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Fresh
I don't want to be that guy. So I always made a point that, yes, I do love women and I love the experience, but I never wanted to define who I was.
Fit
Right.
Fresh
In that sense. So I think for most people, especially guys, if you chase women at the beginning, gonna lose at the end, versus you chase success and be investing yourself in the beginning, you're gonna always have women in your corner, no matter what you do.
Fit
All right, guys, Got fresh out here in Vegas. Finally out here, man.
Fresh
Back in Vegas, man. Glad to be with Sean Kelly, the legend himself. We're on the podcast.
Fit
Let's go, man. No, I, I. When I was starting the show, you were one of the shows I studied, so it's like a full circle moment for me.
Fresh
That's dope, bro.
Fit
Yeah. I mean, you guys paved the way. You've been at it for a while now, right?
Fresh
Yes. Four years running. We came out of nowhere during COVID and came with some bangers.
Fit
Yeah. And you film almost every day, right?
Fresh
Seven days a week for you, two years straight.
Fit
That's nuts, dude.
Fresh
Yeah.
Fit
There's shows that drop one episode a week.
Fresh
We didn't take a break. Can you imagine your favorite TV show airing seven days a week, every day for two years straight? Who does that for real?
Fit
And you guys are live, too.
Fresh
And we do it live. So when we mess up, we stutter, we say certain things. It's all there.
Fit
Do you think that's part of the reason why you guys get a lot of criticism because you're live.
Fresh
That, too. Because you can't correct or edit out the certain things that you say. That may be a little bit too crazy, but I think it's real. You know, keeping it real does have a lot of longevity of your audience, too.
Fit
Yeah. Because some of your guests probably say some wild stuff and you can't edit it out.
Fresh
You know, I think we're worse than the guest Honestly. Well, mine's worse than the guess. I think so. But either way, it's. It's part of the game. You know, being live is a good and a good and bad.
Fit
Absolutely. There's so many YouTubers trying to put you guys against each other too.
Fresh
Yeah, I've seen it. Recently, they've been saying that I don't like Myron. I'm just like me.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
This is like, no. Could you imagine? You grew up with a brother, right? And for whatever reason, people are like, oh, your brother's bad. I don't speak bad about my family. And to me, he's family. So, like, whatever people got to say about me, how. How I react, obviously I'm not grew everything he says, but vice versa. I mean, we're two different people. However, the trust is there, the bond is there. And I can bring that with some comments on some narrative push on YouTube, like, come on, bro.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
Really? Yeah.
Fit
You guys have been tight for a while. How long have you been friends with each other?
Fresh
Four years.
Fit
Oh, so you met on the show?
Fresh
So we met before the show. So what happened was I did a podcast with my friend Solo TV84. He's a YouTuber from back in the day. He's still doing stuff here and there, but not so much. And he did a podcast with him as well. So we did it separately. And he said, yo, listen, you guys are in the same city. You should link up now. Back then, he's doing fitness videos. I was doing more like prank videos. But at the same time, it was like we were aligned with the girl content, like, for example, dating and real estate. So you know what? You guys would be a good fit. So we had a call on Instagram for, like an hour, talking back and forth about real estate girls. And then he said, you know what? You're in the same city as me. Let's get dinner right now in person. So we met up for dinner. That's what I call top 42 in Midtown. We talked for, like two hours straight, back and forth, just connecting. We're like, you know what? Let's do our own. Let's do our own podcast. Fuck it. So we do the podcast. Two days later. It does pretty well. I think it was 10 ways to know your woman is like lying, something like that. And we did one about cold approach versus social media dating game, and people liked it. So we said, you know what? Let's do some more weekly. We did two a week, and three week. We've got our own studio. Rest is history at that Point.
Fit
Nice. Yeah, it was good timing because a lot of guys were struggling to get girls. Right. That was during COVID Yeah.
Fresh
And also like people were home. So if you're home doing nothing, you're going to watch TV or watch YouTube.
Fit
Right. You guys share basically all the same views on dating when it comes to woman.
Fresh
Yeah. Dating itself. Maybe how we go about it different. For example, I'm more of a chill lay by guy. You know the meme.
Fit
Yeah, yeah, chill guy meme.
Fresh
I'm more chill about my approach but it's very effective because for me it's like I'm a numbers guy. So I want numbers. I just want fun experiences. He wants more of a one girl, multiple girls at the same time. So I think that has like an effect where he's more like hard on his choices. I'm more laid back and chill because I really don't give a shit. Yeah, just having fun experience and we'll see what happens from there.
Fit
Yeah. Speaking of numbers, your body count. God damn. I saw a clip you said it was like over a thousand.
Fresh
Yeah. So back in the day I made a point to say that because I wanted to get clicks and go a little more viral. But looking back on it, it's not the best you want to push out there. Right. And to be honest, bro, I think the experience taught me a lot about dating itself and women. That's why like you say, oh fresh, you're pushover. Knows that I don't care because I the more women I've been with and what I've learned is like dude, this right here has taught me that like I don't have to give a shit because it's not my girl. So why am I going to give this much energy and thought to it? Because it's not my girl. So that and then just being like experienced with, you know, with dating, I think it's a blessing in a way. But to survive this long is a blessing too.
Fit
Absolutely. Speaking of energy, a lot of guys spend a lot of energy chasing girls, man, like a full time job.
Fresh
So I'll put it this way. A lot of times you meet people that are older if you have a.
