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Episode: Nick Freitas Delivers Powerful Message After Charlie Kirk's Death... | DSH #1793
Date: January 29, 2026
Host: Sean Kelly
Guest: Nick Freitas

Episode Overview

In this deeply personal and thought-provoking episode, Sean Kelly talks with Nick Freitas in the wake of Charlie Kirk’s death. Freitas, a prominent conservative voice, shares candid insights on cultural division, fatherhood, marriage, masculinity, parenting in the digital age, and the lessons he’s learned from his own family. The episode blends hard-hitting social commentary with heartfelt family wisdom, offering both ideological perspective and practical advice.

Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. The Impact of Charlie Kirk’s Death & Societal Division

• Freitas reflects on Charlie Kirk’s death and the subsequent reaction from the political left.
  • “It wasn't just Charlie being murdered that kind of changed everything. It was the left's reaction to it.” (00:00)
  • Freitas argues that the polarized responses revealed the depth of “diametrically opposed worldviews” in America, emphasizing that these differences are not easily reconciled.
  • “One side's going to win and one side is going to lose. And I want my side to win, but I think my side also represents something where we do allow for peaceful coexistence.” (00:52)
• Charlie Kirk’s legacy as an inspiration.
  • “Charlie was brilliant at reminding everybody that, yeah, there's opposition out there, but we're fighting for the things we love.” (00:00, 01:54)
  • Emphasizes fighting for family, faith, and children, not just against opposition.

2. Faith, Family, and the Role of Godliness

• The importance of godliness in family and society.
  • “A nation of godly men and women who become godly husbands and wives... that's a nation whose politics you don't got to worry about.” (01:54)
• Personal reflections on parenting and the value of family.
  • “None of [my professional or political accomplishments] compare to random compliments my wife has given me or my children have given me.” (02:48)
• Breaking cycles of broken homes.
  • Both Freitas and his wife grew up in broken homes and committed to providing stability for their children.
  • “I think it's a testament to God's mercy that flawed attempts faithfully executed are blessed exponentially.” (03:18)

3. The Crisis Facing Young Men

• Condemnation of modern messages aimed at young men.
  • “The big issue with young men is they've spent the last two decades being told that they're garbage, that every instinct that they have to protect or provide is... bad and toxic.” (04:54)
• The need for proper mentorship and purpose.
  • Critiques “mentors” who focus on strength without purpose, warning that fulfillment is about “why” you want to be strong, not just “how.”
  • “The worst form of depression is getting it and realizing it leaves you unfulfilled.” (05:37)
  • Freitas asserts that young men are powerful and that society’s efforts to demoralize them are evidence of their potential.
  • “As young men go, so too will go the nation.” (06:08)
• Optimism for the future.
  • Encouragement that men are returning to faith and family values, and predicts women will follow: “God made men to lead. And when you lead righteously, everything else follows.” (06:23)

4. Feminism, Women's Roles, and Mental Health

• Critique of current feminist trends and their impact on mental health.
  • “If you want the truest testament that feminism has failed women... young, self-described liberal women... are dealing with the most mental health issues.” (06:37)
• Proverbs 31 as an exemplar of feminine strength.
  • “The strongest, most feminine woman I've ever read about? Go to Proverbs 31.” (06:37)
  • Argues for cooperation, not competition, between men and women: “Maybe it's because men and women were never supposed to be competitive with one another. We're supposed to be cooperative with one another.” (07:44)

5. Parenting in the Digital Era

• Managing technology and social media.
  • Freitas explains his approach: children didn’t own their phones—parents did, teaching property rights and oversight.
  • “If I want to see your phone, I [am] asking to see my phone, not yours.” (08:21)
  • Discusses delaying internet exposure until kids are spiritually, emotionally, and intellectually mature.
• On video games and online predators:
  • Acknowledges risks and credits activists like Ryan Montgomery for exposing dangers in games like Roblox and Fortnite. (09:26-09:35)
  • “I'm trying to do this in a responsible manner where they have access to things at a level where they have the maturity to deal with this and then they're also aware of the potential pitfalls and that I'm involved too.” (11:14)
• Homeschooling as a solution.
  • Homeschooling allowed greater control over environmental influences. (11:50)

