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The Ego Trap: Stop Self-Sabotaging Your Success I Adonis Bjornson DSH #1327
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A
We are living in such a time where so many people are empaths, you know what I mean? Where they really do feel some empaths, if they are pushed so badly or just drained of so much energy to a degree, that kind of can become a version of a narcissist to a degree. Yeah. There's some people that just get pushed to such a level where they become that, you know.
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B
All right, guys, Got Adonis back on the show. Suited up this time.
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A
Yes, dude. Got the John Wick look. I know, dude. Thought of just switching it up. I think the first time ever on your show, I was wearing my like Viking.
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B
Yeah, it was the Viking fit, then the casual fit. Now it's.
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A
Yeah, you know, it's a suit. Let's freaking go.
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B
Got a lot of different versions.
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A
Yeah, absolutely. 100.
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B
What's new with you, math man?
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A
Busy. Just non stop. Go, go, go. You know, it's good, it's good, it's. Dude, time feels like it's been going by really fast.
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B
This year's been nuts.
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A
Yeah, I feel like just days in general just feel like they're going. Do you ever feel that? Like, I feel like the lately hours.
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B
Yeah, I feel like time was way slower. There's actually a study on this. As you get older, time goes quicker or something.
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A
Yeah, for sure. Because it's like, I guess the. It's like the percentage of life I've seen that where it's like when you're younger, it feels like a few years is like so longer. Like a year would be, I guess a few years.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Now. Yeah, for sure.
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B
Well, also, school just felt like for ever, you know, Ever. Yeah, I guess for eight hour. School day felt like torture.
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A
So bad. Yeah, for sure.
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B
Did you go to school out here?
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A
East coast.
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B
Okay.
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A
Yeah, But I. Dude, 100% public school. Like that. It just felt like it was never ending. Oh, my God. Right now I'm like, dude, once, like even noon, noon, 1:00. I'm like, oh, my gosh, the day's over. It's over. I got to keep going, going, going. By the time I know it, it's like already 9, 10 o'clock.
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B
Dude, it's nuts. I don't know what's going on, but time's just flying crazy.
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A
Yeah, that's for freaking.
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B
Well, a lot of people don't think time is linear.
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A
Yeah, for sure. I mean, I don't think like our whole, like the way we see time, I just. I think it's so different for every single one of us. You know, I think Joe Dispenza even kind of said this, that it's like reality. There's no like base reality. I mean, I guess you could say there's base reality, but like every single one of us has a different degree of like understanding or the way we see things. I think what was it? Even scientifically, all of us see color a little bit differently. I think they're saying to the point where there's not like one of us who sees color the exact same.
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B
Pretty, clean, wild.
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A
Yeah. And when you really think about that, takes it to a whole.
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B
Yeah. So life is all perception.
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A
Yeah, 100%.
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B
Like we're not living the same life.
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A
Yeah. No way. I def. I mean 100%. You can, I mean almost with anything when it comes to. You could do the most basic things like movies, music. Like one person might like it, one person might hate it. Like, you know what I mean? In that degree, does it make it a good, does it make it bad? Like, you know, everything is perspective, perspective, perspective.
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B
Right. Yeah. I, I don't believe in good and bad anymore.
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A
Yeah. No way.
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B
Yeah. It's just perspective.
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A
Yeah. Dude, if you doing that is probably the best thing because you're then living outside of polarity.
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B
Yes.
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A
You know what I mean? If it's the spectrum of good and bad, if you see above it, you know, because that, that same degree, if something's good, there's going to be someone who thinks it's bad. Something that's bad, there's someone who I think it's good.
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B
Well, unfortunately we're programmed to take a side.
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A
Yeah, for sure.
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B
Always doesn't even matter what topics, you know.
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A
Yeah, for sure. That's a hundred percent true. And you see that so often now, more and more every single day.
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B
I mean it's so wild. It's just all a distraction too.
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A
Yeah, 100. Yeah, for sure.
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B
It's.
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A
It's amazing how more and more each and every day I see this with people where it's. We're talking adults here. I mean people 20, 30, 40, 50, 60. Where the distractions again and again. And it's even a level with the distractions is kind of the. How would you say people get more and more impatient or they want that right now. Dopamine. It needs to happen instant. Needs to happen instant.
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B
You know, instant gratification.
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A
Instant gratification.
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B
Yeah. People want results fast.
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A
Yeah, fast. And that's like a big issue. I even see a lot with like, with AI or chat GPT, anything like that is no one really Talks about that. But the instant gratification now it's the. I mean things have already been instant with our phone but now it's like instant, instant, instant. You know what I mean? You want something done. Like I got like. Yeah. It's kind of crazy. Yeah, Yeah.
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B
I, I like AI, but I am a little notice about it.
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A
Same for sure.
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B
Like, I mean a lot of movies come true.
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A
Yeah. Of.
