"They’ll Use You Until You’re Empty". Sharp on Fake Friends & Business... | DSH #1612

Summary

Podcast Summary: Digital Social Hour – “They’ll Use You Until You’re Empty”

Host: Sean Kelly
Guest: Sharp
Episode: DSH #1612
Date: November 9, 2025

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Episode Overview

In this episode of Digital Social Hour, Sean Kelly sits down in Las Vegas with Sharp for a raw, no-filter conversation about fake friends, loyalty in business, surviving (and thriving) in media, navigating relationships as a successful man, and why everyone should be their own best friend first. With stories from Sharp’s past and unguarded opinions on today’s “use-you-until-you’re-empty” culture, the episode dives deep into personal responsibility, lessons from hardship, and the psychological games of modern success.

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Main Themes and Purposes

• The danger of misplaced trust in business and friendships
• The reality check for self-reliance: no one’s coming to save you
• Learning from hard-won experience and betrayal
• Surviving media hate and public judgment in the digital age
• Masculinity, vulnerability, and protecting yourself in relationships
• Prioritizing your own growth and mental health above all else
• The emptiness of chasing money versus the importance of family

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Key Discussion Points and Insights

1. No One’s Coming to Save You

[00:00]–[00:45]

• Sharp opens with a reality check: “People need to know nobody's coming to your doorstep to save you. Nobody. This isn't Publishers Clearinghouse…You gotta get your ass up and get outside and go try to find something for you, man.” (Sharp, 00:00)
• The importance of trying and failing: “If you fall backwards, you're back to step one. You already been there. You know what to expect there. Try it again.” (Sharp, 00:39)
• Take risks, because the worst-case scenario is just starting over.

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2. Experience Is Everything

[02:42]–[03:32]

• Sharp reflects on moving from LA to Vegas, noting that skills and experience outvalue money, friends, or even location: “If I gained anything…it was some experience. I feel like experience is everything for everybody…that should be the number one thing you walk away with other than money, friends, just whatever.” (Sharp, 03:08)

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3. Fake Friends, Snakes in Business, and Setting Boundaries

[03:32]–[04:37]; [32:06]–[34:11]

• Mixing friendship and business: Sharp cautions that some friends simply aren’t suited to business and that’s okay. Recognize their capability and set boundaries accordingly.
• “Snakes and demons…come in all shapes, colors, forms and sizes, man. So, you know, you just gotta watch.” (Sharp, 04:04)
• On lending money: “Don’t expect it back. Don’t ever give something to your family trying to expect that back for real…if they don’t pay it back, hey, they’re still your friend. You just know not to give them [money] again.” (Sharp, 32:36)

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4. Media, Hate, and Living on Camera

[04:37]–[06:23]

• The podcast and social media world is “cutthroat,” with viewers, fans (and haters) quick to turn on creators when they stop producing value or controversy.
• “You gotta have [hate], man. It's like a battery, right? Takes…a positive and negative to make that run.” (Sharp, 05:49)
• “My most viral clips…a positive and a negative battling it out in the comments.” (Sean, 06:02)

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5. Navigating Cancel Culture, Sexual Allegations, and Power Dynamics

[07:19]–[18:52]

• Sharp is blunt about the modern risks facing men in power, especially around women and allegations:
  • “When people were getting famous…every chick’s looking for a bag…now, if you can’t marry them or have a baby, next best thing? Attacks. ‘Oh, he sexually assaulted me…’” (Sharp, 10:05)
  • Critique of how language and legal systems can be weaponized: “Wordplay is what makes shit stick to the ceiling. Words are like wet paper towels, man. We gotta see which one’s gonna stick. Them type of things stick.” (Sharp, 11:32)
  • On high-profile examples (Andrew Tate, Shannon Sharp): often, monetary motivations are hidden behind accusations.
  • “Girls get used to them lifestyles, man…When you got a person sitting there spending a couple hundred thousand on you a month, you get used to that. And then the man say, yeah, he dropped you like a toy. I don't want to play with you anymore.” (Sharp, 18:41)

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6. Self-Reliance and “Victim Mentality”

[22:00]–[23:09]

• Sharp rails against those waiting for a handout or advice from social media:
  • “Too many crybabies, bro. Instead of trying to get the fuck up. That’s why a lot of people probably don’t like to hear me…Get the fuck up off your ass and do something that's gonna benefit and better you. People need to know nobody's coming to your doorstep to save you. Nobody.” (Sharp, 22:00)
  • “People wake up every day and look for social media to tell them how to live…What happened to getting outside and experiencing your own things?” (Sharp, 23:03)

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7. Money Can’t Buy Happiness, Family Over Fortune

[34:24]–[36:53]

• “I’d rather have my family, man, than millions of dollars…That’s one lonely ass man. You ask any multi-millionaire like that for real. That’s one…He’s gonna die a very sad man though. Because money can’t buy everything. It can’t buy happiness.” (Sharp, 34:38)
• On the trap of chasing “stolen moments” with money rather than building real relationships.

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8. Building Yourself First: Best-Friend Mentality and Putting Yourself First

[28:02]–[30:36]; [38:02]–[38:46]

• “Everything starts with you. That’s why I don’t think it’s selfish to put yourself first, Sean.” (Sharp, 28:12)
• “How can I ever help you if I can’t help me?...I could never help you.” (Sharp, 28:37)
• Repeated advice to put yourself before even your girl—“How could you be there for her if you can’t be there for yourself?” (Sharp, 38:11)

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9. Vegas Stories & Life Lessons

[41:13]–[56:36]

• Sharp ranks Vegas women an “8/10,” noting their self-care and the city’s unique dating dynamics. (Sharp, 42:10)
• Critical of men who expect women to be “flown out” without showing independence: “If you can't take care of your own ticket, that says a lot to me…” *(Sharp, 44:36); “Just show me you reach too.” (Sharp, 45:40)
• Cautionary tales about betrayal, including an in-depth story of being robbed by someone he trusted, underlining the importance of intuition and watching people’s entourages.
  “Had [her] for eight months, changed her whole life. She was a little rusty, scraggly looking little…Turned a duck into a swan. And the swan still turned around and acted like a duck.” (Sharp, 55:21)

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

• “Nobody's coming to your doorstep...You gotta get your ass up and get outside and go try to find something for you.” – Sharp, [00:00]
• “Snakes and demons…come in all shapes, colors, forms and sizes.” – Sharp, [04:04]
• "It's like a battery, right? Takes…a positive and negative to make that run.” – Sharp, [05:49]
• “How can I ever help you if I can't help me?” – Sharp, [28:37]
• “Don't ever give something to your family trying to expect that back for real…Our relationship is much bigger than that.” – Sharp, [32:41]
• “Money can't buy everything. It can't buy happiness.” – Sharp, [34:44]
• “Put yourself first before you put anybody anywhere in your life.” – Sharp, [38:02]
• “Had [her] for eight months...Turned a duck into a swan. And the swan still turned around and acted like a duck.” – Sharp, [55:21]

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Timestamps for Important Segments

| Time | Segment / Topic | |------------|------------------------------------------------------| | 00:00–00:45| No one’s coming to save you – personal responsibility| | 03:32–04:37| Spotting fake friends in business | | 05:49–06:23| Hate as fuel in the media/commentary world | | 07:19–18:52| Cancel culture, allegations, power and risks | | 22:00–23:09| Victim mentality vs. action | | 28:02–30:36| Why you must be your own best friend | | 32:06–34:44| Lending money to friends/family – setting boundaries | | 34:44–36:53| Why money can’t buy happiness, the value of family | | 41:13–42:10| Vegas women and dating scene insights | | 54:18–56:36| How Sharp was betrayed and robbed—learning lessons |

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Closing Thoughts

This episode delivers unapologetic life advice and tough love from someone who’s survived—and thrived—through hard lessons. Sharp emphasizes self-awareness, establishing boundaries, and prioritizing personal integrity and intuition in a world quick to exploit kindness or vulnerability. For anyone facing the cutthroat realities of digital culture, business, or modern relationships, his insights are both bracing and thought-provoking.

