the darker side of the influencer world, particularly the prevalence of scams. "A lot of them are scammers also. A lot of people just try to, like, recruit the girls that are already making money just so they just get a piece of the pie instead of actually help scale and make it bigger." (08:29). She emphasizes the importance of maintaining control over her content and income, opting to manage her social media presence herself rather than entrusting it to potentially unscrupulous agents.

5. Lifestyle Changes and Daily Routine

With her newfound success, Ara's daily routine became a blend of productivity and personal well-being. "A typical day like for you? I wake up, I walk sushi, hit the gym, take content, answer messages, emails, all that fun stuff. Traveling. Sometimes I'm traveling sometimes at home, so it depends. Every day is kind of different." (01:22). Despite her busy schedule, Ara maintains a balanced lifestyle, incorporating fitness and creative content creation into her routine.

6. Dating and Relationships in Miami

Residing in Miami, Ara discusses the complexities of the local dating scene. "I'm a monogamous type of girl, but I feel like most people aren't, so that's probably why I'm single, because I'm just not gonna put up with bullshit." (06:07). She shares her preferences for confident, ambitious partners and navigates the challenges of dating in a city known for its fast-paced and often superficial interactions.

7. Experiences in Music Videos

Ara’s career expansion includes appearances in high-profile music videos. Her first was "No Guidance" featuring Chris Brown and Drake. "That was my first music video, so I was like, kind of nervous, but I was a feature model, so that was pretty dope. I was in a few different scenes." (34:01). She recounts the demanding nature of music video shoots, often working long hours to achieve the perfect shot, yet finding the experience rewarding and enriching.

8. Views on Beauty and Plastic Surgery

Preferring a natural approach to beauty, Ara opts for non-surgical enhancements. "I've always thought about getting a BBL, but then I was like, God, please. Like, I'm scared of like going under." (15:34). She uses fillers and Botox sparingly to maintain a youthful appearance without compromising her natural look, stating, "I just want it a little bit to stay natural and like, not like preventative... just want to be cute and young." (16:22).

9. Collaborations and Content Evolution

Initially, Ara engaged in numerous collaborations to boost her follower count. "I used to do a lot of it, more when I was first starting out... But now I'm a little bit more selective with who I collaborate with." (16:43). This strategic approach allows her to partner with creators who align with her brand, ensuring sustained growth and authenticity in her content.

10. Personal Beliefs and Interests

Ara shares her fascination with various conspiracies and paranormal phenomena. "The moon landing for sure is fake. Like, the pictures look like green screen." (37:59). While skeptical about some theories, she remains open-minded about the existence of aliens and ghosts, highlighting her interest in the unknown and unexplained.

11. Productivity, Cannabis Use, and ADHD Management

Managing ADHD without pharmaceutical interventions, Ara relies on cannabis to enhance her creativity and productivity. "It actually helps me, like when I'm editing and stuff. It's more creative. I feel like I whip up a better reel or like if I'm like editing things, it just like the colors, like, I don't know." (30:54). This natural approach allows her to maintain focus and creativity in her demanding influencer role.

12. Conclusion

Ara Bozorgian’s journey from a chemical engineer to a viral influencer is a testament to her adaptability, resilience, and entrepreneurial spirit. Navigating the intricate world of social media monetization, she has carved out a unique space for herself, balancing personal values with professional ambitions. Her candid discussions on challenges, lifestyle choices, and personal beliefs provide invaluable insights for aspiring influencers and entrepreneurs alike.

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Notable Quotes:

• On Monetization: "I was just trying to figure out how to, like, automatically get the payments." (10:14)

• On Scams: "A lot of people just try to, like, recruit the girls that are already making money just so they just get a piece of the pie." (08:29)

• On Dating Standards: "I'm a monogamous type of girl... because I'm just not gonna put up with bullshit." (06:07)

• On Music Video Shoots: "I was a feature model, so that was pretty dope. I was in a few different scenes." (34:01)

• On Plastic Surgery: "I just want it a little bit to stay natural and like, not like preventative... just want to be cute and young." (16:22)

• On Cannabis Use: "It actually helps me... I whip up a better reel... it's more creative." (30:54)

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Ara Bozorgian’s story is not just about personal transformation but also about navigating and thriving in the ever-evolving landscape of digital influence. Her experiences offer valuable lessons on authenticity, strategic growth, and maintaining personal integrity in the face of challenges.

Transcript

[A]

We know what's going on.

[B]

Yeah, we know exactly what's going on. But I mean, come back with a new Birkin every time.

[A]

I mean, if you do that once every two months, that's half a mil a year.

[B]

Yeah. That's crazy.

[A]

Not bad.

[B]

To get shitted on is insane.

[A]

I guess you could just immediately shower.

[B]

Would you. Would you?

[A]

On somebody for what? 100k?

[B]

Wait, they have to pay you to on them?

[A]

Okay, guys, got Aura Queen BAE here today with sushi. Brought the dog out.

[B]

Yeah, you know, he comes with me everywhere. He's my sidekick.

[A]

Let's go. Got the Sarah's animal on it.

[B]

Yeah. Thanks for having us.

[A]

Absolutely. What. What's. Did you just land in Vegas or.

[B]

Yeah, I came yesterday.

[A]

You have a fun night last night?

[B]

No, I actually just stayed in. I went to bed at like 8pm Because I'm on Eastern, so. Damn, that was like 11 for me.

[A]

You didn't want to hit the clubs or anything?

[B]

I'm not really like a partier.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Never been or. Just got over it.

[B]

I used to be like a big partier, but I feel like I'm just kind of over it. It's like the same thing every night. I like smoking weed and just chilling.

[A]

That's like once the of money started rolling. I'm sure you didn't go out as much.

[B]

Yeah, you know, it's like, I don't get me wrong, I'll go out every once in a while to celebrate something but. Or if there's something good going on. But I don't know, I've been to every Vegas club at this point.

[A]

So what's a typical day like for you?

[B]

I wake up, I walk sushi, hit the gym, take content, answer messages, emails, all that fun stuff. Traveling. Sometimes I'm traveling sometimes at home, so it depends. Every day is kind of different.

[A]

Are you posting daily?

[B]

Yeah, I post on every social media. So I'll have like a couple hours a day where I'm just like sitting there like posting, editing.

[A]

Damn. You do all that yourself?

[B]

For YouTube I have editors, but for reels and tick tocks and stuff. Yeah, I just like to do it myself.

[A]

What was the first viral video? What were you doing?

[B]

My first viral video. Oh my God. Well, I started doing social media in 2011.

[A]

Oh, wow.