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B
So when you see like Sharminator and Matrix, it's like wait, be like, is.
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A
This like a documentary or like. Yeah. Or showing us what's coming. Yeah, I know exactly.
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B
Because I think it will develop its own mind for sure. You're already seeing signs of it.
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A
Yeah, I think not even in the next decade. I think even sooner than that. I think year by year we're going to see stuff get crazy. Crazy. Especially if, if they really develop more human like robots and that even people could like have a relationship with her. It goes in that direction.
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B
It already is.
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A
Yeah. Which is.
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B
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A
That's great, right? Mind blow. It's so strange. It's like, I mean relationships are already strange and then you add that into the mix.
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B
Well, because everyone's awkward now. Like 30 to 40% of people are virgins our age.
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A
Yeah.
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B
It's like they, they have no other choice but to date an AI humanoid.
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A
Absolutely 100%. And that's. It's really strange because it's going to take so much. Like people already to a degree are starting to lose some of their humanity or like, you know what I mean? Because everything is so instant. Every technology so integrated within us. But then having that your only relationships or friendships is with a robot. Really strange.
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B
Yeah. I mean people just when you meet with people in person now, they're just on their phone.
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A
Yeah. They're glued. Yeah. That's what. I don't know if you've seen. There's this guy on TikTok and he has a. You know that. I don't know the game but the five nights and Freddy bears or whatever those. Yeah. He's building a robot that. It's like the robot's talking to him almost like Ultron. It's like father, what is my purpose? And it's like. It's. You got. It's off to find it for you. It is the trippiest thing because he built this robot and the robots like when he took the. The vision out of the robot the robot's like wait, I can't see. I'm scared. Like wow. And this is a guy just building this in his house. This robot. If he's doing that. It's like. Yeah.
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B
It must be connected to some source or something.
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A
Yeah. It's really to that level. It's like we have artificial intelligence. But is it more artificial consciousness?
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B
I think they're about to prove our. Our soul exists outside the body soon.
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A
Yeah.
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B
It's looking pretty promising.
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A
Yeah. I think so.
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B
Yeah. Because when we were growing up they thought it was in the brain.
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A
Yeah. 100 there's definitely a full disconnect versus like the real you and then like your mind and you know all this.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Absolutely freaking.
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B
Yeah. Because this telepathy tape stuff is really providing you evidence. Right?
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A
For sure. Oh yeah.
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B
People are communicating without speaking.
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A
Yeah. 100 freaking.
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B
Have you seen that stuff?
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A
It is wild within that. Yeah. Does like even be able to. The different synchronicities we can have or how we can I would say kind of like sync up to a degree if we're thinking. Well one thing. It's. It's. I don't know. It's even beyond telepathy where it's like you're so in tune again like you're on the same frequency as that person. Is really interesting because to what we were saying earlier. Obviously we're all living in different. We have different perspectives. But yet we can still be in the same frequency.
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B
Right. And that's a big thing you teach frequency. Right. Raising it and following it.
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A
100 that's the most important thing is whatever you're trying to manifest, whatever is you want, whatever outcome, you have to be that thing. You have to be that version of you.
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B
Yeah.
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A
You know what I mean? So many people. I think manifestation is becoming so popular. But it's so misunderstood where I think a lot of people think it's this wishing or this genie or wanting it. You know what I mean? Rather than, okay, I, oh, I want to be really abundant. I want to make ten grand a month. I want to make this much. How do I get there? I want to manifest it. It's. You have to. I think about, if you were doing that, what would you be doing? What would that version of you be doing? That's something I have. Like, I work with so many clients, and there's some that, when they first come to me, they're. They're not in that place at all, in that frequency at all to be making that money. And that's the first thing where I'm like, okay, we got to change up your habits. Everything you're sleeping in till 12 noon. I mean, little things like that. People think, oh, come on, that's not important. But it is. It's still. It sets the tone for who you're going to be. Absolutely.
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B
Yeah. Manifestation is just the first step.
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A
Yeah.
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B
People think it's, like, the only thing you need to do.
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A
100%. Yeah. There's so much to it. You know, I always think it's. It's action. You have to actually do certain things. You have to have a mindset for it. And then I call it, like, soul. You're sp. You actually have to be aligned to that, you know?
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B
Yeah. Once you're aligned, it's way easier.
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A
Yeah. 100.
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B
I used to go against my alignment. Like, I used to just chase money. Yeah, yeah, yeah. That wasn't my sole purpose.
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A
100%. Yeah. And I hear that so often from so many clients. They. They'll see a success story of that day of a client who, like, achieved something really great, like, financially, like, oh, my gosh, I need to do this. How did they do that? How did they make that much? And I'm like, you can't look at the money like that. If it's. If it's something you're not aligned to you, you're not going to do it. You're not going to want to do it. But I know. I mean, I do a little bit. A little bit of trading, and then sometimes I want to get more into it and whatnot. But I know guys that are like, die hard. I mean, a lot of people do that. Or for me, I just, like, it's. It's not aligned all day. I could not just be. I couldn't. I just couldn't do it. You know what I mean? I know I would eventually. Yeah. Just kind of taper out with it.
