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Alexis Afshar
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Unknown Host
I went through some of your tweets. These were interesting. You ate a tuna sandwich at a donut shop. That sounds gross.
Alexis Afshar
It's the best tuna sandwich ever.
Unknown Host
What?
Alexis Afshar
It's so good. The corner donut shop, Birmingham High School in the Valley, they make the best tuna sandwich. I was like, give me the tuna sandwich. They're like, okay. They're known for it. I swear. It's like a thing.
Unknown Host
No one here has had one because.
Alexis Afshar
You guys aren't real Valley Los Angeles people is fine.
Unknown Host
All right, guys, we got Alexis Afshar here today.
Alexis Afshar
What's up?
Unknown Host
Going through a lot right now. Your YouTube got deleted. What's going on now?
Alexis Afshar
Every single YouTube video of mine is off the Internet.
Unknown Host
And you had tens of millions of views, right?
Alexis Afshar
So many millions and millions of views.
Unknown Host
Damn. So what? Exactly.
Alexis Afshar
I went to go, like, look and, like, be like, oh, look at my video. And I'm like, I can't find my video. Where is it searched? Search the Internet. It's nowhere to be found.
Unknown Host
How do you think they got in?
Alexis Afshar
This is where things get complicated because I had people working on it on my YouTube shorts and stuff like that. And I think when we transferred over to them, in between, something happened and it got hacked.
Unknown Host
Damn.
Alexis Afshar
There's no way. I. I can't get it back yet.
Unknown Host
No, you'll get it back.
Alexis Afshar
We're working. We're working it.
Unknown Host
Is your tick tock still up or are you banned there?
Alexis Afshar
Tick Tock. I'm on my. I'm on my fifth tick tock. We're getting up to 6k followers.
Unknown Host
Let's go.
Alexis Afshar
Let's go. You know what? I really like going live on TikTok.
Unknown Host
Why?
Alexis Afshar
You just. I don't know. People get to know you. Like, more like they're getting to know me and they're crossing over to Instagram and I can see, like, it's just a crossover. I don't know. I'm getting more of a fan base, a following from, like, me as a person, not like the twerking or like something that they found on Instagram.
Unknown Host
You know, I feel that.
Alexis Afshar
So it's pretty cool.
Unknown Host
Why'd you get banned on other accounts?
Alexis Afshar
It was very random stuff. Like, it didn't even make sense to me.
Unknown Host
Twerking, you know?
Alexis Afshar
No, actually, that's like the last thing I get banned for. One time. You're not allowed to tick tock in the car. I didn't know that.
Unknown Host
Oh, really?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. You can't even be in the back of an Uber and live stream.
Unknown Host
Oh, wow.
Alexis Afshar
Like live streaming at least. Yeah, Live stream. Like rules that they don't tell you until you're. You get strikes or whatever.
Unknown Host
I would have never known that.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. Don't go on an Uber live streaming.
Unknown Host
So something must. Someone must have.
Alexis Afshar
It's weird, right?
Unknown Host
Gotten an accident or something and then sued. Tick tock.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah.
Unknown Host
Damn, that's wild.
Alexis Afshar
But, yeah, these social. Social medias have been really rough recently. A lot of engagements gone down for me and a lot of my friends as well. I've realized talking to other people. I started doing more ads, like, putting. Spending money. I'm like, do they just want you to spend some money? Because I don't normally do that unless I'm not a single or like a record. Then I'll start putting money in it. But I'm not, you know.
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
And I'm like, I wonder if this will, like, kickstart it a little. So we're trying. And seeing the engagement's gone up. Obviously it has to go up, but we're seeing what. What the vibes are.
Unknown Host
Well, we're at the point now where you kind of have to. Because they throttle your reach so much.
Alexis Afshar
What?
Unknown Host
Like Instagram will only show your post to, like, 2% of your followers.
Alexis Afshar
Even Facebook. I posted something on Facebook. I have almost 3 million followers. It said that 40 people saw my post.
Unknown Host
Wow.
Alexis Afshar
That is absurd. 30. 40 people out of 3 million is. Something's wrong. Like, that's not normal.
Unknown Host
Maybe you're shadow banned or something, too?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, I'm the Shadow band queen. I am the shadow band queen.
Unknown Host
Have you been posting a lot of politics?
Alexis Afshar
You know, I try not to. It just really gets me every day, though, like, fucking battle. Do I do it or not? Because I know that there's a possibility that it will get flagged. The last time I posted Donald Trump with his hand going up, just a picture of it, like a painting or whatever, it said false advertisement.
Unknown Host
Wow.
Alexis Afshar
Oh. Completely put a ban on my account for I don't know how long I'm in. I think till like, April next year. Hold on.
Unknown Host
That long?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah.
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
When I post, you not play.
Unknown Host
When I posted even Trump Jr. Not even Trump, I got shot a band. Like, my views are down 80%.
Alexis Afshar
This is bad. And we talked about this on the last time I was here. This is the second time now. The last time we talked about how it was bad and now it's getting worse.
Unknown Host
It's scary because, yeah, it's affecting our livelihood, honestly, you know, what do we do, y'all? I missed the days. I missed the days of getting solutions. Yeah. For real.
Alexis Afshar
Just millions of freedom of speech. Twitter's, which. Twitter's still cool, though. You know, we can say what we want on Twitter. Kind of. It's not as bad as bad. They still have community notes or whatever, which I think are absolute bull still.
