Dive deep into the fascinating discussion on Home Birth vs. Hospital with Sean Kelly and special guest Candy Ken in this eye-opening episode of Digital Social Hour! With the shocking truth about birthing options, this conversation is packed with valuable
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So having a child changed your perspective on materialism.
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All the stupid stuff that you see these days is made by people that don't have children. It's a huge problem in our society is that, like, people with no children get to make decisions or make laws. The whole mental health crisis, it's all me, me, me, my problems. Listen to what's going on with me. Once you have a child, that perspective changes.
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All right, guys, we got candy. Ken here brought the Make America Greater hat in Hollywood.
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That's right, everybody.
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How many people stopped you on the way here?
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I was in my car, safe and sound, so I don't walk around like this because I think it will be very dangerous.
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Yeah.
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Especially in West Hollywood.
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Wow. Yeah. I don't think this is the spot to wear that. You'll probably get in some fights.
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Yeah. Probably getting attacked.
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How long you been a sporter? First election? Or was it this one you recently supported?
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I think I once, Andrew Tate said, why do you hate Donald Trump? I really asked myself, why do I hate him? And then I did. I found out that I hate him because of the media. And then once I found out that the media is bar and that they're pushing a. They lie and they have a crazy narrative, then I was like, why do I hate the guy? You know, he's an entrepreneur. He made billions of dollars, and when I do my taxes, he gave me great benefits. And then now that he's out of office, everything's going to. So at this point, I feel like he's the only man who can save us.
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Wow.
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I'm more of a Robert Kennedy guy.
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I like rfk.
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I love rfk, but I think for this election, he. Yeah, Trump needs to come back.
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Yeah. I think RFK should have ran Democrat. I think he would have had a better chance.
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Yeah. Independent is tough. Yeah.
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I mean, they usually get, like, 2%, but he's actually getting a lot more than 2%, so that's the first time in history and independent has gotten this many votes, I think.
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You know, I really. I'm a big. I'm a big fan of his.
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Yeah. Yeah. Like what he says, for sure. So, Hollywood, you were living here for a bit, right?
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Yes.
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How long?
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Seven years.
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And what did you see that made you want to move to Texas?
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Yeah, well, I just wanted to feel, you know, like. I feel like most people are stuck in their ways. They. They identify as liberal or as Democrat or. And. And I think I just. Life is to experience things, and I wanted to feel like, what does it mean to like, go on Sunday to church, go hunt, do jiu jitsu. And I wanted to dive in and see what I'm capable of. So I moved my family, and then my wife fell in love with a midwife there. So we did a home birth in Texas, and we just wanted to experience the Texas life. And after a couple of months, we were like, all right, it's not for my wife and my kids. Like, I enjoyed it, but it wasn't really for them. So we came back to la.
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Okay, so why is home birthing better than being born in a hospital?
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You don't need a hospital. It's completely made up. And it really. There's nothing more empowering for a woman to give birth once she feels that she can do that. I mean, it's like, almost like she birthed the child, but she also rebirths herself. It is the most incredible experience that you can have, and it's been taken from women. And it's just a huge industry that makes money. The planned C sections, the medication, the hospital stays, everything is to make money and not to benefit the child or the mom.
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Wow. Yeah. I wonder how much it cost to, like, give birth. Probably like 5,000 at least, right?
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Well, that's what you pay yourself, but, like, what they bill, insurance is probably more like 30 or 40,000.
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Holy crap.
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I think only your placenta is already worth 40k. If you give it to the hospital.
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They take it, though, right?
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They take it. If they just keep that. Yeah. If you don't say no, they will. You have to speak up. They will take your baby away from you. They will take the placenta, and they do with a. God knows what they do with that.
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Yeah. Why would they take the baby away right when it's born? That's weird.
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They separate mom and child and they put it away. So I had one home birth and I had one hospital birth, and it was, like, day and night.
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Wow.
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Yeah. My first baby lost weight. It took a long time to get back to the birth weight. And also, the connection between mom and baby is very different because the home birth, we let them be connected for at least three hours.
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Oh, they're still connected.
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Yeah. You don't cut early because when you cut early, the baby also loses, like, 20 to 30% of blood. Holy. Because that little umbilical cord holds a lot of blood. And if they cut early and they, like, freeze it or whatever, the baby is deficient in blood, and it needs that.
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Interesting.
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So my second baby was big and strong, and it never lost weight.
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That's Good to know. Yeah. Because in the hospital they cut it right away, right?
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They cut it right away.
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Wow.
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It's called early clamping because they're trying.
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To get you out of there.
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Yeah. Everybody can look up early clamping. And then also they inject vitamin. Not vitamin, hepatitis B, which is also can only be like through tattoo needles or needles, like through blood. It's just completely unnecessary.