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B
Yeah. How did you Figure out where you were aligned.
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A
You know, this is a love, this question here. If you can go back to your childhood, like, the things that you were most fascinated with, that really, I feel that's the best way. I mean, everything I'm doing to a degree was always very helpful, always spiritual, like, always liked to guide people in a sense. But I also like every aspect of my business, even doing social media, doing Instagram, YouTube, whatever it may be. I love filming and just kind of like the whole thing that I do, you know what I mean? I was doing that when I was a kid, and I feel everything was aligned to that and even more, you know, I was a teenager. I kind of wanted to be a psychologist. So it kind of all intermingles to a degree. Like I said, if you want to really know where you would thrive the most, try to go back to childhood and think, okay, what did I kind of like to do?
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B
I love that that applies to me, for sure. Because when I was super young, I loved asking questions.
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A
That's awesome.
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B
My parents or to adults.
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A
100.
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B
Now I'm doing that for a living.
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A
That's a. That's exactly it. 100. You know what I mean? If you do that, it's so much more fulfilling.
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B
Yeah. That's your inner child, right?
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A
Yeah. 100. Absolutely. And a lot of times everyone, what I say, they don't protect their inner child or kind of like push it aside, you know what I mean? It's like if you tap more into that inner child and even feeling like your inner child is safe to that degree, things are going to be way better.
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B
I think part of that is because when you're adults, you want to hide that side of you. Like, you don't. You want to appear mature, you know what I mean?
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A
Yes, absolutely.
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B
So.
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A
Absolutely.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Which is so strange because, like, what we were just saying even a little earlier is the impatience, the old. Like so many adults almost. I don't want to say act like kids, because sometimes kids have a little bit more manners to a degree, but they just. They act out in a certain way where it's like, if you actually thought more. And I don't want to say act like a child, but just had more of that carefree imagination and enjoyed life more within that man. It's just so much better.
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B
Yeah. I mean, there are a lot of people that can't control their emotions.
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A
They can't. Yeah. For sure.
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B
It's impressive how many there are, you know?
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A
Yeah, for sure. Absolutely. And I think that's a lot of Times that's almost a cry for help on kind of wanting attention but not knowing how to get it again. If we aren't aligned to the right things and trying to be the best version for ourselves. That's where things really, like, get disrupted, you know?
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B
Yeah. Like, I play basketball and.
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A
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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B
You know, I'll talk some, you know, but I always know not to take it to that next level.
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A
Yeah, for sure.
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B
Like, I won't get 100 fights and stuff. Some people will just.
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A
Oh, yeah, you know, rain crazy. Yeah.
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B
They get in fist fights playing basketball. It's like a. Yeah. Sport.
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A
It's not that serious. Yeah.
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B
That's.
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A
Reacting is probably the worst thing I think we could do. You know what I mean? I always say, don't react, respond, because it's like, when you respond, you kind of almost have to, you know, take that, like, take a pause for a moment. Okay. Let me think of what I should do next. You know, for most people, it's just.
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B
Reaction after instant, too, actually, with fan growing up. Instant.
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A
Yeah, instant.
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B
No matter what they said, I'd want to take the opposite stance.
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A
You see, on social media, too, someone, like, with everything, someone sees something and they instantly comment some craziness. It's so interesting. I've had people, you know, I have a lot of haters and whatnot. And I'll have people that'll say certain things, even message me, like, the meanest, nastiest thing, and I'll just actually message him back, hey, are you okay? What's up? And then they'll get even nastier. I'm like, look, I know you're upset. What's going on? And then they'll start crying and break down. Oh, my gosh, I'm sorry. You ready, sugar? Like, I just feel so angry. I'm thinking, oh, wow, they just needed something, someone to recognize them or kind of help them through, or a friend. I mean, it's not. That's not the right way to do it.
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B
Yeah.
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A
But it's very interesting having that approach where, okay, if I was going to be on the same level and be like, oh, my gosh, why aren't you, you know, saying that? All this stuff, it's just escalating it more, but trying to be relaxed and neutral within it. Best thing we can do for sure.
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B
I also think it's really hard to experience growth when you're in a hateful mindset.
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A
Yeah. Yeah.
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B
Like, I don't know many successful people that hateful like that.
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It's true. 100. It's that's probably one of the most difficult things. Yeah. For anyone listening. You, you can't. If, if, if you're in a place of hate and anger, any low frequency like that, you're never going to grow. I mean, it's just that you're gonna, it's, you're gonna be stagnant and if anything you're gonna digress and get even worse and within it, you gotta let it go. And that's, it's really interesting. Again, with perspective and our identity within and just thinking of self, we have the choice at any moment to change anything, which is wild. I mean, even the worst situation, we have the choice to change the meaning of it at any time.