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Fresh
Approach to hiring 50 60s at a bar. Sitting down you're like, hey man, what do you do for work? You know, tell me a little bit about your story. Just randomly sometimes. And I used to do that when I was like new to America. I was just going to sometimes hooter, sometimes different bars and like just like join the the obvious of being alone. I asked questions to all the people that I want to know what they did, what they did. And they'd always say like, I wish I spent more time working on my business, on my job. And the common thread was they chase women at the Very beginning of their, their early years, 20s, 30s, the Chase women non stop and then they regret because they're not where they want to be. I'm like, damn, I don't want to be that guy. So I always made a point that yes, I do love women and I love the experience, but I never wanted to define who I was.
Fit
Right.
Fresh
In that sense. So I think for most people, especially guys, if you chase women at the beginning, you're going to lose at the end, versus if you chase success and be in the best version of yourself at the beginning, you're gonna always have women in your corner no matter what you do. So the opposite is gonna try what you want versus doing just chasing women. You're gonna lose them eventually.
Fit
Which takes a lot of discipline at a young age. Right. To put women to the side.
Fresh
Argue most people can't do it.
Fit
I would agree.
Fresh
Yeah. And as a result, the ones that can do it will win.
Fit
I agree though, because when you're that young, you're like hornier. Right. Your testosterone's super high in your 20s.
Fresh
I used to do two to three dates a day back in the day.
Fit
Yeah. That's wild.
Fresh
Yeah. When I met Myron, I was doing that because you know what? I bought my first property. I already had a bunch of savings. I had already did the corporate world, so to speak. I mastered certain things. I was able to like network and talk to my boss on a certain level. I had security there, so I was like, you know what? I did my shit. Like, I'm good, I'm making good money, six figures a year. Got my real estate, got my savings. I got stuff on now and I work from home so I could like do five tickets, stop, take a break, go on a date. Is it is. I understood my, my passion and I understood that like where I'm at, and I made it work for myself pretty easily.
Fit
Right. The counter argument, I guess, would be the girls are using you for money then. Right? They're dating you for your money.
Fresh
Here's the funny part. So I need to do what I want to do. So people say, oh, fresh, you're simping on girls. No, you know what's funny? I do what I want to do. So let's say I want to go eat tacos. Guess what? Bring a plus one. Let's say I want to go to see a show, I bring a plus one. So I think when it comes to like simply in that sense, you're doing what she wants to do and then you're spending money for her Endeavors I'm doing, I want to do. She's a plus one for me. And if you look at it that way, you win no matter what. Because let's say the date goes bad. Well, guess what? I did want what I want to do anyway. Cool. I'll move on.
Fit
That makes sense. Yeah, yeah, if you're going to eat there anyway.
Fresh
Listen, with a lineup like that I got back up. You mess up. Hey, what are you doing? Pull up. Cool. I'm gonna get what I need no matter what.
Fit
You got it down to a formula?
Fresh
Well, I look at it as like a algorithm because I. Well, first off foremost, I'm like a nerd, right? I love video games, I love programming. But I thought about it like, you know what? What's the best method to get what I want at all times? And you might say that's not selfish. But yeah, guess what? Women are selfish too. They get what they want. Why can't I get what I want? And I realized, okay, if XY doesn't work, this line of code says XYZ can work in this, in this way, if, and else. That's what the statement there. And listen, I made it work. So I think people misunderstand because I, I'm pretty much like quiet, chill. I don't really like, do too much. But like I said it where, like my life is perfect, where I like it.
Fit
Right?
Fresh
That's all.
Fit
Yeah. You've done well because you're an introvert, right?
Fresh
Yeah, yeah. It's funny, I do a lot of networking, but people don't know. I'd rather just be home chilling, playing video games. I could care less about going out. I could just be home being my dog and chill. I don't need much at all.
Fit
Well, you're at the point now where you've got some money, you've got the views, you don't need to be networking as much as maybe in your earlier years, right?
Fresh
Well, I still network, but in different ways. So I'm more business driven now. So I like messing with like, I like going out with CEOs, owners of companies, billionaires. Because like that level of lifestyle I never saw before, ever. And I didn't think it was possible because why they said with a random black guy like me, you know, but now more in the limelight, it's like, okay, cool, you're a cool guy. I like what we got going on. And yeah, I'll teach you how I live. And I realize the big ass chains, you know, the crazy lifestyle, these billionaires just wear shorts they might wear one watch, if anything.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
Regular tea. They shop out Target and they just chill. They enjoy life. They have. They buy experiences. They don't buy things.
Fit
Right.
Fresh
Wow. Now I see why they're so happy. Because, listen, I bought the Lambos, the, the. The cars, the lifestyle. It's fun, but it doesn't fulfill you. It's almost like if, like you're pushing so hard to get this. These things and it's like when you get like, okay, I got it, what's next? You know, it's not fulfilling. So I did everything you could do, man. I think the words of Solomon taught me a lot because he had everything under the sun. He had a thousand wives, pretty much he had the kingdom to himself. He had riches beyond imagination. And he said, everything is good, but nothing is the end. All be all before God. And I think in reality speaking, you could have everything, everything you want, but without purpose and driven a passion towards God as well. It's like there's no point to none of this.
Fit
Agreed. So, yeah, money and woman aren't enough, right? There's more purpose than that in life.
Fresh
Definitely not. But I could say that because I had it. Never had it. It sounds like I'm talking shit right now, but, you know, you should experience it and then say, you know what? Okay, I understand now.
Fit
Yeah. So now you're just trying to educate people on it, right? That's like the main goal with pod.
Fresh
I think what I'm going to do, I'm going to. Well, I have a membership already called Castle Club.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
And my CO network where I teach guys about credit, for example, dating, networking, all that stuff. But I think what I'm going to do, I'm going set a new program where I teach guys how to avoid mistakes that I made. For example, personal credit card debts, you know, having car loans that were like so expensive. Bro, I lost like, you know, you. I lost on my last Lambo 200K.
Fit
Why? How?
