Podcast Summary: Digital Social Hour Episode: Unveiling My Journey: From ICU Nurse to Content Creator | Money Birdette DSH #784 Host: Sean Kelly Guest: Money Birdette Release Date: October 5, 2024
Introduction
In this compelling episode of Digital Social Hour, host Sean Kelly engages in an in-depth conversation with Money Birdette, a former neonatal ICU nurse who transitioned into the world of content creation and adult entertainment. The discussion delves into her motivations, challenges, and personal growth, offering listeners an intimate look into her journey from healthcare to digital entrepreneurship.
Career Transition: From Nursing to Content Creation
Money Birdette opens up about her 13-year tenure as a neonatal ICU nurse, highlighting the emotional toll and financial constraints that led her to explore alternative career paths.
Money Birdette [00:04]: "I'm not saying I don't have any purpose. I put my time in. I did 13 years... My life is way better now. I make more money now. I'm less stressed, have a lot more freedom."
She explains that the shift to OnlyFans allowed her to escape the paycheck-to-paycheck cycle inherent in hospital settings, providing her with greater financial stability and personal freedom.
Money Birdette [02:00]: "Yeah, I was making, I mean, a lot more money than as a nurse."
Life on OnlyFans and Content Creation
Money Birdette discusses the evolution of her presence on OnlyFans, initially using the platform for supplementary content alongside her nursing career. As COVID-19 approached, she made a decisive shift to focus entirely on her content creation endeavors.
Money Birdette [01:33]: "Well, like I said, I was a neonatal ICU nurse for 13 years. So when I was a nurse, I respected my profession and just sold, like, extra content, photo shoot pictures, things like that. So then about right before COVID I would say I left and I was making enough money to kind of just go out on my own."
She emphasizes the strategic use of OnlyFans as a tool for financial independence, debunking the initial stigma associated with the platform.
Family and Personal Reactions
The transition was met with mixed reactions from Money Birdette's family. While her mother eventually became aware of her career change, her father remained oblivious.
Money Birdette [02:47]: "My mom now knows, but my father still doesn't."
An incident where a podcast appearance led to her father unknowingly discovering her OnlyFans content underscores the complexities of maintaining privacy.
Money Birdette [05:48]: "I did go on a podcast, and I spoke about it, and somebody looked them up on Facebook and sent my mom a bunch of porn on her Facebook wall."
Life in New York: Cost of Living and Dating Challenges
Navigating the high cost of living in New York City poses significant challenges for single individuals. Money Birdette candidly discusses the financial strain despite a six-figure salary as a nurse, making OnlyFans a viable alternative.
Money Birdette [02:12]: "It's pretty good. But after taxes and after all the deductions and it's okay. But for, like, a single woman to live on that kind of a salary. That's kind of why I did the OnlyFans thing."
The conversation shifts to the social aspects, highlighting the difficulties of dating on the East Coast due to exorbitant costs.
Money Birdette [04:00]: "Everything's really expensive. Going out's expensive. Going anywhere, doing anything. So it's kind of hard to meet people in that sense."
Animal Rescue Work: A Passion Beyond Content Creation
Money Birdette shares her commitment to animal rescue, detailing her work with organizations like Puppy, Kitty, NYC, and Little Wanderers. Her dedication includes fostering traumatized animals and actively participating in rescue operations.
Money Birdette [07:03]: "I have three rescue cats. I work with Puppy, Kitty, NYC and Little Wanderers. So I used to donate money to them or drive their pets to. And you know, I fostered, so."
Her heartfelt recounting of rescuing a cat from a kill shelter underscores her compassion and dedication.
Money Birdette [08:57]: "I pulled a cat from the kill shelter. She had like an hour to live and somebody posted her on Instagram, so I went and I picked her up."
Social Media Challenges: Bans and Cyberstalking
Navigating social media has not been without hurdles. Money Birdette recounts losing her entire brand two years prior due to misunderstandings related to her animal rescue content, leading to permanent bans on platforms like Instagram.
Money Birdette [07:57]: "My brand was flower bomb. So I had a page and I used to rescue animals. So I posted a rescue bird and I think somebody flipped out. They thought I was posting it for clout and then both my pages went down."
Additionally, she shares a harrowing experience with cyberstalking when her real identity was exposed, resulting in her father receiving unsolicited explicit content meant to shame her.
Money Birdette [10:07]: "He was so scared, he took it all down."
Mental Health and Purpose: Finding Fulfillment
Reflecting on her career shift, Money Birdette articulates a sense of regained purpose and improved mental health. The relentless stress and emotional burdens of nursing, compounded by exposure to life-and-death situations, prompted her to seek a path that offered both financial reward and personal satisfaction.