Unknown Host
But you don't. You don't agree with those.
Alexis Afshar
No, a lot of them are still false. It's just like, why put. I don't know.
Unknown Host
Yeah. I wonder how they determine what's called.
Alexis Afshar
Community notes or whatever.
Unknown Host
I know you're talking about certain tweets have them on there.
Alexis Afshar
Like, this is the real thing. You don't know. Like, who's even saying it. Like, fact checked. Who. Who fact checked this.
Unknown Host
You just went on Fousey's live stream.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, like, oh, yeah, Fousey. He confesses love to me.
Unknown Host
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Unknown Host
Because you've known him for a while, right?
Alexis Afshar
I've known him for a long time and we've, I've dated his best friend. I said, look, we're friends. Like we could be friends. We're cool. That's about it.
Unknown Host
Damn. So you put him in.
Alexis Afshar
I don't know how he saw like a switch or when or whatever, but no, it's not gonna happen.
Unknown Host
It's tough for guys and girls to be friends.
Alexis Afshar
I think I asked him if he had any friends that like were girls like in that space. He's like, no, not like that he hadn't messed with. He's like, I'm like, you guys can't have girlfriends like at all that you guys haven't messed with. That kind of blows my mind.
Unknown Host
I can't, you know, just being honest, I can't.
Alexis Afshar
Damn.
Unknown Host
I've made girls.
Alexis Afshar
I understand there's a chemistry, a sexual tension thing. I get that. But I also have friends that like I've been friends with for so long and I don't know, I think you, yeah, maybe you have to put up a boundary and just really not think about crossing that line and it just naturally doesn't happen.
Unknown Host
I've made a few girls on the show call their best friend that are guys and asked them if they want to hook up. What do you think they said? I've done it a few times.
Alexis Afshar
Huh. See? Yeah. No, no, no, no. They thousand percent will.
Unknown Host
That's what I'm saying.
Alexis Afshar
There's no doubt about it. The thing is you got to just put the boundary there and not. You know what, that really upsets me though because like I have like two or three solid homie friends. It's just like my friends. And if you want to think about them wanting to bang me at all. No, you are my friend. I need you there as my friend.
Unknown Host
But do they know they're in the friend zone or.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, they know. You don't. I mean if your friends that long, I don't think you have to like say something. I think obviously Fousey could have gotten the hint.
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
It hasn't happened yet. After how many years? What makes you think suddenly there's going to be like a switch?
Unknown Host
Some people be waiting, man.
Alexis Afshar
You know, the long game.
Unknown Host
The long game, that's way too long.
Alexis Afshar
Give up, honey.
Unknown Host
They wait till you're fresh out of relationship and your feels, you know, fresh.
Alexis Afshar
Out and vulnerable Dating. These men are fucking vulnerable.
Unknown Host
Yeah. I mean out Here they are. I heard people in general. LA's tough.
Alexis Afshar
Listen, date. I'm not gonna lie. Dating is really rough. And if you know me, you know this. Come on. My music is all about me. Crying about it. But, like, I started kind of talking to somebody recently.
Unknown Host
Okay.
Alexis Afshar
And Fousey got upset because I told him, like, he's like, well, why would you go out and hang out with me if you like somebody? I'm like, bro, we're hanging out, like, as friends. That's it. Like, this is what it was. Anyways, this guy is a. He was a fan of mine and I've never in my life, ever, ever, ever dated like a fan. So this is a very new, different situation like, situation for me scenario.
Unknown Host
That is interesting. Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
I don't know if we met in.
Unknown Host
Person too, and he told you he was a fan?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, absolutely. Off the back, like, very clear.
Unknown Host
And that didn't turn you off?
Alexis Afshar
At first I was like, yeah, for a second. But the chemistry was.
Unknown Host
You saw past it.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. Yeah.
Unknown Host
Interesting.
Alexis Afshar
And it's. It's really new. So I don't know.
Unknown Host
We'll see how it goes. Shout out to this.
Alexis Afshar
Updated the industry. And it's rough, you know, to date people in the industry. But then I also see that there's going to be some challenges that might face because he's not in the industry. So you don't understand certain things. I get that. So there's going to be a struggle. Probably.
Unknown Host
I think a lot of guys are probably intimidated to date you because of.
Alexis Afshar
All the success and people automatically think I'm a cheater. I think. Really, I've realized that recently.
Unknown Host
Huh.
Alexis Afshar
Why do you think they don't like that at all?
Unknown Host
I mean, why would they assume that?
Alexis Afshar
Because I just know everybody and I'm like. They think because I know these, like, celebrity guys and blah, blah, blah, like, I'm just gonna cheat, go for somebody better, different. I don't know. That's not fair, though. That's really up.
Unknown Host
Yeah, I. I guess it's more common in the celebrity culture to cheat. So they just assume. Right.
Alexis Afshar
I would more so think the guy, though.
Unknown Host
The guy. Oh, we talked about this last episode. You said guys cheat more. Yeah. That's way too high.
Alexis Afshar
Hell no, it ain't. 85% of the guys in the industry cheat, period.
Unknown Host
Okay. In your industry. Yeah. But you said 85 of guys.
Alexis Afshar
I did say guys, but then I did change it. I changed it. I said industry.
Unknown Host
Okay. I still think women cheat more overall.
Alexis Afshar
That's crazy.
Unknown Host
We'd have to see some data on it.
Alexis Afshar
But that is really crazy. I mean, I don't believe that at all.
Unknown Host
Really. I don't know.