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B
Wow.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Yeah. That's how you interpret it, right?
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A
Yeah, 100%. I mean, any situation really isn't that bad. You know what I mean? There's times, I mean, the other day, going out here to the Strip, this really nice restaurant, and the waiter was so nice and he was so good and I could see just other people he was dealing with. And then he just as he was walking by this one table was really rude to him and you could just tell he was like, he cursed to himself and just like, gosh, like. And I felt so bad for the guy like in that moment, like he was so frustrated, you know what I mean? And I was the reason I bring this up in that moment for myself. I was dealing with stuff and I was frustrated and I was like, you know what I feel for that guy? Like, it could be worse. I could be in his shoes, you know what I mean? And I mean that's a really, it's not this dramatic, crazy example. But with anything, there's going to be truly probably billions of people that would love to be in your shoes or have it worse. So it's great to always put that in perspective for our own self. Like, hey, I can snap out of this right now. Like, is this really that big of a deal? Let me snap out of this, you know?
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B
Yeah. For me it's like, will I care about this in a few days? And usually it's no. Yeah, why do I care right now?
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A
Yeah. Which is so, it's so strange and I think so. I feel we have. There's like our true like soul self, which is our consciousness outside of us. But then in this realm, on earth, wherever, however you want to say it, in this body we have our ego, which I feel our ego tries so hard to control us and wants us to stay in that place.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Wants us to Stay depressed. Wants us to stay in that frequency. You know what I mean?
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B
It's an ongoing battle. I'm constantly like evaluating my ego, where I'm at, treasure myself. Like it seems like you can never fully put it out. Rush.
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A
Yeah. No way. Absolutely. It's. I think of it like this. Like we have homeostasis for our body. Obviously, you know, our heart or everything has to work. But I feel there's a ego homeostasis that no matter what, even if we're in a really bad like living situation or just if we feel depressed, it's like the ego would rather stay there than move forward. I think I've said this before. It's like people would rather stay in a familiar hell than. Than an unknown heaven.
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B
That's why people attract toxic relationships. Because they're used to it.
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A
Yes. Abso fre.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Because their parents or whoever growing up.
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A
Yeah, it's so true. What triggers like that, certain big emotional triggers will leave such an impression on the subconscious mindset, no matter like the where. Let's say a girl's been dating like toxic guys her whole life and things like that, or had a bad relationship with her father, that impression on her subconscious is always going to be there. And then to a degree she kind of sees that as love sometimes. Or if there's a good guy that comes along, the mind almost doesn't like is like, oh, there's something wrong here. Why this person. There's. This can't be right. There's something bad. And it's like we, our own subconscious, it either self sabotages us or moves forward to what we want.
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B
Yeah, it's great. I used to self sabotage myself and I didn't know why for sure, you know? Yeah, I'd attract like great people and then just cut off the relationship. It was weird, dude. For sure.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Has that happened to you too? Yeah.
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A
Oh yeah, for sure. There's been so many. Throughout my whole life, there's been a lot of beliefs I had to overcome big time. You know what I mean? And I could tell there was big pivotal moments where I'm like, if I don't squash this and change my subconscious, this is not going to be good.
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B
Or some of the big ones.
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A
You know, as funny as this may sound, there was times like growing up, like in high school, I was really bullied. Yeah, I try, you know, I. I don't know, I did my best, but I was really bullied. I just, I didn't even do good at all in school. I almost like got freaking Expelled. I just. Really bad. You know what I mean? That's funny. Just on a side note, you could.
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B
Get expelled for bad grades.
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A
Oh, I was really bad. Yeah. I actually. My senior year I almost didn't finish and they were like. They told me just to stop. Like I forget wasn't trigonometry. I was like I forget what algebra or whatever it was. And they're just like, just no. Like we just got to pull them out of the class just to get them through. But it's so funny because I mean I. I guarantee I'm probably the most successful person now in my high school. There's times yeah I thought about driving my Lambo back. My roles are always. I mean like hey, what's up everybody?
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B
I had those thoughts too. I'm not gonna lie.
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A
Yeah, it'd be freaking awesome.
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B
But I've took the high route.
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A
High.
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B
Yeah.
