Ask, Tell, Confess: What Made Bunnie So Nervous She Almost Canceled the Tour?

Summary

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Dumb Blonde Podcast — Episode Summary

Episode Title: Ask, Tell, Confess: What Made Bunnie So Nervous She Almost Canceled the Tour?
Release Date: March 13, 2026
Host: Bunnie XO
Producer: Dumb Blonde Productions

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Episode Overview

This episode of Dumb Blonde is a raucous, heartfelt, and deeply personal debrief of Bunnie XO’s recent book tour. Bunnie and her regular crew share hilarious behind-the-scenes stories, emotional confessions, and the genuine nerves Bunnie faced in inviting iconic guests—touching on themes of friendship, vulnerability, gratitude, and the realities of fame. The team also celebrates the wild success of Bunnie’s debut book and invites listeners to send in questions for future Q&As.

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Key Discussion Points & Insights

1. Post-Tour Reflections and Nerves

Timestamps: 02:47 – 05:48

• The group reunites in the studio for the first time since the book tour, excitedly revisiting standout moments.
• Bunnie admits she always thought she would dread a tour, but it exceeded all expectations.
  • Quote: “I have always said that I would dread doing a tour and I actually loved was really good….Tour was amazing. Everybody was so great.” (C, 03:01–03:14)
• Bunnie confesses to major nerves, especially around inviting special guests and performing live.
• Stage mishaps recounted with humor: Bunnie flubbed Jacoby from Papa Roach’s introduction in Vegas.

2. Star-Studded Guest List, Surprising Invitations & Emotional Wins

Timestamps: 04:40 – 18:42

• LA show was unexpectedly a highlight: Bert Kreischer, Wiz Khalifa, and more joined the festivities.
  • Quote: “We had Bert Kreischer show up. Wiz Khalifa. My baby whiz. Like, oh, my God, I love wiz. He is one of the best humans in the world.” (C, 04:00–04:03)
• Bunnie nervously recounts cold-calling Wynonna Judd after multiple prior rejections. This time—shocking everyone—Wynonna said “yes.” The in-call segment with Wynonna is played.
  • Quote: “I have asked Wynonna Judd to be on the podcast for two years at least, and every time she straight up says no… So I called her… I have to put this out there… She’s like, when is it?...yeah, I’ll do it.” (C, 04:57–06:16, Live Call at 09:00)
• Jacoby (Papa Roach), Zach from Shinedown, and comedian Bert Kreischer all said “yes” to her invitations, further boosting Bunnie’s confidence.
• Memorable “Mob Wives” Meltdown
  • Mob Wives cast drama played out both backstage and on stage, with Renee and Karen exchanging barbs.
  • Quote: “The Mob wives was not a skit... Renee has said some foul about Karen... Renee... is just so damn spicy, man.” (C, 15:15–16:13)

3. Celebrating Friends, Loyalty, and Authenticity

Timestamps: 16:44 – 24:49

• Shout-outs to Chelsea Lynn (comedy partner and friend), Matt Matthews (“the male Chelsea Lynn”), DJ Chill, their hardworking tour crew, plus supportive friends like Briley King and Danae Hayes.
• Lighthearted bathroom-origin stories featuring Chelsea (“Is that why it smells like roses?” – D, 18:05)
• Bunnie underscores the importance of loyalty and community in her life and work, highlighting how many guests flew out simply to support her.

4. Full-Circle Moments: Forgiveness, Growth, and Peace

Timestamps: 20:43 – 34:00

• Bunnie brought Officer Leon, who once arrested her, onto the stage: “...it was just really cool being able to have the man that, you know, kind of sent me on the path of never wanting to get arrested again.” (C, 21:21)
• Gratitude for Bella the Rapper and reflecting on fresh connections and collaborations.
• Bunnie discusses being unexpectedly overwhelmed by online headlines about her, emphasizing how she chooses to laugh it off and foster positivity.
• Quote: “Silence is so powerful. So much you want to believe, believe it. Yeah, I don’t care. You come to my page with negativity, you’ll get blocked. I don’t care. I’ll do it.” (C, 33:24–33:31)

