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Lori Vallow
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Ashley Banfield
Hey, everybody. Welcome back to Drop Dead Serious. I'm Ashley Banfield. We are now three days into Lori Valo's Arizona trial for the murder of her fourth husband, Charles Vallow. And this courtroom, it is on fire. Today, Lori showed us once again that she is not just the defendant in this trial. She is the star, she is the lawyer. And sometimes she is the loudest voice in the room. Who knew that things would get so crazy on day three? Day three is when I'm used to hearing from like AT&T cell phone experts or like super boring DNA specialists. And it's really hard to stay alert during some of that kind of dry testimony. But today, today was not that. Today things got juicy like grapefruit juice. Like I'm talking bitter party of one. They say hell hath no fury like a woman scorned. And Laurie was that woman today, that scorned woman acting as her own lawyer. She had to cross examine a woman who went on a secret date with her husband. You know, the husband that she's accused of killing. So imagine for a moment the like cat fight vibe that erupted when things got personal with that witness. The judge had to actually save Laurie from herself. And the rest of the day was action packed too, from like fiery cross examinations and heated back and forths to a witness who says that she overheard some pretty incriminating things, like Laurie saying she drugged her husband Charles and her brother Alex saying he wanted to kill Charles. We're now knee deep in the strange, the spiritual, and the downright chilling. So let's get into it. Laurie came out swinging today, resuming her cross examination of retired Chandler police detective Daniel Coons. She challenged his findings on everything from gunshot trajectory to bullet fragment locations. And that's important because the state says that the forensics show that Charles was shot twice. Once while he was standing and once while he was on the floor. And if you shoot somebody who's already lying on the floor, that does not amount to self defense anymore. That's murder. So one moment, Laurie was asking the detective if stippling was found on Charles's chest and then questioning whether the floor in her rental home had ever been tested for for bullet damage. She seemed laser focused on the bullet's path, how it traveled through her husband's body and whether the floorboards beneath him had been examined for ricochet marks.
Lori Vallow
So the wood floor plank that was taken from my residence was never tested for any fragments of the projectile.
Daniel Coons
The projectile was intact, minus a deformity to it.
Lori Vallow
Okay, but there wasn't any reason, Are you saying there was no reason to test it?
Daniel Coons
There had been no implication or indication that there was a request for it to be tested.
Lori Vallow
And you wouldn't do that to see if the projectile actually hit the floor?
Daniel Coons
No, ma'am. All the other circumstances and information that led up to that decision to seize the floor, everything appeared that it was going to be related to the actual bullet that passed through your husband's body and struck the floor.
Ashley Banfield
Those are all actually really good questions because in any death investigation, that stuff should be like really meticulously logged. Right? Forensics investigators need to know trajectory of bullets. They need to know if bullets launched in the floor. Right. They need to know if someone was shot while he was down. And yet the shooter is saying self defense. But the detective calmly answered, Laurie, no, they didn't test that piece of flooring because he said the scene and the witness interviews that those things all told the story. Well, that's fine and dandy, but again, science is important when it comes to murder investigations. It's even important when it comes to self defense investigations because not every self defense is what they actually say it is. But Lori kept pressing this detective and her tone got sharper and sharper every time the prosecution objected. And by 11am she was snapping at this witness.
Lori Vallow
Do you know for a fact that Alex shots the gun in question.
Daniel Coons
Based on the information provided? That is what I have, yes.
Lori Vallow
Do you know that for a fact?
Daniel Coons
Just with the information that's been provided, I can't tell you one way or another if there's another shooter because the evidence does not show that there was.
Lori Vallow
Okay, so all you really know for sure after your five years of investigation is that my husband was shot two times, one by that particular gun, two with those particular bullets at my residence, and that he passed away as a result of that? Would that be correct?
Daniel Coons
Oversimplified. There is a lot more information that is available to us for that.
Lori Vallow
Is that correct? Is that question correct?
Daniel Coons
Those are some known facts, yes. But that is not all we know.
Ashley Banfield
Next witness up, a woman named Nancy Jo Hancock. I know, I had not heard of her either, but this woman was dynamite, as in explosive to Lori's case. Nancy is the woman Charles Vallow met on a dating site. In fact, he went on a date with Nancy the night before he was murdered. Nancy Jo testified that she and Charles talked all about Laurie. She said he was, quote, done with the craziness and that he was getting a divorce and said he couldn't wait to see his son. JJ the next morning and take his little boy to school.
Nancy Jo Hancock
What was his demeanor about with regards to JJ and seeing his son.
Lori Vallow
Like.
Witness
A kid on Christmas morning? He was very excited to see JJ.