[B]

So it was Instagram and it was mostly pictures at the time. But most viral video on Tick tock got like 30 million followers and it's just like. Or 30 million views. It's behind the scenes of one of those like white Background dating shows. You know, the blind dating ones where you.

[A]

Yeah, I've seen that.

[B]

So there was like a viral clip of just the feet. And then I had the behind the curtain, behind the scenes, and I duetted it, and that video got like 30 minutes.

[A]

Oh, that's cool.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

So you. Were you on the video or you were just.

[B]

Yeah, I was in the video. So I was behind the curtain. But nobody knew who was behind the curtain, like in the original video. Then when I do edit, they're like, oh, like.

[A]

And did the guy end up picking you?

[B]

I was third or second.

[A]

Okay. That's an interesting show because you don't know what they look like. It's like that show Love is Blind or whatever.

[B]

Yeah. You have to go based on, like, the answers.

[A]

Yeah, I got to watch that one. Who was the guy in that one?

[B]

It was either Trevor Wallace or Hunter Mark.

[A]

Okay. Trevor's funny. And then who's that one guy from Dropouts? That's hilarious. Zach.

[B]

Zach. Yeah, Zach. I think it might have been Zach, actually.

[A]

Okay. Yeah, Zach's. He's got game, man. I could talk.

[B]

Yeah, I think I low key think Trevor's kind of funnier.

[A]

Really? You got Trevor over Zach?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Wow.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I mean, Trevor is a comedian.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

That kind of makes sense.

[B]

Yeah, Trevor's just like. There's something about him that makes him.

[A]

Like, quirky and funny.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Have you been on that pop the balloon show? The red balloons?

[B]

I just did something similar to that in Miami.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Timu version of it, but it'll probably.

[A]

Drop after this, so. Spill the beans will happen.

[B]

It's already. It's already dropped.

[A]

Oh, it's already out.

[B]

Yeah, it was. It was okay.

[A]

You didn't find love now I'm still looking. I feel like you're intimidating to most guys.

[B]

Really?

[A]

Because of your lifestyle.

[B]

Really? Yeah, I. I would say so. Probably. I need, like, a confident man.

[A]

Yeah. Because think about it. You're pulling in a lot of money. You're making sexual content. You're posting thirst traps.

[B]

Yep.

[A]

A lot of guys are insecure about that.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You know it's true. And you're in Miami. Miami's already a hard dating market.

[B]

I heard it's impossible. Today in Miami, everyone has, like, 20 relationships at the same time.

[A]

Do you like monogamous or do you like multiple?

[B]

I'm a monogamous type of girl, but I feel like most people aren't, so that's probably why I'm single, because I'm just not gonna put up with bullshit.

[A]

You might have to get out of there.

[B]

I would for the right person.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

Like if my future husband lived in like Texas, I would move there.

[A]

What's the right person look like for you?

[B]

A confident man, someone with ambition and drive. Family oriented. Just like funny. Like I, I like to have a good laugh. So like someone that also likes to.

[A]

Travel over six feet.

[B]

Yeah. Because I'm five one so I need my kids to have a chance at being tall.

[A]

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[B]

Yeah. A little bit. Because if I married a short king then our children would be short. So like I need them to have a little bit of.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Room to work with.

[A]

That makes sense. What about money? Salary wise? What do they have to make?

[B]

It would be nice if they made more money than me.

[A]

That's tough.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

They'd have to make basically millions a year.

[B]

Yeah, basically.

[A]

That limits your pool a lot.

[B]

I mean that's fine. I don't need to date all of the people. I just need to date the right person.

[A]

Quality over quantity, Right.

[B]

So I feel like they're out there. There's some like rich e commerce dudes and like crypto nerds. Crypto guys? Yeah.

[A]

You ever been with a crypto guy?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

What was that like?

[B]

He was a scammer, stole money from me.

[A]

He stole from you?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

How do you do that?

[B]

I call him the crypto swindler. So at the time I had purchased a bunch of crypto that had like matured I guess or like and I wanted to like sell it and then get into new positions. So I had asked him to help me, and he took the wallet and sent it to himself instead of, like, trading things for me.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

So he just sent him myself a bunch of money.

[A]

No way.

[B]

From my wallet.

[A]

And you were dating at the time when he did that?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

What?

[B]

We were like, seeing each other. We weren't like, officially.

[A]

Was it a good amount?

[B]

It was like 30,000. Wow.

[A]

Took the bag and dipped.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You scared him away.

[B]

And then later on, I googled him and he's, like, known. I might know him, though, to be a crypto swindler.

[A]

Say the name.

[B]

Colt. Coltland.

[A]

No, I don't know that one. There's a few that are pretty well known, but I haven't heard that one.

[B]

I don't know what happened to him, but hopefully he's in jail.

[A]

Well, there's a lot of scammers in.

[B]

Miami and Vegas, right?

[A]

Vegas is known for that. Yeah. I haven't ran into any yet, but I hear from the girls out here that there's pimps and scammers and stuff.

[B]

I've heard a lot of crazy stories from the girls here.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

But Miami definitely is like one of the capitals of the scammers.

[A]

You ever get try to get pimped out out there?

[B]

No.

[A]

That's good, at least.

[B]

Yeah, I don't. I don't do like, escorting stuff, so.

[A]

Yeah, I heard they just getting all in your business and start taking everything and so you don't have like a manager, like your of stuff?

[B]

No, I just do everything myself.

[A]

Wow. Good for you. That's not easy to, like, pull off. There's. There's a lot going on in that business.

[B]

There's a lot going on. Yeah. Here and there. I'll have somebody that helps me with, like, manage, like, upload my content or something or, you know.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because I'm sure you get my feed.

[A]

You get pitched for management all the time.

[B]

But yeah, a lot of them are scammers also. A lot of people just try to, like, recruit the girls that are already making money just so they just get a piece of the pie instead of actually help scale and make it bigger. I feel like agencies would actually be more successful if they helped the creators, like, become bigger creators.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

But if you're just trying to take the money that I'm already making and take a percentage of it, then you're not doing it.

[A]

Yeah, yeah. Some of them take 50%.

[B]

That's insane.

[A]

Crazy.

[B]

That's insane. I don't know who agrees to that. I mean, I get it if you're just first starting out and, like, you don't really know what you're doing and you don't have much following, you don't have networks to, like, grow your following, it might be beneficial. But again, it's like, a lot of times these guys just try to take your money versus help you.

[A]

Yeah. When you started doing it, did you have a set timeline or you kind of just go on day by day with it?