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They inject that in the baby.
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Yeah, they want that. And they also do the cream, like antibiotic cream, which we also don't need. And to do a vitamin K shot which also has heavy metals.
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Oh my gosh. Just dousing this brand new baby with all this vitamin injections and stuff. Absolutely crazy. And now they make you get like 50 to go to public school. 50 different shots.
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Yeah. It used to be like five shots, I think when I grew up, and now they raised it up to 50 shots. By the time you're like 10 years old.
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Yeah, by the time you're 10. And all that stays in you for a while. You know what I mean? It just, it. It doesn't just go away the next day.
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Yeah. And I mean, now there's like egg allergies. Everybody has freaking allergies. The autism numbers are completely out of range.
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One in 30.
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Yeah. And three out of 100. Like no one used to be like.
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One in your town. Now it's one out of every 30 kids. That's what's diagnosed. So it could be even higher.
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And then adhd, you have all the, the mental disorders, kids constant stay still. And it's just a huge pandemic on sick children.
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Yeah. Being a public school teacher right now must be tough.
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Then you have the devices. So people just live on their devices and they constantly feeding them this propaganda. And I used to just go outside.
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Same when I was a kid for sure. And that was probably healthy back then. Looking back at it now, everyone's just on their phone, iPad, whatever.
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Yeah. If you're not actively making yourself, like detoxifying yourself now on a daily level, you're just being. Having these toxins at all times. It used to be very different. Very like food was kind of nutritious, but now if you don't supplement, you don't even get the nutrition anymore. You know, it doesn't even matter if only meat or only vegetables, you need to supplement and you need to detox your body.
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Yeah. Food is losing its nutritional contents every year, Right.
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Yeah.
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So it's getting weaker.
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Yeah. The soil is just not what it used to be.
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Apparently in 20 years. The soil will be wiped in a lot of farms, big farms.
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It's scary.
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That's super scary. So we're going to have to import everything.
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Yeah.
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And who knows what other countries are doing. I mean, we're not doing the best either, but it is scary, man. I try to eat local as much as I can. Yeah, local is the best. I feel like.
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I know. I. My plan is also in. In fall to go hunting. That's what I kind of took back from my Texas time. I love hunting. It's. It's the most magical thing you can do. And to see an animal in the wild, even if you don't shoot it, it is so beautiful. And just to spend some time in nature, without your phone, you don't have connection and you're just out there. And then also like to know exactly where that meat comes from and to feed your family all year long with one animal is incredible.
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Right. And there's a spiritual component to that too, I believe.
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Yeah.
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Yeah. Aubrey Marcus talks about this.
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Absolutely. It's way different than to just buy your meat in your grocery store. And I think it's like hypocritical if you eat meat all the time. I think you should. Well, you should try to be a hunter if that's what you like. I feel like I ate so much meat in my life, I should have at least gave it a try. And I found out I really like it. Of course, in a village, not everybody is a hunter. You always had your hunters and then you're other people that are good for something else. But I think it's. It's part of. Part of it.
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Yeah. Where was your first time hunting and what animal were you going after?
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We were going after deer. I. I went with Tim Kennedy.
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Wow. That's a good start.
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It was incredible. And didn't get to shoot it because we had to. You have to, like, we had to shoot a female with the horn.
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With the horn?
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Without the horns?
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Yeah. Oh, without.
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Yeah.
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Okay.
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We were going for a female deer and it was. It was hard to see which one is male and female because the males have already dropped their horns.
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Oh. Cuz they shed them during the season. The certain seasons.
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Yeah.
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Interesting. So you couldn't find out, so you just let it go.
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Well, I was hesitant because when you shoot a male one, I. I had no idea about this. But it can be like 10k.
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What?
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If you shoot a female, it's like 300 bucks. Because the males are. The genes are very important and they need to. And they like they have the horns. It's like a trophy hunt. There's meat hunts, and there's trophy hunts.
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Got it.
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Yeah.
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So you want to go for the me?
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Yeah. It's. It's. It's. It's affordable, but if you go for a trophy hunt, it's very expensive diet.
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So you kill the deer, and then who. Who do you give the 300 to? How does that work?
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The owner of the land guy.
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Wow. So it might be smart just to buy a bunch of land and just have people hunt on it.
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Yeah, if you. If you have land.
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300 a deer. I mean, that guy's printing money.
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Yeah.
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Yeah. You probably need a lot. I mean, I don't know how many deer are on that land, but they reproduce, so it's like a cash machine almost.
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Exactly. And they have all kinds of animals there, if even antelopes and, like, exotic animals. It was in Texas.