5. Triumph: Book Release, Bestseller Status, and Listener Q&A

Timestamps: 27:18 – End

• The book has become a New York Times number one bestseller (twice!) and sold nearly 200,000 copies in the first week.
  • Quote: “I actually didn’t even know about [the best seller list] until I think Mimi was like, yeah, and we’re gonna try to get you on...Did we sell...200,000 books the first week?” (C, 28:41–28:50)
• Bunnie expresses immense gratitude to fans and shares how surreal this achievement feels.
  • Quote: “If I can do it, any of you guys can do it. Okay?...I didn’t even write this book with the intention of becoming a New York Times bestseller.” (C, 29:01–29:06)
• Many listener questions arrived about her childhood photo with her mother and why “Karma” wasn’t named in the book. Bunnie explains editorial cuts, family context, and privacy reasons. She clarifies she’s protecting others’ privacy, not shielding abusers.
• Invites listeners to submit more questions for future episodes—especially about the book and her life story.

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Notable Quotes & Memorable Moments

| Timestamp | Speaker | Quote/Moment | |-----------|---------|--------------| | 03:01 | C (Bunnie) | “I have always said that I would dread doing a tour and I actually loved was really good.” | | 04:00 | C (Bunnie) | “We had Bert Kreischer show up. Wiz Khalifa. My baby whiz… he is one of the best humans in the world.” | | 05:52 | C (Bunnie) | “Who the fuck am I to ask somebody to come to my fucking book tour?” | | 06:16 | C/Wynonna | “Yeah, I’ll do it.” [on the phone when asked to join the tour] | | 12:52 | C (Bunnie) | “I even introduced him as Pussy Banjo on stage. He said, I didn’t think she was gonna say that.” | | 15:32 | C (Bunnie) | “The Mob wives was not a skit.” | | 18:05 | D (Chelsea) | “Is that why it smells like roses?” [after Bunnie in bathroom] | | 21:21 | C (Bunnie) | “...it was just really cool being able to have the man that… sent me on the path of never wanting to get arrested again.” | | 29:01 | C (Bunnie) | “If I can do it, any of you guys can do it. Okay?...I didn’t even write this book with the intention of becoming a New York Times bestseller.” | | 33:24 | C (Bunnie) | “Silence is so powerful… You come to my page with negativity, you’ll get blocked.” |

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Timestamps for Important Segments

| Segment | Timestamp | |---------|-----------| | Tour Recap & Nerves | 02:47–05:48 | | Inviting Guests & Wynonna Judd Call | 04:40–11:46 (Full live call: 09:00–10:25) | | Mob Wives Backstage Drama | 15:15–16:44 | | Chelsea Lynn Bathroom Story | 17:21–18:42 | | Shoutouts: Crew & Special Guests | 20:43–24:49 | | Book Success & Bestseller Talk | 27:18–29:46 | | Answering Book & Life Questions | 30:01–34:00 |

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Closing Thoughts

Bunnie ends the episode with gratitude, a renewed sense of peace, and encouragement to listeners to chase dreams and not fear rejection or public scrutiny. She confesses her dislike for being center stage, hints that this may be her only tour, and reminds fans to send in their burning questions for future “Ask, Tell, Confess” episodes.

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Next Episode Tease: Submit your book questions now—Bunnie will answer them as she heals from her upcoming facelift.

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This recap brings you the wild energy, candid humor, and heartfelt honesty of Dumb Blonde’s post-tour Q&A with all the most memorable moments and quotes, so you don’t miss a beat.

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[B]

So confess.

[C]

Hello friends.

[A]

Welcome back to another ash.

[C]

Tell. I just licked my microphone.

[B]

You know what? Makeup's on.

[D]

Fun fact. I didn't know we were recording.

[C]

Me either.

[B]

She snapped into it.

[D]

I thought you were doing an ad that was on camera. No, I put my phone down so fast.

[A]

We're back, baby.

[C]

We haven't been back in the studio since tour, right?

[E]

Weeks.

[C]

Oh, let's rehash some tour.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

Yeah, dude, It's. It was so fun.

[B]

It was so much fun.

[C]

I loved it. I have always said that I would dread doing a tour and I actually loved was really good. I only messed up one time on stage in Vegas. Introducing Papa Roach. I, Bro Jacoby.