[B]

So I started in 2018. It was before anybody really was on Only Fans at the time. It was very, like, unfamiliar to people what Only Fans even really was. It was before COVID and I was actually a chemical engineer at the time.

[A]

Wow.

[B]

So I started growing a following on Instagram. I had like 20 to 30,000 followers, and I was like, okay, how do I monetize these people? Because brands weren't really trying to pay for a post for 20,000. 20,000 followers at the time. I was like, okay, how can I, like, get people to just want to, like, be added somewhere? So that was like, Snapchat. I'd be like, oh, like, if you want me to add you back on Snap at $20 or whatever, like, I'll add you back.

[A]

People paid for that?

[B]

People paid for that just to add.

[A]

You as a friend on Snapchat for.

[B]

Me to add them back.

[A]

Wow.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I did not know that was a market.

[B]

So I was just trying to figure out how to, like, automatically get the payments. And first I did Patreon, and then I heard about Only Fans and how you can make more money in the messages. And, like, I was like, okay, wait, let me switch over.

[A]

And then the rest is history. Yeah, I took over and then did the content. Was it straight nude at first or did you work your way up?

[B]

I. It. I kind of was all over the place. I had no guidance, I had no management. Like I said, I was just kind of trial and erroring. People were doing customs a lot at the time. So if somebody wanted something, I would charge them a certain amount. Way more than what I would have thought that somebody would pay, and they were down to pay it. So I would create the content.

[A]

But what were some weird customs you got.

[B]

Under? Like, people wanted my underwear. Like, they wanted me to take pictures in the underwear and then, like, work out in it and then send it to them. Yeah, socks. A lot of people want to buy your socks and, like, content. Oh, lot of people want to see you farting.

[A]

Geez.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

They pay you to fart?

[B]

Yep.

[A]

That's nuts.

[B]

It's crazy. There's so many. There's so many weird things. And another guy wanted me to, like, fully clothed, just, like, lick crackers off the floor.

[A]

What? That's crazy.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Damn. Yeah, I hear some wild ones.

[B]

I also have a lot of guys that are into fom.

[A]

I don't even know what that is.

[B]

You're familiar with that? So that's basically like financial dominatrix, where the guy just wants you to keep telling them to send more. Like, send me another 100, send me another 100. Like, keep, like, sending me money. Like, they want you to just basically drain their bank account.

[A]

I'll do that. Send me some money. Yeah.

[B]

So that's my favorite.

[A]

Yeah. Those sound easy to deal with.

[B]

I love those ones. So.

[A]

Wow. Has someone ever sent you like a stupid amount of money?

[B]

Yeah, I've had somebody that sent me like 30,000.

[A]

Damn. In one day?

[B]

Not in one day, like in overtime over time.

[A]

And did you end up meeting with him in person?

[B]

No.

[A]

You won't do that?

[B]

No.

[A]

What if someone offered 100,000 just, like.

[B]

To go to dinner?

[A]

Yeah, yeah.

[B]

For dinner.

[A]

Okay. And then back to the hotel room after.

[B]

Absolutely.

[A]

You're catching an Uber from the dinner table.

[B]

Yeah. Like, these guys want you to be mean to them, so it's like. Unless, like, if you want me to like, kick you in the nuts for 100k, sure, I'll do that.

[A]

Wow. So you're out here being a little dominatrix on the side.

[B]

Yeah, I kind of like it.

[A]

You like it?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Damn. I mean, when. When money's there. Yeah, yeah.

[B]

Like, you know, you could just be mean and they like it. Whereas, like, usually when you're mean, people are like, what the is wrong with this girl?

[A]

I wonder what causes a guy to get to that point.

[B]

A lot of guys that have a lot of money or like stuff status, like CEOs and stuff, are into that.

[A]

Really? Oh, maybe because they're the ones dominating during the day. Yeah, yeah. You see that show Suits?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Was it suits or like some other show where. Yeah, they would just get dominated?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Damn. Yeah. The bald guy in suits. What's his name?

[B]

What's his name?

[A]

I forget his name, but everyone knows who I'm talking about.

[B]

I know who you're talking about.

[A]

Yeah. Yeah, he would. He would be a lawyer during the day and then at night when he get pegged or something.

[B]

Yeah, he loved that.

[A]

Yeah. Damn. That's crazy. So you don't do any in person meetups though? Unless it's a big bag. Yeah, that's probably smart.

[B]

I. I never like. I know a lot of people, like start from doing meetups with people and then they went to only fans. I never really. I was a chemical engineer, so I was just trying to like monetize my following. Not really, like try to meet up with people.

[A]

You didn't like chemical engineering, huh?

[B]

Listen, it was cool. I liked the schooling part of it. I had a job in oil and gas and that was not very exciting to me personally because I was in a cubicle all day. I like being outside and like just talking to people and like, I'm very outgoing. So like. And creative. It didn't really allow me to be very creative behind a desk. Like.

[A]

Yeah, yeah. Seems like it's not the most fun job. I had to guess. You lived in, let's see, four countries.

[B]

Yeah, I've lived in Iran. That's where I was born. Moved to Canada when I was 10. During COVID I lived in Mexico and now I live in Miami.

[A]

What do you like the most?

[B]

Miami.

[A]

Really? Okay, so you are a little Miami girl then? Yeah, they call them 304s.

[B]

No.

[A]

Imagine you on fresh and fit.

[B]

I just went on there.

[A]

Oh, you did?

[B]

Recently.

[A]

And were they roasting you the whole time?

[B]

Yeah, but honestly, like, nothing phases me anymore.

[A]

Yeah, that's good.

[B]

I was like, okay, Myron, what else you got?

[A]

Like, you didn't take it personal.

[B]

I thought Myron was pretty soft actually.

[A]

Are you serious? Yeah, I've seen him go at girls like, yeah, make him cry.

[B]

He called me fat, but I was like, I like it.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Yeah, I was like, honestly, I. I did gain £20, but it went to all the right places. My fans seemed to love it. My boobs got bigger, my ass got bigger.

[A]

So was that a procedure or was that.

[B]

It was naturally just gaining weight.

[A]

Damn.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

20 pounds. In how long?

[B]

A year and a half.

[A]

Okay. Damn, 20 pounds?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I guess on a girl that's a lot, right?

[B]

Yeah. I always like thought about getting a bbl, but then I was like, God, please. Like, I'm scared of like going under. Like, can you just give me bigger boobs and a bigger ass?

[A]

And I hate going under. I won't even get my wisdom teeth out.

[B]

It's. It sounds scary, right?

[A]

Like I've just heard like.