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Transcript

[A]

People need to know nobody's coming to your doorstep to save you. Nobody. This isn't Publishers Clearinghouse. Nobody's in the neighborhood and they heard you live there and they're coming and bringing you a check. You gotta get your ass up and get outside and go try to find something for you, man. It's not always on social media. People fail to realize that. People are so afraid to leave what they're already standing on. But like, remember, you can always come back to that. Take the leap forward. If you fall backwards, you're back to step one. Okay? You already been there. You know what to expect there. And try it again. Whatever it is that you gotta be, you have to be real to you first. Because at the end of the day, that's what people will look up to you for being, is that you respect yourself first, then others. Yeah, how can they respect you, though, in that aspect if they don't see you respecting yourself?

[B]

All right, guys, got a big one today. We got sharp. We out here in Vegas about to make it happen finally. Been trying to make this happen for a while, man. How you been?

[A]

I've been good, man. How you been?

[B]

I've been busy.

[A]

I see. Man, you said you already did six.

[B]

Or you did six at a. You know how it is with content. You got to be non stop. You're live four hours a day, right?

[A]

Yeah, but it can get draining, you know? I mean, so you got to make sure that you find some time just to unwind, right? I don't, man, literally do nothing. Not phone, not the tv, Nothing, man. Just sit there. Sometimes it's cool, man. I'll just sit on the porch, let the breeze fly by, smoke, cigarette, just think, you know what I mean? Like, I know it might sound simple, but I mean, it's my form of therapy. Yeah, because people be needing some therapy after this, you know what I'm saying? Especially listening. I mean, because when you, when you interview people, right, it's like they, they on something to you. It's like something that you carry now. You know what I'm saying? So I feel like I carry something from every person I've ever interacted with on camera.

[B]

I feel that you definitely pick up a little something from everyone.

[A]

You pick up a little something from everyone. It's like, it's like it carries with you.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Through life, you know, just that little piece of information. Whether it was just like you sitting there listening to the story and you're like, damn. You know, you go home and even think about it, like, I Can't believe I heard that today. You know, it lives with you, man.

[B]

Damn, I didn't know you had that side. You. Because I know you're an extrovert.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

You get in your head a lot.

[A]

Yeah, I mean, I. I feel like I'm my best friend, I'm my worst enemy. I'm my everything, you know what I mean? So I can look in the mirror and say something to myself. But deep down inside, I know that's not true. You get what I'm saying? I know it's not true. I know I'm. I'm only. I'm BSing myself in a sense. I really want to cuss, but I ain't trying to ruin it for you just yet. I'll make sure it goes about good.

[B]

10 minutes, you know. You know how it is.

[A]

I ain't going to ruin it for you.

[B]

You, like, in filming in Vegas though, compared to la, like, what do you like?

[A]

Yeah, I mean, I feel like I got more. I don't want to make it sound crazy, but, like, I feel like I got more control of what I got going on here than I did before.

[B]

I mean, this is what's home for you before, so.

[A]

Yeah, yeah, it was home before, so it's like coming here, it's like a. I feel like I should have never left. For real. I feel like I should have been here the whole time.

[B]

Yeah, I feel like you learned a lot, though, when you did that LA.

[A]

Stuff, you know, definitely that, that's one thing that I could say that I, If I gained anything from it was some experience, you know, I mean, I feel like experience is everything for everybody, so, I mean, if you really care about something, experience should be the, the number one thing that you walk away with other than money, friends, you know, just whatever. Like, you should definitely walk away with that first.

[B]

You ever mix friendship in business?

[A]

Yeah, I have, you know, but I think what happens is you kind of learn as you grow, as you progress, you know, who to do business with as friends and who not to. You know what I mean? Like, there's certain friends in my life. I'm like, okay, I might do this for, but I, I give you some money or like, hey, we can go make some, some little moves here and there, but anything big. I know I can't really go past that with you because I know it's probably not going to pan out, and if I do, I can'. Be upset with that. Right, Because I, I should have knew better. I'm like, nah, that. Just that, that Ain't them. That's not their personality. It's not their character. That's not even how they get down. Right. You mean. So I think I know how. What kind of friends to go into business with. What friends not to, you know, whether age or color doesn't matter. I think I've learned that even in experience of just podcasts and media, you know, it doesn't matter, man. Snakes and demons and all types of. Come in all shapes, colors, forms and sizes, man. So, you know, you just gotta watch.

[B]

Yeah. Snakes are unavoidable in business, dude, man.

[A]

Bro, they everywhere. They suck the life out of you, man. They try to get everything that they possibly can out of you. But I think that's a lot of people these days, though, right? Like, they use you for what they can use you for. And then when they feel like they have no more use for you is when it's kind of like, all right, well, I'm cool. I don't really want to, you know, fuck with you anymore. Yeah, I'm straight. Like, it's. I don't know, it's. This business is tricky, especially podcasting or media. Putting any type of sense of your life on the camera. Yeah.

[B]

Because if you, you stop generating the views for them, they'll just cut you off. Right. It's cutthroat.

[A]

Yeah. The fans, I mean, it's not even. I'm not even talking about like just around with just people immediately. Like, you got people that if you're not doing something that they, they feel like you should be doing, they say they don't watch you, but they still do. Right. Even if it's to come bash you.

[B]

Right.

[A]

Think about it. Like comments and just people like just coming from, from all over. You know what I mean? Like, that's just what they do, man. Like. But I feel like it's a love hate relationship. You got to kind of grow with it if you want to stay in it. I feel like the day I'll be worried is when they stop talking about me all together.

[B]

Facts. You need the hate.

[A]

You gotta have it, man. It's like a battery, right? Takes. What does it take? A positive and negative to make that run.

[B]

I love that.

[A]

I mean, you gotta have that. I mean, without that, it's not.

[B]

That's bars right there.

[A]

I'm just being honest, man.

[B]

My most viral clips are. Yeah, like you said, a positive and a comma and a negative battling it out in the comments.

[A]

You got it. Hey, you gotta have it, man. It's. It's what In a up way, it's what creates you or your presence. You know what I'm saying? What people want to think about you, but really, these people don't know us. They don't know me. Yeah, they think they do, you know, but they only know what they see.

[B]

Absolutely. You ever respond to any of the hate or you kind of just ignored at this point?

[A]

I kind of learned back in the very beginning when I first got into this, I'm like, yeah, I used to get mad because, like, I'm. I'm a human being, bro. Like, we're all people still. At the end of the day, your most famous person can have a crash out. You know, I'm saying crash out moment or, you know, be sick or need some help mentally or whatever. But people expect them because they have all this money, all this fame. You're supposed to act this way. You're not allowed to be normal, even though there's no such thing as normal. But you're not supposed. You're not allowed to be how they are. They can have all these episodes and all this extra go on. Whether it's domestic violence is all that. You don't hear about that. Let a famous person scratch a person, man, they're in court for months, and it's all on camera. It's being talked about and bashed, and they're getting humiliated. And all this extra, man, I don't get it.

[B]

Yeah, I saw what you said about R. Kelly. You wanted a lighter sentence for him, right? He was in the media.