[B]

Backstage, you said his name, and he said,

[C]

they all scattered like they were watching.

[B]

Yes.

[C]

Oh, God.

[B]

And he scattered. He said, what?

[C]

So embarrassing. So embarrassing. Like, the one time I fuck up, I have to fuck up in front of them. Like, come on, dude. That's how I do it. I really drive it on home. John B. Whenever I do that kind of stuff. Tour was amazing. Everybody was so great. The. The people that showed up, just amazing. LA ended up being, I feel like one of my favorite shows. We were worried about la, and LA was actually like, one of the. The creme de la creme, dude. We had Bert Kreischer show up. Whiz Khalifa. My baby whiz. Like, oh, my God, I love whiz.

[B]

I love him.

[C]

I love. Like, he is one of the best humans in the world. Just sweet, sweet boy, dude. And he's like. He's so swagged out. It's what makes him hot. Like, he's like, you know what I'm talking about? He's so 100%.

[B]

I was so panicked because he was just taking his time coming to stage. And I'm like, she's ready to announce him. And he's like, I can see him in the distance. I just.

[D]

Smoke coming, dude.

[B]

Literally sit three people. I sent three people.

[C]

Slow Mo with weed smoke behind his head.

[B]

He's just coming down the stairs, and I'm like, come on, you're about to go on. And then he, like, stopped for a break. I said, oh, my God, dude.

[C]

I just can't believe the. The guests that showed up. Like, I'm so thankful for each one I had. Wona Judd. Okay, let me just give you guys some backstory on me calling these guests to ask them to come. Okay? First of all, I'm like, who the fuck am I to ask somebody to come to my fucking book tour?

[A]

You know?

[C]

Like, I just don't. I never want to ask people for favors. And when people are home not touring, the last thing they want to do is show up to a fucking event. You know, I have asked Wynonna Judd to be on the podcast for two years at least, and every time she straight up says no, she has. I love. I love Nona, dude. She don't care. She is just who she is, and she's not going to sugarcoat anything. And she has said no straight up. And we were sitting around and we were kind of, like, brainstorming for Nashville, and I was like, who should we bring? And I somehow, Winona's Name got brought up. And I was like, I mean, she's told me no 15 times already. What's the worst she could say is no. Like, I'm used to it now, you know? So I. I'm shaking. I go to call her and I'm like, I think I sent her a voice message, right? Did I send her a voice message

[A]

or did I call her?

[B]

You called her.

[C]

Oh, I called her.

[B]

I'm cooking dinner.

[C]

Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So I called her and I was like, I said, why, Nona? Feel free to tell me to go myself. I was like, I just, I have to put this out there. I'm doing a book tour, blah, blah, blah. I gave her the whole spiel. She's like, when is it? I said, I gave her the date. And she goes, yeah, I'll do it. We, like all fucking fell out of our chairs in that moment because I was just like, oh my. Didn't we get it on video? Did we get it on video?

[B]

I believe so. Yeah.

[C]

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[C]

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[F]

Oh my gosh. Are you okay?

[C]

I'm good. What are you doing, mama?

[F]

I'm cooking supper.

[C]

What are you making?

[F]

Pork chops, mashed potatoes and biscuits.

[C]

Oh my gosh. I need to come to your house and eat. Yeah, I'm just hanging out down home food. Well, I wanted to put this in your ear and you don't have to give me an answer at all, but you know how much I love you. I've always, always, always loved you. I am doing a sold out show in Nashville for my book tour because my book drops this week. Thank you. They wanted me to do like a regular book signing and I was like, absolutely not. I'm not going to do that. But I will do it my way. And so we have special guests that'll be there. My husband's performing. If you had 15 minutes of your time and sit on the couch for 15 minutes, I would pay you an appearance fee or whatever you wanted and just I would love to have somebody as iconic as you and I would be as honored as I possibly could be if you could make time. If not, I'm totally fine with that. So don't make a decision now. But I just wanted to put it in your ear. And it's on the 22nd of this month. Yes, ma'.

[B]

Am.

[F]

Let me see. Let me look on my schedule. 22 February, I think I'm here 22nd I'm here.

[C]

I would literally cry if I could be a part of it.