[B]

But like that's not even that scary because bbl, like I've seen the videos. They're like going in like with this like knife, like taking all your fat out. Like it just sounds traumatizing.

[A]

Oh my gosh.

[B]

And then afterwards, the Recovery sounds horrible. Like.

[A]

Yeah, it takes a while, right?

[B]

Yeah. I've heard just so many horror stories.

[A]

How many surgeries have you gone?

[B]

None.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Oh, wow. All natural.

[B]

Yeah. Just had like, filler and Botox on my face.

[A]

Okay. That's not a surgery.

[B]

No, it's just like, needles, like, takes like five minutes.

[A]

Have you lost the ability to make certain emotions from the Botox?

[B]

No, actually, my Botox, like, wears off pretty quick, so.

[A]

Oh, really? Because I've heard some people can't smile and have you seen that?

[B]

Yeah. Yeah.

[A]

That's scary to me.

[B]

Yeah, no, I don't do that far. Like, I just want it a little bit to stay natural and like, not like preventative, you know, you don't want to be like, old and wrinkly because we're in front of the camera all day.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

So don't want to look plastic, but just want to, like, cute and young.

[A]

Do you do a lot of collabs with other creators?

[B]

I do, yeah, I do. I used to do a lot of it, more when I was first starting out, just because I was trying to grow my following and every collaboration opportunity, I would take it. But now I'm a little bit more selective with who I collaborate with.

[A]

Makes sense. Have you done Dread yet?

[B]

No, I. No. Oh, you meant those types of collabs?

[A]

Yeah. What did you think?

[B]

Oh, I thought you meant like just normal collabs.

[A]

Well, I guess. What's normal for you? You know, I'm talking like the. The of stuff.

[B]

Oh, okay. No, so collab wise, I did a few during COVID like for of. But I don't really shoot that type of content anymore because it's just not really. It doesn't really align with who I am as a person. I don't even have sex in my personal life.

[A]

What?

[B]

Yeah, I've been celibate for like a year and a half.

[A]

Are you serious?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Why? You're in Miami.

[B]

Yeah, exactly. That's why. Because everyone just wants to fuck.

[A]

And you don't want that?

[B]

No, I don't really enjoy having sex with, like, random people. Just like, for one night stand type of vibe. I'd rather have sex with somebody that I'm like, intimate and like, in a relationship with. For me personally, the sex is always better. Like when I have feelings for somebody and I'm, you know, seeing them or dating them.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Versus, like, one night stands. I've never came from a one night stand, so.

[A]

Wow.

[B]

What do we get out of this?

[A]

Damn, that's impressive.

[B]

Yeah, like, I don't know.

[A]

Yeah, I guess it's a. For me, it's a spiritual experience, too.

[B]

Exactly. Like, I'm. If I'm not, like, connected with you, like, through, like, our brain and, like, chemistry and, like, I don't know, being kind of committed to somebody also turns me on to, like. I don't really like you. You could be, like, also having sex with all these other people, which everybody has in Miami. So it's like, that gives me the ick. Like, ew. Like, who were you having sex with yesterday? Because this, like, you know, how easily.

[A]

Do you get the ick from a guy?

[B]

Pretty quick.

[A]

You see those viral videos of, like, the list?

[B]

Oh, my God. I literally. If you walk weird, I'll get the ick.

[A]

Yeah. Guys can't even walk now.

[B]

I literally just went on a date with this guy last week, and everything was great. He. He sent me to the spa the first, like, week we started talking.

[A]

Okay.

[B]

He took me shopping on our first date. Everything's great.

[A]

But shopping on the first date, that is bold.

[B]

It's very, like, normal in Miami.

[A]

What?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

On the first date. You're gonna spend hundreds, thousands on a first date.

[B]

Yeah. He spent, like, 5,000.

[A]

Oh, my God.

[B]

Probably more because, like, dinner and stuff, too.

[A]

Jeez. And he didn't even get laid.

[B]

Nah.

[A]

And I got the ick from his walking.

[B]

That. It wasn't from his walking. What was it from the way he made out.

[A]

Oh, my God. Guys can't even make out.

[B]

Yeah, he was just doing something weird.

[A]

Too much tongue?

[B]

Yeah, the tongue was doing weird motions. Yeah.

[A]

I mean, I feel like you might have to lower some. Some of your standards, but, like, what.

[B]

Like, what am I supposed to, like, teach him how to make out?

[A]

Just say, I don't like tongue.

[B]

But he was, like, very, like.

[A]

Like, some people just don't like tongue at all.

[B]

Yeah, I guess.

[A]

And then some want the whole tongue in their mouth. Like French kissing.

[B]

Yeah. Like, he was doing too much.

[A]

I never understood that.

[B]

Yeah. That is like, I just met you. Why is your tongue in there?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

It could have been just like, a normal kiss.

[A]

I mean, he's probably, to be fair, used to spending 5k and then getting laid the same day in Miami.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Yeah. Most girls probably would be like, holy crap, he just spent thousands on me.

[B]

Yeah. I'm like, where's the Birkin?

[A]

Damn. Yeah. Good luck out there. I don't know if you're going to find the guy in Miami.

[B]

I probably will.

[A]

Maybe if Andrew Tate moves there, you'll. You will.

[B]

Maybe Would you ever have a buying Birkin?

[A]

He's buying a lot for his girls. He buys them a house. Oh, he's got eight kids or wait, no, ten kids with eight different women.

[B]

Really?

[A]

Yeah. But you like monogamy, so I like.

[B]

Monogamy, but I mean, if he's a provider and he's going to buy me a house.

[A]

So you would do a sugar daddy type of situation?

[B]

Like, yeah, if you're gonna buy me a house, I make sure I'm good and I get like a 100k a month allowance. Sure.

[A]

Okay. 100k a month. What would you spend that on?

[B]

I would probably like invest half of it.

[A]

You're an investor?

[B]

Yeah, Crypto stocks. So I would probably invest half of it and then, you know, this life necessities the other half.

[A]

Little Birkin bags and cars and stuff. Are you kind of materialistic, you say?

[B]

Yeah, I've always been like into just luxurious things. I don't know if it's being Persian. Like, I always grew up with people that wore nice things, wore nice perfumes. Like my whole family was always like, you know, always dressing nice and stuff since I was a kid. So I was always attracted to like dressing nice and being on point and. And luxurious things.

[A]

So physical gifts is your love language.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Yeah. Good luck with that, guys. Especially someone that makes as much as you, man.

[B]

I mean, I spoil myself. So it's like if you can treat me better than I can treat myself.

[A]

Then how much do you spend on just yourself a month?