Alexis Afshar
Can we get a round of hands? A round of hands?
Unknown Host
Yeah. We got some guys watching this right now.
Alexis Afshar
Give me a percent.
Unknown Host
All right. Out of the three guys watching this, have you guys been cheated on? Yes. One yes, one no. So two yes and one no.
Alexis Afshar
Name a guy that hasn't cheated. Do you have a friend that has never cheated? A boyfriend? A guy friend?
Unknown Host
Yeah. Shout out to Elon.
Alexis Afshar
Elon Musk.
Unknown Host
No, Elon Musk. Definitely.
Alexis Afshar
He's cheating with robots and, I don't know, everything in between.
Unknown Host
Yeah, he's probably.
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Unknown Host
Come on.
Alexis Afshar
No, no, no, no. I would say that I've gotten a little too close to somebody, but I've never cheated. No.
Unknown Host
You've never cheated?
Alexis Afshar
No, I'm not a cheater. I'm a loyal girl. Love, love, love.
Unknown Host
So what's your definition of cheating, then?
Alexis Afshar
Like emotionally cheating? Like, if you're texting a girl every day or something like that. That's crazy.
Unknown Host
So that's cheating you?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah.
Unknown Host
And you've never done that?
Alexis Afshar
No.
Unknown Host
Wow. Yeah. Some people have different definitions. Some people just physically.
Alexis Afshar
That's crazy. Guys think that it's just physical.
Unknown Host
Most guys would. Yeah, I think that way they could be texting a.
Alexis Afshar
Every day. Good morning, good night. Like you cheaters.
Unknown Host
I feel that, though.
Alexis Afshar
I always say that, like, guys texting guys. You shouldn't. I'm giving this advice to the girls that follow me. Like, don't fall for the text messaging because guys are like the President of the United States. And text message. Like, they will. They could be anything in text message. You know what I mean? And they will tell you whatever you need to know. So. Honey, get him on FaceTime. You like FaceTiming?
Unknown Host
I'm not a FaceTimer.
Alexis Afshar
No, you text your girl?
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
What about phone calls?
Unknown Host
We do calls too.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah.
Unknown Host
I'm not a facetimer, though.
Alexis Afshar
Why?
Unknown Host
I don't know. I don't like looking at myself.
Alexis Afshar
You know, I don't like looking at myself.
Unknown Host
Like, even Zoom calls on Zoom calls because I do a lot of, like, business calls. I turn off the camera.
Alexis Afshar
Oh.
Unknown Host
You know, I don't know. It might be some insecurity from.
Alexis Afshar
Well, you're cute and we all work on the self confidence.
Unknown Host
I got bullied. I was thinking about this. This girl told me I was ugly in fifth grade.
Alexis Afshar
That stuck with you forever.
Unknown Host
Low key. Yeah, cuz we used to. Oovoo. Did you have Oovoo?
Alexis Afshar
Wait, why does that sound so familiar?
Unknown Host
It was like before Zoom, before Skype.
Alexis Afshar
Okay.
Unknown Host
But yeah, as soon as I turned the camera on, she said, you're ugly. And then, yeah, that me up.
Alexis Afshar
Nah, screw that. How dare you. We talked about this. Bullies. You can go to hell. Go to hell.
Unknown Host
We both got bullied and we're both got bullied. We're all right now. I think it helped me in the long run.
Alexis Afshar
You guys thought I was a bully. I go, I got bullied. The backgrounds. Like, we thought you were the bully.
Unknown Host
I thought you were.
Alexis Afshar
Hell no. This badass personality is because I got bullied.
Unknown Host
That's what I'm saying.
Alexis Afshar
Fuck with me.
Unknown Host
Helped us in the long run. At the time, it sucked for sure.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. Don't be mean. Y'all don't be mean. There's a lot of bullies online.
Unknown Host
Have you been partying lately? Going to Diddy's house? Oh, my God, you've been to a Diddy party. I know you have.
Alexis Afshar
You know what? I've been to Diddy's house twice.
Unknown Host
For parties or just.
Alexis Afshar
I've known their sons for like a long time.
Unknown Host
Wow.
Alexis Afshar
Since they were younger, just in the scene and music stuff. So I've been over their house, just hanging once. That was fine. That was normal, casual. He wasn't around now. And then there was a party in Miami a couple years back I went to, but everything seemed normal and fine, you know, it wasn't like a crazy experience. The crazy experience that I did have though is I saw like an ex boyfriend of mine and I completely freaked out that he was there and I ran across the room. You know when your heart just sinks to your chest, like it just drops to your floor? I had that feeling. So I had to like, go across the room.
Unknown Host
Okay.
Alexis Afshar
I was wondering why he was there though. I didn't know that he was familiar with the people there.
Unknown Host
So that was the craziest thing. At a Diddy party that happened to you?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, they wouldn't let me in the house because I guess I'm not their type.
Unknown Host
Oh, okay. Did you have to sign anything to go in to the party?
Alexis Afshar
God, there's so many different parties that you can't bring your phone and sign. I don't remember signing anything, though. Oh, but probably. I don't remember. I remember.
Unknown Host
But you've been to parties where you can't bring your phone in.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, definitely. Yeah. Yeah. That's weird. Stupid.
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
Nothing crazy. Crazy, you know, goes down, but just some celebrities, they don't want. Usually the rapper boys, they don't want things going down and, you know.
Unknown Host
And how do you feel about rappers? You've dated some rappers, right?