Fresh
Well, for one, it got hit by this. This guy. I was in south beach, parked at the red light, guy's drunk from work, slammed in the back of it, I get a little ding. And those cars is only 500 in the main Lamborghini SV Aventador. So when once, once they get hit, it's like the car's done because no one wants to buy a hit sv.
Fit
Damn.
Fresh
So that was one thing. And then the car market dropped. So if you bought a car between 2020 and 2023, any exotic car, pretty much other than a G wagon or like Urus. Urus fell down too, you know, I'll just say G Wagon. He lost, he lost money in the car. So I got a friend about SF90, he bought it for 900k. It's worth 500k now.
Fit
Holy crap. So people are taking shits because same with watch market.
Fresh
There you go. So a lot of people lost money on watches and cars. But I'm a car guy, so I spent a lot money on cars. Anyhow, I digress. The point is that like in that sense, bro, I've made mistakes where like I've learned from and I never make it again. I want people to learn from my mistakes, not to do what I did.
Fit
So was that the biggest financial mistake you've made? The 200K100. Damn.
Fresh
No, no, actually no. There's more. So my other Lambo I had the svj. I bought a high end market as well. I bought out 1 million and as you guys know, today SVJs are worth like 500k, 600k. Now if you're doing like a roadster, which is the convertible, that's maybe like 800k max, 900k. Either way, I lost money on that too as well. So all in all on cars I probably lost like close to a million.
Fit
Holy crap.
Fresh
Yeah, bro.
Fit
That's a lot, dude.
Fresh
So I can tell you right now, bro, like the car game itself is tough. And this is for anybody. You buy a car, you're gonna lose money at some point. But I think if you time the market correctly, which it's hard to do sometimes you can get out pretty reasonably. But I lose too much, Right.
Fit
The trick is certain models and then buy them used, Right?
Fresh
Always buy is never buy new.
Fit
Yeah, because you lose 30%.
Fresh
There is a hack though. You can do that. I know that does this. He buys allocations first. So for example, let's say the new Ferrari truck comes out, right? Yes. Allocation gets it first, drives for like four months to six months and it sells it for a profit. That's where you can win. But you need the money up front to get the car because okay, it's you. And it's like they trust you, right? But people are regular, they can't really do that. So it's kind of like you gotta bite, use and buy undervalue and then drive for a little bit and sell it to stay current.
Fit
Yeah, you need the connections for that too. Same with watches. If you get a Rolex retail, you could sell it pretty quick.
Fresh
Now my next Lambo that I buy, I'm either gonna buy Cash or close to cash. Because I just realized, bro, paying interest, paying payments, it's an L. You. You don't wanna do that. Even though it's a lease, it does benefit me business wise. It's still like. I don't know if I want to do this long term because I feel that, imagine paying 15k a month. It's like, this is going on my account.
Fit
It's like it's more than my house. God damn.
Fresh
Exactly. So it's just like, is it worth it?
Fit
No.
Fresh
Yeah.
Fit
What about real estate, though? You got real estate as well?
Fresh
Yeah. So what I did was very smart. I made sure I had real estate to kind of grow my. My wants. So that's my main foundation, real estate itself and properties here in Barbados. And then from there, what I did was I say, you know what, this can cover my actual. Well, not all my expenses, but most my expenses. But back then I was pretty much like living rent free because, remember, I lived in one of my units and the other people pay my mortgage, so I live for free, basically.
Fit
Yeah. House hacking.
Fresh
Yeah. And then when I got a little bit more expenses, I got more property. And then I covered, like, for example, my Lambo payment. And then from there, because to me, it's like, you know what? If I can pay my Lambo, I'll be happy. And that was my main goal, to pay my Lambo. So I could just drive that for free, basically. Have fun and then get out.
Fit
That makes sense.
Fresh
Then I got hit and then. Oh, happened.
Fit
Yeah. Sometimes life is just unpredictable, right?
Fresh
You never know, bro.
Fit
Yeah, you really never know. You said you're a big gamer.
Fresh
Love gaming, bro.
Fit
How often are you gaming these days, though?
Fresh
So I took a break during the podcast. So I stopped. So it's funny, I saw my switch at the beginning of the podcast. It hurt me because I had Smash Brothers, I had had a Hyrule Warriors, a bunch of guys I had back then. I used to love playing. So I saw my switch back then and I stopped playing online games like League Legends. I stopped playing like Cabal, all these games. And I say, you know, I'm gonna focus on a podcast, focus on this, and it's gonna be my new baby, pretty much. But now we're more concrete and settled, I started playing league again. Pretty much like Top Tryndamere. If you want to test this, this theory, then hit me up on social media. I'll fight you any day. But yeah, League Legends, a little bit. Dragon Ball Z, Sparking Zero. It's kind of glitched. Though, that game. And yeah, it's pretty much it for those two.
Fit
No fort. No. No shooters Fortnite or anything.
Fresh
I used to play Call of Duty back in the day with Soulja Boy, but not anymore. Now.
Fit
You were streaming with him back in the day?
Fresh
Yeah, dude, it was fun, bro. It's. Imagine this, right? I'm a kid in Barbados that's like a huge Soulja Boy fan. And I like his people, SODMG gamers. And I'm like, yo, this guy's really good, bro. Like, we should bring him into our team and then soldier will hop in every now and then on. On PlayStation, Xbox. It was fun, man.
Fit
Damn. So he was nice.
Fresh
He's good, bro.
Fit
Okay.
Fresh
But I'm better, though. Just saying.
Fit
What's the best video game of all time?
Fresh
What's the hard one? Oh, you know what? That's actually easy. Legend Zelda.
Fit
Really?
Fresh
Yeah. I would say either Ocarina of Time or the new ones that. That just came up. Breath of the Wilds.
