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A (0:00)
The Iron Maiden. I first learned I had that nickname, I think I was 28 years old. And initially I thought it was because I make very difficult decisions. I've had to do restructures and I'd already done it at that point. The moment that really got me is I'd seen some movie in the theater and I was crawling, crying. She said, I thought you'd be the type of person who'd laugh at people who cried at movies. That was the moment that got me because that is not who I am.
B (0:31)
Hello, Driving Impact Collective. I'm super excited. Today we're welcoming Victoria peltier to the top 5% method. And I'm so excited to ask her all of the question, everything that's top of mind. Welcome, Victoria to the top 5% method.
A (0:49)
Thank you for having me. Really happy to be here.
B (0:51)
And I was watching a TED talk and I was like, oh my God, I was having chills. And I was like, I have to have her on the pod. And you're such a powerhouse and there's so many questions I want to ask you. So I'm going to kick it off and, and jump right into it. So there's multiple top topics you talk about and one of the first ones you talk about is healthy resilience, which I think is very important today, but I think it's important across times because. And throughout history we've been going through periods of time where we'll need to, to showcase resilience personally, but also professionally. And I think it's a framework that you talk about for work, but also for personal challenges. So I wanted to hear your perspective about you and your personal life, like how have you been able to leverage healthy resilience in your life and, and then also introduce a little bit more, tell us a little bit more about yourself.
A (1:47)
Sure, I, the reason I refer to it as healthy resilience is because I think a lot of people think about, they experience challenges, adversity, trauma, wearing almost a shield of protective armor and which I did when I was young. And I think at some point that becomes very unhealthy and so not processing and dealing with the, again, the adversity or the trauma, particularly over the years, tends to weigh one down and can be almost destructive. And so for me there was a journey I needed to move through to become healthy and dealing with it. And so for me, a little bit of background in terms of where my resilience comes from. So first of all, I'm born to a drug, drug addicted teenage mother was extremely Abusive to me in and out of the child welfare system. Fortunate, however, to be adopted out of that environment, but to lower socioeconomic parents. So there was love there. I never had to worry about food or like, food insecurity, clothing, but there was no money for anything else. And so for me, there was a mindset shift of being better than the biology or the circumstance that I came from and significantly other, you know, challenges, adversity and trauma that have occurred since then. But for me, I wasn't healthy in that I wore the protective armor I talked about and I dealt with a lot, but I'd never actually processed it. So I showed up with a nickname even in the workforce as the Iron Maiden. And I became an executive at a very young time. And so I thought I needed to do that. And so for me, the steps I've taken to be much more healthy is one being clear on like, the goal you have for yourself, personally, professionally. That's always just becomes the anchor point.