Alexis Afshar
I don't go for the rappers. I did date one rapper. He was the one that was at the party. Oh, okay. Lord. And no, I don't date rappers because I know the lifestyle they live, and there's no way I'm living that type of lifestyle. I tend to go for the other ones, the athletes, the other bad ones.
Unknown Host
Well, athletes are pretty wild too, right?
Alexis Afshar
They're all. They're all bad. Hence why I'm dating a very normal, good fan of mine.
Unknown Host
What's his. What's his occupation? Does he have a job?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, thankfully he has a job, honey. He does construction.
Unknown Host
Oh.
Alexis Afshar
And he likes to play soccer. So he teaches, like, kids to play soccer. Wow.
Unknown Host
You're taking a whole different approach. A little family man over there.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, Daddy.
Unknown Host
I think that's too normal for you, though.
Alexis Afshar
No, I like it. I'm a very normal girl, too.
Unknown Host
Come on now.
Alexis Afshar
I have two different sides to me. Honestly. Yeah, I'd like to be on the farm, too.
Unknown Host
You do?
Alexis Afshar
Oh, yeah.
Unknown Host
Okay.
Alexis Afshar
I'm a. I'm a little tomboy at heart, but, like, you know, I like the girly things, but I like a normal guy. I need a normal guy to ground me. I mean, what else? What other option? Honestly? I'm not gonna have some crazy, like, industry guy. I feel that too much.
Unknown Host
Yeah, because you're traveling a lot. You're a nomad right now, right?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, honestly. Yeah, this year is going to be traveling for me.
Unknown Host
And what made you decide to pack up from Miami?
Alexis Afshar
I'm not married. I don't have children. I'm spending too much in rent. I live by Coastal right now, LA and Miami. I'm like, let me just pack up both. And I want to see the World. I want to go and, like, dive into, like, Japan for a month and a half, and then Thailand and Bali and then I want to go to Switzerland and, you know, different places like that.
Unknown Host
Okay.
Alexis Afshar
Get into the culture.
Unknown Host
I feel that.
Alexis Afshar
But who knows what's going to happen after this election. Lord, I hope we're all safe and well and able to do these things, you know?
Unknown Host
Yeah. I'm starting to think of some backup passports to potentially get.
Alexis Afshar
I need to get married to somebody that has another pass. Like a visa somewhere else.
Unknown Host
Wouldn't be a bad idea.
Alexis Afshar
Italy.
Unknown Host
Italy, France.
Alexis Afshar
I feel like these are more of the safe places now. I don't know.
Unknown Host
Well, no, France just banned Telegram. CEO or something. Arrested him. Did you see that?
Alexis Afshar
Oh, is he still locked up?
Unknown Host
Yeah. Or he might have bailed out, but it's looking weird over there.
Alexis Afshar
I have a bone to pick with Telegram too.
Unknown Host
Really?
Alexis Afshar
Hell yeah.
Unknown Host
What they do to you.
Alexis Afshar
I mean, there's like Telegram groups of like 3,000 people selling my content.
Unknown Host
What?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, it's crazy. It's bad. It's terrible.
Unknown Host
So they get your content and they sell it for cheaper than what you sell it for? Basically, yeah. Wow.
Alexis Afshar
I didn't know that was 3,000 more people in this group.
Unknown Host
Holy crap.
Alexis Afshar
I can't get in.
Unknown Host
I'm like, oh, they banned you?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, like, I can't get in.
Unknown Host
No, no.
Alexis Afshar
I tried different ways. I don't even know how they're in this group, honestly. It's like fucking crypt. Cryptid code to get in this group.
Unknown Host
Oh, they must have went through your.
Alexis Afshar
I feel like they DM people, you know, and they're like, do you want this content? Like, they're probably hit up all my fans on my pages. I don't know. They put in work, honey. Like, work.
Unknown Host
Wow. Must be some guys in India Telegram.
Alexis Afshar
I mean, what are you gonna do? You can't do anything about it.
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
That's really bad.
Unknown Host
Yeah. I've never heard of someone getting banned on there, so you probably can't report them or anything.
Alexis Afshar
Oh, you can't do anything.
Unknown Host
Wow. Does that happen to all the creators of Creators?
Alexis Afshar
Oh, I'm sure now. Yeah. There's a couple of girls that are in the group. Like, they'll pair us with a couple different girls so it fucks with our money.
Unknown Host
Damn. Are you still pretty active on Off?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, very active on OnlyFans? Yeah.
Unknown Host
Nice.
Alexis Afshar
I'm actually creating. I created a label, Lex Luthor Records, to service girls like me that have OnlyFans that have budgets that come over to Me and I can help guide them from top to bottom. Like maybe they want to learn how to dj. They want to be a DJ or they want to be an artist. Like I'll actually develop them and turn them into what they kind of want and create their projects and then release and market them.
Unknown Host
Wow.
Alexis Afshar
Because a lot of girls aren't like, they won't work with a lot of girls like us that are edgier or on only fans and stuff like that. A lot of doors are closed. And so I've been in the industry for so long, I mean over 15 years now, the music industry. So I know a lot of people and ways and around things, you know. So I kind of want to build out like a community for us that it's a safe way and easier path. So I can just be like, don't do this. Don't like, because I've been through it, you know.
Unknown Host
Yeah. We talked about this last episode, how you were kind of blackballed by the music industry.
Alexis Afshar
Right, Right. There are certain places it's just like.