Fit
Okay. Yeah, that's the game you've spent the most hours on. You think Zelda?
Fresh
Most hours has to be online game, like, you know, Last Chaos. No, it's like an older, like, MM RPG game. But, yeah, that I spent hours, dude, I'll spend, like my whole summer playing that game, bro.
Fit
Damn.
Fresh
Because console games, to me are like, easy. Like, you just. If you get stuck, you go on FAQ game cheat codes, and you look at that past that part, you go past it and you move on. But online games, you gotta grind. So, yes, a little bit more intensive.
Fit
I was a big runescaper overall.
Fresh
For real, that's one game I didn't play.
Fit
What?
Fresh
I didn't play that. I didn't play Minecraft. I didn't play World of Warcraft.
Fit
No way. Maple Story. Ah, you didn't play that.
Fresh
The Dragon Quest.
Fit
Oh, Dragon Quest. That's a classic.
Fresh
That's fun.
Fit
Damn. What's your console of choice if you had to pick one, bro? Yeah, PlayStation. PlayStation.
Fresh
No, no, but. But to be real, the most fun is Nintendo.
Fit
Okay.
Fresh
Yeah. Because even though it's challenges, it's more like fun to play.
Fit
Yeah, I'm a PC gamer. I was always that nerdy kid. Dc. No one had that in high school.
Fresh
Yeah, PC is more like a niche because back then it was also like, what, the newest console. Let's play together. Land and all this.
Fit
100. So people are gaming in Barbados, where you grew up?
Fresh
Hell yeah, bro. We love, like, nights where you spend, like. Okay, so during the day we'll go riding bikes around. Like, for example, bicycles around the neighborhood. That night, we'll play games. Like, all of us come over, buy some popcorn, some snacks, and play some video games. Wow. Smash Bros. 007, Golden Eye, Mario Kart, Mario Party. It was fun.
Fit
That's cool. When did you move over here?
Fresh
10 years ago.
Fit
Oh, so kind of recently.
Fresh
Yeah.
Fit
So you spent your whole life there, though?
Fresh
Yeah, yeah, pretty much.
Fit
What do you like more here or Barbados?
Fresh
Here all day, bro.
Fit
Not even close.
Fresh
I feel like, boy, I can go to Florido. Some white hoes go to the Keys. More white hoes, bro. It's awesome here, bro. And then if I get really bored, I could travel to Mexico, Barbados, if I want to. Back home, I can go somewhere close. Jamaica. So it's like, it's more fun, you know?
Fit
How are the girls back there? How are in Barbados?
Fresh
They're beautiful. I just tend to like foreign girls better.
Fit
Yeah, foreign girls got different attitudes. Right. I heard that.
Fresh
And. And also, like, imagine. So where group is more like a tropical island for vacation, people coming there for vacation and vibes. So if I create that vibe and I'm there, it's like a better setup.
Fit
Yeah. So I feel that. Could you date someone with kids that had kids? Previously?
Fresh
Sorry?
Fit
Could you date someone that had kids?
Fresh
No. I heard you.
Fit
Oh, no.
Fresh
I'm so sorry. No, no, I can't. I can't. I. I did at one point, actually. I actually married a single mom, actually.
Fit
Oh, you did?
Fresh
Yeah, I did.
Fit
I didn't know that.
Fresh
Yeah. One of my origin stories back in the day on YouTube, but after experience, because I did it because of religion, because I didn't want to be living with a woman and not married, because that's kind of seen as, like, not good if you're a Christian. And I did it, but it was just like, I felt alone, bro. Like, dating a single mom. If anyone's dated a single mom before, you could relate to this. Like, you're in house with a woman or kid, but it's like you feel isolated because they're together on a team. You're just here, so. And then also disciplining kid is not the same. Also, like, your wants and these are put behind because of the kid. It's almost like. Like, if, like, you're stuck serving this kid, even though you have your own ambition and goals. And it's just like, I didn't come to America to babysit a kid. I came to be successful and become who I am today. So I just said, I I gotta go. I told her, I'm gonna divorce you.
Fit
She understand because of the kid. Well, was that the main reason?
Fresh
Well, this happened. I. I sat my car one day. I was like, you know what? I'm not happy and I'm not where I want to be right now. And if I stay here, I know I'm gonna end up either doing some dumb or just like, not fully, like, committed to the cause. I feel that I was like, all right, you know what? What should I do? So I googled dating single mothers. I saw a video on YouTube with Tom Lycus. Shout to him Legend. His own TV show, Radio show on. On the airwaves. And he brought up different people to talk about their experience dating single mothers. Guys would be like, yo, listen, man, I love her, I care about her, but, like, the stress of dealing with this kid, I can't. I can't discipline them. I feel like I'm trapped in this house. I was like, I credit to this. And I felt like, this is me. And then the only way you can escape is if you get away now before you get like, stuck in that. In that mess. Damn. I saw guys that were there for 10, 30 years. This woman stuck in, depressed. I don't be that guy. So I thought I was like, you know what? I need to make a change. And I saw King Rich's videos too, as well. Soul TV 84, a bunch of creators. I saw Dating Second Mothers. I was, you know what? I'm 20, 20, 22 now, 23. I need to leave now, because if I don't leave now, I'll be old and, you know, miserable.
Fit
Right?
Fresh
So I went home that day and said, listen, I care about you. I respect you, but, like, I gotta go. And she cried. But is with us being honest with.
Fit
Her, you know, hopefully you're both in better spots.
Fresh
Well, she got a new family now. Oh, nice kids I'm happy for. You know, I. I gave her the car to keep as well, the Kia, and she was happy at some point. I mean, I took the car back, but yeah, you know what I'm saying?
