Transcript
Wade (0:00)
When I watched my daughter graduate, this is right after it happened, I'm watching her walk across the stage and immediately I'm thinking, am I going to be around to watch my son walk across the stage? And it was. Every birthday is just the last one.
Sean (0:10)
Wow.
Wade (0:11)
Every Christmas, is this the last one? Thanksgiving, except. So it's like you don't even really get to enjoy the moment because you're so worried. Is that going to be the last moment?
Sean (0:19)
Yeah.
Wade (0:20)
And it weighs on you, man. It really, really weighs.
Sean (0:25)
Foreign Chip Williamson here today, one of the craziest stories and journeys I've seen in someone's life. So thanks for coming on, man.
Wade (0:37)
I said a lot coming from you because you talk to a lot of people.
Sean (0:40)
Yeah. Well, your, your life was on the line, right? You were facing a lot of time.
Wade (0:44)
Yeah. Life in prison, essentially. You know, and, and to see your name on a piece of paper where it's saying the state of, you know, wherever you reside versus, you know, yourself and life in prison is in the balance. Dude, let me tell you, there is nothing that can put things in perspective quicker than seeing your name on that piece of paper. And I'm not a criminal. It's not like I've, you know, beat a million other cases or I've been in and out of jail. Like this was the only really time I'd ever been arrested and it was just, it was a big one.
Sean (1:11)
So your first arrest, you were facing life.
Wade (1:13)
Yes.
Sean (1:13)
That's pretty crazy, right?
Wade (1:14)
Yeah.
Sean (1:15)
And it was for basically a self defense case, right?
Wade (1:18)
Yeah, yeah. Self defense shooting. And the, the details behind it are really kind of what convolutes the case is. You know, me and my wife were together and we had decided that we were going to split up. And once we had decided we were going to split up, she went her way, I went mine. We were both doing our own thing. And then a few months later, we were talking around Christmas time, trying to figure out what we're going to do with the kids, because we had kids. And it was obvious there was still a little something there, you know, something we could maybe hold on to. But we still weren't sure if we wanted to jump right back into it. But we did, did make the decision that we were going to reconcile. And what the actual plan was was we was going to go through a divorce, be done with it, date for a little while, kind of restart, you know, restart from the beginning, work our way forward. If it worked, great. You know, if it didn't, then, you know, we could go Our own ways. And ultimately, when she told the guy that she was seeing, he got a little upset. The girl that I was seeing didn't really care, but the guy she was saying got a little upset and he wanted to talk to me, but he, he was clear in his message of like, hey, it's not. I'm not coming over there to, you know, go at you. He was like, I just want to talk man to man. And we did that. And then what had ended up happening was while we were in the middle of talking, you know, everything was going fine. We were actually taught on the subject of tattoos. And I pulled my shirt down to show him this tattoo right here. And you can kind of see it right here. I got an open heart surgery scar. And so when he seen that, he grabbed the bottom of my shirt and like, lifted it up. It was like, wow, that's gnarly. And was like looking at the scar and he's like, you know, under different circumstances, you and I could have probably been pretty good friends. And I'm like, you know, maybe. So, you know, who. Who knows? So he goes to the bathroom, he comes out, and then I'm standing like, with my back to the stove, and he comes straight up to me and boom, Left hand up under my throat. I went. It was so hard. Like, I went up off my feet onto the stove. I managed to get back down. And he looked me dead my eyes and he said, I'm going to kill you.