Unknown Host
But you probably wouldn't get invited to Rolling Loud, right?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, Rolling Loud. Jesus.
Unknown Host
Because they're too corporate now.
Alexis Afshar
That too. And I've, I've messaged them, I've talked to them. Geez, I tried to perform there multiple times. For some reason they just. Well, I don't know.
Unknown Host
Well, they're too corporate because they got bought out by someone big.
Alexis Afshar
Someone just offered like, oh, pay $15,000 to be enrolling. Loud. I said, go fuck yourself.
Unknown Host
You have to pay them.
Alexis Afshar
I think now you have to pay. Wow. Some people are they. I just got offered this, but not by them, but by somebody else that was like, hey, I have this opportunity. And I was like, I've never heard of that before.
Unknown Host
Yeah, it could be a middleman, could be a scam.
Alexis Afshar
It could be a scam too. Yeah, you never know. I don't know.
Unknown Host
That's rough.
Alexis Afshar
But who knows? I mean, yeah, people buy on tours and things like this is normal in the industry also, you know. But the struggle with the of girls is like, you know, radios like teams won't play your songs because you have an of like I've dealt with a lot of the El Arabia situation, them taking me off of the COVID things like this. It's like, wow, we still have to deal with this. But it's okay for like girls like huge that are like with labels, they can have an only fans and not. No one says anything about it. It's totally fine. But someone like us, an independent Artist. We can't get a label because we have an OnlyFans. It's like, absurd.
Unknown Host
Yeah. That sucks. Damn. But you're still.
Alexis Afshar
We're pushing, honey. We. All we do is open doors and make our own path. Yeah.
Unknown Host
You just performed that Fashion Week. You're still getting some gigs, right?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, of course. Yeah. Yeah.
Unknown Host
That's cool.
Alexis Afshar
It's going really great right now. New York is a vibe.
Unknown Host
Yeah. You might move there, right?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. Yep, yep, yep. It's a vibe. Music is just. It's a good music hub. It's active. People are working.
Unknown Host
Mmm.
Alexis Afshar
I feel like people are working in the streets. People here work in their homes. They're so boring. Everyone in Los Angeles is so fucking boring. Where is everybody?
Unknown Host
Good question.
Alexis Afshar
They're just in their homes, like on the computer.
Unknown Host
Yeah. The streamers these days.
Alexis Afshar
Boring.
Unknown Host
Yeah. I feel like the celebrities these days are just, like, streamers and, like, people on their phone.
Alexis Afshar
Streamers are not. They're bad in their own way, let me tell you. Really bad. Because it's just so exhausting. But, like, at least they're doing something. They're out there being fun and doing things.
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
People are just kind of like, not doing things, I think.
Unknown Host
Technology.
Alexis Afshar
What do you do for fun?
Unknown Host
Fortnite, Basketball, video games. Old movies. I don't like the new ones.
Alexis Afshar
I just went to the movies yesterday for the first time in forever.
Unknown Host
That's what I mean. I don't like Beetlejuice. Oh. How was it?
Alexis Afshar
It was okay.
Unknown Host
That's what I heard.
Alexis Afshar
Wasn't my favorite.
Unknown Host
Yeah. Which is a shame. Jenna Ortega.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah.
Unknown Host
You would have thought she could carry it.
Alexis Afshar
It was because I picked, though, the one where you lay down and eat your food.
Unknown Host
Oh, the full recline.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah.
Unknown Host
Yeah. Modern movies don't hit, though. I know you're not. You're acting a bit too, right? Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
I want to get more heavy into it. I just did an independent film, actually.
Unknown Host
Okay.
Alexis Afshar
It's like a faith based scary movie.
Unknown Host
Whoa.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah.
Unknown Host
Faith based.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. It's interesting.
Unknown Host
That is interesting. For you.
Alexis Afshar
So. Yeah. For me especially. So. It's coming. It's coming. Just wait for it. Yeah. Acting. I love acting. I just. I realize that older. The older I get. I love to act. So we'll see. I'll tap more into it. I need an agent, though.
Unknown Host
You do? All right. If you're watching this, guys.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. I need an acting agent.
Unknown Host
Sign this woman. Acting's coming to Vegas.
Alexis Afshar
What do you mean?
Unknown Host
We just got Mark Wahlberg moved over. There's a studio being built oh, my gosh.
Alexis Afshar
Congrats.
Unknown Host
Yes. You might have to move to Vegas, too.
Alexis Afshar
No.
Unknown Host
You don't like Vegas?
Alexis Afshar
No.
Unknown Host
What?
Alexis Afshar
You will not catch me.
Unknown Host
Why? There's no way Vegas is lit.
Alexis Afshar
What? No way. A desert? Oh, gosh. This literally the last place I would ever move to.
Unknown Host
Wow.
Alexis Afshar
Is the desert really? No ocean, no water. Like, no trees? No way.
Unknown Host
So you like nature?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. How do you survive over there?
Unknown Host
Not nature.
Alexis Afshar
You don't like nature? You're not.
Unknown Host
No, I like nature, but I have to travel so I can get my nature fix in Vegas.
Alexis Afshar
The only thing I would like about Vegas is the fact that, like, our friends come and go. You know, we have people in and out all the time, which. That's why I liked New York and Miami. Yeah, that's fine. But no, I'll come in and out and visit once in a while.
Unknown Host
Filled up. I went through some of your tweets. These were interesting.
Alexis Afshar
Oh. Oh.
