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So evidently he realizes he does love the other lady. And she says, you got to tell her. Just tell her. So he goes and tells her, I love you and I want us to be boyfriend and girlfriend. And she just about has a her head explodes and you know, I can't do this and I can't do that and I'm scattered and I'm this and she's admitting to all her things. It was quite a powerful scene. She's crying hysterically and then gets to the main point, you. And he goes, you know, whatever you need, I'll change. I can grow. You see that? I'm growing and changing with time and experience. And she goes, but you're autistic. And you will always be autistic, and you can't change that. Well, after she lays that on him, he goes into a screaming monologue that was really good. Tells her off, but good how superficial and shallow and this and that and the other thing. And everything he says about her is absolutely true, but none of it changed the fact that, you know, he's in love with her. Okay, so that's where it was for quite a while. Back to what happened. Earthquake. Everything comes down. He goes into the building. He was told not to because she's in the building. And he's going to find her and save her because he loves her. She's going to find her and save her. That's it. You can't talk him out of it. He's rather stubborn. So he gets into this basement and it's not her. Some other woman. And she's got rebar through a leg and another one through her chest. Didn't evidently didn't hit a main artery and didn't hit the lung, but, you know, it's not good. So he's trying to save her. So they all have these walkie talkies on. And the head doctor says, everybody keep their walkie talkies on at all time so we all know can hear each other and know what's going on. Okay? So he leaves the walkie talkie on. Meanwhile, somehow the flibberty jibbet is found and she's perfectly fine. Everything fell around her. She got lucky. And she's with a blanket around her, sitting in the back of one of the hospital trucks. And the. One of the firefighters left the walkie talkie there so now she can hear everybody's everything. She hears him, Sean, talking to the lady he's trying to save. And they're going on and on and on about they both have to let go of somebody. And this discussion goes on and off throughout the entire hour because we have all the other things going on and he has to save her. And then suddenly a pipe bursts and water is filling up, and soon they're going to both drown, but this lady's going to drown first. And he says, I can't cut the rebar. There's not enough time with the rate that the water's coming in. I mean, he can calculate this all in his head down to the minute. And he says, so I'm going to have to cut your leg off. Really? Really. Where my leg and me is mostly underwater. And he said, well, in the Civil War, this is what they did. And he had a shot of morphine, gave it to her. And he said, but you're going to scream anyway. And at this point, the one he has to let go of is hearing the whole conversation about how he loves her and he can't let go and he's going to love her for the rest of his life. And she's listening and crying, listening and crying. Meanwhile, this lady who's about to die but doesn't. I'm getting to the point. Hang in there with me, because this was very interesting. She also has to let go of a guy. And she says, now that I've been through this situation, letting go is going to be easy. And she goes, and you have to let go of her. And he goes, hey, and I love her. I'll never let go. You have to let go of her. Why? He said, because you. She says to him, and this is the corker. Now listen carefully, because this was the most brilliant thing I've heard on the show with respect to interpersonal relationships. So listen very carefully, she says to him, you have to think about what you're really wanting. You're not really wanting her. You're wanting love. And unless you let go of her, you're not available to find love. Now, on a TV show, I thought that was pretty heavy. Because the key is, what are you really looking for? Acceptance, Approval, Love, Affection? What you folks out there listening right now? What are you really looking for? Because most likely you're in a place that's not going to give it to you. A lot of you do that with your parents. You have a mother because she came out of her body, but she's not a mommy. And you have to let go of that because you're not going to get those loving feelings from anybody else unless you let go of the falsehood of thinking you're going to get them from that woman. It's not going to happen. Got to be open to other kinds of maternal feeling, love with really good friends. I mean, in a really good friendship, especially between women, we get very maternal with each other, very protective, very supportive. You got to be open. You have to let go one place, one side of the swimming pool. If you're going to want to get to the other side of the swimming pool. Got to let go of the side you're on, babes. And he was stunned. That stunned him. Post script, cuts off her leg. They get out of there and flibbertigibbet woman is standing there, and he comes over, oh, by the way, the woman who was almost going to drown and die whose leg he just cut off, said, let's make a deal. I'll let you do this. Because she didn't want to do it. She said, you leave, I'm going to die anyway. Here. If we both stay here, you're going to die too. What's the point of that? But anyway, they both get out, and waiting for him is Flibbertigibbet, who comes over and gives him a big kiss. He stands there and looks down at her and says, is that a pity kiss? A hello kiss? What does that mean? What you just did? What does that mean? And she goes, I've been really stupid, Stupid, stupid, stupid and idiot and crazy and ridiculous. And the truth is, I always have. I do, and I will. I love you. So she says that several times. Meanwhile, he hadn't made a promise to let go of her if, you know, the woman died. And he goes, the lady didn't die, so I don't have to follow through on what I promised. And. And it ends with them kissing and a big hug. And I'm looking at that going, you know, in three seasons, he goes from he can barely look at you to, you know, big lip lock with her. But anyway, putting that aside, you got the point. The point is, what is it you're really searching for? I know you feel like you're stuck on that person, but what are you really looking for? And you're not looking for them because on paper they suck. You're looking for something you need that you must let go of this fantasy so that you can get the need met. If you really need man or woman to love you, then you've got to let go of the jerk to get the love elsewhere. That's the point of my story. Okay? In addition to that, I had forgotten. Forgive me. Been a lot of stress lately in everybody's lives, including mine. We are going back to every day I'm going to have a secret word of the day. Now, you don't call and just say, I know the secret word. And say has to be in the course of our conversation that you accidentally, unknowingly say the word. If you say it in the midst of what you were discussing with me, then you get a prize. And the prize is a wristband that says, what would Dr. Laura say? It says something else on the other side. I can't remember. Not important. It's black with white lettering. I think it's classy. Anyway. And the secret word is. Well, I can't tell you. Then it wouldn't be secret, Would it? My number 1-800-375-2872. If you like this podcast, be sure to rate it on Apple Podcasts or your favorite place to listen to my podcast. Of course, I'd love if you gave me five stars. And be sure to share this podcast with a friend on Facebook or your preferred social media platform.

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