Ashley Banfield
Nancy Jo and Charles had dinner at the keg Steakhouse in Phoenix. They shut the place down, literally. And then they talked outside by Nancy's truck for another 45 minutes. But then the next day, dead silence. Nancy Jo texted Charles. She called him. No answer. By this point, she figured she had probably been ghosted. She wondered if she'd, like, misread things because she thought they'd made a pretty good connection. I mean, that date went on late. Five months later, though, Nancy Jo found out what really happened to Charles. Charles Vallow had been shot and killed the morning after their date. His name didn't make the news at the time because police mistakenly decided his killing was self defense and therefore it wasn't criminal. So Nancy, she just went on with her life until the headlines broke in December that that little boy J.J. and his big sister, they were missing. And that Charles Vallow's wife, Lori, she was wanted. Kay Woodcock was on the news. That was Charles Vallow's sister. Kay was looking for her brother's kids. So Nancy Jo called Kay Woodcock and told her everything she knew. And when it was time for Laurie to cross examine Nancy Jo, you could have heard a pin drop. Lori grilled Nancy Jo on all sorts of topics, many of them completely irrelevant to the murder case. And yes, the prosecution had to stay on their toes with objection after objection. Laurie demanded to know if Nancy Jo knew for a fact whether Charles was getting divorced, whether Nancy Jo dated married men, and whether Nancy Jo thought that Charles was a good kisser. And frankly, between the tense responses, it really seemed that Nancy Jones was the one grieving Charles Vallow, more so than Laurie. His actual wife.
Lori Vallow
Nancy Jo, Right?
Witness
Correct.
Lori Vallow
And we have not met before, correct?
Witness
Not.
Lori Vallow
Okay. And you stated that your husband or my husband told you that he was going through a divorce. Is that correct?
Witness
That's correct.
Lori Vallow
And did you have any way to verify that?
Witness
No, I didn't try to verify that.
Lori Vallow
Okay, so did it surprise you later to find out that we were not in the process of a divorce?
Witness
Charles was in the process of a divorce.
Lori Vallow
He was not in the process of a divorce. Did it surprise you to find that out? You've seen it all on tv where we're not getting divorced.
Witness
Okay.
Lori Vallow
So on the website that you met him, did he say he was divorced?
Witness
I'm not certain.
Lori Vallow
Would you have gone out On a date with him. If he would have said he was married.
Witness
If I would have realized how married he still was. Maybe not. But I just met for dinner. I wasn't sleeping with him or anything.
Lori Vallow
Do you go on dates with married men?
Nancy Jo Hancock
I'm going to.
Lori Vallow
Naturally.
Nancy Jo Hancock
Argumentative. I'm going to also object under 611 for harassment.
Judge
All right, I'll sustain the objection.
Lori Vallow
Your Honor, do I not have a right to cross examine this witness for what she has already testified to?
Judge
You can cross examine her about what she's testified, too.
Lori Vallow
So you did go on a date with married men?
Witness
I went on a date with Charles.
Lori Vallow
But you did not know he was married.
Witness
I knew his divorce was not final.
Lori Vallow
His divorce was not started.
Witness
Okay.
Lori Vallow
Okay. So in your text messages, you asked Charles if he was a good kisser. Is that correct?
Witness
Maybe. Sure.
Lori Vallow
Did he answer that text message?
Witness
I'm sure. I'm sure he did.
Nancy Jo Hancock
Again, 611 harassment.
Judge
I'll sustain the objection for relevance and hearsay.
Lori Vallow
Are you trying to tell me and this jury that you went on one date with my husband and he told you all the details of our lives?
Witness
I'm telling you the truth, and that's what I know.
Lori Vallow
So you spent your whole date getting to know each other talking about me?
Witness
Don't flatter yourself. No, we did not spend the whole time talking about you.
Lori Vallow
On your date, you talked about my husband was a life insurance salesman. Is that correct?
Witness
I knew he did something with money and insurance, but I really didn't know the details of what he did for work. Like I said, I don't ask the details about what someone does for work when I'm trying to get to know someone.
Lori Vallow
But you knew that he sold life insurance. You stated that.
Witness
I believe that I had a vague understanding that he did something with insurance.
Lori Vallow
And then he brought that up again at dinner.
Witness
No, we didn't talk about his work at dinner.
Lori Vallow
I thought you said you did talk about. And correct me if I'm wrong, you said you did talk about that he changed the life insurance policy at dinner.
Witness
Well, you were asking me if we talked about that he sold insurance, which that didn't happen. But yes, he did tell me that he changed the beneficiary of his life insurance policy. Policy.
Lori Vallow
At dinner, did he tell you how much his life insurance policy was for?
Witness
Yes, he did.