Fit
I'd be curious to see statistics on, like, what percentage of relationships last that were from previous, like, kids, you know.
Fresh
Oh, yeah, it's. It's tough, bro, because remember, you're bringing a blended family sometimes. Well, not. Well, let's say you have no kids. Harder because, like, you become like. You know, I would say you become. You become like. Like a cuck because you're taking care of another man's kid. And the Same time. It's like, where's your legacy? Where's your, like, actual, like, offspring? It's not there. So you're taking care of this man's kid. You can show up and be like, yo, this is my kid. Get out of here. So it's, like, not worth it, in my opinion.
Fit
Yeah. Genetically, they're not actually your kid, even if you say you're the dad.
Fresh
I guess, because I've seen people raise kids and then, like, they get older teenagers. You're not my dad. I'm like, God damn. He just spent his whole life raising you, paying for your school trips, all this stuff. You say you're not my dad, and then you get mad and walk away. Yeah, that, to me, is, like, terrible, bro.
Fit
I feel. What about adoption, though? Would you ever adopt?
Fresh
Nah.
Fit
You wouldn't already adopt a dog? Dogs are pretty much kids, dude. Yeah, they're a lot of work.
Fresh
I got one. One Shiba Inu dogecoin. And he is a handful.
Fit
Let's go. You into crypto?
Fresh
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
Fit
It's a bull run right now.
Fresh
Well, we told guys to buy crypto back in the day. Bitcoin and ethereum. Thanks to our guys, Charlie and Miguel.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
If you know them.
Fit
Yeah, I met them.
Fresh
But there's some experts at crypto, and they were right. They said, BTC is going to 100k. This is four years ago. They said a bunch of stuff. And they were right on point.
Fit
Which is crazy, because I remember you guys getting hate videos back in the day for talking about crypto.
Fresh
Yeah. And now it's scammers. You said, we're, like, trying to, like, sell them coins. Buy stable coins, Bitcoin, Ethereum. And we were right.
Fit
So they were hard to go wrong with the top three coins. Like bitcoin theorem, Solana.
Fresh
Yeah. And I think people also thought of it as too new to be true. And I get that part. But, like, you know, you can see clearly that, like, it's going up on a trend. And it's like, okay, maybe the first time you didn't believe was the second time. Third time. Yeah, that's your fault now.
Fit
Did you see the hawk to a.
Fresh
Coin rug pull to them? Yo, dude, you know what's funny about that coin people. People like to have memes as a stable of, like, their investments. Now I'm just like, bro, she got famous for saying, spin on some dick. Yeah, like, how's that? I don't know, bro. To me, that's just weird for you to buy that coin.
Fit
Yeah. I mean, people are just degenerates. There was a coin for the guy that murdered the UnitedHealthcare CEO.
Fresh
Whoa.
Fit
There was a coin. It was called his name. It reached a 400 million dollar market cap. People just buy the dumbest stuff with meme coins.
Fresh
That's crazy, bro.
Fit
Yeah, it's not. You guys have probably been approached to launch a coin like every day.
Fresh
Yeah. 100. I got in telegram right now.
Fit
That's how it works. Telegram.
Fresh
I'm like, no, bro, like, because the thing is, like, our audience, bro, like, they're respect us because we keep it real. We don't sell them. And it's like, no, bro, like, it's a scam. Like, yeah, that to me is a legit scam because, you know at the top, your people are going to buy the coin or have the most of the coin. You're just going to sell it and then like, just like run away.
Fit
Like, it's hard to make.
Fresh
It was snipers. It was like, come on, bro, you know what you're doing.
Fit
Yeah. And I know you're tied with Tate, so I got to ask, like, when he launched his coins, were you surprised?
Fresh
Well, his coin in itself, I think he wants to make it more so than a community, more than just. Just like a coin. So I think he's taking it to a different level.
Fit
Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's just tough though, because people. You can't predict what people are gonna do. A lot of people just dump.
Fresh
Yeah. I think for most people, though, like, you gotta understand the person that you're working with. Yeah. If you don't understand that, then there's no point doing it.
Fit
Absolutely. Yeah. I remember when Steeple do a launch one too, and it just. It's hard if you don't know the team. Like, they. They could just rug it.
Fresh
Yeah. And then you're putting your trust into a whole team that you don't really know that well, that could just say, you know what? I'm gonna use their name for clout. Get some, you know, people joining and then just like dip out.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
You never really know.
Fit
Absolutely. Have you had that hawk to a girl on the show yet?
Fresh
No.
Fit
Fresh and fit. You don't think she'd do it?
Fresh
I don't think she'd do it. I mean, we roast her a lot though.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
Because remember she attacked the people that brought her on the platform. Remember the guys. The guys from the two guys.
Fit
Right. From Nashville.
Fresh
So they had a channel on YouTube and they brought her on, actually. She begged to be on the video, by the way. Then she got famous and she's like, oh, yeah, they forced me to go on the video. And, like, they're trying to force me to, like, pick them up, but, like, I don't like them. I'm like, they put you on, and then you want to get mad at them, like, so.
Fit
Yeah, yeah. She kind of did them dirty, right?
Fresh
100.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
That's the gift. One of your people that showed you love put you on, and you say, you know what? Them. I'm just gonna push them under the rug and just keep moving like it's up.
Fit
Yeah. Loyalty is important to you. I noticed that about you. We're with Gary here. Do you believe in that stuff?
Fresh
Numerology, I think, has its place, but I prefer to follow more Christian values, and I think it wouldn't align with my value.
Fit
It would interfere.
Fresh
Yeah.
Fit
I've had a lot of pastors on the show, and they get so weirded out when I talk about astrology and numerology.