[A]

I feel like this for R. Kelly. Did he do a lot of that? Yeah, he did. I'm sure he did. I'm sure he did a lot of it, but I'm like, if you're gonna put him in jail, why aren't the parents in jail? The parents were the ones that were cool with all that. And then go him taking him to their house. I mean, come on, man. He's sitting there wearing matching Mickey Mouse sweaters with Aaliyah on the couch. I mean, it wasn't in people's face back then. It lets me know that, yeah, I might not have been around back then or in that type of air watching that. But it goes to show that, hey, it was in people's faces and nobody was saying anything. So what's the. What's the issue today? Why is it so heavy? Why is the boot coming down so hard now? Is it because he's not willing to pay those people anymore, those families? You know, I'm sure there was agreements, you know, when people get a little bit, what do they do? They always come back and get more because they feel like they can, right? That's why I always tell. Like, I always say this. When you. You give somebody some money, any of these celebrities, when you give one of these people that want some money from you, just off the rip, you just opened up the door for that for a lifetime. Because they're always going to come back if they know they can get it from you. Once they know they can get it twice, three times, and so on facts, you know what I mean? So it would probably be best for you just to fight it. The first rip, they're gonna have to take it. You know what I mean? You. Because once you. Isn't it like an admission of guilt, don't you think? I think when you kind of be like, here, man, just, here's the money. No, y' all gonna have to make me give it up. Don't have to make me give it up. I'm not just about to give it up like that and just. I'll. That we'll go to court. You'll take it that way. I'm not just gonna sit there and just settle out, because that shows that I'm. I'm admitting to some of the things I did. Obviously, I did something. You know what I mean? And they're going to start looking at it like, oh, well, something stems from the. That's stem from a truth, right?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I just feel like it opens up a Pandora box that you don't want to open up.

[B]

Does that ever scare you? Like what Shannon Sharp went through, what Andrew Tate went through with the previous girl in the past, coming for money in the future. Does that ever scare you? Now that you're famous, you're not scared of it?

[A]

You know why?

[B]

Why?

[A]

Because everybody already knew where I came from from the beginning. So it's like, why even. How you gonna throw that on me? That's like calling the kettle black. You know what I'm saying? Come on, dog. Like, if you really think about it, right, it's like, well, nobody ever lets me forget where I come from, so let's not try to forget it now. You know what I mean? Like, I mean, people are going to say what they want to say. Shouldn't chicks be staying far away from me? I thought, right, so what's the problem? Seems like I'm dolo. I'm just doing my own thing, and I'm sitting here podcasting with you, Sean.

[B]

Respect, dude. A lot of guys. A lot of guys Worry about that these days, dude, so respect.

[A]

Listen, I get why though. I understand why I get why a lot of people worry about it is because, and I've said this before, if you think about it, man, and I want you to really dig deep with me here. See, when people were getting famous, every chick's looking for a bag. It used to be, you know, let's have a baby. You can get money that way. You can get money by marriage. You know what I'm saying? Let's get money. A chick can get some money that way. Guys have gotten smarter to where it's like, okay, well, I ain't about to have a baby with you and I'm definitely not about to marry you without a prenup or whatever the case may be. Right. What's the next best thing? Attacks. Oh, well, he sexually assaulted me. He sexually assaulted me for 14 years. Or he did this to me, he did that to me. It's like they have to have a go to somewhere, man. And I'm not saying some of these stories aren't real, but we can't kind of tell that some of them are being kind of, you know, pussy footed. Some, like, just because they know it's a big topic. And if, you know, you put the R word on somebody or you put those type of allegations on him, it looks a little nastier.

[B]

Yep.

[A]

You know what I mean? It doesn't sound as bad when I just say, hey man, I'm just pimping some around the corner, you know, it don't sound too up, right? It's like, hey man, you just pimping some around the corner.

[B]

It's not as bad as the R word, but.

[A]

But when you got somebody sit there and say, well, they're sex trafficking now, it's a problem.

[B]

Right?

[A]

You get what I'm saying? They got to just learn the word play. Wordplay is what makes shit stick to the ceiling. Words are like wet paper towels, man. We gotta see which one's gonna stick. Them type of things stick. They know how to form different words now to certain man, you know what I mean? And that's why I feel like you even see like sex trafficking coming onto, like, you know what I'm saying, Diddy? And people like that, like, think about it, like really, if you really look at it, it's like, bro, he was just a freaky. Okay, yeah, he was throwing sex parties, he's doing all that type of. Granted, I'm not taking away like whatever happened. But if you, you really look at it, they had to go put sexual alley, like has to be some type of trafficking. Somebody has to sound like they were getting hurt or pushed past their means. That's the only way that be sticking.

[B]

Right?

[A]

You know what I mean? So that's why when I even look at that, and even for, you know, when you got your mans and I love old unk, you know what I'm saying? I really do. I love, I love, man, I love Shannon Sharp to death. But we all seen that coming. He start hitting for a bag on the podcast, he start having some more money than just them checks that he was getting from espn. Me and you both know if you can do good in this, you could see a handsome bag. Yep, you could definitely see a handsome bag. You know what I mean?

[B]

So there was rumors he was getting a hundred million dollar bag for the pod that week that the allegations came out.

[A]

He was, he was, I'm sure that he was. I'm sure he was getting a hundred thousand, hey, listen, man, I'm sure he was getting a hundred thousand reasons of why they accept it for a hundred million dollars. People were coming to him, man, you're about to, man, take it. That's what you need to do. Get away from espn. I'm sure he had a hundred thousand people around him like, man, this is going to be the bag for you, man. That girl wasn't happy about that, straight up. Because you know why? It was about to grow without her. Hold on, baby, you just were the bus down. No offense to her. She was just a bus down game. I mean, it sounds like was just getting his freak on with her. There's, there's nothing against the law, people having sex, man. Like, when did this, when did this start to become a problem? You know, am I, am I tripping? When did, like, it's almost embarrassing, right, to sit there and have a girl talk about her sexual encounters, but she'll do it for some money. Girls used to, man, when I was growing up, girls always say, I, I, you know, you can't kiss and tell. You know what I'm saying? These girls are kissing and can't wait to tell. They can't wait to tell. Like, what? It's already in a plan. It's already been planned before she even starts messing with you, man.

[B]

Crazy.

[A]

You know, it's not like, I'll tell you what, man, it's not like you can go outside anymore or, you know, like you used to and just meet a girl and be like, she really liked me for me. I'm saying a little Frizzy hair and your little glasses. You know what I'm saying? Like, you know, and you, you'll be like, man, this girl really liked me. Now you got to kind of worry about what's coming your way because of what you possess, right? You know what I'm saying? And what can. You know I'm saying? So not everybody's intentions is going to be pure. Yes. You definitely have to watch for that. You know, people love to turn people that are, you know, look good into the public eye and make them look real up, you know? I mean, make them look like, man. Because they're like, yeah, I know. People aren't used to seeing them like this, so here. They're gonna believe this. She gotta watch who you deal with, man.

[B]

Yeah, you gotta watch out, man. Well, that girl that settled with Shannon, she just announced her retirement yesterday from Only Fans, so she must have got a bag.

[A]

I'm sure she did. That was the plan all along. Let me tell you something, man, okay? Some of these girls do not give them that much of the benefit of the doubt. They're not all attempting to grow a brain and just, oh, yeah, this is what I'm gonna do. They got people around them telling them, do you know who that is that you're with? You better be trying to get your money straight up. Like, quick. Like, you gotta think about that. There's people around that do that, right? Like, you know what I'm saying? They're seeing, like, hey, you know, you've been kicking it with this little white girl. Probably don't even know who this is. She just saying, man, it's just an old little black. I don't know. He was just sitting at the bar and he popped at me. No, you need to talk to him. That's Whoopi. Whoop. That's Shannon Sharp. You know what I mean? So it's kind of like you gotta. You gotta watch how some of these chicks, man, they're. They're made to do that, like, from friends or people that just know them. I mean. Oh, oh, Shannon. I'll tell you what, bro, if I was you, just, hey, man, keep doing what you're doing. Even if he wants to keep fucking with little white chicks like that, I'm not mad at him. Keep doing what you're doing. He ain't did nothing wrong. This just a girl that got pissed off. Girls get mad every damn day and want something. Don't mean that they should get it just because they're saying it, you know? I'll ask you this. How many times. How many sexual encounters do you have to have with a woman before? It's not considered the R word anymore? Because he had. He had sex with this girl over a hundred times.

[B]

Damn.

[A]

What is it? 101. 102. When does it turn consensual? Of, like, okay, you might have been messing with me. She had over a hundred sexual encounters with Shannon Sharp.

[B]

That's a lot.