[B]

A lot.

[A]

Like 50k?

[B]

Not 50, but like anywhere between 15 to 20.

[A]

Wow, that's a good amount.

[B]

If I'm traveling, it'll obviously be more like some months I'm traveling. So there's more cost.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

A lot of times I'll bring my mom or like friends along for travels too, and I'm paying for them.

[A]

So do they support you?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

That's good.

[B]

Yeah, my mom actually like helps me record my content.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Wow. Well, shout out to her.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You traveling to Dubai these days?

[B]

Absolutely not.

[A]

You're not getting shit on out there?

[B]

Nah, I'm good on that.

[A]

What if someone offered you 100k for that?

[B]

100K to get on?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

No.

[A]

Really?

[B]

Yeah. A lot of girls are going to Dubai and getting on for 100k.

[A]

Some less, some more. Yeah, I've heard 100 spin being thrown around.

[B]

There's girls that I consistently see going to Dubai. So I'm like, damn.

[A]

Yeah, we know what's going on.

[B]

Yeah, we know exactly what's going on, but, I mean, come back with a new Birkin every time.

[A]

I mean, if you do that once every two months, that's half a mil a year.

[B]

Yeah. That's crazy.

[A]

It's not bad.

[B]

On is insane.

[A]

I guess you could just immediately shower.

[B]

Would you. Would you.

[A]

On somebody for what, 100k?

[B]

Wait, they have to pay you to. Shame on them.

[A]

Oh, would I just. On a girl? No.

[B]

Yeah, but like. Yeah. So I don't understand. Why are you waiting to. On someone?

[A]

I mean, if you get paid for it, it's a little different, right?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Like, I feel like you would do it for the right price.

[B]

I would not.

[A]

No amount of money shitting.

[B]

Yeah, absolutely not.

[A]

$1 million. No, I mean, it's just five minutes of unpleasantness.

[B]

Oh, my God. No, I can't just. I just try to picture how it would even go down.

[A]

And what about peeing? Maybe that's not as bad.

[B]

It's not as bad.

[A]

Yeah. A golden shower.

[B]

Yeah, I've never done a golden shower, but I could be open to it for the right price.

[A]

I mean, if you're just drinking water and eating clean, it's. I feel like it's not that bad.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You know, but if your diet's complete and then your peas, like dark yellow, then it's kind of. Because I just had Lily Phillips on and she said one of the guys.

[B]

Did that to her and it was clear or it was disgusting.

[A]

She did both. One guy was clear and one didn't drink water for two days.

[B]

Oh, God.

[A]

Yeah, she's doing some wild.

[B]

And she did it for free.

[A]

Yeah, she was just doing it for a video. Oh, shout out to her, though. She's doing. Doing her thing.

[B]

Yeah. And Bonnie Blue.

[A]

Bonnie. Yeah, she's coming on soon. Thousand guys in a day.

[B]

1057 or something, actually.

[A]

Yeah. Do you think that's legit?

[B]

Honestly, I saw somebody talking about it online. A lot of the guys are wearing tristates, so you don't know if they went twice. Twice or three times or. That's the only thing.

[A]

Oh, because you're so ashamed of showing their face.

[B]

Right, right. So there's a lot of the guys are wearing something that's covering their face. So how do you know it was actually a thousand? It could have been like. It could have been like 25 guys that just kept going back and forth like, you know.

[A]

Nah, it was definitely a lot. 25 would be low.

[B]

No, it was definitely a few hundred, but I don't know about a thousand.

[A]

Maybe they went. I'm curious yeah, two, three times each. But even if it's the same guy, cycling back a thousand is still insane.

[B]

How do you even find a thousand people that are just down?

[A]

I feel like it's easy for a girl. It'd be way harder the other way around.

[B]

A guy to find a thousand girls.

[A]

Yeah, it'd be probably impossible. Unless you were some famous guy. Yeah, but what guy would want to do that?

[B]

Famous. I know a few famous guys that would want to do that.

[A]

Really? They'd be in your DMs.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Yeah. You've definitely signed some NDAs. I could tell by the way you're talking.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You've been to some ditty parties, I bet.

[B]

I have actually been to few Diddy parties.

[A]

And you had to sign an NDA, right?

[B]

No, I didn't sign any.

[A]

Really?

[B]

There? No.

[A]

Oh, just to go in. You didn't have to sign anything. You didn't have to prick your blood or did you have to give your phone up?

[B]

Nope.

[A]

Wow. Yeah, I thought that was kind of the norm.

[B]

No, honestly, I've been to a few of Diddy's parties. Like small gatherings, big parties. It was nothing like, like anything crazy. Like, it was actually like really good parties. Like, everything's always like very like, catered. Like there's drinks being served, good music, good vibes. I never, like, experienced anything weird. But again, there's. I'm assuming there was two different types of parties and I was not invited to.

[A]

Yeah, I heard it was the after party. Right?

[B]

I was there for the after parties too.

[A]

Oh, you were?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

No giant orgies or.

[B]

No.

[A]

Wow.

[B]

So I'm like, I wasn't invited to those.

[A]

Maybe it was. Yeah, separate.

[B]

And I'm kind of offended. Why wasn't I invited?

[A]

Well, you probably weren't putting out.

[B]

I.

[A]

Or you were back in the day.

[B]

No, I wasn't. No, I. I didn't.

[A]

They probably judge it off like, oh, is she gonna take part in this?

[B]

You know, I mean, at the time I was a little bit more thoughty, but. Yeah. I don't know.

[A]

You had some thoughty days back.

[B]

I had some thoughty days.

[A]

Oh, man. Back in my day, you probably get asked about your body count on Fresh and Fit, I'd imagine.

[B]

Yeah, they did ask.

[A]

And did you answer?

[B]

No.

[A]

You keep it hidden. Why?

[B]

I don't even honestly know what my body count is.

[A]

Oh, my God. Are we talking thousands? Nah, not thousands, but hundreds though.

[B]

I don't even think. No, I don't think hundreds.

[A]

Oh, okay. Yeah, I've heard way worse. Yeah, no, but it's up there.

[B]

It's just. Yeah, it's just like, probably like more than 50.

[A]

50, I would say the college days, right?

[B]

It was for sure, the college days.

[A]

Where'd you go to college?

[B]

Halifax. In Canada. Oh, Nova Scotia. Dalhousie University.

[A]

Big party school.

[B]

Yeah. It's actually the most bars per capita in that city and there's like four or five universities.

[A]

So you were wild and the whole.

[B]

City is like a big party.