Fresh
But again, it has. You know, Israel is, like, in the cyclic world. If you understand, like, how things work and number. How numbers work. It does have its place, but I just think I. I believe that he has my back, so I don't need to rely on numbers.
Fit
Yeah. Have you always been Christian growing up?
Fresh
I'm not. Okay, so let me just say this real quick. I'm not the best Christian possible. I'm actually doing the most degenerate stuff possible. So I'm not the. I shouldn't be an advocate for Christianity. What I'm saying is that, like, when I. When I regress back into, like, not regress, when I progress into a better state, I'll be able to say that that was not part of my repertoire.
Fit
That's respect. The fact that you can acknowledge that you were doing some. Some degenerate stuff, you know?
Fresh
Yeah. I mean, hose is not what Jesus would be doing right now.
Fit
You think you'll ever get past that stage?
Fresh
Honestly, I'm on the way out, bro, because I feel like I'm 32 now. I feel like I've done everything you could do, you know? You know what it was, bro? I wanted to follow Solomon's footsteps, but not to the very end where, like, he did everything under the sun. He was the wisest man in the world, and he had everything he wanted. He realized that, like, this life is a test, and you get. You can get things that you want, you can accomplish things, but, like, at the end of it all, what do you really have? Do you know?
Fit
No, your dignity, nothing.
Fresh
Because you came from dust, you're going to return to the dust. And at that point it's like, okay, I have a millionaire, I have mansions, I have properties, I have cars of girls. Okay, now you're dead, what do you have? That's your soul. And then that's the road journey after you die.
Fit
That's deep. Yeah, no, that's super deep. I've had a couple near death experiences and in those moments I'm like, wow, nothing matters other than my life right now. Like, all the money I have is irrelevant.
Fresh
Before I came to America, I got into a really bad motorcycle accident. I almost died.
Fit
Damn.
Fresh
That's why I said, you know what? I want to live my life and do what I want to do. So that's why I came to America.
Fit
That's what, what made you came here.
Fresh
Because I've always wanted to come to America and live, but I just never had like the. The money, the cojones, I guess.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
And I was just like, yeah, I got good life here. Motorcycles, cars, girls. Like a party of everyday Barbados. Family's pretty okay, so I'll be good. But then I was like, this isn't life, man. It's not being caught up by my family, being able to like do my own thing. That's more important to me then.
Fit
Yeah. So you were pretty successful out there before you came here?
Fresh
I wasn't. My family was. I was just living off of their shit, you know.
Fit
Oh, wow.
Fresh
So like, keeping it real that I wasn't successful at all.
Fit
No. Thanks for keeping that real though.
Fresh
I was still in school, still doing my shit, but I could do whatever there because they were taking care of me.
Fit
So that's respect. Some people won't admit they come from money, you know.
Fresh
Oh, yeah, well, not that much money, but enough to like live good. Yeah.
Fit
Well, over there you probably don't need anything crazy, I imagine.
Fresh
No.
Fit
You know, a couple hundred thousand years. Probably like living like a king out there.
Fresh
Pretty much, yeah.
Fit
That's cool, man. Well, what are you working on next? Who's coming on the show? Anyone excited?
Fresh
So now we're a bit more controversial and we're questioning some certain states in occupying America. It's a little bit harder to bring some guests on because they're not want to risk their brand. So it's a little bit hard to bring guests on.
Fit
But are you gonna.
Fresh
I got some people talking to right now.
Fit
Are you gonna kind of take a step back and reflect on that and be like, maybe we shouldn't say certain things or.
Fresh
Well, I don't talk about it at all. That. That's more my. I. I just think there's no need to. That people are nourished down things, you know?
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
Pushing. It's kind of like. Eh. But, you know, that's the thing.
Fit
So you guys have been banned on what, almost every platform at this point?
Fresh
Yeah.
Fit
Instagram, Twitch.
Fresh
Well, Instagram was a hacker trying to blackmail us.
Fit
Oh, really?
Fresh
Yeah. So that was something different. Twitch for sure were banned Worlds X.
Fit
Right?
Fresh
X. We're just. Well, he's just demonetized.
Fit
Okay. And then YouTube demonetized too, right?
Fresh
Yeah, YouTube demonetized. That's pretty much it.
Fit
Okay, well, Twitch is struggling right now. I don't know if you've seen that.
Fresh
Yeah. Twitch is having issues with their biggest streamer, who's a parent anti Semite, which is hilarious because. Anyhow. No, no, but no. Rumble had our back through everything. Rumble, support us. Rumble is definitely a platform that we love and care about. So fill out the Rumble, man.
Fit
Would you box Abba and Preach, both of you guys?
Fresh
Of course.
Fit
Let's do it. Let's set that up, dude.
Fresh
You know, it's funny. They want to do it back in the day, and then all of a sudden, they just backed out. Oh, bro, let's. No, you know, it was. We told them, listen, all that. Let's have cameras there and do everything. Oh, no, bro. Let's do it one on one. Nothing. They hit us up. Oh, I was in Florida. We didn't know that until. Until you left. So it's funny to me that they were like, oh, we're running from them. No, you run from us.
Fit
Yeah. So someone's got to set that up. That would get a lot of views.
Fresh
I'm down to do it.
Fit
I mean, they're getting millions of views a month on you guys. Right?
Fresh
But they won't do it.
Fit
Yeah, I mean, I. You should do Power Slap, bro.
Fresh
They're scared, bro.
Fit
You think so?
Fresh
100 especially. Especially album. He's scared.
Fit
Which one's that? Is he the taller one or the.
Fresh
One that looks Somalian?
Fit
Okay, he's the one that talks most of the time.
Fresh
He's gonna get some all fours. What gets pegged? Yeah, yo. Oh, you didn't know?
Fit
No. What?
Fresh
He admitted on a podcast, bro.