[A]

That's a lot. And for it to just kind of be thrown to the rug, like, oh, well, she could still throw these allegations out. No, it just sounds like y' all just want to hear the. This people are freaky. They want to hear it too. Like, oh, what were y' all doing? It's like a turn on to them, dog. It makes them blush on the inside.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You know, they're like, man, I. What were you guys doing again? Like, you tell us all. Tell the world. You know what I mean? Like, man, they obviously were with each other for a little while, you know? I mean, I'm just being honest. Like, how many times do you. When does it turn consensual? This man had sex with her 100 times. 101. 120. What are we talking about here?

[B]

I feel like it's way low. I feel like it's two to three.

[A]

I'm with that. I don't understand how you can go back and keep seeing your rapist.

[B]

Yeah. 100 times.

[A]

I don't understand that. Or somebody who's sexually attacking you. I don't see that. And then these people be like, oh, well, they're very powerful people. At the end of the day, these niggas are still niggas. You can call the state police and they gonna come get there. They don't care who they is. Oh, you say they was doing that to you, I'll bet. But I feel like people leave that in the bag. Like, I'm gonna use this against them. Don't even trip when I can't get what I want, or they're not listening to me no more. This is what I'm gonna do. And I feel like for a lot of women, what's the. What's the one thing that they have to invest the most into any situation? That's time. And they. And I get it. A lot of women don't want their time. You know, you can't get that back. So a lot of women get kind of bitter and feel like, well, I can at least get compensated for that. You can at least give me some money and they'll say whatever they got to say for it. Because if you ever heard some of these chicks truths of why they're doing this to people, it'll. It'll be astonishing. It'll be amazing to hear what they're really mad about. For real. Well, he's messing with another girl or he's not doing this for me like he used to. You know, these girls get used to them lifestyles, man. When you got a person sitting there spending a couple hundred thousand on you a month, you get used to that. And then the man say, yeah, he dropped you like a toy. I don't want to play with you anymore.

[B]

It's crazy.

[A]

It'll mess with anybody mind, I would think.

[B]

So what do you think the approach is for guys? I mean, it's scary dating right now. Scary hooking up with girls.

[A]

I mean, use your hand, you know, I mean, as. I know, as cliche as it may sound like, I guess there's really no escaping it because you know, men want pussy and girls know that.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You know what I'm saying? So I guess it's really never no escape in that. That's why I feel like you even got some of the most craziest looking little hood boogers running around, right? No, for real, you do. You got all these little hood boogers running around and these bitches act like they shit don't stink. And it's like you can't really knock her because somebody's going to want to fuck with her. Men can't necessarily run around acting like that, you know what I'm saying? You're not really gonna get the action that you're looking for. You know, you kind of do have to hold some type of maturity to yourself and it seems like men have to have to hold the standard of being more mature than a lot of women do these days, you know what I'm saying? Because it's like they can go out, slap down, throw, do all types of, and still keep partying in the club like ain't nothing happened. Soon as these get nose to nose, they both gotta leave. Facts, they both gotta leave. You both gotta get the up out of here. And you're both 86. Don't come back. Hell, you could have been just trying to break it up. Yeah, you can't come back neither. What? I was just trying to help break this up. Yeah, you can't come back neither. You was a part of it. That's how they looking at it.

[B]

Yep.

[A]

You know what I mean? So it's like when you really look at the situation, man. It's. It's just up out here. These chicks, they don't really want to do nothing, bro, besides eat hot chips and lie and try to wrap their chargers around. They phone to make the charger work because it ain't working right. You know what I'm saying? Trying to get some juice. Me, I'm like, baby, I got the juice for you already. All you got to do is just listen. And that's what I do, even on my pod, bro. And, like, when I'm speaking to anybody, I don't ever try to tell them, Sean, how to go do anything that I did. I just want you to do what you're great at for you and be the best, whatever you like. Turn that into a love. Everything has growth. You might not start out loving some shit, but if you like it, try it, you know? Yeah, I really believe in that, man. I do.

[B]

No, I. Without advice, because a lot of people doing jobs they hate, you know, it's miserable how long.

[A]

Hey, man, I'm sure there's people all around the world right now, man, that's doing jobs that they hate. But it's like, when are you going to take that step further and say, you know what? I'm gonna make the sacrifice and I'm gonna get away from this, and I'm gonna go try something? What's the worst that can happen? You can always come back to step one. People fail to realize that. People are so afraid to leave what they're already standing on. But, like, remember, you can always come back to that. You know what I mean? Take the leap forward. If you fall backwards, you're back to step one. Okay. You already been there. You know what they expect there, and try it again.

[B]

Yep.

[A]

You know what I mean? Yeah.

[B]

Yeah. At least you tried it. You won't have regrets on your deathbed.

[A]

Too many crybabies out here.

[B]

A lot of victim mentality. Yeah, man.

[A]

Too many crybabies, bro. Instead of trying to get the up. That's why a lot of people probably don't like to hear me all the time, but I implement it constantly. Get the up off your ass and do something that's gonna benefit and better. You people need to know nobody's coming to your doorstep to save you. Nobody. Nobody. This isn't Publishers Clearinghouse. Nobody's in the neighborhood, and they heard you live there and they're coming and bringing you a check. You got to get your ass up and get outside and go try to find something for you, man. It's not always on social media. It might not always be there. And that's the sad part is because people wake up every day and look for social media to tell them how to live. They do. They wake up, first thing they do. You ain't even brushed your funky ass mouth. And you grab your phone and you get online and. And you get on your Instagram and you start scrolling. You start. You. You. You're looking for Instagram to tell you how to live today. What happened to getting outside and finding and experiencing your own things? Nobody does that anymore. Everybody's going off of what they see online.

[B]

Dude, I get a hundred. I'm sure you get this too. I get a hundred messages a day of people asking me for shit. It's nuts. Blows my mind. I've never done that.

[A]

If I show you my cash app, and how many people, like, man, request money because I do giveaways or something, I'll give away like 6, 7, 800 bucks. Or, you know, just like little raffles. I'll do little and make sure everybody's, you know, I'm saying, touching some dough because I care. You know what I mean? Like, here, man, we'll. I'll share some of it with you, you know? And it just seems like after you do stuff like that, people take advantage of it. And then they try to. Now they're asking, hey, man, I've had a guy request $10,000. Geez, 10,000 bucks. Talking about sharp. I know you got it. Just look out for me. I'm like, bruh, I would never do this to nobody. I would never ask. I don't even know how people even have the pride to even do that, even if it's a joke. It's like, damn, you that childish.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I mean, but some people really be in my. My cash app, bro. Like, man, mother of five, you don't know these people. You don't know if anybody's telling the truth or not, you know? But people be on there just asking for money. I'm like, I could never just ask. Like, hey, man, can I. Can I get 3, 400 bucks? 500 bucks? It's like, damn, it's that easy for you to ask. If you can ask for that, you can go ask for a job. For real. If you can ask for 500 bucks, a thousand bucks. If you can ask for that, you could really ask for the job you like or anything of that nature. You know what I mean? Like, I just. I don't get people no more, man. This is crazy. And, you know, they Always try to bash like myself, but I'm really one of the people that's kept the world going around, kept it a better place, kept it a safe place.

[B]

Is that your main goal? With your content?

[A]

Yeah. You know, think about it, man. Even me pimping, I've kept a lot of husbands from going home whooping on their wives. You know, go get his rocks off. He get to come home and he can listen to her. Cooley. You know, trust me, every. Everything on this planet has a purpose, bro. It's not just here for nothing. That's the problem with people. They always look at every. Like, even as a hiroch. You step on it, you kill it. Right? It's a roach. But that little motherfucker's here for a reason. It does something. Something, you know? I mean, bees, pollinator, do whatever the. They do everything does what it's supposed to do. You get what I mean?

[B]

Yeah, yeah.

[A]

It ain't. Long story short is where I'm at with it. It's like we all. Everybody's got a purpose, man. You gotta find it. Find yours.

[B]

Yeah. A lot of guys can't find theirs right now.

[A]

Why do you think that is?