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That's cool. How did it taste?
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We. I didn't get to shoot it.
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Oh. So did you go hunting again, though?
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I'm waiting on. On this fall, because then the deer season starts again.
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Got it. Yeah. There was a lot of deer in Jersey where I grew up, man. My dad used to hunt.
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Yeah.
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In Jersey. Yeah.
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Go hunting with him.
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Nah, I can't do it, man.
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No.
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I don't know. Maybe I'll try again, but I feel bad, dude. Yeah, you don't feel bad.
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It's the opposite, really, because the deer doesn't know. You, like, crawl up, and then, you know, it's just eating there in. In peace. And then, like, boom. Just gets hit, runs a little bit. Doesn't really know what happened and then collapses.
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Okay.
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Compared to when you get beef where they get. They get taken to a certain place and then executed.
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Right.
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They know what's happening, and they have all this, like, fear, and, like, all those fear hormones go into the me. And I think it's much more ethical to spend hours and days to hunt for one animal and then, like, very spiritually and like, very, like, back to, like, nature. Get that one animal and then eat all of that. One animal.
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Yeah. You know, when you put it that way. No, that makes a lot of sense, actually, because I've seen videos of the cows and the pigs looking terrified on social media.
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They know. They know where they're going, and they. They can feel it, and they know when they're getting executed. And it's much more ethical to. To go hunt because it's not like out of a helicopter where you. I mean, that machine gun with a Machine gun. But deer hunt, it's so much work. And it's. It's so. And the deer doesn't know.
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Right. Okay.
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It has no idea.
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Yeah. It's a quick death usually too. Right. It's aim for the heart.
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And you. They learn. You do exactly. Shoe into the heart. It like almost explodes and then it's instantly dead.
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Got it. Okay, Maybe I'll try it. Yeah. When you put it that way, I never saw that perspective. So I'm glad I talked to you about it. I used to think of it as just killing animals for fun.
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No. And also, you're not allowed to run after it.
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What do you mean?
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You can't run. You can't like shoot it and run after it. You have to know when you take the shot, you have to be sure that you don't wound it. It is very looked down upon to wound an animal. So you have to shoot it when you really are certain that you're gonna take the shot and otherwise you don't take the shot. That's how. What I did, they were staggered. I didn't want to shoot one and shoot into the other one, so I didn't take the shot. And you just go home empty.
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So it's very tactical.
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It's very tactical and. Yeah. And you do the right thing. And then once you shot it, you weigh. And then you follow the blood and then you get your animal and you let it die in peace. You don't like run after it.
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Interesting. Yeah. When you do see the shows, they're just casually walking up after the shot. They're not sprinting after it. Yeah. That's cool. So you grew up in Austria?
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Yes.
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What was that like?
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It maybe become Candy Cane? Because it was a tiny town and I always. You look at American culture and I always wanted to be a part of it. And it was very silent, beautiful. You know, in the Alps. I like the Sound of Music. Yeah.
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Interesting. I've never been there. It's in Europe.
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Yep.
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Okay.
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Right between Germany, Switzerland, Italy.
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Yeah. And I know you used to get bullied over there.
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Yeah. I mean, being different is not a thing there. Dressing weird and. And crazy and. And questioning things is. Is not what they do. And everybody stays in line.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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Is that a European thing or just that country, you think?
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I think it's a European thing. But especially Germany, Switzerland and Austria, they're very bureaucratical and they like to do things their way.
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Yeah. So were your parents like, what the are you doing?
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Like, kind of. But, you know, it wasn't a day, One day transformation. It took years and years, and they always backed me up.
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Okay, that's good. Yeah. Because you're basically modeling Ken from Barbie. Right. That's the whole thing.
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It was being the candy version of Ken because I always thought, like, Ken was kind of like a basic bitch, and I wanted to be, like, the candy version of him. And I used to think that running around in, like, a glitter Speedo is, like, freedom, you know, because everybody is, like, dressed in suits and, like, hella basic in my town in Austria. So I thought, like, if I'm like a full on rainbow, that's being free. Until lately, where I've been seeing that the whole LGBT community is just being used to push a certain agenda on all of us.
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Whoa, what do you mean by that?
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It's like, when they first came out with the pill, they told women that taking the pill is making you free.
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The birth control pill.
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Yes. Because now they can control who they can have sex with.
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Yeah.
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But eventually they found out that the pill harms women and gets their hormones completely fucked up. And not only that, it also, like, makes you, like, want to, like, have many partners and maybe not create a family. And it really only harms the whole system and yourself. And now a lot of women, especially feminist women or women, are aware they stop taking the pill, and they don't take the pill because it's actually really harmful for your whole system.