[F]

Oh, I want to. I totally do. To support you.

[B]

Absolutely.

[F]

I think these things are important.

[C]

We were just, like, could not believe that Wynonna Judd said yes to doing that after she had told me 15 times. No. That she's not coming on the podcast. You know, or. You know, said that she'll do it, like, next year, when she was always

[B]

like, oh, well, we'll get to it. Yeah.

[C]

Yeah. But it was just so amazing. And then. Then. So I'm like, I got the wind underneath my wings, right? And I'm like, okay. I'm like, who can we have for Vegas? And somehow Jacoby's name got through in the. In the pot. And I'm. I was just like, oh, man. I'm like, I cannot call Jacoby and ask him to do this book tour. And Mimi's like, you can do it. I. I have faith in you. On. And I'm just like, oh, God, man. You know, like, you just.

[B]

You.

[C]

You love these people, so you don't want to, like, be that person. And so I shoot a text to Jacoby, and I'm just like, hey, I have something I need to ask you. Can you call me when you can? And he hits me back a little bit a little while later, and he's like, hey, I'm getting on a plane, but I'll call you tomorrow.

[B]

Whatever.

[C]

So the next day, he does exactly that. Hey, I just woke up. Give me a call today whenever you want. And I'm, like, breathing into a bag, hyperventilating before I call him, you know? Like, I'm just, like, so stressed out about it. I'm like, mimi, I can't call him. And she's like, call him.

[B]

She's counting down the men, and she's like, I'm gonna call him right now. No, no, wait. I'm gonna call him now.

[D]

Yeah.

[C]

I was so nervous, and I was just like, oh, my. So I call him, and he answers the phone, and I'm hyperventilating, and I'm just like, jacoby. And I give him this whole fucking spiel, dude. And he's like, yeah, I'll do it. And I was just like, are you serious? Like, I could not believe that he said yes. And I was just like, oh, my God, this is so fucking cool. Like, holy shit. I'm gonna have fucking Papa Roach at fucking my Vegas show. And then I'm like, well, who else can I call him Roll now. So we could. If I Can hit Zach from Shinedown immediate Y. Yes. Love Banjo. He's the most amazing human in the world. I even introduced him as Pussy Banjo on stage. He said, I didn't think she was gonna say that.

[B]

He said, now I have to explain that to you.

[D]

Brent said, what the is that?

[C]

He thought you called him that.

[B]

She said. He said, what'd she just call me? Yeah. And Zach goes, no, that's my nickname.

[C]

Yeah. No, I love Shinedown so much. They're just amazing. He's humans. Bert Kreischer literally came in in the bottom of the ninth, called off his flight just so he could be there for this whiz. Was going through his own personal stuff and hadn't left the house in a couple weeks. And then Saraya, Jack Osborne, like, love Serea to death, dude. That's what. She's one of my best friends. I will stand by Saraya forever. Jack Osborne was just like, yes, I want to be a part of it. What a sweet boy.

[B]

He was so funny.

[A]

He has so much personality.

[B]

Yeah. I would love go on his podcast because I feel like you guys vibed so well.

[C]

Yeah, I love Jack. I can't wait to do, like, a pod swap. We should do that whenever I'm in la. But, yeah, no Jack. I mean, who else am I missing? Leo Skeppy, My baby Leo. I can. Somebody had made a video that went viral that said I was. I asked Leo to be on the podcast as a PR stunt. I never. Or I asked Leo to be a part of a show as a. As a PR stunt. And I'm just like, I've never done anything for a PR stunt ever. I just happen to be in the head. I could just talk about. I have had the most ridiculous headlines I think of anybody in the world ever.

[B]

Yes.

[C]

I have headlines about being in diapers, talking about bacterial vaginosis. I mean, you name it, I get a freaking headline.

[B]

You have the headline saying some of the, like, very prestigious headlines.

[A]

Yes.

[B]

Of like, these.

[D]

I just want to know what they think when they're, like, typing it.

[C]

Yeah, well, at this point, they know that I love it. And so I. Because I always post about it and laugh about it, which gets their stuff views. So I think it's like a little just a loving game that me and the media play now is like, what can we quote Bunny saying the weirdest shit. Because it's always been like that night. And I love it. The media has been so good to us, man. I am so thankful that they just love us enough to pick up every story that we write. But anyways, back to that video, I was just like, leo's my friend.