Unknown Host
You ate a tuna sandwich at a donut shop. That sounds gross.
Alexis Afshar
I know. It's the best tuna sandwich ever.
Unknown Host
What?
Alexis Afshar
It's so good. I grew up next to a donut shop since, like, little. And now I still go the corner donut shop, Birmingham High School in the Valley. They make the best tuna sandwiches. And then I randomly went to a random donut shop. I was like, I'm gonna trust this. And I went to another Valley donut shop because Valley donut shops are the best. And it fucking hit so good.
Unknown Host
What?
Alexis Afshar
I was like, give me the tuna sandwich. They're like, okay. They're known for it. I swear. It's like, a thing.
Unknown Host
Oh, my gosh.
Alexis Afshar
It's a thing.
Unknown Host
I'm nauseous thinking about it.
Alexis Afshar
No one's had one?
Unknown Host
Hell, no. No One here has had one because.
Alexis Afshar
You guys aren't real Valley Los Angeles people. It's fine.
Unknown Host
Well, we'll go there one of these days and film it. I'll try it. But expectations are not high.
Alexis Afshar
It's like your mom. Like, if your mom was gonna make one. And they lit, like, in the kitchen. It's very basic. It's very simple ingredient.
Unknown Host
We'll give it a try.
Alexis Afshar
It might be, like, a canned tuna.
Unknown Host
I eat some weird. I ate camel.
Alexis Afshar
It's for sure. Can't.
Unknown Host
I ate camel yesterday.
Alexis Afshar
Are you serious?
Unknown Host
Yeah, camel jerky.
Alexis Afshar
And here.
Unknown Host
It was on the way here because I drove here from Vegas. Some jerky store had it.
Alexis Afshar
I always have those random jerky stores on the way to, like, Vegas.
Unknown Host
Yeah, they do. There was a couple, actually. I stopped that.
Alexis Afshar
Wait but why did you get the camel one?
Unknown Host
They had camel, they had turtle, they had. They had shark, they had.
Alexis Afshar
Illegal.
Unknown Host
I thought it was illegal. I don't know. Seemed legit. Turtle, Soft shelter or snapping turtle. Yeah, they ran out of that one, though. They had rabbit. They ran out of rabbit.
Alexis Afshar
No. How did it taste?
Unknown Host
Really good.
Alexis Afshar
Like, what did you tell.
Unknown Host
No. If I didn't tell you it was camel, you would have thought it was, like, beef or.
Alexis Afshar
I can't eat any weird meats at all. Very, very basic. I don't even eat lamb.
Unknown Host
What?
Alexis Afshar
No.
Unknown Host
Lamb is good.
Alexis Afshar
No, No, I can't.
Unknown Host
Goat.
Alexis Afshar
No, no, no, no. Poor billy goat.
Unknown Host
Veal.
Alexis Afshar
No. Oh, wait. Is veo. Baby.
Unknown Host
Baby cow. Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
I eat a little beer. Barely. Barely, though.
Unknown Host
So you stick the chicken?
Alexis Afshar
Hell, yeah. But I have Crohn's disease, too, so, like, all the other meats is not.
Unknown Host
Like, oh, it doesn't.
Alexis Afshar
I can't. Yeah. I can't do all that. The extra. No, I feel that the turkey, the chicken, and salmon is, like, good for me.
Unknown Host
You're looking a lot better. I remember the Crohn's. You talked about it last year and you were struggling with it, but majorly.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, no, I've healed. Shout out to Jane Johnson. He's an amazing doctor and healer.
Unknown Host
You got him on my show.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. How did that go?
Unknown Host
Dude? I almost cried. His story is inspirational.
Alexis Afshar
He's changed my. My whole life. I owe him so much.
Unknown Host
Yeah, Shout out to him, man. Yeah. What he overcame was, wow.
Alexis Afshar
He's healing a lot of people. And it's just crazy because so many people have IBS and Crohn's disease, and you don't know or they don't even know. And they are dealing with crazy symptoms, and I just. I feel for them.
Unknown Host
Damn.
Alexis Afshar
So when I meet someone, I'm like, wow, let me help you. I call Dana up, like, automatically.
Unknown Host
I love that. That's how I feel with Charlie.
Alexis Afshar
Rocket was the one who introduced us.
Unknown Host
Oh, yeah. So he had it, too.
Alexis Afshar
No, I called Charlie. I'm like, charlie, you have to know somebody. Like, I'm dying. He's like, oh, my God. I have the perfect person. Oh, my God, Charlie, you're a lifesaver. Obviously, he had somebody. And. Yeah, that's when Dane. I called Dane crying, devastated. In the studio. I couldn't even record. Yeah.
Unknown Host
Oh, your voice. Was that.
Alexis Afshar
No, my stomach. I was just, like, done for.
Unknown Host
Holy crap.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. It takes over your whole body, everything.
Unknown Host
So what did you have to do to fix it?
Alexis Afshar
He put me on A liquid diet for two. Two weeks. Elemental shake. An amazing shake. Anybody should try it. It gives your gut. It's already digested, so it gives your gut a chance to not do anything for two weeks. So it, you know, rehabilitated or whatever you call it. And then I started doing, like, an elimination diet almost.
Unknown Host
Nice.
Alexis Afshar
Started adding things to the shake. And then I started eating what I was supposed to be eating.