Money Birdette [12:32]: "Overall, I feel like I had purpose as a nurse. I feel like I have... my life is way better now. I make more money now. I'm less stressed, have a lot more freedom."
She emphasizes the importance of moving away from high-stress environments to foster personal well-being.
Opinions on Vaccines and Baby Health
The discussion shifts to her perspectives on vaccinations, particularly those administered to newborns. Money Birdette expresses skepticism about the necessity of multiple vaccines within the first year of life.
Money Birdette [14:31]: "So just do your research."
She advocates for informed choice and acknowledges varying practices across different hospital settings.
Physical Alterations: Surgeries and Tattoos
Money Birdette candidly discusses her experiences with cosmetic surgeries and tattoos, sharing her regrets and the reasons behind her decisions. Her reflections reveal a nuanced view of body modification as both an expression of past rebellion and a source of present contemplation.
Money Birdette [15:25]: "I kind of regret a lot of my things, like surgeries. I regret my tattoos now."
Her sleeve of tattoos, initially a symbol of freedom post-nursing, now serves as a reminder of impulsive decisions.
Interactions with Fans and Custom Content
Engaging with her audience is a significant aspect of Money Birdette's content creation. She addresses the variety of custom requests she receives, setting boundaries to maintain her comfort and integrity.
Money Birdette [05:48]: "Today, literally, somebody messaged me and asked me to send him a custom video of me saying that I want to suck his dad off."
She maintains professionalism by accommodating requests that align with her values while rejecting those that do not.
Collaborations in the Industry
Collaborating with established figures in the adult entertainment industry has been a pivotal aspect of Money Birdette's growth. She shares experiences working with notable names like Jason Love, suggesting that such collaborations drive traffic to her OnlyFans platform.
Money Birdette [07:29]: "So if you do like a feature, that's... that's a lot of views."
Her strategic approach mirrors social media marketing techniques, utilizing collaborations to enhance visibility and engagement.
Lifestyle Choices: Drugs and Alcohol
Addressing personal lifestyle choices, Money Birdette discusses her selective use of alcohol as a means to alleviate nervousness during photoshoots, while firmly rejecting drug use due to personal and familial reasons.
Money Birdette [28:16]: "Once in a while I drink. I'm a happy drunk. Okay, I like to drink, but I don't really like to be on like mind altering things."
Her stance reflects a commitment to maintaining control and clarity in both her personal and professional life.
Personal Relationships and Boundaries
Money Birdette delves into her approach to relationships, highlighting her preference for maintaining strong boundaries to protect her emotional well-being. Her experiences with past abusive relationships have led her to value solitude and self-love.
Money Birdette [27:25]: "I'm open to it, but I'm also very content being alone. And like, I really love myself and love my alone time."
This introspection underscores the importance of self-awareness and emotional resilience in her life journey.
Hobbies and Interests: Plants and Nature
Beyond her professional endeavors, Money Birdette shares her profound connection with plants. Her "plant room" serves as a sanctuary where she nurtures rare species, illustrating her nurturing nature and appreciation for natural beauty.
Money Birdette [31:23]: "I'm obsessed with plants. It's so amazing. I love plants."
Her horticultural passion not only provides personal solace but also engages her audience, who often contribute to her plant collection.
Conclusion: Connecting with Money Birdette Online
As the conversation wraps up, Money Birdette provides information on where listeners can follow her journey and engage with her content.
Money Birdette [33:23]: "People can find me on Instagram. Moneybirdette. My OnlyFans is Money Burdette. My Twitter is moneybirdette."
Sean Kelly encourages listeners to connect with her across various platforms, ensuring they can stay updated with her latest projects and personal insights.
Notable Quotes:
- Money Birdette [00:04]: "I'm not saying I don't have any purpose... My life is way better now. I make more money now. I'm less stressed, have a lot more freedom."
- Money Birdette [02:00]: "Yeah, I was making, I mean, a lot more money than as a nurse."
- Money Birdette [08:57]: "I pulled a cat from the kill shelter. She had like an hour to live and somebody posted her on Instagram, so I went and I picked her up."
- Money Birdette [12:32]: "Overall, I feel like I had purpose as a nurse... my life is way better now. I make more money now. I'm less stressed, have a lot more freedom."
- Money Birdette [15:25]: "I kind of regret a lot of my things, like surgeries. I regret my tattoos now."
- Money Birdette [27:25]: "I'm open to it, but I'm also very content being alone. And like, I really love myself and love my alone time."
- Money Birdette [31:23]: "I'm obsessed with plants. It's so amazing. I love plants."
This episode of Digital Social Hour offers a nuanced exploration of Money Birdette's multifaceted life, balancing professional transitions, personal challenges, and passions. Her candid discussions provide valuable insights into the complexities of career shifts, mental health, and the intersection of personal values with professional pursuits.