[A]

Like, I love Leo.

[C]

Leo is probably one of the most standup humans that you will ever meet. And when he shows up, he is the vibe. And he is so sweet.

[A]

He's so loving.

[B]

Doing push ups backstage.

[C]

Doing push ups backstage. Like, he needs to make his arms any buffer, you know? Like, he's just a great human. And so when we were thinking about. I was thinking about having him at Vegas. Yes. And he actually picked Nashville. He's like, can I do Nashville?

[A]

I was like, yeah, I would love

[C]

to have you at Nashville. So, yeah, we got Leo, wife, the Mob Wives. How fucking funny. Were they wild?

[B]

That was. That was a real scene that played out backstage. That flowed onto the stage. That was crazy.

[C]

You guys are gonna get to see all of these because we're gonna be posting the live shows. So when you guys actually finally get to see these live shows. The Mob wives was not a skit.

[B]

No.

[C]

Renee has said some foul about Karen. I don't know exactly what it was. They kind of talk about it, and then, you know, Ramona and Karen are super close. I think they might even be cousins or something. And so, you know Renee, I love Renee to death. She is mother, but she is just so damn spicy, man. And though, you know, those girls are like, they literally are icons, dude. There's no reason why those girls should not be in each other's lives because

[A]

they really built something so monumental together.

[C]

So I really hope they figure it out and can. And can, you know, have some sort of camaraderie, because it was hilarious watching them argue on the stage. I was just sitting there like, this is the show.

[B]

Renee wouldn't put her microphone after her math. And you said, I'm giving up on the microphone.

[C]

Yeah, yeah. Renee just did not care about the microphone at all.

[B]

We were like, literally backstage being like, bro, just put the microphone up to your mouth.

[C]

Pick up the microphone.

[D]

Then someone didn't put their mic to their mouth, and they were like. You were like, don't be a Renee, dude.

[C]

Who else did I miss?

[B]

Chelsea. Chelsea.

[C]

Oh, my God. My sister from. From another mister. My twin, Chelsea Lynn came in and just so funny, dude. I love Chelsea. Anytime I have needed that woman for anything, she shows up her and her crew, man, and I want to be able to return that favor to her. So whatever she needs me to do.

[B]

Go get tickets to her Loose Lips tour. Yeah.

[C]

Go to Chelsea Linds tour and tell her we sent you because that woman is just so unselfish. Like, it doesn't matter what you need. If she's your friend, she's gonna be there for you.

[B]

Weren't you in the bathroom and you hear someone come in, tell the bathroom story?

[D]

I was. I was going the bathroom.

[C]

Taking a dump.

[D]

Yeah. And because I was nervous and I hear someone come in. So I was like, gotta stop. And I look down to see, because I was like, I pretty much know everyone who's back here. I just see these feet with a plain black strap and just one of those, like, old school sandals. And I said. I said, what did I say? I said, stop, because that's our thing we say to each other. I just was like, stop. And she goes, no. And I said, is that my baby girl? And she was like, God, I love you. Meanwhile, I was like, I'm literally taking a dump right now. She was like, is that why it smells like roses?

[C]

Just fucking.

[D]

Anything she says out of her mouth is so funny. In character, not in character.

[C]

She's been opening up a lot about her childhood, and I've seen a lot of clips about it, and that's pretty. It's crazy. They lived a really rough childhood.

[B]

Yeah, I know. She touched on it when we did her first podcast again, coming through for us, like, shows up first one of her first episodes.

[C]

She was one of our first guests on Dumb Blonde. On our first set that we had. I remember that showed up. Remember we were fangirling. She showed up by herself and we were just like, wow, man. Like, she.

[B]

She put her boob on Shelby's head.

[C]

Yeah. No, it was great. Now Chelsea is just. She's the sweetest soul. Her whole crew, they're great, genuine people. Great humans. Like, they really have a whole. They have their own little coven over there. And I love it. And I. They just mesh so well with us. My husband showed up to every show. I told him, I said, I just need you to show up to two.