[B]

A lot of misdirection. Social media, a lot of people copying each other. They're not actually being themselves. You know what I mean? Looking up to the wrong people, that's.

[A]

Well, it's easy to. It's easy to get lost in the sauce when it's you and you're surrounded by a bunch of people that are doing stuff like that. You, you, you'll. You will naturally. You, you will naturally just inherit or just, you know, just take on their traits. Just being around that every day, like, even myself, like being around media. I'm not trying to be. To like, motherfuckers know who I am. They know how I am, but I'm not trying to be too. You know what I'm saying? Dumb that shit down. Kind of trying to bring it down to their level a little bit, you know what I mean? And then you find yourself kind of stuck in that a little bit, you know? And then you don't see it until you get out of it. Like, damn, I was kind of doing that. I don't normally do.

[B]

Right.

[A]

You know what I mean?

[B]

Yeah, yeah. So, yeah, your friend group's super important. Friend group's hell and everything, right?

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Are you your best friend? I'm my best friend.

[B]

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[A]

Too.

[B]

That's an interesting question. Am I my best friend? I mean, yeah. I trust myself the most out of anyone, so.

[A]

Dam. Let me get some ice.

[B]

Yeah. I would say, yes, you're your best friend. Is that good or no?

[A]

I think that's amazing. I think that's amazing, right? Because how could you ever be a friend to anybody if you wasn't a friend to you first? Everything starts with you. Everything, man. That's why I don't. I don't think it's selfish to put yourself first, Sean.

[B]

You don't think so? Even before your girl, before your family?

[A]

Yep, absolutely.

[B]

That's interesting.

[A]

Absolutely. How can I ever help you if I can't help me? You know what I'm saying? If I can't help me genuinely, I can never genuinely help you ever in life. I could never help you.

[B]

No, I think that's great advice. A lot of people don't work on themselves first.

[A]

No, there's no way I can ever help you. I can't never tell you nothing and my shit ain't together.

[B]

Right?

[A]

Even a little bit in that department. How can I ever genuinely steer you in any type of direction as a true, genuine friend? Honestly.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

That does you no justice.

[B]

Yeah, you're right, dude.

[A]

Right.

[B]

A lot of people just don't work on themselves. Let's be honest, Sean.

[A]

I'd rather tell you. If you ever called me and been like, sharp, I got this. This problem, whatever, right? I'd rather tell you like, Sean, I ain't never been there before, but my shit's up in that situation. I can't tell you where to go, but everybody will try to tell you. And it's like, man, you can't do that to him, man. That's robbing your friend. That's not even being a friend.

[B]

Facts.

[A]

It's not being a friend, man.

[B]

People got opinions on everything.

[A]

Yeah, but know you first. Like, know what you want. How you can be a friend to you is where I'm at with it. For we veer off too far. Like, just be a friend to yourself first. Maybe for. You can be a friend to anybody. A brother, a dad, you know what I'm saying? An uncle, a cousin, whatever it is that you gotta be. You have to be real to you first. Because at the end of the day, that's what people will look up to you for being, is that you respect yourself first, then others.

[B]

Yeah. Where do you put family in the mix? You do. You put them before friends.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Family.

[A]

Yeah. Family, for sure. Family first, man. Even if you don't got the best relationships with them or you do got the best relationships with them. If they call, answer.

[B]

Damn.

[A]

I just. That's how I believe, okay? If they call you. If they call you answer. Even if it's uncomfortable, you know what I'm saying? Because sometimes, hey man, that shit's important. You never know. That might be the last time you ever talk to them. You don't know what they calling you for, you know what I'm saying? So even if you're missing, it's probably best for you to call them back. Just see what's going on.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

Everything's a conversation away.

[B]

Yeah, I agree with that. We probably disagree on family though.

[A]

Why?

[B]

I think just because they're blood related doesn't mean they should be put first. You know, Some of them aren't supporting you, some of them talk about you.

[A]

Right. Well, I guess that goes back to friends. You just know where to put them. It doesn't stop them from being your family though.

[B]

Right.

[A]

You know what I'm saying? Like, nobody's saying get on the phone and give them ten grand. But if they need you to talk to or they need you to just. Hey, man, just. Just be there. Just some time. Whatever. A set boundary. I think that's the problem with family. Family don't ever set the boundary. Like, they know if I'm sitting there, crack down, you my cousin. I know I can keep calling you to get $80, $100. You not shutting it down. You gotta shut that down and be like, look, I'm not giving you that, but if you need Something to eat. You need somewhere to go lay your head real quick. You need somewhere to kind of like just regroup. I'm here for you, right? I mean, people only start feeling used when they feel like things are getting taken from them. Stop letting your people take from you. And I feel like that's what happens in a lot of families. They just take from each other. You know what I mean? Like, instead of setting boundaries with one another, you gotta. That's what I'm saying. How can they respect you, though, in that aspect if they don't see you respecting yourself?

[B]

No, you're right.

[A]

It always come back to you.

[B]

I don't do loans anymore. Especially the friends and family, man. It just ruins friendships.

[A]

You had bad. You had bad situations with that.

[B]

I'm like 0 for 6. Yeah. I don't think I've ever gotten a loan payback.

[A]

You know what's so cold? I'm gonna tell you this. That's. You should have learned from probably the first or second one. It's okay to make a mistake.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

But just learn when you. If you give anybody, your family, friends. I don't give. If I give him some money, homie, if he don't give, I'm not expecting it back. You gotta give it already. Not expecting it back. Damn.

[B]

Really?

[A]

That's the only way you're probably gonna get it back? I'm saying that's the only way you're gonna get it back.

[B]

Wow.

[A]

I'm saying don't expect it back. Don't ever give something to your family. Trying to expect that back for real. Like, even if you did. Like, hey, they know they're supposed to give it back to you in your heart. Don't hold them accountable for it. It's money, okay? It's money. Y' all relationship much bigger than that. And you know what? To make them pay you back is by showing that, hey, our relationship's bigger than that. So when they see that respect and that you're respecting it, it forces them to respect the same. Damn. And if not, they're a sucker. And they're gonna weasel their way out any way because they can't take your truth. People don't want to feel that love. That love is like. It makes them feel weird when you move like that. Like when you be like, well, my relationship with you is way bigger than that money. So, you know it's either gonna make them pay you back or they're just not gonna mess with you no more. They'll get out your hair naturally.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You won't even have to say anything. You won't even have to break a sweat or stress. I promise.

[B]

All right, next time I'll try that.

[A]

Try that. When you give it, do it because you had it to do and you did it out the kindness of your heart, I'm saying. And let them. And like in anything like let them know that. And if they don't pay it back, hey, they're still your friend. You just know not to give them. That's how we get out. We listen. If black folks did that, how you saying like just we be some lonely. Cause I ain't no hell of. I done gave some too, Devin. You probably did too. That where a never just. You never got it back. But I never stopped being a people. I just know when a nigga come back, try to get some old nigga. You still owe me some nigga. I'm not playing.

[B]

Damn you don't let that ruin the friendship though.

[A]

You can't. That's paper. We're alive. Those are called dead presidents. That paper is dead.

[B]

You don't think money is super important though?

[A]

Money is. Listen, money makes the world go round, of course, but your man just family having land. I'd rather have my family. I'd rather have my family, man.

[B]

Than millions of dollars.

[A]

Than millions of dollars.

[B]

Damn. That's impressive.

[A]

And millions of dollars.

[B]

That's impressive.

[A]

That's 1A. That's 1 Sad lonely ass man. You ask any multi millionaire like that for real. That's one. I know it. I can feel it. I just. I see it. That's one lonely man. He might got all the money in the world. He going, he's gonna die a very sad man though. Because money can't buy everything. It can't buy happiness.

[B]

You don't think it can.

[A]

It can't buy. Listen to me. You're buying. Even if you went and bough, right, It's a. It's a. It's a. For a second, it's a stolen moment, right? You're. You're buying stolen moments. You understand what I'm saying?

[B]

Stolen moments.