[A]

Damn. Yeah, I could see why they would come at you for that.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

It'd be impressive if your body count was super low and you said you had haven't had sex in a year and a half, then that I think they would have been impressed with you.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

But the. The funny part is that people always assume because I do of I have a high body count, but it's the of part isn't why I have a high body count. It's before the.

[A]

That's true. They'll label any big of girl as like a. Like a slob. Yeah.

[B]

But like, you could go talk to a college girl and she probably would have more bodies than me at this point.

[A]

These days for sure. I mean, with social media, it's too easy to get laid now.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I mean, you probably get 100 messages a day. Hundreds from guys on Instagram, right?

[B]

Yeah, a lot.

[A]

Like, I've seen some of these inboxes. I've seen like girls Tinder accounts or whatever. It's just like insane.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

It gets so easy.

[B]

I. Instagram is my favorite dating app. I will say that.

[A]

How come?

[B]

Because you could just like the messages are coming. You can go look at their profile. You can kind of like investigate, like scroll through, find out if like what they're about.

[A]

Yeah. You know, it's a good. It's pretty much like a resume. It is your Instagram.

[B]

And then you could always Google them, like from their Instagram.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Whereas like on Tinder, it's like, I don't really know anything about you. Like, you could make a whole fake profile and like, tell me you're a dentist.

[A]

And then there's a lot of fake ones on Tinder. I heard these days.

[B]

Yeah. A lot of people are using my picture on their robot pictures.

[A]

Well, I know a lot of girls just have Tinder just to funnel them to their oaf.

[B]

Yeah, I got banned from doing that.

[A]

Oh, they started banning people for that.

[B]

Yeah, they've been banning people.

[A]

Oh, wow.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Yeah, that makes sense though, because they don't want to lose people on Their app. I heard Hinge is the best one right now.

[B]

Yeah, I have it, but I just always forget to check.

[A]

Really?

[B]

I'm not much of a dating app. Girly, like. Like for dating. I might swipe right and I might think you're cute, but then it's like, I'm never gonna, like, message you. You all made this is never gonna go anywhere.

[A]

Yeah, and on Bumble, you gotta message first.

[B]

Yeah, so I stopped using that one because there's absolutely no way I'm messaging anyone first.

[A]

Are you on Raya?

[B]

I'm not.

[A]

I heard that's a decent one too.

[B]

Yeah, there's a new one too called Blush. I need to get on that.

[A]

Is that the one that limits how many people get on it in each city?

[B]

Not sure, actually.

[A]

Okay. I heard of one that limits to like a thousand per city or something. And if you don't show up to the date, you lose points. Oh, and then you could get banned if you. I guess no show to have three dates or something.

[B]

Oh, I kind of like that.

[A]

You like that? Yeah, because a lot of people. No show. Right. Has that happened?

[B]

I've never had a no show happen to me. Can't relate.

[A]

Yeah, Every guy has, though.

[B]

I. I do sometimes like cancel last minute, though.

[A]

You're one of those.

[B]

Oh my God. Sorry.

[A]

They're so excited the whole day and then you friggin get drunk and cancel.

[B]

No, I don't even get drunk. I'm just like, oh, my couch is so comfortable.

[A]

Yeah. High.

[B]

Yeah, it's. It's definitely the weed.

[A]

Yeah. Are you smoking? Every single day. Damn, you love that weed.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Damn. I used to be like that too.

[B]

Really?

[A]

How do you stay productive?

[B]

Honestly, it actually helps me, like when I'm editing and stuff. It's more creative. I feel like I whip up a better reel or like if I'm like editing things, it just like the colors, like, I don't know. Damn.

[A]

I'm the opposite.

[B]

I use it like a tool.

[A]

So you like microdose it or do you guess?

[B]

Yeah, I'll smoke. Like, I won't smoke a whole joint. I'll just like hit the joint like a couple times and then like put it out. Yeah, and then just like get my work done. Because I also have ADHD and I don't like taking Adderall. I took it when I was in university and I feel like when you take Adderall, you're taking a bunch of chemicals, so you're fucking up a bunch of other things at the same time. So you can't sleep. You're fucking with your appetite. Your mood is weird and different. Like, you're not really yourself anymore. So I didn't like taking Adderall for that reason, because then. Then I had to take sleeping pills to fall asleep. So I was like, I'm just taking a bunch of chemicals, like, to fix the other chemicals I took. Whereas with weed, you got Sativa Indica Hybrid. So you can really, like, manage, like, what you like. If I want to get. Be creative, I could take a creative strain and smoke a daytime creative strain that, like, helps me with my job. And then nighttime, if I'm winding down, okay, I could hit it Indica and just, you know, relax.

[A]

That makes sense. Yeah. I hate Adderall, too, for that same reason. Yeah. Music artists love cannabis too. You've been in some big music videos, right?

[B]

Yes, I have. I. My first one I did was no Guidance with Chris Brown and Drake. And then after that, I did one for Tory Lanez and then a few other artists. I can't remember, they were a little bit smaller artists.

[A]

Free Tory Lanez.

[B]

Free Tory Lanez.

[A]

That's the following. That story was crazy. I kept switching sides. I was like, he definitely shot her. And wait, now, I don't think he did.

[B]

Yeah. What do you think? Do you think?

[A]

I don't think he did.

[B]

I don't think he did either.

[A]

Yeah. I don't know. Like, I see conflicting stuff.

[B]

Yeah, he did. I don't think he did. Tori is actually one of my, like, close friends.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And he's one of the best people, like, to have as a friend because he's, like, actually, like, genuine. And, like, you make sure you're good. Like, you know, he's, like, actually a good person, so I can't even imagine, like, him, like, actually shooting someone.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And also, there was, like, camera footage of her stepping in glass.

[A]

I know. So as more evidence came out, my opinion changed.

[B]

Right.

[A]

But at first when it broke, I was like, yeah, he 100 did it.

[B]

And I don't know if you listened to his last podcast with the Nelk Boys.

[A]

I did.

[B]

With the. The fingerprints.

[A]

Yeah. They have so much on them now. I don't know.

[B]

Fingerprints aren't even on the gun.

[A]

Yeah. I don't know why they didn't free him at this point.

[B]

Exactly.

[A]

And he got a pretty big sentence, right? 10 years or something.

[B]

Yeah. But you know what? I feel like it's giving us some good music. I don't know if you listen to his music, but he just released an album from Jail.

[A]

He dropped an album.

[B]

Yeah, he.

[A]

He recorded through the phone and it's actually decent.

[B]

It's really good.

[A]

He's got some bangers.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Like, I still bump his music to this day.

