Digital Social Hour Episode Summary

Episode: Kristan Hawkins: Hormonal Birth Control Is Lying to Women (Here’s How) | DSH #1791
Date: January 28, 2026
Host: Sean Kelly
Guest: Kristan Hawkins, President of Students for Life of America

Episode Overview

In this episode, Sean Kelly sits down with Kristan Hawkins at AmFest to explore her unfiltered views on hormonal birth control, declining birth rates, abortion, and the intersection of feminism and reproductive health. Kristan critiques mainstream narratives around women’s health, discusses demographic and societal shifts, and describes her 20-year activism journey leading Students for Life of America. The conversation is candid, provocative, and frequently challenges conventional thinking about reproductive politics, women’s empowerment, and the cultural influence of organizations like Planned Parenthood.

Key Discussion Points

1. Hormonal Birth Control: Health Risks and Cultural Lies

• [00:00 | 28:12]
  • Hawkins opens by labeling hormonal birth control as “messed up”—“fake male hormones” prescribed instead of actually treating women’s health issues (e.g., PCOS, fibroids, painful periods).
  • Quote:

    "Hormonal birth control fakes your body out into thinking you’re pregnant all the time. That is no good." (Hawkins, 00:00 & 28:39)

  • She asserts that doctors default to birth control rather than addressing root causes.
  • Claims long-term use affects fertility:

    "And then you wonder why, like, women are like, I can't get pregnant… because you've been on birth control for 25 years." (Hawkins, 28:40)

  • Cites a Baylor University professor’s study and popular media: Women report changes in sex drive, sexual preferences, and even tastes in men, music, and food.
  • Condemns medical advice as misogynistic:

    “We’ve been telling women for 50 years, you have to change your sexual desire, your preferences… to be like a normative male body, because there’s something wrong with your body.” (Hawkins, 30:02)

  • Calls the acceptance of birth control by feminists “fundamentally anti-feminist.”

2. The Demographic Crisis and Fertility Decline

• [01:00 | 01:04]
  • Kristan notes the U.S. is below the replacement birth rate (currently 1.6–1.7 children per woman since COVID, down from the necessary 2.1).

    “We are… at European levels.” (Hawkins, 01:24)

  • Discusses international parallels (Japan, South Korea), and attributes cultural and policy anxieties (e.g., IVF, immigration debates) to low fertility.
  • Observes cultural trends like “DINKs” (dual income, no kids), affecting both society and public discourse.

3. Abortion, Planned Parenthood, and Political Influence

• [07:54 | 11:11 | 14:15]
  • Hawkins asserts her life mission:

    “My mission in life is to see abortion made unthinkable and unavailable… illegal, but also unthinkable.” (Hawkins, 07:57)

  • Critiques Planned Parenthood for perpetuating a “cycle of corruption,” blending nonprofit healthcare, political action, and lobbying.
  • Claims Planned Parenthood is a driving financial and ideological force in Democratic politics:

    “Planned Parenthood is one of their biggest funders… so even if you’re not completely down with all abortions, you can’t say it.” (Hawkins, 13:19)

  • Cites high abortion numbers (over 400,000 annually), clinic closures, and an aggressive role in shaping sex education and media culture.
  • Compares partial abortion statistics to eating contaminated food:

    “If someone gave you like a brownie and was like, hey, this is a really good brownie, but 3% of the brownie has human feces in it. Would you eat the brownie? …There’s shit in your brownie.” (Hawkins, 15:08)

4. The Pro-Life Movement’s Tactics and Evidence

• [06:10 | 22:18]
  • Describes her mobilization strategy: focus on grassroots and culture change among youth, rather than just policy change in Washington.

    “You always need an army… the side that has the largest, most well trained army, is the side that always wins.” (Hawkins, 06:52)

  • Details Students for Life’s national scope (1,600+ chapters, 100+ staff, $24M budget).
  • Reports an in-person “mind change” rate of 18% in campus debates, up to 51% in online engagement.