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[C]

Tell me which ones you want to be in. He's like, no, b tch. I'm going to be there for all of them.

[B]

His crew really was like, we are not putting anything on his schedule. It's been on there for months. For months. They're like, these are the dates they're gonna show up. I love in Vegas. You had Holly.

[C]

Holly, God, she's so beautiful. And I actually got to do Holly's podcast too. So you guys are gonna have to watch that when that drops. But yeah, Holly came out. She showed up. She. I think she flew in from Cali to do it. And Officer Leon, so sweet. And then I get to. Ha. So when I fucked up. Introducing Papa Roach. I completely spaced that I was having Leon on the officer that arrested me for solicitation on the stage. And he came out and, you know, we talked a little bit about just. He read the report and got refreshed with it. And it was just really cool being able. Being able to have the man that, you know, kind of sent me on the path of never wanting to get arrested again. Not saying I didn't. I think I did get arrested again after that. I don't know. I'd have to look.

[B]

It was just a life changing moment,

[C]

but it was just a really life changing moment. And oh my God. And Bella the rapper. How freaking cute is she?

[B]

So sweet.

[C]

Her and her little squad, dude. Like, I don't cross them. They were so great to work with. They were literally the cutest humans. Just, Just so thankful and just so sweet. And like, man, I would love. If I was touring, I would bring them back out on tour 100.

[B]

That's how much I want them. They're homies.

[C]

They're so. They're homies for life. Like, I freaking love them. If you guys don't follow Bella the rapper, please go follow her.

[B]

It was so funny because I went back home right after and she lives in the area. We were literally crossing paths. Like, she went to the Santa Cruz we beach boardwalk the day before I went. Like, we were literally crossing past the entire trip. It was so cool.

[C]

I love that. Yeah, I know. They're just so sweet. And they were just so, like, thankful and just so, like, willing to learn. And I mean, they showed up and

[B]

she came and performed at your bar right after.

[C]

Yeah, she came and performed at the bar at the after party at Nashville.

[A]

Like, they just.

[C]

I don't know, they were just really, really, really sweet humans. And I'm so thankful that we got to cross paths with them. But Matt freaking Matthews. Oh, little crusty. I love him so much.

[D]

He's so funny.

[C]

When humans. You get to spend one on one time with Matt Matthews, he's very calm and sweet and, like, just very. I don't know, like, his Persona online is who he is. He's still that person, and he'll snap at you in a heartbeat. But he really is just a good friend. He's a great friend, but he's just unintentionally funny.

[B]

Yeah, everything.

[C]

It doesn't matter what. He could be eating yogurt, and it's the funniest ever.

[D]

He's like the male Chelsea Lynn.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

Literally, the way they deliver is so good. He text me a picture of the little cow I gave him like, two days ago. He was like, a little picture of the cow. Like, little, like Highland cows for tour this year.

[C]

It's natural. It's just so natural. And we're just so lucky to have been surrounded by such beautiful people. DJ chill. DJ chill. Shout out. DJ chill. Dude. He literally held that entire every show together. He had a playlist. He had introduced every guest. Like, Chell just did such a good job, and I just love him so much.

[B]

What a great crew. Like, our crew was small, but we made it seem like we had the biggest production.

[C]

Work daddy. Work daddy. Working his ass off. Came through. Worked his ass off. Helped so much While still getting clips out and editing and like, oh, my God, he did so much. Alex, our tour manager, he's great. No, he's a phenomenal human. If we ever tour again, I would love him to be a part of.

[B]

Yeah, yeah, yeah. I love it.

[C]

Yeah, I know. Everybody was so good.

[B]

Possible. Literally every person had played such big roles. There was no role unseen in all of this. And, like, I think what was really cool is last night we went to the Opry. How many people stopped us and was like, that was an unreal show. Like, literally was so captivating. Every single person said that. And I thought that was really special.

[C]

You know what else I thought was really cool is Briley King and Danae Hayes. They literally came to the show, watched the show and left. Didn't want to come in and just lawless.

[A]

I'm like, what the hell, guys?

[C]

Like, if anybody deserves to come back and hang out with us, it's you guys. You guys are our friends, you know? Like, I was like. I text brightly. I'm like, dude, that means so much to me that you did that. Like, that was, like, huge in my book.