Lori Vallow
What did he say?
Witness
$1 million.
Lori Vallow
Did he tell you how much my life insurance policy was for?
Witness
I do not recall.
Lori Vallow
You don't recall?
Witness
We didn't talk about you very much in that vein.
Lori Vallow
When did you talk to him about me? Very much. Then if it wasn't at dinner, was it in your text messages?
Witness
We were talking about what he was going through in the process of separating from you, not about what your life insurance policy was worth. And we talked about you on the phone. And when I say you, meaning what he was doing as he was going through this separation.
Lori Vallow
So let me understand. You were dating some different men on these website, right? From the websites, sure. Would you say it was common for men to be talking so much about their supposed ex wives during their conversations with a potential.
Witness
It's actually very common.
Lori Vallow
Really, really interesting.
Nancy Jo Hancock
And again, your honor, I'm gonna object to the defendant making comments after her questions.
Lori Vallow
I'm sorry, your honor. I won't do that again.
Judge
All right, please stop.
Lori Vallow
I'll just ask the questions.
Judge
Thank you.
Lori Vallow
Did you. Did he talk to you about my daughter, Tyler?
Witness
He did.
Lori Vallow
Did he talk about his relationship with her?
Witness
I don't recall that.
Lori Vallow
Did he talk about you, the contention in his relationship with my daughter, Tyler?
Witness
I don't recall that.
Lori Vallow
I'm sure you don't.
Nancy Jo Hancock
I'm going to object to comments by the defendant made after questions to testifying.
Ashley Banfield
Things got so heated that the judge paused to warn Lori Valow about opening the door to testimony that could come back to biter in the. You know what?
Lori Vallow
You testified a minute ago that Charles told you a lot of things about his wife. You didn't say ex wife, but you said wife. Is that correct?
Witness
Okay, sure.
Lori Vallow
What were a lot of things?
Witness
The things that I've testified to.
Lori Vallow
Can you be more specific?
Witness
Am I allowed to do a narrative? Then.
Judge
Let'S go on. Sidebar. I'll excuse the jury for just a few minutes because we're having technical. Dee. Technical difficulty with the court reporter being able to hear. The last question the defendant asked of the witness was along the lines of what things did you discuss about me, meaning the defendant. Is that correct?
Nancy Jo Hancock
That's what I recall, your honor.
Judge
Are you sure you want her to answer that question? Because you're opening up a really big door. If you want her to answer the question, I'll have her answer the question.
Lori Vallow
How am I supposed to know what a lot of things are?
Judge
All right, if you want. If you want to answer the question and there's no objection from the state, we'll bring jury back in and have her answer the question.
Ashley Banfield
But the jury got the message loud and clear. Charles was making plans and looking for love elsewhere. All in all, the state hit it out of the park with this witness. I mean, what better motive to have your husband killed than being angry that he's seeing someone else? Oh, and then there was also this. Nancy Jo testified on the stand that she and Charles, during their conversations, had actually talked about his life insurance, about the fact that Charles told Nancy Jo he had switched the beneficiary of his life insurance from Lori to his sister. K. Talk about motive. Right? If you don't know that, because Laurie didn't know that. And that certainly could have been all the things that this jury was thinking at this point. Right. Then came perhaps the most damning testimony of the day. Laurie's former church friend, Christina Atwood. Christina told the jury that she met Laurie at the LDS Church. And by June of 2019, Christina said that Laurie was saying some very, very dark things. She testified that Laurie had told her multiple times that Charles was possessed by dark spirits, that she needed to cast them out. And at one of those gatherings on June 9, she said Laurie's brother, Alex Cox, made a chilling comment in front of the church group.
Nancy Jo Hancock
At this meeting, did Laurie still express that her husband Charles was possessed?
Christina Atwood
Yes.
Nancy Jo Hancock
And what were you guys. What was happening at this meeting? I know you said there was a prayer. What was happening?
Christina Atwood
We were asked to fast and pray for her family. And so we'd come together, fasting, and we, as I recall, gathered outside and had a. A prayer together. And I believe Lori was the one that said the prayer. And then we went in and broke our fast and ate and then visited.
Nancy Jo Hancock
Was Alex part of that prayer outside?
Christina Atwood
Yes.
Nancy Jo Hancock
During this, when you broke your fast and you guys were eating, did you hear Alex making some comments?
Christina Atwood
Yes.
Nancy Jo Hancock
And you told us that they made you uncomfortable. What were these comments?
Christina Atwood
He stated he wished that he could just kill Charles.
Nancy Jo Hancock
Was Lori around when he's saying this?
Christina Atwood
Yes, one of the times.
Nancy Jo Hancock
Okay, so he said it more than once?