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Yeah. I remember the peak. Almost 50% of women were on it at a certain point. Right. Hopefully that number's gone down.
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Yeah.
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I remember in high school, though, it was, like, cool if the girls were on it. Like, that was, like, awesome. It was looked up. Looked up to almost.
B
Yeah. And it's like the first thing, like, you have bad skin or bad cramps. They're like, okay, take the pill.
A
Yeah, yeah. For acne. That's crazy.
B
It's crazy. And that's the same thing right now with the lgbt. I think I heard this other statement the other day where people say, like. Like, I have so many gay friends. I grew up very liberal, and I don't think a gay person that loves dick should be in the same group of people that somebody that chops off their dick.
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Yeah. Certain countries are super against it, right?
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No, no. Like trans people and gay people. Oh, they translate them now all together in one thing.
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Right, right.
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And ultimately this just creates another thing, like racism, where you just let the peasants fight each other instead of the peasants standing up for themselves and being like, yo, I don't want to Be a slave anymore. Why are you paying me 20 bucks an hour? And why are the elites telling us to not have children anymore? And to be, like, so fluid that at the end of the day, I'm being comfortable being fat and having no sort of respect for myself?
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But, yeah, they put them all under the same thing, right? LGBTQ I can't even keep up with.
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I feel bad for gay people.
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Really?
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Yeah.
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Because they're grouped in with the traffic.
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No, because they love dick. And the other kind of people, they chop after dick.
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Yeah, it is. When you put it that way, it is interesting that they group them up in that certain category.
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Yeah. I feel like the whole manipulating a young person, like, imagine you grow up now and you get praised for. For being different or identifying as an animal. It's kind of weird, you know, and how nobody talks about family, nobody talks about having children, what it means to become a dad. It's more like freeze your eggs and make as much money as possible so you can have as much possessions as you can and not create a beautiful family anymore.
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Yeah. Yeah. This gender fluidity thing is pretty crazy to me. What do you think about it?
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I feel like it's just an attack of the globalists to eradicate and, like, make everybody use AI and feed us the bugs.
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A girl I hooked up with in college changed her genders to a guy. Does that make me gay?
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How is she doing mentally?
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Dude? I haven't talked to her in a while, but she cut off her boobs. And I don't know what she did downstairs, but, like, I don't know, dude. That's weird to me.
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They say when they put women the first time on testosterone, it just. It makes them feel really, really good, because being on testosterone makes you feel good.
A
Interesting. Yeah. I dated a girl in high school, and her brother used to be a girl too. And yeah, he was taking testosterone every single day. But he seems so moody. Like, their regulation was never normal to me.
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Well, the thing with testosterone is if you take a good amount, it's good for you, but if you take too much, it shuts off a bunch of other hormones. So that's when all the negative side effects come into place.
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Jeez.
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But ultimately, everybody needs testosterone. Nobody knows this but women. For women, the number one sex hormone is also testosterone. And women also have testosterone.
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Yeah.
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And they also need testosterone. If you don't have testosterone, you get easily depressed and you easily also get suicidal.
A
Right. You were saying you talked to an expert on this, and he said low testosterone rates. There was a Correlation with suicide rates.
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Yeah. The problem of the military is that most. There is. Almost half of the veterans kill themselves. I think the suicide rate is like 43% of veterans.
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Oh, my God.
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In the U.S. it's that high. So he. This is Mark L. Gordon. He completely put his life on helping veterans. And he has found out that most of them, or almost all of them, have low testosterone. When things get blown up, it sometimes, like, blows up your walls and. Or. And you have just a. So he helps them increase their testosterone without all the negative side effects.
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And he does it holistically or through injections.
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Through injections. But also there's. There's a lot of ways he doesn't do holistically. And he does it all through blood work. So it's. It's very professional.
A
That's interesting. But you are mainly holistic, right, with.
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Your stuff right now? I've met so many, yeah. Holistic people that I'm. I'm just trying to be as healthy as possible.
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Yeah.
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Without driving myself crazy.
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No microplastics for you.
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No microplastics.
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So there's none in your balls right now?
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No.
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You saw that study? Yeah. They found it. 100 in people's walls. That's crazy because it's not only what you drink and eat, it's your clothing.
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Yeah.
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So I don't know what that that's made out of, but.
B
Yeah, that's probably polyester.
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Yeah. Polyester is really bad.
B
Yeah.
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So if your underwear is polyester and you sweat in the sauna or gym workout, then you probably have it. Your testicles. That's crazy.
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Bed sheets?
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Yeah, bed sheets.
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You gotta go linen because you lay like 12 hours in that. Yeah. You gotta get it out of as much as you can.