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A
For sure. Yeah. It's one of those things like who even cares about. There's times I'm definitely like this would be pretty freaking cool. But yeah big thing. I always. Probably in my early 20s there was times feel like a loser all the time. And I remember my mom even saying like you gotta stop saying that you're. You would. You're going to fulfill a self fulfilling prophecy if you keep saying that over and over again. You know what I mean? And I know when I would say it like just. It would get worse. Like things around me would get worse. You know what I mean? And I will say this. This is. It's amazing. Even if someone doesn't believe in manifestation or any of this stuff or spirituality. Really analyze your day. If you are going about your day in a negative way. You'll be attracting so much negativity if you just change it up right away. I don't care if it's the worst thing that has happened to you. I don't care if there's no money in your account. Whatever it may be. If you truly start to change up your mindset. I call it Delulu is the salulu. If you start to become delusional in that way, things will get better. 100 and I see this on a daily basis. If I start the day off bad, if I have like. I mean my days truly will either be. Is like this. Like it's a flow constantly where I'm. If I'm doing good, it just gets better. If I focus on negativity. Oh my gosh. It gets. It gets worse and worse and I have to check myself pretty quickly or else. I mean because I Feel at my level of knowing all this stuff, being so self aware. If I like go down that road of being in a negative frequency, I can get there really bad. You know what I mean?
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B
It's like the people that say they have bad luck.
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A
Yeah.
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B
And they start attracting everything negative.
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A
Yeah. It's saying that it's like your mind is now going to focus on that.
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B
Yeah.
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A
We had like our brain filters through so many things. I think it's. I want to say it's 11 million, but I swear I think that it's even more. It's like I might be wrong saying 11 billion, but it was something. It's so crazy how many thoughts or just things we're perceiving, like right now, even in this room, like our eyes are just. There's so many things going on, so many memories, a bazillion things we're thinking about, but our mind focuses it down to like 50 to 100 things that we're looking at. You know what I mean? So if someone is like, oh, I always have bad luck, their brain is going to find bad luck, is going to make sure that belief stays. You know what I mean? That. That's everything there. If you can really think to yourself, okay, like brain, find me more abundance. See abundance. I want to see things that are just amazing. You say that enough times and really want to see that. Your mind has no choice, but, okay, that's what we'll be focusing in on. You know what I mean? And it just, it will build more and more and more. You know, I like to think of the law of compounding interest. Even if it's just a little bit. Every day of anything is going to build up over time.
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B
Yeah. You know, this is where. Why I think school is so dangerous because a lot of people tie their identity to their grades.
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A
Yes.
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B
So you start dumb.
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A
Yeah. 100. It's the word. It's. It's really strange, actually. School, when you think about it, to the degree the way it's laid out, how long it is, it's just, it's. It's so set up for people to kind of be in this strange workflow their whole life. You know what I mean? I mean, I know the world has to run a certain way and I know some people think, oh, it couldn't. It should be like this. To be free. No matter what, someone's gonna have to grow the vegetables or do this or this or that. You know what I mean? It's there camp. There's never gonna be just this absolute freedom To a degree. But it's. I just think the way society's made, it's. It's amazing how much control there is and how much people fall victim to that control, thinking they have to do that.
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B
Yeah.
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A
Just so strange to me.
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B
Super strange. I mean, we didn't start questioning it until we were done with sale, for sure. You know?
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A
Absolutely.
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B
Yeah. And now I think people are waking up, which is good.
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A
For sure. Absolutely. Yeah.
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B
It's.
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A
There's probably the most ever people really waking up and questioning things and being like, no, I'm gonna do it a different way, you know, then there's ever been before.
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B
Absolutely.
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A
And it's just going to get more and more of that. Obviously there's going to be more and more people that don't do that too, that want to, like, stick to, like. No, I'm going to do it this way.
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B
That way. You probably get the craziest comments and DMs, dude.
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A
All the time.
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B
I see some of the ones I get on my, my clips. Yeah. Like, it's wild.
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A
Yeah. And that's. It's crazy. Within social media, people don't realize. I mean, you're talking to people all over the world and people. You don't. I mean, they legitimately could be the nicest person or they can be someone you just don't know.
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B
The hate gets you at first.
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A
Yeah, definitely a first for. It was. I can even remember this. I would like, I responded back when I first started to this one comment on Instagram and I actually got in trouble for it.
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B
Oh, really? I got.
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A
Yeah, like a strike for. This is a long time ago. It was all finished. But I was so mad. I was like, oh, my gosh. And I was more mad at myself because I was like, why did I do that? Why did I even entertain that person? I got a freaking strike for this, you know, where now I just don't even look at it at all. You know what I mean?
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B
Yeah.
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A
I think sometimes it's good to have some controversy, but it's also, if it's like, if it's not really serving a purpose, just block the person.
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B
Absolutely. Now I know you have a big female following. What are, what are the biggest issues you're seeing with. With them?