[D]

She texted me beforehand, and she was like, do you think they're gonna let me bring my sauvignon blanc inside?

[C]

She's so funny, man.

[B]

So funny.

[C]

I was just so thankful. I didn't even know they were there until after they were already home.

[B]

Yeah, they posted. Posted that they were there, and I was like, they're so.

[A]

I know.

[C]

Just everybody showed up and it was just really cool and just. Man, just thank you guys so much. I know we've been talking your ear off about all this stuff, but. Yeah, so we'll get back to normal. Ask how. Confess.

[B]

Wait, we had one other person show up. Who? Hold on. Can I play it?

[C]

Oh, yes. And of course, our most favorite guest of all time. I had fun. I had fun with you guys. I'm out.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

He is such a sweet boy. Meeting Bob out was the best dude.

[B]

I love both.

[C]

What a sweet little. So much.

[B]

We all had magic. He wore you like, they literally made a shirt with you on it. And then the two healthcare workers that he had had love you like a bowl of cherry shirts.

[C]

I know, I know, I know.

[D]

God, I love him so much.

[C]

I think he got a little shy whenever he met us, too. I did, too. I love him.

[B]

And then he got to close out the Lost or the. Sorry. He got to close out the LA show.

[C]

Yep, yep.

[B]

So special.

[C]

We'll definitely have a clip of that out on social media. Soon. But, yeah, it was just overall an amazing time. And I'm just so thankful that everybody came out. And to all the guests, to all the people that bought tickets, traveled, everything, I just wanted to take this ass tell confess to give you. You know, just. Just give you guys a recap. And thank you guys so much for coming out because you really made my first tour so special. And I'll probably never do another one again, but. And only because I'm not a tour. I'm not. I hate being in front of people. I don't like it. Like, my husband is their performer. I am behind the scenes, behind the desk, behind the camera. Like, my husband is. He likes to be out there. That's his thing. And it's so funny because everybody's like, are you ready to tour? Are you ready to tour? And they even went to Jay and they're like, I bet she got the tour back. And Jay's like, I bet she didn't. I know my wife. He's like, there's no way she'll do another tour. So I just really. It could have. It could be my final tour. You never know. Like, I just really appreciate everybody being a part of it and the team, too. Like, shout out to you guys. You guys did such a good job. You guys showed up. I mean, did everything you guys could to make sure that the tour ran smoothly. And Seb, our videographer also, who helped, Andy. God, I love Andy, man. He's just such a major asset to our company. He's actually my husband's videographer. But anytime we need something, I literally. He comes to through for us all the time. So the book is out. We have made New York Times bestseller twice. We find out again today.

[B]

Today.

[C]

If we make it again. It is. It'll be five in New York right now.

[B]

So, yeah, it should be out.

[C]

Oh, is it. Check.

[B]

Is it three? It's between three and four. Central time, then.

[C]

Yeah, so we'll look. But I mean, listen, I'm fine with not being on it three weeks in a row. I've made it two weeks in a row. Number one, so number one audio and number one bestseller. And wow, dude, like, what a crazy ride this has been. It's been just so insane to even think that I'm a New York Times bestseller. If I can do it, any of you guys can do it. Okay, like, this should show you guys that all of you guys can do this. Dude. Like, because I. I didn't even write this book with the intention of becoming a New York Times bestseller. I actually didn't even know about it until I think Mimi was like, yeah, and we're gonna try to get you on the new bestseller list. And I was like, oh, you could do that.

[D]

Can happen.

[C]

Yeah. She was like, yeah. Did we sold. Was it 150, 000 or 200,000 books the first week?

[B]

Right around the 200. Yeah.

[C]

Yeah, 200,000 books the first week. And then it just keeps going and everybody just keeps leaving me videos online of, like, reviews of the book. And it's just been kind of a beautiful movement of everybody just embracing this story yet.

[B]

Guys.

[C]

Yeah, and it's okay. Listen, I'm fine with not being on New York Times bestseller three weeks in a row.

[B]

I feel like you'll be on the list. What the thing is, is will you be number one again?