[A]

You're buying stolen moments. It's just for a minute.

[B]

It's temporary.

[A]

It's temporary, man. It's not because they're only here because of the money, right? Or for what you can give them at the time. So of course I'm going to tell you they love you. Of course they're going to tell you they with you. Of course they're going to tell you they're never leaving because they're Gaining something. You ask them just to be there for you. They're going to walk out. Them and the maids. They're walking out with the maids. That about a. You didn't even hire him at the same time. You know what I mean? Like, they're walking out.

[B]

Let me ask you this.

[A]

It's a stolen moment because you have.

[B]

Money now and you've been broke in the past. Wouldn't you say you're happier right now?

[A]

More money, more problems. You know, I miss like I grind, I hustle every day. But like I miss that, like that struggle sitting like, you know what I'm saying? Like my people's house are like coming from off the trap. Like we playing the game. Niggas hustling like everybody trying to get somewhere together. It's like when you already got it.

[B]

It'S like, what's to do the grind, the come up.

[A]

Like, what's it do? Like, yeah, I'm. What is there to do? You know what I mean?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Maybe some of your friends don't got what you got. So it's like you call them, you want to do something with them. It's either you pay for it or they'd be like, man, I gotta kind of wait to get some dough up real quick so I can go make that move. So you kind of find yourself by yourself anyway if you try to make moves with money. So the money ain't gonna really matter. If that makes sense.

[B]

No, it does. The come up's always the. The most.

[A]

That was my most funnest time of all this 100.

[B]

When founders sell their companies are depressed. As for hundreds.

[A]

Lonely at the top, bro.

[B]

Yup. So no, I heard that.

[A]

I heard that it's lonely at the top game.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I'm sure you like, I ain't saying you alone, but I'm sure you alone. Even probably mentally. Like people probably don't understand what you deal with.

[B]

My circle's small these days.

[A]

Yeah. And like I'm. I'm sure even they kind of. They don't know what you have to deal with.

[B]

Right.

[A]

What comes with this, you know what I'm saying? And having to sit at this chair and like do this. Not everybody will ever experience that feeling. So to tell you what the to do or how you should move in, like, hey, I get it, man. Like you do you man.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Do your thing. And that's why I told you, like, go do some things that just benefit you for a minute because ain't nobody going to understand you sometimes but you. Especially in this no, thank you. I wasn't too tongue tied.

[B]

No, you're good. That's good advice because I'm a. I used to be a big people pleaser, bro.

[A]

Yeah, you can't be that. Yeah, can't be that, bro. That ain't going to work for you.

[B]

To burn me out.

[A]

It'll burn you the fuck out. Hey, you ain't even do not one thing for yourself.

[B]

Nothing, bro. For everyone before me.

[A]

Yeah, you can't do that no more. You got to put yourself first. That's why I told you, put yourself first before you put anybody anywhere in your life.

[B]

Even your girl.

[A]

Even your girl. How could you be there for her if you can't be there for yourself? I wouldn't want my girl to want me. Like, you ain't there for yourself too much. I quit this. I don't even see you there for yourself. How many girls ever say, like, how could you be there for me? And you're not there for you? Like, I don't see you doing anything for yourself. She leaves you anyway. Better off doing what you need to do, right or wrong.

[B]

No, you right.

[A]

You're like a therapist, bro. It's like you're writing on these. You're writing all this on this paper when you got theses to this or something? Like, what's it.

[B]

These are clips. You're about to go viral, man.

[A]

I'm. I'm just keeping it a band, man. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't want to be on your show capping or, you know, my mind runs at a million miles an hour. I'm just. I'm full of game. I don't know how to let it out.

[B]

I like this version of you because you're not bringing up any drama. Like, this is just pure raw.

[A]

No, there's no, there's no drama to bring up. I'm respecting everything I've went through as experience. Like we were talking about earlier when we brought up la, and we brought it up briefly, I was like, yeah, the best thing that I got out of the whole situation, being there for two weeks, two years, was the experience, the seat time, you know, hey, if anything, man, I. I thank my previous people that I was with. Hey, man, I learned a lot. I was able to, you know, sit down, do what I needed to do to learn my craft, you know what I mean? Even though people were probably trying to shun it in the end and trying to downplay it and laugh at it, that. That's cool, you know? I mean, but I still appreciate it. Anyway.

[B]

Yeah, there was a lot of people trying to divide you guys for sure, right? Yeah, I saw a lot of videos on it. Crazy, man. People love that beef, like that Internet beef, But I don't want to build a brand on that. It's not sustainable.

[A]

It won't last long if you're just.

[B]

Beefing every week with a new person.

[A]

I mean, how long does that last? Like, you can't keep it up. You. You couldn't. It would turn into straight entertainment at that point, because you would have to be trying to create some type of propaganda weekly.

[B]

That's what shows do, though.

[A]

You. Yeah, I mean, that's what they do. They got people that are sitting there writing scripts for that, man. It just sounds. That sounds draining to me. Yeah.

[B]

You hitting the clubs out here a lot in Vegas?

[A]

Yeah, I'll be outside, man.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I'll go to Dre's. I go to. I'm saying the Beach Club over me. I'm saying go to the Win. I do all that, man. I'll be outside. I just try to keep it minimal because, like, you know, I move around by myself, so, you know, I try to, like. I try to make sure I pick and choose. I. I don't just try to sit and just be outside every night, because when you're outside every night and you. And there's. You're just out to be out, trouble come your way. You know what I'm saying? Just trying to be outside every night now, if there's something to do, there's a. There's somewhere to go, somewhere we can be. It's already laid out. I'm cool with that. You know what I mean? But just to be outside. Just to be outside, man. I did that shit for. For years. I ain't got that in me no more, bro. My feet beat.

[B]

Got to be selective.

[A]

My feet beat, bro. I've been up and down this strip on me, every square footage of this since a kid.

[B]

You ever get sick of Vegas?

[A]

I can say I did and shout out to Vegas. Shout out to Las Vegas. I love y' all to death. I could say I do, but I can move anywhere, and I'll always find myself back in the city or keeping a house in the city. So, like, I love Vegas.

[B]

Like, it's hard to beat.

[A]

I never. I always have something in Vegas, like this. A piece of my heart. So you know what I'm saying? I don't think I ever not. I mean, I've been here all my life.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Yeah.

[B]

Where do you rank the girls out here. Compared to other cities.

[A]

They'Re pretty fly. I ain't gonna lie, man. We got some clean girls. Like what I mean by that is like, you know, we got some. Like this is Vegas. So like I. I've been, I've traveled Miami, I've done Atlanta, I've done Texas, I've. I've done all the cities, man. I ain't gonna lie to you, I've done a lot of. And I'll tell you what, Vegas. I'd have to give us for our chicks a solid eight.

[B]

Damn.

[A]

Yeah, for sure.

[B]

That's hot.

[A]

Yeah, because they. You know why? Because just they hygiene be right, you know. Or she got. She at least got a corner a spot out here, you know what I'm saying? Like chicks can really move around around here. They look good, they take care of themselves, you know. And especially in a day. These days we got. We live in a cloud chasing world or chicks chasing an image. I'm saying. So it's easy for a chick to just coolly obtain their image here, you know what I mean? Like when you think about it, you get some of them chicks that come from down south or from the east coast, you know. And they stay in these. They're from these small little cities, right? From other places, you know. They might be the baddest over there in their area because there's only two or three of them. When you come out here, baby, you competing with 50000 you. There's 50, 60000 of your ass out and around. This boy moving look just the same, if not better. And she realized she got AC in her car. I'm just saying her like it's blowing snowballs. So it's like, you know.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Damn.

[B]

Vegas had an eight. That's hard.

[A]

I get Vegas eight. I get Vegas eight on the chicks, straight up.

[B]

Most guys say it sucks out here, but okay, eight, man.