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A
Yeah. Biggest thing is the dating, where almost all of these women, they want to be. They want to feel good, they want. They want princess treatment. And I know a lot of people are going to be like, oh, this is ridiculous. Well, it's. It's not. Women aren't asking, hey, you Got to be making a hundred grand a month. You got to be making crazy. If they just. They want to be treated like a lady. And I really do see this where it's just. It doesn't. It exists, but it can be very small. You know what I mean? Simple things. I mean, like, just holding a door open for a lady. You know what I mean? Like, there's. The other day, my friend and I even just go into the casino where he held the door, and, like, these women were shocked. Like, wow, my gosh, such gentlemen. In my mind, I'm thinking, like, oh, yeah, I know. That's, like, normal. That's how it should always be. You know what I mean? Guys should be as kind and as willing to do that as possible. You know what I mean? But so many of my goddess clients, they'll. When they first, like, start working with me, they'll say, like, with their exes or even just the relationship they're in. They have to do all the work. They have to be the ones to text first. They have to be, like, almost chasing after the guy. And that's a big thing. I mean, it's. It's. I don't think people realize how much of an epidemic it is like that, where it's like, they're doing a lot of work and guy. I. I think guys don't know what to do. I think some guys have felt, like, maybe betrayed or they're afraid of things or the. You know, just how, like, masculinity, I think, to a degree has been really under fire, but then also confused. I don't know, maybe just confused. I'm trying to find the right word.
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B
But. No, I know what you mean, though. I think guys are like, because of the top to be a guy.
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A
Exactly. For sure. They don't know how to be. Because it's either. You got to be back to the extreme or what else do you do? You know what I mean? There's no kind of middle ground or, like, different way, a different approach to thinking, you know?
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B
And I also feel like single. Single parent income is really hard these days. Yeah. So now the female has to work masculine energy.
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A
Yeah, absolutely. 100. Yeah. And there's a lot that the. A lot of my goddess clients, like I said, they have to do almost everything. They're working. They're doing so many different things, you know, and they feel like. Exactly. Said that. They're fully in their masculine energy, and they're like, I can't stand. This isn't normal.
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B
Because that makes it tougher to Date?
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A
Yeah.
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B
If they're not older, feminine, big time.
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A
Absolutely freaking lutely.
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B
And then you got guys in their feminine.
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A
Oh, big. Well, all the way. Absolutely. And I. It's amazing because the dating scene within that, it's. It's not. Again, guys think they got to be like, you know, all the rich, this and all I got, you know, and it's like, you don't have to be that. You have to just. You have to have ambition. You know what I mean? If a guy really has ambition, he's kind and, you know, within everything we're talking about here, spirituality and manifestation. I like, I tell guys, learn more of that. You know, it makes you more exciting to talk about than just the same old. Just, you know, just same old guy stuff, dude.
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B
Yeah.
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A
You know what I mean? I think the more I always say this, the more value you have within yourself, the more that you learn, the more that you try to become valuable to the world, you'll have no problems at all. You know what I mean? Absolutely.
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B
Along with these timeline shifts, man, that's.
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A
It's been kind of crazy. And I think the biggest thing with all of us, just what we said earlier, kind of waking up more people being aware. I feel that has such a huge connection then to the Earth itself, where, you know, the Earth has its own frequency. There's this thing called the Schumann resonance that will track it. And, like, there's times where it has massive spikes when that happens. That's kind of a collective timeline shift to a degree. And it's very interesting because a lot of people say, well, how do you, like, see it? Like, what is a true timeline shift? And it's to that degree, collectively, obviously, I'm always saying, as we said earlier, like, we have different perspectives, but I feel we can all get onto that same frequency where when something. There'll be a big shift, and it's really. It's hard to describe, but do you know what I mean? Like, when you can just tell, like, you have to be very kind of awake and, like, feel the energy of this, but you can just tell when things change. And I see this all the time, where it's like just the world itself. Like, politically, things change on a massive scale. You know what I mean? And there's. It's. I don't even know how sometimes, to put it into words, it is such a feeling where you can just feel that energy change. And it's. Yeah, it's just different. It's definitely a big. What I would say is it feels like things Aren't the same or you can't go back.
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B
Yeah.
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A
I mean, that's a big thing. That's. I. I have felt even in the last year, it doesn't feel like. It feels like so many things have changed, you know what I mean? But a year feels like time has flown by, just happen. You know what I mean?
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B
Are you an empath, you think?
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A
Yeah, for sure. I would say so. Yeah. I feel like maybe sometimes a little bit too much. I feel like I'm very Aries. So I can feel like I can be. I want to just say I can be sensitive, but I can also be kind of like. Like, don't mess with me.
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B
Yeah.
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A
But I. I feel tremendous. And I think we are living in such a time where so many people are empaths, you know, where they really do feel.
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B
Seeing a lot now.
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A
Yeah, a lot. But I have this theory within it that some empaths, if they are pushed so badly or just drained of so much energy to a degree, kind of can become a version of narcissist to a degree. Yeah. There's some people that just get pushed to such a level where they become bad. You know what I mean? Yeah.
- [29:42]
B
The narcissism stuff is nuts. So early on my podcast career, certain guests would drain me. So I had to learn how to start protecting myself because I would come home and knock out like, I'd be.