Fit
Are you serious?
Fresh
He likes to get milked.
Fit
That's some destiny stuff right there.
Fresh
Oh, well, they're friends.
Fit
You guys are tight with Destiny, which I respect, because total opposite point of view on everything.
Fresh
Yeah, Destiny's cool. I mean, how to put this? We don't agree on a lot of things, but like, he's pretty brave to go to people's platforms and debate stuff. Yeah, he doesn't have to.
Fit
Well, that's why I like your show because it's free speech you have on whoever. Doesn't matter. You know, you'll have on like Nick Fuentes, destiny, all these guys.
Fresh
Yeah.
Fit
You'll have a conversation. Most shows will not just have on certain people.
Fresh
Well, I see why.
Fit
Yeah.
Fresh
Yeah.
Fit
Well, dude, where could people keep up with you?
Fresh
Pretty much, man. I'm on YouTube. I'm a rumble, fresh and fit. And we do a membership where we do training for crypto stocks, fitness and as well networking and dating. So you guys want to become a better man? I'm better for yourself tv, that's our website. And then we do coaching as well. Zoom calls on there as well.
Fit
Boom. We'll link it all up. Thanks for coming on, man.
Fresh
Appreciate it, bro.
Fit
Y thanks for watching, guys. Check out the links. Peace.
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Digital Social Hour: Episode Summary
Real Estate Hacks That Paid for My Dream Lifestyle | Fresh DSH #1116
Release Date: January 17, 2025
Host: Sean Kelly
In this episode of Digital Social Hour, host Sean Kelly engages in a candid conversation with Fresh and Fit, two prominent figures known for their unfiltered discussions on dating, success, and personal development. The episode delves deep into the strategies that Fresh employed to achieve his dream lifestyle through real estate, while also exploring his personal experiences and philosophies on life.
Fresh and Fit discuss the genesis and growth of their podcast, highlighting their commitment to live broadcasting and maintaining authenticity.
Fresh reflects on the early days of their podcasting journey:
“[00:38] Fresh: I don't want to be that guy. So I always made a point that, yes, I do love women and I love the experience, but I never wanted to define who I was.”
Fit emphasizes the uniqueness of their approach:
“[01:03] Fit: When I was starting the show, you were one of the shows I studied, so it's like a full circle moment for me.”
The duo underscores the challenges and benefits of live broadcasting:
“[01:32] Fit: And you guys are live, too.”
“[01:38] Fit: Do you think that's part of the reason why you guys get a lot of criticism because you're live.”
They conclude that being live fosters a genuine connection with their audience, despite the occasional slip-ups.
A significant portion of the conversation revolves around prioritizing personal success over the pursuit of romantic relationships.
Fresh shares his philosophy:
“[04:01] Fresh: I'm more chill about my approach but it's very effective because for me it's like I'm a numbers guy. So I want numbers. I just want fun experiences.”
Fit agrees on the discipline required:
“[08:43] Fit: Which takes a lot of discipline at a young age. Right. To put women to the side.”
Fresh elaborates on the long-term benefits:
“[08:22] Fresh: In that sense. So I think for most people, especially guys, if you chase women at the beginning, you're going to lose at the end, versus if you chase success and be in the best version of yourself at the beginning, you're gonna always have women in your corner no matter what you do.”
This approach emphasizes self-improvement and building a solid foundation, ensuring lasting relationships without the pressure of constant pursuit.
Fresh dives into his financial strategies, particularly focusing on real estate as the cornerstone of his wealth-building efforts.
He details his real estate tactics:
“[16:15] Fresh: So what I did was very smart. I made sure I had real estate to kind of grow my. My wants. So that's my main foundation, real estate itself and properties here in Barbados.”
Fit acknowledges the effectiveness during challenging times:
“[03:47] Fit: Nice. Yeah. Yeah, it was good timing because a lot of guys were struggling to get girls. Right. That was during COVID Yeah.”
Fresh explains how real estate covered his expenses:
“[16:37] Fit: Yeah. House hacking.”
“[16:38] Fresh: Yeah. And then when I got a little bit more expenses, I got more property. And then I covered, like, for example, my Lambo payment.”
Initially, Fresh leveraged real estate to offset personal expenses, enabling him to invest in luxury items like Lamborghinis without financial strain.
Despite his successes, Fresh openly discusses his significant financial missteps, particularly in the realm of exotic cars.
Fresh recounts his losses:
“[13:22] Fit: Why? How?”
“[13:40] Fit: Damn.”
“[14:26] Fresh: No, no, actually no. There's more. So my other Lambo I had the svj. I bought a high end market as well. I bought out 1 million and as you guys know, today SVJs are worth like 500k, 600k.”
He offers advice to listeners:
“[14:56] Fit: Holy crap.”
“[14:58] Fit: Yeah, bro.”
“[15:14] Fit: The trick is certain models and then buy them used, Right?”
“[15:16] Fresh: Always buy is never buy new.”
Fresh emphasizes the importance of timing and market awareness, advising against purchasing new exotic cars due to rapid depreciation.
Away from real estate and financial discussions, Fresh shares his passion for gaming, highlighting its role in his personal life.
Fresh talks about his gaming habits:
“[17:00] Fresh: You never know, bro.”
“[17:05] Fit: Yeah, you really never know. You said you're a big gamer.”
“[17:07] Fresh: Love gaming, bro.”
“[19:17] Fit: Yeah. Yeah, yeah, that's the game you've spent the most hours on. You think Zelda?”
“[19:18] Fresh: Most hours has to be online game, like, you know, Last Chaos.”
He reminisces about gaming nights in Barbados:
“[19:41] Fit: 100. So people are gaming in Barbados, where you grew up?”