Christina Atwood
Yes.
Ashley Banfield
And it got a lot worse. Christina Atwood said that Lori told her she'd crushed up JJ's medication and put it in Charles drinks, that she was drugging her husband, Charles Vallow.
Christina Atwood
I heard her say that she had crushed up some of JJ's medicine and put it in his drink mix.
Nancy Jo Hancock
Did it sound like a significant amount of medication?
Christina Atwood
Yes.
Nancy Jo Hancock
When you heard this, what were you thinking?
Christina Atwood
I was disturbed.
Nancy Jo Hancock
So you're thinking, now she's drugging her husband?
Christina Atwood
Yes.
Nancy Jo Hancock
Alex have any reaction to this?
Christina Atwood
Not that I recall.
Ashley Banfield
Christina Atwood said she confronted Lori the next day, told her if anything happened to Charles, she'd go to the police. But she says Laurie laughed it off and accused Christina of, quote, just being dramatic. She testified Laurie then changed her story and said she hadn't really given Charles the drugs or at least not in that amount. And yet weeks later, Charles Vallow was dead. When asked if Laurie ever said she was joking about any of this, about the dark spirits, about the drugs, Christina said, no, never. And then in a big surprise, Laurie had her shot at a cross examination and she did nothing. She said nothing, not a single question, no cross examination of Christina Atwood, no comments, just silence. So now we're heading into day four of this jaw dropping trial and let me tell you, if today's testimony is any indication of where this trial is headed, Lori Valo's defense strategy could very well backfire one witness at a time. Until then, thank you so much for listening everyone to this update. I'm Ashley Banfield and remember, the truth isn't just serious, it's drop dead seriously.
Summary of "EXPLOSIVE: Lori's Jerry Springer Style Cross-Exam in Arizona | Lori Vallow Trial Day 3"
Release Date: April 10, 2025
In the third day of Lori Vallow's Arizona trial for the murder of her fourth husband, Charles Vallow, Ashleigh Banfield delivers a riveting episode of "Drop Dead Serious With Ashleigh Banfield." Banfield captures the intense courtroom drama, highlighting Lori Vallow's unconventional approach as both defendant and self-represented attorney. Unlike typical trial days filled with technical testimonies, Day 3 was anything but mundane, featuring fiery cross-examinations and explosive revelations that kept listeners on the edge of their seats.
Lori Vallow took center stage by challenging the findings of retired Chandler police detective, Daniel Coons. Her focus was sharply on the forensic evidence, specifically the gunshot trajectory and bullet fragment locations related to Charles Vallow's death.
Vallow's persistent questioning aimed to undermine the prosecution's argument of self-defense by emphasizing the lack of thorough forensic analysis. She interrogated whether the floor had been tested for bullet fragments, suggesting potential evidence oversight.
The prosecution brought forth Nancy Jo Hancock, a woman who had a date with Charles Vallow the night before his murder. Her testimony provided crucial insights into Charles’s behavior and potential motives behind his killing.
Banfield details that Nancy Jo and Charles spent an extensive evening together, both at Keg Steakhouse and later by Nancy’s truck. However, the following day, Charles was dead, and Nancy Jo's subsequent silence raised suspicions.
Banfield observes that Nancy Jo seemed more distraught over Charles’s death than Vallow herself, potentially undermining Vallow’s credibility.
Perhaps the most damning testimony came from Christina Atwood, a former church friend of Lori Vallow. Christina introduced elements of the supernatural and alleged malicious actions by Vallow.
Atwood also testified that Lori confessed to drugging Charles with her son J.J.'s medication, further complicating the narrative against Vallow.
Ashleigh Banfield provides incisive commentary throughout the episode, emphasizing how Lori Vallow's defense strategy appears to be unraveling under the pressure of mounting evidence and witness testimonies.
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Motive and Evidence Strengthening Prosecution’s Case:
Banfield concludes by anticipating a continuation of the courtroom drama into Day 4, suggesting that Vallow’s attempts to control the narrative might lead to more inconsistencies and revelations detrimental to her defense.
Day 3 of Lori Vallow’s trial proved to be a turning point, with explosive testimonies and aggressive cross-examinations highlighting significant flaws in Vallow's defense. Ashleigh Banfield effectively captures the intensity and complexity of the proceedings, offering listeners a comprehensive and engaging overview of the trial's critical developments. As the trial progresses, the evidence and testimonies presented continue to build a compelling case against Lori Vallow, positioning the prosecution advantageously.
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Stay tuned for Day 4 updates on "Drop Dead Serious With Ashleigh Banfield," where Ashleigh continues to dissect the unfolding mystery with her signature insightful and irreverent style.