[B]

Yeah. Free Tory.

[A]

Yeah, Free Tory. If you ever see this clip, man. Drake and Chris Brown video. What was that? Like?

[B]

That was my first music video, so I was, like, kind of nervous, but I was a feature model, so that was pretty dope. I was in a few different scenes.

[A]

I got to watch that one.

[B]

Yeah. No guidance, but it was honestly, it was like, great. Tory Lanez was on set for that one, actually. But yeah, the. The whole thing with, like, music videos is, like, you're there for so long and nobody realizes, like, how many hours and days it took to just get like, three minutes.

[A]

Yeah. Because you just. You just watch it.

[B]

You don't assume they're like, sweating balls. And he. Like, you're re filming the same scene over and over again. Like, you're there from like 7am to like 7am the next day.

[A]

Are you serious?

[B]

Yeah, the. That one. I was on set for like 12 hours, maybe even longer. I think 14 hours. And some people had to come in the second day.

[A]

Jeez.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

And you're just standing outside in the heat.

[B]

Yeah. Like redoing the scene over and over again.

[A]

Wow.

[B]

Standing in heels.

[A]

Well, I guess for. Yeah, Chris Brown, because he's dancing and stuff. You can't mess it up, right?

[B]

Yeah. And then, like, they'll get it like, with one camera and then they'll get it with a different angle and then, like, somebody won't be like, as enthusiastic in the background. So you need to rebuild the head. Like, damn. So it was. It was a long, long, long shoot day. But the final product was fire.

[A]

So did you get to chop it up with them or you were just so busy just working at the time?

[B]

No, but I have been to, like, a few different parties with both Drake and Chris Browns.

[A]

Nice. That's nuts. The Diddy parties.

[B]

No, not the Diddy parties, but different parties.

[A]

Must be nice.

[B]

Getting usually does his own, like, private parties.

[A]

I've seen those. Yeah. And in Toronto, right?

[B]

Yeah, in Toronto, too. I've been to his house in Toronto.

[A]

Those ones look crazy.

[B]

That's where you get your phone taken. And you said NDA.

[A]

See, I would do it for that, you know, but as a guy, it's harder to get invited to stuff like that.

[B]

I mean, Drake's actually pretty cool. Like, I feel like he fucks with a lot of, like, streamers and podcasters. And stuff.

[A]

So I've seen that.

[B]

Yeah, he, he would be the easier one to be friends with. Like, as a dude, I feel I could see that.

[A]

Yeah. No, he's, he's very good at tapping in with the culture, with the trends. Like, he's tight with Aiden Ross Kai, so. Not all the streamers.

[B]

Exactly.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

He streams himself, does he? Yeah.

[A]

Oh, the gambling.

[B]

Gambling ones, yeah.

[A]

Yeah. I've seen him bet like $1 million on a spin.

[B]

Yeah. Or lose $1 million.

[A]

Yeah. I'm like, did you see the one where the drone caught him in his penthouse?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

That was messed up.

[B]

That was so fun. That was on purpose. You could tell.

[A]

Oh, you think so?

[B]

Yeah, because then why was just steak there on the table?

[A]

Oh, so you thought it was a viral marketing stuff?

[B]

Why is the laptop just open on steak?

[A]

That's true.

[B]

That's a viral marketing.

[A]

That's fucking true. Yeah, him and Kanye are good at those viral marketing things just blowing up randomly. Yeah, Kanye's been going crazy.

[B]

Yeah, Kanye. I don't know. Is he going to come back from this, you think?

[A]

He always does.

[B]

He always really does.

[A]

No matter what it is, there's going.

[B]

To be something that comes out with all these people that he's exposing now. We're going to be like, he was right.

[A]

Everyone thinks he's crazy. And then five, 10 years later, later they're like, wait, he was right.

[B]

Yeah, it's so right now people are going back to whenever he was doing his rants before and they're like, wow, he told us about all these things.

[A]

Yep. Funny how takes some people time, you know, to get woke. Do you believe in like, conspiracies and stuff?

[B]

Yeah, I do.

[A]

I'm big on those same. I watch YouTube compilations. Candace Owens.

[B]

Candace Owens. I, I go through down the Tick Tock rabbit hole.

[A]

Like, yeah, Tick Tock. Ian Carroll. I just had him on the show. A lot of them end up coming true. You can't deny it.

[B]

But is the earth flat?

[A]

No. Do you think it is?

[B]

I thought during a few months that it was flat and then I was like, it doesn't, it just doesn't really make sense.

[A]

They're super convincing with it. I'm not going to lie.

[B]

Yeah, it's very convincing. But then when you really think about.

[A]

It, like, I just don't think so. Yeah, I've had on too many alien experts and too many like, smart ass.

[B]

Like people with the sun and the moon and like, it's just like, like, yeah.

[A]

What's the one you believe in? The most. Which conspiracy? You're, like, completely sold on it. The moon landing.

[B]

The moon landing for sure is fake.

[A]

I think so, too.

[B]

Like, the pictures look like green screen.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

And why didn't we go back?

[A]

Yeah. It's been 52 years.

[B]

Like, if you guys went 52 years ago before we even had iPhones, and we didn't go back since then, that's us.

[A]

Yeah, I'm with you on that one. Yeah. There's some crazy ones. I mean, I don't want to get the video taken down, but, like, the JFK stuff is interesting.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

The files just got released. Did you have time to come through those yet?

[B]

I didn't look at the files yet.

[A]

I mean, there's 10,000 pages.

[B]

So I'm just, like, waiting for someone to summarize.

[A]

I'm waiting for ChatGPT.

[B]

Can we just get a summary as a YouTube video?

[A]

Yeah. What about aliens and, like, stuff like that?

[B]

Aliens are for sure real. I mean, you live in Vegas, so this is, like, the closest.

[A]

Yeah. Area 51 right by here.

[B]

I have never had any encounters or, like, seen anything, but I definitely feel like they're real.

[A]

What about ghosts?

[B]

For sure. Okay, that one we already knew.

[A]

You think so? Some people still don't believe, like, ghosts.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Have you had an encounter?

[B]

I haven't, like, personally, but I went to a psychic once, and they were, like, the way that they were, like, explaining things, I was like, okay. Yeah. Like, that's what made me, like, believe in it more.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Because I feel like every time you go to, like, the psychic people, like, they're tapping into, like, somebody that died in your family or whatever. So I feel like that's a ghost that's coming and communicating with them.

[A]

I believe in psychics, too. I actually have a call tomorrow with my psychic. Yeah. I do a monthly call.

[B]

I need a new one, so maybe.