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It's nuts, man. I try to just. I try not to over, like, freak out too much about stuff, but I control what I can.
B
Yeah.
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Some people are a bit extreme. Some people don't give shit at all. I think I'm somewhere. I don't know. I mean, I spent a good amount of time and money on it. It's important to me.
B
Yeah. I cold plunge every morning, sauna every night.
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Nice.
B
Exercise almost every day. Try not to eat out of plastic. Don't put my phone up on my head. Normally I wear almost everything cotton.
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Turn off your WI FI at night.
B
Yeah. I turn off all the electricity.
A
Damn.
B
Yeah.
A
You go candles.
B
I go to my breakers and like, click, click, click, click. Because you sleep, like, almost like you're outside.
A
Dude, I was really cool.
B
You should Give it a try. It.
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I, I haven't tried it, but I've heard great things about turning off data and WI fi at night.
B
Yeah, there's like some sort of like electricity buzz that's constantly like you don't even hear it anymore.
A
Yeah.
B
Once you take all the breakers out, man, you sleep like a baby.
A
No, I bet my friend brought an EMF meter and he was showing me how high cell phones were and just like when there's 100 cell phones in one room, the thing was like off the charts.
B
Yeah. But even better, I feel like is when you sauna you sleep so good.
A
Yeah.
B
Way underlooked. Yeah.
A
Yeah. Night time especially. Yeah. I need to change it cuz I do it in the morning. I just did one this morning, but I bet at night it's even better, dude. I guess. Are you still dealing with a lot of hate right now?
B
Well, I, I don't read comments anymore.
A
Oh, you don't?
B
No, I don't. I don't spend any time reading comments and I feel like if you don't get any hate, you're just not reaching enough people at this point and everybody's offended over everything. Yeah, yeah. So if you're not offending anyone, you're just doing everything wrong.
A
Why don't you read comments anymore though?
B
Oh, because I feel like the. I don't think Joe Rogan is gonna comment on my post. You know, I don't think people or even you, like, you don't have time to.
A
I don't comment. Yeah.
B
And comment. So why would you want this like weird opinion of like people that don't have anything better to do than to comment? So you get kind of like opinionated by somebody who's not important.
A
Yeah, I'd say a majority of the comments, 80% of people, maybe even more, you go to their profile. It's not someone you would associate with, Hang out with respect. So I see what you're saying. Yeah, yeah. A lot of it's trolls. Some people do build a smart audience. Like Rogan though. Like I read his YouTube comments. I think they're interesting.
B
Yeah.
A
I think it's higher IQ people and it's intelligent somewhat, you know, but mainly on like TikTok and Instagram, a lot of the comments are like trollish and stuff.
B
Exactly.
A
Yeah. So having a, a child change your perspective on materialism, on the whole, on whole life.
B
I think, I think the, all the stupid stuff that you see these days is made by people that don't have children. It's a huge problem in our society is that people with no children get to make decisions or make laws. I feel like you see the world, the whole mental health crisis, it's all me, me, me, my problems. Listen to what's going on with me. Once you have a child, that perspective changes. And I used to be like that where you're just such a narcissist. Once you have a child, you, you realize like, it's. It's not about me. It's sacrifices and it's how do I protect this human and, and how do I make a smart choice? And you question things much harder. And you are much more interested in how everything works. Once you have a child, I think it just changes you and you're just more responsible and just make better choices.
A
I feel that.
B
Yeah, that's why they don't want people to have children anymore. Yeah, yeah. Because you'll just be. It's like taking mushrooms. You just see that we're all one. You are me and I am you. I'm not just me versus everybody. Where when you get somebody who doesn't have children, it's. It's a lot of times they don't see that we're all one.
A
Yeah.
B
Yeah.
A
I think we're all connected in one way.
B
Yeah.
A
Like on a spiritual soul plane or something. You could kind of feel people's energies and there's something there for sure. I love mushrooms. I microdose good.
B
Yeah, that's like kind of like. Yeah. They say childbirth is even like. Like a mushroom trip over. You just. It's so like crazy. Like you really. Even if you don't believe in God, when you see a childbirth, you're like, yeah, there's something bigger. I mean, this is unreal. That somebody can birth a human being that is alive. It's the most insane thing.
A
Yeah, it's magical almost. What do you think of this body positivity movement? Did you see the guy from Super Size Me passed away yesterday?
B
I'm sure he did.
A
Crazy.
B
Everybody like that. Everybody is beautiful. I hate that shit. Yeah. Definitely not. Definitely not. I think we should definitely bring back body shaming. There's always some sort of like healthy bullying and shaming where you just get your together right. When somebody is like, like if you just get accepted the way you are, it just creates an effortless like a no standard society with no discipline.