Unknown Host
There we go. So now you can eat.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. I mean, I fuck up, like, if I'm like, I definitely eat things I am not supposed to eat, but I'll know, you know, I know if I'm messing up and I know what to do to get myself back on track. And it's a process. It's a learning process. But the most important things is our body. And we don't even know how to handle or heal or put. What do we put in our bodies? So it's important to pay attention.
Unknown Host
Yeah. I've gone on a math massive health shift lately, too.
Alexis Afshar
Why?
Unknown Host
Similar to you. I just felt like crap.
Alexis Afshar
Really? Yeah.
Unknown Host
Because when you're young, you could get away with it. I feel like. Like fast food and stuff. But for sure, you start feeling it after school.
Alexis Afshar
Chips and.
Unknown Host
Oh, I used to eat four bags of chips a day.
Alexis Afshar
My sister's still eating Takis. I'm like, oh, I cannot eat those anymore.
Unknown Host
The ones from Costco, right?
Alexis Afshar
You got to get rid of them.
Unknown Host
Yeah, I used to pound those.
Alexis Afshar
Oh, I could only imagine. No way. When I have children. I'm so sorry. It's not happening.
Unknown Host
Yeah. I'm not giving them chips. I used to. My lunch in high school was four bags of chips. Flaming hot Cheetos. Yeah, I got bullied for that. Funyuns. Sun chips.
Alexis Afshar
Cool kid. Actually. They wanted your chips.
Unknown Host
They were low key. Jealous.
Alexis Afshar
You got money?
Unknown Host
Nah. They sold them in the cafeteria. They were like 50 cents each back then.
Alexis Afshar
Damn. My mom never did the chip thing.
Unknown Host
What?
Alexis Afshar
Because it was too expensive.
Unknown Host
Really?
Alexis Afshar
I feel like they were too much. Oh, damn. We would have. You know what? This is crazy. We have to go. We had to go to. I don't even know what they're called anymore. What are they called?
Unknown Host
Kitchen or whatever. Soup kitchen.
Alexis Afshar
Food.
Unknown Host
Food shelter.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah, like a food shelter. There's something different. But we used to go to those, and my mom would get groceries from them. And we used to love it because, like, we knew that we would actually get all the things that we would never get because all the rich people would give us the groceries. Right. So you would have, like, things like gushers and like, you know, the over expensive things.
Unknown Host
Damn.
Alexis Afshar
And we would be, like, grateful. We would be excited to go.
Unknown Host
Humble beginnings. I didn't know that about you.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah.
Unknown Host
Wow. Look at you now.
Alexis Afshar
Some humble beginnings. Look at me now, suckers. I always give back, though. I go. I go back to Sacramento. I grew up in Sacramento, Oak Park. And yeah, I love going back during Christmas time, buying a bunch of toys and like, you know, passing them out.
Unknown Host
That's cool.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. It melts my heart.
Unknown Host
Yeah, it's. It's crazy how just like five bucks can change someone's life like that. Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
Christmas is coming up. I'm excited. We'll see.
Unknown Host
Yeah. I need to figure out how to get back in Vegas. How do you find all the kids?
Alexis Afshar
They're just out there.
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
In the streets.
Unknown Host
Oh.
Alexis Afshar
When you go up in the hood, they just, like hang out outside, you know, Go find them, or their parents will just be coming by and then they'll go grab their parents, or they'll be like, let me go get my family. And they go grab their family.
Unknown Host
Wow.
Alexis Afshar
Down. And they'll go grab the toys and stuff.
Unknown Host
Because a couple Christmas ago, I'll just.
Alexis Afshar
Be out, like on the streets with like a sign.
Unknown Host
Really?
Alexis Afshar
Yeah.
Unknown Host
A couple Christmases ago in Vegas, I made a bunch of sandwiches. And the thing is, though, you can't go where the homeless are in Vegas. They'll kill you.
Alexis Afshar
Oh, it's aggressive.
Unknown Host
Underground. Underground, where there's a name for it.
Alexis Afshar
They're actually underground.
Unknown Host
Yeah, they made a documentary about it. But yeah, if you're not homeless and you go in there, they'll kill you. And I just left them at the front.
Alexis Afshar
You gotta act homeless. You gotta walk in with like a limp or something.
Unknown Host
You have to be with someone that.
Alexis Afshar
Lives like, I'm homeless, y'all. You gotta act all, like, dirty or like, what is it? How do they know if you're homeless or not?
Unknown Host
You have to be with someone. They got a vouch for you.
Alexis Afshar
That's us. A gang.
Unknown Host
It's a system. Yeah. And there's a whole hierarchy down there.
Alexis Afshar
Like, how much money you got? You're too rich. We're killing you.
Unknown Host
Yeah. It's different out there. It's easier out here.
Alexis Afshar
Come on, guys, get it together. We don't need to be killing people, homeless or not. Lord. Jeez. Get it together.
Unknown Host
Yeah. For real.
Alexis Afshar
No one's getting sandwiches down there if you're killing people.
Unknown Host
No. I didn't see the risk to reward ratio there.
Alexis Afshar
No. We got to find the Kids. The kids are the ones that need the help.
Unknown Host
Yeah, it's rough. Kids and dogs have my. Have my heart. I'm big on dogs. I would have, like, 20 dogs if I could.
Alexis Afshar
Me too, but we travel. We can't. Yeah, I'd have another golden doodle. Thousand percent.
Unknown Host
You got a golden dude.
Alexis Afshar
Oh, God. They're the best dogs ever. This dog is incredible. I don't deserve him at all. Damn, he's incredible. Yeah. I can't believe it. What kind of dog do you have?