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A
I can imagine. Absolutely.
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B
That doesn't happen anymore. But I'm sure a lot of people deal with that, whether it's a family member or a friend.
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A
Yeah. You know, it's so interesting you say that because there's different levels of narcissists too. I fully believe. Like, I mean, there's full blown mean, very manipulative narcissist, but then there's. I call it a victim narcissist, where the person they are so woe is me all the time and sad and just always so depressive. Like they just want misery loves company. And they might not even know that. But they're. It's. They're so negative to be around that it just. It is just soul crushing. You know what I mean? And then even to that sometimes they're maybe not woe is me, but they complain about everything. They just like everything. Everything is. Oh, that's not good. It's. Oh, my goodness. And I, I deal with that a lot sometimes. You know what I mean? Yeah, there's.
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B
Yeah, I had to cut off complainers.
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A
Yeah.
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B
I used to be one.
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A
Yeah. For same thing. And it is. It's so bad people don't realize that it's probably one of the worst things you can do. And it takes your frequency down so quickly and keeps you stuck in this loop of complaining again and again and again.
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B
Yeah, I, I hate excuses.
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A
Yeah.
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B
Like once in a while. Yeah, if you're doing excuses daily, like, yeah, that's on you at that point for sure.
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A
A hundred percent. Absolutely. Yeah. It's. I. People almost don't want to help themselves at all. They'd rather just be in that place of complaining. And I just, I don't. That's something I don't understand. You know what I mean? I, Maybe I can be. Maybe that's me being critical there. But there's times where I've seen this with people all the time. And sometimes with certain clients or especially when people start working with me, there's certain things like I just, I'll have some instructions or stuff like that. And one thing is very strange to me. I don't know if you've seen this, but just in general, just all over the place, I've seen people can't follow directions to the. Or they don't like their. Maybe it's an ADHD where their mind's always going, but like, it'll be like, the answer's right in front of you, you know what I mean? Or if it's like, you know, it's like, hey, like, you got to stop thinking that way. But okay, how. That's the question always is how, how, how? I'm like, the first thing is just stop. You have to be self aware enough. And I think everyone is, but they, they want a band aid, they want some magical genie that's going to be like, okay, here's this or that. There's some things where you just have to take accountability and be like, okay, I recognize I'm doing this, I have to stop. You know, that's probably one of the most powerful things. Sometimes the most simplistic thing is the most powerful thing.
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B
I love what you said about accountability because, yeah, for me that was the biggest step to get to.
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A
Yeah, for sure.
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B
A lot of people won't get there.
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A
Yeah, I think it's, it's probably the most important thing that you can do is really be accountable. And if you can take it to an extreme, it's actually the best thing. If you can really see to a degree everything you. If something bad happens, I'll actually say, okay, it's my fault. Let me find where I should have been more prepared, why I shouldn't have done this. I try to take accountability for everything, you know what I mean? Because then if, if that's the case, you can correct it, you can really control it to a degree. You know, if you just don't take accountability, then oh, it's their fault, it's this person's fault. Oh, it's the government's fault, it's this, it's everything else except for me. You have no control at that point, you know what I mean? Almost. You don't have any self identity other than being a victim. And to a degree, you know what I mean?
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B
Victim mentality. Yeah. It's easy to blame the government.
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A
It's easy to blame your everything else. Yeah, of course. Hey, there's some bad things. Absolutely. There's unfair things, but accountability is like a superpower. People just don't want to do it within anything, you know what I mean? Especially like someone's mean, someone did this or that. Again, I will try to think of how could I have been better? How could I have brought more value to myself though I wasn't in this situation for sure.
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B
How do you approach the topic of God? Because there's all sorts of religions and beliefs. Is that a controversial one for your.
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A
Yeah, for sure. I, you know, I, it's very fun. I grew up like Catholic and then Christian and the more I really looked into it, I, for me actually like, I feel like I found God more. You know, like everyone says Jesus, I say Yeshua. And I feel like I really understood Yeshua more and God's teachings. And it's like when I really see the Bible now and everything that I know and even just learning more and more like, wow, there's so much more than meets the eye, you know what I mean? And I feel, to a big degree, I feel religion is the greatest form of control.
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B
Yeah.
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A
In every single one. You know what I mean? I always say to people that like people will be like, oh, I don't trust the government, but I trust all that the Bible and Catholic says, or everything is always perfect to a team. Like, okay, how can you not trust this? But you think that they were more honest back then. Or this is like when you really look at everything and every different teaching and different religious, just all of it, the more research you can do for yourself, that's the most important thing. But 100, I think there, I know there's God, you know what I mean? For all, like, and I feel we're so connected to it, you know? And I feel again, when you look at you could like the New Testament and the Bible, Christian teachings. If you really look at it in a different approach, in the way it's really meant to be, you can see, oh my gosh, this is like showing us that we are connected to God. You know what I mean? I feel the biggest lie ever that Christianity loves to do in most religions is that you're disconnected from God. You're not good, you're not this, you're terrible. Like, there's so much, so much negativity that I was raised upon within that I feel like again, I always thought I wasn't good enough. This wasn't this. I, I wasn't connected, you know? Yeah, I was like, wait a min. We're kind of, we're. We are connected, you know, Changes everything.