    “We have about 18% mind change rate… online, though, it’s 25 to 51%.” (Hawkins, 24:26)

5. Sex Education, Abstinence, and the Risk of Birth Control

• [25:28 | 28:07]
  • Hawkins criticizes Planned Parenthood’s role as sex educators in public schools, likening it to Philip Morris teaching teens not to smoke.
  • Advocates for “sexual risk avoidance” (abstinence), but not for omitting sex ed entirely.

    “There is only one thing you can do that 100% guarantee you won’t find yourself in an unplanned pregnancy. And that is abstinence.” (Hawkins, 26:59)

6. Feminism, Women’s Happiness, and Cultural Shifts

• [30:54 | 32:21]
  • Critiques second-wave feminism for embracing birth control and abortion, connecting it to contemporary unhappiness among women:

    “Now you have a generation of unhappy women. Women are at their most unhappy levels that’s ever been recorded.” (Hawkins, 32:21)

  • Argues that marriage and children increase happiness and fulfillment:

    “There is nothing more rewarding than having children. No career moment I could have will ever be more rewarding.” (Hawkins, 32:50)

  • Takes on radical anti-feminist and ultra-right arguments, including advocacy for repealing women’s right to vote, calling such activism “retarded” and damaging to conservative causes.

    “Maybe the smarter, more strategic, cheaper, faster option… is… have Republicans talk to women in a way that makes sense and makes them want to vote for them.” (Hawkins, 35:34)

7. Confrontation, Higher Education, and Free Speech

• [22:11 | 41:09]
  • Shares experiences debating at Ivy League and state campuses—sometimes met with genuine dialogue, sometimes with shouting and protest.
  • Discusses obstacles at private and Christian universities, which sometimes bar her organization or collaborate with Planned Parenthood:

    “Private Christian schools are… kind of the hardest schools we have to deal with.” (Hawkins, 41:04)
    “One in seven Christian universities have an open public relationship with Planned Parenthood.” (Hawkins, 41:59)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments (with Timestamps)

• On birth control and women’s bodies:

  "Hormonal birth control is messed up. It is like, fake male hormones that women are told for decades to ingest." (Hawkins, 00:00 & 28:39)

• On the demographic crisis:

  “We are… at European levels… at one point, [Japan will have] the last Japanese person who isn’t of a mixed race born… It’s crazy.” (Hawkins, 01:24)

• On Planned Parenthood’s political power:

  “They profit off your despair and then they take that profit and are one of the biggest lobbyists in Democratic politics today.” (Hawkins, 09:03)

• On abortion statistics:

  “They bragged last year… they were at an all time high of their abortions, over 400,000 a year.” (Hawkins, 16:05)

• On the emotional aftermath of abortion:

  “If you’ve had an abortion… and you never asked for forgiveness… you live with this guilt because it’s written on your human heart.” (Hawkins, 38:26)

Timestamps for Major Segments

• 00:00–01:20: Opening remarks on birth control and children
• 01:20–03:50: Fertility decline, demographics, immigration
• 06:10–07:54: The formation of Students for Life, activism tactics
• 07:54–09:07: Abortion as a political and ethical issue
• 14:15–17:00: Planned Parenthood’s scale, clinic closures, abortion costs
• 17:10–21:17: Science of conception and development, pro-life philosophy
• 22:07–24:26: Campus debates, engagement, mind change statistics
• 25:28–28:12: Sex education, Planned Parenthood’s influence, abstinence advocacy
• 28:12–31:00: In-depth criticism of hormonal birth control
• 30:54–32:50: Feminism, social change, the decline of female happiness
• 34:59–36:30: Critique of radical anti-feminist right and women’s suffrage debates
• 41:04–42:31: Christian universities and Planned Parenthood, challenges

Conclusion

Kristan Hawkins delivers a controversial, unapologetic critique of hormonal birth control, the abortion industry, and the trajectory of feminism. She urges for a return to pro-life and traditional family values rooted in her activism and research, while also calling out what she sees as the failures—and dangers—of both mainstream and fringe ideologies shaping women’s health and political discourse. Through statistics, personal stories, and pointed analogies, Hawkins makes her case for why women, politics, and culture must re-examine widely accepted narratives on reproductive health.

Learn More & Support

• Website: studentsforlife.org
• Social: Kristin Mercer Hawkins on X/Twitter; Students for Life on Instagram

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