A
Yeah. I think there's a healthy level of bullying. I got bullied for being too skinny. So that was always in the back of my head to put on some weight, put on some Muscle. And probably goes the other way, too, if you're a little fat, so.
B
Absolutely. And at the end of the day, it's just. If you think somebody's beautiful when they're fat, it's. You want them to die.
A
Mmm.
B
Like, it actually helps them if you bully them a little bit. So maybe they get healthier.
A
Yeah. Yeah. I mean, we're saying bully for me. It's just being honest.
B
Yeah.
A
You know what I mean? It's not like I'm gonna personally attack you. I'm just gonna be like, yo, you're my friend. You're. You're a little overweight. You know, you got a little beer belly.
B
Yeah.
A
I tell my friends, up.
B
Being unhealthy is not beautiful.
A
It's just not good for you. I mean, you know what I mean? Long term, the. There's no doubt that it shortens your lifespan if you're too overweight. All your risk for disease is up in every single category.
B
Yeah. And your body is a representative of your decisions and your discipline and your personality. If. If you can, like, if you can't control what you eat, you can't control a lot of things.
A
Absolutely. No. If you're literally friends with that person, you're doing them a disservice by not telling them, because they're gonna have a shorter life. So you should just tell them.
B
And if I see a fat person in the gym, I think it's great. You know, there's no time where you cannot change your life around. You know, even me having a booster running around in Hollywood in a pink Speedo. There's no time where I can be like, you know what? Maybe I can take a step back and see what's really going on. You know, I think that's where most people are stuck. It's like the. So stuck in their ways. You need to, like, take a step back and see what you're doing and reflect a little bit, and then maybe you're doing the right thing, maybe not. But the problem with evil is everybody that's doing evil, they think they're in the right. This has always been a thing, even with, like, Nazis and in Germany, is that they were thinking they're doing the right thing. It's never that. The evil is like, yeah, I'm doing something evil.
A
Right.
B
You know, they're thinking they're helping you with injecting you with some crazy shit, but they thinking they're doing the right thing.
A
So.
B
So that also makes you think, okay, do actually do the right thing, you know, so you constantly need to reflect. Because even at this point in my career or in my life, there's always a lot of things where I'm like, yo, like, I fought of this way, but it's actually this way.
A
Right.
B
I thought the hospital will save me, but they're actually a business. You know, I thought pharmaceuticals are here to help me, but actually it's not that they're evil, but they want to make money.
A
Yeah.
B
There's just more money in selling, like, some cheap shit or putting plastics in. In the water. It's not because they have, like, maybe an evil plan to make you have estrogen so you turn gay. You know, it's more like. It's just much easier to make a plastic bottle than a glass bottle.
A
Right. So why did the gay community, like, follow your lead so much, you think? Because you got a lot of gay supporters. Right?
B
Because I was rainbow.
A
What's up?
B
I. I dressed rainbow and I was pink, and they. They love that. And, and that was cool for a while until the. It became like a whole political thing.
A
So they try to put you as the face of that community.
B
No, it's just that you. You now that you're part of that, you. You can't like Trump and you can like a border and you. You can't like. I don't know. There's so many things that, like these parties are just so crazy, I think. I think with everything, there's always going to be opinions on the right, opinions on the left, things that are straight, opinions that are, like, not straight. I don't know. There's always, like, it's much more complex than just that. So.
A
Yes, you felt kind of confined from that.
B
Yeah. And there's a lot of gay people that like Trump. I mean, it's not like one thing or the other, you know? So I feel like as a human, first of all, it's just a major distraction in the first place.
A
Yeah.
B
And I think the elites or these families or the big people up, they always laugh about the little people just getting distracted by this stuff anyways. But in the end, I feel like also that a human is. You have multiple personalities. You have a personality with your parents, you have a personality with your friends. You have a personality as a podcaster. So you need to dive into and be aware of who you want to be on a daily basis, and you shouldn't get stuck in that way. And nobody's born a loser, nobody's born fit. You choose to go to the gym, you choose to be confident, and you train that Muscle. So I think people should choose greatness and not fall into this victimization as I'm a black person or I'm a gay person and that's all I am. You know, you're more than that. You're more than your sexuality, you're more than your skin color. And it's just ridiculous that they're putting this narrative on children now even. That's why I got a lot of hate for posting about the gay ABCs and stuff like that.
A
Gay ABCs?
B
Yeah.
A
There's a gay ABC. No way.
B
H for like hetero and G for gay. What? And B for bisexual.
A
And they're teaching this.
B
And the pages are thick, unrippable. It's like for toddlers.
A
Oh my God.
B
Yeah. They also have the non racist baby where they teach skin colors.
A
What?