[A]

It's because they don't have no game to move. None of these chicks, man, these chicks don't be giving a. You gotta have some like, listen, man, you. Because out here you can't just run your mouth like chicks want to see a man with some motion, you know what I'm saying? And doing something, taking care of his business, you know. It's crazy how, how motherfuckers could say that. And the chicks out here are like four to one to dudes. There's more girls that live in Las Vegas than there is men.

[B]

Damn. Yeah, I didn't know that. Yeah, four to one.

[A]

Holy at least three to one for sure. Damn.

[B]

Yeah, I haven't been up to Dre's.

[A]

Yet, but think about this. How many? Okay, here you go. Here's one for you. And I'm not saying guys don't get together and get tables, but you ever notice there's always groups of chicks together out here? Yeah, going to the club, always. Might be three foe or something from time to time, but like, man, there's always a group of eight chicks or more. 12 chicks or more. These chicks get together, boy, go outside, man, in packs. If it was so hard. Like I was gonna say 3 to 1, 4 to 1. If it's so hard, why are these girls moving around here in packs, man? Not to mention you got chicks coming from out of town with all their homegirls. Girl trip. It gravitates them here.

[B]

What do you think of guys that fly the girls out to hang out?

[A]

But I think about guys that fly them out.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I mean, that's their business.

[B]

You do that too?

[A]

Do I do it?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I mean, I ain't flew anybody out.

[B]

You've definitely done it before.

[A]

Nah, I don't fly anybody out. They fly themselves.

[B]

Okay.

[A]

Hey, I'm no disrespect to them. I'm saying, like, they respected enough. I'm not saying I won't make sure she get a couple drinks somewhere she get here or. You know what I'm saying? If you need a spot to stay in, hey, if you gotta come stay with me, cool. But yeah, like, if you can't take care of your own ticket. That says a lot to me. And I ain't even mad at you. Just get to me when you can. You don't have to be a rush.

[B]

Get your bag up.

[A]

Not even, hey, in a respectful way. That's a respectful way of saying, hey, baby. Cause obviously you're not in position to take a trip, no way. You get what I'm saying? So let's get your situation together, and then maybe we can make that type of move. Because I don't want us to have a sorry time. I don't want you to have a sorry time, you know? So, I mean, it just shows me the caliber of chick that she is. I don't mind reaching. Just show me you reach, too. Does that make sense?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Like, just show me that you're reaching too. Like in the situation that you care enough to be here as much as I want you here. You know what I'm saying? We can always play, I'm saying equal. Equal standpoint. Because you ain't my chick. So like, hey, I ain't no broke ass. So like, hey, we cool, baby. Hey, do your thing. Yeah, I'm gonna do mine. Hey, we're cool. We need to eat some, drink some. Hey, we can both do it. It's nothing. It shouldn't. I don't want to argue over money that you grab it or I grab it, either one. It doesn't matter. You know what I'm saying? Let's not make it awkward over money or who's flying somebody out. Just do it naturally. Let's not let. Because I feel like that's what steps in the way of the meet and greet. It's, oh, well, who's paying for this? Who's doing that? You know what I'm saying? Rich people ain't doing that. Everybody just going, where the they going?

[B]

You right.

[A]

Chick a flyer ass to Belize to come see you. She don't care. She just want to be around you. She really want to. With you. She gonna. With you. I don't. I don't get the. The problem.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You get what I'm saying? I really don't get that issue with it. No.

[B]

Put in a little effort, but in.

[A]

A little effort, and I promise you, it's gonna build the camaraderie together. You know what I'm saying? Like, okay, I can really respect her because she seemed like she a chick that's taking care of her and vice versa, as she's running to me, hey, I look like I'm a. That's just taking care of his. You ain't got to give me nothing, baby. No, I like go around, we go kick it. We could chill some nachos, some laughs, some sushi, whatever you want it. That's cool. Whatever. But let's. I'm saying, I just want to make sure that, you know, I'm with a chick of value, you know what I'm saying, that values herself. Let me see how you move, how you take care of yourself. This could have been your seventh trip this month. I paid for it. Could have been you get what I'm saying? It's gonna be your seventh trip this month. Just coming out, just with giving them some. I like you, you know, no broke woman for you. Giving them smile like you. I mean, she shouldn't want to be broke herself, right? Yeah, she shouldn't want to be broke herself, bro. She ain't trying to save me, and I damn sure can't save her.

[B]

You let him sleep at your spot, though.

[A]

You said I would. I mean, if we've been chopping it up and I with you, I ain't just trying to with. Listen to me, man. Like, if I with her and I've been talking to him because I ain't just saying somebody just overnight. But I mean, I keep a spot for that. Like, don't. I keep spots for that. I've had spots for the. Hey, man, this. This right here is just the spot where I kick it at, I come chill at, you know, And I still have a whole separate house.

[B]

Okay. I thought you meant in your crib. No. Yeah, you're good.

[A]

I mean, it is my crib. To me, they all my. So it's like home is all home to me. I just keep a spot to where like, hey, I ain't really tripping. Like, it ain't nothing like that. You know what I mean? I don't got nothing that's in harm's way. I don't got jewelry or money and laying around. I don't have to worry about nothing. Everything's just cool and just plush, you know? I mean, plus, I don't. I. I got a good intuition. I don't with little bum ass, little thirsty ass faggy maggies neither. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. So I don't really got that problem. Like, I've never felt that. Like, I don't know if I can trust this. Unless like autumn me and my partners or something like how to move a and came to the hotel room or something. I'll make a wait somewhere and like, I lock my jewelry up or something like, get your up off me. Because you just never know what a on. I mean, if you smart.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

If you playing, right. Yeah.

[B]

No, those ones be stealing Rolexes and stuff, man.

[A]

I don't have them type of problems.

[B]

Yeah, no. Did you always have. I'm getting married in a few months.

[A]

Who took your Rolex?

[B]

I sent my crib.

[A]

You said that for a reason. Somebody took your Rolex problem.

[B]

No, I've heard stories. I've heard stories.

[A]

You got a new one, didn't you?

[B]

No, no, it didn't happen to me, bro.

[A]

You replaced it.

[B]

Replaced it before she noticed.

[A]

Rich, you replaced it before she noticed. Like, man, I'll scream, get another one. It's just like it.

[B]

Hell no.

[A]

I'm just with.

[B]

No, you're good, bro. That intuition's a good skill to have, though. Good.

[A]

You gotta have it, man. Like, listen, man, if you're coming out to party, you say you want coke and hoes and you want to do all this. Expect it. Hey, look, man, take what. What comes with it. You get what I'm saying? Take what comes with it. Last. Hey, I used to hear a lot of tricks, talk about how, man, it's fun to get robbed by hoes. They like getting robbed. Like, dude, I went to Vegas this one weekend, bro. She took my 8500, man. She took my Rolex, man. Bro, I woke up, but she drained me, man. I ain't gonna lie. She did her thing on me, but she stole everything. I woke up, I was like, what the, man? Other stories like that, thousands of them dudes like that, man. I swear to God, it might sound crazy as. But dude, man, you'll hear stories, man. Been with hoes or with that and stole from. It's like a. It's like a sick little game.

[B]

It's like a synth kind of thing.

[A]

It's a little game. Yeah, they like to play them games, bro. I've heard stories. Thousands of them from like, yeah, he's. He like, when I steal from him.

[B]

They be walking those casino floors late night, you know.

[A]

Well, I ain't talking about doing it on the casinos, man, you know what I'm saying? Because you don't want to play in nobody's establishment like that, man. I wouldn't recommend it. I wouldn't say any chick to be stealing like that. I mean, some chicks gonna do what they gonna do. But if I was you, I probably. I wouldn't steal anything. I don't think that's smart, man. Because from the time you hit. From the time you hit the Strip, Las Vegas Boulevard, homie, is a million cameras on yours.

[B]

I mean, yeah, you get banned at mgm. What's the point of living in Vegas at that point? You know, they have like every hotel.

[A]

They own everything. Yeah, they own everything. I think they just bought out. But they bought out the Cosmo, all that.

[B]

Yep. Yeah, they got a monopoly. Yeah. You always had that intuition, though, or did it develop over time?