[A]

Oh, you need a good one. I got you. Oh, my gosh. She will say stuff that you've never shared publicly. That's kind of how I test them. Because there's a lot of BS ones.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

But if as soon as they say a few things where I'm like. Where you can't even look that up, I'm like, all right, I'm listening.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Because I've had some BS ones, too.

[B]

Yeah. Some of them are just saying the same generic thing. They're like, oh, like, your great aunt, like, had a heart attack.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

It's like everyone's great aunt had a heart attack.

[A]

Yeah. For real. Yeah. When they're. When they're too general. It's like, what the hell? But she was saying shout out to Jenia. She was saying stuff about my dad, who's a ghost on social media. No social media profiles and just spot on. So shout out to her. I'm excited for our call tomorrow. They've changed my life. Psychics.

[B]

Okay, I need one.

[A]

I got you. I'll connect you after this. All right, what else we got? Who pays on the first date, guy or girl?

[B]

I'm not paying on the first date. I mean, I just told you about my first date. If you're not coming with a bag, if you're not coming with a gift. Yeah, there's no way I'm. I've never actually had a first date where someone tried to make me pay. But I have heard a lot of girls that have had weird first date experiences.

[A]

But you've never had a guy offer 50, 50 split?

[B]

No.

[A]

Wow. Well done.

[B]

If a guy offers 50, 50 split, I'd be like, you know what? I'll just pay for it and I'll never talk to you again.

[A]

When do you start paying then? What? Date number?

[B]

Like, once we're. If we're like, in a relationship, you know, I don't know if date number at that point. Like, we're dating for a couple months maybe. Yeah, like, you buy the dinner, I'll buy ice cream.

[A]

Fair. Fair enough. Yeah. I'm not a fan of the woman paying on dates. Yeah, I don't know if that's just an old.

[B]

Or. Like, what about the woman that give their cart to the guy to pay?

[A]

That's weird. People do that.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Oh, just to make the guy feel like they paid.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

That's wild. Nah, if you're a guy, you got to be making a bag and. And taking care of your.

[B]

Yeah, that's your job. Like, your job is to be a provider. So if you can't pay on the first day, then what are you going to do for the rest of the life? Like.

[A]

Yeah, I get it's harder now with the economy and everything, but still.

[B]

Yeah, but it doesn't have to be like a crazy day. Like, it could.

[A]

You know, what's the best first day location in your opinion?

[B]

The best first date location, in my opinion would be in Miami or just in general.

[A]

Just in general. Like, restaurant. Movies.

[B]

I think restaurant is good because you can actually talk and get to know each other. Movies is weird because it's just like you're sitting in a movie theater. Like, how are you gonna talk or get to know Each other. I like movie days. Like, once you're dating someone, because it's like we already know everything we need to know about each other. We just want to spend time. But, yeah, I think I like, for sure restaurants. Like, lunch. I feel like lunch is a good start.

[A]

Lunch is casual. Yeah. Dinners are kind of, like, more intimate. I feel like.

[B]

Yeah, I feel like lunch, first date, dinner, second date.

[A]

Yeah. Any good dates recently for you or. No.

[B]

Yeah, I just. Well, it was. It was pretty good until the makeup that I just went on.

[A]

Is that enough to end it?

[B]

No, but I just don't know how to like. Like, what do I tell him?

[A]

Well, he's going to see this. This is going to get millions of views, and he probably followed your Instagram.

[B]

So if you're watching this, I had a great time, but a little less tongue, please.

[A]

I feel like that's fixable if you just tell them. Communication is important in relationships. You know, if he doesn't know the ick, how is he gonna fix it? Because a lot of girls keep the X hidden.

[B]

That's true.

[A]

So I feel like if you just vocalize the icks, guys can. Guys are pretty logical. I feel like.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I feel like guys don't have aches.

[B]

Like, do you guys get aches at all?

[A]

Some guys have icks about, like, I guess, farting and burping.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I mean, I don't fart. I don't have that one. Trying to think what else. We're like, I guess, just controlling.

[B]

You know what a lot of girls do is, like, if they're dating a guy, let's say, like, let's say we're dating and we go on to Cancun together and we're staying in the same room. They will literally hold their in for, like, days.

[A]

White.

[B]

Yeah. Because they don't want to, like, go to the bathroom in the same room.

[A]

What?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Are you serious?

[B]

Yes.

[A]

Just time it, though.

[B]

Yeah, but it's still weird. Like, what if he comes back, smells like it? Like, I don't know. It's just girls are really weird.

[A]

You do that.

[B]

I have done that. And I know my friends do it, too.

[A]

What? Man, that's nuts to me. I gotta go. I'm going.

[B]

Yeah. I went on a trip with my friends, and she literally was like, can I come to your room? Use the bathroom.

[A]

Oh, my gosh. Did you go to the naked resort in Cancun?

[B]

No.

[A]

The nude one. Have you heard of that one?

[B]

I heard of one in Jamaica, but not Cancun.

[A]

Yeah. There's One in Cancun. I found out on accident.

[B]

You were there?

[A]

I was walking through. Yeah. Cuz all of them are connected. Oh, and it's adults only. Naked. All naked people would. You ever do something like that?

[B]

No.

[A]

Yeah, that's not my vibe either.

[B]

Yeah. No.

[A]

Yeah. And even on the cruise I was just on, I was on Virginia out of Miami. Have you heard about the upside down pineapple thing?

[B]

Oh, wait, is that like, for swingers?

[A]

Yeah, the room next to me.

[B]

Wait, they had an actual upside down pineapple?

[A]

It's a magnet. Yeah, you put on your door.

[B]

Oh, God.

[A]

That's a sign that you want to swing. That's a bunch of people. That's big in the cruising community.

[B]

That's insane.

[A]

Yeah, swinger lifestyle is not for me.

[B]

No.

[A]

Hell no. There's a lot of clubs out here that are big on it too.

[B]

Yeah, no, I'm monogamy. Unless it's Andrew Tate.

[A]

You would change for Andrew Tate?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

All right, I'll text him if you want. He just came on.

[B]

Okay, let me know what he says.

[A]

He's probably got a lot of interesting things to say to you.

[B]

Yeah, I would love to talk to him. I would love to hear it.

[A]

All right, well, where can people find you?

[B]

And subscribe Ara Queen BAE on all socials I post every day, all day, everywhere.

[A]

Cool. We'll link it below. Check her out, guys, if you wanna. You wanna talk to her? How much does that cost?

[B]

Right now it's on sale. 5 99.

[A]

All right, check her out, guys. See you next time. Peace.