B
Yeah. And my son is almost three now and he cannot see. Like, he doesn't see skin colors.
A
Yeah, I didn't. No one did at that age.
B
Yeah. We have children book and there's black people in the book and there's white people in the book.
A
Yeah.
B
And he. When I say like, where is this teacher who's like a black teacher, he would just point at a white cartoon person and he's like, oh, it's him. Like, he doesn't differentiate.
A
Absolutely.
B
Yeah.
A
I didn't know about racism till I was probably in like middle school. Honestly, I just chilled with every kid. That's how it should be.
B
Absolutely. And it's the same with sexuality. There's. It would be the same thing as like pushing a child to like be straight and make five children. Like, I think children should just play with animals and nature and I mean, my ABCs used to be like a D for dog and cat.
A
For real.
B
Like, it also doesn't have to be like M for marriage and I don't know, like S for straight.
A
Yeah.
B
It's the same thing. And people think I'm attacking gay people. But it's not about that. It's not always about if you're gay or not. It's not always about if you're black or not. Like, life is, is. Is big and beautiful and complicated and weird and crazy and we're all in this together.
A
Yeah.
B
And we all need to stick together because we're all enslaved by these films and by these systems and. Yeah. I think that also like, brings me to Onlyfans, which I really like because it gives you a way out of the enslavement. I think that's why so many people are hating on it because it's not porn and it can make you a crazy income without doing anything.
A
Yeah, yeah. People have made life changing money with it on their own without being signed or, you know, being told what to do.
B
Yeah. You're nobody's pitch. It seems like you are selling your body, but in the end you don't have to wake up on a Monday morning. You know, you don't, you don't get screamed at and you don't have to hurt, hurt your lower back lifting anything up or, you know, there's a lot of ways to sell your body.
A
Yeah.
B
And of course there's a dark side as it is to everything. You know, there's a lot of people in, in adult entertainment that medicate themselves, take crazy amount of money and do degenerate things. But then there's also a lot of girls that work in the comfort of their home and take selfies that anybody a couple years ago just uploaded on Instagram.
A
Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, a lot of girls just post the same shit. Maybe a little more edgier. Yeah, yeah, can. It's been interesting, man. Anything you got going on, want to promote or close off with?
B
Yeah. I think it's time for everybody to take control of their health and of their mental state and of their physique. And I hope I can inspire everybody to not be stuck in their way and, and really question like why you think a certain way and then maybe. Yeah, and then, and then choo greatness and choose to be the best version of yourself on a daily level.
A
Love it. We'll link your socials and your podcast below. Man. Thanks for coming on. Yeah, thanks for watching guys, as always. See you tomorrow.
Podcast Summary: Digital Social Hour – "Home Birth vs. Hospital: The Shocking Truth | Candy Ken DSH #785"
Release Date: October 6, 2024
Host: Sean Kelly
Guest: Candy Ken
In episode #785 of Digital Social Hour, host Sean Kelly engages in a deep and candid conversation with Candy Ken, delving into a range of topics from parenting perspectives to societal issues. The discussion oscillates between personal anecdotes, political viewpoints, and controversial stances on health and social movements.
Candy Ken opens the discussion by reflecting on how parenthood reshapes one's outlook on life and materialism.
[00:01] Candy Ken: "Once you have a child, that perspective changes."
He criticizes the societal focus on self-interest, arguing that individuals without children are often driving decisions and laws, perpetuating a "me, me, me" mentality.
[00:04] Candy Ken: "It's a huge problem in our society is that, like, people with no children get to make decisions or make laws."
Sean Kelly acknowledges this shift, emphasizing the transformative power of becoming a parent.
The conversation transitions into Candy Ken's political leanings. Initially expressing admiration for Robert Kennedy:
[01:39] Candy Ken: "I'm more of a Robert Kennedy guy."
However, he shifts his support towards Donald Trump, citing media influence as the reason for his initial disdain.
[01:59] Candy Ken: "I find out that the media is a fraud and that they're pushing a lie... now he’s out of office, everything's going to [change]. So at this point, I feel like he's the only man who can save us."
Sean Kelly agrees with the notion that RFK might have fared better running as a Democrat and acknowledges the challenges independent candidates face.
[01:48] Sean Kelly: "I think RFK should have ran Democrat. I think he would have had a better chance."
A substantial portion of the episode is dedicated to home birthing versus hospital birthing. Candy Ken champions home births as a more empowering and natural choice for mothers.
[03:05] Candy Ken: "There’s nothing more empowering for a woman to give birth once she feels that she can do that."
He critiques the hospital system for prioritizing profit over the well-being of mother and child, highlighting issues like early clamping of the umbilical cord and unnecessary medical interventions.