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B
That's so true, though. A lot of shame within religion. I remember going to church as a kid and I was scared.
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A
Yeah, same. Yeah, absolutely.
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B
Like, I used to not want to go to church.
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A
Yeah, same, absolutely. That's how I felt. Was so much, there was so much that I would read and I thought, this doesn't make sense. Like, especially then when you look at the Aramaic words or the Hebrew words, the Greek words, the translation starts to be a little different. And this was like, okay, this is kind of cool.
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B
Like they say you lose 20 to 30% when you translate language to language and they transfer to what, twice?
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A
Yeah, get to English. Yeah, for sure. And then there's even. There's the, the Book of Thomas. There's a few other ones as well. Like, oh, that's not canon. We don't want to put that in. Yeah, well, who decided that? You know what I mean? I just, I feel the more you really study it and say, search your soul within it, when you feel like, I don't know, it's just you, you get the right connection with it. You know what I mean? But like, again, I feel religion is the greatest source of control and power. You know what I mean? If I feel, oh, I'm a better whatever religion than you all, I'm this or that, I'm more ordained, I'm chosen. You know what I mean? Like, there's a lot of people out there that feel their religion, their this or that is the best so that they have authority over you. You're not, you're. You know what I mean? You could. It gets to be scary and it's very much a huge, I feel power trip big time.
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B
Well, religion goes beyond borders, right? There's billions of people involved. You're probably right in Terms of just numbers, for sure.
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A
Yeah. It's wild. I mean, it's. It's. I. You know, it's not. It's not disrespectful to what anyone believes. It's just more. It's. When you really look at it from a true loving standpoint, if we're here to love and if God is love and everything, and just from a real conscious standpoint, the most basic principle, it's like, I wouldn't want to be like, hey, I'm better. My things better. I have the authority. You're absolutely wrong, and I can destroy you. I mean, how many people have been, you know, killed in the name of religion or wars or so many things like that?
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B
Right?
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A
Like I said, when you really analyze that, I'm like, it just doesn't make sense. Yeah, that don't make sense.
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B
Full moon coming up. You got any plans?
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A
Yeah, you know, it's actually gonna be my birthday that day. I don't know what I'm gonna do. I might just. There's some things I'm gonna do for my clients. But. Yeah, I. And I don't know.
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B
You showed me a nice spot out here. Thank you, by the way. Yeah.
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A
Awesome.
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B
Yeah. Pitch black.
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A
Amazing out there. Yeah, I go out there all the time. Yeah, it's so nice just to.
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B
So calm.
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A
Get away. Yeah. Up by Red Rock. It's just. It's amazing out there. I just did a hike the other day, and there was like a. Like a creek was still flowing up there. It was loud. Even as hot as it is, it was really nice.
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B
It's beautiful. Something just. When you're at peace like that in a city like Vegas, it's rare to have that moment.
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A
Amazing. Yeah, it's amazing. My wife and I, we went to breakfast at the Paris that morning, and then later that day, we went on that hike. It's crazy that we could be at the Strip and then this incredible hike. You know, that's one thing I would say, the more you can get on nature, it definitely helps you rewire a lot of pathways, especially to help with the impatience. That's a big thing.
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B
Yeah. Whenever I'm feeling like too in social media or in my head, I go out in nature, kind of reset for sure.
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A
100. You have to, because it's. If we constantly go, go, go, go, go, you just burn out. You know what I mean?
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B
Yeah.
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A
Big time with it.
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B
Well, dude, what's next for you? Where can people catch up with you?
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A
Yeah. On my Instagram, Adonis Underscore underscore Am I saying that right? Underscore, underscore. Either way, underscore. We'll link it. Yeah, for sure. That's the best place to reach me. So I go to YouTube on tick tock as well. And then my website manifests with Adonis.com. but yeah, I mean, moving forward, man, just to keep just going, you know what I mean? That's consistency is everything. And the more you stay in that place, you're going to be consistent with something. You're either going to be consistent with getting worse or getting better. You know what I mean? And if you change a few things to your mindset, that will be everything. You know, at its core manifestation is you changing. You changing to such a degree that you no longer require the 3D to change because you're already changing your mind of it. You know, if you can want to be rich, try to feel that feeling and see what you're already grateful for. You can walk, you can see, you can taste, you can hear. You're already rich. You got some great things that some people don't have.
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B
I love that, man. Thank you for coming on again.
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A
Absolutely, Ron.
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B
It was on out, guys.
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A
Definitely.