[A]

Over time, making mistakes? I mean, I never. I can't never say a chick robbed me. Yeah, well, I can't say that I have been robbed. I've been robbed. But like a way a didn't know was diabolical though.

[B]

Boy, I gotta hear this now.

[A]

So. All right, so this was probably back in. And I'll never tell these stories, bro, but people be wanting to hear the stories. So I'm like, it's probably back in like 2011, 2012. I had a little chick, no name, you know, I just. I just went and grabbed her from the strip club. I'm saying, like, I had her for, like, probably like eight months, man. Everything's cool. No problems. I'm talking about, like, nothing, bro. I never had to argue with this.

[B]

Wow.

[A]

Like, no. No issues. Like, listened, man. Was prompt. Just on everything. Get up, do what she need to do. Just. Just on it for me. I was almost like a perfect. You know what I'm saying? And I remember one morning, she was just like. So I talked to my fam and like, I got to go home for a little bit. I really miss my sister. And I'm like, okay, that's cool. Shit. It's your first class flight, all that shit. Like, make sure you get home. You need to go see your family. Family is a big thing for me. You know what I'm saying? Like, it really is. Like, I'll never keep anybody. Like, if a chick had to choose between her family and me, even just messing with me either, as a boyfriend, whatever, right? I would choose for her. You're going with your family. You're not going with me even if you wanted to. I don't believe in that. You know what I'm saying? Like, you're going to go with your family. Family first, you know? I mean, so I remember where my Chevalier. I'm driving up Saheera, I'm headed back to the Lakes. You know what I'm saying? And fucking. She's just like. I'm like, yeah, I'll get you a ticket. Make sure everything's cool. She's like, see, that's the thing. I don't know when I'm coming back. Yada, yada, yada. I'm like. I'm like, what are you like, what's the deal? You know what I'm saying? Like, she's acting different, right? And I'm like, fuck it. Let me pull over here. This little breakfast spot. Let me get some breakfast with her. See what she's. Where her mind's really at. And she was like. So she pulled over with me, we sat down, and I'm talking to her, and she's just like, yeah. No, I just. She's like, the only way I can go see my sister is if, like, I stopped doing this. I'm like, you're really just doing some stripping. You really ain't even doing anything much crazy, you know what I'm saying? She's like, but I gotta stop doing this till, you know, so I can go see my. So I can go see my sister, go see my family. I'm like, all right. I'm like, well, you know, come home, sleep on it. You know what I'm saying? She still wanted. Hey, she want to go, bro, I'll help her. Like, whatever.

[B]

I'm.

[A]

I'm not about to. I'm saying, hold nobody. So we get in the car, we go up to my. We go up to my spot, man. As soon as I walk up to the door, the door cracked. I walk up to the door, I go in the door, I look because I had some jewelry that was sitting on the cat on the counter in a. In a computer.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

As soon as I walk in the door, I see that shit gone. Damn, that shit gone, gang. Soon as I walk in the door, that shit's gone. She walked straight to the sliding glass door. Talking about the sliding glass door open. Now, at the time, in one of my closets, I had like 50, 60 pair of shoe boxes.

[B]

Shit.

[A]

I used to keep some. I used to keep some things, you know, in one of the boxes, but you would never know. Tell me why they went to just that box to just that area. Everything else was stacked up holy. Just to that box game. Of course, the road was kind of up a little bit because they had to pull some of the off. But they pulled that out, bro. Went right there. My peel me from my dough for my dog, for my jewelry, everything. I come out. Now I'm kind of tripping on, baby, because I'm like, all of a sudden, you want to leave, you know what I'm saying? You leave in the morning, my house get licked. What's the odds of that?

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

You know what I'm saying, boy? I told her, you can get your ass gone. And then they come to find out six months later, I find out for somebody that was around her, they was like, yeah, she did rob you.

[B]

Damn. That's up.

[A]

Had a. For eight months, changed her whole life. She was a little rusty, scraggly looking little man. Turned to. Turned a duck into a swan. And the swan still turned around and acted like a duck. Ain't that about a duck? Duck goose.

[B]

Holy crap.

[A]

For real. I never forget that. Wanted to leave, but that was why. Because she just peeled me. Damn. That's why she did it. I know it sounded kind of crazy, right? Like, damn, where's the story going? Like, I just wanted to keep it brief. Like she wanted to leave. She's like, I want to go see my family. Guess what? That never left. And stayed in the club.

[B]

No way.

[A]

Stayed in the club, never left. Never even went nowhere, bro.

[B]

Holy crap.

[A]

Never even went Anywhere. Sean. Yeah, dude stayed. Yeah. Don't drool on yourself. It's crazy. Think about it, right? That was crazy. He just drooled on himself, bro. That's a baby drill, too.

[B]

He was like, we cut that out. Oh, man.

[A]

Can you believe that, though?

[B]

No, honestly, that's. That's pretty well thought out.

[A]

Like. Yeah, because she knew, like, how I felt about family. You know what I'm saying? So. But she was just like, yeah, no, I gotta go. You know, I can't. I. I can't be here right now. Like, I don't know when I'm coming back. It's because she just robbed me again.

[B]

It's crazy. She plotted that for eight months, though. That's. That's, like, a lot.

[A]

You know what I really love? You know what I think it was? It's the company she was keeping. That's all it was, bro. And I was allowing her to keep. I'm not a pushy. I wasn't a pushy type dude. Like, hey, have your friends.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

Not everybody gonna have your best interest. Some people gonna try to veer you off and get them around you, you know? I don't know if you know how I go, but that's how it goes. Sometimes people will try to take things who make it benefit for them.

[B]

Yep. Well, Sharp. This has been awesome, man. I know you're working on some big. Where can people keep up with you? And you'll be back here soon. We're gonna work on some together, too.

[A]

I think we got some to work on.

[B]

Yeah.

[A]

I think it's gonna be fun. Make sure you get on YouTube. Just type in Sharp. My channel gonna pop right on up, boy. Probably about got about 800 videos on that, you know what I'm saying? I've only had it probably going for about a year, year and a half, but it grows every day, man. It grows every day. My Instagram at the Sharp one, I post stuff on there, really. But, like, I really just try to stay at YouTube. I crossed over. I feel like Instagram plays with us.

[B]

Instagram's good for DMS, but YouTube's where it's at for views.

[A]

Yeah. Like, I use it for my dms and, like, because, you know, you'll still find some money over there. It's still cool. People want to come collab with you or people still want to do stuff, but I don't really. I used to do a church on a Sunday on Instagram.

[B]

There's no money on Instagram.

[A]

I. I mean, but. I mean, I was. I was making some bread off the donations.

[B]

Really?

[A]

Yeah. Because, you know, that was back, man, that was five years ago. I just picked up the phone one day and I just start recording after my soft white underbelly interview. So, you know, that's where I originally came from was soft white underbelly. So I just picked up the phone after that one day, and I just start going live and then just start growing. I was doing something called Church on a Sunday, Every Sunday, where I would play oldies and then I would, you know, give people advice, a little bit of game. I'd bring a few people in and the grew. But why I stopped doing it was because, you know, Instagram don't like the copyrighted music.

[B]

Yup.

[A]

I'm saying, so as my channel, as my page grew, probably about around like 90,000, I had to stop.

[B]

I mean, man, I showed you my analytics. I make no money off that.

[A]

There's no way.

[B]

$0.

[A]

Yeah, you make $0 off.

[B]

Crazy.

[A]

That's crazy.

[B]

100 million views a month.

[A]

100 million? No, 80. Let's be our 88.6 million.

[B]

All right. I rounded up.

[A]

I paid attention. 88 points to. No, but that's your 100. You know what I'm saying? Yeah. And did not touch anything off. That's crazy.

[B]

Nothing, man. Well, dude, we'll link yourself below. Thanks for coming on.

[A]

I appreciate you, man.

[B]

Yeah, check them out. Peace.

[A]

Don't know what it is.

[B]

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