Dr. Laura Schlessinger (2:42)

Ma', am. Ma'.

Caller (Mother) (2:43)

Am.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger (2:44)

Woohoo.

Caller (Mother) (2:45)

Woohoo.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger (2:47)

What does your husband do with his 10 year old son? How do they spend time?

Caller (Mother) (2:53)

They play games. They do, you know, they play card games. My husband has had Back surgery, he doesn't. He can't do a whole lot. But they do sometimes watch TV together or like I said, they like to play Uno a lot. In those moments, my son is not, you know, he's. He's okay, but it's in. In other moments where he's. If I'm sitting on the couch, he comes and he sits, like, right almost on top of me, and I'm like, hey, there's this whole couch you can sit on. Why don't you scoot over? No, I want to be next to you. I want to be with you. I. Those are his words. I want to be with you.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger (3:36)

Does he have any reason to manage to imagine that at some point you won't be there? Have there been deaths in the family? Have you been ill to you and your husband?

Caller (Mother) (3:49)

I have not been ill. Just.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger (3:53)

Yeah. Do you understand what I'm trying to get to? If he's worried about you not being there, that might explain some of this. So what do you think might possibly contribute to that?

Caller (Mother) (4:08)

So aside, there was a death. My brother passed away, and we were very close, and he, you know, but my son was three when he passed away. The only thing I can think of is when he was one year old, we moved from South America to North America. We came, and his dad and him came first because I had to stay back to sell, you know, to get rid of. To sell things from our house and make. Prepare for the move. And they. They arrived maybe two or three weeks before I did, and then I arrived and we haven't been apart since, except for that. The weekend, you know, for the. For. For New Year's.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger (4:50)

How is he with friends? Does he have. Does he have friends?

Caller (Mother) (4:55)

He does have some friends when he's very good friends with my. With my friend's son. But he. As soon as the other little boy has friends, you know, from his own school around, my son doesn't want to be around him anymore because he feels ignored. And it happens not with. Not just with him, but with another little boy also.

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Dr. Laura Schlessinger (7:55)

Do you have any other children, by the way?

Caller (Mother) (7:58)

I have two older kids.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger (8:02)

So this is a second marriage?

Caller (Mother) (8:05)

No, this is the first marriage.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger (8:07)

Oh, so you guys had two kids a million years ago and then had this one?

Caller (Mother) (8:12)

Yes.

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Dr. Laura Schlessinger (8:15)

You need to tell them things like kid one, two, and three. You're number three. That's a lot of kids to love. Maybe I can't love all three of you @ the same time. What do you think? Because we're getting to the notion of he can't be a friend if there are other boys around. Like there's not enough friendship going around. You have to start teaching him. He's seriously hypersensitive, it would seem, about loss and neglect. And I don't know your lives to know why, but that seems obvious to me that that is the case. So you have to help him with that, you know? No, you can't sit on my lap I love you dearly. And I go sit on that chair so I have room. I'm not going anywhere. I'll be here. You sound to me like you're afraid if you don't practically sit on me that I will disappear. So you have to start having these conversations. He's 10. His brain works good enough to have these conversations. So now you're going to Instead of trying to make him feel better, someday we'll take you to that place. Instead of trying to make him feel better, try to understand him more.

Caller (Mother) (9:30)

Okay.

Dr. Laura Schlessinger (9:33)

So there are parallels. He feels rejected. If there's another person around, he has to consume you or he won't have the love. You need to start thinking like a therapist, mama and start talking to him about these things. This is parenting. My number. 1-800-375-2872. You're just a click away from some terrific deals being offered by companies that get the Dr. Laura stamp of approval. Visit drlaura.com Click on Sponsors to take advantage of the special Discounts available to Dr. Laura listeners like you.

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