Unknown Host
Golden retriever. Bernie's mountain dog.
Alexis Afshar
Oh, so yours is amazing, I'm sure.
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
Damn.
Unknown Host
Golden retrievers are so pure. I'll see him tonight. Love you. Milo and Otis, if you're watching this.
Alexis Afshar
Wait, are you going back home tonight?
Unknown Host
Yeah, after this.
Alexis Afshar
Okay.
Unknown Host
Taking the drive.
Alexis Afshar
Okay. Yeah.
Unknown Host
Hopefully no traffic.
Alexis Afshar
No more beef jerky? No, I'm still turkey.
Unknown Host
I'm going to. I'm getting some ostrich on the way home. And elk.
Alexis Afshar
That's crazy.
Unknown Host
Yeah.
Alexis Afshar
I'd like to know which one tastes better, though. Out of all the crazy things.
Unknown Host
I'll give you some alligator jerky. That one's interesting.
Alexis Afshar
That has to fuck my stomach up now, swallowing an alligator. There's no way. My doctors would be like, you ate alligator. What do you expect?
Unknown Host
Oh, man. Alexis, what is next for you? Where can people find you?
Alexis Afshar
Oh, guys, I'm on a mission. I don't know what I'm doing, but I'm doing something. Music, Music, music album. I have a crazy music video dropping in November. I'm really excited about it. I kind of have, like, a rebrand with new music, new name. Because I've learned that sometimes you might have to do that when you have a name that's been around for a minute or, like, the stigma that's attached to it. Something in business, I've learned. So I might do some sort of rebranding.
Unknown Host
Okay.
Alexis Afshar
Or people are like, layla, who's that? And then they find out it's me.
Unknown Host
You know, keep them thinking.
Alexis Afshar
Yeah. So we'll see. We'll see. So I'm gonna do that. So keep an eye out for my music.
Unknown Host
All right, we'll link it below. Thanks for coming.
Alexis Afshar
My new YouTube channel that we're gonna figure out where it's at.
Unknown Host
Hopefully it's back by the time this airs.
Alexis Afshar
That's where the YouTube video will be.
Unknown Host
All right, we'll link below. Thanks for watching, guys. See you next time.
Digital Social Hour Podcast Summary
Episode Title: Social Media Crisis: How Hackers Erased My Million-View Channel | Lexy Panterra Part 2 DSH #973
Host: Sean Kelly
Guest: Alexis Afshar
Release Date: December 12, 2024
In this riveting episode of the Digital Social Hour, host Sean Kelly delves deep into the tumultuous journey of Alexis Afshar, a prominent content creator who faced a devastating social media crisis. The discussion centers around how hackers managed to erase Alexis's million-view YouTube channel, the subsequent challenges she encountered, and the broader implications for creators navigating the digital landscape.
Alexis Afshar opens up about the sudden disappearance of her YouTube videos, which had amassed millions of views over time.
Alexis recounts attempting to locate her content, only to find it inexplicably vanished from all platforms. She suspects that a transition issue between YouTube Shorts and her main channel may have been exploited by malicious actors.
The loss of her YouTube presence had a domino effect on her overall social media engagement. Alexis discusses the drastic drop in her visibility across other platforms like Instagram and Facebook.
She touches upon the issue of shadow banning, where platforms subtly reduce the visibility of content without explicit notification.
Determined to regain her footing, Alexis shares the steps she's taking to recover her online presence. This includes leveraging other platforms like TikTok, where she's actively rebuilding her follower base.
She also explores the use of paid advertisements to boost engagement, a strategy she typically avoids unless necessary.
Alexis vents about the perplexing and often inconsistent policies of social media platforms, which inadvertently contributed to her account bans and content removals.
She highlights the difficulties creators face when navigating the opaque and sometimes arbitrary enforcement of platform rules.
Despite the setbacks, Alexis emphasizes the importance of community support and collaboration among creators facing similar challenges.
Her initiative aims to empower independent artists and content creators by providing resources and a support network to overcome industry barriers.
Alexis reflects on her resilience in the face of adversity and outlines her plans to rebrand and expand her creative endeavors.
She expresses optimism about the future, intending to explore new avenues like acting and expanding her global presence.
On Social Media Challenges:
Alexis Afshar [04:10]: “Even Facebook. I posted something on Facebook. I have almost 3 million followers. It said that 40 people saw my post. That’s absurd.”
On Shadow Banning:
Alexis Afshar [04:15]: “I'm the shadow band queen. ... I think trustworthy-hopeless even politicians have community notes, but I don't agree with those because they still have community notes that are absolute bull.”
On Rebranding:
Alexis Afshar [34:24]: “I'm on a mission. I have a crazy music video dropping in November. I might do some sort of rebranding because sometimes you have to change to overcome stigma.”
Sean Kelly and Alexis Afshar engage in a candid and insightful conversation about the precarious nature of digital fame and the vulnerabilities that content creators face. Alexis's experience serves as a poignant reminder of the importance of resilience, adaptability, and community support in the ever-evolving digital landscape. Her proactive measures to rebuild and reinvent herself offer valuable lessons for aspiring entrepreneurs and professionals striving to thrive in today's fast-paced world.
Key Takeaways:
For aspiring entrepreneurs and digital professionals, Alexis Afshar's story underscores the necessity of safeguarding digital assets, understanding platform policies, and maintaining a diversified online presence to ensure long-term success.