“[19:44] Fresh: Hell yeah, bro. We love, like, nights where you spend, like. Okay, so during the day we'll go riding bikes around. Like, for example, bicycles around the neighborhood. That night, we'll play games.”
Gaming serves as a significant hobby for Fresh, providing balance and relaxation amidst his entrepreneurial endeavors.
The conversation shifts to the topic of cryptocurrency, where Fresh shares his experiences and perspectives.
Fresh advocates for major cryptocurrencies:
“[24:32] Fit: No fort. No. No shooters Fortnite or anything.”
“[24:31] Fresh: Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.”
“[24:38] Fit: Yeah.”
“[24:39] Fresh: But there's some experts at crypto, and they were right. They said, BTC is going to 100k. This is four years ago. They said a bunch of stuff. And they were right on point.”
He warns against meme coins and scams:
“[25:03] Fresh: Yeah. And I think people also thought of it as too new to be true. And I get that part.”
“[25:17] Fit: Did you see the hawk to a.”
“[25:18] Fresh: Coin rug pull to them? Yo, dude, you know what's funny about that coin people.”
Fresh emphasizes investing in established cryptocurrencies like Bitcoin and Ethereum while cautioning against volatile meme coins prone to scams.
A poignant part of the episode addresses Fresh's experiences with relationships, particularly involving blended families.
Fresh recounts his marriage to a single mother:
“[20:55] Fresh: No. I heard you.”
“[21:01] Fresh: Yeah, I did.”
“[21:02] Fit: I didn't know that.”
“[21:03] Fresh: Yeah, I did. One of my origin stories back in the day on YouTube, but after experience…”
He discusses the challenges faced:
“[22:40] Fresh: I'm so sorry. No, no, I can't. I. I did at one point, actually. I actually married a single mom, actually.”
“[23:07] Fit: Right?”
“[23:07] Fresh: So I went home that day and said, listen, I care about you. I respect you, but, like, I gotta go.”
Fresh illustrates the complexities of blending families, ultimately deciding to leave the relationship to focus on his personal goals and happiness.
Towards the end of the episode, Fresh shares deep philosophical insights inspired by biblical teachings and personal experiences.
Fresh reflects on Solomon's wisdom:
“[12:00] Fresh: Wow. Now I see why they're so happy. Because, listen, I bought the Lambos, the, the. The cars, the lifestyle. It's fun, but it doesn't fulfill you…”
He contemplates the essence of life beyond material wealth:
“[28:00] Fresh: Yeah.”
“[28:18] Fit: Yeah. Have you always been Christian growing up?”
“[28:20] Fresh: I'm not. Okay, so let me just say this real quickly. I'm not the best Christian possible. I'm actually doing the most degenerate stuff possible…”
These reflections underscore a realization that true fulfillment transcends material possessions, aligning with spiritual and personal growth.
The episode concludes with Fresh and Fit discussing the obstacles they've faced with digital platforms and their plans moving forward.
Fresh addresses platform bans:
“[31:07] Fit: But are you gonna.”
“[31:08] Fresh: I got some people talking to right now.”
“[31:29] Fresh: Yeah.”
“[31:29] Fit: Instagram, Twitch.”
They highlight their support for alternative platforms:
“[31:53] Fresh: Yeah, Rumble had our back through everything. Rumble, support us. Rumble is definitely a platform that we love and care about.”
Fit suggests potential collaborations:
“[32:10] Fit: Would you box Abba and Preach, both of you guys?”
“[32:12] Fresh: Of course.”
Fresh and Fit express resilience in the face of platform restrictions, emphasizing their commitment to maintaining free speech and considering alternative platforms like Rumble to continue their unfiltered dialogues.
Prioritize Personal Success: Focusing on self-improvement and financial stability can lead to more meaningful and lasting relationships.
Real Estate as a Foundation: Strategic real estate investments can provide a stable financial base, enabling lifestyle aspirations without excessive debt.
Learn from Mistakes: Transparency about financial missteps serves as valuable lessons for listeners aiming to avoid similar pitfalls.
Maintain Authenticity: Being genuine, especially in live broadcasts, fosters a loyal and enduring audience despite challenges.
Balance Passions and Responsibilities: Engaging in personal interests like gaming offers a necessary balance to entrepreneurial pursuits.
Cautious Cryptocurrency Investing: Emphasizing established cryptocurrencies while warning against volatile and scam-prone meme coins.
Fresh on defining oneself:
“[00:29] Fresh: I don't want to be that guy. So I always made a point that, yes, I do love women and I love the experience, but I never wanted to define who I was.”
Fresh on chasing success over women:
“[08:22] Fresh: In that sense. So I think for most people, especially guys, if you chase women at the beginning, you're going to lose at the end, versus if you chase success and be in the best version of yourself at the beginning, you're gonna always have women in your corner no matter what you do.”
Fresh on financial mistakes:
“[14:26] Fresh: No, no, actually no. There's more. So my other Lambo I had the svj. I bought a high end market as well. I bought out 1 million and as you guys know, today SVJs are worth like 500k, 600k.”
Fresh on life's purpose:
“[28:00] Fresh: Yeah.”
“[28:00] Fit: I've had a lot of pastors on the show, and they get so weirded out when I talk about astrology and numerology.”
“[28:05] Fresh: But again, it has. You know, Israel is, like, in the cyclic world. If you understand, like, how things work and number. How numbers work. It does have its place, but I just think I. I believe that he has my back, so I don't need to rely on numbers.”
This episode offers a comprehensive look into Fresh's journey towards financial independence through real estate, the importance of prioritizing personal growth, and the lessons learned from both successes and setbacks. His candid discussions provide listeners with actionable insights and a deeper understanding of balancing ambition with personal fulfillment.