6. Lessons on Discipline, Independence, and Teenage Years

• Myth-busting about the “rebellious” teen years
  • “Anybody that tells you the teenage years are the hardest, that's a lie. It does not have to be that way.” (12:52)
  • Emphasizes supporting independence and offering explanations for boundaries, rather than arbitrary rules.
  • “I think arbitrary rules invite rebellion.” (13:49)
  • “If you give your kids sound direction... it'll get you to where you want to go, well, now I'm paying attention.” (14:03)
• The role of authority and respect in parenting.
  • Not friends, but "respected leadership": “I'm not your friend, I love you and I like you, but I'm an authority figure. One day I want to be friends with you.” (15:10)
• Example of fatherly correction.
  • Notable story: correcting his daughter for disrespecting his wife. (16:51)
    • “Don't you ever talk to my wife that way again. So she felt that, oh, dad's mad... What I want to demonstrate to her is that there is an order of things. And part of that order is I protect my wife.” (16:51)

7. Building Family Bonds and Modeling Love

• Modeling marital love for children.
  • “The marriage was necessary to have the children... what your kids need far more than 14 different soccer practices is they need to know that they're growing up in an environment where mom and dad love each other.” (17:58)
  • Advocates flirting and disagreeing in front of the kids, showing healthy conflict and affection.
  • Humorous moment: “My son and I'll be at the gym... I'm gonna make out with your mom later. How about that?” (18:58)

Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “It wasn't just Charlie being murdered that kind of changed everything. It was the left's reaction to it.” – Nick Freitas (00:00)
• “A nation of godly men and women... that's a nation whose politics you don't got to worry about.” – Nick Freitas (01:54)
• “As young men go, so too will go the nation.” – Nick Freitas (06:08)
• “If you want the truest testament that feminism has failed women... young, self-described liberal women... are dealing with the most mental health issues.” – Nick Freitas (06:37)
• “I'm not your friend... but I'm an authority figure. One day I want to be friends with you.” – Nick Freitas (15:10)
• “Don't you ever talk to my wife that way again.” – Nick Freitas, to his daughter (16:51)
• “The marriage was necessary to have the children... what your kids need far more than 14 different soccer practices is... mom and dad love each other.” – Nick Freitas (17:58)
• Humorous moment: On teasing his son – “I'm gonna make out with your mom later. How about that?” – Nick Freitas (18:58)

Timestamps for Key Segments

• 00:00-01:53 – Charlie Kirk’s death, the reaction, and societal conflict
• 01:54-03:10 – Faith, family, and “fighting for what we love”
• 03:18-04:47 – The commitment to break family cycles of divorce
• 04:54-06:33 – Crisis among young men, importance of mentorship, and hope for the future
• 06:37-07:44 – Feminism, Proverbs 31, and women’s mental health
• 08:10-09:17 – Parenting, property rights, and gatekeeping technology
• 09:35-11:14 – Dangers in online gaming, digital era parenting strategies
• 11:50-13:13 – Homeschooling, preparing kids for the world, “teen years myth”
• 13:16-14:26 – Independence vs. rebellion, teaching the “why” behind rules
• 15:10-15:53 – Parenting as respected leadership, not just friendship
• 16:51-17:47 – Affirming protection and roles in the family
• 17:58-18:58 – Modeling a loving marriage and healthy conflict for children

Conclusion

Sean Kelly and Nick Freitas deliver a candid, passionate discussion about the challenges (and rewards) of family leadership in a divided, digital age. Freitas’s message, powerfully shaped by personal conviction, advocates for strong, faith-driven families as the foundation for societal renewal—while offering practical, relatable wisdom for parents and young people alike.