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Dont Make Me Call Her
Hosted by Grace Lam · EN
What can a former VOGUE fashion editor talk about? Fashion? Nah—way more! Welcome to DON’T MAKE ME CALL HER, the podcast reviving the lost art of real conversations. Be ready for candid, unfiltered chats about life, self-help tips, culture, parenting, F1 and everything in between. Expect humour, surprises, and even Cantonese slang lessons.
Tune in every Wednesday for authentic stories that are as relatable as they are hilarious. Follow, subscribe, rate and share with a friend.
Instagram/TikTok: @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyle
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What's It Like Sleeping With Grace Lam?
5d ago00:14:54Tap to summarizeThis week on Don't Make Me Call Her, we're pulling back the curtain on what it's actually like sharing a bed with me — and no, we are not getting into the spicy stuff, nobody needs that mental image. Instead, Jason is finally airing every annoying bed habit he's been quietly cataloguing for years, and I am, unfortunately, fighting back with receipts of my own.Covers get stolen. Someone talks too much right when the lights go off. Who breathes too loud at night? We're naming and shaming, keeping score, and finding out once and for all who's actually the worse person to share a mattress with.New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Hosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoFollow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle / @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyleDMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Produced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
Transcribe →Rules We Made Up, Follow Them!
2w ago00:18:53Tap to summarizeThis week on Don't Make Me Call Her, Grace and Jason lay down the modern survival guide nobody asked for but everybody needs. First up: how to dodge scammers by essentially becoming your own personal FBI field agent — trust no one, verify everything, treat every unexpected text like a national security threat.Then it's an intervention on emoji dependency because apparently a carrot, an apple or a lemon emoji shouldn't be an official grocery shopping list. Finally, the Gen X dilemma: what do you do when an unknown number calls? Grace has thoughts. Strong, borderline unhinged thoughts. Jason, as always, suggests the reasonable option. Grace does not take it.Modern life doesn't come with a manual, so consider this the unofficial one — written by two people who are absolutely not qualified to write it, and doing it anyway.New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Hosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoFollow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats / @gracelamstyle / @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher / @gracelamstyleDMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Produced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
Transcribe →Fxck Ageism!
3w ago00:23:19Tap to summarizeThis week on Don't Make Me Call Her, Grace and Jason tackle ageism — or as Grace calls it, the moment society decides you've expired like a carton of milk, except milk doesn't come with 20 years of experience and better judgment. Somewhere between "overqualified" and "not a culture fit," an entire generation quietly got filed under "no longer relevant," and nobody even had the decency to say it to their face.The two get into it — the very specific flavour of ageism that hits women a decade before it hits men, and why "seasoned" apparently means something different depending on gender. Quite frankly Gen X are saying 'We are too old for this shit! Period!' New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Hosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoFollow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats @gracelamstyle @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher @gracelamstyleDMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. Produced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
Transcribe →Grill Me Like Yakitorie (BBQ)
4w ago00:24:55Tap to summarizeThis week Jason puts Grace in the hot seat, grilling her with listener questions — most of which boil down to some version of "how do I become as fierce as you?" Grace tells it how it is with no filter, no PR training, no agent whispering in her ear to be more likeable. We get into the actual logistics of clapping back. Jason, meanwhile, plays the calm one, gently suggesting that maybe not every interaction requires a Chinatown-level response. If you've ever replayed an argument in the shower four hours later and thought of the perfect comeback way too late, this episode is basically a public service.For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 4500 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats @gracelamstyle @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher @gracelamstyleHosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
Transcribe →Are You Talking To Me D#ckhead?
Jul 700:21:36Tap to summarizeHow the f#ck do these people keep finding me? This week on DMMCH, we're getting into the two schools of clap back: the Ginja-Ninja full Chinatown way — blunt, immediate, and leaving zero room for interpretation — versus Jason's "chill like a monk" way of dealing with idiots. As much as we want to spread kindness, some people do deserve a reminder of how to behave better.This week I'm digging into a few of my most memorable (and deeply satisfying) clap back moments — real ones, real people, no regrets. We're talking the art of the quick response, when silence is actually the weapon, and why Jason's zen approach works for him but would never survive a day in the Grace inbox.For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 3000 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats @gracelamstyle @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher @gracelamstyleHosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
Transcribe →Don't Be Such A Pxssy FFS!
Jun 3000:21:35Tap to summarizePeople get offended by everything these days—and we’re over it. In today’s episode of DMMCH, we’re discussing why direct communication is being labeled as "rude" and how to find the middle ground when the world feels like it’s becoming increasingly fragile. We’re talking about the cultural clash of directness, the struggle of being "too blunt" in a "soft" society, and how to stop catering to everyone else’s fragility. If you’re tired of the constant eggshell-walking, hit play.What’s your take? Are we too sensitive, or has the world just changed? DM us your thoughts or drop a comment on our socials—we want to hear your side.For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 3000 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats @gracelamstyle @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher @gracelamstyleHosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
Transcribe →Why Is Everyone A Digital Narcissist?