[04:12] Candy Ken: "They separate mom and child and they put it away. So I had one home birth and one hospital birth, and it was like day and night."
Candy emphasizes the benefits of home births, including better mother-child bonding and healthier outcomes for the baby.
[04:21] Candy Ken: "The connection between mom and baby is very different because the home birth, we let them be connected for at least three hours."
Sean Kelly and Candy discuss the financial aspects, noting the exorbitant costs associated with hospital births compared to home births.
[03:44] Candy Ken: "They bill insurance is probably more like 30 or 40,000."
Candy Ken shares his holistic approach to health, touching upon topics like microplastics, nutrition, and detoxification. He expresses concerns over declining soil quality and its impact on food nutrition.
[06:06] Candy Ken: "If you don’t actively make yourself, like detoxifying yourself now on a daily level, you’re just being. Having these toxins at all times."
The discussion includes practical health practices such as cold plunging, regular exercise, and minimizing exposure to plastics and electromagnetic fields (EMFs).
[20:46] Candy Ken: "I cold plunge every morning, sauna every night."
Candy Ken delves into hunting, advocating it as an ethical alternative to industrial meat production. He recounts his first hunting experience alongside Tim Kennedy, emphasizing the respect and responsibility involved.
[08:02] Candy Ken: "Hunting is the most magical thing you can do. To see an animal in the wild... and then to feed your family all year long with one animal is incredible."
He contrasts this with factory farming, highlighting the psychological and physical stress animals endure in such systems.
[11:17] Candy Ken: "They know where they’re going, and they can feel it... it’s much more ethical to spend hours and days to hunt for one animal."
Candy Ken offers a contentious perspective on the LGBTQ+ community, expressing skepticism and criticism towards contemporary social movements. He believes that initiatives like body positivity and gender fluidity detract from traditional family values.
[15:35] Candy Ken: "I hate that shit. Yeah. Definitely not."
He argues for a return to conventional standards, advocating for honesty and discipline over what he perceives as enforced acceptance.
[25:35] Candy Ken: "If you think somebody’s beautiful when they’re fat, it’s... helps them if you bully them a little bit."
Candy also touches upon educational content, criticizing the introduction of concepts related to sexuality and race in early childhood education.
[31:00] Candy Ken: "They also have the non-racist baby where they teach skin colors."
The discussion progresses to body positivity, where Candy Ken opposes the movement, advocating instead for body shaming as a means to promote health and discipline.
[25:44] Candy Ken: "I think we should definitely bring back body shaming."
Sean Kelly relates by sharing personal experiences of being bullied for his physique, reinforcing the notion that constructive criticism can lead to personal improvement.
Candy Ken expresses concerns over the pervasive influence of technology, particularly the impact of EMFs and microplastics on health. He advocates for minimizing electronic exposure, especially during sleep.
[21:01] Candy Ken: "Turn off your WI FI at night."
He also discusses environmental issues, emphasizing the degradation of soil quality and the impending crisis of food importation due to depleted agricultural lands.
[07:16] Candy Ken: "In 20 years, the soil will be wiped in a lot of farms, big farms. It's scary."
In the concluding segment, Candy Ken urges listeners to take control of their health, mental state, and personal growth. He advocates for self-improvement and warns against societal manipulation by elites.
[33:42] Candy Ken: "I think it's time for everybody to take control of their health and of their mental state and of their physique."
Sean Kelly wraps up the episode by encouraging listeners to connect with Candy Ken on social platforms, acknowledging the value of his insights.
Parenting Changes Perspective:
[00:04] Candy Ken: "Once you have a child, that perspective changes."
Critique of Media Influence:
[01:59] Candy Ken: "Now that he's out of office, everything's going to [change]. So at this point, I feel like he's the only man who can save us."
Empowerment in Home Births:
[03:05] Candy Ken: "There’s nothing more empowering for a woman to give birth once she feels that she can do that."
Ethics of Hunting:
[08:02] Candy Ken: "Hunting is the most magical thing you can do."
Opposition to Body Positivity:
[25:44] Candy Ken: "I think we should definitely bring back body shaming."
Call to Action for Personal Health:
[33:42] Candy Ken: "I think it's time for everybody to take control of their health and of their mental state and of their physique."
This episode of Digital Social Hour with Candy Ken offers a provocative exploration of various societal and personal issues. From advocating home births and ethical hunting to critiquing modern social movements and health practices, CandKen provides his unfiltered perspectives, encouraging listeners to question prevailing norms and take proactive steps towards personal and societal betterment.
For more insights and discussions, be sure to subscribe to Digital Social Hour and follow Sean Kelly and Candy Ken on their respective social media platforms.