Podcast Summary

Podcast: Digital Social Hour
Episode: Sasha Cobra: How S*x Was Weaponized to Control Humanity... | DSH #1752
Host: Sean Kelly
Guest: Sasha Cobra
Date: January 13, 2026

Episode Overview

In this thought-provoking episode, Sean Kelly sits down with Sasha Cobra, renowned sex and spiritual teacher, to explore the controversial theme: “How Sex Has Been Weaponized to Control Humanity.” The conversation dives deep into the nature of sexual energy, the ways in which societal structures have distorted and repressed it, and the consequences for individuals and humanity at large. Sasha shares her unique insights on healing, empowerment, programming, and reclaiming love through conscious sexuality.

Key Discussion Points and Insights

1. The Fundamental Nature of Sexual Energy

• Sasha: “At some point two people came together, had sex, and out of that we were all born. So we as humans are a physical manifestation of sexual energy.” (01:14)
• Sexual energy is described as the core creative, life-force power that animates all human beings; it's not just for reproduction, but the basis of spiritual power and personal alignment.

2. Disempowerment Through Societal Control

• Sasha: Society is a “slave culture” operating on fear, trauma, and control, including not only material essentials (food, water, air) but also sexuality. (02:59)
• The conversation points to how everything vital to a wholesome human experience is regulated or manipulated for disempowerment.

3. Trauma, Society, and Repression

• Sasha links the prevalence of trauma not only to overt abuses but to the foundational misalignment of modern society: unnatural schooling, a culture of fear, and collective disconnection from love. (03:30–05:19)
• Sasha: “It’s the trauma of not being loved as we should and not being able to love as we should in a society that is so backwards.” (07:11)

4. Root Causes of Violence and Conflict

• The discussion moves into a recent assassination, using it as an example of society’s insensitivity and tendency to politicize pain. (05:21–07:11)
• Sasha: “People's minds come in and they start wars over things that are completely unnatural to our existence as humans...” (07:11)
• Sasha argues that the root of global conflict, relational strife, and violence is a pervasive sense of being unloved.

5. Healing Through Sexual Energy

• Sasha: “Sexual energy is an incredible healer. And I'm not talking about sex as people currently experience it... I'm talking about lovemaking the way it was meant to be: a physical act of loving.” (10:20–11:00)
• Describes the potential of truly loving sexual union to heal trauma, open hearts, and transform individuals, which in turn would transform societies.

6. Weaponization of Sex: Suppression & Over-sexualization

• Sasha elaborates on two strategies used to disempower humanity through sex:
  • Repression: Rooted particularly in religious taboo, leading to shame and sickness (13:00–14:59).
    • Quote: “That's why when you look at countries and cultures that have a lot of religious taboo... they're usually countries with a lot of violence, a lot of sexual abuse, a lot of rape.” (14:45)
  • Perversion/Over-sexualization: Manifested via pornography, OnlyFans, and normalized kink, as the pendulum swings from shame to compulsion. (15:00–16:00)
    • Quote: “If you repress, you pervert. So now that repression and that shame and that taboo create even more intensity...” (27:34)

7. Media and Programming: Violence as Entertainment

• The duo analyzes how films, TV, and music saturate society with violence, pain, and distorted models of sexuality and relationships. (16:30–18:24)
• Sasha: “Just imagine, what if every movie showed how to resolve conflict through harmony, how to use superpowers, how to access states of yourself that are truly divine... What if that was the programming?” (17:30)

8. Pornography as a Tool of Programming

• Sasha highlights the consolidation of the porn industry and its conscious use of taboo concepts, particularly pedophilia and incest, to program arousal patterns. (23:04–25:56)
• Sean: “Why are all the titles to the porn have a flavor of pedophilia?”
  Sasha: “Who came up with the idea to infiltrate your arousal with incest and pedophilic ideas?” (24:42–25:46)
• She underlines how repeated exposure rewires arousal triggers, leading even innocent youth into dangerous territory.

9. Women's Disconnection from Sensuality & Beauty

• Sasha discusses societal pressure on women to conform to artificial standards of beauty, leading to disembodiment and obsession with appearance, rather than enjoyment of their natural sensual energy. (31:05–31:56)
• Sasha: “Women are the embodiment of beauty. And they got tricked... They don't enjoy their bodies. They're disconnected from their bodies. And by default, it makes them disconnected from their power and from their love.” (31:29)

10. Positive Sexual Connection and Empowerment

• How men can become powerful lovers:
  • Men must reconnect with their sexual center (the penis), release shame, and offer loving devotion, not just mechanical friction or dominance. (34:07–37:58)
  • Sasha: “To love is to be king. Because a man really will not know his power until he gets to witness the beauty that's reflected through the woman from what he brings to her, in lovemaking.” (34:45)
  • Practical advice: Sensual massage without pornography or fantasy, focusing on feeling and sensation (42:51–44:44)

11. Reprogramming Ourselves Toward Love

• Sasha argues for personal accountability and conscious choice, encouraging individuals to “uninstall” negative conditioning and choose love over pain. (49:03–50:47)
• Quote: “We are not evil. We are divine loving beings that picked up some bad software programs and we have the capacity to unplug.” (50:47)

Memorable Quotes and Moments (with Timestamps)

• "We as humans are a physical manifestation of sexual energy. Everything that is in existence comes through the sex act... What is running through us is sex."
  — Sasha Cobra, 01:14

• "The trauma is the trauma of not being loved as we should and not being able to love as we should in a society that is so backwards."
  — Sasha Cobra, 07:11

• "If people were all making love beautifully on this planet, there would be no wars..."
  — Sasha Cobra, 37:59

• "We do not realize how much programming we are getting for pedophilia through movies and the way that children are being sexualized in movies..."
  — Sasha Cobra, 25:04

• "Women are the embodiment of beauty. And they got tricked because they were never taught to experience the sensuality and beauty of the energy that moves through them."
  — Sasha Cobra, 31:29

Important Segment Timestamps

• Introduction & framing of sexual energy: 00:00–03:00
• Linking societal trauma to lack of love: 05:00–08:44
• Solution: Returning to love and healing through sex: 08:44–13:00
• Mechanisms of sexual repression and perversion: 13:00–16:00
• Media/programming violence and sex: 16:30–19:28
• Pornography, programming, and pedophilia discussion: 23:00–27:04
• The crisis of disembodiment in men and women: 31:00–37:58
• Practical advice for male empowerment: 42:51–44:44
• Final thoughts on personal responsibility and reprogramming: 49:03–50:47

Tone and Closing

Sasha’s approach is warm, passionate, and deeply reverent of human potential and vulnerability. She advocates for radical accountability and tenderness with oneself, urging both men and women to reclaim their innate power and capacity for love through conscious sexuality. Sean is open, candid, and inquisitive—often serving as the “everyman” voice, seeking clarity and practical advice for listeners.

“We are divine loving beings that picked up some bad software programs and we have the capacity to unplug.” — Sasha Cobra (50:47)

Further Learning and Community

• Sasha promotes her in-person workshops and her online membership community, “Love, Truth, and Eros,” as supportive spaces for sexual healing, conscious connection, and energetic transformation. (51:31–53:10)

For those who haven’t listened:
This episode is a rich, nuanced exploration of the forces shaping human sexuality—both its weaponization and its redemptive potential. Expect big ideas, practical advice, and a challenge to consider how reclaiming authentic love and intimacy might be the antidote to much of the world’s pain.