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

And so all the new copies will now have the emblem on it that she is the number one. So, like, here's the old one right behind her. Right next to her will be the new seal. Because, like, everything sold out so quick and like, they were rushing to put things in production. Like, like they sent us an email and was like, you guys, Amazon called and was like, what is happening? Because it's like it was selling out so, so fast.

[C]

Yeah. Carrie, my publisher, was just like. Like, I don't even think she expected it to do what it did.

[B]

I got the sweetest call from her right after announcing to you, and she called me and she goes, I've done this for 27 years and this feels like a first time for me. And I feel like that's such a compliment for someone that is so seasoned in the industry.

[C]

Yeah.

[B]

To be able to make someone feel like that is very special.

[C]

No, this whole experience has been so surre and just such a beautiful journey. You know, writing that book, I would love to do an Ask How Confess, where people just ask me questions about the book.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

So I think maybe we'll do that. We'll. We'll put that on social media sometime this week. And maybe after I get my face lift, which you guys are going to be. So you guys will be hearing this where? It's Wednesday. You guys will be hearing this on Friday. I'll be getting my facelift on Sunday the 15th. So send lots of prayers for your girl. But I do plan on doing some asshole confesses while I'm healing. I'm gonna look crazy, guys. I'm gonna be bruised. It's gonna be a little weird. Don't freak out. My doctor is really good. So everything's Gonna go great. But, yeah, I would love to answer questions like that you guys have about the book. I. The number one question that pops out in my mind that I have been getting is everybody's like, oh, there's a picture of you with your mom, and you look a lot older than three months. And I just want to explain to you guys that one. A lot of stuff got cut out of the book. Like, so much stuff got cut out of the book. So sometimes timelines seem a little off. That has nothing to do with me. That was editors. But there was a time where around 1 years old, my and my. We're gonna drop the podcast with Bill coming up soon so you guys can hear my actual story from my dad before he had passed, way before he had passed. But it literally corroborates everything that I wrote in the book. And around 1 years old, my mom wanted to come back into the picture and she wanted to see me. And my dad is a dude and probably wanted to see my mom too. And she came back in the picture for a very short minute. I think it was probably a matter of days. And we took that picture. Obviously, you can see how far away from my mom I am. You can tell I'm not even like, don't even want to kind of be near her. But she. She popped back in and my dad realized very quickly that she did not have good intentions and didn't plan on being a mom. So that ended very shortly. But I thought it was important to put that picture in the book because that is one of the last pictures I had with my mom, even though I don't remember it. And if you hear my dad tell the story, he says, you know, she left you at three months. I had to find you. Took her to court, and then she tried to come back around at 1 year old. At 1 years old in the podcast, he says that. So, yeah. But if you guys have any more questions, start leaving them below this podcast and we'll answer them. And then, like, I'll put on our dumb blonde Facebook, we'll do a status over there, and you guys can ask as many questions as you want. But I would love to answer everybody's questions that they have about the book. A lot of people keep asking me who karma is. And here's the thing. Like, I didn't tell his name because one, I don't. He doesn't deserve to receive a bunch of hate. You know, like, this happened over a decade ago and he could be a changed person for all I know. But two, it's like, I. I wanted to respect his privacy also, because he does have a daughter. And, you know, it's just. There's so many just sensitivities I wanted to have with that situation. Not that I was protecting him, because some people are like, you're protecting him? And it's like, no, I'm not protecting him. I'm protecting his daughter, who I love. And you're also protecting your own peace still. Yeah, still in her. My life. And again, I. Yes, I am protecting my peace at the same time, because I'm not out here to rage wars with people.

[B]

Yeah.

[C]

I already have enough people coming against us online making up absolute, complete crazy lies. And, you know, the last thing I need is beefing with my exes online, too, because I'm not gonna beef with anybody. I am in my peaceful era, and I have learned, dude, silence is so powerful. So much you want to believe, believe it. Yeah, I don't care. You come to my page with negativity, you'll get blocked. I don't care. I'll do it. Yeah, like, I just don't have time for it. We have so much good things that are going on in our life that I don't care if you want to believe lies. All right, guys. Well, we will return to normal. Ask how Confess next week, But I love you guys. See you later. I'm going to get a fish racelift. Bye.