A (3:06)

You're going to have to back up.

B (3:07)

And tell me what it is you said that you believe might have been misunderstood. Please tell me all of it.

C (3:16)

Okay. So we were at a campground and we were very close quarters, and it was a seasonal campground. We would show up, we'd have stuff to unpack and get things done. And maybe it'd be in the spring when there's extra things to be done around before we can get settled. And they would ask him to come over and help them. And I. And so I would. I would get upset with him because we had things to do to get ourselves settled. And I told him, I said, when we're done, you're more. I'm more than happy to let you know. Not let him. I misquoted that. I'm more than happy that you would go help them, but let's get our stuff done first.

B (4:05)

So far, totally reasonable and mature. Go ahead.

C (4:09)

Okay. Just things like that. I've been told I have. I've been told I have a good resting bitch face, which I don't intend, but I think that can be misread. So I just think people have misread me. So my husband's always been the nicer guy. And everybody thinks he's, you know, and he is. He's a great guy.

B (4:38)

He's not the nicer guy. It's just like, you know, some God I've given in the past talks to clergy, and they will stay up all night with somebody outside of the family because, quote, it's their job and because it makes them feel heroic and they're not there for the families. I don't consider that a nice guy. I consider that an ego gratification behavior. So when you said, honey, help them after we finish, did he stay and finish and then go help them or did he go off and do it?

C (5:18)

He stayed and finished. He stayed and helped me. He had. Yes.

B (5:23)

Good, good. Okay, so I don't understand what was misunderstood. I don't know what we're talking about yet.

C (5:30)

Well, because they didn't like me because I didn't let him go help them or.

A (5:45)

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D (6:50)

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E (8:21)

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F (8:51)

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C (8:58)

Hey, what does all in one mean?

F (9:01)

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C (9:07)

So Clorox Toilet Wand is all I need to clean a toilet.

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C (9:20)

Use as directed. I know how ridiculous it sounds I. I really do.

A (9:31)

Well, first of all, you said you.

B (9:33)

Told your husband this, so how did they know anything about this conversation between you and your husband?

C (9:42)

Because they saw me and they saw me talk to him and he said he'd be over later. But the, the reason I'm calling is that happened, like I said, 10 years ago. And so then he finally saw how they were mistreating me and he's like, you know what? You're right. The way they. They judge you is wrong. They're not seeing the real you. So he. He's trying to.

B (10:11)

They're absolutely seeing the real you. They're not nice people. What the hell? Woman. People who behave.

A (10:17)

Huffy. Oh.

B (10:19)

Or something like that is absurd.

A (10:21)

I wouldn't have anything to do with them.

C (10:24)

Right. And that's. Yes. Well, we don't. We don't have anything to do with them anymore. But. Well, so a few. About a month ago, one of the two in this couple passed away and got word of it. And my husband and I discussed about just sending a modest card of condolences because she passed.

B (10:49)

Very nice.

C (10:51)

But we stated that. Or we've discussed the fact that we don't have their address, that we'd have to get it from someone else. And I'm like, okay, well. And that's all we talked about. Well, next thing I know, a few days later, he told me he called that the other partner in the relationship and they had a very nice conversation and they. They said that they were sorry for what happened. So my problem is.

B (11:20)

Why would you have problem?

C (11:28)

I wish I would have been included in that phone call because again, I look like the bad one that he reached out.

B (11:38)

No, you don't look like the bad one. You're married. One person makes the phone call. Stop being so negative about you.

C (11:51)

So what should I do now? Should I reach out to them? Should we go to the celebration life?

B (11:57)

If you want to.

C (12:04)

Okay.

B (12:04)

You want to celebrate that person's life, do it.

C (12:09)

I don't know if I do. They treated me pretty horribly.

B (12:12)

Well, then don't. I'm okay with you not. It was nice that we were going to send a card. That's fine. Get on with your life. They were pretty self centered folks. If you're accurate in the description of what happened. They're jerks. And then they were not nice to you. Leave it alone.

A (12:32)

Leave it alone.

B (12:33)

Get on with the people who do like you. I try not to spend a whole lot of time with people who may not like me. What's the point.

C (12:43)

Right?

B (12:43)

I don't spend a whole hell of a lot of time with somebody I don't like. Come on, that's normal life.

C (12:49)

Oh, no, I've. I've in my 50s. I've come to that realization.

B (12:55)

Good.

C (12:56)

Yeah. Yeah. And I've told friends that if you have a misunderstanding with me, of me, if I've done something upset you, come and talk to me. Don't let it stew. Don't assume.

A (13:07)

Right.

C (13:07)

Let's. Let's not. I can handle it. I'm an adult.

B (13:11)

Good. So far, I'm impressed that you act like an adult. So get off your back.

C (13:19)

Okay?

B (13:21)

If I'm not on your back, I.

A (13:22)

Want you off your back. Do you hear me?

C (13:25)

Yes, ma'. Am.

A (13:27)

Okay.

B (13:28)

All right, Jo, have a good day.

C (13:31)

Thanks. You, too.

B (13:32)

Thank you. My number. 1-800-375-2872.

A (13:39)

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G (13:58)

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