Jun 2300:22:11Tap to summarizeLet’s be real: our communication skills have hit rock bottom. We are currently living through the Great Email/Text/DM Apocalypse, where we’re expected to be available 24/7, yet somehow, nobody actually knows how to have a conversation anymore.In this episode, we’re calling out the digital madness. We’re breaking down the massive generational gap—from the Gen X “I’ll get to it when I get to it” cool, to the Millennial “I’m experiencing a full-blown existential crisis because you left me on read,” all the way to the Gen Z/Alpha approach where if it isn’t a 15-second video, it basically didn’t happen.When did we decide that voice notes and cryptic emojis were better than just hearing a human voice? If your house is on fire, pick up the damn phone and call. If not? Then wait your turn. Jason and I also discuss how to set boundaries and stop being a slave to your inbox and why "I'll reply when I'm good and ready" is the most underrated power move of 2026. Let's create more in-person connection people! This ain't Covid era anymore.For ‘What Would Grace Do?’ segment, don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. If you are a small business owner with less than 3000 Instagram followers, DM me to get a small business shout-out!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats @gracelamstyle @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher @gracelamstyleHosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
Transcribe →How To Revenge Like Lewis Hamilton
Jun 1600:25:27Tap to summarizeDon't let your age define you people! As a huge Lewis Hamilton fan for many years, I’m so thrilled to celebrate his first Formula One Grand Prix win with the world's most iconic team, Scuderia Ferrari. At 41, driving for Ferrari in his second season, Lewis just gave the middle finger to every cynic who said he was "washed up." If the 2025 season was a dumpster fire, Spain was the glorious and EPIC revenge.This week on DMMCH, we’re unpacking the only thing that matters: why do people love to put an expiry date on our lives? Why are we so obsessed with being "past it" when, clearly, we’re just getting started? We’re talking about the art of ignoring the "you’re too old/too much/too ambitious" noise and why your self-talk needs to be sharper than a Formula 1 turn.But it’s not just about the track. It’s about the people standing on the sidelines—the people who clap for you but are secretly praying you hit a wall. We’re doing a brutal audit of your inner circle, calling out the fake people, and learning how to protect your energy like it’s a championship trophy. We’re tapping into the Stoic side of self-belief—because if you aren't backing yourself, who the hell is?In segment 'What Would Grace Do?' (replacing Ginja Ninja Combat Zone) Another listener write-in, another round of our highly unprofessional, unsolicited, and absolutely necessary advice. Keep'em coming peeps!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats @gracelamstyle @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher @gracelamstyleHosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
Transcribe →How To Get An Asian Discount
Jun 900:17:09Tap to summarizeIf you aren’t being called a “diva” or “difficult” at least once a week, are you even doing it right?This week on DMMCH, we’re weaponising the ‘Asian Discount.’ We’re moving past the supermarket haggling and looking at the real reason we do it: because you deserve what you’re asking for, and the world is counting on you to be too embarrassed to demand it.We’re peeling back the layers on why women are “difficult” for knowing their worth, while men are just “good negotiators.” We’re here to say "Sorry NOT Sorry". We’re teaching you how to treat rejection like a common cold—unpleasant for a second but it won’t kill you, and you definitely shouldn't let it stop you from getting what you want.Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats @gracelamstyle @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher @gracelamstyleHosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
Transcribe →Shut That Shxt Down! NOW!
Jun 200:19:44Tap to summarizeEP 9. Welcome to the cultural interrogation room. This episode, we are unpacking the endless cycle of family grilling. Why does reaching a certain age mean your aunties get a free pass to ask about your uterus, your bank account, and your relationship status? We dive into the heavy pressure to stay quiet just to 'keep the peace,' and share actual, practical ways to reject the traditional norm without being labeled the 'ungrateful child.' Because honestly? It’s none of their bloody business. Grab a matcha—we’re unlocking the scripts to shutting down the interrogation, respectfully...kinda!Don't forget to send in your dilemmas and problems via Instagram so we can give you our useless advice. Ginija Ninja Combat Zone Forever!DMMCH podcast is available on Spotify, Apple Podcast and YouTube. Don't forget to rate and subscribe! Leave us a fun five-star review! Thank You. New episodes drop every Wednesday. Grab a cuppa and let’s get into it.Follow & talk to us on Instagram: @gracelamchats @gracelamstyle @jasoncapobiancophotographyTikTok: @dontmakemecallher @gracelamstyleHosts: Grace Lam and Jason CapobiancoProduced by Herrrooo ProductionMusic by Lindsay Lai www.lindsaylai.com
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